Answering Questions I've Avoided...Divorce, Red Flags, My Faith & Advice | Aysha Harun

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  • @khalilahedwards7042
    @khalilahedwards70423 жыл бұрын

    The thing about marriage/divorce..... sometimes you just marry the wrong person. And if you marry the wrong person it doesn’t matter how long you dated or how hard you work at it... it’s going to end eventually. And by wrong person I don’t mean ‘bad’ person, they’re just not the right person for you.

  • @maryana.3133

    @maryana.3133

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree with this!

  • @suemisosoup9949

    @suemisosoup9949

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is so true.

  • @rahmanoor6392

    @rahmanoor6392

    3 жыл бұрын

    Completely relate to this, I married the wrong person. It never works when you marry the wrong person.

  • @karma-queenofflames376

    @karma-queenofflames376

    3 жыл бұрын

    Khalilah Edwards - Whew! I felt this statement in my bones. Speak on it!

  • @petrinegordon

    @petrinegordon

    3 жыл бұрын

    But how and when will you know? Intuition?

  • @mariazigerlig9860
    @mariazigerlig98603 жыл бұрын

    I‘m getting dicorced from my husband and i also married very young to keep it halal and your videos really help me. I was really naive and just wanted to be with him in a halal way but i ignored many red flags, thought he would change etc. Now 23 and getting divorced but my relationship with allah was never stronger and i‘m soo happy with all the knowledge i gained throught this situation. Alhamdulillah !

  • @SamMKKK

    @SamMKKK

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sending you all the love!

  • @zainabshoka4219

    @zainabshoka4219

    3 жыл бұрын

    May allah make it easy for you 💜

  • @mariazigerlig9860

    @mariazigerlig9860

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@zainabshoka4219 insha allah, thank you so much ❤️❤️

  • @mariazigerlig9860

    @mariazigerlig9860

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SamMKKK thank you ❤️❤️

  • @whome4851

    @whome4851

    3 жыл бұрын

    Take a break from each other before getting divorce in that way you can decide what really want from life not just marriage

  • @floatingwiththeclouds2016
    @floatingwiththeclouds20163 жыл бұрын

    “It was written” is my go to for everything loooool. I don’t get mad at things anymore. If I drop my food, it was written😅😂

  • @mysterygirlmyself4818

    @mysterygirlmyself4818

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right😂then you dont really stress too much about life😂everything that goes wrong or not the way you planned wasnt meant to be is the way it is😂

  • @kaym6493

    @kaym6493

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂 😂 me to LOL, I don't go to deep in planning for the future learnt my lesson the hard away. Allhamdulilah

  • @mysterygirlmyself4818

    @mysterygirlmyself4818

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kay m🤣right😂thats how it should be so we dont stress too much about this crazy life/world😂

  • @kaym6493

    @kaym6493

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mysterygirlmyself4818 😂 right.

  • @starsighting7167

    @starsighting7167

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kaym6493 can you please teach me how to stop planning the future

  • @Morrocanprincess
    @Morrocanprincess3 жыл бұрын

    You seriously already look happier and just freeee. I am here for it! & Yes NEVER tell a man what you're looking for, they become actors in a role until they can't anymore lol. Be careful over-nurturing a man, they eventually resent you for it and will ultimately take you for granted. I see this in too many relationships.

  • @RockinDemHeejabz

    @RockinDemHeejabz

    3 жыл бұрын

    "they become actors in a role until they can't anymore" whewwwww

  • @Yasxgo

    @Yasxgo

    3 жыл бұрын

    This comment is everything!

  • @lytemisbah

    @lytemisbah

    3 жыл бұрын

    What do you mean don’t overnurture a man? Because he’ll get spoiled?

  • @purplelove3666

    @purplelove3666

    3 жыл бұрын

    So what do you then?. Do you just see how they act?

  • @Joker_1984

    @Joker_1984

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lytemisbah Dont become his mum. Be his wife, give him his rights and demand for your rights from the get go.

  • @munab3666
    @munab36663 жыл бұрын

    You're actually super young, only 25?! Lol when I was 25 I didn't even have the word marriage in my repertoire. I'm 31 and refuse to buy into this whole industry that makes Muslim women feel like we're expired or spare parts if we aren't married. Your business is booming and you're doing well, you do you sis!

  • @eminaroses7005

    @eminaroses7005

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!! I met my husband at age 31. He was my choice and he’s the most amazing husband ever for me! I lived my life to the max before him, bought my own house, traveled and was throughly fulfilled before him. Now, our marriage is the cherry on top as we were fulfilled individuals before each other.

