8 Top signs she forcing herself to love you

In this insightful video, I delve into the subtle yet significant indicators that might suggest your woman is not genuinely in love, but rather trying to force feelings that aren’t naturally there.
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00:00 - intro
01:55 - sign 1
03:32 - Sign 2
04:54 - Sign 3
06:06 - Sign 4
06:45 - Sign 5
08:04 - Sign 6
09:44 - Sign 7
10:54 - Sign 8
12:20 - conclusion.

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  • @mosesmorrosonbanda1986
    @mosesmorrosonbanda19865 ай бұрын

    You have really made me understand women. This has also helped me to stop wasting my resources. ❤

  • @so3710
    @so37106 ай бұрын

    Yeah, the best relationships are the ones not forced👌🏼 Cheers for sharing!

  • @upgrade1015
    @upgrade10156 ай бұрын

    They don’t try or force it well or for long so you won’t need to worry about it. Men you messed up by complaining, and being weak , and not taking complete responsibility for everything.

  • @horatiobarnes8608
    @horatiobarnes86086 ай бұрын

    There is never a boring moment listening to you, you are amazing 🇯🇲 .

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @uzomachukwudi5345
    @uzomachukwudi53456 ай бұрын

    Jessica you keep killing it back to back. Blessings and good luck on you for this free information you share. Keep it up!

  • @amaadomaatv
    @amaadomaatv6 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂it's the "Half hearted Congratulations" for me😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Abdulrazzaq-nu6ti

    @Abdulrazzaq-nu6ti

    6 ай бұрын

    Hello can we become friends of long distance relationship Iam single

  • @petewilliams9175
    @petewilliams91756 ай бұрын

    Hi Jessica, these are factual deepest truth. Continue to enlighten us with truth.

  • @tonyabutana7091
    @tonyabutana70916 ай бұрын

    Thank you Jessica for another amazing content ❤❤

  • @KatlehoMoeketsi
    @KatlehoMoeketsi6 ай бұрын

    You ma'am, always keep it real. Thank you

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell536 ай бұрын

    Thanks my ebony angel,you've got everything covered, fascinating video as usual💯👍

  • @dreamchaser4928
    @dreamchaser49286 ай бұрын

    Hey Jessica THANK YOU for the wisdom your sharing

  • @isaiahamaobi5364
    @isaiahamaobi53646 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this light 🙏🙏🙏

  • @suleimanidris6224
    @suleimanidris62245 ай бұрын

    Thank you. This was really helpful. You cleared so many doubts

  • @Trailblazer100
    @Trailblazer1006 ай бұрын

    Great insight and just plain TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!😂💪🏾✌🏾

  • @euniusakampa3265
    @euniusakampa32656 ай бұрын

    Thanks Jessie you've always been helpful this is real

  • @sfisomlondo6699
    @sfisomlondo66996 ай бұрын

    Thanks Jess ❤️

  • @cecil7210
    @cecil72102 ай бұрын

    Great video truly helpful. Especially that part about something that's been bothering for awhile.

  • @amaadomaatv
    @amaadomaatv6 ай бұрын

    Your skin looks flawless ❤

  • @callofdutyspidermanwarfare5593
    @callofdutyspidermanwarfare55936 ай бұрын

    Always amazed me how logical Jessica is with her breakdown of her thought process with these specific topics

  • @amaadomaatv
    @amaadomaatv6 ай бұрын

    If a girl doesn't like you even you handshake hurts

  • @raymondroberts5943

    @raymondroberts5943

    6 ай бұрын

    I totally agree.

  • @ogereginaldchinweze

    @ogereginaldchinweze

    Ай бұрын

    Wow that's tough

  • @classicrocker889
    @classicrocker8896 ай бұрын

    Jessica Thank You For All Of Your Brilliant Work in These Videos . I have learned alot especially with this one . Merry Christmas.

  • @wellingtonokilla5579
    @wellingtonokilla55796 ай бұрын

    I am really touched by this 😢

  • @lugnerthelisma1246
    @lugnerthelisma12466 ай бұрын

    Nothing else than truth!

  • @willbimran5240
    @willbimran52406 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Jessica. These lessons are really helpful.

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    6 ай бұрын

    Glad you like them!

