Hey PSYCH-Os!👋 *So, have you noticed that you have an effect on people as an INFJ?* Comment down below 👇

@jmelee28

10 ай бұрын

I so experience this wherever I go or where I work! As I age, thank goodness that I understand this better. I used to blame myself a lot.

@richardcurley1129

9 ай бұрын

Well, small town living. I don't so much affect people as Ali scare and confuse them. Animals, however, I have a strong effect on. And young children love me and my energy. A few unknowing HSP individuals have absolutely freaked out in my presence. Either from my seeing through them. Or they get an amplification, they aren't ready for.

@jaycaudill4329

8 ай бұрын

I find that people are intimidated by my silence when they are all freaking out about something that don't matter

@Angel-gb9gi

3 ай бұрын

ive noticed i make people want to bring a reaction out in me. like they want to see me triggered.

It’s bc God is driving us for the purpose to help others!!

I've observed another effect I have on people - I scare the hell out of them. They think I'm not paying attention; I go and prove I am. They've forgotten a specific detail; I bring it up. They think I'm a pushover only to wind up being the ones who got shoved, and very hard. That's just the tip of the iceberg.

@light9623

9 ай бұрын

Except for me bc I'm an INFJ. You don't frightened me even if you're evil. I'd just look at the evil one as spiritually immature.

Those closest to me think I'm passive, a push-over and silly for being such a day dreamer. But I have had complete strangers that I met come and hunt me down again just to tell me "Thank you" for the positive impact my advice had on their life.

@Ash_03

8 ай бұрын

Same.

@mariagordanier3404

2 ай бұрын

Same here!

They all think Im wild dreamer. They think that the things I do will never actually accomplish anything in the end. But they obviously don't know anything about me.

@gregjohansson1677

11 ай бұрын

You may relate to this.... everyone agrees we are misunderstood, but the definitions get warped along the way. They view misunderstood as lost& crazy. We know the truth,misunderstood means they lack in vital knowledge we possess.

@cc1k435

10 ай бұрын

They lack the scope for the way our minds work. I do everything I set out to do, sooner or later.

@sigma2394

9 ай бұрын

Both insightful and on track. Thank you. ❤

@bossabaked

8 ай бұрын

I felt this way

@Tme3316

6 ай бұрын

Well Said!

I once worked with a very toxic person who seemed to have it out for me. I think just by being myself I subconsciously triggered her shame and she saw me as an obstacle to what she thought she deserved.

@ToBGrey

10 ай бұрын

Oh how you nailed this on the head.. Thank you for making me think on this perspective 🙏

@cc1k435

10 ай бұрын

Only once? I seem to draw these people to me like a magnet. 😢

@Elven.

10 ай бұрын

@@cc1k435 me too

@Rollwithit699

10 ай бұрын

​@@cc1k435 Yes, me too. Three female bosses loathed me and I was their hardest working, responsible, quiet employee. Would have never caused any trouble, just wanted to come to work, be quietly brilliant and go home. I never knew why these bossy rude women had it in for me. I attracted narcissist bosses, friends, and husbands. Then something changed in me about three years ago and I stopped 'people-pleasing'...starting quietly observing, stopped being nervous. I now seem to repel narcissists. Not sure what changed me, but I'm happier now.

@tawnyvoyles4867

10 ай бұрын

Some people seem to automatically feel threatened by me quickly - not physically & not that I'm going to DO anything to them. Almost llike, they know I can see who they really are instead of whatever facade they have up. They do not like me, I guess, because they don't know if/when I might expose them, even if I have no reason or even thoughts about doing anything like that.

INFJs, even if they’re mostly silent, are just particularly impactful “inspire you and your whole company/organization to step your whole game up” type individuals. That’s just kind of how we roll.

Older INFJ here, got a compliment the other day from one of our vendors. She phoned and said that she knows she can be a hard-ass on her employees but when I enter the room they all settle right down. My bubble person thought, well I guess I’m a natural sedative.

@gailnichols842

2 ай бұрын

I've been told I have a calming effect on people also.

