7 Signs You Are Emotionally Mature

You may have heard of emotional intelligence, emotional quotient or EQ, what exactly are the signs of maturity? Having strong, emotional maturity is an asset to navigating the ship of life. What exactly is emotional maturity, you ask? Emotional maturity is the ability to clearly understand and manage your emotions. Emotions play a huge part in our everyday interactions. Are you wondering if you're an emotionally mature person or if someone you know is? If so, watch this video to see if you relate to some of these signs.
#emotionalmature #emotional
Credits
Writer: Merinda Quegan
Script Editor: Rida Batool & Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Morgan H.
KZread Manager: Cindy Cheong
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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go4 жыл бұрын

    On a scale of 1 to 10, how emotionally mature is your cat? Comment below.

  • @meghanquaranta6200

    @meghanquaranta6200

    4 жыл бұрын

    8

  • @-fsa-7647

    @-fsa-7647

    4 жыл бұрын

    Um idk

  • @kitti5647

    @kitti5647

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'd give him a 3...

  • @kimyoonie6835

    @kimyoonie6835

    4 жыл бұрын

    5/10 it’s half a whole but now she’s dead

  • @helixxmusic

    @helixxmusic

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @user-yz4ow6hw2r
    @user-yz4ow6hw2r4 жыл бұрын

    1- you can put a name to the face of your emotion 2- you can draw healthy boundaries 3- you aren’t afraid to own up to your mistakes 4- you think before you leap 5- you have more success in getting your point across 6- you are self aware 7- you know how to listen

  • @jacrispy3275

    @jacrispy3275

    4 жыл бұрын

    You damn angel.

  • @veronicatua4730

    @veronicatua4730

    4 жыл бұрын

    You deserve heaven.

  • @user-yz4ow6hw2r

    @user-yz4ow6hw2r

    4 жыл бұрын

    y’all welcome :)

  • @PradeepKumar-op8gx

    @PradeepKumar-op8gx

    4 жыл бұрын

    You just saved 7 mins and 6 seconds of my life

  • @ChicDead26

    @ChicDead26

    4 жыл бұрын

    This comment is disrespectful at least.

  • @alioud.1872
    @alioud.18724 жыл бұрын

    People get mad when you’re emotionally mature, and don’t make the same stupid decisions they make

  • @palomarodriguez475

    @palomarodriguez475

    4 жыл бұрын

    That is sooo true👌🏼😂

  • @idayg6457

    @idayg6457

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @colorbar.s

    @colorbar.s

    4 жыл бұрын

    you sound pretty salty for someone that's apparently emotionally mature

  • @colorbar.s

    @colorbar.s

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@cloudyisaliveandhere emotional maturity isn't a competition. everyone's got their own pace. it's not something to brag about, you don't seem mature in ANY way.

  • @cloudyisaliveandhere

    @cloudyisaliveandhere

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@colorbar.s True.

  • @mochiattoart514
    @mochiattoart5144 жыл бұрын

    HA, WHO SAID I CAN'T BE A CRACKHEAD AND EMOTIONALLY MATURE AT THE SAME TIME

  • @athenac6316

    @athenac6316

    4 жыл бұрын

    Two completely different things. You can be Emotionally mature but still be fun, being emotionally mature does not mean you can not be a “ crackhead ”, it just means you understand situations better etc

  • @jaiden5447

    @jaiden5447

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@athenac6316 it's a joke

  • @peachiee1

    @peachiee1

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@athenac6316 stop tryna act smart dumbass

  • @moneyball8287

    @moneyball8287

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fuck you

  • @Ihavemadeit999

    @Ihavemadeit999

    4 жыл бұрын

    cariblu Nigga u ruined it

  • @noctarin1516
    @noctarin15164 жыл бұрын

    Woah, so this video made me realise how many adults i know that arent emotionally mature.

  • @theplumscrub1627

    @theplumscrub1627

    4 жыл бұрын

    Meme Bot Karen...

