The second I realize that I’m actually focusing I can’t focus anymore

@ZAH33D

4 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure whether I have ADHD or not but this...this happens with me a LOT.

@amirhasingleton6149

4 жыл бұрын

True 😂😂

@tacticalteddy4197

4 жыл бұрын

I didn't even watch the video, I got distracted on reading the comments it even took me awhile just to type my comment bcoz I forgot about it lol xD

@TabooGroundhog

4 жыл бұрын

Think this happens to everyone

@beverlyhay6501

4 жыл бұрын

Omggg sqme

"If you can focus on art you can focus right now." no, i actually can't, Lauren.

@nevaehwalden1415

3 жыл бұрын

ya for real like we have a thing called hyper foucs and its where we can fouces good for like 30 mins to 2 hours on smothing we like so no if i did art allready than i can focus on your stupid voice go on and on ab math!!!!!

@Jishwa0_0

3 жыл бұрын

I know right!! I’m good at art, I draw everyday, I plan on going to an art college and yet I still find it hard to finish my project that involve. Art means the world to me, and I can’t even focus on that!!

@TheFartGod69

3 жыл бұрын

I have hemmerhoids

@Bugsabo1983

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheFartGod69 "Actually Meghan, I cant sit anywhere."

@sherbetboy4560

3 жыл бұрын

PLEASE I HAVE A KID IN MY CLASS WHO SAYS THIS WHEN SHES TRYING TO TALK AND IM HYPERFOCUS

this looping phrase is illegally relatable its almost creepy how accurate it is and also the "i'm trying" "no, you're not!" is stuck with me for years by this time this film is a masterpiece

@kluckva

5 ай бұрын

and im happy that i have never had such toxic friends who shamed me about being innatentive

@WhoThisMonkey

4 ай бұрын

Honestly, I think I don't have an internal monologue because of this, I think it broke and disappeared early on. I remember desperately trying to get the thoughts to stop so much, then it just did. I don't think with words now but abstract imagery.

@Kem1sk

3 ай бұрын

But you can't bring up the fact you have adhd because then it's an excuse...

@phatdae6799

3 ай бұрын

Yeah I just start laughing maniacally when they showed that because it’s so relatable

@kluckva

3 ай бұрын

@@Kem1sk yeeeaaah i LOVE that bs 🤩🤩 why do mentally healthy people think that i deliberately am always late always impulsive and hot-headed and unable to keep my own house clean and my wallet full do they think adhd is an advantage?? cuz of what? feeling unique? i really want to NOT be unique and be like everyone else istg i would give away my leg if it could make me neurotypical

Worst thing about ADHD is not only the less concentration and focus, but the fact, that you sometimes don't even notice it, but the others do and scold you for it. As someone who has ADHD I almost cried during this video.

@The_Castol

2 ай бұрын

Happens to me alot and it sucks ass

@PychPmp

23 күн бұрын

Been undiagnosed for 17 years, getting to talk to someone AFTER I'm almost graduated high school. I hate trying to talk to anyone and trying to clean is hard. Im constantly reminded that i don't do things. I really hope there's something I can look forward to

Girl: Is literally talking on the phone in class Teacher: That tall kid saying nothing is getting on my nerves

@arborealmole8079

3 жыл бұрын

I kind of relate to this man in that sense (also I have adhd so of course it’s relatable.

@doryfin6284

3 жыл бұрын

Right?! Its almost like the teachers know somethings off with you so they call on you or something

@grass5697

3 жыл бұрын

Simps ofc

@maybeoptify

3 жыл бұрын

@@grass5697 when the teacher simping 😔

@danielpopadic4314

3 жыл бұрын

Your eyes seem to bit off - center on what im trying to draw on whiteboard , you seem SUS! EXPELLED

anyone else forget that the mom asked him to get milk edit: can we all just take a moment here to realise that the video is 6 mins long.... ..it took us 6 mins to forget about one piece of information.. do with that what you will.

@OtHaku

3 жыл бұрын

Wait she actually did??????? -replays it- omFG SHE DID

@burieVropride

3 жыл бұрын

😂oh shit!

@SketchUT

3 жыл бұрын

you call me out like this, in my home, on this day of all days??

@ellaclues3407

3 жыл бұрын

DONT CALL ME OUT 😳😳

@Bunnyshai

3 жыл бұрын

Wait she asked him to get milk? Lmfao..

As a girl with ADHD, this is the most accurate video I've ever seen about it. The """""teleporting""""", the looping and the sounds repeating before going to sleep is so real. I swear, if anyone asks me how it feels to have to deal with ADHD for a literal lifetime, I'll show them this video.

@mr.brisk_

6 ай бұрын

same, i just clicked thinking that maybe all I ever experience everyday is in fact ADHD.

@naoedouard4422

5 ай бұрын

JESUS loves you! Come to Him to experience indescribable peace, and the infinite love He has for you! He can heal all illnesses and disorders, and with Him you can overcome any and every crisis the world may put in your way. Repent of your sins and start a relationship with Him today. Call out His name and He will answer you!

@FluffyPegasus505

5 ай бұрын

The visual is inaccurate i take vyvanse and teleporting is never seen for me but I do have ear ringing

@jordy_kill1298

5 ай бұрын

@@FluffyPegasus505i dont have earringing, but i just dont hear it, its a wuss

@woohoosteakisyummy

5 ай бұрын

I liek teleporting

My mom has ADHD too so she understands how hard it is for me to focus so I've never heard her say "stop fidgeting" or "just focus" or any of that. I genuinely love my mom and will continuously do so with the biggest smile in a while and hope it stays that way.

@fantomas1770

6 ай бұрын

fidgeting is annoying af, you should learn not to fidget at least in public

@naoedouard4422

5 ай бұрын

JESUS loves you! Come to Him to experience indescribable peace, and the infinite love He has for you! He can heal all illnesses and disorders, and with Him you can overcome any and every crisis the world may put in your way. Repent of your sins and start a relationship with Him today. Call out His name and He will answer you!

@jannemieknugteren3139

5 ай бұрын

⁠@@fantomas1770basically what you are saying is: being paralyzed doesnt mean you cant play with me for just one time

@fantomas1770

5 ай бұрын

@@jannemieknugteren3139 i'm saying stop fidgeting cuz it's annoying af and you will get told to stop anyway

@BobTheSnail759

4 ай бұрын

Lucky you! My 2 brothers (23y/o and 15y/o) have ADHD and I'm (21y/o girl) still trying to get diagnosed, but I'm certain I have it. I'm also certain my Dad (63y/o) has it, but he's completely unaware and keeps blaming my Mum's genes. He's incredibly hard to talk to about these types of things, doesn't have good knowledge about it, and isn't open minded in the slightest way, which makes it even harder to cope. It really surprises me how he can be so unaware of his OWN self and how he hasn't realised, all these years, that he is slightly different to other people. Did he never notice the barriers/struggles at school? At work? At home? I don't know how he hasn't picked up on it. And worst of all, he has ZERO empathy for us when we just CAN'T help but being the way we are. Forgetful, distracted, etc. Honestly, consider yourself extremely lucky!!

god the part where he gets frustrated after his mom says hes not trying....... kinda felt that a lil too much........ ouch :(

@Willybean08

3 жыл бұрын

It's the most frustrating thing when people say I'm not trying... it's not like i can give 100% focus on something because there's more than one thing in the world.

