"God will wreck your plans when He sees that your plans will wreck you". That hit home!

@Mariliza.

4 ай бұрын

💯‼️

@veronicaharris1836

9 күн бұрын

Yes grieving is hard but there is still more after this

This pain I feel is so intense that sometimes all I want to do is sleep. There was a fear that I messed up something that was great. But I receive Gods Word that even if it was me God still has a plan for me.

@linnette6493

5 ай бұрын

I've been there. It will get better. Even if you messed it up, God still loves you. This too shall pass! ❤

@ChadRobertson-mc2cp

4 ай бұрын

I messed up terribly

@Ritatrue

3 ай бұрын

You got this!

@antwan7836

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for comment. I feel the same way

I need this word so badly!! I'm struggling so badly w/ this breakup! Nothing has hurt be this badly in my entire life. I'm in therapy, been in no-contact since he dumped me, deleted every picture, voice-mail, text message, sent back every gift he gave me & threw away all the cards & notes. I feel so stuck with this & I'm still so hurt. I miss his friendship so much, it's excruciating. I'm fine 1 day & not the next. I cry so much it's crazy😢 I've never been through anything like this. It's been almost 2 months & Idk how or when I'll ever get past this. I don't want him back, I don't trust him anymore, I'm just hurt. There were no arguments, I was happy & thought he was too, but there were so much deception & lies on his part it hurts so much knowing he probably never really cared about me. I just pray God delivers me from this pain soon.

@cuttinupwithcrystal5484

6 ай бұрын

Same here ❤😢

@dtjisdivine

5 ай бұрын

God will. It does get better. ♥️ I’ve been there. God loves you and I pray he comforts you through it all.

@jasminedubose92

5 ай бұрын

😮‍💨

@ladyrenee1956

5 ай бұрын

When your relationship grows closer to God you will forget him I'm going through the same thing but I know I'm worth so much more than sex and a late night blunt now I'm clean do drinks no weed and no sex praise god

@alannahjack2188

4 ай бұрын

How are you feeling now? ☺️

I did not want to let go and I begged and pleaded because I knew I loved him. Yet his dismissive behavior and the words “ It’s time to leave this alone” woke me up and God reminded me that I am more and I will have great. My burden is light and my yolk is easy. I love you all and I wish you an easy process I’m running with you

@diariesbycyn

10 күн бұрын

I’m struggling with this too… the begging and the pleading. It hurts. Let me know what you’re doing to cope with this.

“You could be a whole package,but if you end up at the wrong address, the receiver could mishandle you”

I was dumped recently & struggling to move forward. Feeling blessed that God led me to this video. ❤

“You’re healed when you see the person who cut you and you don’t want to cut them back” - this is soooooo good! 👍🏾

“Healing scares people who benefit from your brokenness”

I think it was both: I was the problem and also divine intervention. I’m praying for all of us.

@PreciousdaughterofChrist

28 күн бұрын

me too ☹️

Dude, it was me all the time, I regret not changing while she was here and now that she is gone I miss her ☹️ Miss her so much, guys pray for me …

@treasurehardy3711

4 ай бұрын

That’s my situation too! I miss him like crazy but I know he needs the space from me to move on and heal.

@whitneyparker5168

2 ай бұрын

🙏🏾🙏🏾

@lunas2551

2 ай бұрын

Sometimes God is kind enough to let us learn these hard lessons before your spouse comes along. You may have wanted her to be the one, but hopefully the clarity you gained can be a blessing. I am sorry for your heartache and pray God gives you the answers you need 💗

@pwillskiapparel3886

2 ай бұрын

Bro I feel you, we got a son together so I gotta see her almost everyday. It’s tough but I’m taking it day by day

@LuzMartinez-fl3qx

Ай бұрын

It’s truly hard to think U had someone that was it for U.. Where U had all your hopes and dreams with this person only to find out he isn’t it… My situation is a bit unique I guess… I got married 20 years ago with my first bf to help him with his papers.. Long story short he ended up getting deported and I never got to getting a divorce… I met someone and we had been dating for roughly 4 months when I told him i was still married his perception changed of our relationship… I can’t really afford to get divorced at the moment soo after much discussion.. He basically said he couldn’t continue with the relationship because of the fact that I am still married on paper.. He said it bothers him and blocks him from moving forward with this relationship… I honestly dont understand that, I mean… If U really want to be with someone should that really matter? I mean it’s not like we are getting married now and eventually I do plan on getting divorced just not rite now.. Unfortunately financial circumstances does not allow me too..: Anywho, I really thought he was the finally the one! He was everything I had been praying God in a man and so I thought God had finally answered my prayer… Needless to say Im pretty tore up rite now… Just been praying for God to give me clarity and help me heal…