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's true! How do you feel after realizing this?

  • @noctarin1516

    @noctarin1516

    4 жыл бұрын

    ​@@Psych2go Well, i dont really feel good with the idea of this being full of and ruled by immature adults.

  • @an_impasse

    @an_impasse

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do you think it’s why I have no friends, lol? I always see something alarming in people I meet over a regular basis. Well, it’s that and some other factors but a lot of past friends get especially offended at my even questioning their flaws as if I’m attacking them, but I’m actually just asking out of concern and hope they would improve. Nope. Too many people take my perspective too personally. I find some people also get particularly annoyed when I ask ‘why’ here and there. It’s not that I don’t believe them, I just want to know their intent or motive better to grasp in the long term if they’re worth my time at all, TBH. I think they get annoyed because they themselves don’t think that far in the first place often enough so they get frustrated for me being “nosy” when really, they choose not to reflect on their actions and reactions enough. If they tried more, I don’t doubt explaining why they do things would be that much easier for them in general. I’m not constantly asking them ‘why’, I just feel compelled to ask if they say or do something that I find questionable. I’m honest with myself and I would like to be as much with others for the most part...I’m really not here out to get anyone, like, if anyone gets _that_ annoyed at me being a little curious then that’s kind of their problem only, really. Sometimes taking that step back before you dive in to something can save you lots. I don’t have to care about anything they do or say at the end of the day as it doesn’t affect me, I just hope they care enough about themselves to be able to acknowledge their problems and deal with them accordingly.

  • @noctarin1516

    @noctarin1516

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@an_impasse Well, thats a big block of text but this is pretty true and the advice at the end if pretty good!

  • @joanassm9534
    @joanassm95344 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes I don't know if I'm emotionally mature or insensitive. When something happens that makes me feel angry, I instantly realize the way I'm feeling and by rationalizing it, I immediately don't feel angry anymore and I'm just "okay, so this happened, what can I do now to fix it?". I feel like I rationalize feelings so much and now I'm insensitive... idk

  • @theplumscrub1627

    @theplumscrub1627

    4 жыл бұрын

    Joana Marques It’s insensitive if someone else is venting their emotions to you and you ignore their need to simply be listened to. (Edit: or if you get annoyed at them for not simply fixing it by doing this and this.) It isn’t insensitive if you can calm your own emotions by rationalizing them, that’s just a good method of self-control.

  • @DanielDavies-StellularNebulla

    @DanielDavies-StellularNebulla

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@theplumscrub1627 I agree 100%.

  • @koshgam

    @koshgam

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@DanielDavies-StellularNebulla I agree for the most part - however there may be point where you are overwhelmed by emotion, and may need to make the other person aware that you are overwhelmed/stressed and you may need a minute before you can help/listen to them again.

  • @cripplingdepression656

    @cripplingdepression656

    4 жыл бұрын

    sis just spilled my mental state like that

  • @TheDJFun123

    @TheDJFun123

    4 жыл бұрын

    insensitivity is a lack of empathy i think. nothing to do with how u handle your own emotions.

  • @duchi882
    @duchi8824 жыл бұрын

    A person maybe Emotionally Mature but we all have a Child inside of us

  • @hatsunemikussnzbmindcontro4444

    @hatsunemikussnzbmindcontro4444

    4 жыл бұрын

    Duchi 🤤 child,.

  • @minda6160

    @minda6160

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can confirm, wrote this script. Am emotionally mature. Still make fart noises on my arm when I’m bored sometimes. -Merinda, Writer for Psych2Go

  • @ariannecarey2664

    @ariannecarey2664

    4 жыл бұрын

    Duchi *may be

  • @kcain64

    @kcain64

    4 жыл бұрын

    I make it a point to take my child out to play.

  • @Waytotheland

    @Waytotheland

    4 жыл бұрын

    We may be adults but the child we once were is still inside us., we just grew up.

