American Family Meets Japanese In-Laws for the 1st Time

How do Japanese in-laws feel about their kids marrying foreigners? My mom came all the way from America to meet my husband's family in Tokyo for the first time. Will they all get along?
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  • @OrientalPearl
    @OrientalPearl Жыл бұрын

    PLEASE SUBSCRIBE and if you haven't seen it yet here's the very 1st video with my in-laws: kzread.info/dash/bejne/q4aBr6mIZsvZaLg.html

  • @SaultoPaul

    @SaultoPaul

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome 🙏 gtsy ❤❤

  • @janaaj1an889

    @janaaj1an889

    Жыл бұрын

    You're quite mad, but a lot of fun to watch. This is a pretty extreme cultural difference to work out. How is Tommy doing with all of this. Cool guy.

  • @hibikigamervlogs2982

    @hibikigamervlogs2982

    Жыл бұрын

    We love ❤️ you I’m really happy for you and your husband your mom visiting your Japanese family in law’s you really look amazing spending a quality time with your family and we love you very much always cherish those happy loving memories with your husband your mom your Japanese family in laws we love you very much we hope all of you stay safe

  • @philipwong9865

    @philipwong9865

    Жыл бұрын

    This is so sweet and touching seeing your wonderful family.

  • @vivalavida173

    @vivalavida173

    Жыл бұрын

    Were you in Tokorozawa?! You took laview !!!

  • @aprili.3802
    @aprili.3802 Жыл бұрын

    Your mom and in-laws efforts to speak each other’s languages to each other was so sweet and heartwarming 🥰

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I was so proud of them.

  • @aichabenloulou4465

    @aichabenloulou4465

    Жыл бұрын

    @@OrientalPearl the most thing i love about japan is the way how they respect each others respect is what made me to look after japanese culture for four years such a fun and lovelly vlog

  • @latmaniussef

    @latmaniussef

    Жыл бұрын

    Very very nice people!

  • @FC-OTHER

    @FC-OTHER

    Жыл бұрын

    @@latmaniussef true

  • @_isabelloureiro

    @_isabelloureiro

    Жыл бұрын

    It didn't even make me cry or anything 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹😭😭😭😭😭💖💖💖💖💖

  • @jackpatterson7110
    @jackpatterson7110 Жыл бұрын

    I loved the relief in Tommy's parent's faces when they saw she put some effort into learning Japanese, and seeing that they learned some English was really heartwarming. It looked like such fun, I love it 😭😭

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jack. A little bit of Japanese goes a long way.

  • @soonersciencenerd383

    @soonersciencenerd383

    Жыл бұрын

    e-a-go-gah (english),,,, ni-hin-go-gah (japanese)

  • @spateri728

    @spateri728

    Жыл бұрын

    That was beautiful, thank you for sharing the mixture of cultures and meeting the in laws so to speak. 🙏

  • @specialk9999
    @specialk9999 Жыл бұрын

    My American mom had to learn a lot of things and take Japanese cooking classes before she married my Japanese dad. She knows how stressful in can be to meet Japanese in laws. Glad it went well for your mom.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Ha ha, an here I still haven’t gotten cooking down.

  • @specialk9999

    @specialk9999

    Жыл бұрын

    @@OrientalPearl it takes time to get the cooking down. The cooking might not matter as much these days. It was the late 60s when my mom had to do that.

  • @isaac3000

    @isaac3000

    Жыл бұрын

    So cute!

  • @szewei85

    @szewei85

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha nice

  • @JJJ-bx4ky

    @JJJ-bx4ky

    Жыл бұрын

    日本の文化は独特すぎるから外国人からしたらめんどいよな

  • @micke5735
    @micke5735 Жыл бұрын

    I really like Tommy's dad, he seems like a nice guy. I know from experience that older Japanese men tend to have difficulty expressing their feelings, so it kinda warms my heart seeing how open minded and welcoming he is.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, they were so kind!

  • @CleverGirlAAH

    @CleverGirlAAH

    Жыл бұрын

    Goes to show, embarrassing your wife and children is universal though. ;D

  • @janswhatsupdoc
    @janswhatsupdoc Жыл бұрын

    that was just wholesome and how both parents were willing to learn each others language (even if limited) to communicate was nice

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! More wholesome content coming up.

