Artists Don't Have To Believe In Themselves To Have Success - Brad Rushing

Brad Rushing began working with Roger Corman's Concorde/New Horizons film studio which afforded him some of his first feature film opportunities as Director of Photography where he learned valuable skills.
After a number of years concentrating on indie feature films Brad began to shoot high end music videos photographing award-winning, iconic clips for artists like Britney Spears, Mariah Carey, Lionel Richie, Nelly and Eminem. Brad's ground-breaking work on Moby's "We Are All Made Of Stars" won an MTV Video Music Award "Moonman" for Best Cinematography in a Video, and many of the other music videos he shot have won awards such as VMAs, MVPAs and Grammys for Best Video. Brad also won a Canadian Society of Cinematographers Award for Best Cinematography in a Video for the Alsou video "Always On My Mind."
Brad's most recent work is the feature film "A California Christmas" which filmed in Petaluma, CA in July 2020, one of the first film productions to start under stringent COVID-19 safety protocols. The film debuted on a major streaming platform for the 2020 holiday season and was number one on Netflix for one week straight.
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  • @RosewoodChifforneir
    @RosewoodChifforneir3 жыл бұрын

    I've been a working artist for over 50 years, so I'm jaded, but this is one of the most insightful artist interviews I've ever watched. Thank you so much Film Courage!

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Michael, we love to see one artist connecting with the thoughts, feelings, and words of another artist. Thanks watching and posting. This comment makes our day.

  • @charuuppal7043

    @charuuppal7043

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here. There are those of us who never even used the 'A' word. It was dreaded and directionless. Film courage your videos are both encouraging and insightful. Much learning here. Thanks for making these available to us.

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    Michael I am humbled by your appreciation. Thank you.

  • @CaitlinBurt

    @CaitlinBurt

    3 жыл бұрын

    agree!

  • @kermitfrog593

    @kermitfrog593

    3 жыл бұрын

    Even if we're lucky enough to make something that people enjoy, next week they will have forgotten it. They're already onto the next. No one will know the blood, sweat and tears (and joy!) that went into our work but us. Did we or didn't we get the music out. We create for ourselves.

  • @h.a.s.7336
    @h.a.s.73363 жыл бұрын

    "If you hear a voice within you that says you cannot paint, then by all means paint and that voice will be silenced." Vincent Van Gogh. Yes, just do the work.

  • @phoffidelrio

    @phoffidelrio

    2 жыл бұрын

    BEAUTIFUL!!!

  • @Tom_Swiss

    @Tom_Swiss

    2 жыл бұрын

    on the other hand.. VG had many voices that among other things told him to cut off his own ear.

  • @h.a.s.7336

    @h.a.s.7336

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Tom_Swiss That came later... VG was known for absent-mindedly putting his paint brushes in his mouth while he worked (like a pencil). The paint thinner poisoned him and messed with his brain.

  • @Blackgrass1

    @Blackgrass1

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Tom_Swiss ... and, unfortunately, he never sold one single one of his paintings.

  • @jennifercochran6398

    @jennifercochran6398

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@h.a.s.7336 Not true

  • @ckrug32
    @ckrug323 жыл бұрын

    "If you want something you've never had before, you have to do something you've never done before." This was what I needed to hear.

  • @Khultan

    @Khultan

    3 жыл бұрын

    SAME HERE

  • @tomasbarra433

    @tomasbarra433

    3 жыл бұрын

    “If you want different results, do not do the same things.”

  • @monicamomney8756

    @monicamomney8756

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is one of my favorite quotes

  • @doodlepenkids

    @doodlepenkids

    3 жыл бұрын

    Brian tracy

  • @ImmortalIdeas

    @ImmortalIdeas

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is exactly what happen to me. I have never played music before besides messn around here and there. Last yr I bought a keyboard and my brain and fingers just took off. I don't write anything down. I just go. And now I'm trying this with art aswell. The perspective I've found in myself. Is what set me free.

  • @lh704
    @lh704 Жыл бұрын

    "But I want this more than I want to be shy..." as a business owner and as an introvert who struggles with social anxiety, this was an incredible statement. Thank you!

  • @fantaztikbeatz

    @fantaztikbeatz

    Жыл бұрын

    I understand 100%. The more you socialize the better it gets. Being prepared is everything because if you know your stuff it will speak for itself and this will help boost your confidence. This is coming from a person with extreme social anxiety. There are worse things that can happen in life so just jump out there full speed ahead take it or leave it. Except me as I am or don't!

  • @altertopias

    @altertopias

    Жыл бұрын

    Also an introvert here. I have made so much progress with social anxiety, but I will always be an introvert.

  • @acharich

    @acharich

    Жыл бұрын

    That quote was so me.. 🎯

  • @thirzel

    @thirzel

    Жыл бұрын

    It is curious, this seams almost a pattern... He is not an exception in this.

  • @luciman9268

    @luciman9268

    Жыл бұрын

    Introverts are no different that extroverts, one just requires more social interaction than the other. Be more selective

  • @JohnDoe-pm9ip
    @JohnDoe-pm9ip2 жыл бұрын

    My music career didn’t start until after I was 30. Now I’m in two signed bands and I’m about to go on tour next month. I needed this.

  • @JulieChanDoitsu

    @JulieChanDoitsu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good luck !

  • @JohnDoe-pm9ip

    @JohnDoe-pm9ip

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JulieChanDoitsu thanks!

  • @A-Ls1

    @A-Ls1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Goddamn have fun!!

  • @mickeythebutthuffincrackpu5330

    @mickeythebutthuffincrackpu5330

    Жыл бұрын

    We're just surprised you put your name out there so publicly, john!

  • @johannmuster9726

    @johannmuster9726

    Жыл бұрын

    good look and gratulations from swizerland

  • @FRNKNSTNmusic
    @FRNKNSTNmusic3 жыл бұрын

    “I want this more than I wanna be shy” - magic words

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Indeed!

  • @FRNKNSTNmusic

    @FRNKNSTNmusic

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@filmcourage :)

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes. Thank you.

  • @intentionalliving7326

    @intentionalliving7326

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤩 powerful ✨

  • @kittybee5528

    @kittybee5528

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's BEAUTIFUL ❤️

  • @joesasnett5379
    @joesasnett53793 жыл бұрын

    "I want this more than I want to be shy..." Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!

  • @axiilinc7077

    @axiilinc7077

    3 жыл бұрын

    I say there is value to your own comfort zone as well. When you let people mess with your energy you lose $$$$$$$

  • @Demention94

    @Demention94

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@axiilinc7077 100 agreed.

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am glad you appreciate the thought.

  • @axiilinc7077

    @axiilinc7077

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Demention94 ty!! Great video btw

  • @angelarosefilms
    @angelarosefilms2 жыл бұрын

    I love the saying "preparation meets opportunity." and "If you want something you never had, you have to do something you've never done." Almost every artist battles with mental health-related issues or struggles with self-esteem. We can all relate to this, so thanks for sharing all your insight with us Brad.

