They're incompatible. Homegirl is polyamorous she needs to let him go. Go find yourself a polyamorous man for your primary and call it a day. You don't have to force yourself to be monogamous

@TheBritishCigarette

5 ай бұрын

She aint even polygamous. She says she is but she isnt stable enough for monogamy.

@maurreese

5 ай бұрын

Agreed

@nicolettemorr6588

5 ай бұрын

She wants a man with a woman on the side. It won't change.

@OSMRDucksLIB

5 ай бұрын

She is not polygamous. She wants him to share her, but she doesn't want to share him. She is not secure enough to be polygamous. What she wants is to be messy. She thrives off of drama & discord. She doesn't know how to be happy & confident, so she seeks validation from other people's interest in her.

@andreawashington5430

5 ай бұрын

@@OSMRDucksLIBbaaaaaam💯💯💯. She ain’t ready for that.. it’s totally different when you’re seeing it in action. She’s definitely not ready, poor thang😂😂😂😂

Her actions speak volumes. She might not necessarily want him, but she DEFINITELY doesn't want anyone else to have him. Selfish and self-serving much???????

@NephelyDeBussy

5 ай бұрын

Word! That woman dressed as a unicorn and who claims to be a "free spirit" because she can't acknowledge she is LGBTQ, solely wants to monopolize that brother so that he can't build a family with anyone else. She is by far the most irrational selfish vampiric dominatrix there can be. She doesn't love him but she is sure willing to own him. Man, RUN!!!

@lucyrushing2126

5 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯

@marvinsmith1652

5 ай бұрын

She was upfront with him she didn't lie to him about her lifestyle she even try to involve him when you are not allowed tp be yourself you will lie to your partner because your trying to make them happy but your miserable and will eventually despise and hate your partner so let him go not for other women but to find someone who understands and live the same lifestyle

@youngodyssey16

4 ай бұрын

@@marvinsmith1652 what happened when she involved him? You are talking as if he wasnt down. That is the problem, ppl dont see what they are doing as a problem and have a warp mindset like she didn’t sabotage the 3some

😁😁😁😁 Judge Star = "Don't ever take your man to another women's house that's cooking, I don't care if the chicken is dry or not " 😁😁😁😁

He needs to leave. She’s not gonna stop that lifestyle.

Dude just let her go. Soon as you marry her she’s gonna be hooking up with everyone behind your back. Don’t set yourself up to be hurt. The hair dresser basically admitted she’s ok with being a sneaky leak as long as she can have her

I don't know how many times people have to do this kind of stuff before they figure out that it does not work. Just ridiculous

@juliusdv6657

5 ай бұрын

There a plenty of couples that do this and go to all type of swinger parties and are just fine. What we only see are the people on divorce court that have incompatible lifestyles.

You want to be living an alternative lifestyle but the first thing your mind goes to in a sticky situation is jealousy 😂😂😂

@cocoabutta600o3

5 ай бұрын

Crazy right?

Bringing a third-party into your relationship will never work out..Brother, don't walk run your way and let her run way...❤❤❤

Soooo many men want this kind of arrangement 😂 The fact that he does not, speaks to the type of man he is! Once he saw that she couldnt really handle it hes cool not doing it! Some woman out there will appreciate him. He needs to move on.

People need to stop trying to hold onto things that aren't meant for them. Trust me, YOU'LL BE A LOT HAPPIER!

She will not be faithful to him. She doesn't want to let him go but she's bisexual... PERIOD!

@hiddenjocelyn1088

2 ай бұрын

You're on the right track but not all the way there. She's polyamorous

“You actually brought a ring??”🤣🤣😂 Judge Star was disgusted!

Saying he’s stubborn is not laughing it off, it’s placing blame. This woman is trying to sleep with you and your man and you think it’s a game… they are too old for this mess and she won’t be happy until he find another woman

When someone shows you WHO THEY ARE BELIEVE THEM

Mr Henri is one of my top 5 favorite men on DC ever, mature, direct not all that rah-rah, wow 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽

SIR YOU ARE A WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN..LEAVE HER..SHE IS TROUBLE..

She doesn't need him & she doesnt need a woman & she doesnt need a poly relationship. What she needs is a therapist so she can figure out what is broken inside her that doesnt allow her to accept love & peace in her life. She's addicted to drama.

@tinajackson6875

5 ай бұрын

There you go, your're absolutely correct, she's addicted to drama and a sex addict if you ask me. You have a man with all the right tools and he loves her and she is constantly cheating on him.