@Untieabl

3 жыл бұрын

Sums up my parents and my childhood right there.

@celavetex

3 жыл бұрын

I have ADHD myself and this is something at least someone says everyday,Its not too much if you Expirience it Everyday,But it makes me Mad I'm 10

@tedzter5491

3 жыл бұрын

@@celavetex right. i know how u feel, having adhd is a nightmare , especially when trying to explain how hard it is to focus on certain things and such. trying to explain you ARE trying hard, its just very complicated to stay focussed but still getting the same interruptions of ur parents saying “but you arent trying hard enough” sucks. im sorry you have to go through that man :( good luck bro.

@josselinguajala8158

3 жыл бұрын

My mother saying I do anything for get out of my anxiety I got out and I'm to much better right now, she was so fake, all the money she bring was from sugar daddies and also telling my sisters and me we don't have empathy for her...just c:

disclaimer: ADHD does not make your hooping skills dirt nasty

@foxylovers290

3 жыл бұрын

This is underrated-

@willmcc05

3 жыл бұрын

That's debatable

@anx46

3 жыл бұрын

man :(

@daniellayunchyk5677

3 жыл бұрын

People with ADHD usually tend to do something they enjoy for a very long time because they need something to make them work physically and mentally. It helps them not fidget for a while.

@ella5207

3 жыл бұрын

with my adhd i actually suck at sports because i lose focus/get dizzy about all the things im thinking about and trying to exert physical energy.

I’m so glad they included the way moments we see/ sentences we hear get repeated for seemingly no reason. Like how he saw the red car pass by then the clip kept replaying and when the teacher said “if you can focus” it just kept replaying over what the teacher was actually saying at the time

@PychPmp

23 күн бұрын

I never have that happen, but I always get lost thinking ab stuff.

It's such a hell way to live. You're always falling behind even though you're always working harder than anyone else JUST to function.

I hate when people say “try” and I say “I am” and they say “no you’re not” LIKE LINDA HOW TF DO YOU KNOW

@cat-wj7hp

4 жыл бұрын

Teacher said I wasn't trying

@doghaver4343

4 жыл бұрын

If anybody says im not trying HOLD MY ORANGE JUICE IM GONNA BEAT A HOE

@elizg1643

4 жыл бұрын

My BFF always tell me to try and that I just need to have the discipline and I’m like BRO I’m FUCKING TRYING

@shark_waifu

4 жыл бұрын

My mom will always tell me don't try just do and I get so confused like WTF AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?!

@Sentientmatter8

4 жыл бұрын

AND IT'S EVEN WORSE WHEN THEY USE THE FACT THAT YOU ARE FIDGETING AS PROOF YOU ARE NOT PAYING ATTENTION AND THEN THEY MAKE YOU BE STILL BUT IT TAKES EVERYTHING YOU HAVE TO BE STILL SO FUCK BEING ABLE TO HEAR OR UNDERSTAND ANYTHING ANYONE IS TELLING YOU NOW.

you know when you just zone out and then be like ”wait wtf happend”

@dirt_bike_dog6797

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah. To me its like im thinking of something else insted of what's around me, and when the teacher is talking all I hear is muffled talking. And then right after I don't remember anything that just happened. BTW I don't have ADHD but I still zone out.

@riffmcdude9830

4 жыл бұрын

ADHD sucks man, for me the worst moments are when I'm walking and my brain just goes "hmm who created God?" And started thinking about random crap and I'd go "wait a minute where am i? " or "wait I'm not supposed to go this way!", these happens a lot to me. Or that time when your parents ask you to but something like "buy A, B, and C" and you completely forgot about C and your parents will start yelling at you.

@rotclanofficial7691

4 жыл бұрын

Riff Mcdude yeah same

@pinkfoxboi1331

4 жыл бұрын

Yup but learned how to control it so I only zone out sometimes while doing inportant tasks,it get Easter after a while its just a process. But to be honest sometimes I wish someone around me understood me at all.the only one who truly gets how hard I work is God cuase without him I'd be inane and in a mental hospital with a nervous breakdown.🐞

@liadeindadani6913

4 жыл бұрын

I hate it when it happens and I'm having a really deep conversation with someone and I keep getting distracted and in afraid they think im not interested

I suffered severe anxiety and mental disorder 18 years ago as a teenage, got diagnosed with ADHD. Spent my whole life fighting ADHD. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.

@Ronkaja

20 күн бұрын

Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.

@SharonFalcon-fj7nb

20 күн бұрын

Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Australia. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.

@mattjeffery09

20 күн бұрын

YES very sure of Dr.benfungi. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

@SandraJulia-lw3kd

20 күн бұрын

Ive done shrooms last month in my house. It taught me how severely traumatized I was from alcohol. I healed from many mental traumas from my past and was able to forgive, let go. Shrooms to me is a remedy not a vice. I even felt more refreshed the morning after. So no hangovers. No depression mood for days. No anxiety.I now have a more calm mind

@StephenHackle

20 күн бұрын

How can i find him? Is he on Instagram

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

@fakiriayoub8087

Ай бұрын

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need

@BestOffer-ii9ny

Ай бұрын

Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

@ChristianMaxwell-sz6bf

Ай бұрын

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

@fakiriayoub8087

Ай бұрын

Is he on instagram?

@BestOffer-ii9ny

Ай бұрын

Yes, he is dr.porassss

"You dont have ADHD your just lazy" "ADHD isnt an excuse" thats what i hear from people....

@lofiwackpainting7439

4 жыл бұрын

XxAlaynaxX fr

@YourRatKing62

4 жыл бұрын

I’ve been called Lazy because of ADHD so many times that eventually I just give up on trying to convince them I’m not.

@EagleMan90

4 жыл бұрын

I hate when peoole say "your useing it as an excuse"

@shara1034

4 жыл бұрын

I get called stupid a lot by my friends as a joke because of my grades and I said “I have ADD, I struggle to concentrate, you know that” and I got really sad because I just wanna be able to concentrate and to stop daydreaming all the time and to feel normal and they just told me “i have ADHD, it’s not that hard” It kind of hurt me because they got through the same thing but they still told me it’s not an excuse. Like, y’all know I can’t control it, what do you expect. You know what I mean? Sorry if me venting is kind of stupid 😞

@ya_boi_cribs1256

4 жыл бұрын

@@shara1034 literally

ugh i was always told i had “selective hearing” when i forgot things like grabbing the milk

@audreydoyle5268

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@yourlocalbob6020

3 жыл бұрын

I get told that all the time, I be like “I forgot!” Like it doesn’t matter anymore bc they are used to it.