  • @janswhatsupdoc

    @janswhatsupdoc

    Жыл бұрын

    @@OrientalPearl im also curious how your Chinese is I can imagine finding opportunities to speak it can be hard

  • @brunoallen7367
    @brunoallen7367 Жыл бұрын

    Tommys parents are extra nice to let you film them looks like everybody had fun

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes they are the coolest.

  • @camerongreco2146
    @camerongreco2146 Жыл бұрын

    That's really cool your mother came all the way to Japan! I was expecting more awkwardness but it went well in my opinion. That was an exceptional amount of Japanese your mom used and his parents they did pretty well with their english too.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I was really impressed that his dad knew so much.

  • @camerongreco2146

    @camerongreco2146

    Жыл бұрын

    @@OrientalPearl 100% agree. Welcome back to the states by the way!

  • @TheSubset8
    @TheSubset8 Жыл бұрын

    I dated a Japanese girl and I was lucky enough to go to Japan and meet her lovely parents. She also came to my house and met my parents many times. Unfortunately our parents never got the chance to meet but I think it would have been an amazing experience had they been able to. We are broken up now but those memories live fondly in my heart. This video made me happy 😊 ❤️ blessings to you guys. I wish you a long and prosperous marriage and life together.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story Brandon.

  • @ko-Daegu

    @ko-Daegu

    Жыл бұрын

    why broke up then ??

  • @rowbodigital8113

    @rowbodigital8113

    Жыл бұрын

    @Fernando R wtf😭

  • @qzetu

    @qzetu

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@ko-Daegu probably because he refused to sit down and pee.

  • @prototypekev1347
    @prototypekev1347 Жыл бұрын

    My wife is Japanese I met her parents for the first time in 2006. They have always been very accepting of me. Even with our 10 year age difference. I am younger. I have always hugged them every time I’ve seen them over the years. Glad things went well with you 🎉

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s so awesome. I’m really glad to hear that.

  • @bamdingayan3906

    @bamdingayan3906

    Жыл бұрын

    😍😍😍

  • @monimonica9529

    @monimonica9529

    Жыл бұрын

    Prototype, nice gesture of them to welcome your Hugs. A milestone. Kind Regards (March 3 2023, Argentina)

  • @gham5586
    @gham5586 Жыл бұрын

    Your mom rocks, to me, she’s looks like your older sister!❤️

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Ha ha, she’ll be happy you said that.

  • @stevekollen1672

    @stevekollen1672

    Жыл бұрын

    @@OrientalPearl Tell her I second that. She has nothing to worry about age wise.

  • @victoryhalberg1254

    @victoryhalberg1254

    Жыл бұрын

    I just wanted to write the same.

  • @slimytoad1447
    @slimytoad1447 Жыл бұрын

    My wife is malaysian chinese and i'm a brit. Unfortunately my mum and dad in law passed years ago luckily my wife has 14 siblings,i've learnt some malay and hokkien and learnt chinese culture,they really are the most sociable people

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s so cool that you’ve studying those languages.

  • @lawtraf8008

    @lawtraf8008

    Жыл бұрын

    I live in Malaysia

  • @Tokyo1889

    @Tokyo1889

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope you take no offense to this but your mother in law was amazing if she gave birth to 15.

  • @slimytoad1447

    @slimytoad1447

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Tokyo1889 and they adopted 2 street kids too! My irish father was one of 14 ,im one of 7

  • @monimonica9529

    @monimonica9529

    Жыл бұрын

    Long Live to the ☘️Irish Heritage! (from just an admirer of Irish Culture) (March, 3 2023, Argentina)

  • @breezeh1127
    @breezeh1127 Жыл бұрын

    I actually cried when your mom spoke to them for the first time in Japanese and they were so happy they clapped.🥺🥰 It was like a wonderful mix of two worlds, full of love and respect. 💜💜💜 **cried even harder when Tommy's mom spoke in English. So much love and connecting here.💞

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Awww, that’s so sweet that it made you tear up. Thank you Breeze 😊 I always appreciate your comments.

  • @StephenTruxton
    @StephenTruxton Жыл бұрын

    Oh gosh, seeing your father-in-law walk you to the train reminded me of my visit in ‘87. A bank manager walked me to his bank so I could change $ and then walked me to the train station and helped me buy a ticket.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww, that’s so sweet and you weren’t even related to them.

