7 Things To Avoid When Depressed
Depression is associated with persistently negative feelings, significantly affecting your thoughts and behaviour. It’s important to educate yourself on matters of depression, to sift through the misconceptions and avoid doing anything that might worsen the symptoms for you or those around you. Here's a video we also did on signs of concealed depression: • 6 Signs of Concealed D...
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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animation: Evelvaii
KZread Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
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World Health Organization (2019). An Overview of Depression. Retrieved from www.who.int/ne...
Lin, N., Dean, A., &Ensel, W. M. (Eds.) (2013). Social Support, Life Events, and Depression, Academic Press.
Hoong, S., Hasche, L., &Bowland, S. (2009). Structural Relationships Between Social Activities ad Longitudinal Trajectories of Depression Among Older Adults. The Gerontologist, 49 (1), 1-11.
Srinivasan, J., Cohen, N. L., & Parikh, S. V. (2003). Patient Attitudes Regarding Causes of Depression: Implications for Psychoeducation. The Canadian Journal of Psychiatry, 48(7), 493-495.
Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance (2018). Depression Statistics. Retrieved from www.dbsallianc...
Novick, D., Montgomery, W., Vorstenbosch, E., Moneta, M. V., Dueñas, H., & Haro, J. M. (2017). Recovery in patients with major depressive disorder (MDD): results of a 6-month, multinational, observational study. Patient preference and adherence, 11, 1859
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@scooter_rat3720
4 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@hellobro_.
4 жыл бұрын
No problem you are very helpful with all this info thank you so much :)
@MochiBunKhoi
4 жыл бұрын
Ye
@Theguywithspectacles
4 жыл бұрын
🙂
@MochiBunKhoi
4 жыл бұрын
{ Wolfie 16 } What they said 😞✌🏾
Depression is like being colorblind and then constantly told about how colorful the world is.
@lovelydolltime8006
4 жыл бұрын
It's like seeing only black and white when everyone else gets to see colors. It sucks.
@inxious227
4 жыл бұрын
This is an underrated comment
@applebits8324
4 жыл бұрын
That's a very good metaphor
@allyc544
4 жыл бұрын
"just look at the color, it's not that hard"
@oceanetir8824
4 жыл бұрын
POETRY Ú-Ù👌
"3. Don't isolate yourself." *2020 intensifies*
@deadmanreading3152
4 жыл бұрын
All the more reason internet connection is a human right, and should be publicly funded.
@acesix5354
4 жыл бұрын
PretentiousPrince1532 and that’s something I can drink to lmao (Mountain Dew btw because 🙃)
@cutemaxwell8159
4 жыл бұрын
697 likes. Don't ruin the 69 for me
@treeguardien
4 жыл бұрын
@Maceo Garza i have already fallen...its [i do not know how to spell out the word im feeling]
@miriammcgee
4 жыл бұрын
Yep
Depression seems to have a reset button. Everytime I try to be happy, it doesn't last long and I'm back to being depressed again. It's a never ending cycle for me 😔
@yn1642
3 жыл бұрын
Same. I was feeling depressed this time last year. I was okay for some months truly. But looks like it's coming back again
@IzhanTFN
3 жыл бұрын
Well it doesnt dissapear completely... its just there but not as bad.
@Pogchadman
3 жыл бұрын
That's the same with me it's been 3 years and I haven't been able to live normally for more than 4 or 5 days
@yoongiii265
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@c.b7169
3 жыл бұрын
that’s exactly how I feel. you’re not alone🖤❤️
To be honest, I get happy sometimes but most of the time I’m really sad for no reason to everything just feels like it’s going wrong in that any time. Any little thing that happens I just want to cry.
The hard thing is when I don't know why I'm sad.... makes it harder to talk about it
@stoofypoof7998
4 жыл бұрын
I wrote this song about my depression. Hope it can help someone. kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqZh1JpuZay-n7w.html
@Universal_energy3
4 жыл бұрын
OMG this is me🤒
@koba101
4 жыл бұрын
same
@Allthegoodusernamestaken
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree
@findev6330
4 жыл бұрын
I highly recommend this book called "Steps to Christ" this book really help me overcome depression, here's the link m.egwwritings.org/en/book/2017/toc
Who can't say it to their Love ones?Cause they will never believe you..
@diadiaa892
3 жыл бұрын
I did to my mum. It got thrown back in my face, and i was told i was overreacting and shouldn’t be depressed. That i should be greatfuI. I won’t be surprised if she uses it against me or mocks me of it to my siblings later on. (Update: she ended up doing both, it fcking sucked) Try finding someone else who you can trust and you know won’t throw it back im your face. It could be a cousin like it was for me. Or a friend.
@smiles4you142
3 жыл бұрын
@@diadiaa892 Hhahahaa mee too 🤣🤣😒😑😶😔😟🙁☹️😥😢😞😓😞
@RadioMuffinEAS
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah..
@johnlaureles9783
3 жыл бұрын
BIG JUICY FACTS
@savenlevenz5141
3 жыл бұрын
I'm scared, they won't believe me and will say, "it's all in your head, snap out of it"
"Mom, I think im having some depression." "Yeah, its probably that damn phone of yours hand it over we'll take a 2 month grounded break from all electronics!" "Mom, that doesn't help." "Yeah, looks like your faking it" And looks like ill have even more depression from not texting my friends...they make everything better
@trot-vh3lt
3 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel
@Devinisrealcool
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@Fantasianist
3 жыл бұрын
I feel you...
@iamsongmama5189
2 жыл бұрын
My teacher: Your parents are the only one who care about you! Me: And some people don't
@Artemis.222
2 жыл бұрын
So true
I’ve been diagnosed with depression 2 years ago. The worst part for me is everyday life being so exhausting. When I try to be happier, it lasts for like a few days until I get super exhausted from trying to be happy.
That awkward moment when you’re finally honest about your feelings to your parents and everything goes just as poorly as you expected it to.🥲
@ashy2772
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah and double when they themselves struggle with the same things
@jolieusher
3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry :/
@blackswan7033
3 жыл бұрын
Then they double back with "you're young, what are you depressed about? What about me" The endless comparison and in validation of my feelings is why I never tell my family anything
@narinnadeem
3 жыл бұрын
They told me I am too young for depression (I am 16 for god's sake)and said that k should be grateful for having a life like this and then they just rubbed in my face that they never say no to me and get me anything I want but they don't see that those things don't make me happy what makes me happy is just a hug I don't remember hugging my family for the longest of times I can't tell my friend about this cuz she herself is dealing with depression and abuse it's just fucked up she tried hard and opened up to me and I am so glad about it so I don't wanna burden her about my stuff I just tell myself that It will get better even if I know it won't I still have hope
@ng2861
3 жыл бұрын
@@narinnadeem I feel like you just opened my diary and read it out
Society: Family is Always beside you And family: Gets me depressed
@liliththerat8124
3 жыл бұрын
My family is one of the main reasons I think I’m depressed
@liliththerat8124
3 жыл бұрын
@@megamanfan6969 I used to get punched but they scream at me now and say it’s because of my phone and that hurts as much as being punched and slapped
@candymi5639
3 жыл бұрын
My depression is getting worse and worse my family is the reason. They never understand they are brainf...