  • @gueyhoo9261
    @gueyhoo92614 жыл бұрын

    I so wish the internet had been around when I was younger. Channels like yours have so much good information. The internet was an elemental component of finally lifting me out of life-long depression (I'm 60) because I've been able to read and research all I can about managing my mental state. Finally I'm enjoying life and actually like myself now.

  • @maddiemadness0

    @maddiemadness0

    4 жыл бұрын

    gueyhoo any advice?

  • @gueyhoo9261

    @gueyhoo9261

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@maddiemadness0 I entered Cognitive Behavior Therapy for a year and a half and learned to reframe my negative thoughts so I thought more kindly about myself. Changed medication and take it every day. Got away from my family (I was their scapegoat for anything negative that happened). Stay away from drugs and alcohol. Journal often. Meditation. Reduce stress in life. Be good to yourself in wholesome ways. Exercise, even if it's just for a few minutes at a time. It's a constant battle but hang in there.

  • @facadeangel4076

    @facadeangel4076

    4 жыл бұрын

    yay a non boomer

  • @maddiemadness0

    @maddiemadness0

    4 жыл бұрын

    gueyhoo see this is exactly the exact answer I thought it would be. I just neeed to actually do them. I want to start now I’m about to be 22 thank you

  • @kalopernaw8585

    @kalopernaw8585

    3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations I'm very proud of you

  • @ipsitaparida4471
    @ipsitaparida44714 жыл бұрын

    I really like the voice of the speaker it’s perfect

  • @anteater9408

    @anteater9408

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amanda silvera!

  • @ipsitaparida4471

    @ipsitaparida4471

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cyanvaya I’m sorry?😅

  • @anteater9408

    @anteater9408

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ipsitaparida4471 Hey chill bruh! Just sayin. Don't stress on the exclamation mark there. It was just to express joy and the yaay feel... 😊

  • @ipsitaparida4471

    @ipsitaparida4471

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cyanvaya ahhh kk

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the feedback! We'll let the team know :D

  • @uckBayNguyen
    @uckBayNguyen4 жыл бұрын

    When you do not belittle others for their skin, color, race, background, or gender and sexual preference, you're mature. Bigotry does not run in your blood

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    Being open minded is a sign of intelligence as well, do you agree?

  • @uckBayNguyen

    @uckBayNguyen

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go of course, how else can you grow?

  • @budthecyborg4575

    @budthecyborg4575

    4 жыл бұрын

    When you do not belittle others for having pride in their nationality or ethnicity, or for being part of an organization with rules about gender and gender role, then you're mature. Wokeness does not run in your blood.

  • @uckBayNguyen

    @uckBayNguyen

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@budthecyborg4575 when a nation, a people, an individual that step up to accountability and accept fault, you're mature. Deception won't run in your blood

  • @budthecyborg4575

    @budthecyborg4575

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@uckBayNguyen Asking children to pay for the crimes of their parents is slavery.

  • @xoxo-gossipgirl8744
    @xoxo-gossipgirl87444 жыл бұрын

    1) you can put a name to the face of your emotions (you understand what makes you feel certain ways) 2) you can draw healthy boundaries 3) you aren’t afraid to own up to your mistakes 4) you think before you leap (controlled impulses) 5) you have more success in getting your point across (affective, healthy communication) 6) you are self aware (focus on emotions independently) 7) you are a good listener thanks for this video!! gives some nice things to set as goals :)

  • @ncscat9579

    @ncscat9579

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agreed! Let’s “grow”😂😄

  • @rena6627
    @rena66274 жыл бұрын

    summary ✨ 1. being able to pinpoint/name exactly what you're feeling 2. you can draw healthy boundaries 3. you aren't afraid to own up to your mistakes 4. you think before you leap/ step back and analyze situation before jumping into it/ control your impulses/ control their anger 5. you have more success getting your point across and have an effective and healthy way of communicating your emotions and needs to other. know when/how/where to express your emotions 6. being self aware / confident and not easy to manipulate by others 7. being able to listen actively without being judgemental or condescending

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do you feel there are others that could be added to this list?

