I’m an introvert. I’m using this video in the opposite way you intended.

@marylut6077

Жыл бұрын

As long as you feel it is welcoming to you, hope you aren’t in an actual cave

@chenyeh9053

Жыл бұрын

You are super funny 😄

@andriafehizoro686

Жыл бұрын

👐 😹

@nadhiffqodri

Жыл бұрын

Literally me!!!

@terralynn9062

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the laugh! I get it. ☺️

I am minimalist. My home is modern minimal but not to the extreme. Yes I love white with some minor touches of color and plants add to my decor. On top my house is super clean because I’m a little OCD so yes you can’t drop a crumb without me seeing it 🤣🤣🤣

Things that have made me feel uncomfortable in other peoples home: any overpowering smell whether good or bad, hard uncomfortable seating or no seating, pets jumping all over me or laying on top of me while I’m trying to sit down or visit, extremely cold or hot temperatures, clutter all over the place especially in the areas where we are visiting or eating, dirty or dingy looking hand towels in a bathroom.

@jabber5402

Жыл бұрын

Good points! Pets who are too friendly are super annoying! And ew...to the dirty towels! Sometimes I must air-dry my hands! 😩

@t.a.yeah.

Жыл бұрын

I hate dirty floor, too. I don't dare to take a step then and tend to tiptoe.

@NicolesNaturals

Жыл бұрын

My cousin's cat would always jump up on the kitchen table while I was eating and be right next to my plate of food. First of all, I am extremely allergic to cats, secondly, I don't want cat dander in my food. Ugh

@lahaza6515

Жыл бұрын

Dirty cabinet fronts & baseboards. I can't tell you how often I've said; "oh thank you, but I ate already." And overhead lighting... it immediately tells me that there's a possibility that the person is blind to nuance, atmosphere & self awareness. That may sound snotty, but it's true. Are we doing surgery or eating? No faint music in the background during a dinner is right up there w/ overhead lighting. I mean, if you're looking for something it's understandable, but if you're just sitting around having a conversation it's awful.

@marilynndesilva7620

Жыл бұрын

Even if the towels aren't actually dirty, but are damp, it turns me off. And while we're on the subject of bathrooms: Make sure the toilet paper isn't down to the last few squares. I hate having to go through someone's cupboards for a fresh roll or rummage around in my purse for a tissue.

I think you have to be careful regarding scent. You do not want any bad odor such as litter boxes or stinky dogs. But it can be equally off-putting when you burn strongly scented candles or use "plug ins" in every room. The synthetic scents give me headaches. I was once in a home where they different scented candles in each room. I couldn't wait to leave the home. It also made me wonder, what are they trying to cover up?

@cynthiajohnston424

Жыл бұрын

The guys who installed our new heating/cooling system commented that our house did not smell like dogs . 🙂 We had four dogs at the time & my routine was always to air the house daily , kept their bedding & them clean , etc. The conversation came about because a worker commented on my saddle , bridles & boots in the music room by the piano - we laughed about " country living " lifestyles ! 💟

@e.thereal

Жыл бұрын

You made my day with this comment Laura so thank you, totally agree. Many scents nowadays have unhealthy toxic substances in them. Synthetic smells like lemon usually bring metallic headaches and to be honest, scientist still cant explain how smell fully works but they know alot of our modern particles that are getting in there aint healthy but conglomerates do not care. Just like Yes Original suddenly became unpleasantly overwhelming a year agoish and the rest of my surroundings didn't notice anything it turned out they had changed the ingredients (ignoring the smaller testgroup that did not respond well to the scent since the majority didn't take any notice). Most candles are garbage nowadays, yes just like weave and other things (look it up) and those wallplugins should have been banned ages ago from an environmental perspective.

@dianeosgood6594

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree. Whenever my family get something on the burner or pungent food is cooked, I insist on turning off heat/air and opening few windows for few minutes along with exhaust fan. I feel odors can lodge into the furniture. I dislike lots of plug ins or candles, one candle is okay on occasion. Fresh air is best. If there is something that smells, find it and clean it out of the room. Febreze gives me a huge headache and I really dislike my husband using it. If the weather is not freezing I will open the window.

@diannagregg191

Жыл бұрын

Also, most fake scent products contain phthalates, which are health and environmental nightmares.

I love that blouse. Your videos always have the best photo examples.