@TheCakediva08

5 ай бұрын

Perfectly said

She wants to have her cake and eat it too. She don't want a polly relationship. Or she wouldn't have gotten jealous with the first situation they had

@quichequiche4274

5 ай бұрын

She just wants to be able to do whatever she wants and keep him.

@zulu3274

5 ай бұрын

🙂 True but just like anything else being poly takes practice and time to be developed...Mental glitches have to be worked out for some... She knows what she wants...

@Mr.logic1234

5 ай бұрын

@@zulu3274Nal bruh what you see is what you get… she thought she can handle it but she can’t… what it really draw down to is like she said she want her cake and want him on the side only because they been together for so long… people don’t like breaking cause the time the put it sometimes time will blind folks… but let her would have only been knowing dude for days… she would have got ghost 👻… and that’s low key what we seeing 👀 what you see is what you get but peace ☮️ and love ❤️ anyways

@zulu3274

5 ай бұрын

@@Mr.logic1234 🙂 I agree with about 98% of what you just said, you on point but I'm on point too and this is coming from experience... I know what she's going through because I've been there, she definitely wants to be able to see multiple people but she's never done it before and had to include him... She's never seen him interact with other women and other women give him attention in person so it's a little bit of a system shock... sometimes something looks easy but it's not but once you get in it you be like okay this was tough at first but now this ain't that bad at all now I'm cool... Sometimes you know exactly what you want... Sometimes the glitches have to be worked out... Sometimes you try then know something is just not for you... There are so MANY paths these relationship Dynamics can take... This subject is VERY deep...lol I wish MUCH success to you in 2024 too 🦾

@bossqueen4944

5 ай бұрын

Exactly.

She’s still waiting for him to change his mind. He’s not with polygamy.

SIR KEEP YOUR BOUNDARIES..NO WOMAN IS WORTH YOU LOWERING YOU BOUNDARIES FOR..RUN SIR RUN.

What is wrong with this young people three some . it's never a good idea

@sheilae.9670

5 ай бұрын

They don't listen and end up learning the hard way

@Edward_Strong1982

5 ай бұрын

Not only young people have threesomes…: just saying 😅

@anaiyasmommy1

5 ай бұрын

I don’t get it either. Not something I’m interested in at all, plus it sounds like a lot of stress, work, and opportunities for drama.

@lawrencemiller8198

5 ай бұрын

I never seen the logical sense of having a threesome i see disaster written all over that i never makes sense to me for me having one partner is enough

@tinajackson6875

5 ай бұрын

Never ever, it's sin and destroys relationships and corrupts.

I'm so sick of people like this who drag people down with them who want a real relationship like just stay signal and loose 🙄 she doesn't want him she just doesn't want no one else to have him.

@tinajackson6875

5 ай бұрын

Exactly,,, you can tell that she doesn't want him she's just selfish and sneaky like the Judge says and doesn't care if she hurts him. She's cruel, karma will visit her.

Her body movements said more than the words she spoke. If she cares about him and wants the best for him let him go and find love with a woman who wants what he wants. This is her life style she has no interested in changing. “You always hurt the ones you love”, old song same meaning.

DEMONIC....RELATIONSHIP WILL NOT WORK..FEEL SORRY FOR THIS YOUNG MAN..

@CASSICF

5 ай бұрын

Yes! She wants him to herself and she wants the other woman to herself.

She cant confince me she doesn't want to bring women into the relationship 😂😂😂

The hairdresser would be fired, if I were him 💯 Dru HIll "Somebodies sleeping in my bed" is what he will be singing, if she ain't 💯

Like Robert said at the end: «Keep that ring in your pocket man!» In my opinion that woman doesn’t deserve him one bit!

Judge Star’s hair 😍

The moment you have to give ultimatums , it’s time to go. You’ll never be happy or secure with that person. She doesn’t want monogamy but she doesn’t want to let him go either because she knows she’s a good catch. She’s being selfish.

He’s stingy like myself…let her go! It’s more than enough women on the planet that want a monogamous relationship.

@ziariakagler7292

5 ай бұрын

lol 😂 how is he stingy what do that mean

@steelwill78

5 ай бұрын

@@ziariakagler7292 That means he doesn’t want to share his woman with other men or women. He wants her all to himself! lol

@ziariakagler7292

5 ай бұрын

@@steelwill78 I don’t think he is stingy cause he did it at the beginning if his girlfriend wouldn’t have got jealous I think it would of been fine

Run and run quickly. She didn’t just decide this.