@megamanfan6969
3 жыл бұрын
@@candymi5639 same bro
@tanjina7571
3 жыл бұрын
I feel you😫
Anxiety happens when you think you have to figure out everything all at once . Breathe . You're strong . You got this . Take it day by day .
@mirabelben2462
Жыл бұрын
I am feeling the same way too, I put too much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels. I am also glad to be part of this community.
@mirabelben2462
Жыл бұрын
Does he ship?
@liamphilpkent6250
Жыл бұрын
Yes, he ships discreet and anonymous
@liamphilpkent6250
Жыл бұрын
Dr.healingstrain
@liamphilpkent6250
Жыл бұрын
iG ☝️☝
I mostly get depressed when I look around my room and see all the stuff that my parents bought me, and then I think of mean things long ago that I did to them when I was young and it and it still gets to me
@Spinelsofficalwife
2 жыл бұрын
Same 😭
@ThatGirlYouKnow97
Жыл бұрын
You've got to forgive yourself. We have all done ungrateful things to our parents as kids.
"Don't keep depression a secret" Me: "Hey, Dad? I think I may have depression." My Dad: "I went through that phase as a kid too. It's normal. You're fine." Let me tell you, I never talked to anyone about my concern about depression after that.
@avastars3393
3 жыл бұрын
Talk to me . I am going through depression too
@adamsrankings8860
3 жыл бұрын
@@avastars3393 same. I think u just need to talk to the right person. Not everyone understands.
@neserz1697
3 жыл бұрын
My mom told me I’m just trying to be cool when I said I think I might have depression.
@aritheastronaut5949
3 жыл бұрын
My mom told me to ignore my feelings and not pay attention to them then she said it was probably my period or something...then I told her I’d been feeling that way for a long time and it never goes away then she started yelling at me and then started asking me was “crazy” or “dangerous” or if I had “mental issues.” Now I no longer tell people about my problems.
@cuddlebunny3353
3 жыл бұрын
my friend just laughed when i told her....
When you try to reach for help but the 'ones around you' don't really care- its the worst feeling.
@FlashBangBANGz
3 жыл бұрын
I reached out to my mother and she called me crazy.
@justicemybeloved9864
3 жыл бұрын
@@FlashBangBANGz depression is not crazy, it's something serious that most people go trough. Maybe try to talk to someone else about it or convince your mom to get you to a therapist
@rithikaramesh9234
3 жыл бұрын
Yep I have some frds but they say hi and I ask them how are u they say nothing even though they saw the msg Parents say that they love me but I wanna ask them back do u really love me ?? Sibling I tell her everything and I if tell that iam depressed she will just laugh like I told her a joke
@ricenoodles-4800
3 жыл бұрын
@@troopedwith5650 ah yes i can relate! welp what about we love each other now, people who feel the same?
@MoonchildDontCry
3 жыл бұрын
It's even worse when you reach out they say they care but hurt you more to the point of panic attack/meltdown.
Man life sucks. I don't really have an outlet for what I'm feeling, I don't have anyone that I'm close enough to talk about this kind of things. I'm scared of not being understood or just get mocked or step aside. I just feel like everything is just going bad. I also just go and play games to try and ignore my problems but just recently I realized this won't do anything good for me. I really want to fix my life but my environment just makes me want to disappear and just never wake up again. I don't really hate myself but I hate my life and my circumstances. If any of the people reading this got some advice on how to like get better while you're completely by yourself please do. I don't want everything to stay like this anymore. I really want to get better. I don't know if this would help but I'm 16 atm turning 17 this year. Whenever I try to improve myself sudden fatigue just comes out of nowhere or some outside things that I can't control just go bad and my mood to do anything just gets completely ruined and I'll just go back and watch KZread videos or play video games. Man, I just don't know anymore. Also idk if my english is bad or what but my primary language isn't english so my bad for that.
@bradymichael6100
3 жыл бұрын
I ended up being a drug addict with depression! My problem already solved since 8years, but I started taking drugs due to depression! No matter what you're going through, know that your problems are temporary, but if you decide to commit suicide or to take drugs, your beloved will suffer more than you! Don't take decisions based on your feelings because feelings are deceitful!
@LtRee96se
3 жыл бұрын
You're English is just fine. The important thing is to be able to start talking. Have you tried school counselors? I don't know what they are like, they are different everywhere. But they could help, maybe. You don't know me. I don't know you. YOu are going on 17. I am going on 59. We must both keep living. We have to help those like us. That's what I try to do.
@Aliyah-ls3jl
Ай бұрын
I also play video games to ignore my depression and surroundings. I always think about me from to years ago. I was happy, popular at school, pretty, and had people to support me. Now, all of that is gone..
Im a teen and I really hate having depression, it isolates me from the world, it makes me feel bad about myself, it makes me stressed. But tonight I couldn't hold it in anymore, I told my parents about it and it was the best thing ever. They were willing to get me the help I needed and made me feel comfortable to talk to them. I'm going to see my doctor about it soon and my mom told me that things will get better and that I should always look at the bright side of the future and not the negative side. This video also helped a lot. I am going to try to do better and get my life up again. This video helped me and I feel it should for others.
“When you lowkey need help but depression doesn’t exist in Asian households” 🙂🤟
@vivianchenloveforever
4 жыл бұрын
So true. My Asian friend used to tell me this: when she tell her parents she has depression, her parents says “that is no such as depression, atleast not for you. You are just being dramatic, stop acting out and you should know obey the elders are the most important things you should learn” Me: .......(trying hard to convince her ran away from this toxic environment)
@ageamiu8923
4 жыл бұрын
Eddite. Nic Then later they‘ll probably cry about their child never calling or visiting and how respectless it is.
@Fildoggy
4 жыл бұрын
stay strong my friend perhaps when you leave home you can get some help
@savitasingh65
4 жыл бұрын
Same bro true
@marblesisimmortal1162
4 жыл бұрын
Im Hispanic and I wanna tell my parents that I think I have depression but if I told my parents they would just say that kids can't have depression.
Avoid hanging out with toxic friends when you're depressed.
@gilgaladinfp8452
4 жыл бұрын
@Nalia Wolfie we shouldn't we are depressed we are not toxic. . .
@brookreed9621
4 жыл бұрын
Avoid hanging out with toxic friends always! That being said make sure they are actually toxic and it’s not your depression talking and reading into things
@andreialcaza
4 жыл бұрын
I struggle to find healthy people
@samanthatanner9189
4 жыл бұрын
when you’re afraid of being alone but your depression wants you to be isolated but you want to hang out with people but the people are toxic and don’t want to hang out with you so they make you feel like even more crap
@734gman-vs5uf
4 жыл бұрын
@@brookreed9621 yup. Just avoid them if theyre depressed while you call yourself a friend!
When I told my parents and they just laughed, saying they had bad days too.. they don't understand depression is like bad year's
@s1lence.
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
Sometimes I really want to talk to my friends about my emotions, but because some of my friends have depression as well, I keep getting worried that those negative things I say will make my friends feel even more depressed... It's hard to both try to express my emotions to someone while also taking care of my friends' emotions...