@tir3d_al1za

3 жыл бұрын

i fucking HATE when people say that to me

@lilsillyb

3 жыл бұрын

YES

@hideakisorachi3953

3 жыл бұрын

it's not my fault I only remember things I hyper focus on. "how come you can remember all that stuff about those tv shows but not when I tell you something. you dont wanna listen to me!?!?"

The whole “I’m trying” and “you’re not” part made me cry because this is how my parents are with me. I just wish they’d be patient with me, give me a break, and stop getting angry at me for the way I am. 😢

god the “stop fidgeting and listen to me!” “it’s not hard, you’re just not trying hard enough” PAIN

@lordofallspoons4190

3 жыл бұрын

MY STEPMOM SAYS THIS!!

@kpro_1188

3 жыл бұрын

People haut don't realize that we are trying as hard as we can and it sometimes can be mentally and emotionally draining

@tomatodia2603

3 жыл бұрын

EVERY FUCKING DAY

@loversick3377

3 жыл бұрын

@@kpro_1188 yeah my boyfriend has ADHD & I’m doing my best to look into what it’s like for him. It’s difficult and this video makes me want to cry. I would hate to be the one to be saying all that stuff to him like they are in this video.

@kpro_1188

3 жыл бұрын

@@loversick3377 Awe 🥺 that's sweet, I know he'll be really happy with you 💜

I understand this is a serious video, however I'm enjoying being tall

@nicomoist5336

3 жыл бұрын

XD me! As a 5'2 guy right here!

@husnasalimahkodir8023

3 жыл бұрын

it's scary

@Astr0_Man

3 жыл бұрын

ikr

@klounpound6945

3 жыл бұрын

Fr. I'm like 5'6. This dude made me feel 6'5 in the video. Got nervous seeing the top of a door.

@SunshinePip

3 жыл бұрын

5'3 lol I was so excited to see everything

I do not have ADHD, however, it did sort of help me understand how my partner, who does have ADHD feels and experiences.. So, thank you a lot for this! I'll remember to be patient with my honey. Edit; sorry guys he broke up with me 😔

@Affxter

5 ай бұрын

hey bro are you still with her

@lux.s.cannabis

5 ай бұрын

​@@Affxterwtf kinda question is that

@Affxter

5 ай бұрын

i was high@@lux.s.cannabis

@AmeAmeRainA

5 ай бұрын

@@Affxterrespectfully shut it

@Affxter

5 ай бұрын

what@@AmeAmeRainA

As someone with ADHD, this really speaks to me. It's a good way to show how ADHD works. I might show this to people who I know don't quite understand it. Thank you so much.

"Im trying!" "No, no you aren't." bruh wtf does that hit me so hard

@edgy_skeleton2760

2 жыл бұрын

my mom says it to me all the time, I think she forgets how it affects me mentally and physically. but yeah it does hit you hard bro

@socialistsiut5788

2 жыл бұрын

I had a 3-5 month stretch where I couldn’t get out of bed in the morning like I physically couldn’t because of executive disfunction and my mom would just lecture and yell at me from the door frame for 30 minutes until I got so upset my need to get away overpowered my executive disfunction

@moonkitten3758

2 жыл бұрын

heard that in middle school all the time

@notfreddie9285

2 жыл бұрын

Yup my mother says stuff like that to me all the time

@FloppaWeek

2 жыл бұрын

@@edgy_skeleton2760 my mother and father both have adhd so i dont have to experience this thankfully

"Just try" "I am" "No you're not"

@rainymc

3 жыл бұрын

OMG TYSM LITERALLY MY MOM SAYS THIS EVERY DAY

@SketchUT

3 жыл бұрын

My mom was talking to me yesterday about it (gonna maybe get diagnosed soon) and I was trying to explain cuz it felt like she didn’t believe me and when I went back to my room guess who was fighting tears over what in hindsight was something small I tell her that it’s hard for me to get myself in motion for a lot of stuff. Homework, my hobbies, anything. She’s like “well a pill won’t help” like mother it’s designed to help what do you mean it won’t help Edit: forgot to add she’s understanding and kind about it at least which is more than some people get sadly

@Ethan20543

3 жыл бұрын

@@SketchUT DON'T TAKE THE MEDICINE!!! IT WILL COMPLETELY CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A GHOST AND CAUSE LIFE LONG SIDE EFFECTS

@SketchUT

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ethan20543 If I get diagnosed and IF I get medication prescribed I’m going to take it as long as I’m told :P

@kopi7105

3 жыл бұрын

Idk if i have adhd, i will get a check up next week. But what his mom says is so relatable to me, my mom always say i'm not taking things serious, and she would always say i'm just being dramatic

God, why is this so relatable? I know I was diagnosed with ADHD but I thought the buzzing in the ears was only me. Plus everyone was trying to get you to focus with no prevail, everybody tells you to focus while you can't do it. I love this video as it brings light to a pretty unknown part of ADHD. Plus the timeskips... For any parent with a child that has ADHD please try to treat them right.

This man is a legend for making all of this apparent to others. Keep up the good work man.

- I'm trying! - No, you're not! I was about to cry at this moment.

@indytesselaar2319

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@iadorecatsandsnakes7369

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@pawllein2594

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@viporplayz9451

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@viporplayz9451

3 жыл бұрын

I cant with my adhd i hate it

THE THING WITH THE EYES WHEN THEY GO OUT OF FOCUS AND UR BRAIN TUNES OUT

@adav222

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes in the middle of conversation it will happen and I try to get back to reality and it’s tough, it almost feels like I become an actor in my own life to feel normal

@mostlyghostly03

3 жыл бұрын

YES!!!! that’s the perfect way to show it but for me it gets all fuzzy and I get this numbing?? Feeling it kinda feels like how it was shown when the mom was talking to her son

@kirby584

3 жыл бұрын

DAYDREAMING

@landofwonder7829

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah although i don't have ADHD it still happens

@chubbyturtle

3 жыл бұрын

@@adav222 YESS

Ok, I literally could not remember anything the mom said other than “quit fidgeting”. Also, those leaves looked really nice. Basketball shots, quit fidgeting, leaves, and hearing aids are all I remembered by the end of the video.

