Absolutely! Did you ask your daughter her career goals? Is it possible that the school she chose was the best place to go for her career aspirations? What if she wanted to attend a trade school? Would you have paid for that? Or does a female mechanic/ plumber/electrician/ you get the point not fit with your vision of your daughter’s destiny? Sounds like you are more interested in the “status” of your daughter’s education than you are about her actual goals.
@Black-Rose12
3 ай бұрын
“Community college” and “best place for your career aspirations” should not be in the same line
@grey-spark2 ай бұрын
I know the dad's a jerk but man did the daughter blow it. I'd kill to have a dad pay for my college.
@Magicnun2 ай бұрын
Nta, a bit of jerk sure, but it seemed like he it made to clear the college funds were not for a community college.
@Badangel622923 ай бұрын
YTA. She picked the school she wanted to go to and reconciled with the fact that you wouldn’t support financially. Her solution to you not paying is financial aid which you still would not help her secure. Regardless, you can’t force your kids to go to the school you want and it would have cost you nothing to fill out the forms she needed.
@larissagomes451Ай бұрын
Congrats, you just ruined your relationship with your daughter over a bullshit reason 😂😂😂
@AuraKumo1044 ай бұрын
Definitely TA
@theoneandonly977512 күн бұрын
She tried to pull one over on you so its her fault. If she tried to openly talk to you first, then you 2 could have come to an agreement
@killerfrost72993 ай бұрын
Nta she knew the whole time and kept playing around she proabbaly just wanted any spare money left over
@idminister
2 ай бұрын
No he is TA, not because of not providing money. Which she did not ask for. But for refusing to provide the paperwork so she could receive financial aid, the paperwork that proves he wont be financially supporting her education and that her application for financial aid is not a scam from a well off family to game the system.
@ragon39
2 ай бұрын
What… it’s college money set aside for her… so it should be for her to spend on college in anyway she sees fit. Also, depending on the state, you can start your degree with community college then transfer those credits over to a state college. This gives you the degree from a state college at a lesser cost. So not only is he an AH. He’s a moron as well.
@formanga88713 ай бұрын
How YTA? He is paying for it didn't he?
@rodrigojose8724
3 ай бұрын
No, he wasn't paying for the community college, and was gatekeeping her from getting there not sending her his information, definetly the YTAH
@formanga8871
3 ай бұрын
@@rodrigojose8724 He said he would pay for private college but would not pay community one, Hence why I said he was paying for it and he was, She just didn't wanted a private college for some dumb reason. Yeah collage is lot of money but if someone else is paying for you then its not and also it had increased her chances to be more successful, Not guaranteed but at least odds would be in her favor, He was just looking out for her.
@Catherine.Dorian.
3 ай бұрын
@@formanga8871Yeah it doesn’t make sense if he’s covering everything why she wanted community college unless she’s a terrible student
@formanga8871
3 ай бұрын
@@Catherine.Dorian. That's the think I am asking, He willing to cover everything for private collage of her like he did with her other siblings.
@muzgi
3 ай бұрын
@@rodrigojose8724 so she can decide what to do with her education but he can't decide what he wants to do with his money?
@storyteller55572 ай бұрын
I dont think so investing in a childs higher education is a very serious investment, the op made a serious plan for all his kids and communicated it from the start. I don't understand why people are always rooting for consequence less decision making. If you have been given an option and dont accept the terms associated with it you simply cant have it. Just as shes free to choose what she does in life the dad is also free to pick and choose what aspects he feels comfortable investing in. Its very entitled to expect your parents to roll over once you are an adult. Hes already fulfilled his responsibility to raise you and as an added bonus wanted to pay for regular University. Its fine if you dont want that but holding it against him is not justified in my books. You cant always get your cake and eat it too. The way op communicated might be harsh but just on a standing point of view, he didn't do anything wrong.
@euanberesford99743 ай бұрын
Yta
@sierrastanley31093 ай бұрын
Excuse me? Community college IS a real college thank you very much! YTA!