@nealejames2243

Ай бұрын

I'm a natural laxative

We're also very good at clearing a room

0:45. 1) comforting ego-boost 2:03. 2) self-reflection 3:16. 3) humbling 4:38. 4) soulmate 5:59. 5) dreamer 7:16. 6) truth-seeking 8:33. 7) self-improvement

I have interacted with these rare people most moments in my life and found that they're indeed the coolest to be close with in so many ways. ❤❤❤

@light9623

9 ай бұрын

Aw. Thank you❤ that was sweet.

Unfortunately, there are people who do not understand the positive offered, instead avoid interaction to avoid internal analysis because of insecure and unnecessary comparison. The sense of misunderstanding externally appears arrayed at times. The video's information is truth, as I've witnessed throughout my life. Gratitude to the creator--you've managed to naturally offer inviting comfort, gratefully accepted.

As an older INFJ (I am 67), I find that this video is spot on, at least in my experience. Thanks for the thoughtful video.

@PSYCH-O

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for the confirmation!🙏

@jaynewoodiwiss5373

11 ай бұрын

I"m 63 and agree totally with you and the bideo. Kind Regards Jayne.

@edithamaliaioo2228

11 ай бұрын

I am 52 INFJ :) the video is spot on

@Rollwithit699

10 ай бұрын

I'm 69, have always been different. Along with discovering I'm INFJ (sigma now, empathic before). Last year I was diagnosed with Asperger's and ADHD at 68. Lots of discoveries recently that would have been wonderful to know sooner, explained so much to me, but at least I know now. Very happy to finally have a reason I'm different.

@sayusayme7729

9 ай бұрын

63 🦉waiting for ASD diagnosis.already ADHD. Learning how to fly 🦅

I've heard many of these compliments before, also the one about other seeing me as a soul-mate is very accurate. Yet, I've also been perceived as a know-it-all by two past friends. Sometimes I just have such a hard time watching people close to me make bad choices and suffering for it, but when I warn them it's not always appreciated. But then again, most of my close friends do appreciate my advice and understand that it comes from a good place and are also upfront with me about the given advice. I also highly appreciate it when friends give me well tought out advice, it makes me feel supported and cared for.

most people just find me confusing, im not confused, i just struggle to give information in an order most people can follow as i see it all at once. i had a friend who keeps getting involved with walking red flags, the most recent one was the last straw, i said she was following the usall pattern, she said get lost

@nj3195

9 ай бұрын

Don’t worry if you are an INFJ, your friend will be back. Once I bond with my friends they are committed. Even those with issues and cut me off; ALWAYS COME BACK. I am good to them. Problem is they see our support as mundane and some folks want magic until their world is shattered, after this they just want someone to comfort them. Many people don’t realize the most comfortable they will ever be is when they are allowed to be themselves and that is the arena I welcome them to. Who they are belongs to them, just need reminding; that’s where we (INFJ) come in. That is the essence of our power. You don’t have to do anything for your friend let her find out. You have done what a good friend would do. Sounds like she has to find out the hard way .😢❤

People don’t appreciate us.

As a 32 year old INFJ woman, i can completely agree with this

Geez, I had an incident today. A group of women( which you all knows almost never happens) have been visiting lately. I was struggling with it because you know. Well one of them ended up in hospital. I let everyone know as soon as I knew, making sure nobody was left out. This morning I spoke to one of the ladies and low and behold a few of them went to visit at the hospital. 2 times and didn’t even think to ask me. I found out because she was casually telling me about their visits. It was like I was hit with a cast iron skillet. I just sat stunned. Finally asking and nobody thought to ask me? She looked shocked and very easily said no! i did not! . I suppose the look on my face said it all. She asked that I forgive them for their ignorance, she never thought about it. See that’s what I’m having trouble with. That they never even thought of me. That made realize my place in this group and I made it very clear that if this is my place in this group I’m done. . We talked a bit more with her as asking for me to not do that. The thing is when one of the other ladies came she went straight in the building without even acknowledging me. I’m screaming inside!

@cc1k435

10 ай бұрын

I know that feeling well. 😢

@DMAC1301

10 ай бұрын

@@cc1k435 it sooo sucks dont it?

@valeriezaitzieff1462

10 ай бұрын

Probably a good idea to find other, better friends who can really appreciate you.

