Let me tell you ..... Most of the things that you mentioned I have actually worked on them n I have seen results 100% they work wonders... Love your contents

Excessive self help is like a toxic pill and instagram recommendation in reels is even more toxic . its necessary to click not interested in social media platforms . many people are unaware and consume lots of content on depression , loneliness , Vengeance , too much masculinity and think that they are relatable which leads to more depression . Your video is the best on youtube and its underrated .

The 5 C's and Excessive self help content makes absolute sense or vibed with me a lot 🙂

I want to cut criticizing other...this is one of my stubborn low vibe behavior. And thank you so much you mention this in your video now it will be little bit easy for me to cut down criticizing behavior.

Thanks for the 'Self Help' point, that is so true and needed.

Appriciate that you bring out such an amazing points. People like me knowingly unknowingly do certain things and get tagged as picky but with time and self evolvement am proud of being tagged as picky cause it really helps to be one step closer to the life I want.

As a student, helped me a lot building and growing myself in a much better way as i used to do before , thanks to you

It's refreshing to see videos with unique content and not the obvious clickbaty stuff! Keep the good work going 👍

This girl radiates hope❤

Thank u for adding subtitles....it helps alot

I'm agreed with you when I'm with low vibe people it also feel low about my self. Your contents are amazing and realistic which is not only motivated but also applicable in daily life... ❤ Amazing... ❤❤

This is beautiful! Your authenticity is inspiring!

What a ''wow" video! Short and crisp content. I have cut off all the drama from my life and also stopped negative self talk. And trust me it really makes a huge impact gradually, you also start replacing your NO's with positive words and it also helps you improve your english indirectly. When you are self satisfied shift happens. of course we can't immediately avoid negative environment but we can change the perspective and learn how to deal with negativity before coming out of it completely. Adete really looking forward to meet you :-) You have really inspired and compelled me to raise my standard and now I am really happy raising my standards. Just want to tell you guys - Decluttering is really important from your ''Place you stay" and ""The mindset you have" it saves your energy and a lot of time. Happy living! 🙂 LOVE FROM PUNE

Thank you universe..This is what I wanted to hear today..❤

Most useful video for the day! Thanks for sharing.

I agree most of the things you said I felt same about it... Like consuming too much self help content is getting you any where or listening to sad songs... Being positive all the time ... Writing what is going on my head

You are such a gem, sending you all the love and abundance, the last point excessive self help content, omg I cannot relate more to you, I shifted from self help videos, to knowledgeable, facts, affirmative videos and I literally felt so good, and I love your vibe you are so cute, smart and wise! Sending you a hug🫂

Where have you been all my life???? LOVED YOUR CONTENT!!! blessings to you :)

Thankyou so much for sharing your valuable suggestions to us..they are making a nice impact on our lives..keep going mam❤

4th one is so trueeeeeee thankyou for this video 📹 💖

This is the topic I needed most right now... Thank you so much 🥰

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

I am gladdd

New to your channel and Im feeling much better . Thanks a lot

Thank you so much 🙏❤ Amazing content thank you thank you so much ❤

The most helpful youtuber and counsellor i've ever seen Adete you are helping me very much to keep motivated. May god always bless you.

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much

This was a FANTASTIC video. Especially, your last point about self help.

@AdeteDahiya

Ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful! ❤️

I was literally writing journal exactly how low vibe people, Content made my years gone into drain. My whole teenage years. (I'm almost 20, end of teenager) worst phase. Mistakes i made too. 1. Hanging out with Low vibe people, don't open up to people you don't freaking trust. Don't share your information. Don't get into gossips. And the only way you'll leave all these is by finding something higher. So high that gossips and some drinks with toxic people doesn't even matter. You'll find them not worthy, but you need higher goals for that. 2. Too much self help content consuming, and there is a term "mental masturbation" which people do, while watching self help contents. I see your videos as completely different and unique. You stand out. Thanks a lot. ❤

hey, Thank you for sharing.