Shake off the dust. Don’t allow heart to be calloused. Staying in a place where you’re not received is wasting time. If I’m at the wrong address, the receiver won’t receive us. Shake it off and enter my new season!! Go and take my peace with me…to the new village.

I am struggling so bad to let go. It’s very clear that it doesn’t matter if I stay or if I go to him. I begged, questioning my worth. Why not me, why not fight for me. I want it to be him…. It hurts so bad, my anxiety eats me up, I over think. The day I see him with someone else.

I’m only 5 minutes through this video and Pastor Jerry is nailing my exact feelings. I always use to ask people how do you grieve someone that’s still alive, still breathing, walking around as if the hurt they caused means nothing. Oh but god, it truly blows my mind at how he works in the midst of it all. Cause in the end, it only brought me so much closer to him. And at one point I had to ask god “Did I hurt you the way he hurt me?” …because when god said no other idol above him, that’s truly what he meant. I’m so grateful for where my relationship is with him now, and if it took having to go through what I had to, to get here, then so be it. I definitely shared this with a few friends already ✨ “There is still more after this.” Amen 🙏🏾

@OmariShorts556

Жыл бұрын

Hi! I would like to start a women’s group that uplifts women and we all help each other strive to be kingdom women that God has called us to be would you like to be apart of it?

@ccartagena2262

Жыл бұрын

I said the same thing

@jessicalong6011

7 ай бұрын

Amen!

@tmarie9609

5 ай бұрын

@@OmariShorts556I’d love that!

@tmarie9609

5 ай бұрын

This was well written and I had the SAME experience!

I confess I was jealous and angry in my relationship because I felt so many games were being played . I always felt like I was in the wrong just for them to reveal they were always involved with someone else . Lord forgive me for my wrongs for my jealousy and anger .

it’s been 10 months for me & i never experienced pain this intense. I truly thought she was the love of my life, but i was wrong. 6 years of putting my heart & soul into someone only for it to be a lesson. She moved on a couple months after the breakup & seems happy. Meanwhile i’ve been dealing with excruciating pain every single day. I pray to God everyday to heal my heart & help me move forward with my life but it’s a long process. I have faith that it’ll get better eventually, God is just working on me a little longer.

@Bonafide0324

2 ай бұрын

Try fasting and praying it helps also delete everything that reminds you of her.

@SGWAPO

2 ай бұрын

@@Bonafide0324 Thanks alot! Trying my best

I allowed my insecurities and jealousy to take over my mind. I pushed away my ex. I am grateful that I see the errors in my ways. I understand my thoughts needed healing. I will use this time to mentally heal. I will keep God 1st pray for healing and seek help. I will renew my spirit and mind in GOD'S NAME AND WORD.

@alenablanco5151

Ай бұрын

I hooe youve been well my love remmever God is good!! How is everything now? If the time is right you guys can meet again

I was with a man who eventually said he didn’t want to pursue God yet, It’s been painful and I never stopped seeking God. The pain drew me closer than ever because I just didn’t understand. But I’m healing, God never chose this for me.. my actions led me here but I know better now. He’s helping me every step!

I NEEDED this Word! Lord forgive me and help me forgive those who have harmed me.

“I just don’t want to move on, I want to move on right and with health.” A powerful message! Thank you for allowing God to use you. 🥹

@shaqwannacole4419

3 ай бұрын

8

I ignored all the red flags. This person came into my life at my most vulnerable season in 1997, and I believed it was a God send and was married to this person for 25 years through all the narcissistic, childhood trauma and dysfunction. I am determined to heal from this grief from this divorce!

@ChadRobertson-mc2cp

4 ай бұрын

I was so toxic ,narcissistic, manipulative. 100 percent wrong. I regret it. I will I've grown so much but extremely guilty.