1st of all...u cant help me with any school work if ur saying the word tests as TESTES🙄🥴🤔😭😭🤣🤣🤣

@Nicole-wp1ye

3 ай бұрын

Math has nothing to do with subject and verb agreement 😂

Girl don't be the foolish type to miss out on a man that wants ONLY you, to build with u...you're going to want that one day and he's going to be long gone.

Judge Star said she acting tricky lmao

Fairy is too cute of a name for her

@MiguelDLewis

5 ай бұрын

Fairies are demons. It’s quite fitting.

@ 15:17 Is the respect in the room with us? 💀 She literally keeps pushing polyamory on him when he doesn’t want it AND she cheated on him with you, mam. There is no respect.

Let this man go...let him be faithful to someone who wants and will do the SAME in return

Don’t do that young man not right now

She should b happy that her man doesn't want to look at other women. If he was a dog she wouldn't like it. Ppl need to be careful for wat they ask for

That poor girl just can’t accept her truth. He just need to let her go so she can be her. They might end up good friends.

He wants the American dream... She ain't that chic! Please don't wife her!

She doesn't want monogamy, she doesn't want to settle down with just one person she needs to let him go and be free to be with someone monogamous and she can live in her truth

Hi my brother no matter what she is saying she going to cheat on you,

I don't think she even really wants him to have his fun. From the first instance, it sounds like she just wants her cake. The moment he actually interacted with someone, she was jealous and couldn't handle it despite the fact that she setup the situation. He saw that and knew it was a bad idea. She doesn't want to be polyamorous; she wants to be free and have fun. I have been in the same boat before. Mentally, I couldn't handle it and never tried it again with my partner. It's not for everyone and at the first sign of negativity, she should have stopped and been on page with him or at least she should have been honest.

Why when a woman or a man needs other sex’s partners why both opposite sex knows that his or her partner is not loyal why they think they can change that person 🤦🏾‍♀️

@keshaestevan3623

5 ай бұрын

Other countries it’s normal to have more than one partner like in Africa it’s normal. I don’t agree but I’m not judgemental like you

You can’t have two at the same time! It’s not love.

Boy u deserve better. She needs to find what she wants.

They look like siblings😂

It’s really okay to just break-up when you want different things. What’s the point of continuing to bump heads about your lifestyle choices?? Grow up & move on. 🙄

They don’t want the same things. Sir move on. She isn’t mature enough to choose and not sneak around.

Run brother 🏃🏿‍♀️

Don’t do she ain’t ready she lying

Judge Star your look as always is 🔥🔥

@jessicasmith6470

5 ай бұрын

I love her.

Judge Star didn't even let him propose! 🤣 She should be honest and say she wants more. But the sad thing is he wants her so he'll be a fool for her either way.

Leave my guy. She's not gonna change. She's bisexual and that's just apart of he she is my "G."

i'm happy judge wrapped it up and didn't let him propose on TV. keep that ring boy

She's not ready to get married, she's setting her man up for 3somes then get jealous. Marriage is not between 3 people. She needs to get alternate lifestyles out her system before committing herself to marriage.

They need to fire that hairdresser

@lesley5380

5 ай бұрын

Home hair dye kit 😊

They need to break up. Young lady likes both men and women the same. She wants it all.

She's not ready and will never be. She wants her cake and will continue to try to make him eat it too. I don't feel she was honest. He kinda like the chase.

BRO!! All I can say is RUN!

I believe it’s safe to say she likes women more and would probably prefer to be in a relationship with one but for whatever reason, she doesn’t want to let that young man go

@admar6934

5 ай бұрын

He provides and puts up with her bs no one else will put up with her

He has low self esteem and she will use and abuse him and he will let her.

Hear me out. I would love for Robert to continue on DC & have his own show. She is not right for him. She think that she can get him to go along with the lifestyle. If that is the lifestyle that she want then fine. I don't trust her. She is sneaky. It's how she sugarcoat stuff.

Man let her go she will be a blessing to another man

Leave this girl alone cuhz how she want it but if they want him more than her it’s a problem but she don’t see the problem in how she moving. If she just don’t b single r b with a girl 🤦🏿‍♀️chillllddd

Homie knew what it was from the beginning and tried to change the narrative..good guy tho,and you know what they say about good guys

Shes not ready. And clearly she wants a relationship where both parties are in board. He's young, it's ok to let go. Do both need to find find what they desire.

Judge left .quick she said no proposal today😂😂

Unequally yoked. Let her go, you guys are not compatible. Yall don't want the same things in life, it's time to move on. A lot of us get with people thinking eventually that person will change for us...that's not good. Shes doing down low things, moving sideways, lying, and also jealous. In closing she said "One day maybe he'll want this" meaning she's going to keep pushing and keep pushing until he caves in.