  • @shuharaahmed728

    @shuharaahmed728

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes! I wanna travel, buy property etc. I'm open to marriage but I'm not gonna marry whoever, whatever for the sake of society

  • @ye23.

    @ye23.

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel you girl!! Im 29 and the pressure to get married is crazyyy. But ive rejected heaps of offers because all these dudes are bozos and truthfully all my friends that are married are miserable and ended up settling for men they are slaves to. I love this new generation of muslim women rejecting the patriarchal bullshit we’ve been fed all our lives!

  • @manouranoor7924

    @manouranoor7924

    3 жыл бұрын

    smh

  • @naturalgreens1844

    @naturalgreens1844

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ye23. but thats not fair is the culture you guys have not islam that miserable marriage

  • @poeticjustice8420
    @poeticjustice84203 жыл бұрын

    Im 25 not even close to being married. Ppl shouldn't force the whole narrative that when your older its too late, I mean damn 25 is still young.

  • @fatimabakr_

    @fatimabakr_

    3 жыл бұрын

    Actaully some people would like to get married young while some don't. Everybody is different. And they are a lot of people I know that married young and they are very happy and does that don't even think about marriage but they are happy. It really depends on what you want

  • @fatimabakr_

    @fatimabakr_

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are right when you say culture makes it seem like if you are older it's to late or you have to get married at a specific age. Everyone's time is different

  • @TravelwithRia92

    @TravelwithRia92

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s super young. I’m 29 soon and I think I’m more ready now than I’ve been before.

  • @jasminepearls1047

    @jasminepearls1047

    3 жыл бұрын

    Enjoy your time without responsibiliy and chidlren.

  • @GokuBlack-sn5dr

    @GokuBlack-sn5dr

    3 жыл бұрын

    not even close? so not even 28 or 29?

  • @floatingwiththeclouds2016
    @floatingwiththeclouds20163 жыл бұрын

    I was heartbroken all 2020. Loved this man and it took me a whole year and a half to get over him only to find out at the start of 2021 he got married🙂 if something is yours, it will find you. I tried too hard to fight fate. I’m over it now and don’t think about him as much but I find peace knowing that my heart was pure throughout and you just can’t force things. You need to let things and go and let them be. God always has better in store for you.

  • @AyshaHarun

    @AyshaHarun

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wishing you all the best my love 🥺💞

  • @briannisaa

    @briannisaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    I got heartbroken the middle of 2019 and some days I still find myself recovering. Hang in there! What is written will always be for you, and what is isn’t, will never reach you. 🤍

  • @floatingwiththeclouds2016

    @floatingwiththeclouds2016

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AyshaHarun thanks Aysha, I truly do love you🌹

  • @binti_jannet

    @binti_jannet

    3 жыл бұрын

    Keep shinning. All the best👏

  • @floatingwiththeclouds2016

    @floatingwiththeclouds2016

    3 жыл бұрын

    Briannisaa thanks sweetheart! We’re in the same boat. We got this❤️

  • @themirrormuse
    @themirrormuse3 жыл бұрын

    When she said she Googled KZread videos on divorce I felt that cos I did the exact same thing. Divorce is hard, but it gets a bit bearable when you find other people who've gone through the same thing. Proud of you girl and you definitely look happier.

  • @ormarishamalarabi7329

    @ormarishamalarabi7329

    3 жыл бұрын

    Maasha alaah

  • @sheekadaDahab

    @sheekadaDahab

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here. Married for 7 years (married when I was 19) Things aren't going well between us 😢

  • @mjlove2228

    @mjlove2228

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sheekadaDahab praying for you 🥺♥️

  • @nasrialii
    @nasrialii3 жыл бұрын

    Aysha : Hey guys! Welcome ba- Me: *thumbs up*

  • @wataviamarie9694

    @wataviamarie9694

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too!

  • @user-ub4nn2et4j

    @user-ub4nn2et4j

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @mica318

    @mica318

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true...haha

  • @aalewww
    @aalewww3 жыл бұрын

    “ don’t fall for potential” I don’t know why but that slapped me in the face 😂

  • @AnuTalks
    @AnuTalks3 жыл бұрын

    Can we talk about the glow...the light...

