9 Things Emotionally Intelligent People Avoid Doing

Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand, regulate, and healthily express your emotions combined with a high level of empathy. Everyone has differing levels of emotional intelligence based on their individual past experiences. But emotional intelligence can also be built over time through introspection, empathy-building exercises, and personal growth. Your emotional intelligence level can often be seen through your actions. These are nine things emotionally intelligent people avoid doing.
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    1. You don’t suppress your emotions 2. You don’t invalidate other people’s emotions 3. You don’t give into peer pressure 4. You don’t usually overthink things 5. You don’t have an issue with personal boundaries 6. You don’t seek out external validation 7. You don’t get frustrated over situations beyond your control 8. You don’t avoid constructive criticism 9. You don’t avoid change

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    @flarekitty5291

    3 жыл бұрын

    Apparently intelligence can affect imagination. I have a high IQ AND Lexile, plus an absolutely CRAYZAY imagination that I don't even try to explain to my family bc they wouldn't understand my mind at all... I am also emotionally intelligent

  • @kalaivanisaravanaselvam7916

    @kalaivanisaravanaselvam7916

    3 жыл бұрын

    emphasis on the *usually* , many people who I know are emotionally intelligent overthink too. So it's more like a personal thing :D

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    @laelly44843 жыл бұрын

    "Emotional intelligence can be grown with introspection, exercise and growth" yeah, and trauma 🤠

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Trauma may help or make emotional growth worse.. :(

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

    Trauma definitely can make people emotionally weak I went through alot of trauma in my life and do to those learned experience and habbits I've learned alot of emotional weak habbits that is hard to break I know the appropriate habbit and truth but sometimes I forget it and get into the habit of being emotionally weak because I get into that habbit of thinking it's propper because my parents did it an example I used to see my parents yell and swear so I would often get into the habit of yelling and swearing because I would get confused between what's right and what's wrong because alot of the things I read that's wrong to do and heard that wrong to do I would see or hear my parents do so times that I think these things are right and some other times where I know it's wrong trauma just often messes people up that way

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @lol_I_dk
    @lol_I_dk3 жыл бұрын

    Me: *looks at title* yeah I think I might be emotionally intelligent Me after video: Oh, it looks like I'm emotionally dumb :D

  • @Someone-or8tp

    @Someone-or8tp

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're not emotionally dumb, you're just still learning. You'll reach a point like this in the future, if you keep trying. It takes time for people to be able to reach that point. Just keep learning at your own pace! ^^

  • @kyoung9087

    @kyoung9087

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's nothing wrong to be emotionally dumb...

  • @Someone-or8tp

    @Someone-or8tp

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kyoung9087 there's nothing wrong with it inherently, but you may be easily taken advantage of and that's just not good. People Pleasers always get hurt in the end. The best way to avoid that is by becoming emotionally intelligent for your own sake. Being able to set boundaries and do good by your own standards while also maintaining the ability to help people is the best medium to be at. Unfortunately, a lot of People Pleasers can be emotionally unintelligent, which means it's easier to make them anxious and insecure. It's better to prepare the defenses of being emotionally intelligent rather than wait to be walked over by some manipulating, possibly abusive jackass.

  • @kyoung9087

    @kyoung9087

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Someone-or8tp you got it all wrong, I'm not a people pleaser, NEVER ever.

  • @Someone-or8tp

    @Someone-or8tp

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kyoung9087 you're right, I was specifically referring to people pleaser but anybody can be taken advantage of, people pleaser or not. It's just especially easy when someone can't set their own personal boundaries, tend to overthink, seek validation ect. All traits of people who are emotionally unintelligent (adleast as shown in this video). It's also worrying (to me personally, I guess) that some people don't really know how to speak to suffering people properly. Edit: again, it's not bad but I think these are things people should strive to improve on.

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee3 жыл бұрын

    Signs Of An Emotionally Intelligent Person👇👇 They think about feelings. They pause. They control their thinking. They learn from “emotional hijacks.” They demonstrate humility. They practice honesty. They're authentic. They show empathy.

  • @hamallama4517

    @hamallama4517

    3 жыл бұрын

    Empathy isn't all. Sympathy and understanding are just as important, to me, at least.

