"Give a man everything he wants and at that moment everything is not everything" - Immanuel Kant

Don’t fall in love with potential and the possibility someone can change People show you who they are through their actions. If their actions don’t align with their words then you should walk away.

@catherineprescott2402

12 күн бұрын

Not all change is improvement. Accepting people the way they are, tends to lead to another's internal change. Focus on yourself ❤

@riffraffrichard

12 күн бұрын

@@catherineprescott2402So true and sometimes accepting who they are requires you to part ways.

Zero give n take . Literally was never willing to talk whatsoever!! There was nothing here other than spiritual connection.

@irrelevance3418

26 күн бұрын

SAME! I just have no idea if he felt the connection the way I did. Never had confirmation, and that's what eats me up.

@frstygrl3518

26 күн бұрын

Same here

@AllDivinity

25 күн бұрын

same

@sharlafenwick4056

25 күн бұрын

They wasted our time & make love into a misery. Don't need that. Love brings happiness & trust & loyalty- Not a journey down a toxic ,dark path that leads nowhere. He will never change cuz he's so screwed up & has a big ego. His karma & God will come back on him. It's not acceptable to play with sincere, good women's emotions. Kick his ass out !

@sharlafenwick4056

25 күн бұрын

Glad you could exit from his toxic personality & finally enjoy life again. I'm moving on after listening to this video. I want to enjoy Summer with somebody who makes me feel happy & secure. This isn't the way love should be. I'm not waiting around while he runs with many women trying to find himself. He's a middle aged man, not a boy & I'm not a mule in his stall. Period.

This is EXACTLY what happened to me. He pulled another ewe out and wanted to put me on the shelf. He even told me that he was going to counseling with her because she tried to use her money to buy him. I was so freaking hurt. Then he had the nerve to tell me he still wanted to be my friend. I told him I will NEVER allow someone to play in my face.

Extremely accurate but I have completely given up on him. I feel conflicted bcause even after all of the cord cutting rituals, therapy, and meditations I have done this past year I still feel him tugging on my energy a bit. I want nothing to do with him if he is still in this energy. It's frustrating because we had a very strong psychic connection and I have cleared majority of it away. The mind games and BS is something that triggers childhood woudns in me. I'm not putting up with any of that. That is why I have gone completely no contact.

@irinapopescu4897

25 күн бұрын

Sending you love and light

He is going through his saturn return in the 5th house … never met a man so unable of doing any inner work

@Ehaehaeha

26 күн бұрын

Same it makes me sad because he has a son and hes mentally declining it seems

@shima2756

26 күн бұрын

Same. Mine has chiron in the 5th

@sherwoodregan

25 күн бұрын

I hear ya. 😮‍💨

@sharlafenwick4056

25 күн бұрын

Drop him. He's turning love into a heavy job. It should be happy, light & spontaneous. I'm DONE with it. If he's running around with multiple partners he's putting you at high risk for an STD. Or even Aids. Dump him fast

@sharlafenwick4056

25 күн бұрын

@@Ehaehaeha Don't feel sad too long because he's gonna make you crazy & depressed. Don't t let his toxic issues ruin your day. Move on with life & seek happiness & respect.

I watch a lot of different tarot readers and it seems that this theme is rampant right now in the collective. Obviously there is an upleveling and healing going on with the Masculine and Feminine energy. You were hilariously graphic in your descriptions. Thanks for the clarity and the laughs😂😂😂

We had the conversation over the weekend. Not sure if anything will happen beyond that, but he FINALLY apologized.

In order to apologize, we need to know ourselves, we need take a good look at our behavior, cast the beam from our eye. If we can see it is wrong, don’t apologize but rather, change the behavior which is, of course, a great deal more difficult to do. Actions in life as in fiction often speak much louder and tell us more about the character, than just empty words.💫

@LaShondaHobbs

11 күн бұрын

Thank you so true! ❤

He was/is Scorpio. And yes I was treated to the full rollercoaster ride. No more.

