What bad habits do you have in your potential relationship?

@W00fle

3 жыл бұрын

*Uhhhh* *Having one in the first place*

@Xelets

3 жыл бұрын

Caring too much

@realcappu

3 жыл бұрын

we always stop talking to eachother the moment we start dating :(

@lena_3764

3 жыл бұрын

Being clingy 😅

@thyxed

3 жыл бұрын

Being confused😧😂😢

Never try too hard to make people like you. In fact, it doesn't matter if people like you or not. Be your best self and you'll attract the best people for you. This is the power of authenticity.

@PhoenixtheII

3 жыл бұрын

Am autistic, tried to be me, kind. Am alone now... What now?

@cookiesbananamilk

3 жыл бұрын

That's the best thing to do❤️ I'm a teenager and most of my school mates wants and have boyfriends already.

@polytelus

3 жыл бұрын

@Reddit tea Mine is also extremely awful, but oh well, life doesn't have a reset button.

@vanessaaguilar4025

3 жыл бұрын

I have been doing that my whole life

@rainadatkween7959

3 жыл бұрын

Phoenix the II I also have autism. The “being yourself” thing never got me any guys, even tho I’m lower on the spectrum.

a summary: 1. you spend too much time together; you may end up neglecting other important relationships and your own individuality 2. you lack an openness to new experiences; may keep you in rigid structures 3. lack of open communication 4. you lie to keep the peace; no emotional intimacy without honesty 5. you run away from fights; conflicts show that you can be honest and open with each other, when handled healthily and respectfully 6. passive aggressiveness; shows emotional immaturity 7. nagging or criticism; shows lack of support and freedom 8. you're no longer affectionate; neglects your and your partner's needs

@remyislost2655

3 жыл бұрын

This helps me a lot, thank you

@Advisory_Vessel

3 жыл бұрын

@Ur Step Daddy You're one out of how many? People need to time to theirselves to take care of their mental, hobbies, other relationships, etc. It should be a gift to meet with your significant other not a given.

@fronttowardenemy7972

3 жыл бұрын

I love commentors who summarize the video points so I don't have to watch the entire video.......especially when they comment early so the list is at the top! 😎

@DogDadInTraining

3 жыл бұрын

@@remyislost2655 you are welcome! 🤗

@DogDadInTraining

3 жыл бұрын

@@fronttowardenemy7972 glad to help! 💪🏼💖

Let's admit it: most of us aren't in a relationship, but we come here to prepare, just in case.

@thehubert8405

3 жыл бұрын

Who are you, who are so wise in the ways of the internet All jokes aside, you are absolutely right. Underrated comment right here.

@gnarthdarkanen7464

3 жыл бұрын

I just decided a little preparation like this might be better than lighting myself on fire and throwing myself out of another window. ;o)

@TheBeaniestBean8675

3 жыл бұрын

How are you so wise?

@julieflutters

3 жыл бұрын

don’t call me out like that sob

@Kraken-yq1mb

3 жыл бұрын

Yessir

I had sort of a “wow” moment for myself recently. I thought my relationship was having bumps because of my boyfriend, but I now believe I’m the one causing more problems for myself, for him, and for the relationship. So I want to do my best to be better. Watching this video helps!

@TheSowfii

3 жыл бұрын

Did u know why? If its not to personal. I hope that I might learn something because I fear that so much! Thinking it's the other but not seeing it's myself

@mir4138

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheSowfii If gleamer is anything like me, I find myself with this traits and I'm 100% sure it's because of the toxic relationships I stayed in. Honestly, I think if a date insults you in anyway, thats not the right partner. My husband has insulted me once in my life and never did it again after I told him not to. Only one insult from him in the entire four years I've known him. I could lose count with how many insults I had from my exes. That's just my experience. Emotional abuse causes bad traits, traumas legit rewire brains. Sad.

@TheSowfii

2 жыл бұрын

@@mir4138 thanks for sharing and responding! I’ve had some ups and downs relationship but also great a lot of the time. But yeah that can create some bad patterns that you gotta unwire. It can be difficult to unlearn and see about urself! Since my comment I actually had a really healthy relationship. He thought me a lot!

@krzysztoflaskowski6110

2 жыл бұрын

U are the first woman i hear to admit that you were on the wrong side... Wow Now u can start changing it for the better for both of you

@Jackgritty28

2 жыл бұрын

Try to avoid it, routine isn't exciting, if you don't communicate honestly, resentment from jealously, emotional immaturity, if there is no respect, expect to ruin any relationship 💥💲🚩✅

Passive aggressiveness is something I've noticed I'm guilty of at times

@uMaud

3 жыл бұрын

Yeaaah, me too with friends when there's something I don't have the energy to talk about with them 😅

@sammylane21

3 жыл бұрын

This was my old nick name when I used rip to verbal shredds my old AMC THEATERS manager.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah it's not uncommon as we want to love but also resent them at the same time..

@nolife8209

3 жыл бұрын

ya i lost a frnd bcuz of it mayb our friendship wud've ended up anyways but bcuz of passive aggressiveness it ended unsolved i regret it

@sViviftie

3 жыл бұрын

Hey me too. It's something to definitely work on, but many people do it unconsciously. So hey, you recognized it! That's a big step already

My man and I have been together over 2 years now, and I can agree that doing the same things over and over again can cause a strain in the relationship. Because of this, we make sure to keep things spontaneous. Of course there's always the mundane school/work/gym life, but we choose different study areas, nature walks, beaches, foods, trips, etc. even if it means a longer drive, because at the end it's worth it! You're gonna want to remember all the cool experiences you and your partner have, not all the times you've sat in a car together not knowing what to do. So all in all, make sure you keep the spark alive! Recognize your bad habit patterns! Don't always expect your partner to know what to do. Speak your feelings, and if they don't recognize, then that person just isn't for you.