  • @monimonica9529

    @monimonica9529

    Жыл бұрын

    Stephen, that was Kind of him. I'd thought that a Bank Manager wouldn't have "time" and/or will for it. (Mar. 3 2023, Argentina)

  • @dwrabauke
    @dwrabauke Жыл бұрын

    I really like how you made the effort to make sure nobody would be too embarassed and could enjoy the meeting. As far as I know, japanese are well aware of how difficult their culture can be for foreigners and they tolerate a lot, but teaching your mom things surely helped her to feel more comfortable before meeting your in-laws and also "break the ice" faster and more easily when they realize she knows a lot more than they would expect from a foreign person. Your thoughtfulness is really wholesome and should be an example of how to behave when dealing with different cultures. It makes things so much easier when you embrace the differences and try to learn about each other.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww, thank you for your nice comment. I tried to teach my mom a little Japanese before she came too.

  • @pinecrossing1200
    @pinecrossing1200 Жыл бұрын

    When they all clapped when she said she can understand a little was the best. Both sides taking the time to learn each other's language even if limited was so great, and reflected one of your points you often talk about, learning a little can open new doors. You and your mom looked so happy!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate that they took the effort to learn to talk to eachother.

  • @majajackson777
    @majajackson777 Жыл бұрын

    Your videos are so real and "normal" compared to most of the other travel/language channels out there. That's why I love them! Thanks for letting us be part of your (and your family's) interesting life! Greetings from Germany! 🙂🌻

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. I’m glad that you like this style.

  • @englishrose4388
    @englishrose43886 ай бұрын

    That both your mom and your in-laws worked to learn each other’s language says a lot. ❤ Your father in law is charming.

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 Жыл бұрын

    We all admire how well you bond and connect as a family. May God bless you all.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Sophia!

  • @dapushka3355
    @dapushka3355 Жыл бұрын

    I just loved seeing everyone gather. Very special times. People are so polite in Japan. I crave some kindness, and Japan is on my bucket list.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope you get the chance to visit!

  • @NomoBox
    @NomoBox Жыл бұрын

    This is so wholesome 😭 ! Omg I would've been so stressed with the language barrier

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    My mom did really well.

  • @sherigalvez3658
    @sherigalvez3658 Жыл бұрын

    Y’all are so cute ! Tommy’s parents are so sweet and gracious. I love how playful the dad is ! I guess like any other ignorant American, I always thought of the Asian culture as, generally speaking, rather serious folks !🤷‍♀️😁 what a wonderful trip for your mom !!! I can’t wait for part 2, to see what Tommy thinks of America. Thanks so much for your great videos. I’m going to Vietnam in April for the first time. I can’t speak a word of Vietnamese but I’m so excited to go. Keep the videos coming ! I always love to see what you’re up to !

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Tommy's dad is so funny. It's always fun to be around them. Enjoy Vietnam!

  • @sonnenblumefrau2048

    @sonnenblumefrau2048

    Жыл бұрын

    It's kind of like most think Germans are serious lol. My Oma and Opa were proof Germans can be funny and welcoming as well.

  • @sknap2728

    @sknap2728

    Жыл бұрын

    Definitely try to learn some words prior to ur trip. I practiced Hungarian prior to a trip there 30 years ago and it was very beneficial. I think everyone appreciates when a foreigner tries to learn the native language.

  • @sherigalvez3658

    @sherigalvez3658

    Жыл бұрын

    Ok, it seems impossible but I will try to learn some Vietnamese. You’re right, I should at least be able to utter a proper greeting once I get there. Thanks for the encouragement !

  • @RightCenterBack321

    @RightCenterBack321

    Жыл бұрын

    "I guess like any other ignorant American" Speak for yourself.

  • @joergdanne5222
    @joergdanne5222 Жыл бұрын

    When I travelled to Japan many years ago a young Japanese lady was sitting besides me in the plane. She told me that I must be able to use chopsticks in Japan. So she just exchanged the food: She took my western food, gave me her Japanese food and taught me how to use the chopsticks. When we arrived in Japan after this long distance flight, I had my lesson learned - thanks to this lady!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome that she taught you how to use chopsticks!