  • @kaizen5415

    @kaizen5415

    2 жыл бұрын

    ⚠_1% create / 9% contribute / 90% consume: yea the 1% artist mental_is so different from the 9% business plugs & the 90% mass audience_that's what plays games on my confidence to finalize & release_whether i can relate to & convince this completely opposite type of human to fvck w/ my ideas for 'em without commercial name fame yet_ive got hard drives w/ thousands of_but if no one hears the tree fall in the woods_from the mass observer perspective_it doesnt exist_shoutout to quantum physics for giving me clarity before I leap_but again the wiser I get the more it separates me from the mindset of the masses_its not rocket science_i see some artists keep it simple stupid & win_Im really trying to bring it down to just looking at the charts & being a mirror for 'em_tell their stories back to 'em_in creative crossover ways_fuse what they love_find my own personal goosebumps in 'em for proof_re-upload it_repeat until ###🚀

  • @marcomoreno6748

    @marcomoreno6748

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kaizen5415 holy run-on sentence batman! can anyone decipher this? Someone didn't take their meds. Bruh in not agreeing or disagreeing with you.i straight up have NO IDEA what you're saying. Try english?

  • @jmesharsedn9062

    @jmesharsedn9062

    Жыл бұрын

    murder

  • @fantaztikbeatz

    @fantaztikbeatz

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @fantaztikbeatz

    @fantaztikbeatz

    Жыл бұрын

    @@marcomoreno6748 🤣👈🏻

  • @mariolongtin8271
    @mariolongtin8271 Жыл бұрын

    I really liked the part where he basically says it's about consistency/discipline even when you don't believe in yourself!

  • @havenbastion
    @havenbastion3 жыл бұрын

    "Just do the work" is no guarantee of anything, but it's the minimum you've got to do anyway if you ever want success to be even a possibility.

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Indeed.

  • @SchmokinJoe

    @SchmokinJoe

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's a guarantee that you've got some work to show, which is never a bad thing.

  • @iliveinsideyourhouse3943

    @iliveinsideyourhouse3943

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep. Whether you will be succeed or failed, just do the work. Makes sure "the work" is something that is your passion though, at least when you fail, you actually enjoy it.

  • @MrArtVein

    @MrArtVein

    3 жыл бұрын

    And make sure it's good work. Obviously the art itself is subjective but create quality and you can't lose really. It's stuff I've created that didn't make sense until a year later or I ended up using it for something completely different, but not as intended. Don't think just do it

  • @sazonsongs

    @sazonsongs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do the work sounds like our required service to humanity.

  • @emanueltapia6501
    @emanueltapia65013 жыл бұрын

    It is reassuring that there are introverts working in the film industry. This guys advice feels like a treasure trove.

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Indeed, here is a recent video from director David F. Sandberg where he talks about being an introvert - kzread.info/dash/bejne/dnmtqKpmpd3Sd8o.html

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am glad you found value in the advice.

  • @Angel-Otk

    @Angel-Otk

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@BradRushing hey man you’re a legend, got me working on my script again, thank you! I shall forever be grateful

  • @thirzel
    @thirzel Жыл бұрын

    I discovered a sentence for me 20 years ago: When you start, everything is dificult. But when you start walking, it's just work. It is so motivational to hear something in the same spirit.

  • @kristinab1078

    @kristinab1078

    Жыл бұрын

    That quote is a keeper! Thanks for sharing it.

  • @FM-to3gy

    @FM-to3gy

    Жыл бұрын

    elaborate please?

  • @realchix

    @realchix

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@FM-to3gy basically, the start of a journey (eg. of learning something new) is the most challenging part, once you get comfortable and used to working in that field it just becomes second nature to you, as you get more comfortable it also starts getting easier to start a new project, hence it becoming "just work"

  • @FM-to3gy

    @FM-to3gy

    Жыл бұрын

    @@realchix I see your videos channel, it reminds me of cold song yeah? you must know molchat doma sudno

  • @thirzel

    @thirzel

    Жыл бұрын

    @@frankuvlkan yes sure. I do not even remember what comment you mean. So it cannot have been that bad. Blessings to you too.

  • @stevenmorgan4758
    @stevenmorgan47582 жыл бұрын

    One of my favorite quotes that gets me through tough times is, "Don't believe in yourself. Believe in the you that I believe in." Sometimes we're just too close to ourselves and need to be the person others see us as

  • @ommin202

    @ommin202

    Жыл бұрын

    Guuren Lagaan! "Believe in the me that believes in you!"

  • @verihimthered2418

    @verihimthered2418

    Жыл бұрын

    Kamidah!

  • @nicktalerico8273

    @nicktalerico8273

    Жыл бұрын

    Needed this one right now thank you

  • @cuphasol

    @cuphasol

    Жыл бұрын

    Bro! 💪🏽

  • @jadelesidi

    @jadelesidi

    Жыл бұрын

    Thissss 🎯

  • @ladaemon__
    @ladaemon__3 жыл бұрын

    "It's not about stopping, it's about recognizing something isn't working and choosing to reinvent." - wisdom

  • @Sasquatchbones

    @Sasquatchbones

    2 жыл бұрын

    Something lacking these days

  • @_x.xxten.ta_cion539

    @_x.xxten.ta_cion539

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Sasquatchbones for real

  • @DOGMA85
    @DOGMA853 жыл бұрын

    We need to listen more people with experience and awareness like this guy. Social media gave too much voice to young inexperienced and immature persons. What this guy is saying is pure gold. Hope to see more.

  • @igor3807

    @igor3807

    3 жыл бұрын

    3, , oh my gosh thank you I've been really thinking about my life and future and like they say the earlier the better😁

  • @grahamcliff4006

    @grahamcliff4006

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! You took the words right out of my mouth!

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    Find me on Facebook at: bradrushing. Send a DM so I know the request is from you.

  • @bunnykatsoracle3275

    @bunnykatsoracle3275

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed!!

  • @pikiwiki

    @pikiwiki

    3 жыл бұрын

    you really, really have a point here

  • @RenonTTV
    @RenonTTV Жыл бұрын

    His point about meditating and taking breaks is super crucial to improvement. Adults, on average, have around 1.5 hours of being focused before the brain loses focus. Taking a meditation break after learning or doing something will help solidify what you learn after

  • @angelwings7930

    @angelwings7930

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes walking away for a while is a known “technique “. Also turn the drawing or painting upside down and study it that way.

  • @gaugea

    @gaugea

    Жыл бұрын

    @@angelwings7930 exactly! taking a break isnt just good for maintaining focus,its good for realigning your focus as well, coming at things from a new perspective and reevaluating priorities.

  • @betuI
    @betuI Жыл бұрын

    this video is golden. Hope anybody who thinks “i have to believe in myself first if i wanna become successful, believin in yourself is the only key to achieve, if i dont i wont”watches the video. We feel like we had to believe otherwise we lose but this isnt real. All we need is a start and doing it in a self discipline. Then belief certainly comes.