  • @sjakswwlwkskwwk
    @sjakswwlwkskwwk4 жыл бұрын

    I think I have a depression. But I also think I’m just sensitive. And I can’t ever put my emotions into words. Edit: omg I didn’t expect to get so many likes...it’s so sweet how so many people can relate to me.

  • @fatniggah1887

    @fatniggah1887

    4 жыл бұрын

    wish you the best❤

  • @jacrispy3275

    @jacrispy3275

    4 жыл бұрын

    Relatable, bruh. I don't have "suicide, life sucks" depression, but i just feel empty on the inside.

  • @MsHarpsychord

    @MsHarpsychord

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm with you in feeling this. I began noticing a change in the way i see life back in march of 2019. Since then i've have quite a number of depressive episodes where i became sluggish, my head became cloudly and i found it difficult to focus. There were times were i felt like crying for no discernable reason whatsoever and i became a lot more stressed. Eventually anxiety started consuming my life too and it got so bad that i took a lot of my problems out on my friends. Those friends abandoned me because i treated them so poorly yet i continued having anxiety and depressive episodes only now it was worse because they were gone. It took months and it's still an ongoing process for me, i still have days were i can't concentrate. Where i want to run away from people. There are days where i become very upset and i have broken down into tears because i'm reminding of my ex-friends. Sometimes i think i'm far too sensitive too, like i've become a cry-baby. I've just grown to learn that while i may have been more sensitive than what would be considered normal i know look back on things that i was actually trying to discover my boundaries. Before i fell out with my friends i didn't create any form of boundaries to protect myself at all. I believed people were always good and kind and i was a total teddy bear to them. The thing is, as dark as it sounds, it's really easy to stab a teddy bear and that's what happened to me. Emotionally. After the fight i took the time to self reflect on my actions and also how i interacted with others, it took months of reflection. I concluded that because i didn't have any boundaries i became dependent on the approval and support of my friends. I learned that i had completely lost my own back-bone and had no self respect, only thinking of the values of others. While this sounds good in theory, in practise it meant I was jeopardising my wellbeing and resulted in me becoming more stressed, anxious, agitated and exhausted. This lead to a cycle over and over again in my head. As i mentioned before i still have issues with depression and anxiety and will occasionally have them crop up at inappropriate times in my day to day life. Even having self respect and standing up for myself when i have people critique me or ask me difficult questions becomes tough too. I assume this was caused by my old relationship with my friends and how i am still struggling to get over my friendship with them and how i haven't had the opportunity yet to move on. I hope reading this gives some perspective into your life, maybe really thinking back on the way you have behaved the last year could give you some insight into how you feel. I also recommend keeping a journal or diary and documenting how you are feeling or thinking. I started doing this 3 months ago when i started feeling really rough. Re-Reading stuff i wrote months ago helps remind me of specific days and what happened like a piece of Evidence and it helps that i put a date and sometimes timestamp it. With enough time i can look back on how i felt 3 months ago and realise the flaws in my thinking back then and how i've actually improved my attitude from were i was before.

  • @youngsterjoey494

    @youngsterjoey494

    4 жыл бұрын

    My gf has a terrible depression. And we just broke up. she just cant control her emotion even on small matters. Relationship can’t last long if you can’t manage your depression

  • @rosepestana9516

    @rosepestana9516

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same but I am very good at putting my feelings into words it's just that nobody seems to understand it

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go4 жыл бұрын

    Who's more emotionally immature in your opinion? Spongebob or squidward? Comment your cartoon characters.