  • @emmahamood584

    @emmahamood584

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was thinking the same

  • @mystique5168

    @mystique5168

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's Noor. ❤️

  • @mo9204

    @mo9204

    3 жыл бұрын

    She is beautiful I wouldn’t leave her a second 😙

  • @Sona77.
    @Sona77.3 жыл бұрын

    I’m 27 and haven’t met anyone that I vibe with. I am ok with not ever getting married

  • @blobster91

    @blobster91

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sameeee

  • @Sona77.

    @Sona77.

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@blobster91 It's just so hard to find someone, and it really shouldn't be

  • @cherylford7873
    @cherylford78733 жыл бұрын

    You have not said one bad thing about your ex, and I RESPECT that more than anything! "IT IS WRITTEN"...I absolutely loved that response! Take care...❤

  • @nadiasayed2843
    @nadiasayed28433 жыл бұрын

    Keep in mind Aysha, if you ever planned to get closer to Allah (swt), it has become (or is becoming) true through your separation with your ex. You’ve recognized the beauty and rahma of Allah (swt). You’re winning.

  • @wuttwuu
    @wuttwuu3 жыл бұрын

    This girl is so genuine and deserves nothing but the best wallahi. May Allah swt make everything easier for you

  • @aneesapeterkin807

    @aneesapeterkin807

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen!

  • @riqaazafareed3153

    @riqaazafareed3153

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aameen ❤️

  • @farhana.hussain
    @farhana.hussain3 жыл бұрын

    I need a friend like Ayesha!! Her personality is everything.

  • @musiclove2199

    @musiclove2199

    3 жыл бұрын

    Girl atleast spell her name right 😂

  • @metrolady72

    @metrolady72

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too.

  • @nakibuyeaminah8689

    @nakibuyeaminah8689

    3 жыл бұрын

    Am here,we can be friends sis

  • @Theadventurer12

    @Theadventurer12

    Жыл бұрын

    She is the ideal friend really.

  • @ayt6335

    @ayt6335

    5 ай бұрын

    That is how my name is spelled 😊😂​@@musiclove2199

  • @a.k3598
    @a.k35983 жыл бұрын

    I'm 25 and just got divorced a few months ago. It was one of the worst experiences of my life. I had severe anxiety attacks and depression. I still haven't recovered and get nightmares about the marriage. Most days life seems so bleak but hopefully one day things will get better.

  • @faaizassibit

    @faaizassibit

    3 жыл бұрын

    So sorry for what you’re going through. Like you said Its all going to get better In shaa Allah.

  • @nayajacob5621

    @nayajacob5621

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm wishing you all the best and pray that you get back stronger

  • @allthingsjannah4325

    @allthingsjannah4325

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ohh subhanallah sister I hope you get through it with ease inshallah. Please see a therapist if you are able to & be easy on yourself.

  • @mbibeau3568

    @mbibeau3568

    3 жыл бұрын

    Salam sis, I too was divorced at 25 and struggled with severe anxiety attacks and depression. My heart goes out to you ❤️ I’ve now been divorced for almost 3 and a half years, I thought I was never going to feel normal again or laugh again but take it from me, it does get better

  • @soinspo2656

    @soinspo2656

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am sorry you are going through that. May God heal your heart and bless you. ❤️

  • @wadiahpjones3880
    @wadiahpjones38803 жыл бұрын

    Prayer can change your destiny. Everything is written and Allah knows the whole story of your life, but we can pray for change in that. It’s HIS will to change. We also have limited free will that does not deplete Allah’s will.

  • @ashradihark798

    @ashradihark798

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @heavensent1992

    @heavensent1992

    3 жыл бұрын

    True!

  • @prettyloubey8411

    @prettyloubey8411

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @applerox101
    @applerox1013 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate the fact that you discuss this with such class. You don’t make it a “spilling tea” video, or rant on your ex. You say what needs to be said to express your feelings and thoughts on the matter without infringing on your ex’s privacy. I really appreciate that you’re not ashamed of Islam and being open about it. Thank you for that.

  • @Ghuraba1990
    @Ghuraba19903 жыл бұрын

    I would recommend all Muslims to read the book “healthy Muslim marriage” by Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf mangera before marriage. it’s a amazing book to read when searching for a spouse.

  • @herpartyofone

    @herpartyofone

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @jemilajemal4181

    @jemilajemal4181

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks you

  • @wowso4

    @wowso4

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the recommendations, I'll make sure to read it 😊

  • @eynijama5348

    @eynijama5348

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the suggestion book about Muslim marriage.