  • @natedoggg2002
    @natedoggg20023 жыл бұрын

    As a 37 year old beginner in screenwriting who suffers from low self esteem issues, anxiety, and self doubt I definitely needed this interview! Thank you for this! 🙏🏾

  • @echoingamy

    @echoingamy

    2 жыл бұрын

    I believe in you

  • @LuisAngel-mu4zv

    @LuisAngel-mu4zv

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hope this helps(not about screenwriting but i think it can be applicable), i have high functioning autism and im pretty hard on myself, i just learned how to drive at 25, the best way of learning for me was just doing it, ive heard so many things about how to drive (i was 21 at the time)and only relied on those things when i tried driving and then would stop right away because i wouldn't do it perfectly and then i would drive again a month later but then fail again and then would stop doing it and studied some more but then i would do it in another month etc, the point is i spend more time reading about the rules of traffic and driving instead of actually driving, like 2 or 3 years passed wich means i just drove like 4 times during those years and i said to myself that i wouldn't touch a steering wheel again until i felt ready, it was until i then decided that if i wanted to get the full experience i had to learn how to fail, how to do this and that all in the context of actually driving and living the experience not just from reading, i tried and even tho i failed at times i was atleast failing by living the experience of actually driving, by actually doing it, i was learning without realizing it because i was living it and it came naturally and while i was failing in some aspects i was also improving in other aspects as well, i would go as far to say that the written dmv test was way more esier when i started driving because i didn't have much interest on the answers and rules before because i wasnt living them, once i started driving those things came in mind naturaly and i was actually more excited to learn because i was now living it naturally, so i think experience is key, its nice to listen to others speak but its until we do the actual thing that we learn

  • @frankboyd.

    @frankboyd.

    2 жыл бұрын

    The symptoms you described about yourself can actually give you a better more interesting viewpoint to be a better by screenwriter. If you were perfect your work might be boring without objectivity. So get to work 😉

  • @ellie-tk4jy

    @ellie-tk4jy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Write about all of those hinges especially in our community. This stuff never gets talked about. They've just started with programmes like insecure but not much for guys. You have a unique voice. Reach inside for all of that stuff. Like Michaela Cole said "write the thing that scares you". Cool name btw. I like Nate Dogg.

  • @richardfamousactor2261

    @richardfamousactor2261

    2 жыл бұрын

    The great thing about writing or any art . Is it doesn’t matter what age you are .if the writing is good . It’s good . you quite frankly are a better writer at 37 than you could every be at 19 based on just living life .

  • @SatishTorani
    @SatishTorani3 жыл бұрын

    Like the way the interviewer gets into our head and asks the right questions

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Satish, doing our best.

  • @southlondon86

    @southlondon86

    3 жыл бұрын

    She’s brilliant isn’t she? I’ve learnt to be a better listener just watching these awesome videos.

  • @Justme-lf5oj

    @Justme-lf5oj

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup.soooo insightful

  • @thedonbishop55

    @thedonbishop55

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@southlondon86 you’re everywhere bro. 🤣

  • @joeyxl3456
    @joeyxl34567 ай бұрын

    An artist doesn't have to believe in themself, just do the work. That is amazing.

  • @TinaSotis
    @TinaSotis11 ай бұрын

    If you want something you you never had before,you need to do something you've never done before. This was such a supportive thing to say, it brought tears to my eyes. Thank you, Brad.

  • @booshet7471
    @booshet74713 жыл бұрын

    "your identity is tied up to your work even if you don't want it to..."

  • @katherineelizabethco

    @katherineelizabethco

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wish my identity wasn’t connected to my paintings, because when the piece I’m working on is rubbish I feel like I’m no good in general.

  • @PuripuriDrawings

    @PuripuriDrawings

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@katherineelizabethco Connection doesn't mean equivalent. We must not forget that we are not just our work :)

  • @AmberSpan20
    @AmberSpan203 жыл бұрын

    I'm 34 and have always wanted to be a writer. Maybe I should just call myself a writer. I'm starting to do copy, read books again, write poetry again and teaching English. I think I'm setting a foundation.

  • @ashikdennis9202

    @ashikdennis9202

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely amazing. Keep going ❤️

  • @umichgal1

    @umichgal1

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think it’s dope that you ‘want’ to be a writer, but you’re already teaching it. May all your efforts pay off!

  • @eduardochavacano

    @eduardochavacano

    2 жыл бұрын

    Paulo Coehlo got published at 37. After his family lock him up in a mental institution a few times. So if some people in your family think you are crazy, you just might have something. But you dont even have a profile photo.

  • @dejanmarkovic3040

    @dejanmarkovic3040

    2 жыл бұрын

    Are you actually teaching writing to cae and cpe students? Otherwise, I don't see how just teaching English pertains to writing.

  • @intentionalliving7326

    @intentionalliving7326

    2 жыл бұрын

    👏🏻👏🏻 keep going

  • @teepriva4588
    @teepriva45882 жыл бұрын

    Best part of this for me was hearing him say 'I have nothing to prove' and mentioning the example of how much better it is when someone asks to see your work instead of you begging them to pay attention. There's power in being there without using a sales pitch! Not everyone is a great self-promoter but is great at being themselves, you're also more memorable this way and get more relevant opportunities to you. Creative industries can be a lot of 'people-pleasing' mentalities so this was a great video to come across.

  • @ninaottmusic
    @ninaottmusic Жыл бұрын

    Total introvert here. As a jazz pianist and organist I never thought of being shy as a problem (always just wanted to be really good and play with freedom) now… there is social media. Expectations have changed. I relate whole heartedly to this: “I am good at being nice to people - but not a good salesman” There are many gems here. Really helpful. Thanks Brad!

  • @Cassiearan
    @Cassiearan3 жыл бұрын

    "Success is not final; failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts." -Winston S. Churchill "Opportunities don't happen. You create them." -Chris Grosser

  • @igor3807

    @igor3807

    3 жыл бұрын

    thank you everette for this inspiration. No matter how hard and struggle i am today i will do all my best and learn more to get my Dream.

  • @jasoncreedfilms

    @jasoncreedfilms

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fuck yeah.

  • @willstraw9988

    @willstraw9988

    3 жыл бұрын

    Powerful

  • @I_Bully_The_Bullies

    @I_Bully_The_Bullies

    3 жыл бұрын

    “Opportunities don’t happen.You create them” mmmmm WRONG!! I’ve had PLENTY of opportunities. & I did nothing to create them! Because I had no faith or effort in them! I either said yes or no!

  • @DBLRxyz

    @DBLRxyz

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@I_Bully_The_Bullies MMMM Get out of your own ass please lmao opportunities can fall in your lap yes but probability is a factor as well, raising it is not purely coincidental. It’s like luck, you make your own luck or lack of. And we don’t always know if something “good” that happens will ultimately be a good thing the same way something “bad” that happens won’t ultimately be a bad thing. Opportunities, lack of opportunities, luck, bad, good. It’s all relative.

