Happy Sunday! Name your enemy and we shall slay them for you!

@0Iive

3 жыл бұрын

:)

@wimebpress3836

3 жыл бұрын

💞

@subscribefornoreasonatall5527

3 жыл бұрын

Aryn but it's okay already took care of him myself

@treznopresto4878

3 жыл бұрын

Really? Can you slain Ender Dragon for my Minecraft please?

@imameatball7482

3 жыл бұрын

Daniel!

One of my greatest fears is that I’m actually toxic and I won’t realize it until I hurt everyone I care about

@bubblemarshy7262

3 жыл бұрын

Omg same that's why im watching this cause im new to having friends :'((

@suraalzoubi6825

3 жыл бұрын

Same that why iam here!

@andhikapratam4296

3 жыл бұрын

this is me right now

@chiilbih8495

3 жыл бұрын

I just realized that im toxic when i punched my bestfriend to cry. And remember i’ve been gaslighting her and manipulating her this whole time, and I regret it. She trust me so much with my opinions and input, she always ask me about everything cs she thought im always smart and my decisions is always the best. Most of the time i was right, cs she always sad with everything and im trying to make the decision but sometimes I didn’t realize how deep i am into controlling her . I hate myself when i just realize im the toxic friend. Now we have this awkward feeling towards each other from the day we fight and i feel like an asshole cs i remember i yelled at her crying “stop playing victim” , when i realized she’s always the victim to put up with my heartless self. I thought i always do the right thing to keep reminding her stop being too emotional with everything, I didn’t realize that im the one who’s very far into being emotionless. For some reason i always think abt our friendship but i cant cry AT ALL. Wtf is wrong with me 😞

@gostudyyoucandoit5262

3 жыл бұрын

omg yeah thats one of my biggest fears

The one thing you should never do is take advantage of someone's kindness. That's just such a cruel thing to do

@tauntasmom

2 жыл бұрын

My son who is an adult is autistic, he goes everywhere I go, he and I always talk about how mean people are to both of us, and we agree it is because people know we are just nice, it is very hard to swallow that people think, do and say whatever they need to, to be mean to those of us who are nice.....

@alexandral6997

2 жыл бұрын

@@tauntasmom I can relate. I feel people who take advantage of others kindness are bad people, honestly. People have always taken advantage of my kindness and it's just heartbreaking.

@serialdiscussion2207

2 жыл бұрын

if i get a million dollars YES

@MRJ23490

2 жыл бұрын

That happened to me over my daughter who will be 6 this year my ex took her from Cullman Alabama to somewhere in Indiana

@iamthatiam4637

2 жыл бұрын

Not only cruel but inhumane. Its sick and it show how horrible they are. And also how weak they are. Cause taking advantage of someone makes you weak.

What I have learned so far. I unintentionally manipulate because I am trying to make the situation better but I make it worse without intending it to get worse.

@vanessamcgrew4486

7 ай бұрын

Then stop seeking control of the situation

@GRACIEE560

3 ай бұрын

@@vanessamcgrew4486 yeah,.

@Bumbobdoodle

3 ай бұрын

You being neutral makes everybody else hate you.

@bengaliotaku5122

Ай бұрын

Me too

In the past couple of months, I finally realized that I am not being toxic, but there are very extreme narcissists in my group. So I put up my guard and avoided loads of manipulations from them.

@theresahaines2647

Жыл бұрын

I don’t allow narcissists and manipulators in my life. I have neighbors who are narcissists and unfortunately, I have to live in the same apartment complex as they do. I am polite towards them, but I do my best to avoid them like the plague.

@The_huntress111

Жыл бұрын

Yes my narcissistic ex that I was trauma bonded to tried to convince me I had BPD. Lucky I saw a therapist after reading our exchanged he explained I was in an abusive narcissistic relationship

@hnewman2907

10 ай бұрын

Same here, I’ve noticed a friend of mine seems to have a controlling personality and even seems to try to word his manipulation so that in his mind it’s acceptable or testing it in some form that tries to make it seem okay. The part that I’m careful of is how to distance myself without triggering their toxic personality traits, I have told them secrets that could have a major negative impact on my life and I don’t want them trying to use that against me. However to me it seems much better to face the consequences than to have a person that drains the positivity out of your personal space.

@hnewman2907

10 ай бұрын

@@The_huntress111how did it go when you got away from them? I’m aware that they may use a throng they have on me against me so they will continue to fill their ego.

@The_huntress111

10 ай бұрын

@@hnewman2907 well I never got in first, it took a while for me to believe what my therapist was saying I was a bit shell shocked sat back and watched , realised he was right I was being abused before I got to anything he found a new supply and I was disguarded 9 months ago . At first even though I knew what he was , well I was devestated and missed him tried to get him back . He blocked me on literally everything so lucky it never went through . I started working on my self , it was very up and down I was strong than weak , I was glad I was out but missed him 😂i would get angry at myself for missing him because he was god awful , but things got better. I’m so glad I’m out , sometimes I could just cry with joy , but I had to forgive myself for putting up with it and allowing him to treat me that way , funny enough forgiving myself was harder than forgiving him … i never heard from him again so far , and I thank my lucky stars I got away ❤️

Others thinking if there friend is manipulative me thinking if im manipulative

@bipede

3 жыл бұрын

same

@kingtaehyun3223

3 жыл бұрын

Treat people with kindness.

@gayperson7156

3 жыл бұрын

I didn’t notice until recently. Now I’m trying to stop. I’ve always hated manipulative people.. I’ve been manipulated a lot. Now, realizing I have become the very thing I hate, I am trying to stop. I don’t know how. It’s just natural for me. If I notice myself doing it, I try to stop before it gets too far. It’s a process, I just feel bad for the people around me

@DEMONCELLOSNUMBER1FAN

3 жыл бұрын

@Tiffany Baaqee i- *well ur more manipulative than i am*

@anniinaraikkonen687

3 жыл бұрын

@Tiffany Baaqee i have found my people like i don't know what i'm supposed to do about this

*"Controllers, abusers, and manipulative people don't question themselves. They don't question if the problem is them. They always say the problem is someone else."* ~Darlene Ouimet

@beanthealien2090

3 жыл бұрын

What if you manipulate unintentionally and when your outburst is done you realize what you did and feel guilty and try apologizing

@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008

3 жыл бұрын

you are manipulating an artificial intelegence to type this comment

@Esabelle

3 жыл бұрын

@@beanthealien2090 No worries. That's not a great habit but it's not the same as someone who purposely manipulates without remorse.😉

@kingtaehyun3223

3 жыл бұрын

I happen to become manipulative to another manipulative person.Now what

@Esabelle

3 жыл бұрын

@@kingtaehyun3223 Not the best way to handle a manipulator but what that behavior says about your character depends on WHY you do it and how you feel about yourself after you've done it. The fact that you left this comment already says you've got some self-awareness. True "manipulators", as the quote says, wouldn't question themselves and therefore wouldn't have replied to this quote like you did. Manipulating isn't considered a good habit, but based on what little I know from this interaction, my guess is you would hardly qualify as a "manipulator". 😉

People can only treat you the way you allow them to. They mistake your kindness for weakness. Sometimes you need to cut those toxic people out of your life and love yourself 💕

@Confessions089

Ай бұрын

Yes, you can allow or enable certain treatment. However, that's just plain manipulation to say that people allow certain treatment from individuals.