  • @rosy_cookie143

    @rosy_cookie143

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hmm, seems like I'm emotionally intelligent UvU

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @duwiii420
    @duwiii4203 жыл бұрын

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    @JohnnyForRansom

    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    @piyushsan8753 жыл бұрын

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    @phoneguy3409

    3 жыл бұрын

    I could talk you to sleep very easily

  • @piyushsan875

    @piyushsan875

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@phoneguy3409 oh really...? Do you post videos or something...?

  • @phoneguy3409

    @phoneguy3409

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@piyushsan875 Let me give you an example: If I drive around, I sometimes notice the houses and buildings all around. There are also pieces of farm land that are very large. Houses can be built from different kinds of materials. The most common types are brick, wood, and vinyl or synthetic siding. Houses have lawns that need to be tended. Lawns need to be mowed regularly. Most people use riding lawnmowers to do this. You can also use a push mower. These come in two varieties: gas-powered and manual. You don’t see manual push-mowers very much anymore, but they are a good option if you do not want to pollute the air with smoke from a gas-powered lawnmower. I notice that many families designate the lawnmowing responsibility to a teenager in the household. Many of these teenagers are provided with an allowance for mowing the yard, as well as performing other chores, like taking out the trash, washing the dishes, making their bed, and keeping the house organized. Allowances are small amounts of money given by parents to their children, usually on a weekly basis. These usually range from 5 dollars to 15 dollars, sometimes even 20 dollars. Many parents feel that teenagers can learn financial responsibility with this system.

  • @phoneguy3409

    @phoneguy3409

    3 жыл бұрын

    Now I will talk about farm land. Farm land can be identified by some common features. They almost always consist of a very large patch of dirt with small green plants lined up in very long rows. You may sometimes see farm equipment riding over these rows, like tractors or combines. These machines help farmers grow more crops in less time. They are a very helpful invention. Some different types of crops are soybeans, cotton, corn, tomatoes, tobacco, and lettuce (which I mentioned earlier). Most crops are used as food, and can be defined as either fruits or vegetables. Some are commonly eaten raw, after being rinsed in water to remove any dirt. Some are often cooked, which helps give them a more pleasant taste and makes them easier to chew. A very versatile vegetable is the potato. It can be eaten raw, or it can be cooked in a variety of ways. They can be baked, and many people like to add butter to them. They can be mashed, and a lot of times brown gravy or milk gravy is poured on top of them. They can be cut into thin strips and fried. Typically a large amount of grease is required to prepare potatoes in this style, but they are easy to make and easy to eat. You can order them at several fast-food restaurants. Potatoes can also be boiled, stewed, and scalloped. There is a wide variety of options available to you when cooking potatoes.

  • @phoneguy3409

    @phoneguy3409

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are you asleep yet?

  • @varianzero7469
    @varianzero74693 жыл бұрын

    Me: *sees title* am I emotionally intelligent?

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    hmm, I am not. How about you?

  • @varianzero7469

    @varianzero7469

    3 жыл бұрын

    Psych2Go I’m not

  • @dras7759

    @dras7759

    3 жыл бұрын

    me: **clicks on video anyway**

  • @egg6944

    @egg6944

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go i am😍 this is accurate

  • @misterspongeward7814

    @misterspongeward7814

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me? Emotionally intelligent? Nah probably not.

  • @yoursaudifriend2976
    @yoursaudifriend29763 жыл бұрын

    I wanted to hug the character when the plant 🌱 on his head bended 😢❤️

  • @sunoofied.
    @sunoofied.3 жыл бұрын

    *Reads the title* "Oh maybe I'm emotionally intelligent" *after watching the video* "Oh I gotta learn a lot and grow up a bit more"

  • @the_lucid_dreamer_0755

    @the_lucid_dreamer_0755

    3 жыл бұрын

    Great mindset! We can all learn and grow! :)

  • @avlh
    @avlh3 жыл бұрын

    This is literally everything I’m NOT 😂😭

  • @erenisfatherless3728

    @erenisfatherless3728

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s ok! It takes time to be Emotionally intelligent. Just as It takes time to become mature

  • @blueblaze27

    @blueblaze27

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmaoo let’s sulk into this corner together

  • @greatwavefan397

    @greatwavefan397

    3 жыл бұрын

    everything I'm NOT *YET*

  • @carol.mp4

    @carol.mp4

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same :’)

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    I see! What do you plan to do about this?