@JillianClough-Minero

14 күн бұрын

Hear ya😂. Totally told him goodbye on the 21st July before my solar return day on the 22nd July. Love from NZ 🎉🎉❤❤

I was in a relationship with a Leo who did this to me. I’m not claiming to be a victim. I was another Supply for him. I have known him in this life since we were young teens. I realized far too late in our relationship that he lied to me from the very beginning (my Karma). I own my part in the relationship, but I deserved to be treated as I treated him with Love, Honor, Compassion & Passion. I walked away in January after 5.5 years. I’m now on my healing journey as he’s never apologized for love bombing, gaslighting & ghosting me which are the traits of a Narcissist.

@melinatrejo2450

26 күн бұрын

I can't believe how similar our experiences are! I am currently going through the divorce process with this leo, we were together for 7 years

@sylvialundin4968

25 күн бұрын

I resonate with your story as mine. God Bless

@FeliciaStands

25 күн бұрын

Same I’m walking away from 8 years being with a Leo who just doesn’t get it I believe we were each others karmic and the catalyst to evolving and finding a true love ❤

@LaShondaHobbs

11 күн бұрын

I totally get it! It happened to me too. Much love 💕

Such a timely reading as my past person came back after a year. Likely a twin flame-type relationship. He was noncommittal and much pain from his past, but now says the dating world isn’t for him and wants someone with him in his daily life. Never thought he would express that to me, but now at a crossroads, as he isn’t fully healed and I am. The ideal situation would be to heal together as his old patterns of coping are still present. I can tell it’s wearing on my energy and we both know we need to change things as we have so much potential together. Appreciate the analogies, they do resonate!

This is the aha that popped up after listening to this reading, 'Yes, respecting another's choice can put you in a place were they will not choose you (respectfully) but not respecting an others choice could make those who want to choose you HAVE to not choose you' ⚔️😓⚖️

This IS the END. Too late & I'm not allowing ANY Disrespect from anybody & gave him enough chances already. It's boring & dull waiting around & it's Summer & I just wanna have fun. He's too complicated & dramatic. If it ain't got the flow it ain't got the go. No fun or happiness with this sicko. Goodbye!

Oh how it resonates. 😮 The way I heard the stall opening and said “the f you ain’t ✌🏽” and removed myself from the farm… Instincts told me he was 180ing from deep feelings and fear, but the clamming up and no coming forth with a real conversation after my reaction to being blindsided has flipped the energy for me. It has been hard to get over this man who felt like we were brought to each other for something great. Surrendering to knowing there is a beautiful plan for me after a few hard years of loss and betrayal has been hard, but I see as my ultimate lesson in this time. That and more self love. 💗

This connection and the way it played out is why I no longer believe in love/relationships/romantic partnerships. It seems like Spirit is calling everyone to ascend, and it’s shaking out as masculine energies need to do a LOT better and feminine energies need to decentre and ignore masculine energies until they do.

@blaquemoonmajesty33

26 күн бұрын

I hear that. And it’s not a bitter disbelief. It’s a realization that all is one and 5D it’s just you in the one.

@blaquemoonmajesty33

26 күн бұрын

And if all is love then the IAM is love. So why need something you already are. Can’t lack what one already is. ❤

@Usernamesarelame378

23 күн бұрын

AMENNN SISTER. Well said and I concur

@heretomakehimknown2183

15 күн бұрын

Exactly! Couldn't have put it more perfectly!​@@blaquemoonmajesty33

@LaShondaHobbs

11 күн бұрын

Truth❤

Love the analogy of a "stable" - yup, that resonated.

He did exactly that and I well he can keep that sheep . This sheep has her eyes open and is on her way out. I have loved him through everything but I have reached my limit.

@FeliciaStands

25 күн бұрын

Same I’ve loved him through everything I’ve made mistakes unintentionally but it’s like he’s intentionally doing things

@theresahuitzil9463

24 күн бұрын

Mine blames my unintentional mistakes for his intentional behavior and then more than once has literally rubbed it in my face, but oh you made me like this. How do you make someone like that? How do you intentionally hurt the person that you’re supposed to love and then laugh at her.