  • @christophersemenya9890
    @christophersemenya98906 ай бұрын

    This is Thought provoking

  • @donaldouko2676
    @donaldouko26766 ай бұрын

    Makes alot of sense. A lady answers texts after 3 days but is very aggressively communicative when she asks for money & that's $1,000 for her expenses which I found very odd after just one week of dating

  • @raymondroberts5943

    @raymondroberts5943

    6 ай бұрын

    Hmmmm she is a gold digger lol🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @adolfarthur9366

    @adolfarthur9366

    6 ай бұрын

    Red flag

  • @tonyabutana7091

    @tonyabutana7091

    6 ай бұрын

    Run as fast as your legs can carry you bro 😂

  • @opokuabraham257

    @opokuabraham257

    6 ай бұрын

    My brother u have endured a lot. Sorry

  • @vicementv6407

    @vicementv6407

    6 ай бұрын

    And you gave her? Bro Run!

  • @suavetwotimes
    @suavetwotimes4 ай бұрын

    Learning so much from you !!!!

  • @teneshalowe9299
    @teneshalowe92996 ай бұрын

    ❤, so true. Most of signs can be the same if man is forcing himself to love a woman

  • @DAVIDSCLONE
    @DAVIDSCLONE6 ай бұрын

    Wow, this has alot to digest in

  • @nlmal4
    @nlmal46 ай бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @joshuaabiodun6173
    @joshuaabiodun61735 ай бұрын

    ❤ thanks so much jess You just spoke to me

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi76976 ай бұрын

    Thanks for enlightenment ❤🇰🇪

  • @amaadomaatv
    @amaadomaatv6 ай бұрын

    Great wisdom

  • @kbonics25
    @kbonics256 ай бұрын

    Needed to hear this video for what I've been going through. Very insightful and to the point. Thanks Jessica!!!

  • @RobertsDigital

    @RobertsDigital

    6 ай бұрын

    Same with me....

  • @lemontharris2042
    @lemontharris20422 ай бұрын

    From a brother to a sister….Thank you Jessica for the clarity I’ve been wanting for the longest time. “Can’t fake connection” hit home for me. Appreciate you!

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    2 ай бұрын

    You're most welcome

  • @samuel22mcofw52
    @samuel22mcofw526 ай бұрын

    thanks Jessica

  • @upgrade1015
    @upgrade10156 ай бұрын

    I watch this video not for doubts but pure curiosity

  • @zamushodge4590
    @zamushodge45906 ай бұрын

    Experience tell thanks for the info have a merry Christmas I love u and your programs💤🌈⭐🖤🌻🤰

  • @Superherokarthik
    @Superherokarthik6 ай бұрын

    Personally some of the six signs i literally went through...she always keeps telling me that she's not ready for the physical intimacy and she keeps looking at her phone whenever we meet or when we go to a movie...she doesn't reply to my msg or talk with me properly....and this is happening after our engagement ceremony... she's my fiance n im totally broken don't know what to do😢💔

  • @Cooltrizzy

    @Cooltrizzy

    6 ай бұрын

    I been there. She don’t love you genuinely my G. Just. a matter of time ‘fore she breaks up with you. Be the man, walk away and find someone that appreciates you and gets excited to see you. Girls are cutthroat.

  • @TheAlpha...
    @TheAlpha...6 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Jessica, I love you 💕, you're very KZreadr,

  • @victorearly1215
    @victorearly12158 күн бұрын

    Thank you for spelling it out for us men.

  • @taylorpatiencemizaya
    @taylorpatiencemizaya6 ай бұрын

    Much love from this side❤❤

  • @haroldmartin4612
    @haroldmartin46126 ай бұрын

    Jessica Os, where have you been all my life.? 🙌 thank you. SUBSCRIBED

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    6 ай бұрын

    Thanks for subbing!

  • @abiodunbanjoko8071
    @abiodunbanjoko80716 ай бұрын

    thanks for sharing this opinion

  • @anywarstephen2363
    @anywarstephen23636 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the video, # ur fun from Uganda

  • @principtounenmondesir
    @principtounenmondesir6 ай бұрын

    Love channel❤❤❤❤

  • @gmatrki
    @gmatrki6 ай бұрын

    Merry Christmas baby Jess 🎉🎉🎉

  • @ricklegendary2990
    @ricklegendary29904 ай бұрын

    I found myself in this situation, 3 years into the relationship, my girlfriend has a lot of these signs, however when I spoke about them she started working on it, I was emotionally checking out, and than she starts doing the things I wanted her to do, not sure if she's working on herself or breadcrumbing me, she is thoughtful I give her that. when we dated she never displayed any detachment that I could notice, after 2 years of dating we got engaged and the hugging, the interest the communication started to decline quickly, if I bought it up it became a issue, after I started detaching she started " working on herself " she gives short answers as you describe so I can't get a read, and avoids lon conversations