@lionlion3712

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah is good to speak your feelings and changing the pattern but what if ur partner is not in support of the pattern changing and u really what it to change so badly or what it takes to change the pattern requires money and u don't have how can the change be possible and doing it in ur own little possible way you can still no support from the partner how can it change then 😊

@TheTrioGCN

2 жыл бұрын

This is amazing advice. I am in an LDR and due to covid its just going on LDR longer than we initially thought, we still are pretty keen on going ahead and this helps me to remember to keep it fun as much as I can even under the sorta 'indefinite' circumstances

You guys are psychic, I swear. My sister was just telling me that her bf might possibly break up with her Edit: Yeah, they broke up

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Keep us posted!

@ceooflonelinessinc.267

3 жыл бұрын

Great Video Psych2go do you have a video about involuntary celibacy. I am nearly 30 and all women have rejected me since. So I never experience Love or a relationship. I am lonely all the time. I feel there is no support for people like me.

@musiclover162702

3 жыл бұрын

@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 Have they ever mentioned anything about why they reject your advances?

@ceooflonelinessinc.267

3 жыл бұрын

@@musiclover162702 Not really since in online dating you dont recive the answer obviously. In Real Life I got the generic anserws like you are not my type... Also never a woman showed interest in me.

@musiclover162702

3 жыл бұрын

@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 Well, what's your type of woman?

Me who’s single and probably will be for a long time: Write that down! WRITE THAT DOWN!

@nolife8209

3 жыл бұрын

charles the french reference

@ceooflonelinessinc.267

3 жыл бұрын

HERE! Psych2go do you have a video about involuntary celibacy. I am nearly 30 and all women have rejected me since. So I never experience Love or a relationship. I am lonely all the time. I feel there is no support for people like me.

@dr.strangelove5320

3 жыл бұрын

There are many happy single people. You just never hear about it.

@LightWolf_91

2 жыл бұрын

@@dr.strangelove5320 He wants a girlfriend you idiot. I hate this dismissive bullshit, guy is opening up about his true situation and feelings and all you can come up with is some stupid empty cliches?

@dr.strangelove5320

2 жыл бұрын

@@LightWolf_91 I don't fight with every dog that barks.

Wow. I just realised I nag and critisize my partner. More than he ever did. I'll try to be more relaxed for him. These videos are so great for self reflections.

@luialbrecht1

3 жыл бұрын

I did too. Now he left forever :( But also he had issues being honest with me or even himself.

@karinefrommontreal

2 жыл бұрын

Me too I have to do some progress in that area. The fact that I can admit it is the first step to a personnal evolution💖

@dazeymoon

2 жыл бұрын

@Jennifer Brown Jennifer, I love that quote. Will remember that next time my partner drives me bananas! Lol

Behaviour 9: They're fictional

@animatoraoi3672

3 жыл бұрын

Bow that’s a lot of damage 💀

@cofferyal

3 жыл бұрын

**is with anime pillow** Wait. They're not real?

@Default_null

3 жыл бұрын

*dies*

@nyixxo8139

3 жыл бұрын

HAHA OH DAMN

@samb2814

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

Fun fact: for friendship as well. I feel like I'm loosing someone because of our actions. They're passive aggressive, and I'm aways running away from fights. Anyways, I can't stand this friendship anymore it's been a while already.

@ayyrisse6661

3 жыл бұрын

Yo dude tell me about it lmao. Heard my friend wanted to cut me off. Things aren't even going so well right now lol. Any tips?

@SurasmitaMeher-ch3lo

3 жыл бұрын

It's valid for every personal relationship

@marlenacherry1450

3 жыл бұрын

I want to end a friendship, which has turned toxic, but I just can't. I've been their friend for 8 years and it seems so hard to say goodbye, but its draining me emotionally

@projectkush1212

3 жыл бұрын

@@marlenacherry1450 same with me but I've known this person for 3 years

@gizel6482

3 жыл бұрын

LEAVE THE FRIENDSHIP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!! this is only gonna get worse if you dont. ive been in your shoes and leaving was the best decision i could make. i hope everything gets better :)

I lied and lied, never spoke my mind, took my relationship for granted and kept doing the same things over and over with her. It crushed the attraction and someone who was head over heels in love with me ended up falling out of love. That said it takes two to tango. Emotional maturity and honesty is the core to a healthy and happy dynamic.

Me, who knows that I’ll never get in a relationship: you know what? Just in case...

@heh241

3 жыл бұрын

ME TOO IMAO

@kayla-gd2tp

3 жыл бұрын

Relatable

@ljames4347

3 жыл бұрын

How does it say 2 days ago?? M

@heh241

3 жыл бұрын

How is the comment 2 days ago while the video is just out-

@fallonisbabelol4855

3 жыл бұрын

Sammeee

I strongly agree. “You spend too much time together.” We're not in relationship, hmm kinda, a long way to go. But it happened to us. We spend too much time that instead of being an inspiration to achieve our goals, we became a distraction to each other. Overtime our conversations went spontaneous slowly losing interest. I relate to half of relationship behaviors here too but thats all I wanted to mention. I've lost her. I think I'm the one who failed to maintain the relationship not realizing these behaviors mentioned in your video are actually the reasons why it ended that way. Thank you so much for this video, it helped a lot! Watching this type of videos really helps us realize things and be prepared next time.

Been married for 22 years, he’s my best friend and I his, and only spend time together, playing video games, watching tv, fun times ☺️, hike/walk etc, unless he has to work. We’ve never been more in love than we are now, so take #1 with some thought *if* it’s harmful, cuz it may not be ❤️

@catlemasters9037

2 жыл бұрын

not to break it to you babe... but sounds very codependent

@dhrogontorres214

2 жыл бұрын

@@catlemasters9037 Dude, she says they're happy....there's nothing wrong with enjoying themselves. Not every couple works the same and that "rule" doesn't apply to every single couple ever

@jehree9850

2 жыл бұрын

@@catlemasters9037 bruh

@SeirenHearts

2 жыл бұрын

I completely agree with you. Me and my partner absolutely love spending time together, and we have never been happier in our lives. We cook together, we watch tv together, play games together ... exercise together, and everything. It's so relaxing and endearing, knowing that you have a forever best friend, team mate, lover that you can share all the wonderful moments in life together with.