@aw4170
2 жыл бұрын
Jup I totally agree with you😔
@akmal94ibrahim
2 жыл бұрын
I find talking to people who are also depressed or have gone through it iss the best way because you understand each other. Kinda like an Alcoholic's Anonymous meeting. You can express your feelings (or rather, lack of feelings) without anyone judging.
The poem I wrote when i feel depressed : Oh, why I feel so empty inside? I wanna go far far away and hide Clean and swept away my troubled mind And the peace I hope I can surely find. Oh, dear life why you are so difficult? Why i feel like this is all my fault? I wanna escape the tormented past I had That keep taunting me and it really makes me mad. My mind is so messy, i just want to lay Keep my eyes close and sleep all day Thinking it is just a dream or bad fantasy Put it in my mind that it is not a reality. But, no matter how many times I lie at myself I ended up realizing it is real and not imaginary My messy world actually exists And my fantasy is no more in help.
@Chloe-mj1rx
3 жыл бұрын
This Is actually a really good poem☺ Does this help you? I write songs whenever I feel like my mental state is getting worse. It's always good to have "something" to turn to If you don't have a "someone".
@kexinchen8368
3 жыл бұрын
WOW, I need to do that too. You are really creative and i like your poem. I think writing your feelings out is a good way to talk with someone that does not exists.
@yesimadirectioner8730
3 жыл бұрын
I sang it and woah i love the lyrics i feel like this can be made into a song like when its done you go back to the first sentence then the last
@yesimadirectioner8730
3 жыл бұрын
@@Chloe-mj1rx yall can be a song writer!
@Nick07900
3 жыл бұрын
This, this would be an epic upbeat jpop song, they are always upbeat but have sad beautiful lyrics
When you have Depression, you don't want to die but you wish you were never born.
@NOBODY-yc7mj
4 жыл бұрын
Don't think about that ever again. I got trashed because I used to tell people I have depression. Instead I think fuck people if they're the reason LEAVE them, I felt being a loser I still am and I think it will take time to get where I want to be and I will but don't feel lagging because they're going forward they aren't you, your situation problems and yourself is different. If you're unhappy with these things change it even if it's your behaviour. Take care of yourself first and think what's right. Good luck 😊😊😉 make one reason to live ( even if it's for just coffee) even if there's thousands of reasons to die. Don't lose hope. You ain't born to die just because of your problems
@maryamabdi7241
4 жыл бұрын
Wish you feel better soon.
@KinkShamer
4 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I feel
@mattea4338
4 жыл бұрын
I see it as the pain trumps the will to live.
@urmom-vo5le
4 жыл бұрын
I want to die, but I'm too afraid Ó~Ò
As someone who battles MDD I love this information so much, just knowing I can win against this beast continues to give me hope. Thank you so much for creating this channel because for a lot of us professional help is way too expensive especially when you're young.
I tried telling it my family. They always scold me for being sad but they don't even ask me why am I sad. They think I can easily switch mood. I want to die please
@jrodd13
3 жыл бұрын
It may be hard, but, you need to fight back against that. The next time they try to scold you for being depressed, sit down and have a talk with them about what depression is, no matter how hard it is. They're your family and I'm sure they love you very much. The reason they're frustrated is because they don't understand and take their anger out on you. If they still don't understand, then reach out to the internet for help. There are many, many people out there who would love to try and help you, such as myself, so don't be shy! (I'm very depressed as well, but I enjoy helping others, it's the only thing that makes me feel happy, so I do it. You should try and find something similar to give you something to look forward to each day!)
@s1lence.
3 жыл бұрын
Life may be tough right now, but soon it will work out. I’m going through the same situation... sometimes it is so hard to stay positive... but try. Even if you can’t yet, it’s okay. I hope you the best of luck in life! ❤️
@LegacyCat386M
2 жыл бұрын
L’Internationale, Unites The Human Race! ✊🏽✊🏽
@Hope-ou3mv
2 жыл бұрын
I can't give you any advice since I am also facing the same situation You are not alone in this
I’ve had suicidal thoughts since i was 9. It’s getting worse. I feel like i need to be alone. I feel like i’m just empty and somebodies stabbing my heart all the time. My parents started thinking i’m depressed but i don’t need help in my mind. I can fight it myself. So i started acting happy. I never tell anybody this but i needed to get it off my chest
@vixen8583
3 жыл бұрын
Same over here :( I relate so bad to this it hurts I’m sorry :(
@lexasheda5063
3 жыл бұрын
@@vixen8583 i’m so sorry please get better love ❤️
@vixen8583
3 жыл бұрын
@@lexasheda5063 thank you so much 😊 but same to you! You’re so important:)
@shubu9225
3 жыл бұрын
@Eadlyn I'm here for ya, talk to me i promise you won't regret your decision ❤
@lexasheda5063
3 жыл бұрын
@EliteDz # Chanelle you can’t just tell somebody to change their religion lmao
"There are people who cares about you" Me: *laughs in being back stabbed for hundreds of time*
@tanishaagrawal4533
3 жыл бұрын
Are u a blink.
@rosemakesmequestionmysexua4540
3 жыл бұрын
@@tanishaagrawal4533 yes
@euri4967
3 жыл бұрын
ouch...
@kamh64
3 жыл бұрын
ROSÉ MAKES ME QUESTION MY SEXUALITY I feel you pain 😭
@user-ci7vu7eo9w
3 жыл бұрын
me too.no more friends to help me
Last week I ran my first 5k without stopping and all the time I could hear the voice in my head saying that I can do it. Forwago, thank you so much for everything!!
Growing up, I always saw my family fight everyday since I was 6 until today. Saw my father having drinking problems and even cheated on my mom. I was a daddy's s girl. I trusted my father, but he broke it. Got bullied when i was on elementary, and felt like an outcast during high school. Graduated, and went to college. But dropped out due to covid and im not really that privileged. Felt ashamed because people know me as a consistent student and i know that i disappointed my parents. I asked for my grandma's help, but she just shouted at me, calling me a burden and useless. I also got jealous because my grandma only love her grandchild who are smart, unlike me. After all those stuff, i also found out that my mom is also cheating. It is really unexpected. And now, im having a hard time trusting people. I dont have someone beside to talk about stiffs like this because im scared. So please allow me to share it here where i am anonymous.
I felt alone. Hopeless, criticized, a buirden for everyone. I was walking home, almost crying, thinking about how i made everyone’s life harder or worst. I suddenly stopped. There were cars on the road i was walking on. i though “jump, noone will notice you left, and the ones who will later might actually be happier”. I wanted to let a car take my life. I was about to do it. only negative thoughts on my mind, on how i should leave, for everyone’s best. I bowed my knees, my thoughts were getting heavyer and worse as seconds passed. My mind was screaming “DO IT”. Then, a word bumped into my head. It was like a soft but powerfull scream. It Made me open my eyes. That word was actually a name: my best friend’s one. She didn’t deserve to suffer. I’ve already seen her cry in front of everyone the day after i told her i was raped. As long as i could remember she never cryed, so i knew for sure that she cared about me. How could i do such a thing to someone i loved? Slowly, i walked home, silently crying as i walked. If it weren’t for her, i wouldn’t be here. So, if you’re reading this since i know you watch those videos, Grazie cucciola mia. Sorry if i Made any mistakes. Also, remember: you’re not alone💗
@theprehistoricpoet
4 жыл бұрын
Your comments are an inspiration to anyone reading them, what a good kind person you are for sharing! Regards David ❤️
@victorlopal
4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's hard, but sometimes gets better. Lean on the people you know, and talk to them if you think they will understand you. Stay strong💪🔥
@Joe-ib3dy
4 жыл бұрын
I don’t have any friends to think about in that way
@eltiolavara9
4 жыл бұрын
that's really good and i'm glad you're alive, but i don't think it's very healthy to just live for someone else. just my two cents have you been to a therapist?
