Wow what an amazing video this has to be on everyones watch list it must have been a really difficult video to put together so thank you Andrew for trying to give everyone hope and support ❤️❤️❤️

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Nathan, thank you so much. You're right, it wasn't easy to produce, quite emotional in fact. I've been overwhelmed at the wonderful positive reactions and responses, which has also been quite emotional.

@nathanberry4339

Жыл бұрын

@@talesfromtheswansneck youv come sooooo very far from several situation happening at once that any one of those situations could have pushed other people under , and I'm soooo pleased to see you one out of it stronger and happier than before the situations started your proof that anyone can turn their life around for the better and still have a happy life no matter how bleak it may seem at the moment and youv even not only manage to stay a new happy life but youv also brought joy to a great many people with your vlogs

@nathanberry4339

Жыл бұрын

@@talesfromtheswansneck ps your cabin was absolutely beautiful

@gillianomar3406

Жыл бұрын

@@talesfromtheswansneck 10:17 10:19 😊

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

@@nathanberry4339 Thanks Nathan, it's where I used to paint.

Hi Andrew, I well remember your very first vlog as you left the Pennine Boat Yard on Batteyford in Mirfield and after being escorted through the river Calder flood gates and across the river into the canal towards Brighouse, it was then that I saw the pressure of whatever had gone on in your life, lift from your shoulders. Of course at that time you didn't give any reason or history as to why you had been so stressed. But I just knew. Sadly a few weeks later, my wife of 50 years passed away due to Cancer. I was devastated, even though I had known for many months what the eventual outcome would be. Despite all of this, I had determined to remain positive. I was supported by my two sons, sister and many friends and neighbours. I played petanque twice a week and bought a Ukulele and taught myself how to play it via KZread, even though previously I had never played any instrument before and couldn't read music. I had open heart surgery 12 months ago but even at the age of 74, I still remain independent, enthusiastic and have positive mental attitude. During the dark days immediately after my wife died, your vlogs and those of other vloggers kept me positive, so thank you for that and keep enjoying what you do and sharing it with us.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Hi Harry, thank you for sharing your own traumatic experience. Even though you realised the inevitable would happen that clearly doesn't prepare you for life without such a loved and valued wife of so many years. Your life must have changed quite dramatically, and for many change is difficult to deal with. Your way of dealing with the loss is wonderful, keeping busy, socialising, and learning a new skill. I'm pleased that my videos played a small part in keeping you positive during those dark times. I hope I'm as independent and positive as you in ten years time.

Being a mature boater with many years behind me living and cruising the cut I have to say your video is just brilliant. Came across it by chance and so glad I did. Found it to be so refreshing to see and hear a honest portrait of one's journey to a life on the cut. Thanks for the insight to anothers life on the spectrum really helped.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, I'm pleased you enjoyed it and that it helped. I've got to say it was a bit of a shock finding out that I was on the spectrum, but once I did it was kind of exciting. Finally gave me an understanding, and I'm actually proud to be on the spectrum. Val is too which is maybe why we get on so well.

That was brutally honest and candid, but also uplifting and hopeful. Very well done!

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Many thanks Dan, I'm pleased it came over as being uplifting. Talking about depression can be... quite depressing.

I would say that I don't think men are rubbish at opening up. We are taught from very early on that it is feminine or even "gay" to talk about our emotions. When people like you share wonderful stories like this it helps to bridge that gap. Thank you for sharing this. It put some hope in my heart and a smile on my face on a dark morning. That there is still a light at the end of the tunnel, no matter how dark, is such a beautiful message to share.

