A Story of Adoption - You Gotta Believe

You Gotta Believe's mission is to find adoptive parents for young adults, teens and pre-teens before they age out of the foster care system and run the extremely high risk of becoming homeless.
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You Gotta Believe is one of a precious few organization in the U.S that solely limits its practice to finding permanent parents and families for young adults, teens, and pre-teens in the foster care system. Over the past 15 years we have grown from a team of 3 to a team of 15 full time and several part time staff while placing hundreds of NYC area children in permanent homes.

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  • @maytediaz5245
    @maytediaz52458 жыл бұрын

    Hats off for you, Joe! The world needs more people like you.

  • @masuganut2082
    @masuganut20824 жыл бұрын

    This man, ah, to be someone who aged out of the system and has made a life for himself and has chosen to SAVE these boys. He saved them. He has changed the whole trajectory of their lives! He has given them the anchor that is family! God Bless that man! He is a TRUE MAN!

  • @maiahadi6795
    @maiahadi67959 жыл бұрын

    More men like Joe are needed.

  • @BobCindyL

    @BobCindyL

    6 жыл бұрын

    Looks like there will be at least 3 more...his kids

  • @concorde9615
    @concorde96156 жыл бұрын

    I'm currently a single man who has raised a son who is grown now. I'm considering adopting older kids. Stories like this are certainly inspirational and give me the courage to think I can do it too. And as a black man I know there are plenty of kids who need a good home and someone they can depend on forever. Kudos to you Joe!!!!!

  • @masuganut2082

    @masuganut2082

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes please keep us updated ❤️

  • @hollydenman2929

    @hollydenman2929

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am thinking of this as well. It is scary but so rewarding

  • @RachelPelky

    @RachelPelky

    2 жыл бұрын

    Please do us older kids are always left behind

  • @sherieclifford9983

    @sherieclifford9983

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think u have the compassion to b a great dad to however many kids u can handle, GO FOR IT!!!!!!!

  • @CaptainJeffMarchant

    @CaptainJeffMarchant

    Жыл бұрын

    concorde if you have not seen it yet, watch the KZread series 'Now I am Known'. This story proves that it only takes 1 man (person) to change a life. As Nike says, 'Just Do It'

  • @columbus8585
    @columbus85858 жыл бұрын

    God bless you Joe.. all they needed was just a chance. Just a chance.

  • @hollydenman2929
    @hollydenman29294 жыл бұрын

    What a family! My parents were foster parents for 35 years . I was adopted at 18 and have never looked back. I am so thankful.

  • @benebolencia
    @benebolencia5 жыл бұрын

    Joe is what I call a succesful person. A total inspiration...

  • @hayseman
    @hayseman10 жыл бұрын

    This is the best story I have heard all month.

  • @maureenlynden2477
    @maureenlynden24773 жыл бұрын

    THAT WAS BEAUTIFUL TO WATCH THAT GUY OPEN HE'S HEART TO ADOPTED 3 TEENAGER BOYS

  • @CarrilloDM
    @CarrilloDM5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. 8 years ago unknown to me, I walked I into the lives of 2 kids who ended up becoming my own. 5 years go the youngest one came along. Never saw it coming. I would have laughed in your face if you told me 8 or 10 years ago I'd be a dad. Now my kids or becoming a young adults. Ages 20,16 and 15. I would not trade this for the world.❤️🌹

  • @adamtombar
    @adamtombar10 жыл бұрын

    Good man saved three great kids ! Thank you man for making the world a good place to live !

  • @leldesaulite-rozite
    @leldesaulite-rozite8 жыл бұрын

    God bless Dad and boys!!!!

  • @sandracantrell2639
    @sandracantrell263910 жыл бұрын

    i love listing to peoples stories like this.

  • @kooldadrich
    @kooldadrich7 жыл бұрын

    What a wonderful story and a wonderful father. He turned around the sadness of his own life and made himself a success. And now he's giving other children the chance to have a loving home, a supportive family and a bright future. I, also, have adopted two older children from foster care. You can really change someone's life forever. I wish more people would consider adopting older children.

