Reddit is honestly a fantastic place because they collectively worked to rip this man a new and then gave him very honest advice

This marriage was over before that blurt out... It just marked the end of it.

Also, whoever's playing the game in the background is not so much with the good at it. They need to do better, much like the story's OP.

@NoxTheZombie

4 ай бұрын

XD brutally honest

You deserved it for how you handled it. You allowed your mother and sister to interfere in your marriage and got physical with her.

@kevinedwards7596

4 ай бұрын

He didn't deserve to get divorsed for it, he should have begged for forgiveness, the only problem I see here is getting physical and accusing of cheating without evidence, if the In-laws were giving here pressure she should have consulted her husband, or given the paternity before, this is a marriage not dating.

@aquasol333

4 ай бұрын

@@kevinedwards7596 Physical abuse of any kind deserves divorce immediately, because it only escalates. Also, what kind of man has no backbone and listens to the opinion of others over his own?

@kevinedwards7596

4 ай бұрын

@@aquasol333 you do realize most matrimonial affairs are messy, it's because of that mentality that the west has it failure rates so high

@Semi-Addict-Gamer

4 ай бұрын

@@kevinedwards7596as a middle eastern, I can attest to my mom throwing a chair on him, and my dad hitting the stone cold stunner.

@kevinedwards7596

4 ай бұрын

@@Semi-Addict-Gamer strong marriage, well also they are stuck to together, if my father asks for divorce my mom will castrate my dad

If his mind was that wracked by doubts he didn't have to ask to take a DNA test. These days you can buy one over the counter from any pharmacy. Use that to shut down his own doubts and keep his sister and mother out of the relationship. He let himself be led by emotions instead of intelligent thought. I've thought about the DNA test thing. If I ever have a kid, I'll get a test after taking the baby home from the hospital. I want to have that confidence prepared long before there's any doubts or implications. As bonus, that also gets rid of any "babies got switched at the hospital" anxieties.

Who owns the house? She legally can't lock him out if he resides there. I mean, did they say who owns the house?

So was he in court when the judge ordered the DNA test, or was it sent from her lawyer? That is a big difference cause lawyers lie. No way I'll believe those kids look so much different from him, and he's their father. Genetics doesn't work like that, even if all those genes came from her side of the family.

@Ktspitfire007

4 ай бұрын

He literally said they both have heavily mixed background...yes genetics work like that

if she knew what was happening she should have said something in the end its both of their faults lol

@twinsflores2350

4 ай бұрын

his parents basically used the illusory truth effect

@AkA553

6 күн бұрын

No. Nothing she does would have satisfied them. They just hate her. As you can see even when their son physically assaulted her and it's been proven kids are his they still blame her.

This isn't dating this isn't divorce worthy but of kind of deserves it. Hurting yourself and others doesn't make things better.

@Ktspitfire007

4 ай бұрын

He left bruises on her...how is that not divorce worthy?

@dwaynebrice1697

4 ай бұрын

@@Ktspitfire007 intention is a massive factor. I don't remember him trying to hurt her. The bruises from him grabbing her. Let's think about it, in context because the way you said that means that I should dump my girlfriend for hurting and bruising me when she's going through a mental issue.

@dwaynebrice1697

4 ай бұрын

@@Ktspitfire007 like am I being trolled? Is this the part where we create double standards or hold others to unrealistic standards? Is this the part where I am supposed to get the ick? Because I also don't remember hearing about a history of abuse either. As soon as one problem pops up do I just give up?

@Ktspitfire007

4 ай бұрын

@@dwaynebrice1697 if your girlfriend is violent then yes you should leave her. I assume she's an adult and her mental health is her responsibility. That being said, husband didn't trust her and if you grab and shake someone hard enough to leave bruises that's domestic abuse. Based on stats violence typically increases not decreases. If you are in a violent relationship I truly hope you seek help

@Ktspitfire007

4 ай бұрын

@@dwaynebrice1697 yes you should. Mental health isn't her fault but it is her responsibility. If you fear for your safety you should leave. Domestic violence continues to escalate.