I can't believe I just stumbled upon you today. I hope someone don't see this and how helpful you've been to me, and somehow hide you from me. It wouldn't surprise me. You're so spot on with everything I've been going through I'm amazed t. Thanks so much.❤

Years have gone by I don't care to see or speak to him if possible as he F me up with his games . The cycle is closed . K

Nobody puts Baby in a stall period... I will Buck! Every time.

I'm myself a reader for years and I get into this sistuation, can't explain except considering it's twinflame things...

Love the nuns smoking at the end, lol. I was cracking up at some of your analogies here, and you put into words what I could never really articulate, but always suspected. It was a perfect and lovely reading. I'm saving this one. It's very special to me. Thank you!!

You're killing me smalls. 😂 Hokey pokey ❤

I love your readings. No contact after the mental chaos he put me through.

Dead on accurate. I've used the poison metaphor, but I tell it like this: when I'm with him it's like he's giving me the antidote to a poison and I have to keep reminded myself that he's the one poisoning me! The sheep in the stalls metaphor is so perfect. We have had conversations where he comes clean. Several months ago he admitted he's got a sex addiction and thinks he's BPD and wanted me to be with him to help work through it. But he continues playing his games because he doesn't know another way to be. I definitely have influence him for the better and he has had been making changes, but he has so much work to do. My shadow work has been so rich and I've done huge healing on myself through this dark reflection. Ironically the more I heal, the less I want him. He sent me one of his thirst trap pics the other day and I wasn't drooling over it & I have not responded. He deserves to be left unread and unresponded to. I have a strong tendency to mirror people's behavior back at them. They usually don't like it, if how they behave sucks. If you're kind and generous to me, that's what you get. Well I have gotten angry with him, but I continue to be kind and generous to him because I know the world hasn't been and I want him to see and feel real love. My journey with him has been one of living inside of unconditional love, while learning to hold my boundaries and communicate my feelings. He has broken something inside of me, or maybe it's healed, because I just don't care so much about all his other sheep. I have a roster of my own. But it's not because I need validation from a lot of men. I simply have my own needs and desires and have not found all of that being met from one person yet. I'm open to it!

Boy, does he ever owe me a conversation!

I needed this validation so much!

@jesspucketttarot

26 күн бұрын

🤗

He's gross. I blocked him and he's like why why, I'm like you can go to your other girls, I'm better off over here. I didn't let him explain nor did I want to hear it.

@heretomakehimknown2183

15 күн бұрын

Good for you! Good thing you didn't get married or had children with this person. I definitely wouldn't want a lifetime of unfaithfulness and my children seeing bad decisions ruin and shatter the families future! No thank you! God bless you for making that hard decision! God will bring you in a great man!

Oh my God this is the best reading ever describing the entire situation that I had with this guy for 5 1/2 years great analogy made me laugh, but it was so on point thank you!!!

I so hope you are seeing my past connection with him. I had to end it. Still healing, but what I desire more than anything else is that he spirituality becomes closer to manifesting his complete Self. There's so much good in him, mascaraded with the lies and manipulation. I know our 2 years together, in the end, helped me define who I am today, and that's a beautiful thing . Energetically I offer thanks to him, and compassion.

I absolutely resonate deeply with this for sooo many reasons. Thank you Jess I really needed to hear this and the metaphors rock!!!

‘Energetically inclined’ cool thank you for your intellect x

this masculine you describe might be in the habit of scheming because he does not realize that he can try to be an example of what he wants to see in the world (develop the traits he admires and thinks are "benign") as you mentioned he is stuck in the belief that scheming 'is how the world works and making an effort to change and become more "virtuous" can harm more than help him. he is guarded because he knows no other way. it wont be until he takes initiative that he might learn that so much more is possible than believing that ha has to one up or fool everybody in order to survive. he just doesn't know any better.

“Ewe” really got me. Can’t believe it actually came up.