  • @DominiqueWillkins
    @DominiqueWillkins2 жыл бұрын

    This is gold. While his area is on the film making industries, EVERYTHING he said applies to EVERYTHING IN LIFE... or almost. This guy is a genius. This video helped me a lot today.

  • @acharich

    @acharich

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly..! 🎯🎯🎯

  • @youngrapking6560
    @youngrapking65602 жыл бұрын

    I don't know Brad. Never heard of him before this video. But within the first 5 minutes of watching I felt that my obligation to music grew. I appreciate your wisdom and your eloquent approach to teaching it. I'm grateful to people like you. Influencing the future.

  • @choccococo7224
    @choccococo72242 жыл бұрын

    I felt this man when he said "I DON'T NEED SMALL TALK." man that's literally me

  • @reycesarcarino4653

    @reycesarcarino4653

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well when you initiate small talk you don't ask someone how their doing you ask them something that relates to them like "what pain brush do you recommend"

  • @duncan_xyz
    @duncan_xyz2 жыл бұрын

    I relate to this so much. Almost my entire time at school, I was told by my professors, classmates and friends "your work is awesome" and "you're so talented". But after school I received rejection email after rejection email and it feels like everyone was just being nice when they gave good feedback. Now I'm an intern at 29 and struggling to get my career started. I have to keep telling myself "keep working, keep working. Get the experience."

  • @johnvonmartin7501

    @johnvonmartin7501

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel u bro I had 3 jobs at 26 still can't get the nature of my work as a graphic designer. The career is broader once you get out of college as a result I struggle a lot. But I won't give up my dreams that easily.

  • @acharich

    @acharich

    Жыл бұрын

    🤗🤗🤗

  • @lilyakkwrld6780

    @lilyakkwrld6780

    Жыл бұрын

    Im high school student but..

  • @sassydebbie

    @sassydebbie

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Alex! How's life going now?

  • @chiefalchemistalbedo8675
    @chiefalchemistalbedo8675 Жыл бұрын

    This was the most refreshing and down-to-earth interview I’ve ever seen! Gosh, y’all don’t know how much I’m tired of hearing that “you have to sell yourself in this industry” when I could just be nice and casual, not expecting anything in return, and simply have a good time with the person then the opportunities will open up themselves. Plus, as an introvert, everything he said is so true yet also entertaining!

  • @chewingpeppers
    @chewingpeppers Жыл бұрын

    "What was the best part of this video for you?" Every single part. It's so good to hear such an intelligent, down-to-earth human being! Thank you Film Courage and Brad Rushing for this spectacular interview.

  • @MisssAnthrope49
    @MisssAnthrope493 жыл бұрын

    72, still working, that is, painting & drawing. Survived a few Valley of Death treks, as do we all! THANK YOU!

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome.

  • @darrellborland119

    @darrellborland119

    3 жыл бұрын

    @SD Latham...those "valley Of Death" treks can be of the interior variety, too. Thanks for the comment.

  • @MisssAnthrope49

    @MisssAnthrope49

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@darrellborland119 Twas the interior to which I referred, the only One I know.

  • @Morn2moon
    @Morn2moon3 жыл бұрын

    The best advice, be human, be kind, be interested in the other, be a giver and life will support you.

  • @daxramdac7194
    @daxramdac7194 Жыл бұрын

    Wish more people were like this, what an awesome guy. He didnt say anything groundbreaking, or anything we didnt already know in the back of our minds, but he said it so elegantly and in such a relatable way, I think many will appreciate it. I love what he said about still wanting to level up at his age because for me, whenever I get interested in something, I become so obsessed that I read everything there is to read about it, I practice constantly, do all the tutorials that need to be done, but just as I am crossing over from beginner to intermediate and I start seeing some actual results that I am pleased with, I start to get brain fog from being burnt out and then the break I take ends up discouraging me because I feel I have no energy left, no fuel, and I have never found a solution to this.

  • @zaywin1524

    @zaywin1524

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey bro listen to this my guy you used all your creative energy going hard and if you don’t take the time to replenish your energy like your body needs sleep and food to fuel it. Your mind needs fuel to, the best thing I’ve found to help me out is when ever I even start to feel that mental wear step away and go do something else wheather it’s make a meal, take a walk, or even just go play a game for a bit it will give you enough time to center and can catch your self before you burnout you can shorten the amount of time it takes to recharge. Imagine you’ve just pushed your body to the extreme stayed up all night drinking and tried to push your body the same way the next day, you might still be able to push your self to the extreme but by doing so could end up harming your self in the process.

  • @zaywin1524

    @zaywin1524

    Жыл бұрын

    Basically set it down go do something that stimulates the other side of your brain. And don’t be hard on your self , always be forgiving of your misgivings.

  • @zionen01
    @zionen016 ай бұрын

    KZread kept putting this video on my front page and I kept ignoring it, so glad I finally clicked. What a great philosophy to follow as an artist. Thanks KZread.

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    6 ай бұрын

    In this case, great to hear that KZread got it right! Thanks for watching!

  • @remon563
    @remon5633 жыл бұрын

    "I want this more than I am shy": beautiful and explains why I am where I am. Crowds are kryptonite for my as well. Im actually afraid of becoming more successful as it means more meetings/crowds etc. Regardless, I keep pushing forward and are almost at the top of my field but boy is it lonely and stressful. Panic attacks are my biggest enemy in life 😅 Wish you all the best folks. Chase your dreams and learn to meditate on being grateful.

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful comment, thanks for posting.

  • @JJBerthume

    @JJBerthume

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the encouragement!! Anxious introverts unite! I would recommend you watch Mooji, his advice and meditations really helped me personally.

  • @remon563

    @remon563

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JJBerthume will do Jay, thanks for the suggestion !

  • @shakesrear7850

    @shakesrear7850

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your words

  • @valencia5560

    @valencia5560

    2 жыл бұрын

    I also hate crowds and attention, so I don't do certain things that I want to do, like write my book, or start a non profit group, because I'm afraid of people. But I've been working with a great therapist who is helping me get thru these issues and figure out why I feel this way, so hopefully I can do them someday. She also says we have our emotional brain, or logical brain, and our survival brain. And sometimes your thoughts can lie, but feelings don't. So I don't always have to give power to my thoughts, because they might be trying to sabotage me. Ru Paul always says, we all have an inner Sabatouer, but it can be told to F off 😆 Yes I hear you, but I'm not going to listen to you. Thanks but go away.

  • @TahtahmesDiary
    @TahtahmesDiary3 жыл бұрын

    Never felt so pumped to make my art in my LIFE!

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awwww. I am so happy. Fly high!

  • @intentionalliving7326

    @intentionalliving7326

    2 жыл бұрын

    👏🏻👏🏻✨✨✨

  • @akimyoung8507

    @akimyoung8507

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nah for real for real

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo2 жыл бұрын

    This is so deep and so well articulated . Its hard to feel good about yourself when you know you've done a super job but work doesn't follow. Just do the work. Yes better to spend 5 focused minutes than hours unfocused. Everyone wants the formula but guess what it's a moving target you learn as you go.