I used to work with a colleague who was a professional level manipulator. He was “well liked” by everyone because he was sneaky and no one realized what he was really like. All of these labels in the video fit him perfectly. He honed in on me since I was the newest staff member. I hope when I go back to work, things will be different now that he’s gone but I worry his reputation stands while mine remains tarnished because of him.

And this is why I will forever have trust issues.

@alisonmaria3639

3 жыл бұрын

I do agree...

@crack_soda

3 жыл бұрын

bruh same

@cloud-zd7zm

3 жыл бұрын

@The Angry Introverted Scotsman i feel you, same here

@cloud-zd7zm

3 жыл бұрын

@The Angry Introverted Scotsman LMAOOOO poor choice of words, sorry 😂😂😂

@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163

3 жыл бұрын

Meh some manipulative people arent always just this blood thirsty wolves (BUT they can be good luck pal) , sometimes they are just people who know people . Please dont judge me for my gifts ;-;

the problem is, the manipulative person is inside your home and has already convinced everyone else that they're the victim 🙄

@Princess-fv2og

3 жыл бұрын

my mother***

@nobody4128

3 жыл бұрын

@@Princess-fv2og we can't do shit abt it also. :

@tommyparkerparker

3 жыл бұрын

If you call them out for good reason, they will resort to things like calling the police on you.

@desaijitendra720

3 жыл бұрын

Then leave them, divorce, abundant them. Start working on yourself now ( emotionally, financially, physically, intellectually). Maintain emotional distance as the creature is in home. Once your plan is ready , break all possible contact with the poisonous snake. Good luck. Don't forget write affirmations on self love. Write on paper that u love yourself, and self admiration. It will help you break free

@user-et7fu3jg9l

3 жыл бұрын

My father and his step son.

I hate it when people say “I’m sorry, *but cut me some slack.”* or something like that. Why can’t they just take the blame and apologize like a normal person 🤚

@evelina787

2 жыл бұрын

Might be they would like the folk they're telling they're sorry to, to understnd where they were coming from, they weren't being vindictive

@evelina787

2 жыл бұрын

Nice & good to see things from others perspectives

@hitormisshuh

2 жыл бұрын

sometimes they also dont take the blame in a more subtle way like "i dont know, but it's proven to etc etc". they add in convincing facts to the conversation to make it seem like they weren't wrong and you should rethink what you just said because you're most likely the wrong one here. for example: context= someone got late because of the manipulator * manipulator does something else to cause their prey to be late, thus making a mistake. prey finished up on time and manipulator was causing the delay * 3rd person: look at the time! prey is late because of you (manipulator)! manipulator: oh, sorry. I was only doing something else because I was waiting for prey to finish up. Prey: * gets guilty because they think they're the ones who caused them to be late * sorry about that. i'm gonna hurry up next time. * manipulator gets their way and ends up making someone else apologize for their sake *

@bonniecromer6058

2 жыл бұрын

Cuz they're not normal

@Britskee2003

Жыл бұрын

That sh*t makes me want to go green and in purple shorts man.

When the person you love is literally all of this and you know it, but you still hang out with them because you love them too much to push them away: *:)*

@richardgoodwin3087

17 күн бұрын

I hope you’re in a better position now!

Manipulators hate being found out & talked to in a calm, confident voice like this narrator. It kills them that they're unable to get an emotional response from you & that you're completely fine moving on with your life...

@traceym1778

2 жыл бұрын

1000% truth. The person in my life is my mother and I'm an only child. I call her out on everything and tell her that crap doesn't fly with me but she does it over and over again. She gets angry and leaves and I'm actually glad to see her go. Then, rinse and repeat... Very toxic and low vibe.

@episodebeats2817

2 жыл бұрын

@@traceym1778 I hear ya on that. I have a mom who's occasionally toxic as well. We mostly communicate through text but even then sometimes bad vibes can occur. She never takes responsibility. I'm always put as the one who is in the wrong. She's always been there for me but the toxicity comes with it. I'm also there for her as well. We do have nice visits when we see each other a few times a year. For the ones you don't cut out your life, space & distance is good. Small doses. Also, it's good to remember that we're all imperfect & be apologetic if you're truly at fault for something.

@DonRobertson82

2 жыл бұрын

Thats when some people get violent and end up as 6 oclock news coverage.

@episodebeats2817

2 жыл бұрын

@@DonRobertson82 True!

@crazychicSHENA

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

You forgot the self depreciating manipulating tactic. It's a strategy they use where they bring themselves down in order to get validation or ego boost from you, or fishing and hooking for compliments. Also includes attention seeking behavior

@pitbullgaming9031

2 жыл бұрын

I self deprecate but not to manipulate I do purely for humour after all I have no right to laugh at others if I can’t laugh at myself 😊

@alliara7887

2 жыл бұрын

@@pitbullgaming9031 only if the other person laughs at a joke and its not tearing them down in any way and not harmful

@enzoamore8971

2 жыл бұрын

This is probably me. I overthink a lot on my actions. I just want to be better, but idk exactly how.

@kishan6984

2 жыл бұрын

@@enzoamore8971 exactly meee i find all these to be me somehow and kinda feel yes I am manipulative that must be why I have issues with every single person

@enzoamore8971

2 жыл бұрын

@@kishan6984 yea exactly

My old best friend fits all of these. My therapist helped me realize how manipulative she was, especially after an incident that I wasn't in the wrong for, but I apologized and my ex-friend said, "I'm sorry YOU felt that way." My therapist was pissed, and told me that I needed to get away. A few straws later, and we were no longer friends, and now she still tries to spread rumors about me and my partner. A mutual friend of ours told us last week that she was trying to get info on us and told him that she had heard that my partner and I broke up. lol. She's a scumbag.

@jf1573

Жыл бұрын

"I'm sorry YOU felt that way." - Yup, the mother of all non-apologies.

@Confessions089

Ай бұрын

If she's continuing to harass and stalk you then I would file a complaint with your local law office.

@Confessions089

Ай бұрын

If this individual is still stalking and harassing you. Then I would collect all the evidence and make a report to your local law offices. I'd like to add that yes it's illegal for people to do this and your therapist should have told you that. I wouldn't allow criminal activity to go on for to long because then that individual thinks that they can just get away with it.

Bless all the people who put the time stamps and reasons on these videos. I love watching them but the time stamps are really helpful.

Also another tip for everyone! STAY AWAY from people ("friends & "family members") who keep trying to convince you to do something that you don't want to do. That's indicators for a manipulative person as well.