Man that sucks. I thought I had ADHD but fortunately, I was wrong. I don't have problems focusing on the moment but "Earlier events replaying in the mind" haunts me especially the embarrassing ones always replay in my mind whenever I try to sleep.

the irony of adhd is barely being able to watch this video because your mind already needs to do something else

@Doesntmatter-xp5dv

3 жыл бұрын

As much as I hate to admit it. The video made me cry, then I started thinking if sending it to my parents, then having an internal conversation with myself about why I should and then why I shouldn't, then I started hearing ringing, birds chirping, cars going by, doors slamming and so many things. 😐

@RedVitality

3 жыл бұрын

Within the time watching this I’ve thought of 8 videos I’ve watched when I was younger.

@sydhowee8860

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssssssssss

@Jen_TheSnail

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@jameshudson6414

3 жыл бұрын

Yea. Exactly. This video is actually scaring me with the accuracy. The jumbled clips repeated in the video to showcase the main character’s distractions actually started popping up in my own head and distracting me from the video.

The scary part is the cuts in time. My life has flown by and continues to fly by. Days feel like minutes unless im bored or off my meds.

@shanemiller346

3 жыл бұрын

I agree I don't like it it makes me sad

@nopenope3468

3 жыл бұрын

I have adhd and you are right but i dont take meds my mom thinks its for the dest i lern how to handle it lol

@EUOTRICHOR

3 жыл бұрын

ikr, sometimes i dont even know if the day is the same or a different day alot and it happens alot where it feels like its been two seperate days when its just been the same or something /srs

@brookedanneker8963

3 жыл бұрын

@@nopenope3468 You can definitely learn ways to cope and add a healthy amount of structure to your life but for a lot of people, meds are really necessary for them to begin working on other ways of treatment. it often makes adhd much more manageable when you take meds that give your brain the right amount of dopamine so you can better regulate your attention and emotions. talk to your mom because if meds are what works best for you there shouldn’t be a level of shame around that.💕💕

@MasterKushPlant420

3 жыл бұрын

@@nopenope3468 Brooke D is right. Our parents like to think they always know what’s best for us in order to raise us the best they can. They have to be super confident in order to do so. I am here to say that sometimes they do not always know what’s best for you. In some cases it truly makes sense to ask for help. No shame in that. Wish I could have learned that at a much younger age. I can definitely relate to you. Hope this helps :D

I have ADHD. I can agree, it's very hard. People get mad at you for things that you had forgotten and crap. They just don't understand.

I love my older sister dearly, she was like a second mother to me. Even at a pretty young age, I was aware she was “different” but I didn’t care, I loved her and we had fun and that’s what mattered. I try my best to make her comfortable, but she always seems to happy when we hang out so I don’t think I need to do much to help her, as our friendship is enough :) I still try to understand her, so that we can be the supportive figure in eachothers lives, that we never really got. I appreciate this short film? a lot! It brings awareness.

Telling someone with adhd to "just focus" is like telling a blind person to "just see" like it doesnt work-

@Demi.d3mi

3 жыл бұрын

More like telling someone having a seizure to just stop having a seizure. It’s purely involuntary

@Mileszsz

3 жыл бұрын

and telling someone who's deaf to "just listen" (the deaf person can read lips btw just not as good as others)

@gwenculver1040

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah next time Karen has an asthma attack I’ll tell her to “just breath” and “you’re not even trying”

@YoungMetroDoesNOTtrustYou

3 жыл бұрын

WHOA DUDE LOOK WHAT'S ON THE TV OMG THIS IS MY FAVORITE SHOW :D

@copyright4138

2 жыл бұрын

My 9 year old cousin has ADHD and all the family gets tired of him but I’m the only one that understands him so I am very patient with him.

“Your not trying” “Your so lazy” “Can’t you remember one thing?” “Why are you so lazy?” “You have stupid excuses” “I hate you” “Why are you so disappointing?” “Just pay attention” “Well it’s not my fault you can’t listen” “JUST LISTEN.” I hate it when my mom says these things.

@ninadoesstuff7884

3 жыл бұрын

Don't forget the "No, you just don't care"

@bvgaboo3572

3 жыл бұрын

That's verbal and emotional abuse. And ableist language. Unfortunately a lot of parenting is not good parenting especially with that kind of language and it's disappointing that most see that as acceptable behaviour or the or typical thing to do when it's not the right way to handle things.

@Tweetuna7521

3 жыл бұрын

I deal with this everyday 😐

@maggies.2037

3 жыл бұрын

:,(((((((

@maggies.2037

3 жыл бұрын

@@ninadoesstuff7884 that one hurts :'((

Man... The part with his mom hurt. My mom has bi-polar depression, and she would get so upset and offended when I had trouble focusing in day to day life. The day I mentioned maybe it's related to the chance I might have ADHD, she wouldn't accept it as a possibility and said "you had no symptoms when you were younger, there's no way you have it now" (I was about 24 years old 9 years ago). I live with my gf, and I now have a PsyD and am on Vyvanse daily. Can't be right all the time, moms and dads.

@fantomas1770

7 ай бұрын

bro coped so hard he got a degree just to spite his mom wow

@JG71632

3 ай бұрын

@@fantomas1770well maybe his mom wasn’t good, ever thought about that?

@fantomas1770

3 ай бұрын

@@JG71632 ok, and?

Forgetting the milk scene was probably the most relatable thing I have ever seen

As a person with adhd, watching this is like having it twice. Edit: it also brings unpleasant memories of my parents calling me lazy, stupid, or deaf.

@shaewright7428

4 жыл бұрын

Honestly

@badkidsgang4408

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@CaitsFavoriteColors

4 жыл бұрын

OMG IT REALLY IS!! I feel this so much

@profadetv535

4 жыл бұрын

Actually tho!!

@slimeballsos

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

Me having Adhd watchig this My brain: double adhd

@bonniemarano115

3 жыл бұрын

I felt the exact same way just now.

@iliterallydontknow7783

3 жыл бұрын

ADHD 2.0

@uncodedaqeel6115

3 жыл бұрын

ADHD^2

@jaelldiaz0608

3 жыл бұрын

I felt this lol

@basileverlasting7415

3 жыл бұрын

100% felt this lmao

This is very relatable, I've always been told I haven't been trying, yelled at when I don't do or understand something even though I never wanted to make people mad and was doing things normally.

The last bit in the dark is how my mind takes over at night replaying everything, over analysing everything. I dont have ADHD (my son does) but i have anxiety and depression.

“Just listen” “Your not trying” “Foucus” “Remember” Yea nice try, it’s not that easy.

@urnewstepdad8090

3 жыл бұрын

Don’t forget “stop staring off” and “u have to do the work even if u don’t like it! U can’t just “forget” about it or ignore it!”

@ninac9294

3 жыл бұрын

i always compulsively bite my nails/lips and my dad scolds me for it. it’s gotten better but still, it’s so hard not to fidget.