I Love the sound of the Dove at the beginning of your messages 🙏

Accurate. I just wish I wasn’t being kept on hold because he’s very clearly not doing what he needs to do. And I don’t think it’s fair that I have to go through yet another lifetime (cause I have past life memories and he did this before) where my highest soulmate/ twin flame can’t get it together so I have to be alone. This is not how things were supposed to go. The only reason I even agreed to come back down here in this lifetime was because I was promised he would fix things. I remember making that deal with my spirit team. That’s why I have my north node in my 7th House. I’m meant to experience deep partnership in this lifetime and now I’m not going to get it because he sucks. This is not fair. I should not have to be alone and fail at my own dharma because he won’t play ball. Cause I’m gonna get penalized and have to come back down for yet another go round on this godforsaken rock because he refuses to act right. I’ve done my part and been doing my part.

@SacredEXchange-11

26 күн бұрын

Gurl! You speaking my mind 💯

@scorpiamusic

26 күн бұрын

@@SacredEXchange-11 I’m not trying to complain but this is not okay. I should not have to go through this again.

Damn … this explains it now!

Your readings are so on the money with what is happening with the guy I just broke up with. Omg.

Leo and Libra here. This really resonates. I actually received the lion / ewe analogy myself today. I think he’s my twin flame. I’m trying to be patient, he says he’s going through something but he won’t talk to me about it or see me. I feel a deep connection and he has said he does too and sends messages like we’re in a relationship. I think I’m letting my intuition guide me but I’m worried it might be my 3D people pleasing tendencies.

You’re scaring me. I’ve been having sharp pain in my abdomen today.

Wow!!! Holy crap! 😮😮😮 He has chiron in leo 1st house (self esteem). I have a stellium in scorpio/sagittarius that lights up his 5th house (all the themes you said). he has saturn conjunct his mercury & sun in aquarius 7th house (blocked throat chakra) SQUARE my venus. his pluto is conjunct my sun and opposite my moon (control/transformation themes). my pluto is on his IC, our moons are trine, my ic is on his mc, my jupiter is opposite his sun, my chiron squares his chiron, and my jupiter is conjuct his chiron (all kinds of healing themes). Our composite has chiron in 3rd house in gemini (communication issues). Our composite moon is in pisces 12th and our composite sun is conjunct neptune. (Dreams/spiritual/addictiom). Plus taboos bcuz i am older and i was married when we first met. His jupiter is conjunct my saturn in my 8th house. And i could go on. 😅 😂Lmao

shreks accidentally in love !!!

Thank you Jess. Stunning.

thanks for the update. though wisdom (experience) has shown me that people with these types of Functioning dysfunctions… only through extreme inexplicable suffering (that is: baptism by fire, let alone Saturn) can crack and facilitate radical life change. i departed 3 weeks back and am not looking back 🧂 [Genesis 19 26 pillar of salt]

This reading was incredible. You picked up on my ex’s signs, personality and all. You are very gifted. Wow❤.

Sheep are immune to the rattlesnake's venom.

I love how fast you talk.. I was worried to start my podcast bc I talk fast.. as well but my mind is quick ❤❤❤😊

@MiauxCatterie

25 күн бұрын

I speed most yt videos up to 1.5 - 2x

It seems he manifested me in the past but when I showed up in his life he was not ready for me……so he fumbled me and our beautiful marriage for 10 years. We’re still separated atm and idk what or for how long I’ll have to wait for him to come around. I’m getting ready to move a continent away which will be difficult for him to reach me, but I need to live too for myself. I love him deeply and he has expressed the same feelings for me but…he’s got lots of options (women) and I won’t stand for that. Right now, I’m letting him play the field and explore his many options, it’s his life after all. I’ll always love him but I want to be happy too, and if to be happy and in peace would mean away from his disastrous life, then so be it. I wish him luck and happiness in the kind of life that he chose. I’m a Leo ( loyalty) and he’s a Sag (archer + wander) 🔥🔥🔥

This one really hit, like omg. Ive been tuning in for about a month now and this really was incredibly profound I feel so grateful that I was able to hear & digest that 💗💗💗✨️

Omg im the leo and hes the scorpio and everything you’re saying is spot on wowww

Love your channel!! So wholesome, I love listening to you, how you convey thoughts and all. Your messages helped me navigate shit I've been dealing with for the past two months, helped me understand it from the divine perspective. I didn't think I would need something like that, but your video regarding madonna-whore complex situation kept popping on my yt page and since it was quite fitting i thought I should give it a try and now I'm a regular here. Thank you for such amazing work!