@mandysmith4901

2 ай бұрын

Same here!

@stephnyamify

Ай бұрын

I also ignored the red flags 20 years and 4 kids later 😢 I'm struggling to move on

📖 _If your always the teacher and never the student, then your probably the problem_ . 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@LearninLyfe

Жыл бұрын

Yes Lord I needed this!!!!! I receive this message in the name of JESUS! Amen Amen Amen

I feel so broken right now......everything in my life is scrambling down but wat scares me the most is my relationship with God and my career 😢.....leaving this comment here in april 2024 for future reference coz i know God is gonna deliver me 🙏 🙏 Glory be to God

You can tell that Jerry genuinely loves the Lord and wants to help others

I miss him for real and it's a roller coaster day to day and I know I can't go. Back

That was spot on! The worst combination is when somebody is arrogant and ignorant 😂😂😂

@sixteen.candles.4644

6 ай бұрын

Lol

Grieving and they’re still alive! Definitely that part!

Thank you Lord for using Jerry for delivering this message

@sanders4911

11 ай бұрын

The way this man preaches is astounding ❤

My heart is so broken right now I don’t love myself so I couldn’t love him neither. This man loved me unconditionally and I couldn’t give or receive it back. I promised God before I met him I would work on and heal myself before I entered a relationship I didn’t keep my promise and now Ive ran off a good man. I know God is working in my life but it’s hard not to feel anger with God! when does my happiness come when will the pain from my past not affect my present and future

THERE IS STILL MORE AFTER THIS, THE BREAKUP

My mother always warned me about this: “You can’t be wrong AND strong….

I just broke up And seeing right away is just God😭

@jessieoakford6113

Жыл бұрын

God provides, the love we can trust

@alenablanco5151

Ай бұрын

@@jessieoakford6113 are you okay now?

Understanding my purpose...even as a single woman and mother

THERES STILL MORE AFTER THIS!! Lord your story for me continues onward,,, heal my heart, spirit, and mind the right way, the way it's intended for, Hallelujah! Thank you brother for being a vessel & allowing God to speak through you!

Thankful for the Lord letting me see it was me and the relationship was not good for me either! Grateful to God for caring enough to snatch me out when I didn’t have the strength or sense to do it myself. 🙌🏾hallelujah for freedom and true healing to move on! 🎉

What a word 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Yes when I was with my ex narc my spiritual life greatly declined. Stopped going to church, prayer life came to a halt.. Thank you Jesus my Boaz is on his way 🙏🏽

There is still more after the breakup Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Omgoodness I really needed this today because I’m in the middle of the healing process of healing from a six year relationship with two kids out of it 😢it’s really hard thank you lord for this

@tyralewis5394

4 ай бұрын

Hi girlie! How are you doing now?

AMEN THERE’S STILL MORE AFTER THIS - AFTER THE BREAKUP

i was planning on marrying my ex we haven't spoke in three weeks.. i'm really struggling. we were unevenly yoked & did alot of fighting but had amazing times as well. God has revealed he separated us to get me closer to him and if he didn't i was only going to stray away from him even more.. hallelujah.

@user-dq1in3vt6p

Ай бұрын

Same here 😔

Amen 🙏🏾. I needed to hear this . Went thru a divorce and I still find myself missing her and thinking about our family . Healing is messy, but necessary. Amen 🙏🏾

@jecintahwanjiru1606

3 ай бұрын

I feel you, going thru the same😢

That whole part...grieve someone who is physically still here

The death was my doing. I lied to him because I was afraid of telling him the truth and fearful of the reaction I would get from telling him the truth. He was my best friend and I betrayed his trust. He had the grace to still forgive me but we’re no longer together. I recognize that I have unhealed issues. I pray for him to this day. Currently in a phase of suffering and shame but grateful for this suffering otherwise I would not be changing for the better. I am striving to walk with God more and strengthening my relationship with Him. Thank you for this video. God Bless everyone who is in the same situation as I am, I pray you heal and learn from the word so you can stop hurting your loved ones.

It’s me, I have gotten to a place where I almost hate myself. I see all that is within me and how I push away everyone I loved…and I hate it. I’m so sick of myself, I’m sick of the result of what I’ve inflicted on others.

