"All She Has Given Us So Far Is NO!" This Bride Has No Idea What She Wants | Say Yes To The Dress
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Bride-to-be Farrah has absolutely no idea what she wants for a wedding dress, but she knows very well what she does NOT want. Randy hopes he can find her the perfect wedding dress that she didn’t even know she wanted.
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I'm not a bridal consultant but she gave me anxiety
@annerossi5563
Жыл бұрын
Amen 🤭👍🏻🤭
@debrahill2272
Жыл бұрын
Facts..💯💯 The bride should've browsed some pictures before coming in..You don't go shopping without a plan..
@karincartwright8752
Жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@ybshadyii4375
Жыл бұрын
Me to.... 🤨🤐
@mariesmith1616
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
I love Randy’s reaction to Farrah’s statement that she didn’t want something so “weddingy.”
@hlondon2408
10 ай бұрын
HELP!! What does she want???
@user-vl8qw8hp1g
8 ай бұрын
Kleinfeld's is a BRIDAL BOUTIQUE. What part of that do people not understand?
@elizabethmahon386
18 күн бұрын
I love how Randy has the Consultant’s back! 😊
If she's entered her marriage with the same joy and enthusiasm as choosing her dress then God help them.
@natim.4142
Жыл бұрын
Lol!! so true
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
Жыл бұрын
So true! She sounds like a hard person to deal with.
@riennekoh3901
Жыл бұрын
at least she says she loves the guy she's marrying :D
@xxxx-qo9dh
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I don’t even understand how she got a man to begin with
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
Жыл бұрын
@@riennekoh3901Love is an action and you can say whatever, but the most important thing is to show it.
For first time shoppers I think it would help to have dresses with basic silhouettes just so the brides can see what shape they like, then go into fabric and details from there.
@CleoS-vx5pd
Жыл бұрын
I’ve always thought this! They do it in clothes shops with all the variations of jeans. I would be so overwhelmed with choices that a silhouette guide would be an enormously useful tool.
@pickles1314
11 ай бұрын
This. When I was wedding dress shopping I HATED that it felt like I was so stuck in a box for trying things on.
@sarahkinsey5434
11 ай бұрын
@@pickles1314 and a lot of times on this show they’ll try someone else’s dress pick that is a completely different silhouette and end up loving it
@drummerlovesbookworm9738
11 ай бұрын
They could do silhouettes, etc. on a computer and then narrow the options for trying on dresses.
@sarahkinsey5434
11 ай бұрын
@@drummerlovesbookworm9738 I would still need to see what it looks like in real life
Top marks to Aryana and Randy for their persistence and expertise. 🥰
Hats off to Bridal Consultants. They handle so many whims & fancies of brides. God bless them for staying calm & polite.
Love the moment at 4:04 where Randy tries not to laugh for a moment and then gives up on it.
@francesfehrman741
6 ай бұрын
Take off those BIG earrings
Remember she said, “The Fiancé must really love her to put up with her.” She must be a difficult person or does not know how to express what she is wanting.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
Жыл бұрын
Yes I thought that was a red flag. I wonder if their marriage would last or be blissful?
@sn.m
Жыл бұрын
Probably has low self-esteem.
@lysem4392
Жыл бұрын
She said he was the only one who could tame her. Sounds like she is prone to meltdowns and/or fits of aggressiveness.
@bo2720
11 ай бұрын
Well, shit. José Im available😂
@TEWMUCH
10 ай бұрын
@@sn.mthis is exactly what I thought but I was like maybe not don't type that. But totally agree. Either she has low self.esteem or just has no creative style. She seems scared to make any definite decisions or scared to like something.
The level of patience and professionnalism was unfathomable.😂❤❤
She seemed so lackadaisical and uninspired. She's the most unhappy bride I've seen.
The bride's attitude from the start made me dislike her. Randy and Ayana really have such patience.
“I want something…….very nice.” 😂😜😳🙄 That was painful.
If she didn’t want a bridal look, going to a regular formalwear boutique would give her a bigger variety.
@lysem4392
Жыл бұрын
I agree. When she said she didn't want a bridal gown, I had to wonder what she was doing in a bridal boutique.
