I’ve heard Deison talk about her past relationship a few different times but I truly needed to hear this today! 🥺 I recently ended an 8 year relationship and it has been such a rollercoaster of emotions. I’m moving back to my home state with my parents soon. I’ve come to the realization that love isn’t enough to keep 2 people together and I couldn’t keep waiting around for improvement and constantly forgiving and moving on going nowhere. It’s just comforting hearing such a similar story and seeing her thrive ❤

@twoidiotgirls

8 ай бұрын

we’re so proud of you for choosing yourself and your happiness! Sending you do much love!

@koco23

7 ай бұрын

good for you, babes!! you should be so proud of yourself! I just went through the same after ending my 4 year (dangerous) relationship & had to move back in with my mama with my tail between my legs so this episode also helped me a lot, but I wanted to tell you that YOUR COMMENT actually helped me so much, as well! thank you so much for sharing! 🩵🩵

@giulianaherrera7775

6 ай бұрын

@@koco23 thank you for replying, hope you’re doing well 🩷🩷

The whole “why is she single vs. why is she with them?!” Is SO REAL. I’ve only had a couple of short relationships (I’m 25) and I’m mostly comfortable with being alone. Part of why I’m okay (now) with my last relationship ending is because I K N O W he didn’t deserve me. Especially not when he was cheating and saying the same things to the girl he’s with now 🧐 Being alone is better than being with an asshole 🤷🏼‍♀️

Deison and Drew knowing about the british icon Alison Hammond is wild

Thank you for validating my thoughts on the finale of Bake Off; Josh and Dan deserved better!

Honestly it was giving eddies million dollar cookoff😭 when he was like nah baking is for chicks! But stays up til 3 am baking at home

WWDITS really picks up around episode 5! I also didn’t really like episodes 2-3 but I kept with it and now it’s one of my fave shows. The season 4 arc is the funniest thing I’ve EVER seen on tv EVER. I Really recommend sticking with it! ❤

@emilyjimenez6521

8 ай бұрын

AGREED!! Deis you really have to try with it because it’s soooo funny. And a lot of viral TikTok sounds originate from that show!!

@taylordawn4202

8 ай бұрын

Literally when we started I was like meh but then I really loved it. My sweet cheese, my rotten soilder, my good time pal. Freaking love Lazlo

@alyxandragideon5343

7 ай бұрын

PLEASE KEEP WATCHING!!!

DEISON TRUST MEEEEEEE the episodes just get BETTER AND BETTER especially after ep 2 of what we do in the shadows. The last season was probably one of the funniest so far but if you get past the first hurdle ITS SO FUN AND FUNNY PLZ GIVE IT ANOTHER SHOT you can even skip around episodes

STOP THE TONGUE SHAKING LAUGH WAS REALLY SCARY LMAOOOO

Keep watching What we do in the shadows! Don’t give up yet 😭

Deison! You have to get thru the first season of What We Do In The Shadows!!! The rest is amazing… you will fall in love with it. Also, I’m not sure if you watched Our Flag Means Death, but it’s also very good! Lots of great, queer characters in both shows - different forms of humour though

"panda express" "knock it offfff" 😭😂😭😭 I'm CRYING 😭😂 We love y'all and Pili

The part about being jealous when your partner gets hit on, I could cry dude. I always thought to myself how I would love for Drew to answer that EXACT question because I knew she’d have amazing insight. I have an objectively good looking partner and he constantly gets hit on/ stared at etc etc and I cannot help it but feel so insecure and jealous every time it happens EVEN THOUGH he doesn’t retaliate and is very reassuring. Thank you for answering that Drew and Deis 😭

deison sliding in the “hahah…. yup!” meme 🤣🤣🤣

Thank you kindly,guys! Been feeling moody and needy of love lately,reminiscing about a guy who literally didn’t care if I live or die, but having heeded to your words of wisdom have just brought me back to sanity and self-validation ❤

the way i was boutta gts and saw the notification... ugh i love it here

School of Rock reference 😂 love it!

yall need to watch the great pottery throw down i swears its as good as the great british bake off, i recommend the newest season!!!!!

Have never been this on time before! Love it!!!!

love love love that I was just thinking I need a dating q&a from you two!! currently trying to figure out how to sort through the trash & needed to hear the "i rather be single"

You need to keep up with What We Do In The Shadows! I just finished season 5 and it's so good!

What we do in the shadows is one of my fave showsss!! It's so funny

This get to know you questions game sounds really interesting! I'm always running out of convo starters with my husband 😆

u guys have no idea how much i needed this rn (just had a breakup)

Just came from an old patreon episode I was watching to watch the new episode 😋

🎉🎉🎉🎉 so excited to be on time for ONCE

highlight of my week fr

Drew dropped some truth BOMBS 💣 😮 ❤ You’re so smart ily!!

love yall happy Tuesday ❤

I also had a really hard time getting through the beginning of What We Do In The Shadows, but I pushed through a little and it was so worth it. It's so funny and probably my favorite show. The writing, character development, set design, costuming, all go crazy. Also, all of the characters are queer and I love that.

