Wife Went to the Party Against My Wish; I Ghosted Her; Years Later She Appeared on My Door...
🔍 About Video : Enter the chaotic world of Sam's failing marriage in this compelling story, as Alice claims she was drugged and deceived on a night she can't recall. She enters the picture, offering a fresh start, and causes an unexpected twist as Sam struggles with the decision to go and Alice's pleas for understanding collide with his need for closure.
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When she decided to go, dressed as she was, she decided that her husband didn’t matter. Decisions have consequences.
@adamxiong1817
Ай бұрын
Exactly my thought as well. The second she stepped out and chose "Tom" was the moment she chose to step out of her marriage and left behind her vows.
@arigus
29 күн бұрын
@@adamxiong1817😊😊
@broskii.
10 күн бұрын
That's what cheating partners never want to understand
Interesting video content, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@linamoon-mi7wd
Ай бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
@michaelfischer-xp4cw
Ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@linamoon-mi7wd
Ай бұрын
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@michaelfischer-xp4cw
Ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@warrenmason1582
Ай бұрын
@michaelfischer-xp4cw dude don't fall for the pseudo love science that women push. Work on yourself and keep yourself busy. This obsession over your ex will just lead to greater heartache. Especially when you see her with a new guy.
Going on a date with another man and expecting your husband to still be there when you get back is crazy
@kebub1
21 күн бұрын
yeah. its the most ridiculous thing i heard since i watch this kind of videos;d
@johnrynkiewicz1607
16 күн бұрын
What's even worse is that in most cases, the hubby is departing and leaves everything for the cheater behind.
If your friend is willing to betray their husbands, they are willing to betray a friend.
Always stick to your guns. Your wife cheated on you when she walked out your door.
@Meowzi_General
Ай бұрын
Guns?
@85HillBobby
Ай бұрын
@@Meowzi_General its an analogy
@Craig_Murray
Ай бұрын
@@Meowzi_Generalmeans dont change your mind
Single/divorced friends keep single and married friends single.
"Do not go to that party"! .... 'It does not matter what you want I'm going whether you like it or not'...... They just don't seem to learn now do they!!!
What disrespect to her husband.He did right for ghosting her for cheatting
The fact that Alice stayed at the party until the zex part happened tells you that she was going to cheat on her husband at some point. Alice knew what type of person her friend was and she still chose her over her marriage, the fact is Alice made bad choices and that is why everything happened. If I were her husband I would get a divorce just to cut all ties to her.
@runeingebretsen8378
Ай бұрын
no she was just extremly dumb and naive,to trust her madam "friend" remember her friend gave her a mixture of GHB and extacy,her "friend" has done that before to other women,and they didn't wake up,during the act i am guessing,and after the act she dressed them,and they were none the wiser.
@TomClunkerson
Ай бұрын
She would sit and watch…
@Taveren
Ай бұрын
Sure and charles manson was just an innocent bystandered@@runeingebretsen8378
@vmrstl
26 күн бұрын
@@runeingebretsen8378people like you are so stupid. “Hey I’m gonna go to a party where people act like animals but I’ll be fine”.
It doesn't matter what her excuse was. He told her not to go, but she did. Hopefully she learned her lesson.
@runeingebretsen8378
Ай бұрын
her "friend" took money from the men,so they could sleep with stupid women she drugged,when they had intercourse with her there is no way they didn't notice she was out cold,there is no way she just had them sleep with,other women for fun,and her plan was to make her one of her permanent girls,and the reason she called the husband was to get him out of the way,and her easier to manipulate.
@jasonsandoval3823
Ай бұрын
The lesson are always late. Now just enjoy to live with the consiquence.
@bruceconstuble4603
Ай бұрын
Unfortunately I didn't feel she learned anything. She just didn't want to lose her security blanket.
@davidj.leavitt249
Ай бұрын
Yup! Consequences of cheating.
@jaysonraphaelmurdock8812
Ай бұрын
She admitted that she was actually into it. Trash
Well typical modern woman who thinks she casn do whatever she wants without cinsequences and when her world blows up she can't understand why.
It is tragically hilarious and delusional that Alice says "she wouldn't do it without you (her husband)". But she admitted the truth--she did love it. Never was wife material. Never. Sylvia did Bob a favor despite the fact that Sylvia is an evil narcissicist.