@chipchop3948
4 жыл бұрын
I wish you be happier and stronger dear lady. I wish you find someone you can trust and trust you back, caress and protects you 24/7.
Depression: *die* Anxiety: *No. No I don’t think I will*
@r4venblu3
4 жыл бұрын
Then keep that anxiety, as long as it keeps you alive. Your life is precious. It has ups and downs, although depression makes you think there are no positive things. You must try to push through, because it will get better. You just have to find that "better" yourself.
@tessarutchik7175
4 жыл бұрын
Anxiety is more stressing what will happen after you die.
@stoofypoof7998
4 жыл бұрын
I wrote this song about my depression. Hope it can help someone. kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqZh1JpuZay-n7w.html
@haf3113
4 жыл бұрын
Holy fucking crap you just described exactly what I was trying to talk about thank you
@parentalonion6552
4 жыл бұрын
Lmao yep that's how it is
0:37 - keep it a secret 1:08 - drink alcohol 1:29 - isolate yourself 1:56 - blame yourself 2:22 - neglect your self care 2:50 - let it define you 3:26 - give up hope
@Mel-zw7ub
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks lol
@thatrandomidiot5590
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like something I'm already doing. Except for the alcohol thing.
I honestly wish people that haven’t been though depressed could understand what it is like and not put as much pressure on the people that are depressed
@Yuribrgamer11
5 ай бұрын
I think the same. Even psychologists and psychiatrists, for understand your pacients.
I wish I could disappear and come back when everything is better
@XarSir.
3 жыл бұрын
I wish my toaster worked well
@awesomepegg9140
3 жыл бұрын
@@XarSir. same I might order a new one
@ME-qo2yj
3 жыл бұрын
I wish I could just disappear.
@officialbenzine4075
3 жыл бұрын
Same kinda feeling...
@zehra786.
3 жыл бұрын
Same here
You know, reading these comments make me feel not alone.
@sarazaaror9492
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@quatrsalmuttotabreabbitlec2417
3 жыл бұрын
And I just conveniently happened to stumble upon you while mindlessly scrolling down.
@lou2288
3 жыл бұрын
They do help
@Adamgarv
3 жыл бұрын
Must be nice
@justme-et3sr
3 жыл бұрын
I hope you guys will feel better someday. And that I could feel better too. Because we all deserve it
today i came to the realization that i have been ignoring symptoms of depression for a few years, and its starting to be felt more and more the past few weeks... your videos have been very helpful and im thankful that i know of your channel, thank you for doing what you do
Everyone is like depression is nothing just a word to be famous with or to be the saddest but they don't actually know what it really feels like🥺🥺
summary of the video: 1. Keeping your depression a secret 0:36 2. Drink alcohol 1:07 3. Isolating yourself 1:28 4. Blaming yourself 1:55 5. Neglecting your self care 2:21 6. Let it define you 2:48 7. Give up hope 3:25 I recommend watching to learn more
@katieappleton7369
4 жыл бұрын
tchalamet so what im doing
@AutomaticDuck300
4 жыл бұрын
Disagree with number 1. People rightly or wrongly don't want to be around other people who are miserable, whether it's that person's fault or not. In my experience, telling people that you're depressed often makes them walk away. If you're lucky, you can find someone who understands and tell them, but beyond that, I'm definitely keeping my problems a secret.
@kenny-nk5db
4 жыл бұрын
LemonZeppelin same 😔 that’s why I tell no one
@fathehatarin2796
4 жыл бұрын
I think when you depressd you should share your problems with someone whome you love and spend more time with family, friends and people perhaps it's come out,,but never be alone
@Bennie_Tziek
4 жыл бұрын
@@AutomaticDuck300 I personally haven't had that. But I didn't have many friends so those that were left actually cared, we look out for eachother. But I know that a friend of mine literally lost her friends saying that "she was depressed and they thought she would kill herself". That is fucked up in so many ways
“Don’t isolate yourself” Me in 2017-2019: *isolated* Me in 2020: “I finally wanna go out mo-“ Covid-19: “nope” Depression and grief: *intensifies*
@artsy_skies_
4 жыл бұрын
:(
@greyhoodie5867
4 жыл бұрын
Yep :c
@mr.negative8624
4 жыл бұрын
You have depression then just be happy ;)
@derinyaglkc4839
4 жыл бұрын
@@mr.negative8624 your not serious right
@mr.negative8624
4 жыл бұрын
Derin Yağlıkçı I am, depression is that simple, just be happy :/
My pet dog had experienced miscarriage and I lost atleast 3 puppies 😥 And this is just what I needed to cope with sadness. Thanks Psych2go
I remember my teacher, came up to me at recess. My teacher sat infront of me with her meal and started eating, at first I wanted to change place but then decided to stay(don't want to be rude) so I sat there with silence. Then she started talking about how's my day been and stuff. I answered question with either a nod or a whisper. After it was almost end of recess, I quickly went stood up and was about to leave until she ask me to wait and told me this words.(that still scars my mind till today) Her words: " if you have no other reason on loving life , make me the reason to love and enjoy your life, as a teacher I can't left any of my students in the abyss so, let me show you that this world isn't as bad and gloomy as you think . That smile will be that true trophy of yours but not your graduating certificate. so don't give up, do your best and that is enough for me to be relief* I remembered I was standing there in shocked, but for some reason started running away, hiding all my tears which is full of guilt and overwhelming emotions, knowing that someone cares about my mental and physical being.
“Don’t keep it a secret” But I have no friends and I’m not close to my parents 💀
@lloydGarmadon7
3 жыл бұрын
Try talking to a mental health councillor, it doesn't have to be in person and in the video description of other videos on depression, they leave links to get you someone to talk to.
@claireee7194
3 жыл бұрын
You can talk to me 🤍
@rhys896
3 жыл бұрын
If you have discord my username and tag is Ashuri#7270 if you want to talk
@shefalichauhan4097
3 жыл бұрын
Same here... i don't have friends too... and I'm not close to parents and plus.. i tried to share it with them.. but as usual they never understood me.. so i have decided not to tell them anything.. so.. struggling alone... no option..😢
@sufiakhanam2532
3 жыл бұрын
My friends hate me🙂
Whoever is narrating has a soothing voice Thx for the likes I guess
@Psych2go
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! We will let Amanda know. She might be doing a live stream soon!