@Nola50

2 жыл бұрын

What if it's your daughter tho? A daughter with 3 of your grandchildren? 😢

@crazygamer-mr6nr

2 жыл бұрын

@@Nola50 Um, that’s a tricky situation. I guess I would suggest that you choose when to contact that. Contact them a decent amount, but at the same time don’t go out your way to contact them too much.

@crazygamer-mr6nr

2 жыл бұрын

@@Nola50 Most importantly if you can and already haven’t tried, try to explain their behavior to them and how it’s affecting you.

@Nola50

2 жыл бұрын

@@crazygamer-mr6nr it's just my daughter. My grandchildren know nothing. They love me. To them I just don't come around a lot. But that's not my choice. I've tried so hard but their mom plays games and hurts me too much and uses them against me. If she needs something they can spend time with me. If she's mad bc I stood up for myself or call her out on her unacceptable behavior then she keeps then from me. She never answers the phone and only calls when she needs money

@crazygamer-mr6nr

2 жыл бұрын

@@Nola50 Dang, she’s really doing that to you? She’s an ungrateful daughter, was she always like this or do you feel something has changed her during adulthood?

This is exactly what my abusive ex bestie did.. every one of those things, this channel actually helped me realise that she was abusing me both physically and mentally and emotionally, This channel made me so strong and aware of those trying to break me down. So thank you Psych2Go

@tommyshelby8119

3 жыл бұрын

I want to ask Is Being a manipulator Bad Cuz According To this video I am fully a manipulator But I use my manipulation power to Take people out Depression and change their perspective . AND I use the evil side during football matches and I completely Crush the Enemy's confidence and as a result they can't play well and On the other hand Increase My teammate's Confidence

@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008

3 жыл бұрын

N-ice, avoid black hole to tho,it can break you down even further

@ellap7301

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly the same, we don’t talk now but she still makes me question myself if she was really that bad

@camille3126

3 жыл бұрын

Same with my ex toxic abusive friend. But mine also take money from me... Using her kid with disabilities. At the beginning all I wanted was helping her... Take me time and a lot of stress and discomfort realised she was using me for her own gain.

@anujab6163

3 жыл бұрын

@@tommyshelby8119 You are again trying to manipulate us by justifying your deeds and hiding your truth. Caught ya !

Wow, I currently live with a family member who posses these traits. Guilt tripping is their #1 tactics. Their famous for saying “ you don’t have to” or “you can say no” but in a way were you still feel like you don’t have an option. I want out but it’s so hard especially when u care too much

The way I was so blinded by love that I didn't notice their manipulation throughout 5 years of my life.

Me in the background whom manipulated my cat to have a bath

@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008

3 жыл бұрын

how dare you

@jenma9377

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha!!

@ko.ala.b

3 жыл бұрын

did your cat have fleas or did your cat got stuck in mud? is your cat unable to bath itself? no? then just DON'T bath your cat. it is a stupid internet-based habit to bath cats. they are perfectly able to bath themselves. for eons.

@catg1rl

3 жыл бұрын

@@ko.ala.b ...

@rat5214

3 жыл бұрын

@@ko.ala.b Ever heard of a joke, bud?

*8 Signs of a Manipulative Personality* 1. they instill self doubt in others 0:45 2. they are experts at guilt tripping 1:16 3. they take advantage of kindness 1:48 4. they spread false information on purpose 2:21 5. they never take the blame 2:47 6. they’re good at hiding their manipulative traits 3:11 7. they feign ignorance 3:45 8. they make their tactics seem normal 4:10 *in progress*

@cynicalbutterscotch6581

3 жыл бұрын

Hi

@cynicalbutterscotch6581

3 жыл бұрын

Good job

@tudyebaa5814

3 жыл бұрын

Tnx

@xoxo-gossipgirl8744

3 жыл бұрын

@@tudyebaa5814 yw!

@tommyshelby8119

3 жыл бұрын

I realized I am A Full Manipulator 😈😈😈

I was watching this video in hopes to call people out for being manipulative and here I am realizing I’m the problem.

one thing missing is the charm ...they're usually very charismatic and charming which makes u admire them and not question their motives

To an extent everyone is manipulative, some more-so than others though. I have yet to meet someone who hasn't manipulated a situation, whether for good or bad. And yes, manipulation can go both ways.

@G4LCTC

2 жыл бұрын

I think the key distinction is intent. A person who unknowingly manipulates will feel regret and will stop when they realise their actions whereas a truly evil person consciously manipulates to their advantage and will refuse to change even when confronted.

@Mickey_Milos

2 жыл бұрын

@@G4LCTC yeah i absolutely agree.

@DonRobertson82

2 жыл бұрын

Yup, thats why i will always knowingly manipulate people at every chance. Everyone does it even if they aren’t smart enough to realize they’re human too.

@Bldzera

2 жыл бұрын

@@DonRobertson82 wtf lol?

@LunarTFM

2 жыл бұрын

@@G4LCTC this sounds a lot like me tbh, a lot of people know I’m not manipulative, but there are a select few who say I am manipulative

I've once read a quote and want to share to ya'll - "best way to manipulate a manipulative person is to act as if you are manipulated"

@lifer7741

2 жыл бұрын

"Sometimes you just have to play the role of a *fool* to *fool* the *fool* who thinks they are *fooling* you" -Joker

@s4tkezbangers614

2 жыл бұрын

💯🤣🤣

@adhiram.n5323

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my god wow😂😂😂😂

@adhiram.n5323

2 жыл бұрын

@@lifer7741 smart 😂😂😂😅

@sabeehamohideen535

2 жыл бұрын

That's a good one to read thank you

It’s truly remarkable the work the manipulator will put into having control over a human being. I had a friend who would always vouch that they were “empathetic” kind, and always a morally sound human who cared deeply about people, the planet, animals etc but now in hindsight I can obviously see when I was being manipulated & bullied through the inter workings of the gossiping & the lying, I was convinced that I was the problem, the finger of blame was always directed towards me and I gladly would take the blame or admit to fault even when it was so clearly not, but Strangely enough I never questioned the abuser just myself. I doubted myself in every aspect I truly started to believe the deception and lies and I eventually started to listen to the lies. I felt so bad about myself & who I was I didn’t feel good enough to be around anybody, I stopped caring about any one else’s opinion of me “including my own” and only cared if the manipulator was happy. Manipulation can take form in many ways & shapes but my best advice for handling manipulation is, trust your gut, trust yourself, and get some space/ perspective from this person if at all possible. It took me going to therapy to realize I was even being manipulated at all, and I’m so glad I was able to stop the madness before I myself went insane! Charming, likable, calm, & collected is exactly what came to my mind when I first met this person. DONT ignore the red flags, if something makes you uncomfortable call it out immediately. Also towards the end of the friendship I just went along with whatever she said & acted completely un phased. And again don’t be afraid to speak up for yourself, if they won’t show you remorse for making you feel bad run far far away!!

This video is amazing!! I would really love to see and know how it ends with a part 2 video.