  • @user-ib4bo4kx2l

    @user-ib4bo4kx2l

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Mariams Adventure A friend of mine did istikhara before marriage, was given a sign to get married and her husband cheated on her while she was pregnant. They are now divorced and she remarried but you need to do your own due diligence and not put everything down to fate if you want a long term marriage

  • @NjBou
    @NjBou3 жыл бұрын

    The Muslims do understand; for me, i got married young and it took me honestly about 6 months to decide if this man was right for me or not. I actually believe that if you are taking it seriously and truly having quality conversations about life and family and values...then it can be done in 6 months or so. It really isn't about knowing them for years; I've known a lot of people for years but have had such low quality exchanges with them and thus don't feel close to them. Quality communication matters a lot when searching for a good match.

  • @kiarajofficial

    @kiarajofficial

    2 жыл бұрын

    I 1000% agree with you!

  • @ayankamwana7751
    @ayankamwana77513 жыл бұрын

    I got divorced last year I was just 22 I was a mess...I have drown courage from you Im working out I dressing up MashaAllah you are my motivation May Allah bless you

  • @nuffsaid1429
    @nuffsaid14293 жыл бұрын

    Love this! Before I married my now husband my mother asked me, " would you marry him now as is even if nothing about him changed?" That was a great reflection piece for me.

  • @SayconTalks

    @SayconTalks

    3 жыл бұрын

    Great question!!

  • @youtubeaccount6934

    @youtubeaccount6934

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow love that!

  • @jinanh2712

    @jinanh2712

    3 жыл бұрын

    !! Powerful question!!

  • @Bettieoaminh

    @Bettieoaminh

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great question !!!

  • @jackiehylton7305
    @jackiehylton73053 жыл бұрын

    You deserve all the love being sent to you, you are open and honest with your content, I am so much older and yet I have learned so much from you.

  • @Fatima-uk6zc
    @Fatima-uk6zc3 жыл бұрын

    You’re an angel, I can’t even put into words how much this video and your previous videos have helped me on my own post breakup journey🤎

  • @jy2044
    @jy20443 жыл бұрын

    OMG yesss Jhene's Chilombo really helped me too through my break up!!! And yesss "pray for you" made helped me accept!!! Wooow

  • @mixmix3499
    @mixmix34993 жыл бұрын

    So sorry you are going through this. I took a break from KZread , didn't know. But thanks to your faith your have a great handle on things. I was actually getting ready to binge watch what I have missed when this notification popped up. Much love to you

  • @TheBlushingGiraffe
    @TheBlushingGiraffe3 жыл бұрын

    Yessss queen, ‘I’m an even better version of myself’, I feel like us viewers can see that. I’m honestly so impressed with how gracefully you’ve dealt with it alongside continuing your work ethic snd creating gorgeous content. I also love how you didn’t shy away from talking about therapy whilst you were going through it, MH is still stigmatised (though that stigma is slowly fading) in a lot of Muslim communities. You’re a great role model Ma’sha’Allah and I pray for more growth, more success and when they time is right, a wonderful man who will match your brilliantness! Nothing short of what you deserve ❤️

  • @tommiejohnson8547
    @tommiejohnson85473 жыл бұрын

    Yes, be specific in prayer...something my Mother told me at a very difficult point in my life, and I have been more at peace ever since.

  • @tiannadelaurentiis3308
    @tiannadelaurentiis33083 жыл бұрын

    It’s so refreshing to see the free version of you along with the return of your beautiful spirit and smile! I have the limited edition vinyl set of Jhene Aiko’s ‘Chilombo’ and it has been my go to album along with Miles Davis’ ‘Kind of Blue’ during this pandemic.

  • @NaturallyPeaches
    @NaturallyPeaches3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy that you made this video. I have family members in my life that are currently going through separation and divorce (my mom and my sister) and I know they are having a rough time but please send prayers to them for a happier life inshallah. Ameen

  • @rhogan7312
    @rhogan73123 жыл бұрын

    Of course I don't know you but as an older black woman I'm so glad to see a strong young black woman. I am also happy to see you engaging other young women on your channel; its needed. The strong bear the infirmities of the weak. Praying all the best for you. From Chicago (Chi-town)💞💞💞🤲🏾

  • @SAINASAHO
    @SAINASAHO3 жыл бұрын

    In Sha allah 500k coming soon... allah always test the people that he knows can handle it.. if he knows you can’t handle it he wouldn’t let u test it out with that being said he did that to you to show u something better in life... I’m glad u doing better and in Sha allah I pray u find the right one some day 💕

  • @suraalmansour
    @suraalmansour3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for being so open and honest about your recent struggle

  • @sivzy9356
    @sivzy93563 жыл бұрын

    I've been watching you for years and you're a queen, keeping shining!!

