Not a single minute in jail for r*ping at minimum 2 people..... That ain't right in even the slightest.

@addictofanimation2923

3 ай бұрын

I've heard of men being thrown in jail just on an accusation of SA but women (from what I've seen and heard throughout my life, so I might be wrong) not even getting a day in jail if they do the same. If you would throw a man in jail for something, equality would be throwing a woman in jail for doing the same thing.

@Kris-wo4pj

3 ай бұрын

Its not considered rape by law without pentration.so women cant rape a man by law unless its anal. So its just SA but no one believes its unwanted. Only if its a grown woman and a small child will it be taken seriously.

@marthajackson1388

3 ай бұрын

She is a woman and on top of that what do you think she will do when she has kids. This is literally tribalism. You are on their side and support them regardless of their actions. I worked in the middle east. I have seen it. This is no longer a movement but a cult and a triable mentality.

@A-Warthog-cc1wm

3 ай бұрын

It’s nuts, she practically got away Scot free.

@Arkryal

3 ай бұрын

Truthfully, conviction rates for rape are pretty low across the board, as it's a matter of consent, and that is a difficult thing to prove to the legal standard of evidence. Even men tend to get away with it a lot. It's just a very hard crime to prove. But yeah, there is a crazy double-standard in society. Without tumbling down some insane red-pill diatribe, here's a clear example of how society treats this in pop-culture: Motorhead - "Don't Let Daddy Kiss Me" music.kzread.info/dash/bejne/iaCAmsyIqcu_oNY.html&si=qMWpYgJ3gww5mjOa Simon & Garfunkel - "Mrs. Robinson" music.kzread.info/dash/bejne/kXdm2NOCaam8p8o.html&si=jDoYUnC2e2ke9SK_ Forget the lyrics even, which is in a Major and Minor Chord? Both are about inappropriate relationships with children, one is with an adult man, the other with an adult woman. The law is unbiased in these cases, but people are not, and people enforce the law, so there is a huge disparity between men and women with regard to the way these crimes are treated.

I thought it was common sense to defend yourself if you're sexually assaulted especially in your sleep so idk why he thinks he is terrible

@TheSilverDestiny

3 ай бұрын

Because it has been drilled into men that violence against a woman is wrong no matter the circumstances. Self defense? Shouldn't hit her. It's crazy.

@Echo_9

3 ай бұрын

@@TheSilverDestiny I don't like hitting women either but if I have to I would

@tracisr

3 ай бұрын

I mean did you hear the comments that were read at the end of the story. They were saying who hits a women over a surprise blow job and downplaying what she did to hima nd blaming him for his past drama. It's sad.

@TheSilverDestiny

3 ай бұрын

@@Echo_9 And that's what you should do. I say, "Equal right, equals lefts."

@jamesplayzreviews

3 ай бұрын

@@TheSilverDestiny Probably because back in the 60's and 50's domestic abuse was considered normal and husbands were even allowed to spank their wives if they did something that dissatisfied them. So now hitting a woman is seen as morally wrong and you're a wife beater if you do it. And I agree to that but if someone is attacking me I don't care which gender they are or which gender they identify as I'm defending myself

The big giant twist in story 1. The in-laws are normal reasonable adults. 😂

@M.W.2

3 ай бұрын

While listening I was betting if the SIL's friend was pushing for this or if it was SIL herself to push her friend to do this because she hated OP or because he wanted him to get a divorce because she was jealous

2nd story: I feel so, SO sorry for OP! His egg donor belongs in the deepest, darkest recesses of Hell! She set him up for getting involved in another abusive relationship. I hope he goes to therapy and gets help in recognizing the difference between healthy and toxic relationships. ETA: She only got SIX MONTHS OF COMMUNITY SERVICE!?!? That's SO wrong! She should have at LEAST gotten on the sex offender's list! So much for the "justice system"!

Story 2 (didn't expect a part 4): No wonder that guy was heavily down-voted he sounds like the type of dude who says, "Women can't assault men"

@exethehedgehog7678

3 ай бұрын

Ohh mate it’s the sad reality of this world.

To those redditors calling op a horrible person in st2, give your head a wobble.

Story 1: Jeez lady, what's wrong with you?! Don't flirt with a married man! Good on the husband for not being a cheater

Six months of community service for r*pe of two people and attempted r*pe of one. Nope, this is just messed up.

I think i know why SiL ex Fiance broke up with her. The man bailed when he could

@LunaP1

2 ай бұрын

She either cheated, was planning on cheating or enabled cheating. Either way, she’s for streets just like 403-ass friends.

