Stay single until someone brings value in your life, no stress sis

@Z5Z5Z5

5 ай бұрын

Like they were an angel sent just for you

@grandmaster6215

5 ай бұрын

Ok kim

@DK-jn7qp

5 ай бұрын

Ich bewundere dich hät auch gern so ein freies Leben bin gefangen in meim Leben von einem Narzissten Freiheit ist das schönste du kannst tun und lassen was du willst😢

@Marianne-sunset

5 ай бұрын

​@@DK-jn7qpwishing you the best ❤

@Marmangovig

5 ай бұрын

Or heartache

Life improves tremendously when you realize you don’t need a partner to be happy. You are your own best friend

@Star_shine7777

5 ай бұрын

So true!!

@gwenculver1040

5 ай бұрын

Fr. All of my friends are trying to pressure me into dating but I’m just not interested in that right now. And everyone telling me I’m “missing out” like dating is the only thing that adds value and happiness to life makes me want to even less. They break up and lose their minds because they feel empty without someone else but i value myself as is and don’t need someone to give me a reason to be happy. I’ll date when I’m ready and when I find someone to share my happiness with

@eraldadevole

5 ай бұрын

@@gwenculver1040 yeah no, do not keep yourself busy with worthless relationships. Enjoy your time and working on yourself. The right person doesn’t come when you’re on the hunt for it. If I hadn’t met my hb when neither of us was looking for a relationship I would probably still be happily single for life. Once I learned what to do with myself and that it was fine to be alone I loved every minute of it. The peace of mind was priceless. As it said in the video, the right person is supposed to make your life better, even on the hard times, they’re less hard.

@kiranmahilange9

5 ай бұрын

​@@gwenculver1040I'm in a happy relationship. I waited 25 years for this and it's worth it. When I tell my friends to ditch this hookup culture and wait until they find someone genuine, they say "you are saying this because you are in a relationship....how do you know how hard it is to be single" .....then yeah they mess up ....come back crying and put some negative energy towards my relationship. Ugh it's tiring. I refrain myself to engage with such friends until they are actually happy in their life.

@sincerelysandi

5 ай бұрын

@@gwenculver1040you are so wise with your self love! Keep choosing you ☮️💜

I agree, but first you have to be happy with yourself being single. A lot of people aren't strong enough to be enough on their own.

@nikniknik_40

5 ай бұрын

Time and therapy helps that. ❤

@noirblue17

5 ай бұрын

Respectfully, I disagree. Being single at first is uncomfortable, but you get used to it. Relying on someone else romantically to make you temporarily feel better is just gonna further hurt you ❤️‍🩹

@thehomeeclady

5 ай бұрын

Respectfully, it sounds like you do agree. Your comment doesn't quite match the dialogue.

@noirblue17

5 ай бұрын

@@thehomeecladyNo, I don’t agree with “a lot of people aren’t strong enough to be enough on their own”. That sounds toxic and everyone IS capable of being enough for themselves and be strong, they just need to believe it in their hearts and minds. No one should rely their happiness on someone else romantically, it should be like she said, they should compliment your life when the time comes around.

@senoritajenifer

5 ай бұрын

​@dylinreyes17 they said that as a statement to justify why it's important to learn to be single in the first place, because people struggle with that (being single). But I think you two are trying to make the same point from a similar perspective :)

When met my husband everything went smoth and easy. And now after 23 years of marriage it still is. ❤❤❤❤ I love him more and more every day

@nic9315

5 ай бұрын

So lucky❤

@angelbeauty8

5 ай бұрын

That's it. I once met a guy and everything just went fluently. And he brought out the most soft and feminine side of me. I didn't have everything in order. But I knew that's the feeling

@bandaid.bandit

5 ай бұрын

@@angelbeauty8once? What happened?

@kiranmahilange9

5 ай бұрын

​@@angelbeauty8then you both got married? 😃

@manuelafittkau2177

5 ай бұрын

He's your solemate!!!❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉😊 atherwise you will be divorce few times already!!....😂😂😂 I WISH YOU ALLTHE BEST IN FUTURE LIVE!❤🎉😊

when i met my husband we had each reached a point where we were perfectly content on our own. That was a good prerequisite - we were not desperate to meet someone and willing to trade in our single lives only for someone truly worth it. Remember: you never need to be completed. ❤

@amidar6634

5 ай бұрын

Same! My boyfriend didn't look for a partner when we met. For me it was my time to get to know myself and love myself, so i was just as happy by myself. When we started dating, my life became so much better, not because it was awful before but because he gave the choice to be and do even more.

