7 Ways to SPEAK WITH CONFIDENCE to People Who Make You Nervous at Work

How to Speak With Confidence to People Who Make You Nervous at Work // In this video, you will learn the proven strategies that have helped me to have confident conversations with people who make me nervous. 👇 NEW Product Recommendations below 👇
In the professional world, speaking with confidence is really important. But sometimes you might be in a conversation with somebody who is intimidating (like your boss, a coworker or a client). In those times you must present a confident version of yourself. But how can you do that when you're feeling nervous, stressed or anxious on the inside?
Knowing how to speak with confidence is a skill I've mastered over many years and now I know how to look confident when I don't feel confident on the inside. These tips have definitely worked for me and I know they can work for you too.
Let's learn how to have confident conversations with people who make you nervous! This video includes 4 main tips to help you speak with confident and 3 bonus tips, so 7 tips in total to help you speak with confidence to people who make you nervous.
Timestamps
00:00 How to speak with confidence to people who make you nervous at work.
00:29 How the fight or flight response stops you from speaking confidently.
01:29 Why does that person make you nervous?
02:50 Plan for the conversation that makes you nervous.
05:12 Have the conversation.
06:15 Bonus Tip #1: Go into that conversation bold!
06:51 Reflect on the conversation so you can improve for the next time.
07:41 Bonus Tip #2: Use confident body language in stressful conversations.
08:12 Bonus Tip #3: Be careful of passive language giveaways.
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  • @kararonin
    @kararonin2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching! Do you get nervous when speaking to certain people at work? What was the reason you wrote down as to "why" you get nervous?

  • @PaulaAndreaGaviriaMarmolejo
    @PaulaAndreaGaviriaMarmolejo10 ай бұрын

    Not seeking validation is the greatest tip that helps for me. I don’t like confrontation and always like people to like me which makes me super nervous when speaking up. I’m reminding myself that there are other principles that are more valuable to me than being liked, like staying true to myself. ❤

  • @VeronicaMokoka-jn3ci
    @VeronicaMokoka-jn3ci Жыл бұрын

    This video was literally made for me.. I'm usually intimated by people more knowledgeable than me

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm glad to hear this video was helpful!

  • @sarasarassss
    @sarasarassss Жыл бұрын

    As the youngest person in my workplace and in all external meetings… I needed this. Also good to know that I’m not the only one struggling with this, since I’m surrounded by lots of outgoing folks. I appreciate you so much! Much love from Washington DC

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    You're definitely not the only person who suffers this. I hope this video and the others on my channel help you.

  • @fatoukanyi6666
    @fatoukanyi66667 күн бұрын

    I am new at work, but I feel little bit nervous and unconfident. I wish I have watched this video before performance my Morgenkries yesterday in Germany. You are one of the best adviser I have had. I will use this video to improve my confidence and interlegent. I thank you!

  • @Bill-ws4ke
    @Bill-ws4ke Жыл бұрын

    Brilliant, thank you. I DO need to have a conversation like this. This was helpful. Again, thank you. Key: set a date. Don’t put it off. Be prepared. Practice.

  • @lil.mushie
    @lil.mushie Жыл бұрын

    I don't know is it just me who listen her so clear and easy to understand her English. Her articulation is purely gold! I'm not good in English but despite of the low volume, I'm so proud of myself that I can still listen your voice clearly.

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy to hear that!

  • @phatphan6139
    @phatphan613910 ай бұрын

    Thank you.😃watch again and again to learn it and also learn English

  • @YogaLoveAngie1118
    @YogaLoveAngie11188 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video. I'm always experienced this when I talked to someone specially my boss. But bcoz I watched your video. I am so impressed and learned. Thanks for sharing.🇵🇭

  • @ashikislamofficial786
    @ashikislamofficial786 Жыл бұрын

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    @HenriquesPiresDumboManue-hx1sq Жыл бұрын

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    @NaveenKumar-td5bo5 күн бұрын

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    @jenniferogonda7816 Жыл бұрын

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  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad you enjoy my content!

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    @cristinasilva3564 Жыл бұрын

    This is precious- 5🌟! Thank you🙏

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @ankursingh9023
    @ankursingh90234 ай бұрын

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    @emmanuelkehinde2503 Жыл бұрын

    Stumbled on your channel and the practical tips you share here is invaluable. Just subscribed!

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

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    @asifmuniruniverse7732 Жыл бұрын

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  • @sunvaj6754
    @sunvaj6754 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Kara, I worked for a non-profit agency for 23 years. And, the executive director always put me down and oppressed me. I didn't know what to do because she was the ED. When she said negative things to me I just ignored her. Now, I'm out of there and I learned to forgive her slowly. Thanks for your valuable information.

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm glad this video has helped you now in your career. Thank you!

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    @juanromero318110 ай бұрын

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    @shankar91918 ай бұрын

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  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for your kind message Sivasankar! I'm delighted you found my channel too 😀

  • @GUAYABAFELIZ
    @GUAYABAFELIZ Жыл бұрын

    Hi Kara - I wanted to thank you for making this video and sharing this information. This is precisely what I need at this moment. I recently faced a challenging experience at work with an undermining boss. I felt that I was not valued or appreciated in my organization. I am slowly recovering from that situation. Your words about thinking I am capable and worthy have impacted me tremendously. I will be watching the video about becoming more acertive. Thank you, and God bless you.

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so happy this video and the concept of thinking you're capable has helped you. It's important to remember this because others may not always recognise your value (for their own reasons). But you need to so you can keep progressing. Thank you for watching Diana!