  • @acharich

    @acharich

    Жыл бұрын

    🎯✨💎

  • @rainakreeger
    @rainakreeger9 ай бұрын

    Rewatching this after two years has reminded me how great this interview is. My favorite parts were: 1) ''I want this more than I want to be shy'' 2) ''If you want something you you never had before, you need to do something you've never done before'' 3) ''It used to work, it's not working now - try something different'' 4) ''preparation meets opportunity"

  • @kittybee5528
    @kittybee55282 жыл бұрын

    I love this interview. I really really needed to hear this message. "I don't care about being rich. I'd like to be self sufficient, I'd like to be secure...but I remind myself that the contract that I made with myself is that I wanted to be an artist. Simple as that. And you know what? I am." Didn't type it out exactly verbatim, but I really loved hearing that. It's true! I have a sticky note on my fridge that I wrote about a year ago that says "If you want to be a filmmaker, make a film." It's true! Just make something! :)

  • @tmbent

    @tmbent

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah def. As he was saying about your friends and the ppl you know, what they like and are interested in, I imagined, just film them. Interview them with b roll of them doin what they like, or a voice over narrating, either them or yourself. KZread is a place to shoot and upload movies! If that’s what a person want to be, they can!!

  • @nikoauvinen

    @nikoauvinen

    2 жыл бұрын

    I will now go and remove all quotes about success and stuff off my walls and put this one on it. THE MOST MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE I HAVE EVER SEEN.

  • @acharich

    @acharich

    Жыл бұрын

    🔥💎🔥

  • @melaniewalls

    @melaniewalls

    Жыл бұрын

    That connect with me as well. “I wanted to be an Artist, Simple as that.”

  • @emmettarts1723

    @emmettarts1723

    Жыл бұрын

  • @batman5224
    @batman52243 жыл бұрын

    I really like what he said about having a wingman. As an introvert, I find small talk and initiating conversations to be extremely difficult, but if I have a wingman who can introduce me and break the ice, I feel a lot more relaxed. I especially hate it when people say, “How are you?” Other than saying fine, I don’t know how to respond to that.

  • @someguyyoudontknow263

    @someguyyoudontknow263

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm that wingman. personally, I dislike the small talk and ignore it. Instead I take over the conversation and start digging into the stranger's brain.

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@someguyyoudontknow263 @filmcourage needs to interview YOU so we can benefit from your techniques!!

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    Find me on Facebook at: bradrushing. Send a DM so I know the request is from you.

  • @someguyyoudontknow263

    @someguyyoudontknow263

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@BradRushing my techniques come from enjoying talking to strangers everywhere. Being curious about people and years of approaching women even though I knew I'd get rejected. It's ok to watch videos full of advice but its a bit pointless because its information overload and you can't remember all of it or follow it in steps like its a puzzle. Life is tangible and you learn your way through actual experience. All these people in these videos give advice from personal experience.

  • @Liminal-Escalator

    @Liminal-Escalator

    3 жыл бұрын

    If someone asks how you are, something along the lines of "are you really prepared for the answer for that or just being polite?"🤟😎😳😄🤔

  • @valerieannegagnon8803
    @valerieannegagnon88032 жыл бұрын

    Loved it…..I will always remember the “ do the work because you are an artist and you committed to this”. It’s needless to brake us down during the creative process. We must trust, we will come out of the tunnel whole. Personally, being a painter, painting a canvas is an amazing journey whereby I recognize hidden parts of myself, sometimes the work of great artists I love emerges, sometimes I feel such faith and love what I have just don, be it a bravado stroke or a fantastic color choice. Then it eventually crashes because I haven’t finished searching what I am looking for. But I will trust that I will eventually get there.

  • @ahoued42
    @ahoued42 Жыл бұрын

    This spoke volumes to me. That anxiety of not having a wingman is really rough or having to interact with people that I don't know is overwhelming. BUT I crave my artistic success much more then the anxiety threatens sniffles me. The quiet time is huge to help get through those times. Thank you for this snippet of an interview

  • @4thwalltvandfilm
    @4thwalltvandfilm2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Brad. I loved your quote, “it’s a business of relationships, not parasites and prey. “. All the best, Anthony.

  • @kamu747

    @kamu747

    2 жыл бұрын

    @12:19

  • @SAbdullah03

    @SAbdullah03

    Жыл бұрын

    the world runs on "I know a guy who knows a guy...".

  • @acharich

    @acharich

    Жыл бұрын

    🎯✨🤗

  • @darkpoetik5375
    @darkpoetik53753 жыл бұрын

    I'm a poet and i've been writing poetry 30 years...somehow, i keep writing...even at my most jaded points in my life, i still create...even when i don't have faith in myself, i still write...i'll continue to write until i drop dead...i'll continue to write and keep putting it out....i will keep doing this

  • @scottmuhlestein25

    @scottmuhlestein25

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do you have your poetry posted anywhere?

  • @gianz73

    @gianz73

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please share your poetry with the world!

  • @darkpoetik5375

    @darkpoetik5375

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Desert Blue you could say that. are you a poet? write back

  • @msfabulista
    @msfabulista2 жыл бұрын

    I am in no way, shape or form connected to the film industry. But the best part of this video for me is listening to someone who could literally be me if I was in this man’s profession. It was eerie hearing him say things that *I* say or justify things the way I do It makes me feel less alone, that they’re others who think like I do. Like I’m not the only one who behaves that way. I’m grateful for his genuine nature and his generosity in opening up and being so vulnerable and honest about himself. The fact that he gives credit to his coach as well is so lovely. In fact, that’s a huge draw for me when I can feel such an instant connection with a stranger I would literally never think that we share anything in common. It’s so clear that people are here on this planet to help each other out in any little way that we can and I thank him once again for making me feel so seen ✨ (And I will definitely check out his work and book recommendation.)

  • @joybrainanuersymsurvivor
    @joybrainanuersymsurvivor Жыл бұрын

    I just switch my major to art, which was my original plan before entering the dental field. I definitely wanted art first because it was my passion then learned the hard way that art was my first and should be my last love, figured it out finally in my 30’s.

  • @SatishTorani
    @SatishTorani3 жыл бұрын

    This was almost a spiritual talk :)

  • @kalebgonzales4009

    @kalebgonzales4009

    3 жыл бұрын

    W)6 This time who algebra vtaf

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    Find me on Facebook at: bradrushing. Send a DM so I know the request is from you.

  • @Scentless

    @Scentless

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of debt

  • @TahtahmesDiary

    @TahtahmesDiary

    3 жыл бұрын

    Straight up, had me yelling out agreements as I cooked in the kitchen lol 😆💜

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TahtahmesDiary How fun! We should form a club!

  • @Hyperiss
    @Hyperiss2 жыл бұрын

    I practiced being less selfish, which slowly made me more selfless naturally, and that helped with likability. I stopped dreading communication and became more approachable in social settings.

  • @PumpernickelCoconut

    @PumpernickelCoconut

    2 жыл бұрын

    Awesome advice.