Yes yes yes about the messy entryways. So easy to leave shoes, bags etc just laying there, giving a cluttered feeling. And the odours ...yuck..lol...open those windows and doors and let fresh air in!!!

Ive been told that my apartment looks like a cold museum. I love it.❤❤

I saw a video of a woman pulling in to random houses, opening the front door, grabbing the purse from the drop-off zone, and driving away. After that I don't have a drop-off zone by any door that leads to outside. My drop of zone is in a drawer inside a bedroom not close to any doors.

@cmjensen

Жыл бұрын

Interesting, good to know!!

@YSLRD

Жыл бұрын

Huh. I lock my door but my drop zone is in the kitchen. I guess it would be more vulnerable by the front door.

I agree with these! Even though I’m an introvert who very very rarely invites people over, I want a warm home (or apartment) for myself! Plants, throws, rugs, table lamps, paintings that mean something to me, comfortable seating…these are a few things that suggest comfort to me.

@SometimeAgo65

Жыл бұрын

I know! I just told my sister a few days ago, It's crazy that you can make your home soooo beautiful and comfortable that you never want to leave it. It took me years to get it the way I wanted but I did... now it's just paradise for me. I don't know if that's a good thing, or not ❤️😊

@chloejones9647

9 ай бұрын

If you’re interested in cozy cozy, look up “Hygge” style bedrooms. Amazing! Super comforting! 🤩

Love these types of videos because often people focus on how interior decorating looks and not how it feels.

I think some people might find my home intimidating, lol! A bit too clean, and everything has its own place. But that's how I like it. I don't care if it's uninviting. Plus, I rarely invite anyone anyway. Too much work 😆 Lots of great tips as always!

@superfacch

Жыл бұрын

That's how I like it too. I never really clean extra before guests come over, I just keep it that way a little at a time

@sarat6787

Жыл бұрын

@@superfacch Yep! Same here!

@VivekaAlaya

Жыл бұрын

my mother-in-law is a architect interior designer. I'm a bit more of a rustic cozy or escandinavian style and she is 'modern-chic'. Her house is so perfect it makes me feel like I have to apologize for existing. I cannot sit relaxed in the sofa, there's always this sense of fear of 'messing the house'. It's almost like no one lives there, it's just 'for show'..

@sarat6787

Жыл бұрын

@@VivekaAlaya, I 100% get with it's uncomfortable and uninviting, but that's how I like it 😅I still sit on the sofa, though...😏

@JayaShay

Жыл бұрын

Sara I am the exact same. I do like my things in their places and I get nervous when someone sits on my blue velvet sofa with talking hands and a glass of red wine !! Im not scared to say watch the sofa

I have finally gotten away from decorating for my occasional visitors and I started making my home feel good to me. If they like my style, great! I’m flattered. If not, it’s good the don’t live with me but I’m okay with that ☺️

- "What makes your home uninviting?" - "A panther."

@barbarak2836

Жыл бұрын

Great example! 😊

Great points. With regards to scents, we need to also consider about our pets sensitivity to scents, given their sense of smell is so much stronger than humans.

@JenniferSmilesNow

Жыл бұрын

I’ve learned to avoid citrus, because of my dogs :-)

@vaderladyl

Жыл бұрын

Especially with aquariums and birds in the house. They can actually die from some toxic smells natural or artificial.

@yourconnection9303

Жыл бұрын

@@vaderladyl A few yrs. ago I even read on some scented wall plug ins that it is harmful to pets. We need to be mindful when we're using scents of any sort around the home if you have any kind of pet living with you. Even floor liquid cleaners and carpet cleaners can be too much for them. And cigarette smoke too! A friend's dog and cat vomited every time she cleaned her floor with Pine Sol. No wonder! Same thing each time she cleaned her carpets. She finally listened to me and went with pet friendly cleaning products.

I actually find stone floors very cozy and comfortable. They do work well in warm climates as traditional designs prove. I did really appreciate all the other tips though!

Kim Karsashians home is super minimalistic and she recently put up a tour of her Skims office and it is perfect. NOTHING OUT OF PLACE. EVERYTHING CREAM. Makes me feel I can't drop a crumb, touch the books, or really even sit. It's uninviting bc it's so perfect. She has kitchens but doesn't even seem like they are usable.