@lostar781
4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go (=
@PopCultureFan_
4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go As someone who has alot of asmr triggers. I agree!. btw, & might be the reason im bi... (joking lol).. I was that way for decades already.. Hmm,🤔. *Ahem* if i may say so myself.. This 'Amanda' person, not only has soothing voice but its rather 'lovely' too
@LT-gx4qw
4 жыл бұрын
I swear I literally came to this comment section to type exactly the same thing you did. Word for word. Immediately soothing 😌
@KinkShamer
4 жыл бұрын
Logan Roof Way to kill the mood
I suffer from depression very frequently but luckily, my mother is a psychologist. She is always there to help me and love me.
@leorichard7955
2 жыл бұрын
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help...
I’ve lately been so depressed that I now know: there is no love,friends and family and there’s only benefits. Like my friends at school only hang out with my at school nothing after school because they benefit that if you need to make groups you can say:’ I hang out with you so make a group with me’… and if they get a choice of betraying and getting a lot of money and not betraying everyone goes for the first one… and the feeling that you can’t tell anyone because they will make fun of you, not listening and not caring and the worst possible making light of it… and even if you tell a professional they only get sympathy with you and tell it’ll be fine while it’s not going to be fine ( never been to a psychiatrist before but I think that’s how It goes…). And for me I always try to put up a mask and trying to avoid other peoples sympathy because you think that’ll worsen it and it would get annoying, and the feeling that if you kill yourself everything will be better because they don’t need to concern anything for you anymore and the stuff you have goes to them + there is no-one that will actually mourn for you. And hoping that if you die something better will happen, and hoping for just a tad of hope that will come from killing yourself. But a half of yourself wants you to live, while the other half wants you to kill yourself.. and you’re on the 2nd side of yourself but because the 1st side is in the way you can’t bring yourself and thinking that if you kill yourself it’s gonna be painful (for example choking, drowning) and hoping that a button will appear that will say “if you press this, you will instantly die” and hoping that that exists…
My mom to me: "Just stop being sad" * Suicide rate drops to 0*
@natureandhappiness3846
4 жыл бұрын
Your mom is right. Positive thinking is good for you.
@fatksi5702
4 жыл бұрын
@@natureandhappiness3846 Saying "Just stop being sad" is like telling a blind person to just see
@thefoolsfavorite
4 жыл бұрын
@@natureandhappiness3846 Thinking positive is almost impossible for depressed people, at least for me.
@natureandhappiness3846
4 жыл бұрын
@@thefoolsfavorite I understand your feeling. I had the same period. The brain does not allow you to think positive. Try exercise, meditation and self-brain stimulation.
@natureandhappiness3846
4 жыл бұрын
@@fatksi5702 Many people can recover from depression. You can too. Exercise, meditation, and self brain stimulation can help the brain recover fast.
“don’t keep it a secret” but when u tell others they deny it and put u down for it :( makes it worse might as well keep it to myself
@lishh7513
4 жыл бұрын
true I’m currently facing it right now...instead my friends make fun of depression people,,but I’m one of depression kids 😔
@mizlialia1476
4 жыл бұрын
For some people it is a better choice. I understand. Not all are fortunate to have positive and caring support.
@erikajeanbranzuela2502
4 жыл бұрын
I feel u man.. Better endure it
@stoofypoof7998
4 жыл бұрын
I wrote this song about my depression. Hope it can help someone. kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqZh1JpuZay-n7w.html
@clickbaitthief4094
4 жыл бұрын
If you feel like you are failing hard in life right now watch this kzread.info/dash/bejne/laecp6h-YMbflps.html
I am fighting it... but I can't help I cry my mind say you did it...
It is hard to read the comments, knowing how many people are seriously struggling. There is no quick fix (unfortunately) and for those like me, there is nothing that we would not do to change the way we feel. I wish you all the very best, and hope things change for the better for you all very soon. Lots of love.
Sometimes when I look in the mirror, I don’t see myself. Sometimes I’m a stranger to myself because I lost myself. I used to be so happy, innocent, and caring. But depression took over me, and now I’ve become what others say I am, I have become what others had made me.. a “monster”..
@andreialcaza
4 жыл бұрын
You are too harsh on yourself
@qweenofflwers6231
4 жыл бұрын
It might be that you are disassociating, but I would check with a professional to be sure.
@jpn_119
4 жыл бұрын
Totally relate....
@tomasvallejos1609
4 жыл бұрын
I think that happy, innocent and caring you must still exist within yourself, it is probably just hiding from the dangerous or just scary surroundings
@rubikscubedude4028
4 жыл бұрын
Technically, when you look in the mirror, you are not looking at yourself. You are looking at a mirror image.
Me, who thought all of these feelings were normal: 👁👄👁
@Ghoulzii33
3 жыл бұрын
I thought this for 7 months but I finally figured out it wasnt
I feel like I have support when I visit this channel and when I read the comments
You helped my life pysch2go your the best youtuber ever been born, you saved me from depression and made my life happy! Altough i still feel lonely since my bff abandoned me, we love you:3
"remember the good things about yourself" im sorry, what? that doesnt exist fam.
@hugoyuugo1300
4 жыл бұрын
I understand what you're living. I was about to post a very negative answer about myself... But even if I don't know you, I know you have some good sides, even many. Cause you're thinking this. ... I know what you're gonna answer, What about you??? ... Well... tbh... I have nothing back to answer... Other than that even if I don't even know you, I would be very happy if you would think so. Some people can help us. But I'm not gonna lie I'm pessimistic for myself. But somebody might think the same thing that I said about me...
@BhagyasreesCreativeEdge
4 жыл бұрын
Read "The Secret" written by Rhonda Byrne
@brookreed9621
4 жыл бұрын
Usually when I’m depressed i have a few hours or days every once in awhile where a feel good (like the opposite of someone with good mental health). Maybe I’ll remember to write down some positive things about myself. Because it’s so fucking difficult to recognize all the good parts of who I am when I have all these voices constantly telling me how shitty I am for all these different reasons. Like depression totally warps your perception of yourself and everything else. Anyway, for whoever is reading this, I just want you to know that you are a beautiful, amazing person inside and out. Like you just read and acknowledged a strangers rambling thoughts about self-love during depressive episodes. You didn’t have to but you vested your timed in caring for yourself and others and that’s amazing. And that’s just one thing and I don’t even know you! Anyway, take care of yourself as best you can. I’m so proud of you for reaching out and learning about this ❤️❤️❤️
@jessethewestie22
4 жыл бұрын
You can use technology and write, so you're fairly intelligent. Start with the little things...
@RosheenQuynh
4 жыл бұрын
Right?! Living with DPDR makes the idea of that sound insane
My whole life feels like a waiting game. I'm waiting for mom to actually talk to a therapist. I'm waiting for the legal age to get a job. I'm waiting to move out. I'm waiting to meet the ones I actually love. I'm waiting for people to hear me. I'm waiting for every aspect of my life, and that's really all I can do. I'm running out of patience.