@brittanyparistx

5 ай бұрын

Someone at worked asked me the other day “where’s your other half?” And I was like “oh I don’t have another half…..I’m a whole actually.” 🤣🤣🤣

@ItsMissLalaToYou7

5 ай бұрын

@@brittanyparistx…I love that response! 😂

@TMeyer-ge5pj

26 күн бұрын

This is the type of man I'm looking for! I'm glad to be single until then

Amen 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 never settle for less just hecause you have a "fear" of missing out

@nirmalav7945

Жыл бұрын

True

@Alia16829

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking i marry anyone although im not comfortable with the idea just not to miss out on motherhood pls change my mind and support me! Say sth

@jasminetapia458

Жыл бұрын

​@@Alia16829you can be a mother without marrying if that's what scares you, like adopting, artificial insemination, surrogacy mothers, or even agree to sleep with a man that can get you pregnant without committing as a father. If you marry, marry someone you really love, dont just settle for someone that doesn't make you happy just so you dont "miss out"

@vive334

Жыл бұрын

⁠@@Alia16829ok so the reason you don’t want to miss out is completely valid. You seek joy and don’t want to miss out on it. Marriage isn’t a bad thing, and this video doesn’t necessarily mean you should hold back. If you find a partner that you want to marry because they make you feel better in life, then you could marry them since you’re happy. But if they make you feel worse than before, then you shouldn’t do the deal because the purpose of marriage would be gone. Just do whatever makes you happier in the moment and the long run

@panickedshrug4537

Жыл бұрын

​@@Alia16829My aunt had my cousin at 42. Both are ok in health Yeah, fertility gradually drops after 35 but ivf can help if you decide to have children later, and adoption is always an option (I'm young but i plan to adopt when i feel ready for kids, for instance). Also, don't focus only on your child existing, but also on the happiness it will experience. How do you know the person you marry by chance will be kind to the child? To you? What if he traumatizes them forever? Also, you set the example for your children. They won't do what you tell them, but they'll do what they see. If your daughter told you this, what would you tell her? Good luck! 💛

The best advice I got about choosing a marriage partner is that you should feel like you can’t believe someone this amazing wants to marry you, and they should feel the same way about you. Then your marriage starts from a place of mutual respect and admiration. I followed that advice and I’m still thrilled with my choice 17 years in 💕

@Satomiq

5 ай бұрын

Cool if you've found someone you believe you want to stay with for the entire life, but what if it's not mutual and another party isn't way so optimistic about yourself. Majority of failed love stories be like

@lynnz7501

5 ай бұрын

That's how it should feel if you're actually in love. Even as a child I never had to question what love felt like because it was something I never had trouble feeling or understanding. Guess I've always been a hopeless romantic lol I dated a guy my freshman year of high school and I adored him. Still do and always will. But I ended up ending our relationships for a multitude of reasons. I was too young and on top of my hectic home life I was still trying to figure myself out. I didn't feel worthy of him and my headspace was an absolute mess back then. And to top it off I was confused by my sexuality. I was definitely in love with him but I wasn't sure I was capable of wanting to be with a guy intimately. I've only ever really liked guys emotionally. In the end I decided he deserved someone who could be totally invested in a relationship and someone who could be with him emotionally and physically without hesitation or doubt. So I broke up with him as gently as I possibly could. I ended up just labeling myself as a lesbian because 1. I was only sure of my interest in girls and 2. I was done with relationships in general at that time. He was super supportive despite obviously feeling hurt. I was and still am incredibly grateful for him as a friend even after we stopped dating. But yeah, I doubt I'll ever date a guy again. Couldn't see myself loving a guy as much as him. But I'm glad he's found happiness with his new girlfriend.

Yes! Single-hood and solitude is not loneliness; it's freedom. Value it. Whoever wants to partner with you needs to be able to bring with them something better than your solitude. Otherwise, they're just wasting their time and your freedom.

@katieh4101

10 ай бұрын

You put what I've been feeling into words! I've loved being in relationships in the past, and I love being single now :')

@mcfish689

5 ай бұрын

Freedom? That’s just some people talking.

@user-zy7li8dq3j

4 ай бұрын

Agree ❤

FACTS. At some point I was desperate to just date anyone, the people that I dated turned out to be worse then actual trash. Now choosing to stay single and healthy, I only fear my own problems and I'm able to build something great out of my own life without depending on a second person. If someday I meet someone and fall for them, I know that no matter what happens, I'm living a very stable life and I am capable of being alone too. No fears needed.

@BlackguynamedMason

8 ай бұрын

Invest in cat food

@ana-nim

6 ай бұрын

​@@BlackguynamedMason oh, you also can just find the highest bridge or roof. Good luck 😊

@darkirisr.380

5 ай бұрын

​@@BlackguynamedMason invest in books

@darkirisr.380

5 ай бұрын

Thats how it should be, Wait for something better, because it is worse if you don't wait and you catch something horrible 😂🤷

@user-qd9jr6jm2u

5 ай бұрын

Классный комментарий!!! Рада за вас!!!