  • @72marshflower15

    @72marshflower15

    4 жыл бұрын

    As a two time adoptee, I agree, but I encourage perspective adoptive parents to have previous experience before adopting older kiddos... That way the adoptees don’t have to endure yet another parent’s learning experiences, trials, and errors..

  • @barryfix
    @barryfix8 жыл бұрын

    The son described Joe and that said it all: A good man Thank you Joe

  • @SlenderTroll
    @SlenderTroll10 жыл бұрын

    My guidance counselor!

  • @gavintooley
    @gavintooley8 жыл бұрын

    What gold there is in everyone. Xavier became a great young man and a wonderful big brother. Wow. Joe, you really loved the hell out of them all. Haha. Bless you all. Well done.

  • @FantasticRoze6
    @FantasticRoze610 жыл бұрын

    When I was 18 the best family ever took me in after a big fight with my mother. The relationship with my parents has never been better, and I decided to become a foster parent whenever I have the money and room for it

  • @clairefrong7659

    @clairefrong7659

    9 жыл бұрын

    FantasticRoze6 you are very nice helping other people my sister and I got abandoned when we where 8 and if there were more people like you back then half my childhood could have been bettet

  • @debibarrington8348
    @debibarrington83484 жыл бұрын

    God bless this man for given these young men the image of what a man is

  • @Nannajo
    @Nannajo8 жыл бұрын

    what a wonderful person Joe is.

  • @MyKfactor
    @MyKfactor5 жыл бұрын

    I'm a single man who adopted a 13 year old. Tough but fulfilling. These are special kids. Great video

  • @lynnesummers-noble407
    @lynnesummers-noble4076 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful family and a fantastic dad! What a good man!

  • @gigikean6003
    @gigikean60038 жыл бұрын

    So inspirational. Blessings to all the boys and men in that household.

  • @isopath1
    @isopath13 жыл бұрын

    What an awesome guy, learning from his own sad past and giving so much to others

  • @kathyb3836
    @kathyb38363 жыл бұрын

    Joe, you're a kind and special man. You are the definition of a proper father..stay safe and happy.

  • @Pelpina
    @Pelpina10 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful video!

  • @TimBsTechTalk

    @TimBsTechTalk

    10 жыл бұрын

    Very touching. I love stories like that.

  • @francinerosie2631

    @francinerosie2631

    6 жыл бұрын

    Joe u are just one wonderful man

  • @JulieMosesly
    @JulieMosesly4 жыл бұрын

    I have been thinking about this for such a long time. I have two biological kids that are all grown with there own children. I don't know if I am too old but I often think how much I would LOVE to be a foster parent. (I am 61). Some people think I am crazy when I bring this up but I am going to start seriously investigation this. Who knows what gift, support that I might be able to offers some young person. There are so many kids & young people that are put threw hell, do to NO circumstances of their own

  • @nicolelochren9560
    @nicolelochren95603 жыл бұрын

    There are angels that walk on earth .

  • @Swordsquire
    @Swordsquire8 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes life IS fair.

  • @madelineperez6723
    @madelineperez67234 жыл бұрын

    THIS IS ALWAYS A AWESOME STORY FOR GIVING THE OPPORTUNITY TO THOSE KIDS TO HAVE A FAMILY 👪, THANKS DAD FOR DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR THESE YOUNG BOYS , YOU AMAZING !!!! 😘😘😘👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤

  • @abeyshe1021
    @abeyshe10217 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Need more Joes in the society!

  • @Rawand08
    @Rawand088 жыл бұрын

    God bless you Joe!!!

  • @CoramDeoHawaii
    @CoramDeoHawaii8 жыл бұрын

    Heartwarming story that ended so well. God bless Joe for sharing this incredible video!

  • @alexzp-ss4so
    @alexzp-ss4so9 жыл бұрын

    thats a family

  • @chronocross85
    @chronocross858 жыл бұрын

    The youngest one actually looks like the father

  • @eyem4freedom
    @eyem4freedom8 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful.

  • @MrItalianPR
    @MrItalianPR8 жыл бұрын

    Joe Is a real King

  • @emeraldc.8796
    @emeraldc.87964 жыл бұрын

    This is truly so heartwarming, Joe. I wish my father was like you. I can see how genuine and sincere and loving you are. You’ve got the qualities a parent should have. I have 2 sons and I know it’s not easy. You have patience as well. I wish I could adopt. I’m not able to for financial and health reasons. I pray for you and your family, God bless you and your 3 sons.