@TokioTE
4 жыл бұрын
Keep going :) you'll get there, even if it seems like a long time or you can't imagine it, those stages will come and it might not be obvious when it arrives, that you do have the power to act. In the meantime, perhaps you could prepare by e.g. researching what jobs you like, upskilling, practicing speaking or expressing your authentic self in creative ways, finding out more about what you love and what you love in people etc. Just some suggestions in case having something practical to do whilst waiting, and being prepared, helps :)
@TcGroenestege
4 жыл бұрын
Same for me man. I want to take action but I can't. It's difficult for sure
@socallmejay6497
4 жыл бұрын
Error?? ? Same :v waiting till I can get my own place, my parents think they know what I’m gonna do but they don’t even know me :’v
@SugaryStarzie
4 жыл бұрын
Same. Keep going. You can do it.
@missrelaxed3872
4 жыл бұрын
Enjoy the moment, instead waiting , sit back , relax , rewind and see what’s going on around you ! :)
My depression is fueld by feeling trapped by my lifestyle and doing OCD compulsions. I’ve tried to fix my lazy lifestyle but depression keeps me from doing that and I’ve tried to stop doing OCD compulsion but my anxiety keeps me from doing that also. It’s a difficult cycle to break but I hope everyone out there with depression tries their very best to get better and I wish you all good luck. Peace.
Ive had bad relationship after bad relationship i went through the downward spiral, lost everything, picked myself back up, climbed out of the hole only to realise I was in a bad way before i had all this hurt done to me. i feel this is something i carry in my soul forever now i will know it all my life and forever. nothing can make it go away. i have lost hope and sight of having a normal life even on my own now. everyday is a struggle. i am destroyed mentally financially and althrough i excerise 3 hours a day i despise what i see. i realised the other day my life will never be the same. i will grow old like this im almost 40 now. i wish nither to live or die i dont want anything from anybody i am used to living in eternal limbo which i equate to living hell.
“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
@Makizni
4 жыл бұрын
I felt that, such a deep quote
@goodnightmyprince6734
4 жыл бұрын
Don't get it
@brianl8481
4 жыл бұрын
What's his answer for when changing yourself doesn't work?
@rtsuv67
4 жыл бұрын
@@brianl8481 the depression monster's weakness is hope. Talking about your depression to people you love and going through it together kills it
@brianl8481
4 жыл бұрын
@@rtsuv67 Over 20 years of living with it has determined that to be a lie.
My mom tried to tell me I "choose to be depressed." So basically I'm choosing to make my life more difficult. Thanks mom. Edit: I’m back here a year later and I would like to say I’m doing so much better than I was back then. You can get through this, stay strong ❤️
@CorgiEnjoyer
3 жыл бұрын
I understand that, im sorry
@slicklyndon1756
3 жыл бұрын
Same. Thanks parents.
@namesrdifficult
3 жыл бұрын
1st year, mum cared 2nd, she yelled at me
@lordofkeebs8424
3 жыл бұрын
Well yes but no.
@alinemonteiro6178
3 жыл бұрын
Damn I really believe this because my mom told me... idk I mean sometimes I do chose to do some things. But sometimes I can’t help but feel sad and idk why 😞
After finding out I have some moderate depression,I began viewing your videos,they really helped me and am trying to cope up with the reality ,before things get worse.Thank you a lot
having depression and adhd it feels like every time i try to muster up the courage to tell people, i get distracted
"don't keep it a secret" if i tell people they will make fun of me and call me dramatic
@soomiewleng5227
4 жыл бұрын
Luv you
@lakeofsomething8564
4 жыл бұрын
Being depressed is a competion. If you dont have cuts from last night on you your not depressed. Dont let the edgy people say your not when you dont have stabs on you.
@raph333x_
3 жыл бұрын
Same❤️
Quarantine and sad times: **exists** Psych2Go and their cute animation style: *_I'm gonna have to stop you right there!_*
@antiusinferno9396
4 жыл бұрын
Is Psych2go cosplaying as an Oblivion guard?
@NightOrchids
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. their animations are very cute
@sylviascanvas6070
4 жыл бұрын
Hahahah true😂😂🤍🖤🤍🖤
@Rosie82333
4 жыл бұрын
It's only quarantine if you're sick..... Anything else is house arrest.
Some problems make me stuck with my depression is : I don't have any friends, I'm not good at explaining my feelings, I don't get friendly with anyone that easily...!
I JUST WANNA TELL YOU I LOVE YOU 💜😌 we are in this together yall
Me: I think I have depression Person: your just saying that for attention
@urmomsman7
4 жыл бұрын
Its really horrible that this happens....
@babybatvomit
4 жыл бұрын
Me: I think I have depression.. Friends: Ew, stop! I hate it when you vent! Me: I think I have depression.. Parents: Ugh, quit begging for attention, you attention whore! Me: I think I have depression.. Teacher: **ignores it** Me: I think I want to harm myself.. Everyone: STOP IT, YOU’RE NOT DEPRESSED! Me: **jumps** Everyone: **sobbing at my funeral**
@hatkid5694
4 жыл бұрын
Yandere_Kitten_Lover 12 please stop it hurts....I scratch my wrists with a safety pin and I still get berated for being a 14 year old white girl
@anormalfella627
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah im a 13 year male and all my friends probably would think im faking it or asking for attention im genuinely scared to be alone with my thoughts
@chipz575
4 жыл бұрын
It’s too true...
it very much boils down to being afraid in general. loved the animation work and the voice over, very calming
I don't want anyone get into problems that are mines, i can handle it myself if no one has to worry for me, i'm the one type that.. Just never gets sad in my friend group and i like it like this, even tho this video didn't help me much but cheered me up a bit, thank you ig
I'm still battling depression but,when you have depression(idk it might just be me) you don't want help,you don't want to feel better or have a better life,you just want it stop.I mean who cares if it's the easiest way if you don't want to fight anymore.Just stop,stop ever caring thinking and feeling...
@stonksrgud7645
4 жыл бұрын
i am noticing the same
If you are reading this, may you attract everything you’ve been patiently waiting for & be passionate to pursue it whole-heartedly. It will naturally flow into your life when you are ready to receive it. Hope our channel helps you on your journey 🙏
@Psych2go
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You have a really amazing channel yourself!
@HowellConsultations
4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Thank you so much!
I can’t tell anyone about my depression because I can’t rely on anyone about that I’m just scared, nervous and afraid… I’m watching this video to try to get my depression and anxiety to go away because I’ve been having it since I was 2..
I have been depressed for the last month. This video is really helping me out.
Reason 7 is the most resonating to me; if you stop living, you lose. If you keep living, you might win.
@Psych2go
4 жыл бұрын
@gnarthdarkanen7464
4 жыл бұрын
It's often repeated, "You can't win if you don't play the game." ;o)
@totallynotsus5120
4 жыл бұрын
I choose to lose
@Lucky-uv6ui
4 жыл бұрын
Alexander Simmons stay alive! You may not see it now but there is hope for a better future
@brookreed9621
4 жыл бұрын
Alexander Simmons please do not do anything to yourself!!! I know things feel really really difficult right now. And I know it feels like it will never end. But that is the depression talking, not the reality. Please reach out to people and to support because you have to so much to lose from leaving. And there are people who love you and will support even if it isn’t obvious right now. I don’t know your exact situation but that is not the answer. There are resources. There are things you can work on until things feel a bit better. ❤️
Yesterday before I went to bed, I was trying to feel my heartbeat, and there was different kind of weird feelings. 1. happy and touched, because the heart is still beating for me 2. sadness and guilt, my heart work so hard for me, but I didn't
I've been hit by depression again recently, but this video has helped me. Thank you
Hearing that people are out here recovering while I'm out here living in my trauma just makes me wonder where these unicorns are
@brianbasic1133
4 жыл бұрын
It's a long hike, not a sprint. Even those who recover, almost always fall back down. Sometimes even deeper than before.