So true!! Only choose people in your life, that influence you to become a better version of yourself (by fully loving you the way you already are)!! ❤

@hannabondarenko9740

11 ай бұрын

And also don't forget to do this for your partner too. Only that way relationships are healthy

@imyourlol

11 ай бұрын

How to:"Have a nice cat and fail in life" in a nutshell 😂😂

@danross4953

11 ай бұрын

❤

@kyojuroswife4112

10 ай бұрын

​@@imyourlolsalty

@HugTheCactus777

10 ай бұрын

Sort of, but not really. Who ever that person is your looking for, really you need to become that for yourself. Otherwise, you’ll just constantly be projecting that on others and find yourself disappointed.

Basically how a sane person falls in love.

@thekawaiicripple

5 ай бұрын

This, which I am not 😅

I needed to hear this, as a young woman (22), it almost seems like everyone my age around me is in a relationship and I think that can make a person feel left out, especially when most young people want to fit in 😩

@CountrysideandLiving

5 ай бұрын

At 22 you have a couple of years to look after yourself and become the best version of yourself. It seems long, but then you are in a position to meet an outstanding partner who can impact your life in the most amazing way possible. The wrong partner can make you waste 10 years of your life. Don't rush into it ❤

@gracefulcharm55

5 ай бұрын

That’s the same feeling with me . I’m 23 and it’s been feeling like that but I’m learning to love me and just enjoy singleness

@kaitlandm.4969

5 ай бұрын

@@CountrysideandLiving awww thank you for your kind words🥹, this made my day truly♥️ I’ll definitely remember what you said whenever I feel sad about what I said before

@kaitlandm.4969

5 ай бұрын

@@gracefulcharm55 yes! I’ll be 23 in April and ever since I stopped worrying about having someone in that capacity, I’ve been more at peace because I haven’t been successful in my love life thus far. I think that’s telling me that there’s more to life than having someone, especially at our age. We should be focusing on personal development and our futures🥰

@caram227

5 ай бұрын

PLEASE live your life in your 20s and don’t worry about sharing it with anyone, for now. I was obsessed with being in relationships and feel I wasted that time, when I should have been growing and learning to love myself first. I’m now in my late 30s, single again, and feel like I’m needing to make up for that lost time. But I’m content “alone” for now.

Agreed. In the meantime focus on making sure you are someone who will complement and make someone else's life better.

@eni0514

6 ай бұрын

Underrated comment.

@longlivelatinas2472

5 ай бұрын

False. Do not live your life according to whether you will complement someone else’s. Your life is YOURS. Don’t live it for someone else.

@doetodeer

5 ай бұрын

@@longlivelatinas2472 That's a great way to die alone. Humans are social animals. We will literally die without human contact and spending your life rigidly refusing to compromise on anything will only mean that you're either going to be alone or you're going to force everyone aroung you to compromise. Self-improvement is always good. Being good to other people is always good. It's the love you gave and received from others that will matter on your deathbed - going from cradle to grave without ever learning to give or take is not going to mean shit. Be good - be better - for yourself and for the people you share this life with.

@longlivelatinas2472

5 ай бұрын

@@doetodeer Actually, it’s been statistically proven in research that women who are single lead happier lives and live longer. Don’t push your insecurities and inability to be happy alone on others. Some people are satisfied with themselves without needing other people.

@doetodeer

5 ай бұрын

@@longlivelatinas2472 You could have checked yourself on Google scholar before you wrecked yourself. Married females live longer by 3.5-5.5 years, and while singletons express greater happiness in middle age, when they are unburdened by the usual responsibilities of family and relationships, that flips in later life, with married women and parents being happier overall.

Also applies to friends 😊

@designanddirection

11 ай бұрын

Become an internet celebrity and make your world about you and nobody else then get confused when nobody wants

@tula__

11 ай бұрын

Thing is when you understand someone inside out and still be friends even if they don’t compliment you. Friendship shouldn’t be based on benefits alone. But a relationship tends to exist when there’s mutual benefit.

@dawnriddler

11 ай бұрын

Completely agree! It took me years to get this.

@ammudoc

10 ай бұрын

is it hard to get a trustworthy friend as a girl?

@Screech911

7 ай бұрын

@@ammudocNo, girls are really kind.

I don't plan being in a relationship, i plan being successful and smart.

@mar145gh7

5 ай бұрын

Wonder how long that thinking will last

@WarmongerYT

5 ай бұрын

...hmm that sounds lonely. Especially being how the human body is literally made to procreate...aka have a family with a man. As a women myself - we absolutely have biological clocks

@Alejand883

4 ай бұрын

Samee

This is perfection but just remember to keep that same energy for the person on the receiving end. Are they being complemented by your presence? Is their life better because of you? By their own admission?

@artdollz

3 ай бұрын

Total agree. Respect, compromise, acceptance works both ways

Yep, and be content with being single is also important. Keeps you from chasing the wrong thing.