@TrueFork

Жыл бұрын

I was in the store yesterday and one of the employees had just finished straightening all the potato chip bags so neatly that I didn't dare take one anymore :D

@cynthiajohnston424

Жыл бұрын

Her home , just like on " fixer upper " shows & magazines , etc. is staged . No one wants to show dirty dishes on the kitchen counter or jackets & backpacks on the mudroom floor to the viewers of the world ! 🙂

@yourconnection9303

Жыл бұрын

Too minimalistic is bleak and inhospitable. The Kardashians also now have the money to hire cleaners. If either of the Kardashian's were regular working class people, whatever they'd live in, would more than likely not be as clean, etc.,

@martaescobar7625

Жыл бұрын

If I had housekeepers every week, my home would look different too, but when your it and you have do it ALL..........nah.........go away.......it's clean enough:)

@Sangstee23

Жыл бұрын

I’d be afraid to eat anything. She might follow you around with the dust buster.

One thing that’s frustrating about most design KZreadrs is assuming that everybody has a certain space. For example - not everyone even has an entry way. I don’t have a house. I live in an apartment. There is literally no entry way. You walk in and the living room is right there. It’s like if you don’t have a huge home, and you live in small apartments/studios, we often times do not know what to do with our spaces bc a lot of these design tips aren’t applicable to us. Even “decorating on a budget” is still too expensive for a lot of us.

You nailed ALL my pet peeves! 💜Loathe cold floors (and cold countertops, too). Cannot tolerate perfumed/artificial smells (did you know how toxic these perfumes and chemicals are? Very.) No curtains (fishbowl feel). Overly minimalist feels like a museum, not relaxing at all and I get no sense of the person or how they live, which is a bummer as I like to get to know people better when I'm in their home (missed opportunity when they hide themselves overly IMHO). Same for too crowded, not relaxing at all. Harsh lighting, yes for sure. Great video.

Fermented Italian giardiniera was the prominent smell in my godparents home in the fall- nobody complained because the final product was DELICIOUS! (I love the moving wavy lines under the titles :) They were welcoming people too...always had cookies in the cookie jar.

I am always so worried that I have becomed nose blind to the smell of my 2 dogs and cat! I open windows all over the house every day, try to have fresh lilys by the door and clean the floors to make sure I can reduce that as much as I can. It can be hard though, especially when your pets start getting older and health issues start to appear

@frangipanisandgirl

Жыл бұрын

Yes, I love opening up the house to air out, it's the best at keeping any smells at bay! Just wanted to share a word of caution though, be careful of lilies around pets, I know they are very toxic to cats, possibly dogs too, but cats for sure.

@ashleysehatti8013

Жыл бұрын

Lilies are toxic to cats! Like can cause fatal liver damage within a couple days if they rub against the plant or get the pollen on them, let alone if they eat it. Please choose another flower!

@klaudiso

Жыл бұрын

I've heard lily is poisonous to cats so maybe check out which one you have and if it's safe for your cat to be around!

@emiliaumana272

Жыл бұрын

@@frangipanisandgirl Oh! I had no idea, thank you so much! They haven't been sick so far, they don't really have access to chew on them or anything like that, but better safe than sorry. I'll switch to other cut flowers :)

@emiliaumana272

Жыл бұрын

@@klaudiso Thanks so much for the advice! I'll check with my vet but in the mean time, I am switching to other types of cut flowers. Good vibes from Costa Rica!

I’m limited to opening my windows frequently, because I have horrible seasonal allergies. The pollen is very high where I live. I hate it when my house smells like food, except a fresh bakery. So, we got an air purifier. It’s been game changing. Not only does it help my allergies, but it makes my house smell like almost nothing. Once in a while, I’ll get someone visiting saying my home still smells like a new build. My home is 3 years old now.

@lilfish5124

Жыл бұрын

It might still be offgassing and the smell is stuck inside 😳

@LesaBear612

Жыл бұрын

What kind of air purifier do you have? I’m interested in getting one. Thanks.

Smells are such a huge thing for me. It can really make or break an experience when visiting someone. I remember when we were buying a home, there was one house that had been sprayed with so much Fabreeze that I could barely walk through the entire house. I don't even remember what the house had looked like. Smells are so important. In the Fall and Winter, I like to make a simmering stove top potpourri. It's so pleasant and so simple!