Respect, total respect to you. Thank you.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Cheers Pete

Well, this is the first of your episodes to pop up on my YT feed and it took me by surprise and completely unprepared. Instead of another happy dreamscape of canal life, it challenged me to look life full in the face. And I am thankful for this Andrew. As much as I and others love escapism, it's far better to heal and deal with life before, and as we follow our escapes to happier places, not simply run away from the pain and pressures. This video of yours is one of the best frank and sensitive approaches I've ever seen. Wonderful stuff. You have a new subscriber. Now I have to go back and start your journey from the beginning. I will catch up. Meanwhile, smooth sailing. ATB.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Hi Brad, welcome aboard! I'm so pleased you found the content interesting. It was of course somewhat different to the usual content, and of course wasn't particularly easy to put together, but I must admit I was quietly pleased with how it turned out. In truth the past couple of days have been quite emotional, firstly in putting something so personal out there, and secondly I've just been gobsmacked at all the wonderful and positive comments I've received. Anyway, I do hope you enjoy some of my other videos.

This has got to be up there as my favourite . your open and honest about life and that takes a lot of courage. I am so pleased you’ve found happiness.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Bev, I'm pleased you got so much out of it. At times it wasn't easy to make, and the past two days have been quite emotional. Firstly putting it out there, and secondly the fantastic and positive response I've had.

Courageous of you to share your story so openly Andrew. Compassionate to yourself, as well as to others. Be well.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks John. Yes not an easy one to make or put out there but I'm so pleased I did and with the positive response I've had. Take care.

Without a doubt you have saved lives with such an honest approach. I also think you have made a lot of people think about improving their mental health who would not have bothered otherwise. Thank you.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

thank you Jasper. I do hope I've helped, even if it was one person, but judging by the reaction it may have been more.

Suffered with huge bouts of depression and long term suicidal thoughts and self harming..lost so much last few years and just about to get a barge to see if a new way of life and scenery will help with the darkness..really glad to find your vid today and so pleased you found the light 👊

@talesfromtheswansneck

10 ай бұрын

Hi Kevin, sorry it's taken so long to reply. I really hope things go well for you on the cut and that it brings light into the darkness. Say hi if we cross paths.

We needed to hear & see your story, Andrew, thank you. I will wager that it is a rare person that will not receive inspiration and hope from this candidness.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, and I hope it will help or at least inspire a few people.

your first big spontaneous smile at about 17:00 is wonderful, made me smile too

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Yeah cheers, it suddenly felt like my new life had really started. Phew, what a relief!

Andrew, wow sir that heart of yours in now showing on your sleeve. We have watched and greatly enjoyed your vids over the last 2-3 years, and many other narrowboat vidloggers. And we often wondered about the journies which got them on the cut. Sir how brave are you, you are a very special person, to have spent a dark journey such as as yours AND to overcome and finding some deeper happiness. Well done, Great to know of your journey . You take great care of yourself . We are Colin and Heather soon to be joining you lucky folks on the cut, after living in Findlay Ohio USA for the last 12 or so years. Thank you again for sharing.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Hi Colin and Heather, I'm glad you've enjoyed my vids, I've got to say that I've enjoyed making and sharing them and it's always good to get some positive feedback. Thanks. I hope you enjoy your canal times as much as I have, I wouldn't change a minute of it - well apart from when yobs jumped all over my boat, but that was a one off. Say hello when you see me, because no doubt you will one day.

@colincox1688

Жыл бұрын

@@talesfromtheswansneck we sure will, and we look forward to it. Take care sir, Best Regards Colin and Heather

a wonder full sharing, i wish you well on your travels... see you next time you visit the k&a ... x

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Chris.

I'm glad you posted this video and that you have now found your happy place. It takes courage to make decisions with no guarantee of a successful outcome so good on you. I have followed your journey for a few years now and wish many more in the future. Stay strong.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks David, I'm pleased I managed to get it out at long last. As I said it was meant to come out a while back. Fortunately Val persuaded me to do something with it when she saw the old footage I'd shot.

Thank you so much for allowing us to hear & see your trials & tribulations of your life's journey... and to now be able to hear your life is stress-free and enjoying your life to the fullest ... cheers Debz from Oz

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Debz. TBH I've been overwhelmed by the response. So many fantastic messages. But best of all is that it has clearly helped a few people too.

Wow, wow wow, I have enjoyed this one very much, thank you for pouring out your life story so honestly. Good luck to the pair of you for the future. Thank you.......