@samjon6403

8 ай бұрын

25% of women are on anti depressants and by 2030, 40% will be single and childless

@unachukwuodera7495

7 ай бұрын

I notice women say this stuff when they're young and can get sex whenever they want. Regret kicks in hard after they become old and no one wants to sleep with them. Don't fall for statements from these people. They'll only make you miserable

@vaishnavibhamble602

7 ай бұрын

​@@unachukwuodera7495 I have seen far more miserable married people, l'll try a different way

@EchadLevShtim

7 ай бұрын

Cowards Talk

@longlivelatinas2472

5 ай бұрын

@@unachukwuodera7495Some of us are actually satisfied being alone. I’m young, have lots of people trying to sleep with me, and I don’t want it. Women who are single are statistically proven to be happier.

I actually really needed to hear this

@edwisongogo6326

11 ай бұрын

I don't think u did.

@ellawowowow

11 ай бұрын

​@@edwisongogo6326what's that supposed to mean 😭

@edwisongogo6326

11 ай бұрын

@@ellawowowow we know the ending is not happy here from this advice.

@kyojuroswife4112

10 ай бұрын

​@@edwisongogo6326projection

@thosewhocare2427

10 ай бұрын

​@@edwisongogo6326stop projecting your fear of being alone on to others.

Rule #21: Stay single until someone actually compliments your life in a way that makes it better not be single, if not it's not worth it.

@unachukwuodera7495

7 ай бұрын

I notice women say this stuff when they're young and can get sex whenever they want. Regret kicks in hard after they become old and no one wants to sleep with them. Don't fall for statements from these people. They'll only make you miserable

@greenleaph5145

7 ай бұрын

​@@unachukwuodera7495Yeah her advise is awful. Its really sad and unrealistic.

@KhadidjaKhadouj-ur4ke

7 ай бұрын

​@@unachukwuodera7495I am 34 years old and still a virgin, and I want to die a virgin

@vaishnavibhamble602

7 ай бұрын

​@@unachukwuodera7495u are under every comment trying so hard to scare women, cry harder . Also it's does not goes for women only it goes for men too , don't be desperate, you should be okay with yourself before being in a relationship.

@ana-nim

6 ай бұрын

​@@vaishnavibhamble602 even they can't be alone with their shitty characters but they expect women to be okay with them 😂 Better to die alone thousand times than be with someone so pathetic that he tries to spook women to settle with him. His last resort probably

Better to live long than marry wrong.

Also, the only way YOU can truly let someone love you, is if you LOVE YOURSELF ❤ (This channel has really helped me love myself 🫶🏻)

@designanddirection

11 ай бұрын

Become an internet celebrity and make your world about you and nobody else then get confused when nobody wants

@markmencer9244

11 ай бұрын

You need help if you're getting your self-worth from an Internet channel. Try accomplishing more in your life.

@kyojuroswife4112

10 ай бұрын

​@@markmencer9244don't speak on topics u know nothing about 😊

@thosewhocare2427

10 ай бұрын

​@@markmencer9244self worth has nothing to do with accomplishments. God you guys are so emotionally inept it's insane.

@thumbalina1568

9 ай бұрын

ABSOLUTELY ❤

Absolutely! If you don't wait for someone who truly appreciate you you're going to suffer a lot. It's okay to be single!

@livelife5309

5 ай бұрын

This is true from a woman in her 30s

Powerful advice. The less we speak and react, the less energy we spent and looking desperate for someone not worthwhile. I wish I had a daddy or an older brother like you to teach me a thing or two when I was younger.

"When a girl loves herself" "The whole world falls in love with her" Unknown~

@zionmoses1839

9 ай бұрын

Applies to anyone, regardless of the gender 😊

Someone has to compete with my Peace, my peace with being single and happy. They have to be better than my peace of being by myself

@PenguinFondue

11 ай бұрын

100%

@petera.6568

11 ай бұрын

Yooo yesss

@chicoharper6711

11 ай бұрын

Right...

@sebumpostmortem

10 ай бұрын

Aaaaaaaaaamennnn

@tabbylove86

10 ай бұрын

yess

I agree so much👌😎 I have been waiting for my best man, friend and lover for more than 11 years and I dont regret any of this year ... I got best person, soulmate and partner. Much better than I would ever try to wish. ❤

@Jules-740

3 ай бұрын

How do you know someone is worth the chance?

Smart woman ❤ Maturity is when you realise nothing is forever even when you are in a relationship. No male, friends, parents, is not going to stay forever, people change. It's always better to live own life to fullest ✨

"Stay single until someone actually compliments your life in a way that makes it better not to be single if not, its not worth it" ❤ - this is actually so GOOD.

Exactly what I needed to hear today, what you need to hear on a daily basis dear ladies ❤❤

@MinglesLingles

11 ай бұрын

Bro this is common sense, “stay single until you find someone that treats you well” no well duhhh

@BlackguynamedMason

8 ай бұрын

The cope is real

@BlackguynamedMason

5 ай бұрын

@@LA-jz8gw What??? What are you on about?