@dianeosgood6594

Жыл бұрын

My husband sprays Febreze in the bathroom and it gives me a huge headache. It is a neurotoxin. I open windows when he does it and we always have an issue. Just awful. He sprays like the guy in the commercial. I have shown him online info it is toxic but he won't stop.

Re odors. Lots of ways to address without scents: WASH your curtains, couch upholstery, rugs. De-clog drains you don’t even think need to be dealend, put baking soda in your refrigerator. Wash your oven throw out old carpets, clothes, or anything else that has just accumulated your human smell too long. Wash your pets at least twice a month-ignore vets who say that isn’t necessary. It isn’t for their health. It is if you don’t want to smell like a vet. Wash dog leashes and collars. Cook with a window open. I do like the use of air fresheners,but particularly the clean linen fragrance. A small trick you can do before company: boil some water with your favourite air freshener or even cologne/perfume, or just a lot of lemon juice, and it will fill the air. Let it vent a few minutes before guests arrive. Similar to baking cookies.

I have a lovely friend whose house is a little disheveled but inviting mostly. I couldn't put my finger on what was still making me feel uncomfortable. I realized there are lots and lots of rustic solid wood pieces and fixtures, which I like for quality's sake, but it makes everything feel hard and cold. My other friend's house makes you think they are still moving in. Nothing on the white walls, kids toys inside closed clear plastic totes on an industrial-looking shelf, perfectly separated, very clean technically, but the kitchen is always untidy, when I visit. It feels like a "just business" kind of environment, which can happen when you're trying to keep a house clean and minimal with 3 kids. I like to think I have a nice balance.

Silk sheets + pillow cases= slippin and slidin and scroopin. Mine aren't real silk tho so maybe I need higher quality stuff. I just wanted to use scroop in a sentence

@tempo9198

Жыл бұрын

Scroop is a fabulicious word!

@vaderladyl

Жыл бұрын

Nah. I had real silk and I hated it for the same reasons you mentioned.

@honeydewgurlfriend

Жыл бұрын

@@vaderladyl Good to know!!! Yeah, I stick to just a silk pillow case

Sometimes I ferment buckwheat groats to make bread, and oh boy, that can stink up my home!! The whole downstairs can smell like a giant fart after a day and half of fermentation. But sometimes I make soap, which makes my house smell really nice. I just don’t open the windows often due to living on a busy highway near a gas station.

Realtors, on Open House showings, often bake brownies or cookies for that inviting smell. Floral smells are subjective. But who doesn’t like the smell of warm chocolate (or “apple pie” by putting cinnamon and nutmeg in a small pot of water warming on the stove)?

The problem with minimalism is it makes it very clear that I am the only thing in the room that is out of place.

@BinkyTheGoddessDivine

Жыл бұрын

Weird how you consider yourself a "thing." 💀 Who does that?

Making you feel like yourself is key, not making everyone else like it. My home is clean and reasonably neat, but it reflects me.

I agree with the one about a house being TOO tidy. If it looks and feels like a museum or like a room that nobody ever uses, I don't feel relaxed there.

My guest bedroom is almost as luxe as our main bedroom. I use bamboo linen and linen. I love making my guests feel like they are in a boutique hotel. I feel nobody should leave their home to come slum it out in mine.

You mention scent often, and I started focusing on scent with diffusers from one of your older videos! Nothing fake/ fruity/floral smelling. More woodsy & I love coming home! Thx!

We installed curtains in our home and it completely changed the feel and look, to the point where it felt like a different house, in a good way. We built our home with my mother and father in law and have bamboo, laminate and tiles and while the flooring may seem cold we do offer our guests slippers which helps to make our home more inviting. I recently updated our entry and it feels much more cosy and welcoming. We actually used an old piece of furniture we were going to donate but once we moved it into the entry on the way out of the house it became an entryway cabinet and it now looks really beautiful. Lovely tips and they do make such a difference. I may need to relax on the cleaning 😂

Omg I love this channel! I'm a minimalist because I guess over stimulated easily but I also love art and a warm and inviting home. The example photos along with your explanation is very helpful and gives me ideas that are right for me.

I love linen! It’s weight, it’s coolness and awesome feeling!

A smell that took me awhile to figure out came from my three-quarter bath. I love tub baths and rarely use the shower. The smell emanated from the sewer line. A teakettle of hot water poured down the drain did the trick.

Excellent advice like always! Thank you. I’m happy I got all covered in my flat.