  • @big120treez

    @big120treez

    Жыл бұрын

    Great story. 🍜💜 thank you for sharing

  • @lordvader5560
    @lordvader5560 Жыл бұрын

    That's so cool that your husband is going to experience America for the first time. I'm so for both of you and hope that you two have a blast in the best state in the lower 48!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! It should be a wonderful trip.

  • @micgant
    @micgant Жыл бұрын

    Tommy’s parents are so cool ❤❤❤❤

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree completly.

  • @HouseMDaddict

    @HouseMDaddict

    Жыл бұрын

    No joke! Like omg they're so "down to earth" and playful. I loved how his parents gushed and were genuinely so excited to meet her mom.

  • @BudgetwithMoo
    @BudgetwithMoo Жыл бұрын

    Tommy's dad seeing you all off on the train was so cute 🥰🥰 what a beautiful meeting. Such a beautiful kind family all of you. So honoured to be able to witness this thank you 🥰

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    That was so sweet of him.

  • @Fryzzi
    @Fryzzi Жыл бұрын

    I love the hug scene, she was like: „wait, put away the Flowers, stop bowing and gimme a hug finally!" so good xD

  • @RejectedJedi
    @RejectedJedi Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your videos! My parents can't travel anymore but I still wish they could meet my in-laws.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for following our crazy adventures.

  • @vatrhobby
    @vatrhobby Жыл бұрын

    Your mom looks so young!! The parents meeting from different cultures is very interesting to see.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m glad you enjoyed the video. More to come!

  • @pirththee
    @pirththee Жыл бұрын

    Well that wasn't too awkward considering the circumstances.. Both sets of parents handled it well. Good people. Loved the deer. I'd love to hear your husbands first impressions of the US and whether or not it matched his expectations.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I can't wait to show you his video in America.

  • @anz7514
    @anz7514 Жыл бұрын

    Such a wholesome video, Tommy's dad seeing you off at the station really melted my heart haha 🥰 Lovely to see how both cultures can connect, all you need is to be willing to understand the other 💓 Can't wait to see how Tommy's first trip to the US goes!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm glad that you watched to the end to see that part.

  • @basementofsomeone
    @basementofsomeone Жыл бұрын

    I love how your parents try to communicate with each other. Also the last sentence of this video made me laugh so much

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Leni. They were so sweet.

  • @bridget6
    @bridget6 Жыл бұрын

    It was so sweet seeing both families take effort to learn something in the other language ❤

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m proud of them all.

  • @cherylc3679
    @cherylc3679 Жыл бұрын

    I am so glad that your mother got to visit Japan. She looked so happy to see you and it was so nice that she learned some Japanese and your father in law learned some English. I hope your husband has a good time in America.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    So far we’ve been having a great time in America.

  • @samrutster
    @samrutster Жыл бұрын

    I love Tommy’s parents!! It was the icing on the cake to see your father in law ask for a hug! Sweet and wonderful video! You guys make such an awesome couple!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, I thought it was so sweet that they gave him a hug.

  • @swift.l
    @swift.l Жыл бұрын

    I love different culture

  • @TheworldiseffdUP
    @TheworldiseffdUP Жыл бұрын

    OMG.....this was such a wonderful video Anming!!!! Your and Tommy's personalities give so much joy to your followers...you are the nucleus to both of your family's union. You have so much to show Tommy about America, what a wonderful full life you two have ahead of you. Your inlaws seem very happy to interact with your mom, and your mom with your inlaws, how wonderful!!! I am so happy for you, and I can't wait to see videos of Tommy in America. You ROCK GIRL!!! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I really appreciate all your kind words.

  • @TheworldiseffdUP

    @TheworldiseffdUP

    Жыл бұрын

    @@OrientalPearl Well deserved, you are a wonderful person!

  • @Greensky02
    @Greensky02 Жыл бұрын

    You and Tommy are a great couple! It's good to see two families of different cultures getting along so well! That's how it should be 😁

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. We had a wonderful time.

  • @JAK_EDITS.
    @JAK_EDITS. Жыл бұрын

    unreal wholesome. I was so shook by your moms confidence in her Japanese sentence,- but then stunned at how much English his dad had learned as well, LOL

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    They both made me proud.