  • @penniesshillings
    @penniesshillings3 жыл бұрын

    I am an emotional idiot... But I can listen to this voice for hours.

  • @doodlesyayyay2378
    @doodlesyayyay23783 жыл бұрын

    I’m honestly kinda surprised 😯 Of coarse, I don’t do ALL the things they say, but I’m pretty close- I feel good about myself now 😊

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's good to know :) How many of these signs did you relate to?

  • @manojhalder1930

    @manojhalder1930

    3 жыл бұрын

    Emotional intelligence ? Intelligence and emotions are different. Emotions are temporary.

  • @doodlesyayyay2378

    @doodlesyayyay2378

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go Pretty much 1-6

  • @sepsysmurf6982

    @sepsysmurf6982

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@manojhalder1930 There's different types of intelligence, the one that most people think about first is logical intelligence. Maybe you were thinking of that one.

  • @ophie71

    @ophie71

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go I think 8 of them are accurate for me

  • @Peachyroooo
    @Peachyroooo3 жыл бұрын

    A lot of this is related to maturity too. I say, don't feel bad if you don't relate to all the points, a lot of them take time and character-building experiences (with a good attitude) to develop. Actually be thankful that now you're aware of them and can work on them, bc a lot of people go through life without even considering these things. The first step to improving yourself is wanting to.

  • @jamesonthomas9583
    @jamesonthomas95833 жыл бұрын

    I feel I'm emotionally intelligent at recognizing others and my own emotions easily and their causes, but I'm also terrible at doing anything about them

  • @peppa1492
    @peppa14923 жыл бұрын

    Me: suppresses stress Psych2Go: don't suppress emotions for too long Deppression: * begins to exist * Me: *suppresses deppression*

  • @MindNow
    @MindNow3 жыл бұрын

    *They don’t DWELL on negative feelings for too long and they don’t let them out on others* 🙏

  • @lofiwackpainting7439

    @lofiwackpainting7439

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don’t worry I’ll just let them out on myself.

  • @MindNow

    @MindNow

    3 жыл бұрын

    LofiWackPainting don’t misunderstand me. I’m not saying to keep them to urself and be miserable. Share them, but TRY not to get mad at others. If it happens once in a while then it’s alright or u hv someone who does it because he or she is mentally ill then that’s another topic.

  • @lofiwackpainting7439

    @lofiwackpainting7439

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mind Now it’s not as easy as just sharing them, and I won’t let anything out on anyone I’m never anything, including angry.

  • @MindNow

    @MindNow

    3 жыл бұрын

    LofiWackPainting that’s nice to hear. What r u currently struggling with right now? Before u share urs, let me share with u mine...sometimes I’m not being 100% honest with my family because I know that they won’t be able to handle it. Maybe this is irrelevant to the topic, but I wanted to be honest with u and don’t come across as a guru or something

  • @Jessica-zd8gn
    @Jessica-zd8gn3 жыл бұрын

    This video is so cute and the plants on their heads ✨

  • @swatisaini6447

    @swatisaini6447

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do u know what the leaves here represent?

  • @Jessica-zd8gn

    @Jessica-zd8gn

    3 жыл бұрын

    swati saini no, but they’re so cute! Maybe it’s about growing and learning? Not sure, sorry

  • @swatisaini6447

    @swatisaini6447

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Jessica-zd8gn leaves growing out of head signifies ongoing mental growth,😊🥰😭😍 also the tree in intro is shaped like human brain and psi picks one leaf representing learning about psychology Disclaimer: I didn't came up with these explanations so credit to whoever found it but I do think it's 100% accurate interpretation. What do u think?🙂

  • @Jessica-zd8gn

    @Jessica-zd8gn

    3 жыл бұрын

    swati saini Ohhh. Thank you so much. Makes sense. 🥰✨

  • @Velturia

    @Velturia

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@swatisaini6447 noooo i was about to say something like this ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nakilaki1299
    @nakilaki12993 жыл бұрын

    I love how cuter the animations are getting! Also that outro!! 🥺 Thank you for your hard work in delivering us with this good quality content! It's been helping me so much over the past months 💕✨

