When you invest your time on the children, you not only create memories for them but you get to establish a strong bond and be close to them which money cannot buy. When they grow up and leave home, the house will be awfully quiet but you and your lovely wife, as parents will be richly rewarded by their love and care. You made a wise decision to be a stay at home dad. It may have challenges but things will work out for the good. Thank you for sharing your wonderful videos.

@pishedbloke

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words! Sometimes I get negative remarks or some smirks from people when I tell them I choose to take care of my kids rather than go to an office everyday. I guess we all have to do what we enjoy and can afford to do so. I live close to my own parents and they come over for dinner at least 3-4 times a week. For me, it is just part of our Asian culture, I wish all of us could carry on these traditions

Your story remind me of my younger days....I miss looking after my child. She is all grown up now and we share a special bond. Money is important but cannot buy this.😀

@pishedbloke

3 ай бұрын

Oh my eldest is 13 and I can already feel she is becoming more independent. We sued to do everything together, but slowly she is becoming a young woman. But I really love it when she holds my hand when we walk still. And her little hands have also grown bigger, these are things we fathers will notice as our child grows up! I think it is all worth it... my philosophy is the most precious thing we have is time, and that is what I want to give my children. Let them find their own money later :D

I found that by exposing my child to learn music has benefited her even now. It brings out the artistic side of the brain.I tried to connect with other mothers with children my age. That helped with the social part.

@pishedbloke

3 ай бұрын

Yes agree... my sister plays the piano, cello and violin sp she teaches my 2nd daughter, while my eldest plays guitar.

when they were young and attending elementary and primary schools, I was able to fetch them back from school and tapao lunch for them. Later on during their growing up phase, for good or bad I started traveling alot and away for more than 50% of the time and now alienation is showing😒

@pishedbloke

Ай бұрын

We all try our best... at some point the kids will find their own groove I guess. I started parenthood late, so it does have its own pros and cons. I don't know maybe my kids will throw me into an old folks home sooner! LOL

You are a good dad taking care of the kids. The kids are lucky to get all the personal attention. Furthermore you make sure they have exercise too in their daily activity. Happy retirement, it’s a luxury to be able to have the opportunity. Happy family.

@pishedbloke

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for the kind words! The kids will leave the nest one day... maybe when I am 65 I can go back to work hahahahaha

Pretty sure your kids will really appreciate this when they get older. Congratulations on 1k.

@pishedbloke

9 ай бұрын

Thanks... I started this KZread channel to keep my family home movies! LOL

It's nice to see you are spending good time with 3 of your kids. Congratulations on hitting a milestone of 1k subscribers. More good things to come to your life.. 😊

@pishedbloke

9 ай бұрын

Thanks so much!!! Things have changed so much the past 10 years, it is unbelievable! 😅😅😅

Wow congratulations on 1k subscribers!

@pishedbloke

9 ай бұрын

thank you thank you!!! Now I want 100,000!!! 😂😂😂

Good video!!!!!

@pishedbloke

9 ай бұрын

Hahahaha thanks!

Ini Super Dad!!! Bravo ... No Regret living this life ..

@pishedbloke

9 ай бұрын

Thank you bro... we all do what we can to give our family the best life!!! Maybe this is just my way of expressing my love. 😁

There might be other stay home dad like yourself maybe you should start a club or some sort.

@pishedbloke

3 ай бұрын

Hahahaha if got club no time to shoot KZread already! I wish I had time to play golf again.

@tomwong917

3 ай бұрын

@@pishedblokeMust be harder in Asia to be a stay home dad but not in the west. I was accepted by parents even if I was the only Asian man in the group. Time is changing and people will slowly change with it. The Father even gets paid leave to take care of the child for a few months.