@sicaris415

2 жыл бұрын

@@catlemasters9037 they are together for 22 years and you say they are not healthy... wtf is wrong with your view on relationships? lol

Never, ever betray a confidence that your partner has shared with you. Remember: Trust can take years to build, but only seconds to destroy. Once you betray someone's trust, you will probably never get it back. At best, you'll have a limited, conditional trust. And that relationship is unlikely to endure.

One of the things that ended my parents' relationship was the lack of affection. I don't think I saw them hug, kiss, or even heard them say they loved each other for the last five years before they broke up. I told my partner about that and we have had a lot of conversations about needs and wants that have really helped us both grow. It's amazing what you can learn from just watching the good and not so good from your parents and choosing to do what is best for you and your partner gets so much easier after you have a few talks about needs.

Sad part is when things end up going so very well, then to slowly just die down at the end. Saddest part is when it ends suddenly & makes you think if the relationship even meant anything to the other person. I had wished we worked it out together, but it just wasn't reciprocated. A few failures I've done was not engage in all arguments/fights. I just brushed it off because I didn't want to fight & make things worse, but I learned it's something that's quite a regular in relationships. Mentally, I was getting put down a lot & was misunderstood from the things I said that twisted the outcome. One advice I would give to people is to make sure the other partner is on the same page with you. Get to know each other sides of the story or else one is left with their conclusion. But one thing is if it starts to mentally hurt you, then don't stick around. It affects me still to this day (almost 2 years), and it changed my viewpoint on men & afraid to be in a relationship again. I still get thoughts of love for my ex-boyfriend, and I would think I would heal after a year but it's surely a challenge to get healed. It surely affects my friendships & relationships with my family members, but it teaches me to not fall deeply in love without getting to know the person deep down & if they are committed to be your one & only. Do not take the steps I did. It's very hard to be the person I once was.

“You spend too much time together.” Well there’s a pandemic and we are in quarantine together lmao

@er6714

3 жыл бұрын

yo, same.... i lived with him almost nonstop for 6 months.

@bethanslocombe8743

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao 😂😂😂

@shaniceleader2539

2 жыл бұрын

you can still take time apart, for example going on walks alone, doing hobbies in different rooms, visting friends and family (if you dont have restrictions)..stuff like that

@mz.vishad5283

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@alexisanthony3392

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

Behaviour 1: Not sharing your items with your partner in Minecraft

@rileygracevlogs2

3 жыл бұрын

BAHAHAHAHA

@fatsausage-animaatioita4717

3 жыл бұрын

That's a good one

@yayacake9001

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@AuroraPolkka

3 жыл бұрын

vAqeii HAHAHAHAHAH

@xmaryamx4662

3 жыл бұрын

LOLOLOL

Even thought I’m not in a relationship right now, some of these things can also go to platonic relationships: with friends and family. I actually developed a toxic relationship with my mom and she always makes sure that she’s the one in charge and criticizes me to the point where I feel like every decision I make on my own is a mistake. Please, please, please do not allow people to hurt you this bad. Of course I have said mean things to her too and I’m trying to hold in my anger(I have anger issues), but it’s hard when you’re living with a person that tries to control your every move and judges more than critiques your look, what you do, what you think...I’m tired of her and this quarantine time together has made it worse😔

@marianaval4986

3 жыл бұрын

so sorry to hear that. It hurts the most when sb you love criticizes you. Have you tried telling her how you feel calmly, when you are not angry or fighting? You could say her comments are hurtful and that she could sometimes try to say positive things about you, for a change

@userm180

2 жыл бұрын

im so sorry. please dont let her shatter ur confidence. i feel you a lot. please dont allow her to do it, pls

@deepasuresh9270

2 жыл бұрын

Don't expect perfection in your partner and other relationships.Instead v should constantly strive for perfection

I broke up with my boyfriend like 3 weeks ago but I really regret it. I just felt really bad because I felt like I had to do 90 % of the work in the relationship. I kept on asking him if everything is okay or if something is wrong etc. But in the end I would be the one who had to do almost everything. It hurts that he's gone

@ladylightvybe4138

3 жыл бұрын

That pain will pass. You deserve an equal partnership. Expect nothing less & that's what you'll get. Trust in yourself. Love & light.

@lycanornotwebyte6322

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah it hurts all the time but know that you made the right choice. One day you will find the right person.

This is also important in friendships AND familial relationships. Relationships aren't just romantic, so these tips can be applied in any place where you share a bond with someone :)

Thank you so much for showing up in my feed. I've just realised that I've been experiencing narcissistic abuse by an ex friend. You've helped my health so much. I honestly can't thank you enough, you're a gift from the heavens.

@pritigupta8165

3 жыл бұрын

Yes.. these videos made me realize the same thing.. I'm grateful that I'm now being able to understand my life.. All the best to u 😊

Psych2go: 8 behaviors that ruin relationships Me: what relationship?

@ceooflonelinessinc.267

3 жыл бұрын

Same here Psych2go do you have a video about involuntary celibacy. I am nearly 30 and all women have rejected me since. So I never experience Love or a relationship. I am lonely all the time. I feel there is no support for people like me.

Lack of open communication is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT AND ALWAYS BE HONEST!!!!

I won't ever have to worry about those mistakes I won't ever take a chance on relationships being single is the best for me

@bhavyabhargavi5927

3 жыл бұрын

Same ugh

@user-xy3rz9hc7b

3 жыл бұрын

Lol I agree, I tell myself all the time, "U only need u" but yet I always feel I need somebody, but who knows? Most of the time I'm confused

@liamodonovan6610

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-xy3rz9hc7b me don't need or want anyone else

@thecustodian1023

3 жыл бұрын

Same here, All my life being by myself felt right and good, not wrong.