Randy is adorable 😍 "Can I buy a vowel?" 😅
@user-hy9gy9we3e
Жыл бұрын
👍 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@hollydejong1792
5 ай бұрын
Yes! And it was totally lost on her...clearly, not a Wheel of Fortune viewer 😉
"This just doesn't scream at me", girl, I'm ready to scream at you. LMAO
@chasingpax1111
Жыл бұрын
LOL SAME
@EM-xs6co
11 ай бұрын
😂
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
5 ай бұрын
So true!
When i got married i was in a zumba class with a bunch of my neighbors. One of them heard me talking about it and said she had a wedding dress in her closet with the tags still on it. It wasn't my size or my style. It was a plain A-line with a little beading. I accepted the generous gift and took it to the bridal shop for alterations. I told them that it was free but i really didn't like it....they asked me what i did like and i pointed to another bride wearing a mermaid with ruching and a corset back. They wrote it all down, told me to leave the dress with them. Long story short....i got my dream dress for less than $500! Custom just for me ❤
@MrsBrit1
Жыл бұрын
That's an amazing story!
@andreagascoigne6735
Жыл бұрын
It sounds fabulous ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@paigeaustin7107
Жыл бұрын
One day I'm going to have it shortened and made into a party dress for my daughter or my anniversary or something.
@flynryder9998
4 ай бұрын
Wow what a lovely story 😊
God bless her husband-to-be. He must have the patience of Job.
@rosehavenfarm2969
4 ай бұрын
Well, she DID say is he's the only one that can tame her.
@gardenjoy5223
3 ай бұрын
@@rosehavenfarm2969 And she even said so without shame. The girl is Very Immature Indeed. She wants something 'very nice' and leaves with the most plain dress in the entire shop. That's been hanging there for a decade, since no bride ever wants something, that's not even as beautiful as a prom dress. That groom seems such a fool to me.
I'm a briadal stylist and she actually wasnt that bad. It might be editing, but i don't think so. Every dress she (was shown) tried on was roughly similar. I *promise* that 'no' is miiiiles better than "i don't know". I've had brides who literally could not verbalize a single opinion about any aspect of a dress they *had on their body* even if I directly asked them a question. Do you like the lace? I don't know. Do you like the way it fits you? I don't know. Girl, do you even WANT a wedding dress??? ...Fill in the blank😂😭🍾
@Cantetinza17
Жыл бұрын
Dang, I would hope that the last question was at least a yes.
@lhyllianamarseilles
Жыл бұрын
People like that just want to be impossible.
@HGG381
Жыл бұрын
A difficult customer for sure...
@sassytbc7923
Жыл бұрын
What’s briedal
@Cantetinza17
Жыл бұрын
@@sassytbc7923 she meant Bridal. It was a typo.
😂 lordy!! Her family and friends knows her. They have a lot of patience with her. I'm sure her hubby is to be too. I wanted a drink after this. The consultant and Randy did a fantastic job. They figured it out! Whew!!
@jb6712
10 ай бұрын
This episode is nearly 20 years old. Randy is all gray-haired now, and doesn't look anywhere near as young as he was in this clip, and the women's clothes are definitely from well over 15 years ago.
This client is a nightmare for any consultant 😂
@NH-tb2sm
Жыл бұрын
She was a nightmare to watch!
@JoanaJ4
Жыл бұрын
@@NH-tb2sm😂😂😂I’m 💀
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
Жыл бұрын
She is and I don’t know if I can deal with her.
When you can't articulate what you want, you don't go shopping and you do more homework, bringing photos with you that can illustrate what you can't verbalize. These people work on commission, it's their place of work, you don't waste their time. If you don't want bridal look, you don't go to bridal store - plenty of stores with lovely dresses that will cost way less just because they are not labeled as 'bridal wear'.
@gatzwolffadventures
Жыл бұрын
Bingo
@chrissycopeland8064
Жыл бұрын
There's a reason she's on this show!
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
Жыл бұрын
Exactly and if she did not want to go out, she could have just browsed online. She was just lazy. My classmate just wore a simple white satin dress for her wedding and it only costs her $100. She is happily married too. You don’t need to spend a fortune on your dress.