  • @inquisitivejade7191
    @inquisitivejade71912 жыл бұрын

    As a fellow hardcore introvert, I appreciate you sharing your knowledge and what works for you. You’ve provided me with some direction in a subtle way and that’s so valuable to me.

  • @Passion_Video_and_Photo
    @Passion_Video_and_Photo2 жыл бұрын

    This guy dropped nothing but gems. Thanks for all you do 🙏🎥

  • @MoikaloopTV
    @MoikaloopTV2 жыл бұрын

    I really needed this today. Thank you Film Courage and KZread Algorithm

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're so welcome! Glad to hear it was helpful.

  • @huguessaintlouis7976

    @huguessaintlouis7976

    2 жыл бұрын

    WoW! @Moikaloop, I'm 100% with you. This the most human and accurate link that the KZread algorithm ever targeted for me. This is a direct touch to my soul. Every artists in the the world need to see that wonderful and truthful interview. Well done. Film Courage, I'm touched, inspired and impressed.

  • @MsKfat
    @MsKfat3 жыл бұрын

    “I’m not a salesman.. I’d be a terrible salesmen, but I’m good at being nice to people” I loved that he was honest about this because it gives me hope. I create a lot of art and experiment to learn what I’m good at or how I can improve but I don’t really like ‘selling’ or advertising my work. Thankfully I didn’t quit and I’m starting to make those connections he mentions. So the people who are supporting me and working with me to create are my friends. It’s beautiful and I’m happy this interview happened. It’s nice to make sense of the experience with words

  • @anjou6497

    @anjou6497

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes.🧡💥

  • @JaysonT1

    @JaysonT1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Most artists don't have business attributes.

  • @donnabeattiedreamerbydesign

    @donnabeattiedreamerbydesign

    2 жыл бұрын

    💓

  • @paigetomkinson1137

    @paigetomkinson1137

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JaysonT1 So true! Most of us are lousy sales people, whether it's someone else's stuff our own. There are some people who can do it, no problem, because they're social butterflies anyway. I'd love to see a survey about that, actually. Correlations with job and shyness.

  • @Grizabeebles

    @Grizabeebles

    2 жыл бұрын

    The best salesmen in the world are the ones who use their products as tools to help other people and solve problems. If a salesman is in a line of business where his products are actually hurting people instead of helping, a real salesman stops selling and starts helping.

  • @jordanselemani9860
    @jordanselemani98602 жыл бұрын

    I really liked the part where he talked about reminding himself of the why he choose filmmaking because it was so relatable. There is always those self inner voice that tells you that you need to go hard so you can be successful but that’s not even the the goal the goal is to do what you love because not everybody in this world is in a position to do what they love. A valuable lesson also was his way of dealing with shyness , I’m battling shyness myself ever since I left my parents house. I have to speak in public regularly and my stutter doesn’t help but I want to become a filmmaker so bad. Thank you for you great advices Brad

  • @xLaFosa
    @xLaFosa2 жыл бұрын

    To me, the best part of the video was when Mr. Rushing explained his generosity and being a good person approach, as opposed to being a salesperson. That's really gold and something I needed to hear as a fellow introvert wanting to start a carreer as an artist. Thank you Mr. Rushing!

  • @ollysombrero8427
    @ollysombrero84273 жыл бұрын

    We have all those over-the-top, "professional" motivational speakers like Gary Vee, David Goggins, Jordan Peterson, etc. ...and Brad Rushing is the only one that did it for me. This is important advice. I appreciate it a lot.

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic!

  • @jedichild6815

    @jedichild6815

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know. I have a reverse internal reaction to super go getter motivational speakers. I have a positive internal reaction to people with deeper, introspective insight and honesty. I do everything better when I’m at peace and in touch with my inner self. Horrible accidents happen when I’m pushed too far out of my comfort zone. But, that’s just me. 💕

  • @ollysombrero8427

    @ollysombrero8427

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jedichild6815 Couldn't have said it better myself.

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well thank you. I am glad you found value in this video.

  • @milliesaysokboomer

    @milliesaysokboomer

    3 жыл бұрын

    What is popular is not necessarily the best. Usually people with the most contacts charisma and looks will be the one who are considered in the top. But the truth is that they are really not the best

  • @scottkubala1671
    @scottkubala16713 жыл бұрын

    This is the best interview I've seen in a long time.

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love this segment. We are happy this one found you Scott.

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy. Thank you.

  • @intentionalliving7326

    @intentionalliving7326

    2 жыл бұрын

    🙌🏻 yes! So much depth and care!!

  • @DevinParker
    @DevinParker Жыл бұрын

    The worst part of trying to work as an artist, for me, is trying to sell myself and be aggressive. I hate doing sales work, and like Brad, I'm an introvert. Reframing what you do in a creative industry as just being a kind and thoughtful person, listening to others actively and connecting with them on a human level takes so much of the icky artifice and slimy schmoozing aspect out of it. I really appreciated that, and that's advice I'm going to try to take going forward.

  • @rosiehill1861
    @rosiehill18612 жыл бұрын

    I have ADHD & have ruined “interviews” with interruptions & jumping from subject to subject. I was so excited & couldn’t contain my spasticity. I like the info about different energies. Interacting with the “world” is overwhelming but this is so valuable & powerful. Truly appreciate this interview. Your so articulate about this subject. 1000 thanks!

  • @jucyboi

    @jucyboi

    Жыл бұрын

    ADHD is not real. But keep believing in the myth if you want, the truth isn't for everyone and ignorance is free.

  • @luzalez9095

    @luzalez9095

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jucyboi I hope what you have going on is diagnosable.

  • @frazyfrog

    @frazyfrog

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jucyboi lmao nothing is real too ? stop believing that

  • @acharich

    @acharich

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jucyboi 👀👀👀👀👀

  • @allentheproducerYT
    @allentheproducerYT3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. Despite how you feel about yourself just keep putting in work.

  • @jyodan_music
    @jyodan_music3 жыл бұрын

    "What can I give them?" WAS my biggest secret but it's out now. Good interview!

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    LOL!!! Clever you.

  • @adroharv9213
    @adroharv92132 жыл бұрын

    as someone who over 30 years ago wanted more than anything to be a a writer of music and become something special within the arts , I can say from my perspective at least that believing in yourself really doesn't come into it for a long time. I've often told people that it was only up until a few years ago that I didn't confidently know what I was doing even then after so long but I did at least have the understanding for bringing about what I wanted. I didn't understand the artform but I did at least know how to create good resulting conditions. I'd say now at the age of 49 I am finally in charge of informing this very well but it has taken me literally over 30 years banging my head hard against the wall to be in my happy place Absolutely worth it but for so long I could never confidently say of myself that I had a total faith. Perhaps interestingly to some is that the most important aspect for me during my early years that drove me so passionately towards my goal was in dealing with envy at what others were able to produce so much better than my efforts. It was an early driving force for a painful 8 or so years as I pushed hard trying to match this seemingly impossible goal of what others had achieved. Often desperately sad and hopeless times until I somehow one day I realised I had somehow miraculously reached a standard that matched the bar. It can't be underestimated just how crucial your undying desire to succeed must be if you are to make it at the highest level. This of course was followed almost immediately with self doubt at being able to maintain this level of understanding for an artform I still didn't understand I think something to take away is your only real entry into being the best is a lot work and hardship beyond what you might consider reasonable and an unending desire to succeed despite this. Want something like this then you have to want it more than anything before it. The pride and satisfaction that can follow such a path is very worth it but it's not something I would advise to everyone unless they're truly aware of this

  • @RafanTasTiiiC
    @RafanTasTiiiC2 жыл бұрын

    I clicked accidentally on the video, and that was a happy little accident. What a genuine artist, glad I’ve got the opportunity to know you.