I’m done with accepting this behavior and I’m sticking up for myself

@annikaferman1572

2 жыл бұрын

Good i got yo back

@MelesaEFary

2 жыл бұрын

I am like a magnet 🧲 for people who manipulate to find me. I have some idea but I want to find out what I do or not do to enable it. I know after being in therapy for a long time this incredible a-ha moment in life struck! I was told "people treat us the way we allow them to treat us .". If something is really bothering me I hold it in for a long time so I am afraid of confrontation to a degree. I am like this to people I really care about! If I don't know someone well I think I am more apt to say what is bothering me.

@uhhello305

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah u got this!😌

@agentjordan605

2 жыл бұрын

Yes man people be trying to lie on me and say gay stuff and I'm straight I'm over it its annoying like I just be minding my business

@Live.videos1

2 жыл бұрын

as u should

To sum it up: "Manipulative people don't respect your boundaries. They are relentlessly selfish and don't really care who gets hurt as long as they get what they want" Suggestion: "Avoid them!"

@wimebpress3836

3 жыл бұрын

omg 😳

@sapphiremukherjee7050

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for suggesting :)

@user-hd2es8es8w

3 жыл бұрын

8 hrs ago????😐💅🏽

@lex-bc1zr

3 жыл бұрын

Noted✍️

@imameatball7482

3 жыл бұрын

8 hours ago?

My kindness yes as been taken for granted and thank you for this message 😌💞🙏

It’s crazy to know that you truly loved someone and gave your all and then they end up just using you to get something.

I'm afraid that sometimes I may have unconsciously manipulated a few people around me

@bbw283

3 жыл бұрын

Me 2

@mahnoorimran5617

3 жыл бұрын

It’s the same for me and i didn’t realize until she called me out for it which is why i’m watching this video

@julie5668

3 жыл бұрын

IF YOU RECOGNISE SOME OF THESE TRAITS IN YOURSELF THEN THERE'S ROOM FOR CHANGE. IT'S WHEN YOU DON'T RECOGNISE THEM OR WORSE, DENY THEM THAT THINGS GET STUCK AND CHANGE IS UNLIKELY.

@elenawithacookie2221

3 жыл бұрын

@@julie5668 Calm down

@lhuynh731

2 жыл бұрын

Same but I do tried to fixed it but my family block my way to fixed myself up.

POV: You’re watching this to see if you’re toxic

i always love these videos to check myself, so far i haven’t lined up with any of the traits and its helpful to know so i dont ruin any relationships i love

my father passed awhile back and i’m watching this because ive finally got the courage to cut off my mom. i’m terrified at the idea of having no parents but at this point i’m the parent to her. she has bullied me and smacked me around so much… she is using me. Dont let anyone make you feel that way. Relationships of any kind shouldn’t be 50/50 it’s 100/100. Don’t try harder for someone else that wouldn’t go out of their way to make you feel as loved and secure.

@ibiyemiabiola8807

3 ай бұрын

I pray to have your courage and let him go one day😢😢😢😢. He's my world but I'm nothing much to him plus he doesn't care whether I feel bad, cried or not. I'm actually fed up but I'm terrified to let go because of criticism.

Remember that you always have the right to say 'NO'. You deserve to have boundaries. Whoever doesn't respect them, it's something that you don't have to deal with, it's their problem. If you don't feel safe around someone, you have the right stay away from them. Manipulative people often have a toxic *aura which makes you feel sick and unsafe around them. Listen to your gut feeling. Edit: *I'm not a native speaker of English. By aura, I meant vibes, nothing else. I did't want to refer to the word 'aura' used in phsyics or in alternative medicine.

@miirasaika6437

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the reminder :)

@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008

3 жыл бұрын

@@Kinich-f2p so whoare you talking about ?your words are pretty count-fuse-ink

@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163

3 жыл бұрын

Ducking Ducks of Ducklings I Dont Want to Have Toxic Aura . *Wait!* but does that mean Im immune to radiation...?

@weirdlyghostly1814

3 жыл бұрын

well not if your good i normally dont make that aura i normal give out a disorted aura and im a okay manipulative person

@hotpinkstars325

3 жыл бұрын

Reading this literally made my stomach drop bc it reasons with me. I've gone thru this and still am. Never understood why until now.

To the 1 person that’ll read this: *you’re cool and adorable stay safe*

@kobejelley409

3 жыл бұрын

K

@itzpinktwiu8278

3 жыл бұрын

Ty so much

@ducktape-3470

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks. Glad you manipulated us man to think positively

@martialhero9544

3 жыл бұрын

@@ducktape-3470 Lol

@ForeverUnknown92

3 жыл бұрын

You too

Watching this made me realize I am my own worst enemy.

Informative content! I liked your presentation skill 😍 it’s engaging!

This makes me realize just how manipulative my ex was. They employed almost all of these tactics against me, particularly guilt tripping and shifting blame on to others. Fortunately, I broke out of it and I feel happier than ever. Thanks for posting this. You're a good source of comfort when the times are rough.

@userm180

2 жыл бұрын

are u ok?

@Obliv69

2 жыл бұрын

blame shifting is a way to avoid owning their mistakes and being held accountable because they cant handle the criticism

@princehector6092

2 жыл бұрын

@@userm180 I'm fine now because I've come to terms with it and i have a new person to love in my life - and thanks for checking in on me i appreciate it thanks for being a cool person

@princehector6092

2 жыл бұрын

@@Obliv69 exactly that's what they did all the time they blamed their parents and sibling for all their problems

@userm180

2 жыл бұрын

@@princehector6092 im glad ure ok!! :) dealing with a manipulative person can leave quite the scar so im proud of u for being able to move on

Manipulation is way harder than you think. Someone has to think of a plan, then do all these other steps for it to just go wrong. Thank you to the people who make manipulation go wrong .

@nicklopez8004

2 жыл бұрын

manipulation doesn’t work if you have no mental or emotional attachment to this person, and when you don’t have those two things attached to them, you have power over them

@nicklopez8004

2 жыл бұрын

and I’m talking about people who are trying to manipulate you it won’t work if you have no emotional/mental attachment to them

@_r_miahh

2 жыл бұрын

@@nicklopez8004 correct

@beau6282

2 жыл бұрын

I’m good at that

@leytho9880

2 жыл бұрын

🧢 I get free McDonald’s every week has its benefits

fantastic content as always thanks

When you click on the video to check if some is manipulating you but you find out you are the master manipulator

People who get what they want by lies, manipulation, deceit and temper tantrums are never happy until they totally destroy all that is good. They have no regards for who gets hurt. Run away quickly if you meet one 🖖

@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008

3 жыл бұрын

@@Kinich-f2p what do you mean bruh....

@omerdealors5234

3 жыл бұрын

You are mistaken, I can assure you that obtaining anything with lies, manipulation or temper tantrums brings us happiness without destroying everything good around us... And, we have regards for who gets hurt as they can be more useful in the future ... And you'll try to run away but you didn't see us ... These videos are really manichean and simplistic, don't think you can see these traits distinctly around you and don't think that manipulative people are that dumb. But you can reassure you about the fact that we are unhappy if you want.