  • @andreiamendes9116
    @andreiamendes9116 Жыл бұрын

    The moment when your husband keeps bowing and you Mom gives him a big good warm American hug! 🤣😂🙏 Heartwarming is the word for the whole video ❤️ Good luck and many blessings, dear.

  • @whushaw
    @whushaw Жыл бұрын

    It's great to see another video! I hope you've been well. Your mom is just like you. Both have a great sense of humor. The deer of Nara reminded me of a dog trying to eat your homework. The shock of suprise meeting the in-laws when your mom spoke Japanese was priceless. It was definitely the perfect way to break the ice. Parents embarrassing there children as usual, what a good time! LOL It went excellent I think, the fact he hugged her goodbye was priceless! To be continued... This J-Drama is getting intense. I want to binge watch all the episodes right now!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    The funny thing is that I’ve seen deer trying to eat paper there before. I bet they would eat homework.

  • @spookasum_8094
    @spookasum_8094 Жыл бұрын

    AAAAHH THIS WAS SO SWEET, kinda thought it was going to be a bit awkward at first but the whole vibe of this video was very wholesome and welcoming, thank you for sharing your experience 😊✨😎🤩

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I’m glad everything went smoothly.

  • @jerometsowinghuen
    @jerometsowinghuen Жыл бұрын

    Your mother is so kind and heartwarming to meet your in-laws/his parents, Miss Alyssa, even though she is still learning how to speak Japanese.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Jerome. You’re one of the biggest supporters of this channel.

  • @stevekollen1672
    @stevekollen1672 Жыл бұрын

    I made a comment on your channel from a time back about a time in the late 70s of when my roomie and I were in Japan in OgakiGifu visiting the parents of our college dorm-mate (Japanese) when I was in college in Ashland, Oregon. I made a comment about the neighbor farm ladies in Ogaki pulling my eyelids down to check out the colors of my pupils. I can't believe it has been so long. Anyhow, my point today is that it's so nice to see people today living in Japan who don't surprise me. I had a similar experience with my roommate's unmet fiance's parents in Japan (long story). Their daughter was in the US and invited me and my roommate from Ogaki living in Oregon to visit them while we were on our way driving through her home while we were driving along the North Sea. Their hospitality and joviality was boundless. It made me chuckle and feel warm and sure sent the memories shooting back.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing another story Steve.

  • @katski6143
    @katski6143 Жыл бұрын

    Your mom at the airport was like, Enough with the bowing, Give me a hug! LoL I love it 🫂

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I never got a hug lol

  • @HouseMDaddict
    @HouseMDaddict Жыл бұрын

    Your mom must be protected at all costs with how precious she is. I loved when she met your husband and got sick of the nodding and just threw her arms around him 😂

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, it was nice to see them finally meet.

  • @gaganbajwa4331
    @gaganbajwa4331 Жыл бұрын

    They were seem so happy to meet each other 🧡 I were affectionalety waiting for this video and wants to see their reactions 🌷🌷

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    You’re going to love the next video when Tommy comes to America.

  • @warxtimez
    @warxtimez Жыл бұрын

    The fact that both parents learnt each others language goes to show how important that meeting was for them. Grear video.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so proud of them.

  • @1Crazyguitarist1
    @1Crazyguitarist1 Жыл бұрын

    From all the videos with your in-laws , tommy's parent's seem so nice , I'm glad you married to a happy and loving family like that. I wish you ,your husband and your families all the happiness you can get.

  • @roxas896
    @roxas896 Жыл бұрын

    That was a great video. Your mother is so cute! What a nice holiday in Japan for her. Hope you enjoy your visit back in America. I can’t wait to see the continuation, part 2. thank you for sharing🙋🏾‍♀️.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Roxa. I really appreciate that you always support the channel.

  • @roxas896

    @roxas896

    Жыл бұрын

    @messagemeontelegramagadmat3589 Hi 🙋🏾‍♀️, tee hee. How are you 😃!

  • @sowmyashree6849
    @sowmyashree6849 Жыл бұрын

    💕That was just amazing Anming 😍👍👏👏. Your mother is so adorable 😊🤗. Such a sweet smile ☺️👍 and they way she takes things in a positive way with a laugh is inspiring😍👍. Hope the bond between the new family stay strong and grow stronger each year 😊🙏😇. 💕Like always ✨stay you ❤️Be You✨ Anming 😍🤗💕

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much 😀 Awww I'm so happy that you liked our family video so much.