@briansharp4388
Ай бұрын
They never just watch. She went and stayed multiple times. She had intent and opportunity.
@RedHood410
Ай бұрын
@@briansharp4388 Except in this case, she didn't. Dude has people there that would tell him
I’m happy OP didn’t fall for his ex-wife nonsense. She was going to cheat, regardless, that point was clear.
Even though this is AI created, she put herself in that situation. Her husband tried to protect her and she ignored it. Her problem.
@Dustin81
Ай бұрын
I have read a similar story on Reddit. In that one it was a bf/gf. The guy warned her not to go out and hang out with this creepy guy that has a bad reputation. The spoiled I’m always right woman said she’d go anyway then found out he was telling the truth the worst way.
@Roddy_Zeh
Ай бұрын
@@Dustin81 Got a link for that story? Or at least what happened to her?
Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
You are the friends you keep. If you have a close friend who sleeps around on their partners, chances are extremely high you will eventually too.
The fact that she willingly went out the door was grounds for divorce. She knew what will happened.
@patglenholmes7393
Ай бұрын
I don’t think so
@NeoCreo1
Ай бұрын
I have to disagree. She’s apparently been going to those parties for years and had never cheated on him. Expecting that your friend has now decided to rufie you after years is a bit much.
Good short story that didn't take an hour or longer. Alice is the typical modern entitled girl (not woman) that don't accept their actions or consequences. Sam is an alpha male and I bet Bev loves it that way.
@zarroth
Ай бұрын
no such thing as an "alpha" male. Sigma, beta, etc don't exist either. These perceptions are part of the delusion all of you are stuck under.
It seems that after everything she still had her excuse and didn’t admit any fault on her part….and learned nothing.
He handled it perfectly. Super head strong guy who deserves happiness.
Too many women feel entitled!
Op did exactly what he should have done. He promised his stupid wife that there would be consequences if she went to that party dressed provocatively, with a date. She evidently didn’t believe him. Good by husband, hello heartache.
Alice knew what was going to happen. She let it happen knowing that she could always claim victimhood if things went south. It's practically cliché.
@agreeable-youth
23 күн бұрын
I thought the same thing. The whole thing was rigged or else she would have charge both her shitty friend and that guy for rape. It was simply a backup plan. But the friend felt so safe, she couldn't resist calling the husband to cuck him live.
He had a more than valid point. If she had listened to him and not gone to the party and date none of what happened to her would've. She'd still be happily married and life would've gone on. She chose her ho bag friend over her marriage
She concluded that her spouse didn't matter when she made the decision to leave wearing her current attire. Choices have an impact.
The locks wouldve been changed, lawyers called,family and friends notified,and then evidence collected. Im not waiting on a damn thing
@jakeand9020
Ай бұрын
Rented apartment, changing locks was not an option. Why deal with lawyers? So you can reward her with half your sh*t for being a 304 and give the other half to the lawyers for the privilege?
@J.P_INC.
Ай бұрын
@@jakeand9020 first I said what I would've done. Secondly,you don't know what you just said. By what you said,you admit that staying with the cheater is better in the long run while they continue to cheat and you also show your lack of knowledge because she can get a divorce. Staying will only lengthen the pain you go through and the stress. Also, you can be charged for not appearing to court for a divorce or a hearing.
@jakeand9020
Ай бұрын
@@J.P_INC. In no way did I suggest staying with a cheater. What I WAS suggesting is take your money and ghost the 304, as in what the guy in this story did was a better option than divorce.
@J.P_INC.
Ай бұрын
@@jakeand9020 by what you said as far as why divorce her to give her half your money is the same as saying it's cheaper to keep her which is also the same as saying stay with the cheater because you keep your money
@jakeand9020
Ай бұрын
@@J.P_INC. What you're saying is you lack basic reading comprehension skills.
15:35 Her: "Is she gone for good?" Him: "She should be." REAL ANSWER: "No. She's stupid. She doesn't listen and refuses to learn."
There was already a crack in that foundation way before that last party. A wife that truly loves and respects their husband would: a) Not go to that party without having being told no b) Not entertain another man at a party c) Would defend her husband from any disrespect from her "friend(s)"
She knew what Sylvia was all about and went anyway.