I did a lot of these in a relationship where I thought I'd marry her. I would lie to avoid fights. And was passive aggressive. I am difficult but am working on it. Gotta forgive myself for my mistakes.

@dragbadekun2210

3 жыл бұрын

Hello I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back recently, he can also help you just as he did mine too

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3 жыл бұрын

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@dragbadekun2210

3 жыл бұрын

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My fiance and I spend SOOOO much time together, but to us, it doesn't hurt our relationship. Not until the other one leaves to do something then we both miss eachother so much. Sounds like puppy love, I know. But we met in highschool and have been together for 9 years. Getting married this October. I guess it depends on the kinda people you are. We'd rather spend every moment together, with or without friends/family.

@goldenlilyz

2 жыл бұрын

@A ...they just said in the comment that they've been together for 9 years...

@catlemasters9037

2 жыл бұрын

not to break it to you babe... but sounds very codependent

@inferiorinferno8859

2 жыл бұрын

@@catlemasters9037 9 years is already long though... Also, who are you to diagnose someone and tell them to get therapy? Like, I'd understand a recommendation if the person is clearly unhappy, or downright delusional like those Ted Bundy fangirls, but someone who says they've actually been happy for nearly a decade doesn't deserves your attitude.

@Scorpionking_2024

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree It depends

@Scorpionking_2024

2 жыл бұрын

@@inferiorinferno8859 You are a blessed couple Don’t let people make you feel guilty of their own unhappy relationships

Who’s watching this even though you’re not in a relationship?

@adrien15

3 жыл бұрын

@Yuki Murakami same

@samuelpardo1430

3 жыл бұрын

I'm in a friendship relationship and this video is still very useful!

@melon0637

3 жыл бұрын

@Yuki Murakami lmao I'm watching for a friend

@caroll5706

3 жыл бұрын

getting ready bro! 😂💪

@sameerakhan7455

3 жыл бұрын

Me! Never been in one lol😂

My husband and I are currently having all these problems. And it's scary to tell him how i feel most of the time because i don't want to nag or anything. I honestly feel like he's already checked out of the relationship, but is just "trying" because of our daughter. He'd rather spend time with his friends. He says it's not the case, but i have a hard time believing him. And it hurts a lot trying to figure this out to where i lose sleep. I've been giving him space to be himself, but i honestly feel he wants to leave me, but doesn't want to leave because of our daughter

I’ve learned so much with all these channel’s videos on toxic relationships I was actually able to spot many on mine and communicate my concern with my partner, because of all the patterns that called my attention. He got defensive, blamed it all on me, dismissed everything I said as something ridiculous and is now giving me the silent treatment relying on that he needs to heal all the damage I’ve caused him. After I spoke about manipulation he deduced it wasn’t something he did, but something I was an expert at. No... this relationship won’t go far. As hard as it is and will be, I’m thankful. Thanks Psych2go, I think you really might’ve saved me.

I'm watching to prepare myself to not ruin the relationship that I'm not going to have

@xXj2d12Xx

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@zynel413

3 жыл бұрын

@@jennifer-imlivewithcam9080 please, leave.

@zynel413

3 жыл бұрын

@Geena !!!S EE X Do it !!!! Now ! ! ! syre5d please, leave.

I'm really proud of myself watching this and knowing I no longer relate to any of these behaviours. It shows how much I've grown.

@lunaibarra3435

2 жыл бұрын

commenting so i can one day reflect back on this comment and know i too made it here ...

I just don't get into relationships now since I've mistrusted too many in the past I don't want to get hurt again

@britt8baanrit

3 жыл бұрын

You'll bump into your person. You might already have been around him and seen him. But when the time is right he will be there. But for now you should focus on what you want by what's making you feel good and happy plus brings you somewhere in life ^^

@tiff7880

3 жыл бұрын

I hear ya.... Maybe don't give Satan a 2nd chance though.

@satanswife2546

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, you guys

oh my...Girl... I wanna thank you for this video, because it showed me that I was the one who cared about the person and I was the one who tried.. my relationship ended 4 days ago and I felt like a crap, because he was telling me that I want a lot of things or I'm the one who messes up. All I wanted was a little attention and I got nearly none of that. So I want to thank you very much for this video, because I relized I was doing my best and I'm not the worst...love you

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem >>>!!

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

What’s app him >>>!!

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

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@spooky9256

2 жыл бұрын

It's been 5 months and I truly hope u're feeling better now :) I'm in the same situation you were, I did everything I could to show him how much I was willing to try, to change, to show how much I love him. He broke up with me 2 weeks ago and told me, only then, that I deserve better but it still hurts and I miss him a lot

I moved to another country for my relationship and I often resent my partner for the distance between my family and friends as well as the struggles of loneliness in a foreign country where I cannot communicate with everyone or hold the same social status I could in my home country. Also, spending too much time together (also due to lockdowns) made us a bit rigid and unmotivated to go places. However, we have worked on that. We plan camping trips, date nights, and BBQs with friends and family. My biggest thing will be working on my own mental health in a place where I am a foreigner who is far from my parents/ siblings and childhood friends.

Watching these videos helps a little but I can't shake the feeling of not deserving love. I have a lot of issues and it's why I feel that way. Thinking about love scares me and makes me depressed. It seems better to be alone.

@BrandyWine658

2 жыл бұрын

Now that's how I've always felt.