Thank You mam.. You have helped a lot in my self improvement journey❤

You keep amazing contents really likes the way you present in such simple way ❤god bless you

This is so on point and the main 5 Cs

This was beautiful, Adeteee. Thank you so much!) ❤

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

Glad you liked it!! ❤❤❤

The point on consuming excessive self-help content hit me hard! Thanks for pointing that out.

Just feel your words all vibes become positive 😊

Diiiii u areee aweeesome❤

true words consuming too much self help content is creating low energy vibes in me from years. A lot of seft doubt over analysation of things over understanding which ultimately creates problems for me only🙌🏻

New to your channel and just loving how just listening to you gives out positivity! Followed you instantly!

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

Yayy...welcome to the fam

Top notch content!

Please please make a video on how to be happy with just ourselves and don't expect from anyone to make our mental conditions better and enjoy our lives with a whole brand new perspective

I must say i regret not finding you earlier. But it's better late than never🎉

Thank you di!!! I loved this video ,the content was apt... it cleared all my doubts and i feel so relaxed. ....❤

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

My pleasure Ayushi

Consumerist mindset is also a low vibe charactetistic. We can't enjoy things we have and we keep focusing on accumulation rather satisfaction. Your videos are to the point and very practical adete❤

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

ah very true

Addicted to your videos. Can you make a video on how to look more put together and minimal makeup tutorial. Btw you look just perfect in every video. More powers to you. Keep growing and glowing.

Hey first of all thank you so much for all of your videos! It's all just so effective and helpful. I am so grateful that I found your channel. Also I have a request, can you make a video on patience? I mean, for the people who do not have it, how u build it and how important it is? I mean i always react to situations atm and always ruins it.

Hey,, sister ❤you just told me the things i was searching for....i was confused about what to do next but it literally helped me a lot,,the perspective of your thoughts are really resonating with my current situations,, thanks a lot again for being so true for being a deep level healer!!! Gonna consume your videos again whenever i really need some guidance

@AdeteDahiya

Ай бұрын

So glad it was helpful! ❤❤❤❤

Thanks great video ❤

Amazing video

Great,as usual To the point Valuable content❤ Oh, the 5 Cs that’s the one I m trying hard to get rid off

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

Was just talking to my mom about this the other day. The 5Cs take some practice but they’re so so profound. Maybe start with one of them at a time ✨

Oh I so agree with you on the sad songs! I specifically avoid them, and people are surprised because they are good and famous songs... But I am more like if something doesn't make me happy, why even welcome it in my life? So glad I now know someone else who avoids them 🤣🤣🤣

Most people think of manifestation as results will come true without action but just by thinking of results all the time... But this is not true... You have to trust the process, be desciplined and take required action... Thanks for pointing out all these points... Lots of Love ❤

Gawd I remember asking for a room tour in one of your earliest vdos. Lol...... ❤ you've grown so much eheh.

To the point .. minimalistic yet informative content ✨ your videos always opens my eyes and makes me aware of so many new things ❤ also your recent 5-6 videos are too good to be true 🙌 appreciate your efforts and hardwork 😍♥️

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

Aww...thank you so much and I'm glad you're finiding these helpful

she's natural ... I luv her

One of the best yt channel..i like ur content 🫠

Self-deprecating vala concept is new to me 😮

Here to Support

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

Ayee thank you

Hello I am Sonali chaubey.I really love ur videos.I am in 10th and learning a lot from u keep going .😊

Hey Adete, I have been following you for a while and I must say this is by far the most valuable video of yours. I have truly enjoyed it, so many takeaways! I relate to you to some next level. I really see a long-distance friend in you. "Vibe" is such an important topic and you have explained it in a simple way. Would love to see more such content from you :)

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

Glad you liked it

Good content

your work is really helpful ADETE, the key learning from this video is to not excessively consume self- help content ❤

I agree with you 🙂

So good to see that I'm not alone in avoiding certain things like sad songs and horror movies that evoke feelings i just don't want to feel. I've always felt people don't really understand where I'm coming from and judge me as a picky person but there's a perfectly fine logic behind my actions. Really like your content ❤

@s1d1727

8 ай бұрын

I totally agree with you. Now a days it's also about the web show that you watch or consumed. But with time I am proud of myself for picking out light hearted content and not everyother whichever put out on any social or ott platforms.