  • @wilddogge
    @wilddogge3 жыл бұрын

    Need to work on these: 5. You don’t have an issue with personal boundaries 6. You don’t seek out external validation 7. You don’t get frustrated over situations beyond your control

  • @styrocrobe

    @styrocrobe

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha exact same

  • @lokecrafter7055
    @lokecrafter70553 жыл бұрын

    I thought i was unable to be emotionally intelligent but I realize I do about half of the stuff brought up in the video

  • @thequeensconcubine1804
    @thequeensconcubine18043 жыл бұрын

    Me: *thinks i'm emotionally intelligent* Psych2Go: no❤

  • @siqxyre8473
    @siqxyre84733 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad to know that I'm emotionally maturing so much! I used to be quite childish in my emotions, but now i can see all these things within my actions and it's putting me at peace. I'm glad my hard work Is working :)

  • @MAD_chaArt

    @MAD_chaArt

    3 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate it mate !!! Long way to go But your hard will worth it 😇

  • @Stiv64_
    @Stiv64_3 жыл бұрын

    Hands down the most beatiful voice I've ever heard.

  • @aditipandey8654
    @aditipandey86543 жыл бұрын

    That voice is sooooo soothing it just comforts me so much...just i could listen to a 4 hour asmr by them and not get tired...

  • @baydenlikesmilk947
    @baydenlikesmilk9473 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys so much, each and every one of you

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    We love you too. YOu deserve our second heart :)

  • @baydenlikesmilk947

    @baydenlikesmilk947

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go 😍

  • @User-lx2ye
    @User-lx2ye3 жыл бұрын

    While I’m not emotionally intelligent, I’ve almost stopped crying completely, like I haven’t cried in forever

  • @raymondc9513
    @raymondc95133 жыл бұрын

    #9 hit me the hardest especially since I'll be moving out for the first time. It's like they know what I'm going thru with every new video!

  • @kalmonk3y
    @kalmonk3y3 жыл бұрын

    I just want to say thank you, truly. I've been watching for over 2 years and have learned a lot and became more intune with myself.

  • @maxfieldstanton5411
    @maxfieldstanton54113 жыл бұрын

    "I understand you're upset right now. How can I help you? What can I do to help you get through this?" I think they meant these phrases to be overly general, but in a real life scenario these would come across as patronizing and too solution-based. When someone is in a pit, you mostly just want to sit there with them, not pressure them to get out or put yourself in a position of being a hero. It's okay to offer assistance, but you mostly just need to relate to them and be a resource at their disposal.

  • @ezersriah1539

    @ezersriah1539

    3 жыл бұрын

    True!

  • @salome8918

    @salome8918

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I usually say things like: it's gonna be alright, this feeling doesn't last forever which they mentioned as a bad example. Don't get this, obviously the situation will no remain this bad forever and it is good to be encouraged anyways...

  • @biancaryder474
    @biancaryder4743 жыл бұрын

    You guys should start a psychology podcast!!! I am sure everyone (including me and my sister) would love it!!! Also congrats for 4 million!!! *throws confetti in the air* You guys deserve it for all of your hard work and supporting everyone here!

  • @lesbianinator
    @lesbianinator3 жыл бұрын

    The voice, the cute drawings, and the warm colors just makes this video mood nice and calm

  • @nou6676
    @nou66763 жыл бұрын

    I love this channel, its so calming and wholesome!

  • @gabs1694
    @gabs16943 жыл бұрын

    I'm 18 and struggling with my mental health bc of loss I faced in the past 2 years, so going into adulthood I'm healing and learning how to become more emotionally intellligent. So thank you Pysch2Go for always educating me and making me more self-aware.

  • @noahnichols3608

    @noahnichols3608

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey friend, I was watching this video and saw your comment and I wanted to say I'm so sorry you've gone through so much! I know we don't know each other and I can't understand what you're going through but if you'd ever like to talk I'd be more than happy to!

  • @user-uq8on5ic1p
    @user-uq8on5ic1p3 жыл бұрын

    Tfw you realize you're NOT as emotionally intelligent as you thought....