Lack of affection from my wife, nagging, criticizing, demeaning, insulting, and her being unfaithful have all been things that I have suffered through in my relationship. I have only recently come to realize that our 21 year marriage has been mostly toxic and that my physical and mental health and happiness have suffered tremendously over the years. I tried to forgive the affair, thinking that we could work it out. I am no longer sure of that. She has been very nice and polite lately because I have been very distant and cold. However, I know that if I give in, it will be just a matter of time before she goes back to her ways. Debating whether to stay for the sake of the kids, who also notice the verbal abuse I go through and the lack of affection, or if I should just stick a fork in it.

My brain : U're not even in a relationship, don't waste ur time watching this video Me : *clicks video* Just in case God decided to give me a partner

@sulochnadevi7323

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😂

@christianleoo_

3 жыл бұрын

@Alec Alberti too bad I'm gay

@christianleoo_

3 жыл бұрын

@Alec Alberti okay, I'll try my best, thank u God

@kojeta3200

3 жыл бұрын

@@christianleoo_ B-BUT THE PROPHECY

this was actually good for me, as my best friend has just been through a breakup and i worried that she was getting too attached to him and forgetting that i was there. i sent her this video just now so hopefully she will learn something in the future

@missrelaxed3872

3 жыл бұрын

You are a great friend :)

@izzy7338

3 жыл бұрын

Miss Relaxed aww thankyou x

One hundred percent correct . Those who ignore these warnings their relationship is doomed to fail !

I really do hope more people find this channel because it helps alot!

I used to love the idea of seeing my bf everyday. But I realize I'm not giving him enough space for himself. I'm not giving enough space and time for myself too. It's actually healthy to give you and your partner some space and time. And you'll miss your partner more, it's a good thing cus you'll get more excited when you meet them. I'm on my 7th month with my bf. Really hope our relationship works!

@userm180

2 жыл бұрын

proud of u!

There should be also "you spend too much time apart" or too little contact. That can be also detrimental to the relationship.

@lovelife2115

3 жыл бұрын

Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him......

@lovelife2115

3 жыл бұрын

+2349019021202

These videos are great material to know how love works. We have to pass tests in every area of life: school, driving licence,... but not when it comes to the most important one: love. Everyone thinks love is just an instinct, but it's not. Love is a decision to hold on a person and to work on onesself. This is hard stuff. Everyone should prepare for that.

If you don’t have a relationship you still have friends and family

@thegaytay4327

3 жыл бұрын

That's a bold assumption

@30fns

3 жыл бұрын

@@dv99. that's a lot.

@MsElizaRae

3 жыл бұрын

@@thegaytay4327 Bold indeed 😂

When you're here because you're terrified that your anxiety and depression is gonna ruin your current relationship

Well now i know why my last relationship ended. Atleast i can learn from my mistakes. Thank you.

The first 6 behaviors were present in one or both of us at the end of my previous long-term relationship... We were so young and didn't have the emotional intelligence to look deep enough within ourselves to come out and fix our problems. It took a long time to let go but now I see what was wrong, and it wasn't just one of us but both were to blame for the slow decline. Just glad I was able to learn from it.

This is that simple! Be in the moment live in it; and move forward. Remember 3 things. Benefit of the Doubt, Pick Your battles, and Mind Your own Business.

I’m in relationships with fictional characters and I love your videos! They help me with self care!

*me sees this video* *also me* LETS MAKE MY DAY! AND HELP ME UNDERSTAND LIFE

@zynel413

3 жыл бұрын

@June ! y.o I WANT SЕЕХ !!!! 28OPEN MY VIDEO !!!! please, leave.

next month on 11th would be our first 1 year anniversarry. all i can say is i'm so grateful for both of us, so thankful that i found him. we've been through so much together but still manage to stay and fight for our relationship. it's all because we both love each other so much. plus this is actually our first time of being in a comitted relationship ❤️❤️❤️

I got out of a bad narcissistic relationship and I took the time like a year and a half two years to heal even with distractions and all and I come here because I'm internally and I want to make sure it goes right and I don't bring toxicity into it

I agree! This is why I’m breaking up with my girlfriend🤷🏽‍♀️ in addition to her holding on to her past and accusing me of things her ex’s did to her when I’ve been the COMPLETE opposite of her ex’s. The “relationship PTSD” has has become too much for me.

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem >>>!!

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

What’s app him >>>!!

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

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I feel being single is better than having the risk of getting hurt.

@britt8baanrit

3 жыл бұрын

You can't control what's happening to you or what your mind makes you feel things but you can control what you want and you should go for that goal cuz what do you have to lose?

@astoldbynickgerr

3 жыл бұрын

britt 8baanrit the safety that comes with knowing that a certain something something won’t hurt you

@Mxrk_Hxshim

3 жыл бұрын

It help you grow...

@lovetrustandpixiedust

3 жыл бұрын

I used to think that way too, but then I got involved with a guy and even though I wouldn't call it a relationship (we never made it to official status), I grew and learned so much as a result of it. It's worth it.

@Sheeta93

3 жыл бұрын

If you afraidof getting hurt, you end up hurt anyway. That's just how it is. Let that hurt be your manuare/ dung for your life

lying or hiding things to keep the peace is one of my biggesttt annoyances. 1) If you’re upset just say that, let’s talk about it. Hiding your anger will just lead to resentment. 2) If you’re doing something you know you shouldn’t be, respect the other person enough to tell them, so that they have a choice to stay or leave. Hiding info takes away their choice.

Thank you thank you thank you. My relationship ended in August and even though he was kind I felt like dirt being with him. I have had such a hard time articulating what went wrong. Now I can say in the last 4 months nearly ALL of these things happened. It destroyed me, and then ended us. Thank you for the clarity. Also I am in a better place after the relationship ended

@ramparkash2318

3 жыл бұрын

Shayna pilc . Don't disappointed.God will do better . Never leave hope .

1. You spend too much time together. 2. You lack an openness to experience. 3. You lack open communication. 4. You lie to keep the peace. 5. You run away from fights. 6. You act passive aggressive. 7. You nag and criticise. 8. You are no longer affectionate.