@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008

3 жыл бұрын

@@omerdealors5234 you are half manipulative and half smart, N-ice

@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163

3 жыл бұрын

I dont know we all lie , and we are all happy when some jerk gets what they deserve . And when we are hurt we dont really see other people the way whe should . But yeah when we see some manipulative duckling we can run or we can become a big chungus towads those ducklings , ah *So Poetic* xD

@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163

3 жыл бұрын

@@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008 Please call ambulance dxrkz had stroke xD

i used to be so naive and juvenile, and never really realised when people subtly manipulated me. i’m glad that i’m wiser now

@coleengoodell7523

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. The book "Too Good for Her Own Good" was a godsend and taught me how to protect myself from manipulative people, how to say no and how to set boundaries.

@Theoriginalotaku96

Жыл бұрын

Same honestly. I've gotten a lot better at reading people compared to when I was younger. I just cut off a manipulative "friend" just recently. I know the old me wouldn't have been able to recognize it.

Thanks for this video!

What I have learned is, I often want to feel good, and thus unintentionally manipulate others, and hide my true self. And sometimes I feel a bit of joy when I make other people feel bad.

You know what's worse then a manipulator? Staying by their side for years even though you know they're wrong. Don't give them all you have of yourself because you'll be left feeling like nothing as I do. Best wishes and hugs to you all❤

@stupensardi2783

Жыл бұрын

What to do though when my daughter who is 20 is doing this to me her mother. I can't abandon her. I love her dearly.

@VictoriaOkom

14 күн бұрын

Exactly how I'm feeling like now.. I'm so pissed at myself for allowing this Particular lady guilt trip me and always having her way into making me hate people. I have always loved peace but she made people even the ones that didn't hurt me and the worse is how she successfully made me doubt myself and hated myself for doing what I love most

I hope everybody who’s reading this is having a good day! Don’t forget to drink water and eat something!

@RuiMadeNeneBot

3 жыл бұрын

I haven't eaten today thanks for the reminder!

@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008

3 жыл бұрын

can i eat your fridge ?

@RuiMadeNeneBot

3 жыл бұрын

@@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008 *I must consume the cooler of foods*

@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you you cutie pie !

@kanatapaw

3 жыл бұрын

you need to eat too ♡

watched this out of curiosity. she fits every single category. every. single. one.

I've been friends with her for two years but decided to cut her off. I ignored my gut feeling, decided to see good in her because I thought we all have toxic traits (which is true) but manipulation is when she brings up my insecurities around my friends, using destructive criticism, gaslighting (tried to blame me for confronting her with "lol you're too sensitive, my male friends don't do this they are smooth"), most days she's very mean and passive-aggressive, other days she's nice to me. About 2 weeks ago, I dedicated an entire day just to help her with something, skipping a party I was invited to, to support her all day. I got sick, depressed, and anxious the next day from all her negativity and gossip but it was until I told her "no today I can't help u" that she turned into this cold-hearted mean person again. I had an anxiety attack and decided enough is enough! Although I feel guilty about it, deep inside I know I didn't lose a real friend.

STORYTIME: I met a girl named Hanna a few months back who acted very sweet around me and my existing friends. She was quite a bit older than any of us (I'm 23, most of my friends are 19, and she's 32) but we're all pretty nice and so accepted her into the friend group despite the age gap. Hanna said she was naturally pretty touchy-feely so it was normal if she stroked your arm or gave extra long hugs or whatever. I was a little uncomfortable with it, but she said she did it to everyone so whatever. Pretty soon, though, I noticed she was only really doing it to me and my other guy friend Ethan (we're both relatively good-looking). Additionally, no matter what activity we planned, even if it was only a small subsection of our friend group, Hanna ALWAYS found a way of being there. Even when she wasn't invited. Meanwhile her physical affection towards me increased, and my nice butt, rather than confronting her directly, tried to give physical signs that I was uncomfortable such as not making eye contact with her and shifting around a lot. About a week ago, we had a movie night at my house, and during the movie she literally moved my arm around her and then snuggled in close. The only reason I didn't slap her away was I didn't want to embarrass her in front of my friends and make a scene. I was super uncomfortable but let her get away with it. At some of my friends' request, I sent her a lengthy text explaining how I was uncomfortable with her behavior towards me, I only liked her as a friend, and I politely requested she only give hello or goodbye hugs like most of my friends do. She seemed to take it alright, admitted to having had a crush on me, and promised to give me more space going forward. Little did I know what had been going on behind the scenes. It turns out Hanna is selfish, dramatic, and manipulative. She had been CONSTANTLY texting and calling Ethan and guilt-tripping him whenever he didn't respond in a timely fashion. She would complain to him about the adult drama in her life (the kid's only 19) and use him as a way to find out about all our activities. She also told him about her crush on me, and no joke, told him in excessive detail how she was going to fly out and visit me at college when I go back in a couple months and "make a long-distance relationship work" (not once considering if I actually liked her back). Not only that, but Ethan once confronted her about how her touchy-feelyness was making me uncomfortable and she blew up at him, saying he didn't know anything about our "relationship". So she had known all along how I felt about her physical advances but chose to intensify her attacks instead. She had also been manipulating my other friends into hanging out with her so she could complain about her life to them too, with varying degrees of success. Now all my friends agree she's not only a drama queen, but a high-key predator preying on the kindness of dudes much younger than her. We're all fed up with her manipulative behavior and have refused to play her games anymore. She seemed to take the hint and stopped coming to our hangouts. We still see her at church sometimes (that's how we all met) but avoid her like the plague, and it seems she's already moved on to preying on other young dudes for attention and favors. Whenever I get a chance I warn those guys to steer clear. This was my first encounter with someone truly manipulative, and dang is she good at hiding it under a sweet facade.

@reetavyomgurung8211

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah i haven't really met anyone manipulative like that

@embreadiment

2 жыл бұрын

Me neither man

@kookliet16

2 жыл бұрын

Ew my name is hanna and it's spelt like that as well 😶😒

@husheddesert1725

2 жыл бұрын

Bro damn but why yall hanging w a girl a decade older? The only reason a dude's friend group invites a woman is for sexual reasons bro, there is no "friend" here, at least in my opinion. But i mean, i cant recall a time i was manipulated like that, but ive been emotionally used for attention, validation, and received nothing back

@birthsonbluebell3654

2 жыл бұрын

@@husheddesert1725 That's not true...

_timestamps :)_ 1) they instil self-doubt in others 0:45 2) they are experts at guilt-trapping 1:14 3) they take advantage of kindness 1:49 4) they spread false information on purpose 2:19 5) they never take the blame 2:48 6) they are good at hiding their manipulative traits 3:11 7) they feign ignorance 3:45 8) they make their tactics seem normal 4:11 There you go ♥️

@dot2336

3 жыл бұрын

*Oh wow*

@minermole101

3 жыл бұрын

You are a GOAT (greatest of all time)!