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Tom, I'm pleased you enjoyed it. It's fair to say it's been a while in the making!

For what it's worth or not, I, too, had fallen down the same deep, dreary and bottomless hole of despair and depression (1996-98). And, like you, I surrendered and let go of it all. I accepted the fact that it is what it is. And soon I found hope in release. An unburdened self opened up to a future and a happy, satisfying and fulfilling life. At last, you found peace and happiness. The Universe invariably and eventually brought you Val because you are healed, ready and deserving. Onward and cheers to you and her together making joyful memories!

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Sebastian for your heartfelt message, and yes every day we move forward and share the joy of the wonderful life we have chosen.

brilliant, from the heart ! thank you

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Mark

Inspirational. Thanks for sharing your personal journey. Stay safe and positive.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Tony.

Terrific piece, congratulations. 5 years ago, in my mid fifties, I went through a similar episode. It seemed bleak but got through it. Good of you to share it with us and provide encouragement.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. Many of us go through such issues and most come out the other end, I'm sure glad I did. I put this out in the hope of helping one or two people with their struggles, but it seems it's helped many more than that.

A brilliant honest video, yes it's easy to be judgemental with some people but I do try and talk to them and they all have a story and when I meet them again we both acknowledge each other. As for ADHD I am certain that I too suffer it's taken me 65 years to realise it, certainly my narrow boat and nature has helped me

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Grahame, and I agree that being away from the hustle and bustle and being in nature is really important for ADHD. There are so many positives from 'being on the spectrum' and researching online and on Instagram really helped me to understand things I've done and said in the past.

Amazing story

Well said 👏👏

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Alan.

Wonderful 👌 your doing great things there my friend and a truly honest interesting film absolutely brilliant 👍 very best wishes Glyn and Carol

Disabled ex service man I respect your attitude not easy opening up .👍

Thank you for opening up .Life is an incredible trip if you let it .lt took me a while to figure out that whatever l did l had to follow an already established path .Like you said “there is always hope”Keep safe both .😊

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Tony. In my darkest moments I felt there was no hope so little point carrying on, but the prospect of living on a narrowboat was like a spark to tinder.

@tonycarter3756

Жыл бұрын

@@talesfromtheswansneck Hi Andrew ,going back to my canal model, l can give you a few details-overall length of navigation 14feet.diameter of basin 4foot 4inches .lock rise an fall10 inches.At the end is a facade of the wolverton Aqueduct painted as it is now .The lock gates are 1/16 scale replicas off the W&B with functioning paddles.The boats are wooden replicas of -FMC Vulcan, Bexhill motor in Threefellows livery and butty boat Iona in Samuel Barlow livery .l made the boats two foot six long for practical reasons .The backdrop is 16 foot by 4 foot mural looking from lock 41 across the Soar-to Leicester football ground.l hope to complete the project this summer.l’ve done a test run and it all works ,yes the gates leak in all the right places ha ha .

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

@@tonycarter3756 Tony that sounds fantastic ! especially the leaky lock gates. I passed through lock 41 in Leicester in September so it should be featuring in a video in about a month. Your model sounds like it would make a good vlog in itself. Or get it features in Towpath Talk or a magazine.

Good lad. I'm 18 years on board now! Glad you're doing better. Keep smiling.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Cheers Phil

Thank you for a honest video. Fantastic thanks also so happy you found happyness. Thanks rob

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Rob.

I cried. Firstly with sorrow. Then with joy. Much love x

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

thank you Jules, I'm pleased you found the video moving.

all the very best to you mate take care x

I've watched countless narrowboat videos, and this might be the very best one. Thanks for sharing your journey, very inspiring.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

thanks so much Jack, praise indeed. Cheers

Well we all love a story. Your best film yet id say, well done. Pleased to see you recover over the past few years as it was clear youd started from a broken place.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Paul, yeah it took some putting together but so pleased to have done it. And yes quite a few people were perceptive enough to notice the underlying reasons for my move to boat life.