@okiamherenow6372
3 ай бұрын
Yeahhh suree buddy 👀
@Black-Rose12
3 ай бұрын
It’s really not let’s nit pretend like it is
@verygooddeal4436
Ай бұрын
Lmaoooooo
@jamesbouchard36613 ай бұрын
Yup YTA
@Skylar_candova2 ай бұрын
You're both TA. You refused to accept that she wanted to go to a different college of her choice and she was sneaky in turn.
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Absolutely! Did you ask your daughter her career goals? Is it possible that the school she chose was the best place to go for her career aspirations? What if she wanted to attend a trade school? Would you have paid for that? Or does a female mechanic/ plumber/electrician/ you get the point not fit with your vision of your daughter’s destiny? Sounds like you are more interested in the “status” of your daughter’s education than you are about her actual goals.
@Black-Rose12
3 ай бұрын
“Community college” and “best place for your career aspirations” should not be in the same line
I know the dad's a jerk but man did the daughter blow it. I'd kill to have a dad pay for my college.
Nta, a bit of jerk sure, but it seemed like he it made to clear the college funds were not for a community college.
YTA. She picked the school she wanted to go to and reconciled with the fact that you wouldn’t support financially. Her solution to you not paying is financial aid which you still would not help her secure. Regardless, you can’t force your kids to go to the school you want and it would have cost you nothing to fill out the forms she needed.
Congrats, you just ruined your relationship with your daughter over a bullshit reason 😂😂😂
Definitely TA
She tried to pull one over on you so its her fault. If she tried to openly talk to you first, then you 2 could have come to an agreement
Nta she knew the whole time and kept playing around she proabbaly just wanted any spare money left over
@idminister
2 ай бұрын
No he is TA, not because of not providing money. Which she did not ask for. But for refusing to provide the paperwork so she could receive financial aid, the paperwork that proves he wont be financially supporting her education and that her application for financial aid is not a scam from a well off family to game the system.
@ragon39
2 ай бұрын
What… it’s college money set aside for her… so it should be for her to spend on college in anyway she sees fit. Also, depending on the state, you can start your degree with community college then transfer those credits over to a state college. This gives you the degree from a state college at a lesser cost. So not only is he an AH. He’s a moron as well.
How YTA? He is paying for it didn't he?
@rodrigojose8724
3 ай бұрын
No, he wasn't paying for the community college, and was gatekeeping her from getting there not sending her his information, definetly the YTAH
@formanga8871
3 ай бұрын
@@rodrigojose8724 He said he would pay for private college but would not pay community one, Hence why I said he was paying for it and he was, She just didn't wanted a private college for some dumb reason. Yeah collage is lot of money but if someone else is paying for you then its not and also it had increased her chances to be more successful, Not guaranteed but at least odds would be in her favor, He was just looking out for her.
@Catherine.Dorian.
3 ай бұрын
@@formanga8871Yeah it doesn’t make sense if he’s covering everything why she wanted community college unless she’s a terrible student
@formanga8871
3 ай бұрын
@@Catherine.Dorian. That's the think I am asking, He willing to cover everything for private collage of her like he did with her other siblings.
@muzgi
3 ай бұрын
@@rodrigojose8724 so she can decide what to do with her education but he can't decide what he wants to do with his money?
I dont think so investing in a childs higher education is a very serious investment, the op made a serious plan for all his kids and communicated it from the start. I don't understand why people are always rooting for consequence less decision making. If you have been given an option and dont accept the terms associated with it you simply cant have it. Just as shes free to choose what she does in life the dad is also free to pick and choose what aspects he feels comfortable investing in. Its very entitled to expect your parents to roll over once you are an adult. Hes already fulfilled his responsibility to raise you and as an added bonus wanted to pay for regular University. Its fine if you dont want that but holding it against him is not justified in my books. You cant always get your cake and eat it too. The way op communicated might be harsh but just on a standing point of view, he didn't do anything wrong.
Yta
Excuse me? Community college IS a real college thank you very much! YTA!
@okiamherenow6372
3 ай бұрын
Yeahhh suree buddy 👀
@Black-Rose12
3 ай бұрын
It’s really not let’s nit pretend like it is
@verygooddeal4436
Ай бұрын
Lmaoooooo
Yup YTA
You're both TA. You refused to accept that she wanted to go to a different college of her choice and she was sneaky in turn.
Yta