  • @hammythehamster8963
    @hammythehamster89633 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for always being open and honest with us. You're literally radiating mashaAllah.

  • @suem7500
    @suem75003 жыл бұрын

    First time I've heard about Better Help, definitely checking it out

  • @Sumayyahsikiru
    @Sumayyahsikiru3 жыл бұрын

    Thank youuu Aysha. It's so true, I'll take a pain in my arm over heartbreak. Knowing how deep it is, is like😪

  • @barbarasanders3988
    @barbarasanders39883 жыл бұрын

    Aysha I really appreciate your openness and transparency on your Channel. I have been heart broken so many times, but looking at your tutorial lifts my spirits keep being you ❤️❤️

  • @zainababuzaid1361
    @zainababuzaid13613 жыл бұрын

    you are soooo pure-hearted and just so refreshing Allahuma Barikkk. I want to give you hug :') May Allah always keep you happy and continue to shower you with blessings, Ameen

  • @firdowskalu1

    @firdowskalu1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen ya rabb 💕

  • @amnaabdi6407

    @amnaabdi6407

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @simplykiaya
    @simplykiaya3 жыл бұрын

    Love the balance of sharing and not being too personal all the while being vulnerable. Can’t wait to continue to watch your growth and happiness ❤️

  • @aquasm2680
    @aquasm26803 жыл бұрын

    Marriage is not fairy tales as many people think. There will be good and bad times but with both people willing to meet in the middle, is doable. Married at 23,now 34 still going strong.keep your faith up and the right person is waiting for you. Blessings

  • @mamediarrandour9901

    @mamediarrandour9901

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same I have been married since I was 22. Marriage is very hard but it’s worth to fight through if you can. I understand some situations are not workable but i don’t think marrying young is an issue it’s the parties being willing to accept that you both have to work and change for the better

  • @WandererinAqaba

    @WandererinAqaba

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too married at 21 now 33. Marriage can be tough at times but the key is compromise. And we all grow and change as people. Alhamdolilah for everything and having kids makes things harder. We have 5 kids mashaa Allah and i feel our relationship is better now than it has been. May Allah guide all of us to what is best and May Allah swt keep us steadfast ameen.

  • @SamMKKK
    @SamMKKK3 жыл бұрын

    Omg glowy queen. I love the decor in your background!

  • @411dragontiger
    @411dragontiger3 жыл бұрын

    You are the most honest and humble woman. Thank you for sharing. I am so proud of you fellow Canadian.

  • @sabiron7483
    @sabiron74833 жыл бұрын

    im a slient viewer, but i really love your content Aysha!!! i hope you know you are so loved by your subscribers!!

  • @tasfiaahmed5405
    @tasfiaahmed54053 жыл бұрын

    Loved this video, kept it real but also respectful to yourself. I'd love to see more faith related videos. I genuinely enjoy hearing you speak about being a Muslim and how heart to heart you can get. Also understanding your relation with your faith as private, any tips, advice or just hearing you talk would be really interesting. Keep doing you queen, you're glowing 🙌🏽❤️❤️

  • @By_rabiha
    @By_rabiha3 жыл бұрын

    I seriously I usually never comment on youtube.. But I really appreciate the honestly. It wasn't owed but def appreciated. Love you so much and wish you all the best. I went through a divorce too and I am soooo happy now so I can tell you from experience the best is yet to come. Much love

  • @abdiabdi4900

    @abdiabdi4900

    3 жыл бұрын

    There is no happiness in divorce at all guarantee you

  • @jessicaobiora8358
    @jessicaobiora83583 жыл бұрын

    Glad you're moving forward, dear heart. Heartbreak is terrible, but especially in a long term relationship. While I agree with most of what you said, I think you should absolutely tell potential partners what qualities you are looking for. While some people can front for a while, no one can pretend forever. Actually, the problem is that people see the red flags but ignore or downplay them. People who are rude or gossipy or mean or manipulative. That almost always comes out early. But we write it off (they're having a bad day, etc). What I would advise people is to trust your intuition and marry the one who genuinely elevates you and vice versa. That is the point, for iron to sharpen iron. Change is inevitable so make sure you are with one who handles pressure and bad news in a healthy way (not running away, boozing it up, etc). I'm 35 years old, married for 4 years but together for almost 10 so I know a lil something about this 😁 Much love to you!