Story 3: Ex-husband is a giant jerk, like okay you wanted a daughter and God said "No" the first time. Don't give up just because you didn't get your way, work things out have another child. Spend time with your daughter. Don't be a narcissistic jerk who gives up the moment he gets a different gendered child

@Arkryal

3 ай бұрын

The irony is it's his fault he has a daughter, the baby's gender is determined by the sperm that fertilizes the egg. Eggs don't have a Y-Chromosome, so if it didn't get one, he didn't deliver one. He can blame his wife all he wants, that doesn't change basic biology.

If this was a man doing this, they would have thrown the book at him. They should have thrown the book at her and also put her on the S Offenders list

Story 2 (didn't expect a part 3 but the ending shocked me): Community service for assault?!

@TititoDeBologay

3 ай бұрын

She belongs in jail and a sex offenders list wtf.

@jamesplayzreviews

3 ай бұрын

@@TititoDeBologay Agreed, if she was a man he would've gotten multiple years in prison

@LunaP1

2 ай бұрын

I’d be great if someone spread the word of what she did in the neighborhood she would be in for her community service.😈

Not surprised the ex didn’t get any jail time. Even the conviction rate of male rapists is low and many male SA victims aren’t taken seriously

@GreenBoy9000

Ай бұрын

This goes to show that people don't really take the issue as seriously as they should be.

I really hate it when people don't hold others accountable for their own actions for fear of being seen as "racist", "sexist", "transphobic" etc I don't care what people think i am. I'm not gonna give anyone excuses for their bad behavior

Story 2: It hurts my heart so bad when men don't take their own SA serious! He got SAd omg im so sorry😭 Im so sorry for him and wish him the best! And that he can heal And the last comments are just the reason why mens dont talk up. What horrible people!

Story 1: I LOVE OP’s husband! He told those women exactly what he thought and they had no idea how to respond.

Story 2: if a guy SA two women they would sentence him for years but when it’s a woman doing the SA she gets community service Jesus the justice system is a joke

Second story sounds like what I went through, only my ex was a guy. It's alot harder to be believed about assault when you're not a cis woman.

Story 2 (possibly part 1 if I don't do anymore comments): Jeezel Pete! This is the third time I've heard about a mother assaulting her son. Like I get it, you made the child. But it's supposed to be platonic?! Do you have any idea what kind of problems that could cause?! Like what is wrong with you?!

@francinetitherington4060

3 ай бұрын

Definitely something broken in the brain of someone who does this.

Story 2: was her mom sweeping this under the rug for years or something.

@TititoDeBologay

3 ай бұрын

Apparently, She's the one who volunteered the names of her daughter's other victims and apologized to them. Her daughter belongs in the sex offenders list. She's a predator.

@TititoDeBologay

3 ай бұрын

Her mom seems to be the one who brought forth the other victims to testify and she apologized to them. I think like many parents, it's hard to recognise that your kid is a predator and all around trash human beings.

@KDawg92801

3 ай бұрын

@@TititoDeBologay but why didn’t she report after the FIRST TIME this happened

@aluralovell6829

3 ай бұрын

​@@KDawg92801 Well you have to think about it logically. 1. Male SA especially when perpetrated by women isn't taken seriously so going to the police after a singular incident wouldn't do much especially if the victim in question was not willing to report which is very likely as men are made to feel ashamed of situations like this and would rather deny than report it. From the sounds of it, only her most recent victim was willing to report as even OP themselves wasn't willing to report. For all we know she did attempt to report it the first time but if there was no evidence and merely his word against hers nothing likely happened. 2. From an emotional standpoint, you as a parent aren't likely going to believe the first person who accused your child of something so heinous. As a parent, you aren't going to want to believe your child could do something so awful so the first time you are likely not to believe it. 3. Lastly reporting your child isn't as easy as people like to make it out to be. Yes we all know morally it's the right thing to do, but the difference is that isn't our child, we don't have to go through the emotional turmoil that she does. While you may understand that your child needs to be held accountable and suffer the consequences of their actions, this is also someone you raised, someone you carried inside of you, this was and will always be your baby. We know how sex offenders get treated in prison and while we may not personally care and even think she deserves it, what loving parent wants their child to be abused, assaulted, or killed? Because that is the reality you have to come to grips with when you report your child. It's a complicated feeling.

@jericho5615

3 ай бұрын

​@aluralovell6829 / honestly tho as someone who was SA'd, I'd believe the accuser over my child, especially when stuff has happened before. The fact is that if someone has multiple accusations and is a regular, non famous person, they did it. You just don't get 3-4 people who don't know each other accusing one person. Even if it was my child, my parent, my best friend, I'd drop them like a hot potato if I found out they were accused. Unless I know the accuser is themselves an abuser (as they are the most likely to falsely accuse- specifically during divorces/custody battles) I'm believing the person who was clearly hurt. People who have blind loyalty to anyone, including their children, will enable abusers to abuse. I refuse to do that.