Thanks for the tips!

Lots of great tips! Thanks for sharing!

Well done on your lead in to your lily silk ad. Thank you.

This is my go-to channel for everything interior decoration. People might have different styles but the 'donts' you've highlighted have been so helpful❤❤❤

I always learn so much from your videos! I’ve been able to look with new perspective at my home and make some positive needed decor changes to update my pad. Thank you!

Love your channel❤️

Great tips! Thanks! ♥

What does too clean even mean? Clean is good. Dirty is gross. Sparse, plain, and minimal aren't the same as clean. Totally agree regarding guest room sheets (and for that matter, guest beds are usually substandard).

@kalliste01

Жыл бұрын

To me, 'too clean' means someone's house feels unlived in. Nothing out of place, and no clutter on the benches.

@smack6030

Жыл бұрын

If someone is afraid to drop a crumb on the floor, the house is "too clean." A little mess and a dust bunny here or there isn't the end of the world. But yes, dirty is another issue entirely.

@evelynsaungikar3553

Жыл бұрын

An overpowering smell of bleach is offputting.

@vaderladyl

Жыл бұрын

@@evelynsaungikar3553 OMG yes. Cannot stand it myself.

@blackanne

Жыл бұрын

@@evelynsaungikar3553 yes! I often hear questions what cleaning products leave a strong smell for a long time? Why would you want your house to smell strongly of cleaning products? Let that fresh air in, get some roses or freesias or bake a cake!

i love your channel! good job

This list makes a lot of sense and I agree with it

100% cotton sheets are my favourite and I detest all microfibre bedding. I also sprinkle guest sheets with baby powder once the bed is made.

@evelynsaungikar3553

Жыл бұрын

Try bamboo sheets, they’re excellent!

@YSLRD

Жыл бұрын

I love cotton. But no, thanks, on the baby powder.

Simple common sense approach! Great 👍👍

If it was up to me my whole home would be totally colored: I love how colors play off each other. I guess I like dramatic color. I'm working on my husband to "get" that!! Color is to me the number one thing in a home.

Over minimalistic decor, agreed. So not inviting.

I had to take out some storage. I figured out any way that involved anything but kicking for shoes they weren’t going to get out away. So how I have a beautiful bench where everyone can kick shoes under. Thus I had to un-storage to get the shoes out of the way.

Great idea

This is awesome! I have always loved your content. Very insightful. Can you recommend few items you mentioned? I know your blog does have few things but any additional recommendations would help. Glad I'm learning from the best 😊

Add a beautiful huge historic art print, such as one by the pre-Raphaelite painters to contrast with the minimalist decor. These paintings are rich in color and detail. Some of the scenes are homey, while others are romantic or historic moments. You will still have the benefits of minimalism, but you will add vivid color and unforgettable faces full of emotion or mystery.

For me the most inviting is the general atmosphere of a home. It gives me a more intimate account of who these people really are, as individuals and/or a family or a community. I prefer cossines to strictness even if that means my kitchen doesn't look perfect when my best friends stop for quick coffee. On the other hand I love to decorate my home for special occasions, holidays and even just in general, redecorating. Different lighting options, colors, fabrics and pattern, rugs, plants and flowers... Bring it on! ^^ Combined with lots of natural light and a good airflow, all I need is some nice art , music and scents (candles, incense). If it's possible I'd prefer a good location and outside architecture but I think I appreciate a good space solution even better. As of most univiting mistakes people make in their homes I'd have to say are bad smell, clutter, garbage and mouldy bathroom hand towels. The mouldy hand towel is my limit :D Posh Pennies thank you for this video. Best of luck!

The minimalist room made me smile . One chair , echoed by one wheelbarrow in the bare garden. Minimalist mirroring . Is it a thing ? 😆🤔

Expensive cotton percale sheets can last a decade or more, so they are more economical than many other sheets.

Very nice video once more time. Thank you. I would like to see a video how to style a wall (1m) next to main entrance and that looks to the living room.:)

I'm confused, how did we go from entry way to people sleeping on our sheets? How about just get people in the door to visit for a couple of hours and they feel comfortable enough to want to come over again.