  • @Hydrogen70
    @Hydrogen703 жыл бұрын

    CONGRATULATIONS ON 400 MILLON SUBSCRIBERS YOU DESERVE IT

  • @NFKhan-eu3ff
    @NFKhan-eu3ff3 жыл бұрын

    From the 9 things u listed I have 7 if these qualities. If I saw this video a year ago I would've had none..I'm proud of my emotional growth and I hope the ppl currently undergoing emotional trauma will survive and thrive.

  • @marleyclariemars9598
    @marleyclariemars95983 жыл бұрын

    My mother has been telling me that I am emotionally intelligent for a long time now😊 I didn't believe it but I took some tests online and nouw I see that I am. I love that it's really cool

  • @rituanun3692
    @rituanun36923 жыл бұрын

    I would like to study psychology in my college. Its been my dream though. Its good to have such informative channel. Thank you very much😊❤️

  • @camilla8129
    @camilla81293 жыл бұрын

    I've been working on myself for more than a year, and I can see the difference I made in each one of these points. Surely, mental illnesses make it harder

  • @luluc.c7455
    @luluc.c74553 жыл бұрын

    Congrats on 4m!!!! ❤️ You guys are great.

  • @kripolik
    @kripolik3 жыл бұрын

    Sees the title: I think I might be able to relate to some of them. After watching the video: Wow, I'm more emotionally inteligent than I thought. I could relate to all of them.

  • @saranieves1850
    @saranieves18503 жыл бұрын

    I never knew that I was smart in any way until now, so I'm emotionally smart. That's awesome!

  • @valenwyrm
    @valenwyrm3 жыл бұрын

    i think EQ is the most difficult thing to learn and master, because it’s not something that can be taught but to be experienced throughout in our lives

  • @lol-xd9fr
    @lol-xd9fr3 жыл бұрын

    Timing is just perfect

  • @haeshienwoods
    @haeshienwoods3 жыл бұрын

    Living with a curse makes you see other curses. -jujutsu kaisen reference.

  • @ander_1O1
    @ander_1O13 жыл бұрын

    watching this was like a slap to the face that im non of anything here

  • @tilda5223

    @tilda5223

    3 жыл бұрын

    im sorry :( there is always time to grow!!

  • @lovellytshotshi345
    @lovellytshotshi3453 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad i am now more emotionally intelligent than i was. We moved twice in the last four years and the first time i was completely against it, i didn't want to leave my friends, my school and my life and i hated my family for making me leave. But the second time i was actually glad and more open to moving, i realized that while the house we live in is different, i am still the same. I'll still have my old friends and i'll still grow accustomed to changes everyday and now i fully embrace change.

  • @Venus-cl4fn
    @Venus-cl4fn3 жыл бұрын

    TBH your voice is so much soft and so calming .

  • @abdularshadshaik8077
    @abdularshadshaik80773 жыл бұрын

    Glad to know that I'm emotionally intelligent.....suprising I could relate to all these signs

  • @Potat941
    @Potat9413 жыл бұрын

    I’m actually interested in the studies done on this topic. Those links in the description are useful :D

  • @horrormovieclips4379
    @horrormovieclips43793 жыл бұрын

    Yay! Congrats on 4 million subs! 🥳 🎉

  • @quixoticelixer.
    @quixoticelixer.3 жыл бұрын

    I know you probably won't read this, but you guys have helped me in a way multiple people could've never. Thank you so much!

  • @laurablyth9084
    @laurablyth90843 жыл бұрын

    Anyone else realise that they're the opposite of emotionally intelligent after watching this?

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    How many of these things are you guilty of doing?

  • @laurablyth9084

    @laurablyth9084

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go Hey, I love your videos. I am extremely guilty of suppressing my emotions, I seek validation from others and I'm a huge over thinker. I though I would be a good candidate for emotional Intelligence due to my high empathy but I don't think so anymore 😂

  • @deepikachandra7857
    @deepikachandra78573 жыл бұрын

    Since everyone’s first, I’ll be last :)

  • @nonexistenceisbliss9528

    @nonexistenceisbliss9528

    3 жыл бұрын

    I knew I liked you.

  • @gabbyireland215
    @gabbyireland2153 жыл бұрын

    Another great video and job like always. Thank you for posting!