That’s exactly what happened.

Resonates 💯. Love you Jess. Thank you so much for the reading, again validating me. ❤

Thank you 💕 so accurate ❤and so funny too 😂 blessings 🙏🌹🥰

My biggest advice to him in this moment is be yourself at all times, this Libra did want that Libra n conversation but I’ve grown past that, I thought he behaved like a “crazy” person, and whoever told him he needed to be “perfect” to be loved was/is foolish because who is??? I thought he was “perfect” the moment he walked into my life, there were too many blind spots with him so I walked away I wish him all the best in his life and hope he finds what he’s looking for because he sure made me feel it wasn’t me. And no I’m not some stepford wife that needs home training eww nope.👎🏽 thanks Jess looking forward to Fridays read the lipgloss one oooo la la 😅

Dang! Love you and your readings and how you process readings. So good❤

Thank you Jess❤

ALL. OF. THIS!

Hi Jess, I saw your latest video and resonated with every word of it. You helped me validate and articulate my experience, thus far and the complexities of this person. My DM is just as you described, in his distortedness, and I've always been able to see him in his wholeness. As I was listening, I found myself entertaining the idea of sending the video to him.. but we are in no contact, after I withdrew after the 3rd time of ignoring my request for a healing conversation and an apology.

If this message wasn’t channeled for me, I don’t know which is! I had 3 synchronicities, one of them of major impact. It’s the first time I clicked on one of your videos. So accurate! Thank you! Many blessings!

we’ve had several conversations about all of these themes you highlighted

When I met this Leo he claimed he seen me before I always doubted it I do think he seen me spiritually possibly

I fell hard for this guy, who is a Scorpio sun Leo rising, then 3 weeks ago he met another woman and chose her, but strung ME along for 3 weeks because he didn’t want to lose me as a friend. What’s weird is our rising signs (both Leo) are just one degree from each other. Mine is 21 degrees Leo and his is 22 degrees Leo. Also I’m a Libra moon which you mentioned as well. All of this was revealed yesterday. I want to and am going to be someone’s first choice, NOT the reject. I manifest it.

Huge narc.. moving on.. live and learn!!!

In China we call the sheep stall analogy a fishpond😂 And the guys doing it would be called King of the Sea, sometimes Aquaman 😆the women are Queen of the Sea. I'm glad I don't even dabble in that type of dating cuz it's pointless; I much prefer a stable, long-term person who is the type of company where you can give your back to each other. What you described sounds like he's making a Frankenstein's monster, but baby, you ain't never gonna find somebody that's me. hell you might even need 5-8 replacements to even resemble a _side_ of me. Just come clean and we can talk

@LesG985

25 күн бұрын

Yes ma'am 👏

Compartmentalised from the very beginning. He had a male friend who “ploughed his way through women”. I think he lived The Roster through that man. He had his own roster, the co-parenting Schedule. Not quite the same. But that man was quite happy to lead him to betray me once he out the request out. I found out about it before it happened and showed him all the pain that caused me. He didn’t like that but listened to me. He never really spoke though. I’d always wondered about the karma, and your take on it mostly being with him, needing to clear himself first, makes sense. He’s actually a Sun Libra, Moon Scorpio in fifth house. It’s been so rough and painful. The validation and confirmation here goes a long way, thank you. I liked the spider necrosis analogy 👌🏻 Thank you so much for this video 🧘🏻‍♀️🙌🏻⚡️

Totally resonates, thank u so much for this message Jess 💖 🫂🌞🤍

@jesspucketttarot

26 күн бұрын

You are so welcome! 💜

Relevant thank you ❤️

Resonates!!! This was for me..❤❤ Thank you..🙏🏽

I thoroughly enjoyed this reading with all its gross metaphors 🤣🤣 Since last night, I have been hearing "F@ck around and fall in love" 😂😂😂 Little did he know, he met a true Scorpio with REAL venom 😜😜😂😂

This definitely resonates with me

Amazing Read!