@andreawashington5430

5 ай бұрын

It’s funny you said “not equally yoked” me and my husband are so equally yoked and that makes our relationship flow. I’m forever grateful

@ninauchiha3106

5 ай бұрын

@@andreawashington5430 Being equally yoked is a beautiful thing, it's needed for marriage. Like you said it makes the relationship flow. I wish you guys nothing but love and happiness continuously 💕😊

@andreawashington5430

5 ай бұрын

@@ninauchiha3106 thanks for your blessin♥️♥️♥️ it was crazy how my husband and I were just talking about that, and I read your comment…revaluation 💯💯

You aren't interested in her, but yet you're calling your man with the proposition of making her a third wheel and your relationship. But you're not interested in her, That doesn't make sense at all.

You’re toooo young to tie yourselves down go explore enjoy your lives if its to be, the universe will work it in your favour😊

@shaniharris4343

5 ай бұрын

29 and 30 is not too young

Judge Star. Your hair 🔥

Dam homie. Its so mamy good women that deserve a husband and he chose a liar and cheater. Smh

Typical woman thoughts…thinking he’ll come around or you will change his mind. FALSE. On the flip side suppose he does give in and just goes buck wild…she’s not going to be able to handle it. Be careful what you pray for!!!

The bf is sounding like a victim

😅 There's one part of me that's kind of mad with him because he has what 90% of most men want... There's another part of me that's mad with her for dedicating herself to someone who does not want that kind of lifestyle... 😏Also when the witness said "no not really we haven't been intimate..." that means YES her and the girlfriend/defendant been sneaking around more than she wants us to believe... They all seem like nice people and I hope they get what they want...I wish them the best of luck...💯

@ziariakagler7292

5 ай бұрын

lol 😂 he did tried it in the beginning lol 😂 but she got jealous

@zulu3274

5 ай бұрын

@@ziariakagler7292 😅 Yup !!!... absolutely...she wants to do it but the glitches of seeing someone you care about interacting with others takes time to work out...lol

@ziariakagler7292

5 ай бұрын

@@zulu3274 lol 😂 I guess so

@zulu3274

5 ай бұрын

@@ziariakagler7292 😁 I've been there so I know what she's going thru as far as working those polygamy glitches out ... Like anything else it has to be practiced and strengthened for it work...lol

Run Young man!

13:51 they look like a bunch of confused women. She is disrespectful.

Look then the girl came on the screen and said something I knew

Example of wanting to cake & eating it too. Sir just leave because this isn’t about love or need. She’s all about WANT. S/N: They are so Miami 🤣💜

To each is own but this is weird asf

She wants to turn him out and he ain’t going for it

He is just her insurance if the chick she is after does not come through for her. She does not love him. She is using his stability and love to create a cover for her alternative lifestyle choices.

She’s not going to change… she just don’t want to let him go cus she’s knows she has him wrapped around her finger.. sad

He handled that entire entire situation the best way he could, and he was very professional.

I know I must be a weird fan. I love the advice you give couples. You come out so powerful with a nice hairdo and a beautiful dress. I can't help but to give you a nice compliment.

🤦🏽‍♀️ GOD have mercy!

They both look dusty lol… she isn’t worth it ✌🏽… keep it moving sir

She’s trying to control the narrative to keep from getting hurt… she can’t deal with what comes with that (seeing her man in live action) and that’s cool but stop trying to be down like brandy 😂😂 and keep it real with herself instead of trying to be real for a man. Let that man goo, lots of relationships don’t work, but you can always learn from the last one

So sad watching people try to force a relationship when they are so oblivious completely different people. It’s so beautiful to find ur person & worth the wait. It hurts seeing people waste time with the wrong one while the right one is out there somewhere.

I have never seen a polyamorous relationship thrive until old age...they never work out and its not supposed to happen.

Not a good match.

She's not happy about something within herself. This culture of sharing yourself in the name of self discovery and finding yourself and becoming who you were meant to be, etc..... please sit down somewhere. It doesn't mean to be a prude, but to the level that people are out here normalizing this stuff is scary. And I'm 32..... regardless, they are not on the same page. Wish each other the best and just call it a day. This is too much.

They don't need to get married, or bring children into the world!

What type of nasty life is this girl living?? Just inviting drama and negative energy

Not ready !! 🚩🚩🚩

Girl let that man go so he can find his soulmate

There's no competition

Very disturbing to watch. I hope he finds a good, decent, faithful woman.