  • @Nimora
    @Nimora3 жыл бұрын

    This lady is the best interviewer in the world!! I wish we could see more of her and have an interview about the things she has learned over the years!

  • @igor3807

    @igor3807

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sing like no one’s listening, love like you’ve never been hurt, dance like nobody’s watching, and live like its heaven on earth. ” -Mark Twain

  • @southlondon86

    @southlondon86

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@igor3807 What if you’re an awful dancer or singer?

  • @Nimora

    @Nimora

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@southlondon86 You do interviews

  • @southlondon86

    @southlondon86

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Nimora What if you’re not good at that either?

  • @rupertdabear3148

    @rupertdabear3148

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@southlondon86 All the more reason to do it, loudly!

  • @ChristopherHemsworthCreative
    @ChristopherHemsworthCreative2 жыл бұрын

    I'm a painter, and this is one of the most inspiring videos I've seen in a long time. Thanks for this. 🤗

  • @mullaart5835

    @mullaart5835

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too im also a painter and don't stop creating bro

  • @Shimamon27

    @Shimamon27

    Жыл бұрын

    I am an animator, and this video feels like it gives a core advice to creators as a whole.

  • @terrytang5367
    @terrytang5367 Жыл бұрын

    Wow this dude is full of wisdom!

  • @emmet_xrcmiy3
    @emmet_xrcmiy32 жыл бұрын

    The best part for me was the last section. Being genuine.

  • @stonevillage2835
    @stonevillage28353 жыл бұрын

    It's awesome that he makes his "kryptonite" so normal, needing a wingman in certain environments. I don't think he's comfortable owning a room individually per se, but a lot of people aren't. It takes a lot of strength for people to say that imo.

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    Find me on Facebook at: bradrushing. Send a DM so I know the request is from you.

  • @intentionalliving7326

    @intentionalliving7326

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤩

  • @MTimWeaver

    @MTimWeaver

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed. Several of the most stressful times in my life were attending "networking events" while looking for work...by myself. It's all small talk, which is an anathema to me. In small groups or a couple friends, you can't shut me up. Put me in a party or room where I don't know anyone, and I will stand back and observe. I never consciously thought about having a 'wingman' before, but in retrospect some of the best interactions I've had in those situations were when a friend introduced me to someone or a small group. I wouldn't say I'm shy, because in I'll walk up and introduce myself to people in the right circumstances and I have done numerous public speaking engagements...but small talk makes me want to jump in front of a bus. :) Loved this video.

  • @TheSuitedNinja
    @TheSuitedNinja3 жыл бұрын

    Humbling and good advice for life.

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching

  • @BetrayerSlayerMusic

    @BetrayerSlayerMusic

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @xfloodcasual8124
    @xfloodcasual81247 ай бұрын

    You can do anything you want, as long as you come to terms that nobody may like your work and you might not make any money.

  • @pops8975
    @pops8975 Жыл бұрын

    “Success is a moving target” ; as it means different things to different people I also feel like this means to stay aware of your personal thoughts on what success means to you; sometimes we have to adjust our thoughts based on our current circumstances but we can still find success in every moment… it’s just constantly changing!

  • @hansonel
    @hansonel3 жыл бұрын

    Absolute golden advice for creatives trying to forge a career. Bookmarking this to return to it as needed.

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    See you again.

  • @Highvibin213
    @Highvibin2132 жыл бұрын

    We are our own worst critics. Completing the steps to reaching your goals is really what it is about. Thanks for the reminder 🙏

  • @stefanv5972
    @stefanv59722 жыл бұрын

    One of the best interviews I’ve ever seen. Honest, motivational, inspirational, pure truth.

  • @gander4872
    @gander48725 ай бұрын

    Just been scrolling through my 2023 saved videos list I haven't watched looking for something that resonates as the clock turns 12 on new years. This caught my eye then caught my ears and I'm in tears. Right place right time and I'm getting the groove back. Thank you

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    5 ай бұрын

    Wonderful! Happy New Year!

  • @mogwilde9069
    @mogwilde90693 жыл бұрын

    Someone's given me these toys, given me a sandbox to play in, so I'm gonna build my sandcastles. Thank you so much. That was necessary to hear ❤️

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    What an honor to contribute that to you. Thank you for letting me know.

  • @roberthenry9641
    @roberthenry96413 жыл бұрын

    Brad Rushing is incredible. Never heard of him or seen him before and have to admit I tripped over this video but he is so honest, humble and revelant he should be running the world. Amazing.

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Robert, we are happy you discovered this one.

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    LOL. I am glad you appreciate the advice.

  • @intentionalliving7326

    @intentionalliving7326

    2 жыл бұрын

    This interview was a great introduction indeed!! ✨

  • @l.w.paradis2108

    @l.w.paradis2108

    2 жыл бұрын

    Generous man.

  • @0rganizedreligion
    @0rganizedreligion7 ай бұрын

    It’s beautiful to see like minded people. Sometimes it feels so lonely

  • @yvonneschwartz3929
    @yvonneschwartz3929 Жыл бұрын

    Finally an honest and real interview that talks about what we really want to know! This guy really wants to help others artists. Thank you so much!

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures9973 жыл бұрын

    This was soooo soooo good! " Just like the market changes, just like technology changes ... it used to work, it's not working now. Try something different " I needed these words.

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am so glad. Honored to contribute to you.

  • @drumbarpuncture
    @drumbarpuncture3 жыл бұрын

    This is the ideal mindset for folks who struggle with self-esteem. I’ve struggled my whole life with some progress made, but I’ve had to accept it’ll always be a battle and sometimes it’s better to work WITH those negative feelings and accept them for what they are, and using approaches like he suggests!

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am glad you can empathize. I wish you success and fulfillment in your journey.