  • @Native_love

    @Native_love

    11 ай бұрын

    Definitely those self encouraging words do help!

  • @user-ke6mq1ui4n
    @user-ke6mq1ui4n3 ай бұрын

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    @nickkyhexto2165 Жыл бұрын

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  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow! Thank you very much!

  • @gabrielvasquez905
    @gabrielvasquez905 Жыл бұрын

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  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Gabriel! And welcome!

  • @monikabrunner6355
    @monikabrunner63552 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for that great video. Greetings from Switzerland 🏵

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello Monika! Thank you for watching!

  • @marcellinemendoume773
    @marcellinemendoume773 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this great video, it will help me!!! Just subscribed! From Gabon...

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad to hear this video helped you! Thank you for subscribing!

  • @janj5913
    @janj5913 Жыл бұрын

    I am so passive, ugh. I will work on this going forward. Thank you!

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope this video and others on my channel help you. Thank you for watching!

  • @faisalabbas9803
    @faisalabbas98034 ай бұрын

    Hello mam ya you are saying true I need a lot of practice but continue to speak without halt is so easy because it depends on my presence of mind .....how aware we are with our surrounding for example if someone says to me to speak on snow fall as winter season is on so snow fall is More in hilly areas but in planes there rate of falling is less as compared to hilly area ...And two things arises peninsular rivers filled with water whereas some other river has no effect of it because there are filled thought out the year with water much water can cause a situation of flood Or many stream can be start to flow from mountain because rivers originate from stream ..And stream is cause of breaking rock when flow of water is so high Or strong .....And One More thing when speak your focus is so strong you don't distract for a moment And other two thing are also good which I found Or see in you for example a little smile with speaking make a good impression on opposite Person so Chain method is the best way to improve this language because in that method each One get a proper chance to speak fluently ....🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @mohibquadri6957
    @mohibquadri69572 жыл бұрын

    Great one ! I don't know if its nervousness or not as i get nervous when speaking to new people & at professional events.

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is really common Mohib. New people and professional events get a lot of people nervous.I hope these tips in this video will help you out.

  • @fascinationofquotation
    @fascinationofquotation Жыл бұрын

    You are a great teacher.

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @rob5800can
    @rob5800can Жыл бұрын

    This totally made sense to me. If I can sing in a band and we rehearse to be better, why would I not do this in business? Crazy simple, but until you said it, I never made the connection.

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm glad this video has helped you make the connection!

  • @FRIENDSKEEPER
    @FRIENDSKEEPER11 ай бұрын

    Love love love your Video❤️

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @Marked992
    @Marked9922 жыл бұрын

    You definitely need more subscribers!

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much! More subscribers will come as my channel grows!

  • @larajames9972
    @larajames99728 ай бұрын

    How do you appear collaborative without using passive comment giveaways? For people who are confident and assertive (e.g. me), who have been told to use more passive language to show openness to others input, how would you advise us?

  • @cabdirisaaqdaahir7884
    @cabdirisaaqdaahir7884 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for speaking my needs, when I start my lecture I get nervous. Please give me example s of stoping, From Somalia

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    Getting nervous is common for many people. I think the tips in this video will definitely help you out. I also have another video on public speaking that will help you kzread.info/dash/bejne/d6tms699n7TfcZM.html

  • @user-xw1uw8si4q
    @user-xw1uw8si4q11 ай бұрын

    Dear Kara, I have recently started listening to your videos, they are very effective and informative Thankyou. However, In my work place the things come up very uncertainly. My Ceo is quite a talkative person who do not let me speak, or sometime I am talking but he would be on phone or stated to talk to other people that is too confusing. Often this happens that he misses the good part of my discussion. Suggest please.

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    11 ай бұрын

    I'm glad you like my videos! I have another video that might help you out with your situation kzread.info/dash/bejne/gI2Os9OznrW1c9o.html It's about how to stop people interrupting you. Other than tips I share in that video, I'd recommend being persistent and repeating your key message to your CEO.

  • @sharonbolmentbolment8951
    @sharonbolmentbolment8951 Жыл бұрын

    amazing video

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @mdmoniruzzaman2112
    @mdmoniruzzaman2112 Жыл бұрын

    very amazing

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @IsraelBrizuela
    @IsraelBrizuela Жыл бұрын

    I am now a fan Kara :)

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    Fantastic! Thank you Israel!

  • @gopinathg2277
    @gopinathg2277 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you mam 🙏.

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  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    Brilliant! And welcome!

  • @user-ke6mq1ui4n
    @user-ke6mq1ui4n3 ай бұрын

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  • @lilabukvic4216
    @lilabukvic4216 Жыл бұрын

    You speak fast and use many words. But I love to listen to you even its not possible to me to learn from you. I have posttraumatical stress syndrom.

  • @kararonin

    @kararonin

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep trying and replay the videos if you don't understand something.

  • @lilabukvic4216

    @lilabukvic4216

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @TourTanDa356
    @TourTanDa35622 күн бұрын

    I learn more English, but don't confident when SPEAK ENGLISH with people, can't speak out loud, I'm so nervous to speak, maybe I'm no practice speak everyday !

  • @user-sm6qu2yh4w
    @user-sm6qu2yh4w9 күн бұрын

    Send this to me I can't keep my concentration right now

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    @asifmuniruniverse7732 Жыл бұрын

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    @theonmorales99053 ай бұрын

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    @Gachartales71244 ай бұрын

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