@BlackguynamedMason

5 ай бұрын

@@LA-jz8gw crazy how ya'll always go to the extremes. Rather than seeing the selfishness

I’m showing this to my daughters!

@edwisongogo6326

11 ай бұрын

Wow destructive.

@Diana-sb4yl

5 ай бұрын

Shared with my daughter... ❤

@mar145gh7

5 ай бұрын

Sad.. setting them up for a single future

i think a lot of people need to hear this

@BlackguynamedMason

8 ай бұрын

To cope?

Preach sista, the first guy that was into me wanted to change tried to change me, nada I don’t need a man to change me nobody can change me ITS ALL ME OR NOT GETTING ME! Don’t change for anyone cause you need to please yourself and God not man, OH how I love to piss people off how I love to make them wrong about me they misunderstand me all the time by not wanting to get to know me but I have a creator that knew me before the beginning of the universe I Have God to thank for giving me life and breath to live, I LISTEN TO HIM FOR HE MAKES ME AT PEACE REST AND HAPPY, I’ll be happy single cause men give heartaches and don’t know what they want from a woman who knows what she wants. Stay strong girls! God will give you what you need!!

The negative comments are so weird. Y’all just inventing scenarios in your own head? Not to mention being in a relationship means nothing. Too many people are sat in unhappy marriages most of their lives because they are scared to be alone or feel like it makes them a failure. Nobody’s being egotistical. But is it really better to spend your life with somebody who never appreciates you over living a life appreciating yourself?

@Alejand883

4 ай бұрын

FR

@EughhBrothereughh

4 ай бұрын

Those r salty males who can't stand the idea of women not wanting to date males or let alone bury themselves in marriage

So True. Thank you so much for the reminder ! 🤍✨️

@mar145gh7

5 ай бұрын

Don't forget rule 34. It's very important 😏

I really like doing whatever the fuck I want. Nobody takes care of me better than myself, in all areas of life. I'm fun to be around and thrive off of my randomness. I truly don't think I can be with someone else at this point.

Yesssssss. Very True. Wise words. For your self worth. An You rocked them outfits Lady.. Stunning 💖🕯️✌️...

She literally said it's *better to stay single and wait for somebody who compliments her life* by making it better. Yet some people are deliberately twisting this into "she wants the perfect guy and she will regret this". Perfection doesn't exist, but why be with somebody who doesn't compliment your life or makes it better? That's not an unrealistic standard. Very basic. Guys think the same way and don't settle for just any random girl. But apparently she is a woman, so she should have no standard at all but just blindly accept the first guy that comes along whether he is a good match or not. Yeah, great plan! *SMH*

@oddie9405

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

@BangtanPurple7of7

11 ай бұрын

She literally said what she said. (& I agree completely, I exercise this Rule at all times myself That's it - the naysayers can can go find somebody else to bully🤗💜🙏💜🇬🇧💜

@7prudent

11 ай бұрын

Perfection does exist. Everyone's definition of perfection is slightly different... I have my own definition.

@Darkmattermonkey77

10 ай бұрын

Not how I took it. The people who take it otherwise, that’s their own insecurities rebounding on them internally.

@thosewhocare2427

10 ай бұрын

Yet if she chose someone that ended up hurting her they would be saying "she picked him". Insane.

U inspire me so much, truly 🫶I love u Anna!!!!!!

This is great encouragement. I have been pushed to get married because of people saying that I should marry a man that loves me, I don't even have to love him, if he takes care of me then I can learn to love. It has been hard to get through the people that have been saying that. So I thank you for such good advice.😊

Facts!! 💯 Love is worth waiting for. ❤❤❤

Loving someone isn’t gaining, it’s giving. Giving love to someone special who needs it will give you something you never knew you needed

@designanddirection

11 ай бұрын

Become an internet celebrity and make your world about you and nobody else then get confused when nobody wants

@kyojuroswife4112

10 ай бұрын

Nah u need to keep in check of what u r getting or else ppl will simply use u

@BlackguynamedMason

8 ай бұрын

​@@kyojuroswife4112duh that's why he said to someone special

@kyojuroswife4112

8 ай бұрын

@@BlackguynamedMason someone special can also use u

@BlackguynamedMason

8 ай бұрын

@kyojuroswife4112 naw that's impossible!

I wish I had heard that when I was in my early teens as by the end of them I had been married four times. I must say that I didn’t marry again until I was in my 30s and then again in my 70s.

@panickedshrug4537

Жыл бұрын

You had married four times in your teens? That's insane, if I understood correctly!

Absolutely true !! 3 yrs to a 62 yr old showed me it was all yo yo! It was nevered love, it was lust! Now I have peace, and He skipped into another girl fairly weak! Thank you God!

"A man's competition is not other men, it's a woman's solitude" (applicable to whatever gender one is looking for)

Thanks for the positive vibes. ❤😢

I'm 28 now, never was in any relationship, and every year it both harder and easier at the same time. Fear being alone all my life is almost gone, but regret not trying is growing.