  • @kennethrivers3538
    @kennethrivers35386 ай бұрын

    Thank you about the last poi

  • @selasiocloo3705
    @selasiocloo37056 ай бұрын

    Why do I feel she's using my life as a case study? 😅 😅 😅

  • @Sugarlord

    @Sugarlord

    6 ай бұрын

    Haha you're so funny 😂

  • @bdawg5888

    @bdawg5888

    6 ай бұрын

    I know right

  • @sadiak7205

    @sadiak7205

    6 ай бұрын

    👌🏾👌🏾

  • @ogereginaldchinweze

    @ogereginaldchinweze

    Ай бұрын

    Same question I ask myself 🤣

  • @ryantno
    @ryantno6 ай бұрын

    Thanks Jessica enjoying your videos from Botswana 🎉

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    6 ай бұрын

    You are so welcome!

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell536 ай бұрын

    Ps,Happy Christmas Jessica 🧑‍🎄x

  • @Zai488
    @Zai488Ай бұрын

    Thanks alot

  • @roycejr5749
    @roycejr57496 ай бұрын

    Very true oooo some girl I was with she is now attached to another guy because he is the highest bidder

  • @raymondroberts5943
    @raymondroberts59436 ай бұрын

    Hi I have some questions for how can I get in contact with you?

  • @chrisdowning7543
    @chrisdowning75436 ай бұрын

    Thank you for all this, I big big topic theses channels never speak of. Is the menopause in the female. My ex dumped me and gave me as the biggest reason. I have to say it can really change things in a relationship. Oh and being a Dismissive Avoidant.

  • @tedmuholove1958
    @tedmuholove19584 ай бұрын

    one day jessica said "do that and thank me later", thanks for all your eye opening advices.

  • @munyaradzimatsika1756
    @munyaradzimatsika17566 ай бұрын

    True, Please summarize/list them down .

  • @danwactor329
    @danwactor3295 ай бұрын

    You are very dead on. I just need to know my worth take that big step and let go

  • @mawasigordon936
    @mawasigordon9366 ай бұрын

    All these signs are also in a man whose not in love with you💯

  • @sadiak7205

    @sadiak7205

    6 ай бұрын

    Exactly exactly very true 👌🏾👌🏾

  • @scottkirk1303
    @scottkirk13032 ай бұрын

    Like when you send a text or a clip she might like and she doesn’t reply. Says she doesn’t know how to respond. Should be easy if you are invested

  • @cecil7210
    @cecil72102 ай бұрын

    Yeah that's pretty much why I'm watching.

  • @michaelsilas5387
    @michaelsilas53875 ай бұрын

    It make sense now

  • @james-bb4lc
    @james-bb4lc5 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 this is definitely gonna make guys reconsider going into relationship

  • @skotlanddeep3167
    @skotlanddeep31676 ай бұрын

    Jessica can we get mo resolution on your videos like 4k or 1080p

  • @Oyzatt
    @Oyzatt6 ай бұрын

    If you’re here, you are already in trouble 😂😂

  • @Foreverdensword

    @Foreverdensword

    6 ай бұрын

    😢

  • @tedboujee7006

    @tedboujee7006

    6 ай бұрын

    Mad teng

  • @Sixolile9

    @Sixolile9

    6 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @fitstar7541

    @fitstar7541

    4 ай бұрын

    Don't take it as trouble, take it as an opportunity to move on.

  • @Oyzatt

    @Oyzatt

    4 ай бұрын

    @@fitstar7541 there’s two face to any coin, and no face is right or wrong . 😄

  • @calvinsavage9693
    @calvinsavage96934 ай бұрын

    TRUE TRUE TRUE

  • @smoke4entertainmenttv30
    @smoke4entertainmenttv306 ай бұрын

    The feelings mutual because I wanted to end it in 2014 but she refused, I don't care how she feels now because I feel the same way I just act better 😂 I'm almost there I'm going to be myself and honest this year

  • @kwameamoh4746
    @kwameamoh47466 ай бұрын

    This is all true, but very bitter.