What a crock. She knew her husband didn't like her 'friend' and he didn't want her to go to the party. She dressed provocatively and went despite his warning of the consequences. She turns up years later after claiming the marital home with a story that she was possibly drugged and had sex with 'strangers' believing it was her husband!! Did she file complaints for rape/sexual assault? This isn't complicated she disrespected him and broke their wedding vows. If she wanted to find him explain the circumstances and beg for forgiveness she could have done so long ago. He's moved on. Put her back in the car and send her back to where she came from. If she wants closure then go back to court claim his share of the marital home and move on!
@NeoCreo1
Ай бұрын
What are you talking about? There was no “marital home”, they were living in an apartment. She likely did file complaints in addition to the civil suits, most probably went nowhere like a lot of them do when it comes to getting actual convictions. Hell, most of the civil claims got dropped when those have a MUCH lower burden of proof. As for the timeline, the dude completely disappeared, dumped his phone, and moved states away. It takes time to find someone that left like that
It was the total lack of respect the wife showed when she left. It was F you, i don't care what you say, im going to the party. It doesn't matter what happened at the party because she put herself in that place against her husbands wishes.
The marriage was over the moment she left their flat.
She willingly left for the party. What happened afterwards has no consequence.
Since the year 2000 my advice is never mary most women a 304s and for the simps just becouse she has not been COURT yet dont mean she Loyal
@Aslan_Fulgore
Ай бұрын
Caught* Besides, you could say the exact same thing about women throughout all of human history pal.
@Nosirree
Ай бұрын
Lol this screams incel
Sucks what happened to her, but he's right if that was his boundary. He told her what he thought would happed, but the part that broke them up was her walking out, not what happened at the party.
The only thing he did wrong was waiting for the confirmation that she was screwing other men. Why waste the time, pack and leave as soon as she walked out the door and he wouldn't have had to deal with getting woken up at three in the morning. She went on a date with another man, what she did or did not do after that is irrelevant.
@hypezar
Ай бұрын
Probably just hoping that everything will be fine. Apparently it didn't and it gave him the last push. It's hard to make a quick decision if it involves someone we love. You can see how easy he go through with his decision at the last part when there's no love for his wife anymore.
@NeoCreo1
Ай бұрын
He was uncertain if he wanted to fully pull the trigger since she had been going to the parties already and had never cheated. It’s a big step, and turning your back on 7 years is a hard decision without infidelity to back it up.
It doesn't matter if she was drug, it wouldn´t have happened if she had listened to her husband therefore the stupid excuse about her friend drugging her is not valid
@agreeable-youth
23 күн бұрын
That was part of the whole plan so she can get away with it. That's why the husband was called mid-fuck.
The moment she decided to go on a date with another man from her offfice space without approval she was legally cheating he had every right to pack his bags and leave
She showed disrespect to her husband. She ignored his objections and warnings. She did wanted to do. Now she was to live with those consequences. Too bad, so sad.
She couldn't wrap her mind around the concept that "putting herself in harm's way" was an unforgivable act.. It's all well and good to be involved in a "sanctioned race" with the support of a supporting party.. Quite another to rush into a heavily used highway wearing a blindfold.... after being told not....
Isn’t funny how the other guy is always insecure.
Simping brings nothing but misery 😂
He did the right thing he told her if she went and what he said was right if she wouldn’t have gone, she would’ve never got drug and get ho out by her own best friend
She made her choice to go, despite everything he said... Whatever happened there is irrelevant. She chose to be there
2 years is a long time to get a person's story together
Thank God Almighty for saving this man from that 304.
Good story! I think he did the right thing. Once they disrespect you it’s over.
He literally told her if you go we're done. She went. Why is she shocked?
Sam needs to get the police involved and get a restraining order.
My wife had a "girls trip" to SF a,few years back at a time when things were rough financially with the kids. Just now realized she had a,experimental affair with a Bi gal and student of hers.
Some would call what he did victim shaming. However, if you put yourself in a nad situation and something bad happens, you are partially responsible for what happens to you. It's like walking around in a crime-ridden neighborhood with a handful of cash and you get robbed, maybe if you had kept the cash in your pocket you would have been fine. If she hadn't gone to the sex party dressed like she wanted to have sex she might have been fine. Plus she went without her husband to protect her.