@dream.whip.cream.

Жыл бұрын

keep following what makes you truly happy! and the universe will always give.

@sarar.1932

11 ай бұрын

You can try- rule #21 just means don't be desperate and settle with mediocrity. 28 is not "too late" for anything. Get on an app, join a club, go to religious service, volunteer in your community, get out there if you will regret not. Carpe diem (yolo!)

@Lirin

11 ай бұрын

Same except the easier part 😅

@cuteonigiri1671

10 ай бұрын

26 here. Single but occupied with my life n my own struggle. Worried I won't get one n at the same time worried if I never ready to get one..sigh

@74nova36

8 ай бұрын

*Buncha Incels in here*

I love the long ponytail ❤

I love that roule ❤❤❤ Happy St Valentine!

“never settle for less” - someone smart once said

@arinasyam2732

Жыл бұрын

Yes its the quote that truly change me 😊 too.

@mikemcnut3204

10 ай бұрын

Enjoy dying alone if that’s your mindset

@BlackguynamedMason

8 ай бұрын

Or maybe its just your level..

I guess you're right... I've always had a hard time finding a s.o and recently my bf broke up with me and the loneliness came back... but should I settle for any guy just to be with me? No. I hope I'll find peace in being single as much as you do ❤

@kitkatgirl5673

5 ай бұрын

A little advice, here’s where I come from. I suffer from MDD (Major depressive disorder) I’ve had it since I was a child. I also have relationship OCD. When I was 17 I overdosed because I was single. When I was 6 years old I remember having a conversation with my dad. It went something along the lines of asking my dad why I was ugly. He’d answer and say “why would you say that you’re not ugly” then I’d say “because I don’t have a boyfriend”. He knew with me being so young and having this fear that something was off. I’ve suffered from this since I was 5-6 years old. I’m happily engaged to my man of 5 years. My point of this is you don’t have to be alone. Just take your time and find the right one. You don’t have to just settle for anyone, just know your worth. My man helped me see my worth, I didn’t see anything. I hated myself since I was young, still do, but he’s helped me improve my way of thinking and viewing myself. That’s what love is to me. Everyone’s version of love is different. It’s because of him I know my worth. Everyone goes through breakups. It’s not easy trust I’ve been there. But it’s ok, you’ll find the right one. Don’t give up just because someone on the internet told you to. I consider this short a gray area. Not everyone is the same, some people have mental disorders preventing them from being single, or other issues. And this is ok, just do what’s best for you.

@sophieperies8515

4 ай бұрын

Same here girl. We got this😊

Aww you met someone! ❤ All blessings to you both as you form your relationship. 😊

That high pony tail looks fabulous on you ! I Always pay attention to your hair and would like to give compliments about it ❤🎉

This is so true. This is actually my reasoning for being single!

@AlwaysAwesome001

11 ай бұрын

Your blue hair and face piercings are why you are still single. 🤣

@Kaedya.-

11 ай бұрын

⁠@@AlwaysAwesome001 r/nothowgirlswork lmaooo 💀 Your mindset is why you are still single darling. Why can’t you understand that a lot of humans like people with blue hair and face piercings ? It’s not because YOU hate it that EVERYBODY hates it.

@chumpylumpy8072

11 ай бұрын

You are extremely lucky then. I'd rather have a shitty woman as a partner than no onr

@kyojuroswife4112

10 ай бұрын

​@@AlwaysAwesome001where did u get that info

@BlackguynamedMason

8 ай бұрын

The cope is real 😂

You deserve the best man of the world ❤

@dentalgrowthmx

Жыл бұрын

why?

@haithemlamri4376

8 ай бұрын

According to you at least

I found that person. She sends me vlogs from her life, meets me every week, complements me, always remember important for me things and makes my day better, but she's my damn best friend

Yeah I needed to learn to embrace being single. Accepting enjoying my own company knowing it doesn’t automatically mean lonely. Gotta know yourself and your value before allowing someone else in. Helped me to guan confidence and understand that ppl compliment my life instead of thinking I needed them to do that❤

So true! Video recommendations: Late night healthy snacks one video for sweet and one for salty

This is one of the things about you I really felt inspired by I used to have major anxiety about being single in my early twenties (22 now about to be 23 in august 21st) But seeing you enjoy your own company has helped me change my mindset a lot

@dentalgrowthmx

Жыл бұрын

You can't make assumptions based on a 10 seconds video, come on

@CatCatCaat

Жыл бұрын

@@dentalgrowthmx what are you replying too? 💀 I was praising. Her

@honeyloccust

Жыл бұрын

Don't worry, the right person will come

@mikemcnut3204

10 ай бұрын

If you’re a woman you should have anxiety. Your biological clock is ticking along with your appearance. Don’t listen to society telling you to wait and never settle. Find a quality man before you hit 28 and look old af.