  • @AlexB-ny2vp
    @AlexB-ny2vp3 жыл бұрын

    The level of emotional resiliency that shows through in this video though. Aysha you are such an amazing role model

  • @amberaslam5190
    @amberaslam51903 жыл бұрын

    Appreciating and taking in all the honesty and wisdom, but also admiring the glow (inner and outer mashaAllah)

  • @ladyshakari
    @ladyshakari Жыл бұрын

    KZread videos and therapy helped with my divorce after being married for 34yrs. I was beyond heart broken and depressed. It's been 10 yrs since my divorce and believe or not I'm happier single for now, I feel free. What's meant for you will be for you.

  • @viktoreawhite7641
    @viktoreawhite76413 жыл бұрын

    I love the honesty and advice! Thankyou for keeping it real and always being authentic.

  • @nc3919
    @nc39193 жыл бұрын

    You’re so beautiful and your aesthetic is GOALS!

  • @kumbanyang8900
    @kumbanyang89003 жыл бұрын

    I love this!! I appreciate your vulnerability always!

  • @BrooklynLondoner
    @BrooklynLondoner3 жыл бұрын

    So many gems in this video. I can see how much healing you have had and you’re glowing sis.

  • @duhafayyaz6214
    @duhafayyaz62143 жыл бұрын

    I love how honest and pure you are. That is why you are my favorite

  • @lalaleenax
    @lalaleenax3 жыл бұрын

    Already made a mental note to come back to this video if I’m ever heartbroken 😍 I feel like I already have hope and it hasn’t even happened yet 🤣 that’s called girl power ! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @fatumahkukundanabulime6258

    @fatumahkukundanabulime6258

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes Love, Girl Power is definitely felt. But I pray that you never have to deal with a broken heart love.....And that's also on GIRL POWER😊❤

  • @atiyyamohammed2655
    @atiyyamohammed26553 жыл бұрын

    I got married young too, at 22 and I somewhat regret it. However I see it as a lesson learned, as I divorced him after 1 year. It teaches you what you truly need in a partner! The heartbreak is so painful, but it gets easier over time ❤️❤️ having faith in Allah swt honestly helps heal 🙏🏽❤️ take care Aysha!

  • @kdubbs5216
    @kdubbs52163 жыл бұрын

    That glow, tho. Glad to see that your sunshine has come, and there’s no more rain in your cloud. #angieStone

  • @haadiya2198
    @haadiya21983 жыл бұрын

    Even my marriage proposal got broken but we girls are very young...we can do more things for ourselves....we are strong and inshaallah there will be someone who will actually understand us and the personalities will be the same❤❤❤but ayesha my girl keep fighting...i know u r a strong woman and nothing could break u down

  • @gperks37
    @gperks373 жыл бұрын

    I truly feel you, a broken heart will bring you to your knees, BUT, it will all work out for the good.

  • @TheJenniferMonique

    @TheJenniferMonique

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is a fact! You will become wiser from it and learn from it. It hurts and then it slowly becomes easier but you will have your days until you fully heal.

  • @stxlady1
    @stxlady13 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been watching you a long time way back in Canada..You look more vibrant than ever. I’m glad to see that” you’ve stumbled, got up, brushed yourself off and continued..love your content and May God bless.

  • @NjBou
    @NjBou3 жыл бұрын

    Also, I hate how people make it sound like being married is some societally pressured thing that makes women feel like garbage. No. It is actually verryyyy natural to want to be with someone. End of story. It doesn't have to be a person's Everything---it shouldn't be. But to make it sound like it's some frivolous thing that society pushes on us for the sake of selling weddings---no. You don't have to aspire to what society wants from you to really wanna get married. I didn't care at alllll what society wanted. My entire wedding costed less than many people's wedding dresses. I didn't care. But being with a great partner to share my days with and build a life with--that was a goal and it didn't come from society. Pretty sure that is a normal, natural want for people to have. And I was certain that God's recommendations about how to partner up (marriage) were 1000% more trustworthy than any other way of going about it. So, marriage was certainly a cool thing to aspire to do. End. Of.

  • @gilrh4531

    @gilrh4531

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh thank you !