@seraphim.42

3 жыл бұрын

my mama keeps telling me that I have to at least try but I am, it's just hard. don't want to fight all the time

@psychoanalyticsaurian

3 жыл бұрын

exactly. btw nice fuyuhiko pfp

@MarchSomething

3 жыл бұрын

its annoying to hear that. Im not trying to forget, or to not focus on purpose (I am running on 1 brain cell rn so i cant spell) Im trying my best but because you dont have it doesnt mean you get to yell at me that its not hard to live with it. You dont even know what its like to have it so you have no place to say that is not hard

*Teacher gets mad at kid not focusing when there is a girl sitting 5 feet away talking on her phone*

@ploppityploppity5611

5 жыл бұрын

not only that but if the kid has adhd it would be hard to focus so like

@benderoffenders7353

5 жыл бұрын

I have adhd and i have to hear that same bullshit every day

@JazminFlakita

5 жыл бұрын

I would’ve told the teacher off for that tbh 🤷‍♀️

@2candylove492

5 жыл бұрын

Same , *unable to focus* Teacher: pay attention Other kid: drawing and playing games on lap top Teacher: *says nothing*

@josiahemrick

5 жыл бұрын

silly goose ive literally had that happen to me except he was right next to me. some teachers pick favorites

when the professor said "if you can focus " it repeated in head 100 times n just after that its repeated in the video too oh man this so real

I relate to this video so much. The distractions, the scolding, the anger from seeing the main character of the video going through the exact things I go through every day. Its so frustrating

4:23 “I’m trying” “No,no you’re not” That shit hit me hard

@domegarth

3 жыл бұрын

"No you're not".... Easy to say by people without that Problem.

@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice

2 жыл бұрын

Oh lord. I was ALWAYS being told what I was & wasn't thinking/doing/feeling. I was so sick of being gaslit all the time!!! The big one for me was "You CAN, you just don't WANT to." Like no bitch can't means can't. I did my absolute best and it didn't work, if that's not good enough, then ?????????

@socialistsiut5788

2 жыл бұрын

Or the classic “that’s not an excuse”

"I'm trying !" "No, no you're not." That one hit hard. It's so hard for me to remember things and register when someone is talking to me, and I really do try.

@-randomuser-4897

3 жыл бұрын

I have the same thing, i can remember like things that you learn at school in general normally by a combination of two problems i may have, but not anything else. I can forget something i am doing or just did easily, and because of my probable ADHD/ aphantasia combination (aphantasia disabling people to remember things with one or more of the five senses ; and me having it "total" i guess) it would be less obvious because it would cancel a few effects; i got in trouble for it a few times now, and starting to think more and more about diagnostising when i can :/ Have a nice day !

@Astr0_Man

3 жыл бұрын

same, my mom says she thinks I might have adhd(I think so too) but constantly puts me down when I say I'm tryin and displayin symptoms of adhd instead of tryin to make it easier for me especially bc we cant get a diagnosis bc we dont have the money

@Tweetuna7521

3 жыл бұрын

I deal with it everyday 😐

@yeah1326

3 жыл бұрын

@@Astr0_Man You dont have ADHD, EVERYONE DOESNT HAVE ADHD. STOP SELF DIAGNOSING

@richiemcconnochie2506

3 жыл бұрын

@@Astr0_Man cure show mom...tell her to do this to u...over in a few minutes..if she does it well...kzread.info/dash/bejne/nKiCzdGQqruqYZc.html

My mother,my father,me,my brother,uncle,cousin,grandma all have ADD or ADHD so I never really heard from my family that I’m “lazy” or “no you’re not”, “try to concentrate”. I was diagnosed to a very young age (less then 5 year old”

Remembering everything at once and mixed, can’t focusing.. Is so true

What many neurotypical people also don't understand is that the fidgeting actually helps us focus. So if they tell you to "just sit still" they're actually making it more difficult to concentrate

@TheRadioactiveBanana32

3 жыл бұрын

true

@sophiagiordano1197

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY. I draw a lot even if its just a bunch of doodles all over the page, cause it helps me to pay attention on what the teacher is saying. especially if its a theoretical kind of class. she's always telling us to put our pens down and pay attention and im like...... i just dont say anything cause everytime i forget to tell her, and dont wanna say it in front of the class lol

@theunholybanana4745

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheRadioactiveBanana32 that's the same Banana picture in my pfp

@Brandonhayhew

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@iqbalindaryono8984

7 ай бұрын

Sad part is that the opposite is true for them, what allows you to focus makes THEM lose focus. It feels like there's no compromise to be made

Anybody else have the “if you can focus for the next half hour” stuck in their head?

@ajrainbowraz5558

3 жыл бұрын

Nah I forgot the teacher even said that till the end of the video, where they replayed the sounds

@somewhereovertherainbow88

3 жыл бұрын

yes

@zer0x715

3 жыл бұрын

I wonder what the teacher said after that ._, Kinda wanna know lmao

@nothing7177

3 жыл бұрын

I like your username

@evie4602

3 жыл бұрын

i've got the tree leaves rustling

The cuts in time are honestly relatable sometimes I'm just walking to school and most of the time I go to my friends house to wait for her so when I was walking I guess I kinda dozed off if that's what you call it and suddenly I'm standing in front of my friends door waiting for her to come out and if I'm being honest this video is relatable in everyway and how my mind is always all over the place and how its so hard to focus

thank you. so much. this didnt just depict my life, but it gave me a way to show people what having it felt like. You are a blessing in disguise. Thank you again.

Does anyone else have to do like 2 other things while they’re doing something so they can pay better attention to the one thing? I hope that was understandable lol

@Batmantherealbatman

3 жыл бұрын

MEEEEEEEE!!! while reading this comment I was playing with a smarties wrapper and watching the video!!!

@alexfinechi2497

3 жыл бұрын

I have to draw or else I’ll never be able to fully listen and understand something

@Batmantherealbatman

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexfinechi2497 same!

@goldon_sunflower2848

3 жыл бұрын

The thing about me is that my mom doesn't let me have gum and some of the times I listen but TBH I think she gave up ok so feel me if this is with any other people with Adhd cuz I used to have 12 diffrint prescription in 2 or 3 years idk I make no sense lol

@thankyou62

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. I read and walk at the same time. I also like to walk and pray the rosary at the same time.

Do you ever just read a book and start thinking about other things but you’re still reading at the same time ? Edit: I don’t have adhd, just thought this was something relatable

@walterwhite8649

4 жыл бұрын

Once O read a norwegian book because I'm from Norway I was thinking about arrowverse and mcu stuff while reading!

@jackhennessy1645

4 жыл бұрын

cam0bam then u gotta keep re-reading it cuz even tho u read the page it like didn’t go in

@tabe1530

4 жыл бұрын

This is why I haven‘t never readen a book in my life

@southparkseason7episode119

4 жыл бұрын

Then you keep reading but don’t remember but you want to read that paragraph again but you’re already read it so you don’t want to then you close the book.