  • @sowmyashree6849

    @sowmyashree6849

    Жыл бұрын

    @@OrientalPearl I sure did 😍❤️💕🤗👍... Please continue making such amazing videos 😊🤗

  • @none1704
    @none1704 Жыл бұрын

    Omg they're all so sweet. This is what family should look like 🥰

  • @paigeajamieson
    @paigeajamieson8 ай бұрын

    This is so sweet and wholesome. It just makes me melt ❤

  • @Orblinkluv
    @Orblinkluv Жыл бұрын

    Omg I've been waiting for this!!!! Thank you so much for sharing these moments with your family with us. It helps those of us that are curious about other cultures so much - and it's incredibly wholesome!!!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad that you finally got to see this video 😊

  • @AniGrannyOG
    @AniGrannyOG Жыл бұрын

    So freaking wholesome 💛 You look so happy! Watching your mom interact with your in-laws was amazing and I was smiling the whole time! Her Japanese is getting so good already! She seems pretty motivated 😊 Now that the borders are open again, she must be pretty stoked to go back soon, even though she was just there. I can't wait to see the next video of you guys in the US! おめでとう!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope she keeps on going with studying Japanese.

  • @hanonhold
    @hanonhold2 ай бұрын

    I had a huge smile on my face the whole time watching this. What a lovely family 😊 So nice to see people from different cultures making an effort to understand and respect each other.

  • @ilikesalt7245
    @ilikesalt72452 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed your speaking native languages so much, Japanese, Chinese...that I did not realize what a goldmine you had in past videos. Loved meeting your families on older videos like this one.

  • @frank_vegas56
    @frank_vegas56 Жыл бұрын

    So heartwarming and wholesome. I could tell everyone enjoyed meeting and getting to know each other. I loved the outing to feed the deer. I’ve never seen anyone get goosed by a deer before. That was cute. Welcome back to the US! Have a safe and fun visit.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey Frank! Nice to see you back. The US has been great so far. I’ll be here through the holidays.

  • @RespectOthers1
    @RespectOthers1 Жыл бұрын

    Your Mum: “Travelling to a foreign country and get trained like the Karate Kid was hard work and embarrassing at times. But to make Anming so happy and also gain such a wonderful son-in-law I was willing to do even more.” :D

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you old friend! I’m so glad that you always get to see these videos right when they come out.

  • @paecpc
    @paecpc Жыл бұрын

    Your mum is a sweet lady, and your father-in-law was welcoming you and your mum with open arms! Nice family

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so lucky to have them.

  • @tiffinyanderson4403
    @tiffinyanderson4403 Жыл бұрын

    I watched this entire video with a smile. That’s culture shock on every side. But awesome that both sides are welcoming and trying to learn about each other’s language and culture.

  • @Howard007
    @Howard007 Жыл бұрын

    I really loved this video and you all are such good people!!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww, I’m so glad to hear that!

  • @DLDX
    @DLDX Жыл бұрын

    I'm almost done catching up on all of the previous videos from this channel. Keep up the great work. Can't wait to see the American episodes!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Hank you David. I hope you enjoy all 135 videos!

  • @Kanjicafe
    @Kanjicafe Жыл бұрын

    LOVE this!!! Your mom did so great with Japanese!! I was so surprised when she said 娘!

  • @user-cb8ig4ir5i
    @user-cb8ig4ir5iАй бұрын

    Very warm-hearted parents, I would treat them the same always. And I love the part with the globe coming to the table, simple and priceless, somethings do stay the same through generations. You guys are wealthy abundant of love and affection.

  • @W4EMB
    @W4EMB Жыл бұрын

    Does anyone else get sore cheeks from smiling thru these videos?

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww that’s so sweet of you Ed.

  • @W4EMB

    @W4EMB

    Жыл бұрын

    @@OrientalPearl // Anming, for real, it is such a break from news, and drama TV to watch your videos. They are a real treat. Congrats on all the Subs! I hope the weather cooperates with your whole visit. Have fun!