OMG Jess… this resonated so specifically on so many levels. This is my exact situation, down to feeling like he knew me before (the first time we met in person years ago he was like I saw your picture on Facebook and was like, I know her, I know her, I just don’t know from where, and I had the same thing with him), we’re repeating the same cycle for the second time (the exact situation you talk about). His Saturn is in Leo, conjunct my chart ruler, my rx Venus in Leo, and he DOES owe me that libran convo, and to initiate it. And his north node in Libra is conjunct my Libra ascendant. This relationship has cracked me open spiritually (in a hard, but good way) but it gets very confusing and frustrating. This was a very cathartic reading for me. Thank you ❤

Wow. This may certain explain a lot. Makes me glad I'm 3,000 away. A few months ago he actually said it was a good thing we didn't live 10 minutes from each other or we would be in trouble.I wondered why the term "player" has been coming up for months and I just couldn't believe this. I've known this man for 53 years, broken up by parents for religious differences. I can see how his upbringing has played a part because I knew him at 15!!! He did manifest me, I told him so. Came to visit fam in my city, but we couldn't get a time to meet 2 years in a row. I went to L.A. in Feb and he cancelled me at the last minute. Time wise, I've been hearing "It's not time yet." He has his secrets indeed, and he's been keeping me on the line!

This definitely resonates

Thank. You. This 🙏🏽

Spot on! ❤

so helpful. thanks

@jesspucketttarot

26 күн бұрын

You're welcome! 🩵

Good analogy 🕷😅

Nailed it.

He asked me to be in a committed relationship with him but I told him no. 3 months later he married a strange woman. For almost 8 years He treated me real real bad and unfairly and overall fckd-up. It was unnecessary and he can just going over there and be with his strange wife. They can be weirdos together.

Facts upon facts. Any other card readings I’ve come across that resonates, Leo season has an emphasis and now leo is in this video ..making me wonder if that’s when the communication will happen.

@Jess Puckett - The Chaos Witch - I love your play on the name haha!! 99.9% accurate - goodness!!

Thank you, Soo helpful 💚🌷🙏

on point!🤨🥴😡⚔ Its such a mess because he sees me and just zeros in with all his feelings. Meanwhile, the only thing I feel is cold anger and fear. I am so tired of hearing his view when I know he doesn't care about me. He can't even talk to me like a normal person because he always has to have me at heel before he can even say anything. I can't even ask him for help without him turning it into a battle. He literally wears a cobra shirt. His poison is the trauma bond he creates in people.

Sounds so accurate

Bang On

lol yup I've got sun merc and mars in the 5th and his north node is cancer in the 5th this video is sooooo on point

This is what's happening in our situation. I finally just straight up asked for communication. It felt like he was hiding things, not necessarily bad things but not being authentic. He ghosted me 🤷‍♀️. His actions don't align with what I'm feeling that we're feeling.

Thank You Jess ❤❤❤

@jesspucketttarot

26 күн бұрын

🤗

Spirit is full of shit!! I'm over excuses and lies!!

You are hilarious 😂

This is spot on! But what next, what is the solution here?

On point with the ♌️ in my situation.

He treated meee like 🤬🤬🤬

@GarmentsofDorcas

25 күн бұрын

I just want to hug you. I feel your pain. It was brutal.

Love the metaphor!😆🕷️

I'd wish he would drop the act so I can finish processing all of my pissed off emotions 💁 it would be the right thing to do after which is Exactly how he RAISED me to be .. just saying.

This is my story 💯🎯🔥⚖️❤️

Accidentally manifested me? Lol prematurely yes accidentally, no.