@jlina

Жыл бұрын

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@cmjensen

Жыл бұрын

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What about the "apartment entries "? Can you do a video on this? Thanks 😊

Candles are not for everyone, some are of us are sensitive to scents and don't want any scented things round!

i disagree on being too clean is uninviting. what if thats really what you are. i think its very reasonable enough that when you have sudden visitors, you are not stressed out to organize things at home..clean means everything, it should never be an "uninviting approach" to a home.well just my opinion.

@vaderladyl

Жыл бұрын

I think they mean to the point that people are uncomfortable there because they are afraid of making a mess and won't even sit on your living room.

Good ideas. I am going to use a drugstore scent to spray the room now.

@MyFocusVaries

Жыл бұрын

A diffuser with natural oils is healthier for you. And the scents are much more pleasant.

Would you be kind to tell where you bought that beautiful black vase. Thank you.

I love this channel, but am I the only one that doesn't have an entry way? You open my front door and whalaa.. you're in the living room.

@NydiaLC

Жыл бұрын

I love houses that are like this. It is so nice to come back from work, open the door and be in a big room instead of a corridor for example. You are lucky 🙂

@Donna-vh5ym

Жыл бұрын

@@NydiaLC // well that makes me feel better. !!!! Thank you for your reply.

@thatgirlirish5492

Жыл бұрын

I don’t have a designated “entry way”either. I’m sure many of us in regular to smaller sized homes have the same where we just walk right into the living room. I still organize the shoes with a little shoe rack and have a cute rug at both sides of the front door. I have a large front porch though, so I like to include that in making it fee welcoming though. We can work with what we got 😉.

@vaderladyl

Жыл бұрын

Many people. Usually in open plan spaces. More difficult to put stuff to decorate in there for sure, but not impossible.

@edithrose9987

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking not everyone has an entryway! I hate houses/apartments that dont but not everyone feels that way! I hope you enjoy your house!

I actually cannot relax when my apartment is messy. I'm a neat, minimalistic person and will only feel good in almost hospital like, spotless interior....

Thank you

Nice entries. Mine is 3,5 by 5.

Helpful video

Your video is great! Can I repost to another platform?

There is actually a piece of furniture called a “hall stand” which is made as a drop zone but unless your house is traditional with antique furniture, it may not look right. Sferra is supposed to be one of the top companies for sheets. Their Giza 45 sheets are made from only the best Egyptian cotton but they are not cheap. There are light bulbs with a switch on the bulb that lets you change what the light looks like. You can get them at home depot. Then you don’t need smart phone apps, internet, etc.

@smack6030

Жыл бұрын

You weren't kidding when you said the sheets are not cheap. I don't mind paying for higher quality bedding but $2200 for a single flat sheet? Yikes! Bet they feel nice though. I need to find sheets that are nice but a little more reasonable (>$500).

@vaderladyl

Жыл бұрын

@@smack6030 There are. Good sheets can range from 50 to 100 dollars depending on some factors, and the chance of finding them on sale.

@pameladickson427

Жыл бұрын

You can find great sheets that feel luxe on a budget for under $100 bucks. There is no need to spend enormous amounts of money for a clean, comfortable, yet beautiful home.

Can you link your lamp please? It’s gorgeous!

I'm starting a comment campaign to replace the fiddle-leaf fig ( a notoriously difficult plant to grow indoors) with the exquisite ficus alii (which does well indoors) as the next plant fad of interior designers.

@vaderladyl

Жыл бұрын

I remember when other kinds of ficuses where all the rage back in the 80's and 90's. That one you mention is a good one.

@cynthiajohnston424

Жыл бұрын

Does a ficus drip sap ? I worked in a lovely upscale furniture store years ago & many accessories used for various room settings were our own "used" books , new magazines & live plants - there were a couple plants that were not " user friendly " - one shed leaves a lot & the other " dripped " a very fine mist-like sap .

@MyFocusVaries

Жыл бұрын

How about a monstera?

Nose blind= anosmic 😅 I like this video, so full of nice ideas!!❤

Hi, great video. Where did you get that white lamp behind you? Thanks

@rumigirl

Жыл бұрын

I think she mentioned in another video that it was a thrift store find. 😊

Loud ticking clocks, especially the ones that interrupt life every 15 minutes would be at the top of my list. Second would be competing noises i.e. the tv is on AND someone is watching a video on their phone. Third, creaking noisy beds. I guess I have noise issues.