  • @sammccool5480
    @sammccool54803 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I've been seeing tons of EQ videos and articles lately and a lot of them made me feel like my emotional intelligence was really really low but according to this article it's actually fairly good. And this article just makes common sense everyone needs to express your emotions at times A lot of the articles make you feel like expressing emotions is a bad thing. Thanks so much.

  • @icebreakerharmony
    @icebreakerharmony3 жыл бұрын

    I only just subbed to you a minute ago lol and I get early at a few seconds

  • @deepikachandra7857
    @deepikachandra78573 жыл бұрын

    Am I the only one who thinks her voice would suit ASMR a lot? 😂 I hate asmr, but her voice would make me like it ❣️

  • @bilge8656
    @bilge86563 жыл бұрын

    This channel has made me think so much about my own personality and I am so much more careful with others. Thank you ❤️

  • @oneman4392
    @oneman43923 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the vids you make, they really help.

  • @orphic20
    @orphic203 жыл бұрын

    Summary 0:48 you dont suppress your emotions 1:14 you dont invalidate other people's emotions 2:00 you don't give into peer pressure 2:25 you don't usually over think things 2:50 you don't have an issue with personal boundaries 3:22 you don't seek out external validation 3:50 you don't get frustrated over situations beyond your control 4:30 you don't avoid constructive criticism 5:05 you don't avoid change

  • @silver5962

    @silver5962

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Im the meanest person ever no they're different

  • @lofiwackpainting7439
    @lofiwackpainting74393 жыл бұрын

    My Results: 1. I *DEFINITELY* suppress my emotions. 2. I don’t invalidate others emotions. 3. I don’t give into peer pressure, that’s fucking dumb. 4. I don’t overthink things, I underthink them. I’m just like yeah I’m living, right now I am doing school, I am sad, I am happy. 5. I don’t have issues with personal boundaries, it’s whatever. I don’t have issues with anything, I’m desensitized to living. 6. I don’t seek validation, I just don’t expect it anyways. 7. I don’t care about situations in or out of my control, I don’t care about anything. 8. I don’t avoid constructive criticism, because I make an abundance of mistakes so all I can do is hope for help. I get a lot of help but none of it helps me. 9. I don’t avoid change, that’s what life is. Everything changes every day, sometimes it’s just more sudden. I’m fine as long as I’m living and alright I guess. I’m still breathing, good enough.

  • @sipi2009

    @sipi2009

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's absolutely enough! Keep going.

  • @petyay.2485
    @petyay.24853 жыл бұрын

    These videos are so interesting to watch and they are so cutely animated 🥺💓 Thank you for creating them

  • @skumington
    @skumington3 жыл бұрын

    this community is so wholesome 🥰🥰

  • @_nini_
    @_nini_3 жыл бұрын

    I've never been this early before😂

  • @areallycursedperson2193

    @areallycursedperson2193

    3 жыл бұрын

    S A M E

  • @animeruleslol4599

    @animeruleslol4599

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yass

  • @dishabhardwaj924

    @dishabhardwaj924

    3 жыл бұрын

    Samee😂

  • @unknwnghost3422

    @unknwnghost3422

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello Hanna :)

  • @ammyshadows3817
    @ammyshadows38173 жыл бұрын

    Why did the song make me think of “facing myself” but the slow version??

  • @ooblecklover
    @ooblecklover3 жыл бұрын

    Comgrats on 4 million! Keep going strong

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    THank you! :)

  • @imsmiling6953
    @imsmiling69533 жыл бұрын

    I love your voice!!! It's so calming🙂

  • @carleflores9065
    @carleflores90653 жыл бұрын

    I surpressed my emotions all my childhood and now I'm depressed what do I do now? AHHHHHHHH ;-;

  • @phoenix4o480
    @phoenix4o4803 жыл бұрын

    What happens when you don’t feel like you don’t have enough emotions cause someone called me insensitive cause they where sad and I felt nothing towards them so what would I do

  • @nzans3041
    @nzans30413 жыл бұрын

    Whenever you published a video, I usually just lie down and listens. You've helped me a lot in my dark times, thank you!

  • @Lettermanization
    @Lettermanization3 жыл бұрын

    I have to build it up. I was always self aware of not having good emotional intelligence but never knew where to start as mean people will always try and hate you for whatever reason they can. This is an insightful video, thanks for sharing.