@paulstephenson5220

Жыл бұрын

@@talesfromtheswansneck i ran away to 10 years in the middle east from a similar place. Im back to blighty now and with someone. I started watching your journey over there. Your films were a welcome relief from the drudgey of living in the middle east. Love seeing you happy with your partner, happy days. From up north myself and we have had hire boats so totallu get you. Keep up the films they are really rather good..... Shes lovely too aint she eh.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

@@paulstephenson5220 with Stephenson as a surname it's a fair bet you are from the north east! You're right Paul, she ain't too bad is she 😁

Wooooooowwwwweeeeezzzzzr!!!! .......that's exactly where I'm at ..... Sooooo helpful! Many Thanks 🥰👍!

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Really pleased it's been of some use Thomas, and I hope you have some support and can find a way to move forward. Sometimes it feels like a long road doesn't it. And there'll be days where you feel like it'll all be fine, and then the next day you feel like you're back at square one, but you will get there. Good luck.

You are heading to recovery. When your life is filled with clutter you can’t see beyond and am tied down to dealing with the clutter. You will feel so free when it’s all behind you

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

I do feel the benefits of living a much simpler life, and I think too many people are striving for and wanting more and more. But when is more enough? Never, which makes people unhappy. A simple life is a happier life.

Thank you Andrew.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Pleasure, and thank you for watching.

Thank you Andrew for such an open and honest video, sharing what clearly was a difficult time for you, but so uplifting too🙏 I watched all your videos in a week after seeing this one! Brilliant! Congrats on turning your life into something so positive 👍. All the best for the future! Kev

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Kev, and thanks too for binge-watching.

A quietly important piece I have to say. I have been battling on for ten years since I lost my wife to cancer and gradually have clawed my way back to giving at the least the public appearance of coping - moving onto the canals was something I very strongly considered, seeking just that more placid, more solitary, existence. And I am still tempted by it, which is why I still seek out and enjoy channels like yours (and those of each and every canal-boating KZreadr you mentioned :D).

@talesfromtheswansneck

10 ай бұрын

Hi, apologies for the late reply. I'm pleased you are now beginning to cope - at least in public. I strongly advocate doing something which will challenge you, like moving onto the canals did for me with the only experience of a few KZread videos. The challenge and the serenity and being immersed in nature sure helped my healing. I wish you luck.

What a courageous and brutally honest man. I give You all the credit for sharing Your live with the rest of ghe world. I just recently lost the love of my life, but am unable to follow in Your path, for I reside in the USA. But I wish You Ll the best. Thank You for Your openness and courage.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Many thanks Ray, and I'm sorry to hear of your recent loss. I hope you've got some support, it can be very difficult especially those long wakeful nights when you just seem to think of the same thing over and over. I know you don't have too many canals in the US but you have huge rivers. Also a vast and diverse landscape which could be explored by camper van/ RV - could be a bit lonely though. I think any new challenge helps, doesn't have to be life-changing. One guy commented on here that he lost his wife of 50 years and found solace from taking up the ukulele, having never played music before. I wish you well Ray.

A Journey from Journey no less! You stay well and be happy. X Patricia & Derek x

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Indeed ! And likewise, best to you and Pat x

An amazing film Thank you

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you David.

Interesting: useful: honest. All in all a great share

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Steve, glad it may have been useful.

What a lovely, honest and brave video to make Andrew. The canals definitely seem to attract the creatives, the musicians, and sadly the broken. But as you have proven they are also a wonderful environment for healing and growth. Well done mate. Love to you and Val.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Graeme, what an insightful comment, I hadn't thought about it like that but you're right. I certainly believe that nature and the slow pace of life help with the healing, but also provide inspiration for the creative.

What a wonderful story - you should be very proud of yourself. Your honesty & HOPE ♥️

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, I've been amazed at the response and so chuffed I've helped a few people.

Bless u for sharing this I wish u all the very best for the future

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Nigel

Good on you. Water does seem to be in almost 90% of these videos, that must have been a hint. There's no place like the canals.