@CatCatCaat

10 ай бұрын

@@mikemcnut3204 lol shut up

yes! i have a boyfriend, but he loves me for who i am, we've been facetiming every night , he doesn't care about how i look, he texts me, he's cute, smart, supportive, so sweet, and idk :)))

MOTTO: Show me that everything is better if done with you than if done alone. Not the same but *BETTER* . This is a solid reason to share some of our lifetime together.

I just found this channel... Congrats its really inspirational

Stay single and keep running to God until someone catches up to you and runs at the same pace ❤

@GatzB_

Жыл бұрын

That’s right!! That’s the real message

@raec5568

Жыл бұрын

I love this!! You have the right idea🫶🫶🫶

@busayoak_

Жыл бұрын

🔥 🔥 🔥🔥🔥

@glitterworld3886

Жыл бұрын

Woww that was beautiful

@DazaiOsammu

Жыл бұрын

Mhm

Absolutely 👏🏾 girl you the bomb💅🏾

@mar145gh7

5 ай бұрын

she is just coping

Whats difficult is to gauge if your internal voice to persue or not to persue is guided by your ego or true connection. Its why finding a soul mate is one of the hardest things to find.

I am living and dying for that first pink outfit want it so bad.

@SocialExperiment232

Жыл бұрын

Also amen to what you’re saying. Definitely wait until you know for sure what kind of person you want and wait for the right person it will save you so much pain and heartache!

Exactly!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

@benminecraft2016

11 ай бұрын

​@jasonroodBro got the random rizz

u look so pretty with ur hair in a ponytail!!

I LOVE THAT ITS SO TRUE CASUE U DESERVE THE BEST!!

I love your content so much- it might sound stupid but your content has been my comfort channel through some extremely tough times including almost losing my mum and feeling completely hopeless. Thank you so much- you didn't know it but you have got me through some very gloomy days, always keeping me smiling. Keep making content, we all love you so much❤

@BTS_SVT_BND_TXT_EN-_ZB1

Жыл бұрын

same here btw hows your mom now??

@mrsali8258

Жыл бұрын

You commented on jezelle Catherine channel with the Same comment😂

@angiecuee

Жыл бұрын

Wsp with the replies?? 💀💀

@DazaiOsammu

Жыл бұрын

You commented this everywhere

Very true ❤

Omg I love your first hairstyle

Thank you so much. I needed to hear this today❤

@BlackguynamedMason

8 ай бұрын

Coping?

Rule no.1 don't have Indian parents 😅

@Neha_Tiwarii

5 ай бұрын

Not fair😂 My parents are Okay with me having a boyfriend but obviously that should come with sincerity, not changing boyfriends like clothes or Accessories. Also they don't force me for marriage.😅 I am 28 right now and not even once has been Marriage been talked until I speak of it. They have said when I want to, they will then take the required step😊

@darkirisr.380

5 ай бұрын

😴 😅🥲 i'm not indian, but I feel you

Rule #1 Love God, first.... and Love Everlasting all others as you wish to Love. Not self but selfless. True love will find you then. Love comes from Love, Godbless. 🌟🦅🕊✝️

@longlivelatinas2472

5 ай бұрын

Some people aren’t meant for romantic love. Don’t push this because you might be pushing people into the wrong thing.

Soooo true! Love this one!

Rule #1 stay single until you realize the only person you ever need in life is you.

@adolfosilva3883

11 ай бұрын

And then die alone. Genius!

@TheG60528XiJinPing

11 ай бұрын

Remember this comment come back in 10 years. 🙂👍

@brae1852

11 ай бұрын

wrong mindset my friend

@BiRainbow29

11 ай бұрын

Yesss 🎉

@kylo-hari

11 ай бұрын

Wrong

remember, there is always someone for you ❤️

@someonepassionate

11 ай бұрын

No

@BlackguynamedMason

8 ай бұрын

✨️

@sylviebk987

7 ай бұрын

Yes yourself 😉

So true and I learned the hard way!

I was just scrolling on KZread.... found a video of yours decided to explore more nd now became obsessed you're my inspiration.....❤love you Anna!!

Thanks ❤ This was required ❤

what song thing was that called after?

Especially when you’ve chosen the direction of life you’d like to live and not simply the one society says you should… otherwise he will no longer fully complement and may not want to adjust.. aka growing out of ppl

I adore your KZread channel❤ it's absolutely inspirational and postive

Hi,Anna! We love you and your workouts so much! Can you please tell about your knee trauma and how did you recover? I'm also struggling with a knee pain these days. I still can walk,move my upper-body and run a bit. But I really miss the feeling after leg workouts. How did you cope?

@Sas-rf9sy

Жыл бұрын

How long have you had this issue and how old are you, like what age group are you in? Where exactly in the knee is the pain centered?

@nairanizamova6004

Жыл бұрын

@@Sas-rf9sy hello! Thank you so much. The pain is almost gone,I'm back to working out. It was an inflammation. Though,I also have the pre-arthrosus and synovitis. I'm 15. Best wishes.