“It’s a beauty contest, they weren’t even listening to the music” - Jack Black (School of Rock)

@twoidiotgirls

8 ай бұрын

EXACTLY

Share the almost getting on wife swap story please!!!

Omg hii I’m so excited to watch.

best advice/pep talk I needed as a struggling with confidence & self lesbian.. thanks girls

Dog name…. Quigley 🩷🫶🏻

I listened to this episode already but I had to come back just to comment this: Keep watching What We Do in the Shadows bby girllll I swear it took me forever to actually get into it too and I thought it was so boring but now it’s one of those shows I wish I could watch again for the first time😭 the storyline gets so interesting and it just gets funnier and funnier PUSH THROUGHHH😩

Deison please keep watching What We Do In The Shadows it’s so good 😭

Someone Great is another great breakup movie about self love and friend love !!

@maizyday

8 ай бұрын

UGH SUCH A GOOD MOVIE DUDE

@ffiontill5924

8 ай бұрын

Love this film!!

OMG SOMEONE ELSE WHO WATCHES WHAT WE DO IN THE SHADOWS!!! Please keep watching it’s so funny!!! It has some mundane parts but it’s good i swear! My boyfriend and I watched it all the way to the current season🤪

40:48 dropping knowledge Drew 😳😳😳 heavy hitters right there 😮

Keep going with WWDITS! Such a special show! Just a slower start

Almost just spit out my food giggling in a Jimmy John’s when you said “of course people are gonna be like A-CHA-CHA when they see him” 😂😭

Drew’s stare this time seemed to startle her as well ;)

literally just got ghosted by a guy who told me he wanted to be in a relationship with me and i found out via insta stories when he posted a video of a girl :)) needed this episdoe BADDDDD esp the piece of advice abt being the "how is she still single?" girl. literally love and adore yall sm

Omggg no What We do In The Shadows is sooo good Just try a push through lol I promise it gets better

45:57 yooooo and !! If your partner is into being hit on by other people like that? You are NOT jealous. That’s not what you are. You love loving them, they just love being loved - doesn’t matter by who - you are not the problem - just puttin that out there

“Hold on I got a kkk member” DREWWWW 😂😂😂

The Shadows show is pretty good. There were a few episodes that weren’t as amazing at the beginning but it gets really good. Not sure about the end, but throughout it’s jokes. A good garden and watch show.

I think some people who have been hurt in relationships seek it subconsciously because it's what they know and it can be comforting even though it isn't healthy. And when someone that would be better for them comes along, they aren't as desirable because they don't know how to accept being loved in a healthy way

I’ve watched one episode of great British bake off and I couldn’t finish it because I thought they were unnecessary rude and targeting then I watched it again sober and it wasn’t that bad

@twoidiotgirls

8 ай бұрын

LMAO SO REAL

I feel like I just got a free therapy session...those were some GOOD answers

UM LMAO I LITERALLY THOT DEISON WAS ONLY WEARING A TSHIRT IN THE BEGINNING

QUEENSSS❤❤❤AND I AGREE with THE MATTY THINGS HE SHOULD'T HAVE WIN IF HE INTERNALIZED THIS MIND OF BAKING IS EMBARRASING FOR A mALe like whattttttttttttt ewwww WHY ARE YOU HERE THEN???? so annoying RIGGED AND ALLISON QUEEN Okay i finished the video that was so good

If you could only watch one show what would it be? GBBO or modern family? Also what’s your opinion on Hayley’s story line?

NOT DREW QUOTING DR UMAR!!! 😂

Idk if I agree with the jealousy thing. In my experience dating men, it has everything to do with the guy you’re with. If he was a piece of shit, and got hit on all the time, then I would always get jealous and worry he was going to cheat. If he was a good guy that got hit on, that fear or jealousy wouldn’t be much of an issue. It’s not a *you* issue. If you have a partner that creates trust and safety with you, it isn’t as worrisome

This episode had no business being so deep😭 every response felt like a personal attack lmao

Me rewinding the video because I missed the stare off with Drew 🫨

Feeling uncomfortable being labeled feminine or gay because of a hobby they enjoy does not make someone homophobic…. If anything it’s internalized misogyny, not homophobia…..Unlearning harmful stereotypes we’ve all been socialized from birth to believe is a process and seeing someone learn to shed those labels and become more comfortable in their own self is a positive thing imo

I just had islands for the first time last week! Food 10/10! Surprised how many ⚪️ ppl were there, our group added all the color, except for like one or two servers. 😅

Hellloooo besties

I wanted to get Were Not Really Strangers! But shit nvm lmao

@twoidiotgirls

8 ай бұрын

you should get it! Just maybe not for a first date lol

Yall I was GAGGED Josh didn’t win!! I didn’t want him to but I figured he would because of how good he was!!

about the pili story the same thing happened to me at a drive thru 😭😭 the man winked at me and I drove off so fast and left my card

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind was my break up movie

STICK WITH WHAT YOU DO IN THE SHADOWS IT GETS 10000X BETTER IT'S SO FUNNY

YAYYY

“Why do you think love needs to hurt for it to be real?”- im gonna throw up

I work at a Red robin In rancho aka the IE i used to be a huge fan too till i worked there probs cuz im tired of it lol but i would love to see you two / you and your fams at work ❤

Deison you have to watch what we do in shadows under the influence 🍃

Wait they only win a pan in great British bake off??