Great! Best to you! And thanks for sharing

So glad you didn't take the other route as it upsets the people left behind ,and you are a better person after your experience and to have found a sole mate is a fantastic bonus happy days swan neck take care love the videos .

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks. Sometimes in life it feels like there is no hope. People on the brink just need to be shown that there is after all hope no matter how small, and that can be built on.

Thank you for sharing! I felt a moment of enviousness, I feel the need to admit it. It passed. I truly am happy for you :) I also acknowledge that I have my own set of privilege that has allowed me to not be in a worse situation than I am. It is what it is. I am slowly shifting my life and who knows maybe some day I'll be out there on the cut as well. Until then I have all you wonderful KZreadrs providing a sense of hope and wonder and beauty and laughs via technology. I also am finding my own ways to be in nature and with friends and try to carve out a better life where I am now.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

That's great to hear that you're getting out into nature and trying to move your life forward. Nature is a true healer, and there's no better way of experiencing it than tootling along at a couple of miles per hour. I wish you all the best and hope you manage to find your way on to the cut.

great video, well done and thank-you!

Just so lovely............................: I wish you every happiness; you have wonderfully turned your life around

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Sandra

One of your best yet Andrew 👍, a vlog from your heart, dare I say the boat and canals saved you but it seems Val has brought that additional sparkle and purpose to your life … all the best for the future , from a viewer in Albany Western Australia🇦🇺 👍

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks John, and you are right on both those counts! I'm a lucky man.

Good for you Andrew 😁👍 ive been were you have 12 yrs ago and i was off work for 4 yrs with mental illness and depression .i forced myself back into work as i was becoming a recluse . Then at the age of 55 i made a monumental decision i sold everything i had gave up my job and went to start a new life the other side of the world 6 years later i am still here best thing i ever did stay safe dude 😁😁👍👍

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Brilliant! Well done you. I think sometimes you've just got to be brave and say screw it, and start again. Sadly Karl, most people are too cautious about change to do it. Glad it's worked out for you.

I’ve been following you, on and off, for a few years now and was always struck by your artist’s eye and your unique narration. There are so many narrowboat vlogs now they are becoming a bit of a bore as each new boater thinks he/she has discovered the secret of life and happiness. Good for them, I say. Your vlog this time is a great life story and drama. Meeting the lovely Val was the icing on the cake. I lost my dear wife some 15 years ago and I miss her still. We met by pure accident too - she sat next to me on the boat train from Euston to Liverpool, where I was about to change my life and emigrate to Canada in April 1952, and she was returning from a sabbatical and taking in The Festival of Britain. My decision was almost perfectly mirrored by American poet Mary Oliver in “The Journey”. I’m now 96 and living comfortably in a retirement residence but the whole narrowboat experience appeals to my sense of adventure. Had narrowboats and canals been so accessible in 1952, I might well have changed my life the way you have. You are an inspiration and I wish you and your partner a long and happy relationship. "Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be. The last of life for which the first was made.” Robert Browning. Cherish each other. Life is short and this isn’t a rehearsal. Never let the sun go down on your anger and remember the two words that are so often difficult to say: “I’m sorry.” Bless you, both, John, Ontario, Canada

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Hi John, I apologise for the late reply, but thank you for your tale of how you met your wife. Life throws up some strange coincidences sometimes, or perhaps they are not coincidences at all. I think you're a brave man for emigrating, something I considered in my 20s but couldn't do. And yes I agree about many of the KZread boat vlogs, too many and absurd sensationalism, but hey, everyone to their own. I adore this lifestyle and still find the adventure in it. Two days ago we went down the Anderton boat lift and on to the Weaver Navigation,which appears to have more current than we're used to. We've both agreed, it's such fun.

That a truly wonderful video. I had no idea about your past. So moving. So touching. Lionel. You are a wonderful example of creating hope in the most desperate of situations. Like Lionel I had absolutely no idea what you have been through. Even though you did attempt to take your life once, you still found the inner strength to build a new life. Thank you for sharing this with us. Mary.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you both. Sometimes in life it feels like there is no hope. From my own experience I think people on the brink just need to be shown that there is, after all, hope no matter how small, and that can be built on.