@terminatroll-_-3269

4 жыл бұрын

@@jackhennessy1645 And then you have a feeling of deja vu while re reading the whole page, but you don't remember so you have to re read it anyways

As person with this kind of problem you really made me tear at the end. thanks for showing to people some things they don't understanding even if they are your parents (Give them a break) that was break my heart. thanks again 😓

This is extremely accurate, I myself have both autism and ADHD and the spacing out is spot on, repeated phrased from when people were upset with me (which doesnt help when depression is in the mix) and just this whole experience, very accurate to the real thing very well done!

@secho88

2 күн бұрын

double debuff

God, the ringing is so true. If there’s no sounds, my brain fills in the gaps and makes sounds. It’ll either be chatter, something that happened earlier, or the ringing.

@xrockangelx

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad I have music 24/7 instead of the ringing. I feel bad for people who struggle with that.

@sneakyturtle2346

3 жыл бұрын

Its worse when ur home alone cuz then u start hearing doors closing🙃

@leafyyplant

3 жыл бұрын

@@xrockangelx same here edit: i’ve been paying more attention and my ears do ring lmao

@vaidehi_n

3 жыл бұрын

@@sneakyturtle2346 that's scary

@noahxxzo

3 жыл бұрын

Haha yeah, whenever I'm in the shower (or even when I'm not) my brain likes to trick me into thinking someone is knocking on the front door, and sometimes it'll just straight up play my ringtone and so I always think my phone is ringing

SINCE IM NOT REALLY PAYING ATTENTION TO THE VIDEO, DID YOU SEE HIS BASKETBALL SKILLS LIKE DAMN HE ON A MICHAEL JORDAN LEVEL

@serenitymorgan8371

3 жыл бұрын

DUDE I KNOW RIGHT

@tir3d_al1za

3 жыл бұрын

I WAS LITERALLY LIKE DAAAAAMN OKAY SHIT

@Charlie..22

3 жыл бұрын

YEH I WAS SHOOK

@khaozxx

3 жыл бұрын

TRUEEE

@A_e.00s

3 жыл бұрын

A day in the life of Michael Jordan's white son

I have ADHD myself and this is actually pretty accurate.

I cried, it's extremely hard to explain these to people. Not even parents. Thanks for making this remarkable video. I hope you are doing great with your life.

@rainbowunicorngirl2187

8 ай бұрын

my dad says “you don’t have adhd, you’re smart and you have excellent grades.” EXCUSE ME, WHAT?!?! i do have adhd. What do my grades have to do with a disorder? 😢

@fantomas1770

8 ай бұрын

@@rainbowunicorngirl2187 get diagnosed first

*TrY tO fOcUs* Man i hate when people say that

@ouitk3317

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@Sunnie_0

4 жыл бұрын

Therrmal a real pet peeve if you ask me

@waaromgames7213

4 жыл бұрын

Therrmal it’s like you can for that one minute and mostly miss actualy the important stuff.

@therrmal

4 жыл бұрын

Princess Rainbow Swirls UwU nah I actually have ADHD just one of the one things I hate because lot of my friends don’t know I have it

@Sunnie_0

4 жыл бұрын

Therrmal ok

“just stop fiddling and listen to me” that honestly almost made me cry omgg

@bananamama4393

5 жыл бұрын

I HATE it when people say that to me

@moo_4236

5 жыл бұрын

do u have adhd?

@alondrarojas4701

5 жыл бұрын

Ryan St. John yeah

@sleeepyyynub4800

4 жыл бұрын

Alondra Rojas i respect you also cried i have adhd and i here that all the time i sucks🙏

@EspeonAndMew

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy to find people to relate too 💕

Never been diagnosed with ADHD or something, but this is exactly what happens to me. And I thought this was normal to everyone...

Watching this helped me understand my boyfriend's situation since he has ADHD, thank you for making this video!

When she kept telling him to stop fidgeting, I really felt ANGER for a moment. The most frustrating thing in the world is being forced to stay still, as if that helps with focusing. Neurotypical people would never understand, I don't think.

@okayokay4125

3 жыл бұрын

Elmo is always moving😋

@abwhite129

3 жыл бұрын

E x a c t l y !

@concentratedcringe

3 жыл бұрын

I always thought it was ironic they have such a problem with fidgeting and stims. Like, bitch, how about *you* look at *me* and stop focusing on my hands aye? People just have zero self-awareness sometimes.

@Ryuneko_Gaming

3 жыл бұрын

same here, i got so mad watching that

@BevBev009

3 жыл бұрын

They used to tell me that too. Like I can't pay attention unless some other part of my body is distracted by doing something else. That's why I have a fidget cube

Untrue. I have adhd and I don't have the height of a door

@MarchSomething

3 жыл бұрын

ikr? So unrealistic xd

@sxgar.t33th40

3 жыл бұрын

@@MarchSomething kazuichi wtf are you doing here-

@dove3015

3 жыл бұрын

lmaooo I'm 5'2 and that's the same thing I throught

@himikoyonaga3065

3 жыл бұрын

@@MarchSomething what are you doing here aren't you supposed to be with Sonia Nevermind

@MarchSomething

3 жыл бұрын

@@himikoyonaga3065 Nah she went for Hamster Man

Wow, that's a great representation of what it looks like and feels like. That's the first video I found that shows the visual focusing problem and the anger of being falsely accused of not trying.

i actually ended this video in tears because of how scarily accurate this actually is. the "repeating" thing is extremely accurate, and so is the random flashbacks and loss of focus. it especially hit hard when the mother said "you're not trying"... it can be really hard for people with ADHD...and i hope everyone that reads this that has ADHD like me will succeed in whatever they want to succeed in. i know you guys can achieve your goals. i've done it, i know you guys can too... ❤

I hate getting yelled at for forgetting. At the end of the day it is my fault but at the same time I can’t help it. It’s so frustrating

@anayaj7163

3 жыл бұрын

not really your fault

@worm7899

3 жыл бұрын

This is me everyday, and my parents also do that!!

@SpookaySpctr

3 жыл бұрын

Man I relate, I try so hard to study sometimes but I just cant focus

@thisismyaltyaccount5727

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I don't have adhd though. Just a crappy memory.

@Athena-hq4cp

3 жыл бұрын

@@thisismyaltyaccount5727 me too..

Does anybody else’s with ADHD try to focus on being focus and then forget about what they were focusing on edit: wow this is the most likes I’ve ever got on a comment this is amazing that so many of us are going through the same exact thing😂

@isabellarichardson423

4 жыл бұрын

Athena Larry ME

@DEADSKULLZ31

4 жыл бұрын

Every other day in history class

@pattigreen6295

4 жыл бұрын

yEs

@emma..4914

4 жыл бұрын

Athena Larry yess it's like i just blank out & then just forget everything

@liamraver8115

4 жыл бұрын

Athena Larry lol yeah

I recently started to research about ADHD to better understand the topic. However I found out that the symptoms everybody listed (mostly ,like 90%) were happening to me too. Fidgeting, something unnecessary being stuck in my head for the rest of the day (or for weeks, months), getting distracted, sometimes even daydreaming for no reason! I have not been to a professional to get diagnosed whether I do or don't have ADHD yet. I wish the best for all those who are diagnosed with this!

