Are you Hyper Independent? This is for you!
"Hyper-independence refers to individual attempts to be fully independent in all things, even when it is not helpful to do so or when they truly need help or support from others"- Very Well Mind.
In this video I share my trouble suffering alone when I have people who have availed themselves to help me time and again.
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I don't understand why am I crying, so happy for you Thando... True definition of friendship ❤️❤️
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
Makwande, kukhanye, kulunge kuwe. God bless you WHOLE hustle Thando Thando!
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much love!
Thank you, how I wish all of us had that support. I must start investing in good friends and chosen family 💝
I’m so Glad our fav is baaaack🥳🥳❤️❤️❤️
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
Ayyye!!!
First of all your skint is popping. Second of all I am advocate for women asking for help and using their support structures. Love this!
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much love. It's such a hard lesson!
Your channel inspired us, so we started our own. Thanks!! I've been watching you for years. #renatethando
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
Oh man! I'm so glad! Ket me go watch!
@taye1943
Жыл бұрын
@@ThandoHlophe thank you from this queer couple🏳️🌈 #renatethando
I honestly plan too much, overwhelm myself so I don't execute which makes me feel down about myself so I plan more and the cycle continues
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
Oh man!! Too much of anything is our downfall!! I wish wish I could plan more!
@MoTee1
Жыл бұрын
I can relate wena Lelo.. it's self sabotage we need to do better😭
Freelancing showed me flames but my field of work is really teaching me planning and getting organized. At some point I was caught in a position where I had to divide myself into 3 in a space of a month because I have signed a contract of 2 months independent research, I had to be out of my province for a week, 1 week again in another city and I had to also report to my Social Initiative Group of Fellows. By the end of August I was behind with some of my work, I haven't done some of the things I wanted to do but I try to journal and evaluate where I need to improve. I have weekly time planner and in that plan I look at other aspects other than my freelancing nefellowship that I am part of like relationships outside work. Prioritizing and not being harsh on myself helped me. However, I am working on taking a breather and using available small time to nap in between. It's been 4 years full now without permanent or contract work except for Freelancing and doing own projects. I hope you find your rhythm Thando 😊 Thank you so much for this.
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing! It feels so lonely so I'm so glad to hear from peers who've gone through it!
I love you Muhles.
Yho I missed your videos❤❤
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
Awww I'm so sorry! Finally getting back on my feet!
Sending you all of the love back
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
Oh goodness. We are somewhat similar. I've been getting incredible opportunities majority of which I want to grab but now I'm struggling to manage time and feel am depriving myself of a social life. It feels crazy tragic.
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
We just need to address it!! Because work life balance is esential!
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Relatable struggle sis. Nice lesson 🙂
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
It's truly hard ouchea!
Where is this cuuuute ass rooftop?
@ThandoHlophe
Жыл бұрын
It's in Harties!!