"They were a lesson. Not a love"

My last relationship was very toxic but we also spend to much time together, had a lack of open communication - becaue he got angry fast, i also lied to ceep the peace and run away from fights. He praised me, when i wasn't near but didn't treated me that well. Now i try to be more open in communication with my current partner, cause i don't have to fear, that he will insult me or shout at me like my ex. I told him everything what went wrong and why i struggle a bit with communication. He is patient, but says what he thinks and that's what i needed and wanted all the time. I feel more and more safe to speak about problems and my own opinion. I can be myself and that's such an amazing feeling

This helped me a lot. Me and my boyfriend are going through something rn and I'm gonna keep what this video said in mind and try to change and help heal what has happened between us. Wish me good luck :)

Two videos in one day! Did you watch the other one? kzread.info/dash/bejne/n2t61q-rfLXUlKw.html

@heh241

3 жыл бұрын

FIRST REPLY

@Khushi-zf6yg

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the amazing efforts u put in

@julesgarcia7406

3 жыл бұрын

I was lovesick, will that be a bad habbit? (real life)

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

@@Khushi-zf6yg No worries!

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

@@julesgarcia7406 Yeah, it can become an obsession.

Timeline Summary 1.You spend too much time together----00:38 2. You lack openness to experience----1:07 3. You lack open communication----1:36 4. You lie to keep the peace----2:07 5. You run away from fights----2:35 6. You act passive aggressive----3:03 7. You nag and criticize-----3:32 8. You're no longer affectionate----3:57 Watch the full video for more details👍👍👍👍

I can relate to this video. At first I thought it was me who ruined the good friendship with my friend. But after watching this, I can feel like my friend became the "you" in the video. I still don't mind and wanna resolve our relationship problem but she's run away.

When the relationship u r in is not going well and u aren't really able to pinpoint on anything and r messed up in ur mind these videos help a lot.

I don’t want to lose my partner. I love her so much 🥺

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost two years :)

@soIve_et_coagula

3 жыл бұрын

kodiak Is that comment under ur video?? lmao

@hoe_for_history8550

3 жыл бұрын

Thats good... i wish yall peace for the future☺️

@pritigupta8165

3 жыл бұрын

Me too.. But now I'm realizing this.. 'Aggressive narcissistic abuse'.. 😭

@soIve_et_coagula

3 жыл бұрын

Priti Gupta this is a major red flag if you ask me :/

@hoe_for_history8550

3 жыл бұрын

@@soIve_et_coagula how?

The timing man... y'all post a video on the needed topic EVERY TIME

Most of this is what lead to my recent divorce. While most of this was result of my ex action, there was some of it on me. It's good to have videos like to to help people realize any faults or issues they may have, but not realize. Live and learn people and don't make the same mistakes again. I definitely won't!

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem >>>!!!

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

What’s app him >>>!!!

@Snowkone81

2 жыл бұрын

@@laurajames2308 No desire to bring back my ex. Learning to understand my own faults and move on, but thanks for the reply.

Im in my 30s and married and still watches these videos. It seems more difficult than it should be.

@lovelife2115

3 жыл бұрын

+2349019021202

I really love the relationship me and my girlfriend have but sometimes I wonder if what I'm doing is right in the relationship. Currently I'm going to therapy to resolve my issues as well as researching ways I can be a better partner to her. This video helps alot :) this will help me not just better myself but better my relationship

@dragbadekun2210

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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Sadly i'm starting to see two of these behaviours from my partner and one from me....today i need to talk to him and see how he wants this relationship to evolve....Thanks for this video.

@microraptorguy1387

3 жыл бұрын

After talking and clarifying everything i found the problem wasn't due to me or him but the circumstances. I'm happy because this means nothing wrong was in ourselves. My suggestion is to always be clear with the communication and honest with your feelings.

Letting your insecurities get the best of you should definitely be in there! If you're very insecure and constantly dropping that on your partner it can for sure ruin a relationship! There are quite a few things that can ruin a relationship that weren't mentioned here.

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem >>>!!!

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

What’s app him >>>!!!

The four things that will kill a relationship 👍 1) Criticism. All partners moan about each other - from leaving the washing up to being late for dinner - but corrosive criticism (when you criticise their personality) is detrimental to a relationship, 2) Contempt. 3) Defensiveness. 4) Stonewalling.