  • @annettehubbard9588
    @annettehubbard95884 жыл бұрын

    The boys are so lucky to have you, congratulations on bonding as a family!

  • @vikindia
    @vikindia8 жыл бұрын

    God bless you DAD and wonderful boys

  • @monkeybearmax
    @monkeybearmax4 жыл бұрын

    What a great dad and kids!

  • @mariebaldeo3423
    @mariebaldeo34233 жыл бұрын

    Love to see this. Every child matters!

  • @isabelitalizardi9227
    @isabelitalizardi92274 жыл бұрын

    What a lovely family! I hope these boys give their dad as much love and they receive from him. And also that they are valuable persons who can archive whatever they aim in life.

  • @yusufsuleimanharuna3796
    @yusufsuleimanharuna37966 жыл бұрын

    Live your stories. Wish you happy life.

  • @MrAngelBonet
    @MrAngelBonet2 жыл бұрын

    I was in the system as a kid and was adopted by and amazing single father I would love to return the love I received and adopt a older child also

  • @debcarpenter8519
    @debcarpenter85192 жыл бұрын

    Eight years since this story posted. I can't imagine where you guys have gone in your lives! Sweet story.

  • @amyblack9251
    @amyblack92514 жыл бұрын

    What a wonderful man you are to adopt these older boys!

  • @khaishane9636
    @khaishane96367 жыл бұрын

    wonderful family! God bless

  • @AngelaReuss
    @AngelaReuss8 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for doing this! We really need more people like you in the world! If I could do this right now I would. Wishing many blessings to all of you!

  • @LeezPgh
    @LeezPgh5 жыл бұрын

    This is very special. Thank you for sharing. Very happy for all of these men. They have a true and loving family. Even seem closer than many families who are blood related. This love and story inspired me and fills my heart. Thank you Again**

  • @Dan5819
    @Dan58196 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful story. Beautiful father and beautiful sons. God smiles at things like this.

  • @sheteg1
    @sheteg12 жыл бұрын

    Late to the comments by 8 years. Inspirational. Wonder where they are now.

  • @c8rich416
    @c8rich4166 жыл бұрын

    You guys are great! Thank you for sharing your stories. Families are perfect in their imperfections when love reside close by.

  • @mommabear8260
    @mommabear82604 жыл бұрын

    Joe you are a saint!

  • @Nu2thetube
    @Nu2thetube3 жыл бұрын

    What a family! :)

  • @manell
    @manell10 жыл бұрын

    My feels! Oh my God!

  • @mariehill8734
    @mariehill87342 жыл бұрын

    Being in foster care myself as a child make my heart breaks for these kids !

  • @dekeylife8471
    @dekeylife84716 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much . A lot of respect ✊️. Make me happy to now still there is good human left.

  • @kasztankap
    @kasztankap8 жыл бұрын

    guys, you are totally amazing...! loved to see that! all best for u!!!

  • @AhItsArah
    @AhItsArah10 жыл бұрын

    I needed this. :)

  • @Nanno00
    @Nanno00 Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love this. I see this was 9 years ago. I hope all 4 of them saw their dreams come true and that they are all truly happy. My 3 bio sons are mid-late teens. Actually they are almost exactly the ages of these 3 boys at the time of this video. They are starting to talk about leaving the nest. As my home starts emptying, I would love to start refilling it with fostering and adopting. I feel that I still have a lot of love and support to offer.

  • @pwit5367
    @pwit53674 жыл бұрын

    What a lovely man you are! And your sons will grow into great men too, with you as their father. G-d bless you

  • @lispmachine9687
    @lispmachine96873 жыл бұрын

    Joe, yes. You are doing it right.

  • @helend222
    @helend2223 жыл бұрын

    Good to see young guys given a chance put in the effort to learn and mature. Parents are half the picture. Young adults need to try too.

  • @FannyRose
    @FannyRose3 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful !

  • @anthonystrunk6249
    @anthonystrunk62493 жыл бұрын

    God bless all yall ur a beautiful family

  • @72marshflower15
    @72marshflower154 жыл бұрын

    Adoption stories like this i can approve of... Thumbs up!!

