Great video! I can add that I take medication for bipolar disorder, and my husband and I were approved to adopt. It's something that runs in my family, and I was able to turn in letters from my psychiatrist and therapist to show that I have been managing my symptoms for years with medication and professional help. Mental ailments are just like physical ones in that the state needs to see that you can take care of yourself in order to take care of kids. Hope that helps!

Every time I think there’s nothing left to talk about, I watch another video and it’s awesome and covers new things :)

@adoptinformed

Жыл бұрын

Aww I’m glad! I try to keep it as varied as possible because I don’t want to sound like a broken record 😅 I’m still learning new things all of the time too!

My husband and I just signed up for our parenting classes and got an application for our agency! We’re so excited to get started with a foster care adoption

@adoptinformed

Жыл бұрын

Congrats! That’s exciting ☺️

Thank you for answering my question :) My husband and I are still trying to decide which type of adoption is best for us. There’s so many things to consider and sometimes it gets overwhelming

Love your videos, Katie! Love how transparent, down to earth, and straight to the point you are

@adoptinformed

11 ай бұрын

Aw thank you! I’m so glad you like them!

Happy Mother’s Day ❤

Thank you for answering my Q! The main reason i actually want to wait until my son is a bit older is because i want him to understand whats happening. Ive been preparing him for a few yrs now that one day hell get siblings etc but i want his opinion as well when hes a bit more mature. I guess it does depend on each case, but i have an uneasy feeling about it dunno why. I dont want really young kids and i dont want to wait until my son is 10 yrs old either so its kinda hard because I do want the middle ages.

@yorkshirerose146

Жыл бұрын

We are adopting in the UK. Our birth son is 10 and we are adopting a 6 year old. We weren't allowed to adopt siblings because there is a propensity for them to become a separate family within the family. In the UK they advocate adopting one child and then adopting again later if you want to extend the family. O thought I'd mention it in asebut helps.

@yorkshirerose146

Жыл бұрын

We started the process to adopt a few years ago when our son was 7, but it took 18 months to be matched with a child.

@adoptinformed

Жыл бұрын

@@yorkshirerose146 that is really interesting! Such a different perspective than what I have heard in the US.

I was in the foster system for a few years as a kid before being adopted. It's an awful system. I hope to adopt someday. Also, my adoptive mom made me a similar book. Wish I could've gotten it back before we split ways.

This video has been very informative! I would like to know your opinion on adopting a child around my son's age. My son is 7 and has been diagnosed with "low support" autism but does have aggressive meltdowns a few times a month and can be needy. How would this affect the child? Our son is also a little behind in his social and emotional development but is at or above grade level academically.

Just a bit of personal testimony. My father was a school teacher. He made us go to the school where he taught. We were bullied terribly for being teacher's kids. I think that we would have had a better overall experience if we had gone to the school in the neighboring town where we actually lived.

@adoptinformed

5 ай бұрын

I’m sorry you had such a touch experience! My dad was actually my assistant principal one year in middle school! 🙈 Thankfully I wasn’t bullied at all for it, but it can be an uncomfortable situation at times for sure!

Can you explain more what the matching process looks like after a potential adoptive family reviews the “social summary” document and says they are interested in the child. For example, is there opportunity to meet the child in person before committing to the adoption? Or does the child likely know you are a potential adoptive family and so we would only meet the child once the adoption is pretty set. We are thinking of adopting a child 7 or older.

@kristynabradley4587

10 ай бұрын

Good question.

How do virtual classes work for you guys? Did your husband have to sit on virtual class with you training or did you do your training classes and he did his because I know both of you probably don't work at the same time

What did your kids call you when they were first place? If it wasn't mom/dad right away, when did they start?

@adoptinformed

Жыл бұрын

I’m covering this one in the next video for sure! 😊

@cdeuell86

Жыл бұрын

@@adoptinformed Thank you! 😊

Single person fostering to adopt. Is this a dealbreaker, or can I proceed with the process?

@lindydavis2652

11 ай бұрын

In California, single parent adoption is not only allowed, but encouraged. You do need to be able to show you have a support system including your plan for childcare when you are at work, someone to take care of kids if you are sick, or severely injured, etc

@abrielle13

2 ай бұрын

I was adopted by a single mom. It's usually not an issue especially if you are willing to adopt a challenging kid since they are hard to home. It really depends on the kid. Some kids require 2 parents. Some prefer just a mom or just a dad.

How can I get in touch with you outside of youtube?

@adoptinformed

11 ай бұрын

Sorry for the delayed response! You can email me at katie@adoptinformed.com or book a call with me at www.adoptinformed.com

I prefer closed adoption.