  • @yn-id8qr

    @yn-id8qr

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s good to hear that not all people have to go through such an ordeal but societal pressure about marriage specially from an south asian perspective is very very real. I didn’t give into it but there are some who can’t handle that stress and marry early.

  • @loverofhumanity

    @loverofhumanity

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Miss Lilith sure it is. I agree. But it also means that these girls are probably having sex regularly which according to their beliefs its wrong. I dont necessarily subscribe to that notion by the way. (Yes Ironic because of my name I get it, but you dont choose your name)

  • @MANAL83

    @MANAL83

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@loverofhumanity u can always change your name if it bothers you that much!

  • @loverofhumanity

    @loverofhumanity

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@MANAL83 my name doesnt bother me. It's just a name. What bothers me is the judgements and assumptions people often make because of my name.

  • @asia9302
    @asia93023 жыл бұрын

    Love this! So strong for sharing these tough questions 🥰

  • @mariamamaguiraga8655
    @mariamamaguiraga86553 жыл бұрын

    Much love from Gabon 🇬🇦 U're so inspiring Keep going ❤️🥺

  • @nickio8533
    @nickio85333 жыл бұрын

    Really enjoyed watching this video and how you answered the questions. I’ve definitely taken some points from this. I’m really happy to see that you’re doing well♥️

  • @fardowsamusse3050
    @fardowsamusse30503 жыл бұрын

    Its crazy that you said that I was going through both at the same time and definitely agree. May Allah heal you fully and grant you better.

  • @salome8559
    @salome85593 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video, I am bored out of my mind right now, you're so strong it's so inspiring ❤

  • @RihamOsman
    @RihamOsman3 жыл бұрын

    Your confidence in yourself is radiating mashAllah. I can see the growth. Keep going!

  • @mpumimg6000
    @mpumimg60003 жыл бұрын

    Your video quality is so good, it's like you will jump out of my TV and chill with me in my lounge 🤗🇿🇦

  • @zehraali2344
    @zehraali23443 жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy you are doing better AH :). also YOUR MAKEUP LOOKS SO GOOD OMG PLSS DO A ROUTINE

  • @annenkoane566
    @annenkoane5663 жыл бұрын

    I love how honest you are... I did pick up that you put Your marriage and husband on a pedestal. I felt guilty about that. I am so happy you are happy. Bless Your heart. You are a strong and brave woman ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ziyandaQA
    @ziyandaQA3 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad you’re doing amazing ❤️

  • @hanaa.3753
    @hanaa.37533 жыл бұрын

    gosh your set up is so beautiful and inviting & the mirror, what a piece ! mA

  • @pennipincha2925
    @pennipincha29253 жыл бұрын

    I admire your honesty and transparency sis.

  • @shaznaakhtar8751
    @shaznaakhtar87513 жыл бұрын

    Love and have so much respect for you 🙏🏽💯🥰 well done for the honesty you always show and being so real 👍🏽

  • @mmnymmny8876
    @mmnymmny88763 жыл бұрын

    Aysha you seem to be in a good and loving place considering all that’s happened. God is good!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @rkai28
    @rkai283 жыл бұрын

    ur lazy sunday video is actually one of my faves. I think positive energy is great ofc but I think it's nice to see the rawness of life, even the low points and being able to relate to that. mashaAllah, really proud of your strength and growth, may allah swt bless u and grant you ease and give u better than what was taken from u ameen

  • @Faith01M
    @Faith01M3 жыл бұрын

    thank you for sharing, sending you love & positivity xx 💕

  • @goldsand
    @goldsand3 жыл бұрын

    Came back to watch again this morning because this talk was mucho needed. I too, got married young (at 27) and now am going through a time of uncertainty within my marriage and it has been daunting on my personal and professional life relationships. What you mentioned about knowing what you both want out of each other is very true. I went in thinking potential will make it. And we have a son 🥲. I pray God continues to bless you and thanks for showing me... it’s okay and life doesn’t just end after a separation/divorce, etc. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @aishaa409

    @aishaa409

    3 жыл бұрын

    You got this❤️❤️🥰

  • @goldsand

    @goldsand

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aishaa409 🥺❤️❤️❤️

  • @salinacuffy6064
    @salinacuffy60643 жыл бұрын

    You are so mature for your age. You didn’t even have to share this with us but thank you for sharing. As someone who is currently going through a heartbreak your words helped me a lot. You truly are rare. May allah bless you forever and ever. 🥺💜✨

  • @hafsathekindhearted9564

    @hafsathekindhearted9564

    3 жыл бұрын

    Use capital A. We u mention Allah.