@Dustin81
Ай бұрын
.God forbid people take accountability after intentionally putting yourself in has way. People like to infantilize women. Her even going to those kind of parties by herself would be grounds for divorce
Why would you ever let this woman back into your life or even say one word to her.She is a ex and she was ghosted for a reason. Men don't TALK! And she didn't just watch. This guy didn't enforce his boundaries enough.
@NeoCreo1
Ай бұрын
How on earth did you get that he “let her back into his life” from this? The only thing he was interested in was how she found him. Then he just wanted her to leave
@w4447
Ай бұрын
@@NeoCreo1 He gave her the time of day. That was her getting her foot in the door. You underestimate the power of just want to talk. MEN DON'T TALK!!!!!!
best bet, never talk to them. bring that mess into your home, is letting her back into your life.
bro stood on business, like he said it was over after she walked out the door 😂
A woman that desperate to get her husband back? Never happen.
The only two words that the OP needs to consider at this point: Restraining order.
I was absolutely WAITING for when he stated the obvious, which was pretty much at the tail end of the story. Had she not gone to that party like he said.....NONE of that would've happened. Ya, what happened at the party ultimately wasn't her fault, but if she thought more of her husband's feelings and his reasons behind it, they might've still been together. This is exactly why most men are vocal when they see their partner have shitty friends, cause friends have influence and when they're as dirty as her friend, they pull shit like that. I feel sorry for her, that sort of thing shouldn't happen to anyone....but I'm happy to hear he didn't take her back.
Guys: Don't get married. Most women think of themselves first above all others. This is why men are going overseas for a wife.
@larrygoerke9081
Ай бұрын
While I don't necessarily disagree with you, if you think "Asian women" are all any better, you should seriously check that. Always sad to see a man not just burned and heartbroken, but laughed at in a language he didn't bother to learn - even while the burn is in progress.
@NeoCreo1
Ай бұрын
This is some cringe incel shit man. You need to touch some grass and lay off the Reddit stories
I'm surprised how real this story is
So many of the women in these stories are called Alice or Linda
This a good story, it's short and straight to the point, I love it. It is a bit too late to play the victim, she took the first step to attend it and her husband had warned her about being drugged.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
This story is lessons to a men who is weak, simp and doormate men this guy is king and have dignity.
Oh please, is the insane? She went out, on a date, with another guy. OP said he's not ok with it. She still went. I can see where her priorities are. She just wants him for the security feels. If she loved him, she would never even entertain an insane idea like that one.
Disrespect is just as bad as infidelity.
He ended up in Castle Rock Colorado ? Well, as long as he doesn't end up in Castle Rock Main he should be ok. 😉😇 PS.: Stephen King fans will understand
@davidnash8208
Ай бұрын
Good one.
That is how you handle disrespect and ultimatums in relationships. Further if you are married and a woman goes on a date without you no matter the extenuating circumstances the marriage is over and its time to bail as at that point she has betrayed you and probably been unfaithful already. I have no sympathy for that woman and none of you should either.
I always tell people, don't put yourself into certain situations that can have bad ending.... Think about it, if you chose to walk down a dark alley waving money in the air then expect to get robbed... You put yourself in that situation... Don't blame the robber for robbing you you're partially at fault.
"he does know you're married doesn't he?" "it doesn't matter" those 3 words shows a lot of suspicious flags
Adults, the same as,....(Teenagers) should not let themselves be,.MisLed,......... Because bad 😞 Association, at school 🏫, or at work, will help You,...... Contaminate Yourself, & Alienate those people who (Truly) love 💕 you, all at the same time destroying, (YOUR) useful traits & habits.
LOL I haven’t heard the phrase round heels 👠 for decades. You willing went and got the consequences of your actions honey! You knew that he ask you repeatedly not to go
My opinion is OP handled this masterfully. That 304 needs to just give up really. Could have ALL the excuses in the world. Hell, it is her right to sue the people that did that to her. However she had put herself in that situation to be drugged by going to these types of parties, knowing FULL WELL how sketch her 'best friend' is. Besides, she is focusing too much on what happened at the party. Not realizing it wasn't the party incident that caused the breakup. It was what she did BEFORE it, being flippant with her husband and ignoring his warnings. He was already planning to divorce the moment she left. It just turned into him outright leaving that day the moment Sylvia decided to try and emasculate him by letting him hear what happened. This is all on her head on the end of the day, and she needs to wake up and move on.