I was struggling with this now Im glad this appeared~

I just need to vent. I've told her most of this, but it never feels as if she acknowledges any of it, and if she does, the most I get is a "sorry" and repeated actions.. so to get it off my chest, telling her again really only does the opposite of help. So here I am. Keep in mind throughout none of this did I ever say I'm perfect and without mistakes of my own. But any mistakes I make, I acknowledge them and do anything in my power to fix it, to keep her at ease in the future. It won't always work, and I know that, and some things take a long time - again, not perfect - but there's a disparity in my relationship that frightens me to the core. 1: Both guilty, but me more so - we share our individuality together but spend an unfathomable amount of time in each other's presence, and I'm the more eager one for that. 2: neither of us are guilty - we're both open to new experiences. 3: I try my best to openly communicate but she refuses more often than not - I feel like this is better answered in the other points, so I'll leave it there. 4: She does this often and makes it very difficult for me not to do so, though I still don't lie - if anything between us doesn't align perfectly to her end, she will either explode or bottle it into resentment, and if I bring anything up on the flip side, she will get mad or upset, so it gets more and more difficult. 5: She will flee from any conflict, no matter how small or large, and no matter how calm I am (usually very, or I just feel a bit dejected). She will bite, very hard, and try her best to make me want to let her go despite telling me she wants me to not let go, because if I allow her to do what she wants in that state, she says she feels abandoned. She will insist she doesn't care about me and try to leave at every corner, normally making those corners herself. She will personally attack me and make me question everything she spoke positively of before, crushing my spirits and my hope to dust. Normally it's over the littlest things, or she decides to derive something completely random from something I said and refuse any other possibility because "it's how I see it, so it's my truth"; telling her what I meant does not help at all because she closes her eyes to it. If I was feeling a little sad, she explodes at me and makes me out as selfish because I wanted some degree of reassurance, not to be attacked. And she insists that she will never change on this front, and that if I don't like it I should just leave. If I ask her later about whether she means the things she says when she's upset, she also gets mad. I have been angry twice within this relationship and only because she instigated with her own aggression, but even then I did not withdraw affection, attempted understanding or willingness to cooperate and smooth things out. She has been mad dozens of times usually unprovoked and always withdraws these things. 6: If I ask her why she feels a certain way or is acting a certain way towards me, she will never tell. Always passive aggressively digs at me. I have been what could be considered "passive aggressive" on occasion, but in a sad manner and with an explanation as to why I felt the way I did. I'm not justifying it, merely comparing. 7. Sometimes if she promises me that she will do something (almost always something that would be of benefit to the both of us) and I ask her more than once about it later in a span of say, a week, she will simply say "you're nagging me". That shuts me up pretty quickly and I close off to mentioning it again. I actively try to support her with everything she enjoys and does, and in return I get an eerily cheerful "I don't care, so good luck with that" and things of the sort. She is always bringing everyone - their work, achievements, just in general things they do or have done - down around me and when I wonder if she would do the same to me, her explanation is that "she loves me so it doesn't matter". I don't know if she intends to make me feel sufficient in anything but she essentially makes it so that I'm unable to, because for all I know it's terrible and she's building me up out of obligation. Because that's how she frames it. 8. I don't know how to explain this. I'm an affectionate person. She is an affectionate person. She gets less and less able or willing to show me, to offer any courtesies she started, to make me feel wanted. But if I ask about why she stopped doing any of it, she supposedly has no idea that she did that or what i'm talking about. This isn't even including when she's mad or upset. I don't know what to say other than it hurts me too much to withdraw affection even if she's actively doing the same already. If anyone made it this far, sorry for taking up so much of your time, enjoy the rest of your day or night. Just feeling a little broken, and wondering if my efforts are hopeless..

@its4everkuba

3 жыл бұрын

well.. at the end of the day, it is your decision to stay, put up with it, or leave. My advice would be to give her 2 options (because you are saying a lot of personal problems she has), figure out three most important things you want to change within your relationship, tell her "you either stop this/work on this/try harder or you leave me no choice but to leave". I promise you, when you leave, she will come back probably within that same day or week, if she cares about you the way you care for her. If you set your standard high, she will realize that you are not playing. Stop letting her walk over you when you know what she does is wrong. You deserve better than that and I think you already know that. You need to follow your gut. I know you want to be with her but don't you ever settle for less.

@recenityz

3 жыл бұрын

@@its4everkuba Agh.. This is probably good advice, I really appreciate the input, but you may kick me a little for my response.. A bit of backstory, she does not exactly have perfect exes. A couple of years ago she was in a physically and mentally abusive one for a few months, and last year in one where it was clear from her explanation that the guy was just using her in order to not be lonely, and didn't really care for her. This is my understanding, and I don't know what triggered that behaviour in either of them (not that any trigger would be excusable to me, in the same way that I would never act that way myself, but I just wonder their own reasoning at times considering how this current relationship is turning out), but. As far as I know, those exes and a bad family background set her views of herself very very low. If I bring any issue I have about anything up, she gets upset/mad and tries to flee/lash out, pushing me to end the relationship because "she'll never change, she's just like her exes", and gets passive-aggressive or just plain aggressive, and personally attacks me because "she's being defensive because i'm clearly attacking her". I believe she can change, but I also believe it will be immensely easier if she stops trying to convince us both that she can't, and if she puts even a portion of faith in herself that I put in her. Yet she still does, and again just pushes me to leave. I can do as little as just want a little bit of reassurance in a moment because I don't feel the best, and she will attack me and trash herself, acting as if I told her a bunch of things that I haven't once said and refusing to believe otherwise. In short.. coming forward with her is a difficult task, and one that I have tried quite a few times only to my detriment. If I threaten to leave, I don't think she would ever come back from that. She is the type to just disappear in the face of any sort of resistance (a more tame example, let's say some girl came around and flirted with her partner and he did nothing back, she would fall silent and immediately back down or disappear until her partner chose to seek her out) and her method is already to hurt people before she thinks they'll hurt her, so I think she will completely close off from me if I were to do that. And If she were to take me back, it would only be because I was the one who came back. To make herself feel better, I worry she would turn to a specific guy that I'm not fond of again and hurt me pretty deeply (one time when she got upset she shot me down and flirted around with a guy I was acquainted with, "to make herself feel better" - I'm not assuming, she has told me all this herself - and while she didn't cheat, she has made it very clear how apparently sexually compatible they are. She's continued to keep in contact with this guy and yeah it's a bit of an insecurity for me at this point because she has fled to his direct messages instead of helping me face our issues a few too many times. I kind of hate him now, but I know she wouldn't break contact because she was friends with him before I even knew her) And to complicate it even more, she's said quite a few times (while she was happy, not upset, and in an eerily sweet manner) that she has nothing to live for aside from me, so if I were to not be there..... and well, I personally think she does care about me. My fear is that she would do it because of how little she cares about herself. It wouldn't surprise me, given her views and her situation. And I know I'm kind of guilty of those thoughts as well..I just keep them silent. In every other aspect, my standards were high. she surpassed them, and my standards moulded to her. Though over time, she acted more and more in this manner. I know that it's wrong, she knows that it's wrong, but she seems to choose to be a victim of the circumstances she creates for herself.. I think I deserve better than the tendency, but that she deserves me as a person.. My gut tells me not to do something I'd regret, which would be to leave. I just don't know if I can. I really appreciate your kind words but I physically and mentally shake just glazing over the idea.. I'm sorry I occupied so much of your time to then tell you this.