  • @npnp8989
    @npnp89893 жыл бұрын

    not one to usually comment and love all your stuff. But im proud of how you are handling everything and wish you all the best in self discovery and self love!!! I have a feeling this is going to be your best chapter yet...

  • @NurseAggz
    @NurseAggz3 жыл бұрын

    i just purchased your skincare bundle with biossance. it'll be my first time trying out their products :)

  • @mrsrockbison
    @mrsrockbison3 жыл бұрын

    Good point on age is just a number. Understanding who you are is the most important thing I got into a bad relationship at the age of 30 that due to my inexperience and not knowing what I needed it broke me. If you are 18 or 35 it really makes no difference.

  • @saradigota7201
    @saradigota72013 жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless you for sharing this journey, it makes peoples openup bout their struggles to on learning how to commit and love on their journey makes it much more open cuz its truly something we all gotta deal with (everybodys gotta learn sometime)

  • @harikari973
    @harikari9733 жыл бұрын

    Your home is beautiful!! I was sad to see the video end. Feel like I should sit down for some tea now 😂😂

  • @KennethandJoyce
    @KennethandJoyce3 жыл бұрын

    Mental health is such an important subject and glad you spoke on it

  • @ladyandrews9371
    @ladyandrews93712 жыл бұрын

    I was 27 years old when I experience heart break. I do not have the eloquence of language to describe the pain. But I got through it and healed, we healed. Today we are married with kids and my husband is my best friend. We needed time and maturity and communication to push through. We decided our life together was worth it and we made it. God bless everyone on their journey

  • @marien3795
    @marien37953 жыл бұрын

    Much needed video for me, thanks for that sis 🙏🏽 Love youuuu ❤️❤️

  • @ethioagnogirl3768
    @ethioagnogirl37683 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for your kind advice specially the red flag one. May all good things come towards you!!

  • @sharonprosperity3584
    @sharonprosperity35843 жыл бұрын

    I am going through the toughest time of my life n watching you brings me calm vibes n comfort

  • @unboxingstation3076
    @unboxingstation30763 жыл бұрын

    You are looking amazing Masha Allah! Completely glowing like the full moon xx

  • @hasinjohnson3560
    @hasinjohnson35603 жыл бұрын

    Girl I just signed up🙏🏾 thank you so much for this because I needed someone to talk to badly

  • @AyshaHarun

    @AyshaHarun

    3 жыл бұрын

    💞💞💞

  • @afraababirye
    @afraababirye3 жыл бұрын

    proud that she did this. mashAllah. may god bless you !

  • @haniaz5419
    @haniaz54193 жыл бұрын

    im going through a very rough patch myself with my marriage at a young age, but watching your videos made me relate to you and give me hope. You managed to stay positive and strong after something so difficult, and I really admire you for that 😪

  • @AyshaHarun

    @AyshaHarun

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤍🤍🤍

  • @ZsaiHill
    @ZsaiHill3 жыл бұрын

    Love you so much. Sending love and light and so many blessing I pray for you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @r.h.3968
    @r.h.39683 жыл бұрын

    Dear Aysha, I love you for your sincerity! I pray that Allah (swt) has written for you even better future! I enjoy watching you and I hope that you never stop smiling and succeeding. 🤍

  • @randomehandlenamelol
    @randomehandlenamelol3 жыл бұрын

    Just copped your bundle w/ biossance 😊 excited to try it out 🥰. Also thanks for sharing, I’d actually been feeling a lot of anxiety around marriage, but you just helped me confirm what I’d already been thinking. Like I’m only 22, there’s plenty of time for all that stuff later inshallah. Allahumma Barik ❤️

  • @africanworkshop24
    @africanworkshop243 жыл бұрын

    Proud of you Aysha!!! Onward!

  • @randomhijabi4315
    @randomhijabi43153 жыл бұрын

    Jumped from Shahd to here and I'm happy my faves are uploading‼❤

  • @iychafey696

    @iychafey696

    3 жыл бұрын

    same here

  • @fatimasunusimusa4150

    @fatimasunusimusa4150

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too💃

  • @MAhmed-zs2vp

    @MAhmed-zs2vp

    3 жыл бұрын

    Who's Shahd.

  • @mariamdibba3657

    @mariamdibba3657

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@MAhmed-zs2vp she’s a youtuber and she’s friends with Aysha

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