@jillianwickham31

Жыл бұрын

I’m so comforted to read someone else has a hard time with ticking clocks. People are so proud of their cute retro-style alarm clocks or their beautiful antique floor clocks, so they put them in or near the guest rooms. Tick-tock-tick-tock-tick… I can’t.

Nice😊

I buy what I can afford and I don't care what kind of sheets YOU buy! My home IS inviting because I keep it clean, neat AND comfortable!!!

The worst ever bad smell is cat boxes. I have a cat and I’m obsessive about cleaning the box just because I can smell it on other peoples homes right away. Sometimes it’s pretty bad and it’s obvious owners can’t smell it anymore. Sometimes I can smell it on someone’s clothing or hair just because they live with them. Visiting with my husbands mom it’s so overwhelming I deep clean everything from my luggage as soon as I get home. I was like I swear the bedding smells like cat piss and we secretly rehashed everything but it was still there. Took me forever to figure out what the smell was since I never noticed a cat box anyplace.until last time. It’s in the laundry room. So apparently the smell gets into the wash and dryer and that was why the bedding smelled so so so unsleepable awful. Now I know to never ever keep my cat box in the laundry room or near an air vent.

Wish they have duvet cover!

For smell... ! I burn incense sticks , fresh flowers, home sprays, sometimes candles

I hate led lights, even dimmed it just isn’t soft enough and always feels harsh

Is it bad that all the ultra minimalistic empty cold spaces look blissful to me? 😬

Ohmygosh, I'm such a brat! I spoil all five bedrooms with great quality bedding. If the people sleeping in the beds aren't cozy they won't get a great night's sleep.

ouuuuuu........I can name soooooo many houses😅

People with pets jumping up on your legs or licking on you. My mother in law had a dog that would lick your bare legs when you're wearing shorts. I didn't want to sit down because there was dog hair on the furniture cushions. She wondered why we didn't come over more often.

Silk bedding? Who irons it for us? I don’t iron sheets. My son and daughter-in-law had the drop off zone for keys and wallet. Burglars broke in while they and their three daughters were asleep. The burglars robbed them and pinched my daughter-in-law’s new car. Hate curtains, (especially when the cat uses them for abseiling) but ‘man’ they can make a room look complete. Love the vessel behind you. Good video.

I feel welcome in the most horribly designed space if the host was waiting at the door for me with a smile 😊. But yes, we must take care of these matters if we're serious about home design and entertaining.

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Pet smells are more of a problem than we pet owners want to admit. I don’t realize how nose blind I am to the smell of cat in our apartment until I go away for a few days. Our place is so small that we have to keep the litterbox near the front door. Even though we keep it clean, the smell is noticeable and unavoidable. (One of several reasons we don’t have people over very often.) Similarly, my sister’s place smells like her dog no matter how often she cleans. Actually, I notice dog smell in all my dog-owner friends’ homes as well. We’re all nose blind

Some people have zero foyers, zero. You enter right into the living room or dining room or there is no wall it's just one open room, think loft, condo or apartment. Now how do you handle the entry?

I find homes that have no plants extremely uninviting!

@oracle478

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Totally, however not everyone is good at keeping them alive so it's understandable why they might not have any

@hanaafekry7661

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I tried several times to keep them alive, they just tend to suicide with me

@oracle478

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@@hanaafekry7661 same, but I keep trying anyhow

@angelawu4242

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try ZZ plants.

@dougkelley2781

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I mostly have plants outdoors (lots) - other than at the holidays. Does a Christmas tree qualify as a houseplant?

It’s true about too clean of a house not feeling inviting to guest. My sis is a ocd clean freak . U feel ur skin cells are causing her anxiety.

@2:12 the chair to the left..wow!!! I’ve been searching online- tried: wood leather tufted woven chair with Ottoman… any idea of additional search terms to help?

@MsCelineL

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Check West Elm and DWR

@sarahsanders7127

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Search for Jean Gillon Jangada armchair. You might not like the prices, though. 🙈

Can anyone recommend a great brand for mattress toppers?

People rarely come over because of my dogs and my cat but that's another subject 🤷🏻‍♀ Great tips tho !

Someone needs to make a scented candle called "Pot Roast".

Alittle helpful hint - you're titles are always negative. How about "Making Your Home More Inviting" instead?

I personally dont like silk... I prefer flaxen sheets :D

@vaderladyl

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Yeah me neither. Cotton or any other natural material is better for me.