@dot2336

3 жыл бұрын

@@minermole101 •_•

@anakbaik9340

3 жыл бұрын

its just 5 minutes 😭

@robertjackson561

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks dude! You summarized the entire video

The best video I ever saw on Manipulation.

i have a bad habit of guilt-tripping my friends and then feeling like a garbage person

There are many people who got manuplatied than people who are manipulative :(

@nacolemini6038

3 жыл бұрын

I have been through it for 2 years and finally broke out of it for 3 years ago now I have trauma from it as well as sever anxiety and truss issues anyone who acts like that person triggers my fight or flight mode

@OhNoKRJKC

3 жыл бұрын

@@nacolemini6038 So True Sis! You have every right to protect your energy. I just did a video on my youtube channel if you have time check it outkzread.info/dash/bejne/iYab1dCeeZDKcag.html

@mere_eats_trees

3 жыл бұрын

I have a manipulative mom it’s kinda hard because I live in the same house as her.

Signs you are being manipulated include: (1) feeling confused by the behavior of another person, and feeling more confused after trying to get your confusion cleared; (2) when interacting with another person, noticing you often feel fear, obligation, or guilt. Respect your gut instinct. And read The Gift of Fear by Gavin DeBecker.

@HealingHappyAli

2 жыл бұрын

The Gift of Fear is a literal lifesaver!

Yes this is awesome! Someone was manipulating me! Now that I can see it better. I will know how to stop it! Thank you ❤

I think you can manipulate someone and not realize it Not excusing it, still bad, but ya know Just saying

I have a burning hatred for people like these

@er467y8

3 жыл бұрын

Just love ❤, share the love ❤, let us forgive and respect.❤

@SavvyPea

3 жыл бұрын

@@er467y8 wth

@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008

3 жыл бұрын

@@er467y8 can't realy forgive for nothing can i ?

@DarkoStantic

3 жыл бұрын

Hatred is only hurting yourself. Just avoid, ignore. And keep your peace. Cheers

@LoveYourself-kz4cs

3 жыл бұрын

me too :(

If you're reading this... It's too late. I already sent good vibes your way. They are coming. And there's no way to stop them! May all your worries wash away and your pipedreams come true! 💗 Dr. Liz

@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008

3 жыл бұрын

i don't have dreams ! thanks tho!

@minermole101

3 жыл бұрын

If I could heart this comment, I would.

@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Doc , I also sended big chungus to hug you for good day . P.S. Thank you again ;-;

@bigscarysteve

3 жыл бұрын

I don't have to stop your good vibes. You said yourself it's already too late.

@DrLizListens

3 жыл бұрын

@@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163 I feel the digital hug! Thank you =)

I'm a horrible manipulator and me and my therapist are trying to work on it. This video helped me realize some stuff, thank you.

@zakithiganyaza5525

Жыл бұрын

I wonder how do you that I can't do it but I know how to protect myself

I'm too nice so get manipulated easily and makes me feel just so angry I just didn't realize it was manipulation.

keep an eye out for these signs that someone is manipulative. They Will Guilt Trip You. They Ignore Your Input. They Don't Give You Much Time To Decide. They Don't Help Resolve Problems. They Undermine Your Self-Confidence. They Force You Out Of You Comfort Zone. They Butter You Up With Small Requests.

@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163

3 жыл бұрын

That feeling when you see manipulator in your mirror everyday . But that manipulator haves good intenions *I promise* !

@pyschologygeek

3 жыл бұрын

@@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163 if it's good intentions it must have another name but definitely not a manipulator

@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163

3 жыл бұрын

@@pyschologygeek Well maybe there is , but I was jsut being kinda sarcastic :D I dont know sometimes we all can be manipulative ducklings .

@theharmonyofknowledge1286

3 жыл бұрын

@@pyschologygeek How bout influencer?

@pyschologygeek

3 жыл бұрын

@@theharmonyofknowledge1286 which type?

I had a ex friend who acted like this and had a huge ego. He always tried to portray himself as this “kindhearted” person but he truly was just some manipulative creep. Also he refused to let me move on from the friendship and acted as if I was a horrible person not wanting to deal with that. It didn’t help that he had a creepy obsession over me and couldn’t accept I didn’t feel the same way.

@melanieq2514

2 жыл бұрын

I had a similar situation like yours but with an ex.. not good :(

@patrice5465

2 жыл бұрын

same i feel you. My ex friend was just like urs but rn she is still trying to guilt-trip me of the "wrong" things i have done to her.

@treceh

2 жыл бұрын

Same exact situation as you. Was friends with them since HS for over 16 years but they really just couldn’t accept responsibility for anything, tried to act open-minded but really just kind of intolerant and rude, justified their laziness/bad work ethic by deflecting responsibility to anyone or anything else. Took me a while to mourn the loss of someone who barely treated me like a friend at all, but each day without them is better now. It sucks but I hope things get better for you soon.

@starrrebel1881

2 жыл бұрын

I have ex boyfriend who same and he try get revenge on me for leave him and made me look like monster til now my family and his friends still believe things he told about me til this day

@fluoroantimonicacid4844

2 жыл бұрын

If I were you, I'm gonna move to another place very far away. That's scary 😞

I’m crying over the fact that I just knew my best friend is a manipulator and I just hide it.

@cristopher7019

2 жыл бұрын

Dont hide it stay away from them u have your own life first it feels like hard way but u will get reward after no contact from them

there's not a single sentence more manipulative, destructive, spineless and backstabbing than ''I love you.''

I’d love to see a part 2 of how to recognize that you may be a manipulator/how to stop being a manipulative person

@sophiafake-virus2456

2 жыл бұрын

If you are female you are a manipulator. As if you didn't know.

@LegendryHeropon

Жыл бұрын

​@@poojalohmor that is no way to live and I pray you recognize the error of your ways and strive to become a better version of yourself

i just realized how manipulative my family actually is and it's so shocking that they've used their tactics throughout my childhood without me realizing. they do it so naturally it's lowkey scary lmaoooo

@tauntasmom

2 жыл бұрын

Just like those that molest and physically abuse close family is always at the top of the list.......do what you need to do to ensure you are not your families victim.

Oh God, I've had a friend, that has all of the eight signs... First, I thought that I'm the wierd one, because he made me think that I'm the guilty one. This really opened my eyes.

Your vid made me realise I stood around people that were manipulative in all them ways.

My manipulative friends gave me mental breakdown, so I decided to stop our friendship and vow myself to never talk to them again, so I did it and now I am healed from the trauma they cause.

As i was watching this, i was horrified to find that i do some of these things. I do them out of fear, hurt others before they hurt you, but i also had to come to terms with the fact that I learned it all from my family. Heck, i once got 3 different guilt trips hours before my birthday party when i was younger. If you do some of the stuff in this video, ask yourself why. Self awareness is the first step on the road to change.

