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Welcome to a discussion on dating and the factors that shape our preferences or biases. In this episode, we delve into the topic of masculine individuals exclusively dating femmes and vice versa. We explore whether there is a fine line between having a preference and harboring a phobia.
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“I just like who I like” let’s put that on a tshirt.
@ThandoHlophe
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Period!!!!
I literally am going to talk about this in my next video. thank you for this conversation
@ThandoHlophe
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Yes please!! We need more conversation about this!!!!
The proximity point is so true ! (As a bi man) The internet gays are very biphobic, but in my personal life it's not true
@yeyosoniztv6551
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Alot of people have weird stances online I've realized
I like u, I like ur take n I really like it when I see myself reflection in other ppl . Vibe my tribe ❤. Keep it up 👍🏾
First of all… yes yes yes. Being in the alpha gang (alpha being alphabet), means that honestly… there are no limits to how you present yourself and who you love or engage with sexually. And to answer that last bit of the question before I listen to what you have to say… there is no line 😂 as long as you aren’t harming, hurting and offending anyone.
@ThandoHlophe
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We agree a 100%
ahahahahahh You are sooo silly and funny and i love you. dont kal us like a puduh. The fems don't approach you because you are aunty daddi!!! this was funny . Also preferences are preferences please i also don't have a type literally if we vibe we vibe!!! Lmao lmao i have also told a person i wasn't tryinna be cuffed and later that day i got cuffed, its honestly a thing of preference and sometimes we are cowards and its hard to blatantly say maa'm i am not feeling you like that lol we can't be phobiarizing everything.
Oh I love you Thando❤❤ and I am a feminine presenting female who is very open minded, i have dated fems before. Although it has its own challenges I'd rather date someone who's been in a relationship like that prior to me.
@ThandoHlophe
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Oh absolutley!! What ever works for you as long as it's not harmful to others.
I’ve nothing to add to this except to say nice dumbe there also happy to see that painting on display. I’m also wondering what books are in your bookshelf. Yes I sat through the whole video mostly just studying your back ground 😅.
@ThandoHlophe
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LMAO!!! So this is my girlfriend's place. and she is the avid reader in this relationship. But she mostly reads a ton of African mythology and fiction. She also writes it.
As a masc presenting lesbian, I think everyone has that particular element that would attract them to someone else. Sometimes, what we are attracted by reveals our motive towards that person - SOMETIMES. For me, it doesn't matter how the person presents themselves and their sexuality, I care about what's in their heart. What remains is that she's my choice, no matter what she presents herself as. Eh, but when you said, "I wished a femme would approach me..." I felt that because I've been there too😂😂😂 Thanks for good content👌
@ThandoHlophe
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I too am at that space in my life. I want connection and love okunye can follow.
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I have been in that situation, but it had more todo with timing than preference. Although I wonder how the other party feels about it.
@ThandoHlophe
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Timing also plays a major factor!