I just want to grieve and get over him 🥺

It’s been about 4 months I’m just seeing this therapy Thursday however everything you said made so much sense. In this breakup I broke up with him. It hurt soo bad and went back and forth with God on why do I got to be the one to do it. He gave me strength and I noticed how weak this person made me. Ignored every red flag and almost married him I postponed the wedding at first and a month later had to break up with him for my sake and I did just that on the day we were supposed to be married! Can I tell you God has done His big one for me! I’m happier day by day and more of myself than I was two years ago! I’m not saying I’m perfect I just met this person in the most vulnerable state I just had lost my dad a month prior thinking it would fix my wound that I put a bandage on.

I'm getting my peace back. Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Move on right; walked away hoping they’ll stop you;don’t know how to grieve about something that is dead but the person is still alive…. Move on with health, Heal with clarity

Wow....soaking myself in worship helped alot,It switches focus...I pray you focus on Jesus....I love this video...like this to remind me that can take it❤

There’s still more after this (: thank you Jesus 🩷

Pastor Jerry Flowers ALWAYS delivers God's message in the most loving, gentle yet firm & simple way. God bless you Pastor. I totally needed this. Watching from Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪

YOU CAME FOR MY SCALP ON THIS ONE JERRY!! THANK YOU!!

@wdsanders04

Жыл бұрын

We have to move on the right way .

I’m on your cuffing series, trapped series, timing series and the current…. Recent breakup that effected me spiritually, mentally, emotionally the past 3 years. Coming across your page has been a blessing from God. I have been praying and I watch a few pastors online who I absolutely love and you have just been absolutely amazing because it’s biblical. It’s not sugarcoating. It’s exactly what I need to hear and this therapy Thursday is it on another level!

THERE'S STILL MORE AFTER THIS!

I needed to hear this today. I have held on to the dust of another village with dear life because it's what I want even when I heard a whispering in my spirit that God had to close that door.

Amen and Amen. Thank you Lord for showing me that I had to end that relationship. Thank you Lord for showing me my own brokenness. Please help me to heal and to get on the right path - to get on Your path Lord. I can’t do this by myself anymore without You. Thank you Lord for Pastor J and his ministry and for access to Therapy Thursday. In Jesus name Amen!

There is still more for me after this! ❤️🙏🏼

No, I don’t think I was perfect. Who is? Neither was he. But I tried so many methods. I tried being calm, matching his energy, silence, empathy, nurturing. Nothing was good enough. No effort was enough. I over-communicated. I loved him so much and I feel like he ripped my heart out my chest. He lied to my face, he cheated, he disrespected me and I was so lonely and afraid to be alone that I mistook that reluctance to love me as love. I used to be scared to give him space because I knew that as soon as I moved, he would replace me. And it happened. As soon as I stopped fighting it ended. I let him back in time and time again and he continued to hurt me. Mentally, physically, emotionally. He always said he didn’t feel he could trust me and never felt loved from me but I know it was him projecting his own feelings of himself. I stuck by him while he got locked up, when he lost his job, when he hurt me, when he pushed me away. I just feel so defeated knowing that someone I wanted so badly, someone who looked me in my eyes and told me they would protect me, that he loved me and that he wouldn’t let harm come To me… yet the person that hurt me the most was you. I know I said I hated you…. I still love you so deeply. I hate tht I ignored the signs and continued down a road I knew I should’ve abandoned. I hope love is out there for me. Dad was never in my life, mom died 14 years ago. I just can’t imagine that my life was supposed to have this much loss and brokenness

@childZuri

20 күн бұрын

I feel for you. Praying God heals you❤

I’m getting my peace back. 🙏🏽

So timely for me but hey that’s the power God! I needed today after a ending of a 9 year marriage and whatever the last 2 years were about. Grateful to the Lord for His strength, grace, and the healing of my heart… Time to shake that dust brother!!!

This message is so healing. I’m going through a breakup and I know this has to be God sending this message. I literally had a conversation with my ex 2 months post break up. I gave him a message God put on my heart. Extended the olive branch and told him I’m dusting my sandals off like the disciples. He laughed but I was serious I’m going to move forward and wait for Boaz.

There is still more after this! Thank you Jesus!! 🙏🏼

I needed to hear this so bad 😭 Thank you Jesus and thank you pastor for putting this video up 🫶🏽

I AM GETTING MY PEACE BACK

There is still more after this!!!