Great account, thank you so much. I lived on a narrowboat for 3 years and miss it terribly! Keep posting please! Sas

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Cheers. tbh I don't think I could ever go back to dry land. And yeah I'll keep posting, but unfortunately I can't put them out every week, my vids take a long time to produce.

This popped up. Great story and I’ll keep watching

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Cheers James

Thank you for relating your story. I hope life continues to be happy and fulfilling for you both.

@talesfromtheswansneck

10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

Wonderful - so glad you have found peace and love xx

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Me too! Many thanks Clare.

Thank you for your honesty with this video. I am very happy that you're finding yourself again and with the support from Val I'm sure you'll stay there. Take care.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Alastair.

Just Wow. Your such an amazing bloke Andrew and I'm blessed to have you as a friend. Next level vlog mate. 10/10

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Del, I appreciate that. You'll no doubt be looking forward to getting back on Dodger. Winter has been great on the Llangollen, but I'm looking forward to Grindley Brook opening up next week.

@Boatdog_Traveller

Жыл бұрын

Yes not long now. Hopefully see you on the cut 👍. Crackin vlog .

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

@@Boatdog_Traveller cheers mate. We're heading up to the Weaver, if the boat lift is working, then probably back down to the Thames for summer.

I have struggled all my life with self worth and self esteem, finally getting q diagnosis of aspergers and anxiety when I recognised myself through how my children were within the autistic world.....for the brief time I lived on a narrowboat it helped me to breakdown my worries and focus on a more simplified daily routine, whilst soaking up nature around me, sadly hubby could not settle to boat life and we have moved back onto land....its hard to look forward and to not ruminate on the past and replay life's events life losing a parent....to like yourself before others is a daily challenge but one thing I learnt from the waterways is to pace myself, focus on one task and to not worry about what I do not achieve but to praise the one positive task I mastered however small....we can be very analytical in our thinking, always trying to replay the scenario again and again... you have climbed that mountain and have run down the other side, may the path ahead continue to be balanced and positive, thankyou for sharing your own personal journey, not enough of us do! Xxxx

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Hi Lynette, good to hear from you again, and thank you for your open and honest response. There are so many positives to take from being nuero-diverse / on the spectrum. Yes we can overthink things, be over-critical of ourselves etc but we tend to have a great deal of empathy, creativity, attention to detail. I'm sure you're aware of all these. Understanding that I am 'enough' as I am, and that I have enough has been the key I think to happiness, and also interacting with nature. But what really turned things around for me were the positive affirmations, absolute game-changer. Really changed my perception of myself, and made me for the first time in my life love myself.

Thank you so much for sharing, i have been on a similar path, having lost my wife to cancer in January 2019, i am still struggling with everything, but watching your video has given me some hope.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Hi Simon, I'm sorry to hear that and I hope you have someone you can open up to. I'm glad my video has provided some hope for you, reaching out was my intention so I'm pleased I've managed to help a few people. It's not easy when we becomes I, and our becomes my, but certainly for me the new challenges filled the void.

Ay up me duck. This video was suggested to me by KZread and I'm so glad I didn't ignore it. As a lifelong sufferer of anxiety and depression who also has ADHD I can relate to so much of what you say. I haven't got a narrow boat myself but love walking canals and everything that's related to them. I plan on walking the full length of the Llangollen Canal later this year and wild camping beside it of an evening. Anyroad, enough of my jibba jabba, ay a good-un me owd *New subscriber 👍🙂

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for subscribing and welcome aboard ! The walk sounds wonderful, it is as I'm sure you're aware a very special canal, very diverse landscapes and of course amazing historical features. Make sure you pack some Skin So Soft as the midges around Whixall Moss are something else! I'm not sure if you're aware but I filmed the up-to-date sequences on this video between Chirk and Hampton Bank.