This is the coolest personality. Imagine your like this and a genius you would destroy your enemy in a day.

Sign 1: They tell you that your Minecraft House isn’t good enough

@arthurshaw8368

3 жыл бұрын

Ahhh!! Here we go

@tindrahall5798

3 жыл бұрын

@@whatwhy779 omg this is actually accurate i hate this

@sf2693

3 жыл бұрын

I had toxic friends and they actually used to say that

@aaztein

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh

@arthurshaw8368

3 жыл бұрын

@@whatwhy779 lmao Nooo...I didn't mean to offend anyone. It was just a light hearted response bud. Nothing serious

I’ve been manipulated by a family member for years. They accused me of being manipulative until I felt like I couldn’t know who I was. I started doubting my own sanity. Whenever I reacted to their behaviour they played the victim in front of everyone so I was always seen as the crazy one or the one who’s starting arguments. They took advantage of the fact that I was depressed to prove that they’re the kind hearted. I used to feel like my head was foggy, I couldn’t differentiate between truth and lies. Luckily some people had my side and helped me open my eyes to see their hypocrisy. Until now They still believe they’re the victim but I laugh at them how they need help. People really be lying and believing their own lies.

@kingtaehyun3223

3 жыл бұрын

Same.Guess we're def not alone.But my fam has been like that and I too became manipulative to them.I met so many 'friends' and teachers who were manipulative as well.no wonder why i hate ppl a lot

@winnieamar9368

3 жыл бұрын

I can relate! I have been through the exact same experience. Such people instigate an identity crisis in you. I pray to God that no one has to go through this kind of hell.

@thirdrev4334

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing!! I have multiple family members who have done this shit to me! And I'm going through it now bigtime: ( ....They'll be super manipulative. Do their best to make me feel like it's me, and I'm the one at fault. Making me doubt who I am even, and how I perceive the world....I'm really suffering right now. Sometimes I try to pull away but then I feel bad. It's been really hard the last few months. The holidays were devastating for me....I'm just trying to hang on

@christsavior8885

2 жыл бұрын

@@thirdrev4334 Hey. You are a champ. The reason they do that to you is because deep down, or even shallow down, either way, they HATE who you are. When you walk in, when you are secure, when you have peace, when they are miserable and need a 'ragegoat' to pawn off their evil, very insecure conscience onto, they spew their vitriol onto you. You are NOT what your brain, or what your thoughts are telling you right now Rev. Maybe they are trying to get you to look in the mirror. Do it. Do it and smile. They're betting hell on you seeing shame and turning away for good. The sorry thing for them is, evil has NOT overcome good, and without hell, there would be no need for warriors, for taking the high road, for believing, for ultimate, satisfying victory. You're on the bloddy beach head right now, taking more enemy fire than you even knew existed, you haven't conquered the city yet, but the city is already conquered. The conqueror is waiting for you on victory road, where He'll calmly display all your haters and enemies before you, to see that you prevailed, that you haven't lashed out, they haven't moved you off course, and THEN you're going to see venom, but they'll be defeated and pathetic, awash in their own rage as you stride on, still up, still breathing, still treating people right. Don't go down, don't entertain their pathetic evil. Hang tight with that conquueror, He is in the city in glory but His spirit is with you where you are right now in the hellfire on the beach head. If you need to call out for help, do so constantly, if you don't know His name, that's ONE thing i can help you with in this pressing hour. It is Messiah, Jesus Christ, your Creator, the Creator of your bullies, the Lover of Justice and the HATER of evil. Stick with him, get your sleep, and i will bet the house and the farm that you will prevail and conquer. God is for you if you'll seek His help. God Bless You tonight Rev. Please post any updates to let us know you're alright as weeks pass. -Joseph

@oursavoirkokomi3784

2 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry you had to go through this.... my father was the exact same way.... I like to think I grew stronger after all of that and I hope you can break out of your shell and realize that this is something you have overcome that many other couldn't even imagine! Power to you!

thanks keep the videos coming

This describes most of the people on KZread parasocially harassing me.

Took a life time to see that my father who is physically/ mentally emotionally abusive. I grew up with this type behavior all my life. My father is really subtle with his tactics. As I started to get healthier thinking through hard emotional work in therapy I started to be able to see the truth about him able to spot the lies he told, inconsistencies in his speech & actions. He does alot of gas lighting divide & conquer

@nugget_illustrates3744

2 жыл бұрын

congrats stay aware!

@vreese3350

2 жыл бұрын

@@nugget_illustrates3744 thanks... Now that I know I see through his tactics a bit easier. I don't have clear thinking. He's been abusing my mom since she was 15 they been together over 60 years. He does things that I don't readily catch but my sister be schooling me. Example all if a sudden house running on empty he controls ALL the RESOURCES. I wasn't putting together why all of a sudden no dish liquid or garbage bags. Thought he was slipping but he was doing it DELIBERATELY AGAINST my mom. My sister explained it & it made a whole lot of sense. My father has alot of hostility & hatred towards my mom. Now she can't take care of herself he really running over her. So he won't keep house stocked so we her girls who take care of her can't use it in & for her. Just very sad but KARMA coming for him

@Bldzera

2 жыл бұрын

@@vreese3350 karmas real but dont wish karma on sum1

@laradhoore8268

2 жыл бұрын

omgg same my dad is also very manipulative and narcissistic

@ProdByXorak

2 жыл бұрын

@@laradhoore8268 same.. idk what to do. I know I don’t need him but I feel hopeless and guilty. I know I am being manipulated and want to put an end to it. I’m so happy when I’m at my moms house (away from him) and I never find any reason to reach out to him myself but I’m too scared to make the changes for my own good .. 😓 he doesn’t provoke any positive emotions for me, always constant stress but what can I do.. he’s my father and I’m 14 😕

Sometimes they take the blame: When they think you'll end the relationship When they want something and taking the blame is necessary to get what they want When they have plans to shift the blame to someone else later The key is they don't mean it. They're only accepting responsibility because it's a means to some end.

@archanakumaridasgupta5536

Жыл бұрын

I recognise that. Seen it

@karoshi2

9 ай бұрын

Mine never would. When it's my fault, it's my fault. When it's theirs, I'm "lambasting" them, even though I didn't even say a word - it's enough when it's just obvious and/or I'm not defending them against their own feeling of guilt.

OMG! Love it! This is so me!