I feel Pili on the feeling uncomfortable being hit on. Most of the time, I'm too oblivious to notice. But when I do, I never know how to respond and sometimes feel a lil uncomfortable

deisons dog looks like a winston or winny, close to willy !

you guys saying patreoners instead of patrons kills me every time 😭😭

@twoidiotgirls

8 ай бұрын

patreoners = cool, effortless, hot AND sexy, great credit score patrons = just okay, not as exciting, played out

"wooooo 👁️👁️" 🎉

firmly believe in my heart tasha deserved to win. her flavors! her finesse! we need more transparency about their decisions bc i do not trust two yt ppl to be objective 👀

before you could spoil i paused and watched the finale

@twoidiotgirls

8 ай бұрын

annnnddddd??? What were your thoughts 👀

"why do you think love needs to hurt in order for it to be real?" drew STOPPP 🤚🏻

90 days? A year after being utterly betrayed I’m still so fucking heart broken. I’ve started trying to date again and everyone fucking sucks like idk what to do

Guys watch the UK version of "what we do in the shadows" not the USA one

Wild that he's embarrassed for having baking as a hobby and then he goes on a popular television show where your baking skills are tested...

oop early on accident but i think its a sign

whenever it says “not political” immediately no because how lucky are you to just get to not care lmao

I feel so validated by this GBBO conversation. The finale was such a letdown. JUSTICE FOR JOSH!!!!

Fuckkk yall got me crying talking about deis’ ex experience. “Your person wouldn’t make you feel like that, your person wouldn’t leave” ugh I felt that in my soul 😭

@twoidiotgirls

8 ай бұрын

🩷🩷🩷

I was too charmed by Matty to notice the internalized homophobia. Drew clocked the tea real quick

I would argue not only was Josh cheated but so was his precious Nan!

@twoidiotgirls

8 ай бұрын

I KNOW THATS RIGHT

I’m shocked that Deison doesn’t love WWDITS, it’s a show about goofy ass queer vampires and yeah Colin is the least likeable character but if you see this, you should give it another shot. The first season is the least exciting, but it picks up (the case with most shows I think) and seasons 2-4 fucking hit. I would just eat it up if these two talked about it, in my humble opinion Taika Waititi is one of the funniest bitches alive and him and Jemaine Clement did the movie and show for WWDITS and goddamn there’s some banger bits in there

Re: differing in political ideologies in a relationship, it’s a massive fkn no-go for me. We can disagree on small things like pineapple on fkn pizza but if you as a full fledged adult don’t agree marginalized people deserve rights you’re simply an awful person.

Lahaina 🥰

@twoidiotgirls

8 ай бұрын

Amber we’ve posted and talked about Lahaina several times on our own platforms and have continued to do so. We’ve also donated our own money to organizations that help aid the people affected by the fires.

“I feel like there is a larger message at play if you are chasing people that you know it won’t work out with, like that’s a you thing. You must have a fear of commitment for some extent.” OKAY QUIET DOWN DREW

What’s funny is I was with someone who was a hardcore republican but was bi with two moms…does it make sense? No.

Earlyyy✨🤎

God that rule for no dating for girls in a Samoan household 😫😒😂

DAMN - Drew just read me for filth on the queer people getting over crushes on straight people

If you don't want to know anything about the new British Baking Show skip to 18:00 my guy

TASHA SHOULD’VE WON. There. I said it.

NOOOO keep watching What We Do in the Shadows!!!!!!! It takes like five eps and then you are obssessed

I don’t think a person discovers there gay. I think Daison fully knew the moment the hormones in her body started working just like the rest of us . Her “boy crazy “ faze was obviously her masking it. Saying she discovered she’s gay in college I don’t think is true. Sexuality isn’t a choice . We’re just attracted to what we’re attracted to. It isn’t taught. Of course we are taught should be most desired. But those society rules were instilled by a shity dead white men. Now someone who’s bisexual might be more of a different situation though again I think it’s pretty obvious it looking at an attractive man turns you on and looking at a woman turns you on than I think it’s pretty case closed that ur bi with out “discovering “ it when acting on it for the first time. I’m straight and no one taught me to be attracted to men I just was. You just feel the tingle … 😂

@twoidiotgirls

8 ай бұрын

I think for every gay person, their journey to learning who they are is completely individual and not at all the same for everyone of course! For me, I didn’t realize I was gay until I was surrounded by so many openly proud and queer women and met the one person who made me realize I was gay. If I never met her, I’m sure it would’ve been another girl because I was always meant to be gay because that’s who I am. I can confidently say that neither of us believe sexuality is a choice, it’s just who you are. For me I’ve always pondered how I could’ve realized I was gay sooner! I know that’s not the case for everyone.

The way y’all skipped over the fact your family was almost on wife swap?????????

Yoooo drew and deis like this comment if you