@Adventures_with_Sog

Жыл бұрын

@@talesfromtheswansneck Thanks for the heads up on the midges. Luckily I have a midge net hat which makes me look like a right twat but does the trick, lol. I'll take a look at that video at some point me owd, cheers 👍🙂

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

@@Adventures_with_Sog I meant the journey from despair video, but yeah there are a few from when I was up here 2 years ago.

Good on ya mate keep living that dream. You can’t beat being afloat 😊👍

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Very true. Cheers Steven

Gratings from Switzerland , really great video ! Thank you so much Andrew, yes move on......

What a great video thank you for putting this out there and the honesty you told how it was for you Every one should watch this 👍👍👍👍

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Many thank Ron, pleased you enjoyed it.

Best wishes for a continued happy life!

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Glen, much appreciated.

How wonderful. I met you at the bratch locks about 12 months ago. I suffer these things to. I’m so glad your doing really well it gives me hope.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Pleased you got something from it. Thanks.

Thanks for that vlog I thought it was really good how you can open up and let people know of the past as I have felt the same like giving up because of depression as I was working at a job 12 hours a day 6 days a week and it was getting to me and I thought of just walking out and getting on a train and not worrying where it was going so now I have given up work I bought a house in a little country town and trying to enjoy life and also gat a caravan to just get away when I want thanks for the vlog I really loved it thanks again cheers Barry Sydney Australia 🇦🇺

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Cheers Barry. I think many of us have been slaves to the work ethic, and in the end it does you no good. We burn out, become stressed, all for the sake of more. I'm sure you've done the right thing, and I hope you can enjoy your extra free time and time out in your caravan.

An excellent video, good for you!

A beautiful film thank you for doing it. Im sure its affected a lot of people for the right reasons 👏

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Geoff. Judging by some of the comments I think it may have done 😃

Wow , as my old mum would say , God bless you, I myself would love a life on the canal's, but my husband's not interested, this was a Beautiful vlog , Take care, 🙃🍷

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Penelope, much appreciated.

I got into the music cave today and put up a KZread. May get another up tomorrow. My back did OK

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Great. We just watched - and listened. So pleased you can upload again and get out to play some sessions. Take care.

@yeoldfart8762

Жыл бұрын

@@talesfromtheswansneck just put another KZread up. Cluck Old Hen. Feels good .

This hit me harder than I'd like to admit - so, so many parallels with you

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Well I hope it helped in some way Sam.

Thank you Andrew for sharing your story, including your darkest moments, it can't have been easy! I sat in silent contemplation and awe for a while after watching the vlog, so inspirational and full of hope xx

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Angela. No it wasn't easy putting it together, and I must admit it was really quite an emotional couple of days after putting it out there, many of the responses have been absolutely amazing.

In all inadequacy I know, but: amazingly courages video.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Cheers John.

Thank you for sharing your story with us.

You have my total respect for your Frank honesty. I can relate to so much of what you said. I know this will help me understand me. Thank you so much.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Hi Thomas, and thank you. I'm pleased it was thought provoking and may prove useful. I never put too much emphasis on understanding me in the past, mainly because my visions on me had been built around negativity from school and my mum. It's important to know yourself and to be kind to yourself to finally feel worthy and to love yourself. There is some useful stuff on positive affirmations online and on Instagram. Good luck with it.

Stumbled across this tonight and just loved it. I'm looking forward to watching your journey from the beginning. Thanks

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Sheila, hope you enjoy them.

Found this video via a recommendation from your kid on Reddit. What wonderful storytelling and wisdom on very important subjects! Nice camerawork too. I am looking forward to looking through the older episodes.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Anders, and I hope you get something from the older episodes too.

Greetings from Switzerland great video thank you so much!!!❤

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

thank you, glad you enjoyed it.