  • @gamingtrickshots2661
    @gamingtrickshots2661 Жыл бұрын

    It’s so nice to see everyone get along, and I love your videos! Can’t wait to see the America vid, and keep up the great work! =)

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ll try to get it finished up by next week 😊

  • @vfxraven_19
    @vfxraven_19 Жыл бұрын

    Glad your Mom had such a wonderful time! The deer scene was hilarious! lol Can't wait for Tommy's USA experience.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m glad we caught that deer scene on camera.

  • @1nioki
    @1nioki11 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this intimate moment with us! I am so glad that your families can be together harmoniously

  • @jorluo
    @jorluo Жыл бұрын

    Tommy's dad seems to be really funny, the opposite of formal or pompous.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    He’s a really cool guy.

  • @maxico5778
    @maxico5778 Жыл бұрын

    6:26 got me laughing! Basically how my parents are 😂

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Gotta love it lol

  • @user-cl7ut9mj9l
    @user-cl7ut9mj9l Жыл бұрын

    Now you made me Cry. I havent seen my mom for 12 years. Now i just Devorce, because im learning Japanese, i will visite Her. I'll do my best. I'dlike to see your Parents again wen you and Tommy present them the first 赤ちゃん。 👍👍👍👍

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Ha ha, that will be a long time from now lol

  • @MarkoVukovic0
    @MarkoVukovic0 Жыл бұрын

    This is really wholesome and so sweet, thank you for sharing!

  • @ricotreaue4730
    @ricotreaue4730 Жыл бұрын

    OMG! I'm going to Phoenix Arizona tomorrow! Where are you Pearl?!😭 btw LOVE your videos!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Ha ha, you just missed me there, but I’ll be back in December.

  • @ricotreaue4730

    @ricotreaue4730

    Жыл бұрын

    @@OrientalPearl I'll be there December!😳

  • @onlychims
    @onlychims10 ай бұрын

    The deer feeding part had me ON THE FLOOR laughing, oh my god!!!!

  • @Youtubeuser10873

    @Youtubeuser10873

    9 ай бұрын

    Ikr

  • @Youtubeuser10873

    @Youtubeuser10873

    9 ай бұрын

    The one that followed her😂

  • @DamnAwesome
    @DamnAwesome Жыл бұрын

    Awesome video! Tommy's parents were super nice and your mom was also super nice!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so Lucy to have awesome in-laws.

  • @bronzergoth7598
    @bronzergoth7598 Жыл бұрын

    so wholesome! its hard being proud of being american sometimes, but when foreigners are charmed by how affectionate we are, it makes me happy :) hugs american style!!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Hugs back to you 😊

  • @RightCenterBack321

    @RightCenterBack321

    Жыл бұрын

    "its hard being proud of being american sometimes" No, it's not. You've been socialized into thinking there's something inherently wrong with being America and you've swallowed it hook, line, and sinker. It's a real shame. There's always Japan you can move to.

  • @bronzergoth7598

    @bronzergoth7598

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RightCenterBack321 hi! my grandfather was a WWII Veteran and Garrison Commander and the Alabama Department of Veterans Affairs refused to cover his therapy for throat cancer, leaving him destitute and physically without a nose at the time of his (early) death. Humble yourself and realize that no country is perfect, people have infinite legitimate reasons for criticizing the US, if anything a push for blind patriotism is what is pure socialization

  • @RightCenterBack321

    @RightCenterBack321

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bronzergoth7598 Hi! People have infinite legitimate reasons for criticizing their country, wherever it is. However, in few countries can we say our upsides are outweighed by our downsides. What happened to your grandfather is terrible, but it's a failure in government and doesn't define this country. Humble yourself and appreciate what we do have in this country, it's quite a lot.

  • @bronzergoth7598

    @bronzergoth7598

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RightCenterBack321 You're backpedaling from accusing me of being socialized into my lack of pride, very disingenuous after making such a huge assumption with your initial reply but thank you for acknowledging that I am correct. 13% of the US homeless population are veterans whereas only 7% of the population at large are veterans (HUD statistics), meaning they are overrepresented by almost double. "A failure in government and doesn't define this country" I don't know a more accurate reflection of a country's values than how we treat the people who are willing to die for it. Enjoy your "upsides" though

  • @chrissyfoley7361
    @chrissyfoley7361 Жыл бұрын

    I loved this video. I was cracking up at Tommy’s dad being silly and embarrassing him. I can’t wait for the next video.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Chrissy.