  • @joeyfotofr
    @joeyfotofr2 жыл бұрын

    What a decent man. What a wonderful comment. Pop psychology aside, if we study the history of art and subtract the oeuvre all of the artists who "did not believe in themselves" we'd be going to empty museums - at least far emptier museums. We'd still have Rubens oh and the Pyramids. The important thing is to do the work that you are compelled to do. I am a 77 year old American photographer. I did some of my best work 60 years ago, years before I knew what I was doing or why I was doing it- at least, not in any way that I could articulate. That old work stands today beside my new work as something I am most proud of having done in its time, because I see it bring a beauty in the humanity of subjects long gone to those who see it today. I was lucky, to get professional training in the craft of photography, with some very good teachers, some of whom paid me to carry their tripods and set up their lights, so I could do professional work, that was NOT MY WORK & do my MY WORK for myself, without having to care who liked or appreciated it. Don't get me wrong, as I wrote in a poem 30 or so years ago: "I love it when you like it; when you love it I like it even more, but make no mistake I did not do this for you.." I worked at learning to see, to keep myself alive. At 77, I'm as excited about my work I'm doing now as I am about presenting my old work. You can see my contemporary reflection work through a galerie in Paris and some of my older work is in a book that can be ordered from Amazon as it is being printed by one of the finest publishers of photography books in the world, in Germany. Wish me luck at living with my doubts & insecurities so that there may be more to come... Joey Tranchina, Sète France

  • @noi5emaker
    @noi5emaker2 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciated Brad's honesty. Knowing that even with his resume and background (and we all know those aren't enough), he is still in need. We're all in need of something, and that's why we do what we do.

  • @thegingerbuilder4023
    @thegingerbuilder40232 жыл бұрын

    I think I finally found a video that may help me write again. Ive not been in such a bad place in life since the trauma of my childhood, so trying to keep myself inspired I've found as being hard to do. Having a major back issue doesn't help with the lack of belief i already was feeling. Thinking that most people who are accomplished had someone backing them, or people showing interest on their writing. Not having that has been a killer for me. Being an introvert also makes being outgoing hard like he said. Now finding myself alone and needing some sort of drive to get back to writing so I can get my novel done and finally look for someone to publish it is what I need really need to have happen lol.

  • @zippydo2678

    @zippydo2678

    Жыл бұрын

    Start small and move forward. I have chronic pain and it is harder to deal with than we know!

  • @TheWalkingDavid
    @TheWalkingDavid3 жыл бұрын

    I just finished a shooting a short film out in Utah (I live in Oklahoma), and I had nothing but doubts the whole way. Did I let it stop me like I usually might? No, I didn’t. Was I pissed when I drove all those miles just for problems to arise and things not go smoothly? Absolutely! But the important thing was devoting myself to the task of finishing what I start. It can be incredibly hard and disheartening at times, but that push and tenacity is a MUST. Keep pushing! Through the pain, through the trials and tribulations. Persevere, at all cost. People will respect you for your efforts, and no one can say that you let your fears get in the way of your dreams. No one 🤘🏼❤️🎬

  • @CrystalWilliamsoncoach

    @CrystalWilliamsoncoach

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for reminding me to be tenacious! Between your comment and this vid your helping me move forward through all the trials and tribulations.

  • @TinaSotis
    @TinaSotis11 ай бұрын

    "I just have to do the steps..." I, too, have self esteem issues - imposter syndrome is so crippling. But that statement "just do the steps you need to do to get you through the Valley of Death.". Bam.

  • @coolabstractart
    @coolabstractart2 жыл бұрын

    "If people are interested they're going to look for it" So true, very incredible conversation. Thank you!

  • @michalpitowsky6157
    @michalpitowsky61573 жыл бұрын

    Really cool guy, I get why people want to be friends with him! and the general advice from the title is so true, so many of my friends fail themselves and don't try because of doubt, thinking successful artist feel differently when really most of them feel the same but plow through it. This video reminded me that my own doubt is really just a part of the "artist" package. It's not an indicator of successes or failure, it's just an inevitable hurdle.

  • @filmcourage

    @filmcourage

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful comment Michal, thank you for posting.

  • @tiyanawilliams5070

    @tiyanawilliams5070

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!!!

  • @colleentracy3483

    @colleentracy3483

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Michal Because art is not only to transform others, but to transform ourselves.

  • @intentionalliving7326

    @intentionalliving7326

    2 жыл бұрын

    Beautifully put! Yes!

  • @shakesrear7850

    @shakesrear7850

    2 жыл бұрын

    thank michal

  • @FRNKNSTNmusic
    @FRNKNSTNmusic3 жыл бұрын

    Just sent to a friend who needed to hear this again.

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad.

  • @hernandoromero3606
    @hernandoromero36062 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Brad for the most grounding and encouraging advice I've heard in a long time. In a business where rejection is in the water you swim in, believing in yourself as an artist first is first and foremost, success and recognition is secondary. As a writer/artist your audience not just in the present time but in the distant future.

  • @ruiz460
    @ruiz4602 жыл бұрын

    One of my favorite interviews with an artist I’ve ever heard. Cheers, Brad!

  • @celestelindsey8522
    @celestelindsey85223 жыл бұрын

    The networking advice!! Is so freeing!! Having a wingman, entering conversations/relationships with a giving mindset, finding “normal” things to connect over and letting the opportunity stuff happen naturally. As a fellow introvert and artist, sometimes I feel shame about not being able to “come out of my shell” or be “a go-getter!!” as naturally/gracefully as others seem to be able to… imma tuck this info in the back of my head for future “networking” situations. I feel more free to be my natural introverted self! ☺️

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are welcome to send me a friend request on Facebook. @bradrushing

  • @acharich

    @acharich

    Жыл бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @hollywoodsuccesscoach
    @hollywoodsuccesscoach3 жыл бұрын

    Brad, thank you for the shout-out!!

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    Everyone go buy "Meant For This" by Erica Wernick. It will change your life.

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZread channel 3 months ago about self development. Now I have 243 subs and almost > 95 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.

  • @1995marixsa
    @1995marixsa Жыл бұрын

    This man is what passion looks like, he loves what he do and yeah he sees the errors of his art; every artist does, but he puts his all in everything he does. I love this man.

  • @CandorBand
    @CandorBand3 жыл бұрын

    “‘I’m not a salesman, I’d be a terrible salesman”. Well I am and I can tell that you DEFINITELY are salesman. A very good one (and there is nothing wrong with that)!

  • @nadir-nazzh3560
    @nadir-nazzh35603 жыл бұрын

    Those last 10 mins, I feel are life changing advice. It’s amazing how he puts such great thoughts in simple words.

  • @BradRushing

    @BradRushing

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow! I am honored to contribute such a thing. Thank you.

  • @PEBeaudoin
    @PEBeaudoin2 жыл бұрын

    This has to be one of the best interviews I have heard in a long time. Thank you for your brutal honesty Mr Rushing and for your courageous advice in how to move forward.

  • @auntihooha
    @auntihooha Жыл бұрын

    I LOVE that you find things in common with others and that you encourage everyone to try it! We need more human interaction. Too many people plugged in and alone. I am also deadly shy, but after years of working in bars I learned that I could find something in common with literally anyone I met. I began finding that common thread within minutes of meeting someone and that skill, along with being a very good listener, has pretty much eliminated my fear of talking to other people, whether they're rich and famous, an autistic kid, a homeless person, or a a PhD. My father was this way, and I was lucky to have that role model. Humor is also a big help.