@mdaniels135
4 жыл бұрын
@@brianbasic1133 doesn't help when a person lives with their abuser
@brianbasic1133
4 жыл бұрын
@@mdaniels135 So what's your solution? Suicide? One should never give up hope. For as long as there is hope, all cannot be not lost.
@aetherananke
4 жыл бұрын
@@brianbasic1133 depression doesn't always lead to suicide. I know people who lived their lives depressed till they died.
@mdaniels135
4 жыл бұрын
@@brianbasic1133 1st what? 2nd my original comment was asking where these people who recover fully are because I need to know their ways. Also you didnt give me any advice i havent heard. I stopped having hope, the 1st time my mother tried killing me, so you can take that and shove it.
Drinking alcohol is a no-no if you are depressed, it will only make it a thousand times worse!
@ciupenhauer
3 жыл бұрын
I'll try to remember that when I wake up from the drunken stupor. What was I supposed to remember again?
@princessunicorn344
3 жыл бұрын
If I was old enough to buy it I would
@destined2sleep
2 жыл бұрын
@@princessunicorn344 the worst decision I made when I was young was turning to alcohol. It's utterly destroyed everything good in my life. Please don't resort to taking that poison, you'll regret it. Trust me.
@mentalcelstefan7086
2 жыл бұрын
Alcohol worsen depression but if you lost your life then alcohol may reduce the suffering pallaitively.
This video was so perfect for me . Thank you so much and hope some day I will meet you . You are very kind thank you so much for helping us!!
Sometimes you need some alone time to fix yourself . It gives some time to rethink and reinvent out of depression. Isolation isn’t bad, just don’t isolate for like a very long duration tho.
The first tip is a no for me. My parents don't even listen to me how am I supposed to sit and talk to them. They expect me to help them when they struggle but when I struggle there is no one. I don't even have friends to talk to.
@rifahtasnim6832
3 жыл бұрын
I can feel that
@anxiousoul7807
3 жыл бұрын
ikr its too fucked up for me, all depression ive is because of my parents tho i cant share some personnel problems but ive social anxiety and shits no friends fucked studies, maybe im gonna die of it
@kurtzm172
3 жыл бұрын
I understand, I hope you've gotten better. If you still need a friend, I would happily be here for you.
@andromedawillow6489
3 жыл бұрын
@@kurtzm172 thank you so much your really kind😊
@kurtzm172
3 жыл бұрын
@@andromedawillow6489 No problem. Thank you for the complement as well! That meant alot.
Depression is sometimes like.. being in a dark tunnel and not being able to see the light at the end of it.. no matter how hard you try.. *_Yeah, depression sucks_*
@FunBun7
4 жыл бұрын
ಥ‿ಥ
@aydeepeperoni6018
4 жыл бұрын
But the good thing about depression is that it's like "a rainbow behind the storm". There's hope, even if it's cold and alone in the tunnel, just at the end, if you look a bit closer, there's a beautiful sunrise that reminds you of the nice things of life.💖
@Raph-sx2qq
4 жыл бұрын
and only time you ever feel your out of the tunnel is when your high outta your mind
@brianbasic1133
4 жыл бұрын
If you keep moving you'll reach the end eventually. Just don't give up.
@unofonseca2862
4 жыл бұрын
A dank, gloomy, cold and rainy day in November that goes on.....forever.
thank you for all your videos they have really helping me through some tough stuff
This person has helped me a little bit more, with me accepting it
"Don't isolate yourself" *COVID-19 HAS ENTERED THE CHAT*
@chipz575
4 жыл бұрын
Touché
@SuperVladdrakula
3 жыл бұрын
They're mocking you. When will you understand?
@jaime9927
3 жыл бұрын
@@SuperVladdrakula Who's mocking me?
@SuperVladdrakula
3 жыл бұрын
@@jaime9927 Everyone.
@jaime9927
3 жыл бұрын
@@SuperVladdrakula Mocking me for what?
Parents: “having a good day?” Me: “wtf does that even mean again?”
@sarazaaror9492
3 жыл бұрын
i just say im fine and fake smile and then they think im fine when im not rlly fine but im never gonna say that im not fine..
@benjipoth
3 жыл бұрын
@@sarazaaror9492 you should share with them how you feel...
@manha9098
3 жыл бұрын
@@sarazaaror9492 same
@tiairons765
3 жыл бұрын
@@benjipoth I know u didn’t respond to me but I couldn’t tell my parents they would literally laugh and say I’m overreacting and tell me off for “trying to get attention” and then my siblings would find out I told them that and insulting me and mocking me and literally bullying me like they always do (I have toxic siblings who gang up on me and stuff all the time) and I have no one else to tell, my friends would probably not even care they would just think I’m joking around and fake crying to be funny and I have no one else to tell other than them
@benjipoth
3 жыл бұрын
@@tiairons765 I’m so sorry to hear they’re like that. No offence but they don’t seem like good parents if all they do is laugh at your mental illness. Maybe tell a doctor or a close friend who looks out for you because you will find someone who will care eventually. 💙 ❤️ 💙 ❤️
I'm really struggling at the moment. I want to stay in bed, I'm struggling to get washed and dressed, went to Dr taking medication but can't motivate myself, nap on lunch break. My husband thinks I should try to walk more, join something and talk to someone about it. Today have a play date in our house for our toddler and I want to cancel but don't want my issues to impact him. I have loved wfh and now they are doing phased return to work and I'm dreading it. I've also being questioning my faith and not sure I believe what I once did before. As a Christian I once thought Jesus was returning and part of me is disappointed that the world is still spinning and He hasn't returned. I think I'm crazy now and questioning what I believe.
I depressed by the fact that I will have nothing in my life. Having no friends, no support, no one to talk to and no one to comfort me is dark times. I'm from NZ yr 10 of high school and this happened to quiet recently.
I’ve tried to tell people SO KUCH TIMES. They just don’t care...