  • @da-AL
    @da-ALАй бұрын

    beautiful & wonderfully rendered! tx much for sharing

  • @maxxjapan619
    @maxxjapan619 Жыл бұрын

    Don't worry, that's why I've been giving Tommy bear hugs. Getting him prepared for meeting the in-laws! I play the long game.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Ha ha, he’ll be back in Tokyo soon to hangout with you.

  • @dgan2304
    @dgan2304 Жыл бұрын

    These videos are so good! This was so wholesome.

  • @JJ-bg1ym
    @JJ-bg1ym Жыл бұрын

    High quality content. Absolutely loved this! Thank you so much for this post!

  • @Callaghanify
    @Callaghanify Жыл бұрын

    That was such a special moment. Thank you so much for sharing that.❤❤

  • @si_quest
    @si_quest Жыл бұрын

    that was really cool to watch. Can't wait for the next video.

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    I can’t wait to show it to you.

  • @TobyHumanResources
    @TobyHumanResources Жыл бұрын

    This video is so wholesome, will definitely be watching more of your content!

  • @zahidurrahman2869
    @zahidurrahman2869 Жыл бұрын

    8:07 ... very common gesture in Asia. ... we stay at the platform/station until the train/bus/plane starts going .... to make sure that the travelers don't feel lonely and know that we are there for them if they need something even at the very last minute, ... and then to know that the transport departures safely. ... we even wait hours there in case of a delayed departure ... 😊

  • @JustPlainRob
    @JustPlainRob Жыл бұрын

    Your mom is awesome. This is such a great wholesome video.

  • @elizabethkusce2718
    @elizabethkusce2718 Жыл бұрын

    Awww this was so sweet, his parents are so gracious and your mom is a champ sh held well.

  • @shitbag.
    @shitbag. Жыл бұрын

    So lovely. Thanks for sharing I really hope you and your family are happy and healthy. Same to everyone reading this. Take it easy and be happy.

  • @NickMaurer
    @NickMaurer Жыл бұрын

    Wow, thank you for sharing such an intimate time with your mom and in-laws. I could not help but grin throughout the whole video.

  • @robynliteracy7057
    @robynliteracy70573 ай бұрын

    All the parents seem to be easygoing, lovely people. Excellent planning, too.

  • @bex6638
    @bex66385 ай бұрын

    I met my boyfriend'a Japanese uncle in shinjuku and it was a very warm and welcoming experience. We've been in Japan for 2 months now, and I greet him with a hug. ❤ I love it.

  • @g1234538
    @g1234538 Жыл бұрын

    This video was so sweet! Seeing your mom meet your in-laws put a smile on my face!! They were so happy to hear her speak and bonded over various things -- it was funny the way your husband shrank from embarrassment at one point! His parents are so nice! Your mom's room was amazing, I'd never seen a wooden tub like that! Your mom visiting and then the preview of the trip back made me realize that you can go back now lol I'm looking forward to it! I hope he enjoyed Arizona!!

  • @kenkimura840
    @kenkimura840 Жыл бұрын

    I just felt happy when I was watching this video. Thank you!

  • @KathyakaNina
    @KathyakaNina Жыл бұрын

    Glad both of your parents met each other & precious that each were learning the other’s languages! I’m glad my Mom is still continuing her English studies to speak with one of my best friends & she’s learning Spanish just to talk with my mom

  • @Morgan_Layfay
    @Morgan_Layfay9 ай бұрын

    When your mom was like ok, I bowed, now just come here, and then his father wanting a hug, OMG 🥹🤗 Thank you so much for sharing 💖✌️

  • @user-di7zt1th1z
    @user-di7zt1th1z Жыл бұрын

    Love this kind of video. Tommy's dad is a very funny and heartwarming man.

  • @kylbarry4466
    @kylbarry4466 Жыл бұрын

    this video is honestly so heartwarming and humble

  • @Amavisaj
    @Amavisaj Жыл бұрын

    This was so heartwarming to watch! I'm so glad it worked out with everyone meeting!

  • @OrientalPearl

    @OrientalPearl

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching Alex.

  • @lilycai7614
    @lilycai7614 Жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh, you guys are so adorable. Your video is so endearing and made me laugh out loud multiple times. It's so cute how the in-laws and you guys interacted.