@Conmezzo
10 ай бұрын
The photo of her in the green satin dress at the 1:46 mark gives a clue about her style. Her entourage knows her well and gave constructive feedback. Randy finally figured it out.
She really gave the impression like she didn't want to be there, didn't want a dress, and that something was up with her. It was making me think of Curvy Brides Boutique and that Jo and Al could have handled it better.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
Жыл бұрын
Yes or go to Lori. They could have handled it better.
@catladyfromky4142
11 ай бұрын
Actually, Jo would call her out on her bad attitude. She has done that on the past. If Randy had done that here, you would have excoriated him for it.
@jb6712
10 ай бұрын
Jo and Al haven't done a show in a very long time, at least not since Al had bariatric surgery and lost a lot of weight several years ago. And who in America has the money to travel to England just for an expensive bunch of white fabric to wear for a measly few hours??? That's insanity!
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
5 ай бұрын
@FAKOKTATrue because I would have lost my patience with her.
great choice, simple elegant and timeless. she rejected the right ones.
@gardenjoy5223
3 ай бұрын
Simple, boring, plain.
How do you go to a dress shop and don’t know or have an idea of what you want 😂
@hollydejong1792
5 ай бұрын
Yes! My daughter & I went Prom dress shopping with screenshots of the exact dress she wanted to try on. We immediately found the dress in two sizes. She tried them on, picked the 👗 she felt comfortable in, and wasn't ready to take it off 🙂 She loved it so much that she kept it on while she helped a friend look for a dress ❤
Talk about MASSIVE patience! I wouldn't have been able to deal with her guessing game.
@brandywineblogger1411
Жыл бұрын
Truly! The devil on my left shoulder wanted to smack her. At least she could have printed up some ideas from the Internet.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
Жыл бұрын
Me too. I would have lost my patience.
Maybe the should have given her some catalogs and a quiet room to find what she likes.
If I had been her consultant, I would have told her to come back when she has an idea of what she wants.
@mariesmith1616
Жыл бұрын
🙌
I can totally see a bride not knowing what she wants, but you have a bridal consultant for a reason. Trust them, try on the gowns they bring you and then you can start seeing what you like and don't like. Just saying no to all the dresses on the hanger is not helping the process.
@TEWMUCH
10 ай бұрын
Yup.
@gardenjoy5223
3 ай бұрын
"Do you like lace?" "I don't know..."
She’s UPSETTING ME , WHAT IS SHE 2!
I wasn't even in the room or building and she had me broke out in a sweat...I was getting so anxious, thought I was gonna have to take a nerve pill 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
She one of those people who can't put the work to make a descision but is quick enough to say no when you make the effort for her. Nightmare!
Good luck to the groom for marrying such an indecisive girl😂
She’s doesn’t seem to be too happy about getting married….maybe she knows she shouldn’t be and can’t say no. So much sadness in this episode.
@gardenjoy5223
3 ай бұрын
Yep: I feel tremendously sad for the fool marrying that.
"Can I buy a vowel"? hahaha!!!!!
Ok, I apparently have absolutely NO retail or customer service genes at all, because I just want to slap someone!!!😉
She looks like she doesn’t want to be there
I like the plain one … it looked gorgeous on her
@gardenjoy5223
3 ай бұрын
And... she can die it black and wear to a funeral as well! My, that was the most boring dress I've seen on ALL episodes I've EVER watched.
That dress looks perfect for a person who says no all the time ! Lol classic and clean
@gardenjoy5223
3 ай бұрын
Plain and boring...
Farrah and Randy are hilarious ! 😄 At least she knows what she doesn't want . Most importantly, she chose her entourage and her future husband perfectly. That's wthat truly matters.
@mountaingirl6479
6 ай бұрын
Thank you! So many people miss the fact that the marriage is more important than the wedding!
If I was the consultant, after the 3rd “I don’t know” I wouldve told her to come back when she did
wow, Farrah seems depressed. Usually brides have been pouring over magazines or online for ideas for their gown. Glad she was open to suggestions. The consultant earned her commission on this one!
@mariesmith1616
Жыл бұрын
Lazy and demanding
@lysem4392
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. She was so downbeat, so unhappy looking.
@mmekenna5925
11 ай бұрын
I think you're right, she may have very low self esteem, self confidence. I think she doesn't want to be the center of attention at all.