@DMAC1301

10 ай бұрын

@@valeriezaitzieff1462 done…

@vsee2207

10 ай бұрын

I get left out all the time...

Wherever I work People always open up to me and i become their confident and advisor. Also after getting into some deep conversations about conspiracies people come up to me years later and say I was right😂 The older I get the comfortable I become in my own skin and less of a people pleaser.👍🏽

A group holiday with strangers can often be a nightmare for INFJ for this reason. Seeing clearly, the attention seekers will hate them. And the INFJ find it hard to suffer fools gladly (though they may try to be polite to avoid open hostilities).

@Emefur1

7 ай бұрын

My experience - group holiday with strangers - gah!

People think INFJ as manipulators though INFJ has nothing but good intentions to help others . Poor INFJS always misunderstood. May be INFJ shouldn't lose themselves in helping others.

@gailnichols842

3 ай бұрын

I guess I am unable to change and will continue to help people even while walking on eggshells.

@Ali08

2 ай бұрын

That last part makes sense. It took a very hard experience to learn to take care of oneself before quickly putting on a cape for others. Most people "get it" in their own time, not on ours or vice versa.

@prussian1742

Ай бұрын

Sniff....😢 So true.

my dry Humor is putting everybody to laugh like crazy :D

Try my hardest to have a positive effect for certain!

@PSYCH-O

11 ай бұрын

Absolutely 😌

An INFJ serves as a mirror to the other. Think about that for a moment.

@mariagordanier3404

2 ай бұрын

We really do!

This is spot on.

Nailed it!!! Love how validating your videos are. Thank you😊

This couldn’t describe me any better. Everything you said is me 100%!

Wow. Best one I've come across.

My brother has accused me of Pontificating. I thought thia was unfair but in light of this video, I can see his point.

Accuracy narrated and truth ... thanks.

Best INFJ description vid 'of me' to date. A bit scary..😉

I have never in my life watched a video I relate to more. 😮 This is both why I i love myself and why I ha all the problems I do...

AWESOME VIDEO TOTALLY ACCURATE THANK YOU FOR SHARING 👍👏⭐️💯

Thanks for this one. It helps me feel better as I approach my day. I have managed to change people's mind's about their beliefs without really trying - It's interesting to see it mentioned here.

I find it to be to much how after one conversation I’m being asked to get married or be in a relationship people come on strong and are very upset I’m not going along with that lol

All of the above ❤

I find that so many people both people I know for a long time or even people I have just met often tell me their life story and/or things about themselves or their family that I am shocked to hear.

I trip people out.

I know I do,I don't want to waste my time on some people. That's so contradictory, because I really am a caring person.

I used my INFG skills while working as a nonprofit manager. Setting myself aside to build up clients

Number 1 for me

#4 yeah. 100%

I seriously don't know any effects I give to people. I mean i go to work after about a week off and co workers are like hey where have you been? And by name too. I'm looking at them, thinking I didn't know anyone would notice I wasn't around or even knew my name. Well at least I know my body won't be rotten for long at home, cause someone would send a wellness check. That's good to know.

I’m definitely an INFJ however coupled with chronic ADHD and acute anxiety spiked with a bad memory due to a prenatal birth complication which has resulted in severe depression that only Maria Sabina can cure

This is scary Af.

People reject us because they don’t believe we can be real?

@dantemontefiore

4 ай бұрын

nahh, you believe your ego its on check, and its all the contrary

What happened to number 8?

8:33 44%

Gosh.. how infj suppose to know that ? Infj only being em self what inside come out side , its about TBH TBH TBH agree or disagree, like it or not, care or ignore, act n react, is that so hard to understand ? I thought its all common character like everyone else , infj also got that all feeling efect from others, is it uncommon ?

You said ' 8 ' and only gave 7.

I am INFJ and I like to walk naked, I also comfort people around me to compliment my peanut

Why do you people always ask people to like And subscribe to a video they haven't seen yet? Only a fool would like something before they have seen it and know whether or not they like it (just saying)

@Maria-Elena-Ford

9 ай бұрын

That might be the prompt someone needs to like or subscribe before they go to another video or put the phones down as a lot of people don’t watch til the very end of most videos.

@RunningNotStopping

5 ай бұрын

That's such an INFJ thing to say 😂