I haven't watched you for awhile. Lost interest in the Narrowboat stuff for a bit. But i can totally relate to you in a few ways. Recently i was Diagnosed with ADHD, It offers an explanation to a life of Suffering. From Failing school as a youngster in England, to Failing school later on in Canada. To a life of struggles with things that others would have no issue. I'm now 50, Taking Medication. People around me tell me i'm different now. I'm a Truck Driver in Canada. I need to find my Narrowboat. Great Video, I've missed watching you.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Many thanks. It's funny how it all falls into place when you get a reason for how you are. I've discovered there are so many positives for having ADHD though, and I look on it as a blessing now. As in my reply to Karl Alton who also gave up everything, sometimes you've just got to be brave and say screw it and start again, so I hope you can find your escapism.

Loved this - thank you ♥️

BGV Andrew, (Bloody Good Vlog.) I found your channel by watching other narrow boaters' channels. It's great that you speak of mental illness and are so encouraging to your viewers. I have of course liked and subscribed.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much Henry, pleased you enjoyed the content - although not my 'typical' type of vlog.

Excellent video Andrew. Well done.

What an inspirational vlog Andrew. Very few of us get through life unscathed Trev and I have watched it twice, quietly in awe of you. We first met you in Nantwich in 2019, we moored in front of you. We only chatted briefly, you we’re waiting for an item to be delivered if I remember rightly. Our paths have crossed since including last year on the Thames near Lechlade. We’re so glad you have found Val and that Val has found you. We are heading off at the beginning of April this year for the Llangollen and really look forward to stopping this time and saying hi to you both. Jenny + Trev. NB. Life of Riley ❤

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Jenny. Sadly we may miss you because we'll probably be on the Weaver by the beginning of April, but I'm sure our waters will cross at some point soon.

So very happy for you!!!❤

I very very rarely comment on KZread videos, however I have to say excellent foresight on recording the pieces before you started, and fair play for putting a video like this out there.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Adam. Yes it was a tricky one to put together but I'm pleased I eventually got it done. Perhaps it would still be languishing on my hard drive if Val hadn't seen the footage and told me I had to put it out there.

Just to say. : " Thankyou . An Inspiring Video in Many Ways"!!! To many to explain in this format, I will say . I know the K&A Well..Thankyou Again!!!

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Nick, pleased you got something from it.

@NickHewlettTHATCHIT

Жыл бұрын

@@talesfromtheswansneck You Are Most Wejlcome John.I very much did get something from it. Also i have shared a couple of times. Happy Narrow Boating To You.!!!

I know exactly how you feel as what you suffered from is similar to PTSD. I’ve been there, wore the t-shirt and I’m glad you are coming through. I’ll eventually get there but here’s hoping you strive towards your goals in coming through the other side of one long dark tunnel.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Hi James, glad you're taking the positive line that you'll eventually get there, I'm sure you will.

I have nothing but respect for you. Your vlog has been very helpful to me because I have never been happy were I live and just resently I have been thinking about going on the water as a continuous cruser. I have so much more I could say about why but that's the main reason. Thank you for your excellently made vlog. God bless you mate 👍.

@talesfromtheswansneck

10 ай бұрын

Hi Ian, apologies for the late reply. I've always been a believer in "if it ain't working for you, change it". Obviously it's a big step moving onto the canals, but I do think if you're not in a great place then finding a challenge to immerse yourself in will help. It did for me anyway. Good luck.

Inspiring film mate. Thank you. X

Bless you

Terrific, as always. So glad you seem to have found your place in the world. And yes, the canals would be pretty jammed up if everyone sought the same solution, but everyone has their own Eden. May you continue to flourish in your.

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Hi Michael, thank you. In the words of ELO I found my Eldorado...

What a wonderful, honest and open vlog.. thank you for sharing your story💜

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Lynda

Great video love your honesty .Your an inspiration .

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Colin.

thank you for sharing your story, I recently visited London and became enchanted with canal boats as well, my new favorite channel❤

@talesfromtheswansneck

Жыл бұрын

And thanks for watching Colin. I had never really lived anywhere near canals until I bought a boat. I was astonished to find that there are over 2300 miles of navigable waterways in Britain. Still plenty for me to explore.

Thank you!