  • @5starmusic383
    @5starmusic3836 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤love u

  • @pinnacleanalysis9074
    @pinnacleanalysis90746 ай бұрын

    I wish you could have produced this before. Mine ended messy

  • @amaadomaatv
    @amaadomaatv6 ай бұрын

    Glad to be here

  • @deadsilence9333
    @deadsilence93333 ай бұрын

    90% of these make me get emotional and cry hard 😢

  • @sunmoon7437
    @sunmoon74372 ай бұрын

    Mam do you do any interviews or you know one to one conversation with some of your viewers because if you do i would very much appreciate it

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    2 ай бұрын

    sign up as a VVIP here: www.patreon.com/jessicaos

  • @SonnyYF0070
    @SonnyYF00704 ай бұрын

    Are you giving advice about being confident while wearing contacts or are those real? Simply asking?

  • @opokuabraham257
    @opokuabraham2576 ай бұрын

    I doubt none of the guys here havent seen these signs before, we have seen some before and are very aware of the consequences but we think our story will change but it will end up being what we anticipated. If u dont go through it and get the lessons, u cant base on Jessica's experiences to work outright

  • @DeeDee-yd2ht
    @DeeDee-yd2ht6 ай бұрын

    So what if he has associates he never claims these women but has a family with you and just found out that one of friends associates is married to him is that a perfect reason to not have interest in him

  • @drpotrkingjeremy5837
    @drpotrkingjeremy58373 ай бұрын

    I must say forced love such red flags are just unforgivable

  • @BryanAdakwa
    @BryanAdakwa6 ай бұрын

    You've nailed it ❤ Now let me be single for a moment. Thank you so much, someone has been misusing me

  • @cliffchampion5501
    @cliffchampion55016 ай бұрын

    Her voice alone sounds like it has a net worth of 260.5 Billion

  • @oluwatimileyin_7
    @oluwatimileyin_76 ай бұрын

    Me looking for that comment that highlights all those signs already and haven't seen any😢😢

  • @TICKTillyTHEPRINCE
    @TICKTillyTHEPRINCEАй бұрын

    Wow is all I can say. 😢

  • @samuel22mcofw52
    @samuel22mcofw526 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @prouv
    @prouv6 ай бұрын

    My ex , after 1 year he told me she never loved me, plus she was keeping me in the dog house

  • @ogereginaldchinweze
    @ogereginaldchinwezeАй бұрын

    I get that a lot from ladies, especially with replying hours later or days later. Sometimes I am not replied at all. What can I do about this?!

  • @drpotrkingjeremy5837
    @drpotrkingjeremy58373 ай бұрын

    Mrs Jessica OS throughout last year till now its been painful for me to say that love is just a word , it's a shame that it won't be restored to its era it once was. I guess men would have to accept marriage is a word as well as looking at the view of the most inspirational celebrities that we're stabbed in the heart (non physical): Tyrese Gibson , Will Smith and the man who created love itself and still today a legend Steve Harvey. The view frankly shows itself on the wall, it's worth it to date nor to marry because the same answers apply breakup and divorce by saying that each of those aspects gets third partied or the woman may not be satisfied it goes both ways Your videos are inspiring on God please keep going and never listen to the unnecessary negativity from the women who are against you on God

  • @darinabstonjr9512
    @darinabstonjr95126 ай бұрын

    Mam you are planting seeds... I love my wife and loved her even more when I realized truth. If she's not talking find out why... don't assume she's noticing others. That's going to destroy every relationship. If she is not talking to you so openly then she just doesn't trust you enough to be all the way open... That comes with times... most people don't reach that till years in marriage... its a commitment... not a perfect ride... If she's there you are good... Just open your eyesight and get her heart... What are you willing to do for it... My wife had a husband and he's dead but their were still connections and still is... But the best smile I can ever see is when I allowed her to know She could talk about her memories and cry on my shoulder... relax... Now we laugh and no tears... She keeps my heart so close... I was willing to wait for this amazing feeling for I said till death do ye part... Just take your time. Keep going brother

  • @mohammadmansareh8144
    @mohammadmansareh81446 ай бұрын

    Short girl doesn"t like you Short issue can anger her, that's correct my sister...

  • @orrisjeremiahkapukali2731
    @orrisjeremiahkapukali27316 ай бұрын

    also iam one person who is careless with my phone but my girlfriend can never leave her phone near me she never let me touch her phone, am sure she is cheating she can't admit unless I have evidence to back it up she knows my weakness which is hard for me to break up with her.