Got here after searching how to prepare myself for studying in college. Gotta say this completely blew me away, for me personally if I dont understand a subject i’ll spend a bunch of time on it, overthinking things, and getting pretty frustrated. I cant help but look at the things around me. The main problem I have now is Short-term memory, i’ll forget stuff I heard less than 10 seconds ago

- forgetfulness - easily distracted - constant daydreaming - mind stuck on a catchy tune - fidgeting/restlessness - poor sense of time - anxiety - constantly awake at night deep in thoughts, replaying stressful episodes yeah this is me, this sums up my life perfectly

@abhimanyujain2991

Жыл бұрын

@@theangstygayhouse i have adhd and this was accurate asf but is asd like this too or are there any differences?

@Mimix-o

Жыл бұрын

I don’t have adhd but this applies to me sometimes in my daily life I’m austic though I can’t spell 😓 autistic

@baconpenguin5405

Жыл бұрын

I have ADD and this sums up my life perfectly

@melonicpc5329

Жыл бұрын

@@theangstygayhousei have to deal with both ASD and ADHD😢

@coolboi1232

Жыл бұрын

Yes

Telling someone with ADHD to "just focus" is like telling someone who is paralyzed to "just move"

@waterwolfyxx727

3 жыл бұрын

OOF felt that XD

@rylierylierylie

3 жыл бұрын

i guess i mean thats an extreme comparison but yeah

@vixymix101

3 жыл бұрын

@@rylierylierylie it's the same thing tho

@rylierylierylie

3 жыл бұрын

@@vixymix101 i mean i have mild to severe adhd and if you yelled at me enough i could focus i think idrk to be honest thats just a hypothesis but if you yelled at a paralyzed person they could still never move

@vixymix101

3 жыл бұрын

@@rylierylierylie yeah that's called manipulation-- and it doesn't last very long and leaves you with a very upsetting feeling. It doesn't actually work, it's just making someone upset.

This is very real. I am a person with ADHD and I feel exactly the same as in the video. Sometimes I feel like I'm teleporting, My vision goes out of focus too much every time I have to focus on something and for some reason I'm always thinking about things from seconds ago. I really don't understand people who romanticize this, I hate living like this. This video hits hard, it's very real in my opinion.

This is honestly so relatable I cried. Great work I hope the word get around

For me, My ADHD can be summarized as... “Shit, what was I doing?” “Oh that’s right”

@greatwavefan397

3 жыл бұрын

My mind sometimes randomly goes blank when I'm about to do something. I ask myself "Where am I?" and usually regain focus in a few seconds.

@elementsgaming2411

3 жыл бұрын

@@greatwavefan397 bro, that happens to me when I'm driving. I'll just be on the road and then think to myself, "I know where I am but how did i get here again? did i do every turn correctly??" (don't worry, I am a great driver and have yet to get into an accident)

@t04st3d_cr4mb

2 жыл бұрын

Same, my mind goes blank and then I wonder, "why am I here again?"

@runic6452

2 жыл бұрын

@@t04st3d_cr4mb that's just normal for all people

@t04st3d_cr4mb

2 жыл бұрын

@@runic6452 nah but that happens to me way too often, I know I have ADHD, got checked with a doctor, and boom. I have it :P

The “you’re not trying” cuts like a knife other favorites include “you’re just making excuses” and “if you actually cared it wouldn’t be so hard”

@popcorn_detective0452

2 жыл бұрын

God ive herd those phrases so many time

@Life-uu5yo

2 жыл бұрын

Or “you’re just being lazy.”

@seether7063

2 жыл бұрын

Why Is This Relatable…

@birdie8006

2 жыл бұрын

@@Life-uu5yo came here to say this one! I was called lazy forever by my parents.

@1nsertusername

2 жыл бұрын

Yes... true :(

I recognize this so much I also have ADHD, sometimes it's difficult when people don't understand you, especially with that fidgeting and what's going on in your head sometimes, SO MANY different things😴😴 Thank you for this video❤

I'm diagnosed with adhd along with a few other things, and this video is dead on. The school scene hit home or me. all grades up until 11 i couldn't sit still or focus. I've worked on bettering myself, have even stopped taking meds but its still difficult staying in control and not losing "focus" and I love how this video is a voice for so many in the same situation, It shows none of us are alone.

If you got anxiety ADHD intensifies it. Its like living in hell

@5iver580

5 жыл бұрын

yeh lol I'm pretty sure i have anxiety and also depression from adhd

@spammerspammer-fs5hj

5 жыл бұрын

I have ADHD anxiety and autism

@hallowoct9630

5 жыл бұрын

Yup ADHD Depression Anxiety and Social Anxiety when im at my worst.

@arcturus9317

5 жыл бұрын

All Music haha yeah I have it it’s living hell to me

@superptmgreat382

5 жыл бұрын

All Music I have both and your true it’s a hell

I hate when People without ADHD especially parents and teachers tell me I’m not trying or I need to focus or i need to Focus on them or I should stop fiddling around like I’m doing it on purpose like I’m not it just helps me concentrate I can be fiddling with something and listen to you at the same time

@CallmeBrick

3 жыл бұрын

I TELL THAT TO PEOPLE ALL THE TIME

@liongames2594

3 жыл бұрын

They will never understand us 😔

@holhorse9283

3 жыл бұрын

Teachers piss me off the most

@TheRadioactiveBanana32

3 жыл бұрын

I have moslty the hyperactive part of adhd the fiddling a lot... teachers get mad over me fidgeting with stuff all the tyme

@rxttxn

3 жыл бұрын

i have adhd and unfortunately i'm dyslexic too so i didn't understand shit about what i just read

This one hits hard. I hated my math teacher because he’d kick me out of class nearly every day for not paying attention and I was failing his class as a result. The kid next to me was stealing pencils and stuff off my desk any chance he got. I was at a point where I told the principal if he kicks me out of class again I was going to get violent with my math teacher. Then the semester ended and that was my last time seeing that school. Too proud and too angry at the time to just tell them what was happening. No one knew I was diagnosed with ADHD except for me.

Thank you for making this. It made me emotional because I really do feel I can relate to this.

" need a hearing aid? " " this isn't the first time you've forgotten" " something interesting there?" All too familiar...

@dmulqueen2k17

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly the same 😂

@bethanynolastnamelol1942

4 жыл бұрын

Bir the Mothbat “why are you just looking out the window like that” “She sees demons!” “You need to focus and stop looking at your paper like that” “Do I need to send you out the classroom?”