@cecilyjones8692
10 ай бұрын
@@mmekenna5925 I agree. She reminds me of myself
@jb6712
10 ай бұрын
It's PORING....looking through, perusing....not "pouring"...'to flow rapidly in a steady stream'!
Does she really want to get married? Maybe? No? Randy and Ayana have the patience of Saints!!! I would have needed a Gin and Tonic after this one. But so glad she finally found a truly classic gown.
This woman would drive me insane
Her shape is devine, she could pull off any dress! Thankfully she knew what she wanted, an evening dress, not a typical wedding dress! And she looks amazing in it!
@lysem4392
Жыл бұрын
She _didn't_ know what she wanted. Randy and the consultants had to figure it out for her. Even the dress she eventually chose, she didn't know whether she wanted it or not until she had the hat on.
@jb6712
10 ай бұрын
DIVINE. And no, it isn't. She's plump, she shouldn't be wearing a tight-fitting dress.
I find it astounding that this bride had put no thought into a silhouette whatsoever. Surreal
She doesn’t seem like she’s in the right head space to select a gown. I wonder if she was being pressured by her family.
She strikes me as not having a clue what her options are vs trying to be difficult.
Wow I never knew of anybody that had no clue about wedding dresses. It might of helped her to look at books with wedding gowns. She was extremely picky. They did a great job of narrowing down what she might like!
@wandarobinson5612
Жыл бұрын
That’s what I mean about doing YOUR OWN RESEARCH!!
@veronicamims8611
Жыл бұрын
Ridiculous
@denyshadials5702
Жыл бұрын
It’s not a priority for a lot of people until a wedding actually happens.
@barbaral743
Жыл бұрын
I wasn't interested until I got engaged. Got some bridal magazines and looked at the styles. Went to some local shops alone to get a feel for my style. I tracked down a dress I loved in the mags, tried it on, and . . .yawn. Consultant brought in something I never would have picked and it looked good. You never know till you try.
@BBlair-if8tj
Жыл бұрын
It might have.
"I know I want something............................ very nice...." Good grief woman.
I liked this episode, she couldn’t convey that she wanted a simple classy dress to make her own , but did in the end 😊
The bride looks miserable, almost like she doesn't even want a wedding.
@adirarrrrrrr7997
11 ай бұрын
I get the sense she wants to be married, but just isn't into weddings. But I may be projecting because that was the case with me. I got a very simple champagne colored dress that was technically a bridesmaid dress.
I don't know if this was all done for the show, but that bride did not look happy about any of the dresses or even being there. Not a good look for a bride!
Absolutely loved that beautiful simple elegant gown. So timeless and hugged her body so well🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
She just seemed so lethargic.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
11 ай бұрын
Not just lethargic but lazy too.
I would love to know when she got engaged, Lol!! She could at least started looking at bridal books. She had NO CLUE, 😂😂
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
Жыл бұрын
She probably did not care or just wanted to throw all of the burden onto the consultants as we can see here.
I love Randy slowly losing it during this appointment 😂
Tip for people asking OR questions: make the two suggestions actual opposites! “do you want shine or something with movement?” is a useless question! There are plenty of shiny-floaty fabrics. Do you want shine or matte? do you want firm or floaty? do you want plain or embellished? If you want her to make meaningful decisions, ask meaningful questions, you’re supposed to be the experts.
@tastymedleys
9 ай бұрын
That's definitely true, but in this case she couldn't even answer yes or no questions, which is as basic as it gets. Do you like lace? I don't know. So I don't think it was an issue of what exactly they asked.
She has a lovely figure and going elegantly minimalist is gonna work for her! What a diva, tho. 😅
As a consultant she is my worst nightmare. 😂 brides often go with the opposite of what they want.
At least they all had a sense of humour to deal with the brides uncertainly, they could have a laugh
Randy's right when you put it on and it's right you know it.
She looked so excited.
Bless her future husband
@nealdmiller
Жыл бұрын
lol
@scooterbaby1
Жыл бұрын
we all know what that means. LOL👍
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
Жыл бұрын
This is old so they are married already. But I wonder if they are still married?
Uhhhhh, she is impossible. I can’t deal with indecisive people.