  • @robertdesmond1131

    @robertdesmond1131

    3 ай бұрын

    You find it hard to break up with a cheating gf ? Some of you though.

  • @francisgkmamuzu5048
    @francisgkmamuzu50486 ай бұрын

    Is it apt to delete and block a girl's number if there's nothing going on again between you two?

  • @temitopeolamide5076

    @temitopeolamide5076

    6 ай бұрын

    If it will bring you peace, then there's nothing wrong

  • @zmatthew91

    @zmatthew91

    6 ай бұрын

    If it's a friend that you communicate with from way back every now and again keep it. If it's a girl your interested in and communication is dead, dump it.

  • @robertdesmond1131

    @robertdesmond1131

    3 ай бұрын

    Lol

  • @RogerEKPE
    @RogerEKPE6 ай бұрын

    Will Smith should have watched this before tiding the knots with Jada Pinket. 😊

  • @dimitricraft437
    @dimitricraft4374 ай бұрын

    I was living with my ex and she basically took care of me and when we broke up she told me we could be roomates. The kicker, she hid me from her entire personal life, had to leave the house when her parents came in town or be quiet when she would speak to her brother. She full on told me she was embarrassed of me but continues to deal with me on and off becuse of the obvious... she doesnt genuinely love me. She love bombed me and i felt like she was when we first met. She let me stay with her for about a year and in all of that, we stopped being intimate mainly because she saw that i told a female friend that i was bored with our s*x life and i felt she was being unfaithful. She dropped hints about a few exes but refused to talk about them, then she threw it in my face 1 day that she never had to help a man she dated and all of her exes were better partners. Although weve had moments of sheer toxicity... like all the crazy things ive said and done in retaliation. I thought i was tripping at first but im realizing, im not. So i was being hidden from her real life to the point where she was irritated that her coworkers heard me in the bg during a wrap up session on zoom and i just thought it was weird because why do you feel so self-consciousness about our relationship when you made me feel so comfortable being in your home, your body, your love and support but its embarrassing to be known to be with me? But can invest thousands of dollars into my life and has done countless things to help me. She claimed it was because she felt used but if you think that, then why not cut me off? She told me she didnt have the heart to put me on the street but still acted as if she had feelings for me. Not to mention the countless men who would text her that she hasnt spoken to in "Years" then the constantly wanting to see my phone, wanting to control the narrative of what i was upset about when i vented to friends and family and then come to find out she talks so much shit abiut me in private or atleast when she thinks i cant see or hear. One time she flipped out because her dad was in town unexpected and forced me out of the door 2hrs before i had to go to work and was upset that i shook her fathers hand and told him i love his daughter. She was actually mad i did that. While living in her house, unprotected s*x, the "I love you", going out all the time together abd wanting to be booed up but in private it was a different story. She would get mad if i walked ahead of her in a store as if im not with her, its a taste of her own medicine.... she did not like that. She claims shes like this with everyone but has exes that hit her up til this day. Feels forced. Feels like my time and affection was bought abd when she was tired of me she threw me away and now im homeless. Great time. Smh.

  • @brainyguy6734
    @brainyguy67343 ай бұрын

    Lol. My Ex 😂 7 years relationship went down.

  • @kennethrivers3538
    @kennethrivers35386 ай бұрын

    I am the one to unenguaged in the conversation in the conversation. But the thing is don't if the she care

  • @sribashsarkar6043
    @sribashsarkar60436 ай бұрын

    ............and then she told me that she didn't like me anymore and we should end this.

  • @alive4627
    @alive46274 ай бұрын

    Sad that her feelings for you can, and probably will, change over time. She will seek validation from another opportunistic source.

  • @abubakarrkamara9953
    @abubakarrkamara99536 ай бұрын

    Me: reading more comments to get more perspective. Girls of nowadays are so confusing 😂😂

  • @chineduonochie202
    @chineduonochie2024 ай бұрын

    How about when she wants to keep our relationship secret because she doesn’t want her parents to know What do I do in this condition?

  • @robertdesmond1131

    @robertdesmond1131

    3 ай бұрын

    Lol...

  • @austineogwuche5046
    @austineogwuche50466 ай бұрын

    ...........I have to say a big "No" to that lady stressing my life

  • @5starmusic383
    @5starmusic3836 ай бұрын

    Can't liy how you so different