Damn Alice. is Freaking Crazy😮
Op went beast mode, I love it!
As the saying goes, "he who lies with dogs, arises with fleas". She knew what happened in these parties, AND she was into it. She just didn't jump in because of her husband. And yet she ignored her husband's warnings, disrespected him. Now she's reaping what she sowed. Karma. She said she didn't do it willingly...well, maybe not the segss, but she willingly walked out the door, right? No one put a gun in your head and threatened you, honey. 🍷🗿
0:55 You shouldn't let someone like that into your house. You can talk to the opened slit, an partially opened window or even better, an intercom. The danger of a false accusation is reason enough to not let her into the house.
FAFO. Dress up. Go out to a party with another man in a tight and tiny dress? Get gone and stay gone.
He gave fair warning. I would have done the same.
Typical modern woman. I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do and no one can stop me..
Notice how she said she “loved it” she had no regrets. She’s just mad she had to face the consequences 😂 *edit* that shit Beverley said to his ex “thanks for sending him to me” was the most respectful disrespect and I love it. She’s a keeper 😂
This is just another example of how difficult it is for men and women to communicate. Alice made it all about the infidelity and her being drugged while comveniently deflecting and refusing to take accountability for her words and actions she said in the apartment as she left. He told her under no uncertain terms if she left then it's over. Her accepting the date, getting dressed, coordinating plans with Todd, and her walking out that door were all actions of her free will and she needs to accept that reality
Wow, Alice really is a piece of work. I have no intention to victim blame her for what happened, each and every guy who “partook of her” should be buried under the prison. BUT, I think we can all agree, she knew what kind of things happen at third parties; she obviously knew that her “friend” would have illicit substances there, and she was also very aware of how much this same “friend” advocated the idea of cheating. This was a cocktail of bad choices around worse people. But the former wife has no right to try and claim she loves OP when she was more than willing to disregard his worries and tried to gaslight him about his dislike of her toxic “friend”. In the end, the former wife needs to realize that her actions have consequences, and her former husband choosing to not be with her is one such consequence.
I can only laugh at this one
She should have listened to her husband. She's been to her friends' party many times, she should know better.
You dont speak when you've been roofied.
Id love to know after all that time he would even consider taking this W back
Marriage is when husband and wife leave both moms and dads---and forge they OWN lives together--this also means find new likeminded friends as welll--too easy to fall back in the dating mindset---when they need to be in the committed 100% one to another mindset!
Seems quite strange that a private detective could trace him and the police couldn't. The police can know where you make all your credit cards transactions.
@NeoCreo1
Ай бұрын
The police generally don’t give two fucks about missing persons when they are adults, especially when there is no sign of foul play.
Good Story🎉🎉
0:55 Mistake , The great mistake that most guys make to let them IN 9:33 what a load of BS 😂. The fact that she would go to her Screw parties and stay, Dress Like a 304 for other men , The gall to go on a date and say it doesn't matter etc. are enough to divorce and never see her again
My wife just mentioned today that she wants to hook up again with her old bi friend, this ought to be interesting as she does not realize I have just realized what is really going on. This is going to be an interesting summer.
As Forest said "Stupid as stupid does".
You are immortal man
The minute she left ignored him in reveling outfit he knew what was gonna happen. She should never have drunk too much alcohol then to get herself in a state. Had he gone to a mates and he cheated on her It wouldn't have mattered how drunk he was she would have said no excuses you cheated i take it the men that had se* are in prison it be something. But surely she wasn't stupid to release that would happen at the party and the way she was dressed
@NeoCreo1
Ай бұрын
Were you paying attention? She wasn’t drunk, she was literally rufied. She already fucked up by going there in the first place, but that’s the one thing that isn’t on her. The men got off because it’s notoriously difficult to prosecute rape when physical force is not part of it. Hell, most of them even slipped out of civil suits, which have a much lower evidentiary requirement
Didn’t she technically got SA’d or R-worded? Even Gang B’d? She was unconscious and drunk.
@chrisself8893
Ай бұрын
True story, and that is horrible. But her husband begged her not to go in the first place.
He did the right thing his ex couldn't accept that he didn't want her some women need a dose of reality check
Great Fan Fiction. Thanks!
Why do women think men aren't going to find someone else? Or is she driving only on one way streets?
They always come crawling back eventually.
These stories are in believable but entertaining