Second story: that woman definitely needs to be on the SO list. No means no simple as that.

Guarantee if the genders were flipped she would end up on list and put away for at least 10 years. Community service is bs.

Story 2 (seems I'm gonna do a 2-parter comment after all): Okay I get being attracted to your partner and I get when you feel a certain way it's hard to take a "no". But he said no and no means no, like dang trying to do your man in his sleep, no means no

2nd story. If this happened to a woman, he would be in the wrong and be charged with rape.

@Only1199

3 ай бұрын

And the yta redditors would all be cheering her for slapping the offender, saying he deserved it.

Crazy how different people can be lmao, i literally ask my mrs to do what happened in the 2nd story, thats my fantasy😂😂 its all about consent though!

@dokuganryu1565

3 ай бұрын

You ask her to tell her best friend to flirt with your husband? I mean, not gonna shame you if you're into that but it seems kinda odd to talk about it here...

@TheyCallMeJay

3 ай бұрын

Yeah ​@@dokuganryu1565

@KDawg92801

3 ай бұрын

@@dokuganryu1565no the one with the whole sleep thing

@jamesplayzreviews

3 ай бұрын

@@dokuganryu1565 He said second story, not the first one

@jamesplayzreviews

3 ай бұрын

@@dokuganryu1565 Unless they're a cheater no one is into that

Story 2: Oh, but if it was vice versa, the man would get life but okay

@ddozen883

3 ай бұрын

They wouldn’t please don’t spread misinformation…look at Brock Allen turner for example. I personally don’t think it’s appropriate to make this a “gender war” situation. granted, I understand that male victims aren’t taken as seriously as female victims in the public eye and that definitely needs to be changed but through the legal system women aren’t taken as seriously either.

@SSFighter1701

3 ай бұрын

@@ddozen883🙄

For story 2... are those people seriously downplaying SA???!

Totally wrong that she only got community service of a male had done the same then he would of been sent to jail and put on the sex offenders list this is double standards and it's right at all, she has a history of sexually assaulting others and so she should of done time. As for the person who defended her in the comments they clearly haven't ever been sexually assaulted or seen the carnage it can do to someone's life let alone when they are a child and then again as a adult by someone they trusted, NO MEANS NO it doesn't mean no but as soon as I'm asleep you can do what you want it means no until I tell you yes

@Only1199

3 ай бұрын

The yta commenters would have been all cheering her on for slapping her offender, calling her nta and that he had it coming.

Here kitty kitty.

I wonder is ex in 2nd story was SA'd herself at some point in her life

@LunaP1

2 ай бұрын

Regardless, she inflicted that on others without reason. She doesn’t get to be a victim anymore.

A comment to... PIN for XD

@rogueninja4719

3 ай бұрын

Also... nice vid... (even though i just started to watch it XD)

I'm getting sick of these Minecraft videos in the background

Story 2 had me laughing

@Sorreltail768

3 ай бұрын

the rape one?

@cameron765

3 ай бұрын

@@Sorreltail768 yea

@IrisRubyRose

3 ай бұрын

​@@cameron765 wtf how was that funny!

@cameron765

3 ай бұрын

@@IrisRubyRose Because I can't take a dude seriously crying on reddit saying his girlfriend touched him without his consent

@IrisRubyRose

3 ай бұрын

@@cameron765 oh wow you really are miserable

I am not on OPs side in this situation. OP is not healthy and shouldn't be in a relationship period. I'm personally in the Get over it squad.

@jamesplayzreviews

3 ай бұрын

You are what is morally wrong with society. If OP was a woman you'd be on OP's side of the fence. OP said for years he wasn't in a relationship because he was assaulted by his mother, he'd taken therapy and it took him years to get over it. He's finally able to trust someone and what do they do?! They take the chance they get to break that trust and assault him, OP should not get over it and neither should anyone else!

@SSFighter1701

3 ай бұрын

Wait, what?! Which story are you commenting on?

@velovelo196

3 ай бұрын

​@@SSFighter1701 probably the SA one, but this opinion is so delusional its wild

@jamesplayzreviews

3 ай бұрын

@@SSFighter1701 Story 2, in which OP is assaulted by his girlfriend, the one girl he finally trusts after being assaulted by his own mother. The trauma instantly gives him PTSD flashbacks causing him to slap her. According to the guy we are responding to, OP is "not healthy" (despite going to therapy for years before he even started dating) and needs to "get over it " (even though as a victim of abuse myself (not the same type of abuse as this guy went through) he had every right to do what he did)

@Only1199

3 ай бұрын

So you’re on the Sexual Assaulters side?

soft men era has began lol

@jamesplayzreviews

3 ай бұрын

What's that supposed to mean?