  • @meghanmcneill5365
    @meghanmcneill53652 жыл бұрын

    Joe, you are a hero. Damien, John, and Xavier - you are 3 smart beautiful young men! I am rooting for all your dreams to come true.

  • @marilynking6623
    @marilynking66234 жыл бұрын

    God bless this wonderful dad and his awesome sons.♥️

  • @miketackabery7521
    @miketackabery7521 Жыл бұрын

    I just love this. Keep coming back to it to soften my heart a little... and weep a little for happiness.

  • @random11111e
    @random11111e3 жыл бұрын

    That’s a true man of God!

  • @BeccaLynn8024
    @BeccaLynn802410 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful family..beautiful story, thanks for sharing (:

  • @tinjmail
    @tinjmail2 жыл бұрын

    I wish we can get some updates on these boys.

  • @zm4892
    @zm48922 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️ what a sweet man!

  • @Hyndsberry
    @Hyndsberry3 жыл бұрын

    Wow what a real man. your doing an awesome family I hope its still going on for you.

  • @tanyaspringer5638
    @tanyaspringer56388 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE THIS!!!!!! please post an update

  • @emeksb4823
    @emeksb48235 жыл бұрын

    This is heart warming

  • @bemorejidore4144
    @bemorejidore41449 жыл бұрын

    beautifully done.

  • @k.fuentes7448
    @k.fuentes74484 жыл бұрын

    One of the best videos I have watched to date.

  • @YogaBlissDance
    @YogaBlissDance8 жыл бұрын

    omg so beautiful!

  • @sibelsavas6741
    @sibelsavas67414 жыл бұрын

    Such a good man you are god bless you Joe! you know how they feel, what you offered for these beautiful young boys is irreplaceable, with respect sir,I wish you and your wonderful family all the happiness in the world.

  • @yeshiworkgashu3192
    @yeshiworkgashu31922 жыл бұрын

    What a man you are blessed 🥲 👍❣️

  • @Fubblin
    @Fubblin7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this story.

  • @nicolesamsonite
    @nicolesamsonite10 жыл бұрын

    I didn't know you could be in foster care after 18

  • @2222soha
    @2222soha8 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful

  • @skiersobolski
    @skiersobolski4 жыл бұрын

    What a lesson !

  • @mariomeza6118
    @mariomeza61185 жыл бұрын

    This is great, I am looking into foster care adoption as a single parent. Almost all the videos i have come across in my searches have been from younger kids and two parent families which made me question what if anything i could offer as a single father. But this video has encouraged me to continue with the process. Also to open my search to older teens who need love just as much as any other child.

  • @LennyAliyah
    @LennyAliyah5 жыл бұрын

    Amazing ❤️

  • @thelaC100
    @thelaC1009 жыл бұрын

    So happy for them

  • @donnapiraino3323
    @donnapiraino33234 жыл бұрын

    So happy for all of you well done ....You can never have too much Love

  • @Zooeee915
    @Zooeee9152 жыл бұрын

    Much love to all of you xx

  • @lindapalomares3324
    @lindapalomares33242 ай бұрын

    Love this!

  • @mevsm1
    @mevsm17 жыл бұрын

    +Continued Blessings to you and yours+ Thanks mega much for sharing

  • @sherieclifford9983
    @sherieclifford99832 жыл бұрын

    Just so love your story, how blessed u all r & u know it & embrace it, that’s what makes u all u r. I can find a piece of happiness to your story knowing the 4 of u have each other what more could u want!!!!!!!

  • @susiedagruma9660
    @susiedagruma96602 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful story .. thank you for sharing! 😊

  • @pauldunstan4495
    @pauldunstan44952 жыл бұрын

    Awesome! You guys rock.

  • @eep7385
    @eep73853 жыл бұрын

    God Bless you !!!!!!!!!

  • @chikachristian9453
    @chikachristian9453Ай бұрын

    Lovely

  • @tomasgonzales9995
    @tomasgonzales99952 жыл бұрын

    Joe your amazing

  • @Melisblessed
    @Melisblessed3 жыл бұрын

    God Bless you Joe 🙏🏽