It’s funny, most brides are like “I need more”, but she’s like “I want less”. But instead of saying “I want less” she said idk and No a hundred times til they got there lol
Simply said, I would not have the patience to deal with this situation. Good grief. This bride is completely unprepared for this appointment.
These consultants ❤ they’re amazing
The “I dont know” is a red flag.
who goes shopping for a wedding dress and doesn't want to look like a bride?
@kutuballah
Жыл бұрын
maybe she meant like a typical bride.
@taylorwalker7417
Жыл бұрын
You would be surprised.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
Жыл бұрын
Maybe she wanted to be more simple? My classmate just wore a plain white satin dress that costs only $100.
@chrissycopeland8064
Жыл бұрын
I ended up getting married without a wedding but I had wanted my mom to make me a simple A line dress very similar to a homecoming dress she made me. I wanted a crown of tulips on my head with a veil to be the "wow" of my dress
@jb6712
10 ай бұрын
Me.
Ooh the joy in her face !! 😃 (sarcasm) 😐 The attitude! 🫠
“idk”😭
Why don’t they just let the bride walk a bit in the store and may b pick few items she liked just for the idea !!
I feel bad for the husband. Red flags are glaring.
I used to be a bridal consultant and this is peaches and cream compared to some of my appointments 😂
@mariesmith1616
Жыл бұрын
Wow
@strawberrykatnz
11 ай бұрын
Me too, and yes!!
$2000 and she thinks she can be this picky 😂
Oh hell no. They don't pay these people enough for this 😮
I would send her home.
It's annoying to be so picky when you don't know what the hell you want. 😒😒😒😒
Didn’t she look at any magazines and get some sort of idea of what she wanted? 🤦🏻♀️
I realize it's their job to help the bride find a dress, to make that sale, but when she kept saying,I don't know", I'd have told her to leave till she made up her mind. A grown woman getting married, I sure hope she figures it out real soon!
@jb6712
10 ай бұрын
This clip is nearly 20 years old. She's probably been married three times by now.
“He’s the ONLY ONE that can put up with me” .. 💅
I'm this type of customer: I probably tell you what I DON'T want but that's the extent of it
@Laura-tc2ws
10 ай бұрын
At least you would say something...
Poor consultants, she is giving me a heart attack
I understand her. On the day I ended up dress shopping, I was neither prepared or in the mood for it but in my case, I chose the first sample dress that remotely fit so I could move on.
I wish that she looked for inspiration before going. They can't do their job if you don't come in with at least an idea. If it doesn't pan out, at least they have a slight direction to go in.
That was me when I was 19. I just got here In California! I was on “I don’t know” diet for long time until my friend yelled at me and woke me up. lol!
When I got married I had NO IDEA what I wanted-I looked through all the dresses and picked what I liked.
Farrah is a pain in the neck.
A bride that has no CLUE as to what she wants is a bride who does not know who she is!! Listen….hold off on the marriage and take some genuine time developing yourself!!! You will be the better off in the long run.
How can anyone put up with this woman?
She sure is picky to only have a $2000 budget.
I kind of feel for her. I was disappointed by pretty much every wedding dress I tried on. I went to 4 different stores, brought different people with me, tried on a few dozen dresses, but finding anything that fit, was in my budget, and actually flattered was an uphill battle. The dress I ended up with was beautiful, but it wasn't some magical moment, it was kind of exhausting and it wasn't a process that left me feeling more confident.
@maryanne7161
9 ай бұрын
I wish I could see your dress!
@gardenjoy5223
3 ай бұрын
That's why we look through magazines. And the internet nowadays. So you know what you don't like and you know what you like.
This bride was giving me anxiety
Great choice! She and randy both are hilarious!
This became one of my favorite episodes because it trolls in just the right way. Like, she just said "no" the entire time. Hahahaha!!!
Some ladies don’t want to take the time out to do RESEARCH 🔬😤! Your OWN RESEARCH 🤬!! That’s how you, Bride-to-be, can KNOW what you look good in. And what style you like/want!
I can't believe she only realized she liked the final dress when they put that hideous birdcage hat on her! What is it with birdcage hats? They are so ugly.
Poor consultants 😂😂😂😂
The first dress looked so beautiful on her 😍