@nairanizamova6004

Жыл бұрын

I've experienced the pain for two weeks

@Sas-rf9sy

Жыл бұрын

@@nairanizamova6004 you are very welcome. At 15 you have nothing to worry about. Just maintain a healthy lifestyle and with regular exercise you can even decrease any pain from the pre arthoros etc. I wish you good health. Also remember your multivitamins! You can buy cold and hot packs which you can also use on the inflamed area depending on the pain. Best of luck and have a wonderful day!

@nairanizamova6004

Жыл бұрын

@@Sas-rf9sy thank you. Have a great day,too

Complement* Compliment is someone saying something nice. Complement is when things go well together.

@katherineklevenow1808

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@deniseneumann

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, I did not understand at first. 😂

I applied this to my life and I'm glad

@mar145gh7

5 ай бұрын

For now until reality sinks in

So true! Also Ps you're really pretty and do beautiful makeup anddd this was really inspirational seeing you workout and having a sense of self and confidence!❤❤ Kuddos to you and this thinking of yours✨✨

25 years old i was married at 19 we just had are first child a boy marrige is great i love my family being a young father is good. Sometimes you just cant wait for the right person sometimes you need to be the right person for them and go looking

. . because this woman is not just gorgeous and beautiful but also because is an example for all of us women💕💕

I found the love of my life when I was the happiest and healthiest and not looking for a relationship. She’s done nothing but made my life better. Not by changing it, but by sharing it with me.

You r soo freakin' pretty ❤

**coughs as aroace flag is behind me** i have no choice 😀✨

you're an inspiration, I really love your videos, I wish you to be more successful ❤

This is very cool. I knew it was a popular trail and weird things sometimes happen but its great to learn more about it. I like that they all have trail nicknames and that they more often than not look after each other. Must take some serious bravery to take such a hike.

Rule number 1: be ready to put in the work marriage isn’t and won’t always be 50/50 sometimes your 90 he’s 10 and sometimes he’s 90 and your 10…you gotta be ready to step down off your high horse and be humble for the one you love. You gotta be ready to listen and be listened to. Id take 10 bad years over 30, it’s just how you look at it. - Michelle Obama

@kyojuroswife4112

10 ай бұрын

Marriage is 50-50

@microwavedmetal

10 ай бұрын

@@kyojuroswife4112 *it’s not and it will PRACTICALLY NEVER BE.* Sometimes your 20 he’s 80…and sometimes your 80 and he’s 20. Nobody is perfect. Everyone has their burn out times. Their bad days and good days. All that matters is that whatever percentage that y’all are that day it makes up 100. There will be a time where in a relationship a man or woman will go through a tough time that their partner will pull them through. So as I’ve said before. Marriage won’t always be 50/50. That immature way of thinking is what’s ending happy marriages. Trust me. I look at people like my mom where sometimes she’s not fully there emotionally and financially my dad sweeps in. Sometimes it’s my mom doing the sweeping in. All that matters is that your willing to be there for each other.

@bobe7978

10 ай бұрын

​@@microwavedmetalMost sensible post I've seen here. Wisdom is a good guide.

@haithemlamri4376

8 ай бұрын

​@@microwavedmetali really liked your comment.modern girl want you just in your prime and when things went to worst they go away do they will remain single and that is not good for them

@microwavedmetal

8 ай бұрын

@@haithemlamri4376 yup most people today don’t know that in order to reap the benefits you hafto be there from the start. Behind every great man is a woman that cooked his food, washed his clothes, cleaned the family home, helped make ends meet, understood what he was going through, and stuck with him even when stress made him mad. It’s these women you see walking around with the big diamond rings, the kids, the car, the clothes, the man that won’t cheat. The men we bring up from nothing are the high value ones. A man that knows the love of a good woman is a man who will succeed in life, and it’s the men that appreciate when a woman sacrifices herself for him, it’s the men that show her the love she needs, the respect she deserves, and cherishes and protects her that walk around with the beautiful baby mama. The well spoken and educated child, the clean house, the woman that won’t cheat. Men and women aren’t independent. *WE NEED EACH OTHER!*

You also have to remember that if everyone keeps this mindset nobody is going to go find love and just “wait” for it.

@kyojuroswife4112

10 ай бұрын

Nah we're living our lives, if someone complements us then good otherwise no ty

@longlivelatinas2472

5 ай бұрын

Not everyone needs love. Some of us are fulfilled on our own. It is an extremely healthy way to live.

I love your videos so much Your are my favourite youtuber

I feel exactly like this and I'm not looking for a perfect guy. I'm looking for a mutual connection: warmth, friendship and trust. I have never felt that way with a guy.

I think just also remember that relationships are actually hard work. They often make life harder, but the reward is great

@kyojuroswife4112

10 ай бұрын

Relationships are hardwork but it shouldn't make ur life harder

❤