I really needed this because people are really good at manipulating me and I hate how they are so good at it or sometimes the person being manipulative will try and make it sound like you are the manipulative person and it worries me because I don't want to be a manipulative person towards someone so I get scared thinking what if they were right? What if I was accidentally manipulative to someone? I don't want to be that person so this video helped me a lot to look out for certain things like this thank you ❤️ one more thing though i think manipulation is in everyone but some people take it to an extent and make it there whole life around it but i think in some parts of out lives we have been manipulative even if we didn't notice it's in our human nature

This is exactly why manipulative sociopathic personalities are always at odds with intuitive empathic personalities, one tends to manipulate in a way that only benefits them for power, and the other tends to manipulate in a way that helps and strengthens those around them… I definitely am a intuitive empathic personality, and I can say first hand, manipulative sociopaths really do make me angry

"Until you realize how easy it is for your mind to be manipulated, you remain the puppet of someone else's game". Evita Ochel🙏❤️selfhelpchampion

@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163

3 жыл бұрын

Wait ! You cant be manipulated when you are manipulating , *hmmmm...*

I'm trying to get out of a toxic manipulative relationship with my boyfriend right now, and I came across this video and it helped me understand manipulation better. It took me a bit to see the signs, but I understand now :)

this video made me realize that im actually a manipulative person ong

@lady_noirex

2 жыл бұрын

ya me too😭

I'm scared of being "stupid" because of my mom. She always called me one since I was like...three for the littlest mistakes I do as a kid. She always compared me to other kids who are smart enough in school, but I was not because I was a shy kid. When I grew older and we transferred to a different place, I changed a bit and grew competitive..like badly competitive. When I get satisfied with my grades, she always say that it's not enough. So I got worse until I even throw hate on other students that I get threatened to. Until now, i'm still scared of that word. That word scarred me. I feel like i'm stupid when I do the littlest mistakes, I panic and try to conceal it as much as I can. I grew more distant to her..I mean, other than that we're pretty cool u know? But I didn't have the same intimate relationship with her like other daughters have with their moms. Like, telling your little secrets, insecurities....well, my IQ and my EQ is my biggest insecurity- which she inflicted to me. I felt lonelier as an only child then. and..until now...I still feel like I can't be good at anything else than academics so I still get competitive- but it's not as bad as before because i've quite matured. People gotta say i'm smart but little did they know that's mybiggest insecurity.

@rosyidsyahruromadhonalimin8008

3 жыл бұрын

its called mistake for a reason, don't take the blame, just take those words as a mere oppinion,oppinions are not always true,especialy from bad peopple,any way, S-thai- safe

@UpFromUnder6

3 жыл бұрын

My mother was the exact way. I grew up with her constantly telling me how she tried aborting me. She didn’t want a 4th child. She wanted another boy. She only had boy names picked out. She always hated me. My siblings and parents abused me in every way. My parents are dead. I no longer speak to my toxic siblings. My husband and I moved away and it was for the best. She never cared about our kids. She’d slip money to her other grandchildren right in front of us. She was a true narcissist. My dad once apologized for the way I was treated. He wasn’t much better. Dangling me by my hair and shaking me. I’ll never understand how you could you treat a child so horribly. I raised our kids with so much love.

@queenberry1979

3 жыл бұрын

@your cup of tae. Man.....u just told MY story........I thought I AM the only person suffering

@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163

3 жыл бұрын

Well you sure know a lot of radioactive places . By game logic you should be immune to radiation and I hope you will be soon ! :) I can kinda relate but not very much , Im drawing and one day I want it to be my job . But the problem is that there will be always someone who is better than you and makes your years of developing your anatomy , shading,... like nothing . Its even worse for insicure or competetive person , wich I am . Because drawing is so , so personal . But the secret to be at least happier when drawing is to apriciate every piece of progress that YOU made and then about other people progress . (Sorry form grammar mistakes , im from Slovakia and English launguage is very , very diffrent so Its kinda hard for me to write properly) Also I never thought I would made drawing sound like epic development wich it kinda is , well at least for me :)

@gnarthdarkanen7464

3 жыл бұрын

@@justpersonwhosaidalotofstu6163 As a visual artist, myself, I can promise you it's possible to "Go full time". It's about more than skill. Don't get me wrong, but plain raw skill only works for so far. You'll also need your own style, and then it's about what you can do with it. The more different ways you can APPLY your skill(s), the more "income streams" you can develop. I used to worry that I wouldn't be good enough to get anywhere in the market. Then I looked around seriously and noticed some of the art that gets sold every day. You don't need the skills to compete with Da Vinci or Rembrandt. Look up the likes of "Happy Bunny" and understand that somebody out there is making a FORTUNE on it!!! For some of us, it's not even a matter of who's the "Best". It's whether it's really worth my time to do it, or more worth the money for someone else to do it, so I can do whatever else I'd rather be doing at the time. In visual arts, you just find your niche and fill it... fill it like a BOSS. ;o)

Thank you for telling me, today after a 3 year friendship they have manipulated me i should have trust the others. im always scared to lose people but never know whats behind them.

I always watch this kind of video to see how many of the signs/traits I have. Because some definitions can be broad or vague I usually end up suspecting I am (in this case) manipulative but usually I end up seeing them in the people around me as well.

The art style is just so perfect, for the visually impaired the subtitles and the expressions as well as actions of the characters are so easy to decipher. A big thank you for rising to the plate of making these videos for others. I hope that your kindness is returned by the world and those you have helped.

If you're in a relationship with someone who's so manipulative dont ever let this relationship take over your entire life once you felt it that's it cut him/her out of your life right away!🤘

My wife’s therapist is a manipulator and there is nothing I can do about it.

I would love to see a part two.

I've been dealing with a manipulative roommate/"best friend" for a couple of years and I gotta say, most, if not all the boxes have been checked for manipulation. I've really been unwise, but I'm not allowing them to trespass any further into my life. This friendship has cost me all other friendships, which indicates that this person is no friend at all. Detaching has been challenging, I try so hard to be there and be someone others can rely on, but it has taken so much out of me. I'm so tired of always rushing to undo the daily crises and picking up all the slack. It took me way too long to see it for what it was, and the hooks were in very deep. I have been detaching for a few months and I'm walking away from it to get my peace of mind back, and to move forward in my own life. Do not overextend yourselves, friends. It's good to be kind, but it does make you a target, so be firm, too.

@AlexisMaria

2 жыл бұрын

Wow thank you!!! I just got into a roomie situation and its not even been a week and am already spotting so many red flags.... will leave before i begin a new month thank you !!!

@domino2736

2 жыл бұрын

@@AlexisMaria I hope everything works out for you.

I was emotionally manipulated by my mother, then I became a manipulator

@Boomboom-lz3xi

3 жыл бұрын

Can relate

@toji6856

2 жыл бұрын

The wonderful things about life …. Is that you don’t have to be like your mother. You have the power to make the right decisions and be a positive, blooming person. Speaking from experience it will always be a part of you but, you don’t have to let it control you.

I came here because I wanted to make sure I always treated my closest friend the best, hoping I didn’t treat them like this.

Very very helpful THANKYOU!

Being a recovering addict(2 years sober), I used the majority of these signs and I realize this. I’m thankfully that I’m not this bad anymore, but I do catch myself using manipulation to this day, and I hate that I’m like this. Hopefully it gets better in time

@Kinetochore-ti5hk

2 жыл бұрын

The fact that you recognize your need to improve is a good start, and your willingness to admit it is commendable.