@jackson8808
3 жыл бұрын
I’m here ,I care ,I can listen
@hiimme5026
3 жыл бұрын
I tried to tell my parents but they just doesn’t care and I don’t really have any friends Sooooo Guess I’m hiding it
@jackson8808
3 жыл бұрын
@@hiimme5026 I’m so sorry to hear that...I kind of understand what your going I’ve been through that the 6 years of loneliness and no one listening causing anxiety at the age of 7 (that’s what it was like for me anyways)... so I’ll be here if you ever need someone to talk to
@leiii5
3 жыл бұрын
honestlyyyyy like no one cares abt anyone these days
@thebluerose6619
3 жыл бұрын
When I try i get mini panic attacks
Please read this it took long to write... When depressed, it just feels like you don't want to go further even when everyone tell you to. You feel like noone cares and it's just impossible to escape. It's like you're trying to swim but the waves keep pushing you back or you're in a cage unable to escape. Noone cares as they just think it's not true and I've been feeling of leaving four times already, it's like you think noone will care if you're gone. When you ask someone "how would you feel if I weren't here?" They think it's a joke which means alot to yourself. When people call you dumb and your parents compare you to others saying you're not good enough you just feel like you've had enough. Who else has had dreams of being unable to get pass something or do anything. Everyone thinks Depression is a joke well there are billions suffering from it right now. You never know what someone is facing secretly so why don't you just understand. I feel the same so if you're depressed, Do not think you're alone because alot of people feel the same. The more lonely someone is, the more kind they are, the more sad someone is, the more brighter they smile, the more damaged someone is, the more they are wise because they don't wish to see others do what they did. Stay hopeful and sorry if it took long to read.
@stoofypoof7998
4 жыл бұрын
Beautifully written. I wrote this song about my depression. Hope it can help someone. kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqZh1JpuZay-n7w.html
@Charlie-wi7nd
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@celebrityshowdown5126
3 жыл бұрын
Basically
@Whoville8899
3 жыл бұрын
This is so poetically written, I loved it and I thank you😊
@kittyroseplayz3707
3 жыл бұрын
No probs 🙂
Thank you 🙏 I really appreciate videos like this ❤️ I’m 40 now and have had ptsd more recently (diagnosed at 20) and depression since I was 10. Mine comes from being sexually abused and raped. So many times I have to convince myself it’s not my fault. Even though I know it isn’t, my brain tells me it is. Lots of therapy. Still in it now ❤️
@JeonJungkook-do1oq
3 жыл бұрын
Im just 11 and i had mine bc of my family they always pressure me and they always yell at me and blame me for everything. They even always compare me with someone. And im tired if it. I had suicidal thoughts since i was 9. And i cant tell it to my parents bc every time i was about to tell them, they'll just laugh at me and will say, "ur to young to be depressed! Ur just overreacting. Look at ur brother! He's not complaining about that depression. So just stop it!!" And that just even got my gepression much worse😭 But atleast now i know that im not the only one whi are suffering from depression 💔
@ladydragonfox8044
2 жыл бұрын
you are lucky to get the therapy
@aw4170
2 жыл бұрын
@@JeonJungkook-do1oq oh dear🥺🥺😔💞💖
i can feel myself going back to the place that i just came out of a few weeks ago and im crying because i don’t know how to stop it
Sadly nobody calls me or sends me a message with "hey, how are you doing lately?" Only when they need something i hear from them. Its not easy to do things with people when your all "alone" and people have always betrayed you since your childhood.
@oc8636
4 жыл бұрын
@@meyerswhyteI feel you guys. I dont even know if this will end anymore
Parents: Teen years are the best years in your whole life and you should have fun all of them Depressed Me: Nope! I`ll die alone
@jessethewestie22
4 жыл бұрын
Don't worry, most depressed ppl had rough childhoods and/or teen years. It's NOT the best time of your life, I promise.
@rosco3516
4 жыл бұрын
My life was crumbling until I was 19 and moved out of my parents house. In the 2 years after that everything fell apart. But now I'm free to build what I want with my life. If only I could remember what my dreams where.
@foosdontcry
4 жыл бұрын
I'm upset cuz I didn't make my time in high school the best time of my life, I know this video just said to don't blame myself but I have a lot of evidence on why it is my fault 😅
@mgal6234
4 жыл бұрын
No way are teen years the best! Hang in there, it gets better.
@teodortodorov1662
4 жыл бұрын
@@rosco3516 you are lucky! I`m 16 and I must to live with my parents. I don`t like that, because I have no choice in the house :(
Trigger warning- My friends say I shouldn’t say I have it, because my friend has it and said it worsens it so I can’t tell people and my father says I shouldn’t cry and that I’m acting like a baby so I shouldn’t even typing this I’m having thoughts to not write this. But I feel like it will make me feel a little better. I’m stubborn and I’m scared of change and hardly do. So I haven’t improved much. Something really bad happened last year and my father nearly o***dosed infront of me and i blamed myself. But I wrote this to say that whatever you go through do not give up because even through the bad luck, there’s good luck! God bless you all ☺️
@AtticusArmarosAeshma
3 жыл бұрын
@@wrszx779 No Problem! Hope your alright out there and if you ever need to talk i can send you my discord or something if you like! Have a nice day/night
Such an amazing channel, when its so hard to reach out for help, thank you so much for so much of awareness and support
1.keep it a secret 2.drink alcohol 3.isolate yourself 4.blame yourself 5.neglect self care 6.Let it define you 7.give up hope
@shannonbonas1084
3 жыл бұрын
If you have depression how can you not isolate and neglect self care….. my depressions been so bad and this is just whats been happening
@sameditz2567
3 жыл бұрын
Everything will be okay ❤
@shannonbonas1084
3 жыл бұрын
@@sameditz2567 thank you 💜
@lakshyafx6211
2 жыл бұрын
@@sameditz2567 you here?
@syalamontana2508
2 жыл бұрын
@@shannonbonas1084 ikr like i better isolate myself than mess around because i'm not really myself
I'm not suicidal or want to end it all, just always think the worst thing possible when I get a feeling of depression, I still go to work and do my job but at the end of the day I get home and feel like I forgot the whole day and drive my self crazy sometimes. This video helped me realize I'm not alone. Thank you so much ♥️
@ladydragonfox8044
2 жыл бұрын
i am suicidal
@lulee7375
2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to you in abundance, sending love , be kind to ourselves, my negative self talk is terrible at times and I try and catch myself doing it and change my mindset to positive thoughts, seriously difficult to do but takes practice, I'm still struggling atm , but trying to keep my head as sane as possible, cleaning helps 🤣🥰
@Superchief-bk4wf
2 жыл бұрын
@@lulee7375 hope you guy ok
i didn't meant to keep it secret.I told whoever i thought it would be okay but then how they react made me really never telling it someone.
thank u.. i’ve been crying since one hour because my parents haven’t gone home for 22 hours.. im really sad,
i love how we all go to random youtube comment sections just to talk about what were feelin knowing that if anyone tried to talk to us about this in person we'll prolly say im fine or nothings wrong
@undozan4180
3 жыл бұрын
Wanna talk?
@sergiomangubat4657
2 жыл бұрын
Chatting with other people kinda lighten it inside me ..
@Kelvostrass
2 жыл бұрын
yeah being anonymous makes me feel like I can say anything and no one is gonna use it against me later on
@sbsrandom223
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I know, I recently told my mum about how I was feeling and she was sad and super supportive and I thought that we were gonna go to a psychologist or get some medication like she said….. but it’s been about two weeks and she’s barely even mentioned getting me help and I haven’t mentioned it either cause I kinda wish I’d never told anyone :/
@joesmilk3492
Жыл бұрын
I feel like there's a way to talk to someone with it. If we all have depression, we understand that others won't understand. But we would, in a way. So maybe if I knew someone else had it, I wouldn't approach them like anyone else. I would approach them like someone with depression. Which I am.