After watching this video, I felt like you were introducing me in this video. I also avoid all these things.

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

Beautiful

Do you think the vibe comes from certain urges or habits? I appreciate how you have provided us a new perception to it.

1-alcohol 2-sad music 3-low vibe content 4-self deprecating humor 5-excessively saying things you dont want 6- low vibe people 7-The 5 cs- complaining crying criticizing… 8-excessive self help content

Hey adete.. i came across one of your reel on morning routine. There you mentioned to watch some short motivational videos while having coffee for example. Can you share some sources or channels for short motivational videos?

I want to cut out the family trauma and the pressure which i feel everytime i see my parents face.

So lovely😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

behen teri har bat. itnhi sach aur sahi kyu hoti hai 🥲

@AdeteDahiya

7 ай бұрын

hahaha...comment padh ke dil ko tasalli ho gayi

How do you edit and vlog your videos?? Can you make a video on that?

Plz make a video on realistic money earning ideas

Complaining Criticizing Cursing Comparing Crying

self depricating jokes= Kapil sharma show= Huge Hit in India And yes all these point do work. one new thing i got to know about the negative side of self help books.

Amazing video! I am yet to watch a video from your channel that I did not like.

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

THis made me smile. Thank you

Yes . Music do lot of impact on us. As we Indian especially Arijit Singh ka sad songs. Now a days indian girls are emotionally unhealthy.

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I would like to see your makeup routine it's minimal, cute and presentable... Iam really curious

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

Ooh okay done. Will probably do a short on this :)

Your grooming Routine video please

I love Big one'. OHhh two

How to focus on studies???

Same philosophy with alcohol 😂✨

make more content lyk dis

3.Hellooo mam.......

I really want help changing my music vibe I am a musician and I listen to all of it rap rock and alll the genres but I just love emotional songs

❤❤❤❤🤩🥰🥰

Your videos are just on dot jewel....

REJECTION = CONFIDENCE It is right or wrong.

@subhamkar5698

7 ай бұрын

No rejection is not confidence of course

you r similar to tam kaur

I stopped listening sad song from 2021 when i understand how words impact our life by reading psychology n Mind science. I listen here n there.

U talk like Alia Bhatt

This is on point video adete , I already started doing these things you mentioned it in this video & I'm shocked by the results like I'm not connecting with low value ppls out there , not complaining , taking full responsibility of myself for everything & that's how I see that I can do great things by my own & I'm actually a worthy person ❤️ anyways make more videos like this , lot's of love adete ❤️🫶🏻

@AdeteDahiya

7 ай бұрын

This makes me so happy ❤️❤️

Heyyya Adete! Recently, i started watching your videos. And mannnn i'm in love with your content 🥺🤍. Speaking my heart out, your videoss are filled with sooo much positivity & hope. Thankuu sooo much di for your help

@AdeteDahiya

8 ай бұрын

Noteddd. Lovely topics. Will include these in my list 🥰

Kindly check your email

I'm feeling that the people who are kinda my homies are low vibe and not enthusiast and cribby, as i expected to be in order for the optimism and growth of life problem is, i can't leave them due to some reason so how should i deal it mentally inorder to not infect their low vibe and lack of enthusiasm, what measures should i take, and how I can remain motivated. please reply @Adete Dahiya

I actually followed some of this habits and it had a drastic mind shift of mine towards life and people, and most important this habits are peace maker🤍

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