I dont want to just move on but i want to move on right😢. Help me Lord🙏🙏

Cover this MAN of GOD!! I am so grateful for your obedience, which is teaching me obedience. This one hit real different! I am so grateful that you and your amazing family have been apart of my healing journey for the last 3 years. God bless you all!

I'M GETTING MY PEACE BACK🙏🏽

THERE’S STILL MORE AFTER THIS.❤

Thank You for covering emotional abuse. I am Blessed that God removed me from an abusive marriage, but at the right time He sent my Boaz

I’m getting my peace back!

There’s still more after this… glory to the most high

There is still more after this Lord You have a Plan for US❤️‍🔥

There's still more after this!

I needed thissss!!!! I will be okay! God will never crack a Red Sea to return only to depart!!!!!

I needed this tonight! Thank you 🙏 & AMEN 🙏🙏🙏

THERE’S STILL MORE AFTER THIS AMEN❤️🙏🏽

Definitely agree with this, not easy to move on from someone u cared about. But when u do…😫🙌🏽

@jecintahwanjiru1606

3 ай бұрын

💯

I'm getting my peace back!!

There is still more after this in Jesus name

MANNNNN YOU BETTER PREACH because I can’t stand my ex/baby daddy!!! Whew yeah you talking to me ‼️

Lord thank you for leading me to this ministry during this time. You are truly using it to grow me and I am extremely grateful! Thank you to everyone involved in this ministry for being willing vessels. Especially Pastor Jerry!! ❤❤

This is more Self Reflective and Mirror moment in ourselves to take self inventory and awareness. This phase is so vital . Thank you Jesus

I was the red flag and I messed up, sabotaged so bad. Acted out from feelings I thought were present. They were so recurrent that I couldn’t deny them. I would ask and it would either get no energy or denied. Either I was a huge narcissist and did to him what my last did to me; or my gut was right and there was quiet manipulation. After grieving there’ll be more clarity. Our relationship didn’t start out bad but at some key points things changed. I think this hurts so bad bc I messed up and wished I had enough strength and wisdom to fix my faults. I need to change. Be happy be tender be Loving. I just don’t know how. I projected too. I didn’t give him what he needed and he didn’t give me what I needed. I’m broken. Be fixed My Love 🤍

@PreciousdaughterofChrist

28 күн бұрын

I’m going through the same thing…I’m so sad

@chsnbytmhnyki56

28 күн бұрын

I pray your healing is complete with clarity and peace

God is always one time ! Not me seeing this video a day after a toxic break-up🤭. Thank you Lord for this message ❤❤❤

This was so on time and good! I needed every word spoken!

Ouch. We will betray Jesus, because we are bored. Because we are emotional. We will do it because someone double-dogged-dared us. SMH. This is real. Thank you Pastor Jerry. Thank you

This was SOOOOOO GOOD!!!!!!!

This is going to be good ! I need this

14 years and 4 months in and dropped after all I sacrificed. I needed this message more than you know. The hurt is unreal❤

Much needed message 🙏🏽 Thank you 🙌🏽

I am learning to grieve over a family who live in a false world grounded in fear and deep hurt. Praying for you bro. Praying for you sis. We got this!! THERE'S STILL MORE AFTER THIS!!

Oh yes " shake it off grace"Thank you Jesus

I met an amazing man four years ago. He introduced me to our Lord and Savior. We both stopped drinking, and then after 8 months, he started back drinking and smoking. The last year of our relationship I chose to be celibate until marriage. We dated no sex for 10 months. He is 62 I am 53 he's been married 3 times I've never been married. He told me if he were to get married again it wouldn't be for 3 to 4 years after his 12 year old gets older. I said ok are you willing to wait for sex? He said no so I had to walk away from a great man. I told him I love God more than I love him. He said he wanted to use his man part while it still worked.

Thank you Jesus because I was just "dumped" and this pain. Smh. This helped me so much. Will run this back a few times. Continue to let God use you. God bless you.

Man I needed this so bad!!!!

I need this!!🙌🙌

Yes thank you for this word

My goodness Pastor Jerry, looks like your reading my notes!!! 🗣️🗣️🔥

THERE IS STILL MORE AFTER THIS!

I need this!!!