@chuaagga2830

4 жыл бұрын

I have 2020 hearing and cant hear shit

@D-Ace-jg5lc

4 жыл бұрын

“Why are you staring at the wall?” “What’s with the bouncing leg?” And the all too familiar “I gave you one job, one.” You know where it’s going

@cjk705

4 жыл бұрын

I wish a hearing aid would help tbh😭 i just feel bad or i only understand what someones said when convos basically over

For everybody wondering. This is a metaphorical pov, we don't literally see and hear and see things over and over again. Its just showing how we think. edit: stop just replying with stuff like “i have adhd and i do do this” please just read what ive said carefully. because so many people are just misunderstanding what im trying to say.

@user-qd1xz7sl8g

3 жыл бұрын

Really? I guess everybody's different. I tend to to that though it could be from my Panic Disorder, although I'm 98% sure it's from my ADHD. I replay things over and over in my head. I dont know why, I think I just zero in on the wrong thing and pick it a part. That or when someones talking their words mash together and I'm too busy trying to replay and figure out what they said to listen in present time.

@jboy1761

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-qd1xz7sl8g yea he is saying we don't literally see and hear stuff like the video

@adelynwilliams3183

3 жыл бұрын

i try not to but i constantly replay things that have just happened and i can’t stop it! it makes me unable to just focus like a normal kid

@marchingflute5181

3 жыл бұрын

ADHD is different person to person. Sometimes, this metaphorically happens and sometimes I just zone out and my mind has thoughts that pass by at the speed of light and I don't have time to realize what I'm thinking before it's gone and I've moved on to another flicker of a thought and that cycle continues til I tune back into reality.

@cajrixcarmack8820

3 жыл бұрын

clangon speak for yourself 💁🏻‍♂️

This short film is EXACTLY what I am like, I've only just learned over the past few years that I have ADHD (amongst other illnesses) and i'm doing my best to come to terms with it.

This is actually very good with representing ADHD, although it isn't perfect because there's a difference between representing it and actually having it. I appreciate you making this and giving awareness to ADHD.

this is so accurate. especially the way having like 5 thoughts at once is portrayed with squares on the screen. everything runs through your head so fast that it all feels muted and foggy

@risinginvirgo

3 жыл бұрын

Right?! Ugh

@Jen_TheSnail

3 жыл бұрын

Yess

@longneckdinosaur

3 жыл бұрын

when i’m trying to concentrate sitting still all i can think about is moving

@Brandonhayhew

3 жыл бұрын

When i am sitting: i can understand the words, but my mind can’t focus on their debate.

@socialistsiut5788

2 жыл бұрын

Does your brain ever turn on ‘sleep mode’ when you’re doing something and you rarely blink without perceiving reality

I feel 2x taller watching this video.

@mike-0451

5 жыл бұрын

Joshy Paza still only 5"6

@canyoucheckmyplaylistandsu5096

5 жыл бұрын

Nice

@JacketCK

5 жыл бұрын

Holy shit mace windu I'm 7 inches taller than you, that means I'm the alpha male, that's how I incel logic works right?

@averyjones2956

5 жыл бұрын

@@JacketCK if you're 7 inches taller than him I'm 4 inches taller than you bow down beta male.

@JacketCK

5 жыл бұрын

@@averyjones2956 ah shit

This is so on point. When someone tells me to focus I just keep telling myself to focus over and over again then realizing that I’m not focusing because all I can think about is to try and keep focusing.

I’m a 14 year old boy who has ADHD and I feel this boy in the video. I forget things I can’t sleep and generally I have a rough times with ADHD and I had to deal with depression and Anxiety. But now I’m better.❤

"Im trying" "No. No you're not" this part hurts. because it's so true that nobody else can see how hard you're trying so they don't believe you are. it hurts when you try your very best but people only seem to notice your shortcomings.

@wolfy-chan4303

4 жыл бұрын

Lauren please calm down that’s my father... people say I’m careless but I try so hard to not be and I forget so much but I try my hardest...

@dystopiandownfall9188

4 жыл бұрын

I felt that. ._.

@thatsavage1202

4 жыл бұрын

My stepdad

@prodbyscythe

4 жыл бұрын

that's me, i'm all like "i'm trying" but no one believes

@user-od4hw2cl3m

4 жыл бұрын

i read this at the exact same time of the video

“I’m trying” “No you’re not” That one hit home

@cherylmorton572

3 жыл бұрын

😔

@Irishjay1025

3 жыл бұрын

That is the most common thing we will hear growing up and it causes us to think we are not trying that we are failures. Sad that just a little bit of support how much we can accomplish yet even when our families and friends know how much it benefits our everyday lives they will only bring up the failures and never build you up. The hardest part is knowing there is something off in our brains and not having any control over it.

@cquinnb

3 жыл бұрын

I heard this the most from my dad, who also had really bad adhd, which is likely why I do. I think he saw so much of himself in me, and he felt like a failure in life because he never did well in school despite being very intelligent. He didn't want me ending up like him and so was hard on me but way harder on himself. I wish he could have realized that neither he nor I could help it, and maybe he could have forgiven himself.

@bubblypeach87

3 жыл бұрын

Same. But I usually say "I can't help it"

@Love_tastic2

3 жыл бұрын

I agree- it’s really tough. I was only diagnosed with adhd 1 yr ago, and times before that was extremely hard. (Still is hard tho)

As someone who probably has undiagnosed ADHD I also relate to this. It is way to accurate. Even if my doctor says I don’t I feel like I have a form of it. It’s the constant distractions, getting bullied or no one taking you seriously when you forget something; it is not fun at all.

As someone who is ADHD this is the most accurate video I ever seen. It took me 4 time to re watch this video again, cause I can't force myself to focus it after all, while I just kept the video playing then I go walk around maybe look outside the window, maybe close the video, and go do something else. Or maybe I thinking about something else in mind, and then I forgot which part of the video I watching right now. And then restart the video to watch it again.

It's weird I have been diagnosed with adhd and can never remember anything someone just told me but I remember thing from months and years ago

@christianaeden3172

3 жыл бұрын

I have the same problem. I was diagnosed with adhd at a very young age and I’m now 17.

@j.pnewcomer1069

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah my short term memory is terrible too

@blob8152

3 жыл бұрын

Thats kinda how it is, you can remember things from a long time ago but not what you did yesterday or a couple minutes ago Well thats how it is for me Also sorry for bad wording- I just can't think of another way to say it, and I know its not what adhd

@externalisopod3877

3 жыл бұрын

I REMEMBER DOING MY MATH HOMEWORK FROM WHEN I WAS 5 FUCKING YEARS OLD BUT I CANT REMEMBER MY CHORES FOR THE DAY

@burntblueberrywaffles

3 жыл бұрын

That’s because we have great long term memory, but terrible short term memory