@recenityz

3 жыл бұрын

@@its4everkuba i know i'm 6 months overdue, but i tried and it backfired very very hard

All 8 points are applicable to my marriage. I can see the toxicity between us. It’s been miserable.

@sumockonockthe1st714

Жыл бұрын

I hope you two are able to sort it out dude!!

This can't be coincidence...do you really guys know what's happening in my life...holy shittt all the videos are according to my life!!!!!...btw love you content!

@zynel413

3 жыл бұрын

@@kat-ekyoie7907 please, leave.

@zynel413

3 жыл бұрын

@Hazel ! 20 y.o I WANT SЕЕХ !!!! OPEN MY VIDEO !!!! please, leave.

This is such a great video, I feel we should get more education about these topics in school, it's hard to unlearn bad habits and learn better ones when we don't know about it....

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem >>>!!

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

What’s app him >>>!!

@laurajames2308

2 жыл бұрын

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Some of these videos give me hope and faith about my crush and some just crush that

unfortunately all 8 of these were in my last relationship, some from each side. Its so depressing to see it dwindle after years of being happy together and not know what to do about fixing it

@claireorourke7350

3 жыл бұрын

Probably nothing you could do it happens when you been with someone so long you become like lodgers grow apart or things change in life it's sad but true

She's avoidant, I'm clingy - a recipe for disaster.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

:'(

@Rain_drops1004

3 жыл бұрын

Felttt, he’s avoidant and I’m clingy so it just goes in a circle. Sadly think I’m gonna have to move on

@academicfailure8182

3 жыл бұрын

Why did your comment sound like a wattpad summary...?

@user-tl2rp3kj5u

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rain_drops1004 Yeah, that's what I did, it's exhausting chasing someone.

@user-tl2rp3kj5u

3 жыл бұрын

@@academicfailure8182 I noticed when I read it again 😂 unfortunately it's reality.

The animation is so nice in this one.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like it! :)

Married 21 yrs..it's so hard but I love him alot but alot of psychological work...I try to be a good helpful wife filled with empathy...I also pray alot because life is difficult..I just want to be 😊 happy in my marriage with the lord also..I wish everyone the best on here!

I am me and you are you, I’m not in this world to meet your expectations and, You are not in this world to fulfill mine. You’re you and I’m me. If at any time or at any point we meet, and we agree, it’s beautiful. Otherwise, we have little to do together. You’re you and I’m me. Lack of love for myself, when in the attempt to please you I betray myself. Lack of love for you, when I try to make you the way I want you to be. Instead of accepting you for who you really are. You’re you and I’m me. Fritz Perls

Dang you’re emotions and my emotions are valid wanna date? Lolololol And the animations were so cute and smooth while displaying so much emotion it was awesome but sad at the same time 😔🥺

Relationships are everywhere, so this might be useful for me later down the line. Or not. Still interesting though.

number 4 is the arrow dead in the heart for like 90% of people. a lot of the time the other person is picking a fight for amusement, so I break up with them to demonstrate I ain't a punching bag and they don't make me happy and actively do make me sad. being single doesn't always suck.

I had a relationship that started out really really well. After a couple of months, he started to criticize the way I did things. I criticized him back for not helping me do much. He disappeared and slept all day and would only be awake at night. I had to take care of 90% of responsibilities and felt like a bad person when I asked him for help, because of how he reacted when I did. When I tried to snuggle in bed with him, he said I hogged the bed. I would sleep on the couch so I didn't disturb his rest. After a few years of this, I did become really passive aggressive. We were miserable and I was insanely lonely all the time. All day I would look at the bedroom door like a dog, hoping he would get up. I finally broke up with him. He was diagnosed with autism and ADHD. We're good friends, I care about him very much, but I'll never forget the years of loneliness and depression, and what drove me to be passive aggressive and critical of him. Autism is a hard thing to deal with for the person who has it, but it has a huge impact on the lives of people closest to them, until we learn that we don't have the right to expect anything of them.

Doesn't this apply to friendships too? I think so

Watching this vid even though I'm too smart for it.

I used to had a younger boyfriend we met at Bellevue College, on Tuesday September 17 2019 we didn’t knew each other very well, we were just stranger to one another at that time I was focus on Pictionary game. I didn’t knew actually the game work I felt overwhelmed, by not known how to played this game until I felt someone’s hand softly touched my hand, and helped me out when I turned around I had a massive crush on him. His attractiveness got my eyes I didn’t knew, he had fell in love with me he didn’t knew I had the same feeling toward him as well, we introduced each other and afterwards for a few days, we being just friends we talked a lot about everything as friends actually do. We did many activities with each other inside and outside of Bellevue College everything was very amazing the day before Halloween, in the middle of the month of 2019 he told me how he felt for me, and I told him how I felt for him as well gradually we texted with each other about scheduled our first date, so we plan ahead of time and on the day of Halloween after our class were ended in between, we went on our first date to Genki Sushi, in Factoria afterwards ever since then everything went perfectly amazing. On Friday November 1 2019 he told me we’re official boyfriend and girlfriend, we felt so happy being in a relationship with each other everything was very amazing I had say something about committed suicide hurt him badly, until middle of August he break up with me and that hurt me deeply

Great advice; thanks for the video. Sometimes it's easy to let stuff slip through the cracks, and you don't even realize it. I can relate to every point made in this video. Sometimes it can get to the point where it feels too late to correct any mistakes, making it harder to communicate

Just when i was crying last night i see this the next morning lmao psych2go really knows...

:"passive aggressiveness" Me remembering how I acted yesterday: oh

My poor communication definitely sabotaged my relationship. Especially going back to the same person. It hurts but we all learn new things

I really love this video because it shows that keeping a relationship is effort but it’s worth it. Today many people think that you don’t have to do anything to keep the relationship up.