  • @unknwnghost3422
    @unknwnghost34223 жыл бұрын

    Me:up at 2am for no reason Psych2go: yeah let's keep her up long Lmaoooooo

  • @yoshikagekira6217
    @yoshikagekira62173 жыл бұрын

    When im arguing with someone i feel a lot of pain on my chest and i cant breathe.... what is happening to my body?

  • @miirasaika6437

    @miirasaika6437

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think you're experiencing a lot of stress when arguing, that's why you're having these physical symptoms

  • @austingode

    @austingode

    3 жыл бұрын

    Anxiety......

  • @yoshikagekira6217

    @yoshikagekira6217

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@miirasaika6437 thank you i think that i should go to a pshicholog...

  • @yoshikagekira6217

    @yoshikagekira6217

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@austingode :^

  • @austingode

    @austingode

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cosmin Matei if you can avoid confrontation and arguments it always makes life better ..... easier said than done but unless it is unavoidable confrontation will make a persons life unbearable

  • @pinkpusta714
    @pinkpusta7143 жыл бұрын

    Awesome Happy for all of you btw nice progress

  • @mathaniacharles839
    @mathaniacharles8393 жыл бұрын

    You are doing such a good work. Great voice and sweet animation. Thank you !🤗🤗🤗

  • @akali5029
    @akali50293 жыл бұрын

    I love their animation so much. ♥️♥️♥️ kawaii

  • @kawhiyoumad
    @kawhiyoumad3 жыл бұрын

    Fun fact: Everyone here thinks they're emotionally intelligent

  • @animeruleslol4599

    @animeruleslol4599

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wait how did you know 😓

  • @baydenlikesmilk947

    @baydenlikesmilk947

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm emotionally unintelligent😭

  • @braveferia4168

    @braveferia4168

    3 жыл бұрын

    I cam bc my friend is very intelligent but i feel like a dumb stupid annoying person Ť~Ť

  • @silver5962

    @silver5962

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm not emotionally intelligent but I want to be and by watching this I'll be making progress

  • @baydenlikesmilk947

    @baydenlikesmilk947

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@silver5962 mood

  • @CinaGD
    @CinaGD3 жыл бұрын

    I'm really having a hard time right now and these videos really calm me down

  • @mint1107mind
    @mint1107mind3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the video. It makes me reflect myself and improve.

  • @aquaticarrow55
    @aquaticarrow553 жыл бұрын

    I literally do not understand my emotions so I don't know how to express them :(

  • @bwdskn5069
    @bwdskn50693 жыл бұрын

    Me untill i watched that video: i can understand humans After watching it: I'm officialy emotionally dumb person

  • @8181PS
    @8181PS3 жыл бұрын

    I feel so seen. Thank you so much for this video.

  • @ashh_xsd
    @ashh_xsd3 жыл бұрын

    Hi. Thanks for making this video. Please make more, I love watching your videos and help my friends with feeling problems♡

  • @sarah._.carpenter
    @sarah._.carpenter3 жыл бұрын

    the emotional intelligence is ability to express your emotions me : *guess i'm dumb lol*

  • @jyjaeskz
    @jyjaeskz3 жыл бұрын

    Apprently I can't be emotionally intelligent/emphatetic because I'm on the autism spectrum but I do all this (or well, avoid doing, you know) so what am I supposed to believe?

  • @yournightmare7197

    @yournightmare7197

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just because you are autistic does not mean you can not be emotionally intelligent .

  • @yogiandyogaadevinepath868
    @yogiandyogaadevinepath8683 жыл бұрын

    Her voice is the best,the voice is so calm.i love it❤

  • @deva77399
    @deva773993 жыл бұрын

    One of my favourite channel.

  • @fishl4134
    @fishl41343 жыл бұрын

    Fact:it's EQ or it's ok you have IQ Me:option C🙅‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @CateOtanes
    @CateOtanes3 жыл бұрын

    Loved this!

  • @rajanisharma7889
    @rajanisharma78893 жыл бұрын

    I am in love with yout cute animations!! your voice is also soothing ! and congrats for 4 Million subs yay !😀😁

  • @wilabanda4388
    @wilabanda43883 жыл бұрын

    Her voice is so soft and calming