  • @goodboy5522

    @goodboy5522

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @sara-xd4zd

    @sara-xd4zd

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well Spongebob ofc

  • @poppydegnan2350

    @poppydegnan2350

    4 жыл бұрын

    Psych2Go squidward

  • @jacardalesgmail

    @jacardalesgmail

    4 жыл бұрын

    SpongeBob

  • @therealfred2648

    @therealfred2648

    4 жыл бұрын

    SpongeBob is gae

  • @creativename8502
    @creativename85024 жыл бұрын

    1. You can put a name to the face of your emotions. 1:00 2. You can draw healthy boundaries. 1:44 3. You aren’t afraid to own up to your mistakes. 2:21 4. You think before you leap. 3:23 5. You have more success in getting your point across. 4:16 6. You are self aware. 5:00 7. You know how to listen. 5:45

  • @malu8710
    @malu87104 жыл бұрын

    I was emotionally mature since a very young age..But some events in life, totally made me different and I started losing control of myself and the person I was. However, I am slowly finding myself again. Although I still lose control from time to time, I try to be better everyday

  • @arpitajodder5981
    @arpitajodder59814 жыл бұрын

    Now when I know that I'm not at all emotionally mature, I want to work on that and I want a video on that, please. HOW TO BE EMOTIONALLY MATURE?! 🌚

  • @schlaubischlumpf211

    @schlaubischlumpf211

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think practicing your self-awareness is the most important thing. When you get upset for example, take a step back and think "Why is this happening? How am I involved in this?" If you do this regularly, you will see where you are making mistakes and that it is not always everyone else's fault. Being able to acknowledge ones mistakes is the first step of becoming better. So I think self-awareness is important

  • @sara-xd4zd
    @sara-xd4zd4 жыл бұрын

    3:48 guess I'm not emotionally mature I've literally got the worst temper issues

  • @sarahhhh9382

    @sarahhhh9382

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yep same here lol We share a name as well😆

  • @sara-xd4zd

    @sara-xd4zd

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sarahhhh9382 yea lol🖤

  • @sara-xd4zd

    @sara-xd4zd

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Curt Christensen i'll try my best oof

  • @theplumscrub1627

    @theplumscrub1627

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sarah S Here’s some good news: emotionally mature people reflect on their own short-comings and strive to change them. If you dare take the first step to becoming a better person (for yourself and for others) you are already more mature then people who don’t dare at all. The hard part is to keep going after that, but self-improvement brings improvement to yourself. I know that sounds kind of funny, but being able to understand yourself better helps alot in life.

  • @thunderlifestudios

    @thunderlifestudios

    4 жыл бұрын

    i can control them but it really depends, it takes me months to snap on someone but i feel i lack in confrontation

  • @wortexTM
    @wortexTM4 жыл бұрын

    Hm, I don't feel emotionally immature and 6 of these "signs" apply to me; however, I do happen to have outbursts of rage which really convince me otherwise.

  • @theplumscrub1627

    @theplumscrub1627

    4 жыл бұрын

    wortex You can be mature on some parts but lacking in others. You can use your own strengths to better combat your weaknesses.

  • @DanielDavies-StellularNebulla

    @DanielDavies-StellularNebulla

    4 жыл бұрын

    I understand that @wortex. What I have found is a good method for controlling myself in times when I either *know* I'm going to have an outburst, or *don't* know, is to try and think about *why I am angry*. What this does for me, is it helps me to take my mind off of what I'm currently doing and rationalise the reasons behind why I'm angry or frustrated the way I am. Hope this helped friend. Remember, being able to control and understand your emotions is a journey, and it can take a long time, so just be patient, and it will come to you. 😁 Have a good rest of your day/night everyone!

  • @ash2694

    @ash2694

    4 жыл бұрын

    I consider that I'm 86% emotionally mature but when someone who is constantly bothering you(toxic family members/bullies) , your patience sometimes is not as strong as it use to be because it keeps building it till it eventually explodes.

  • @minda6160

    @minda6160

    4 жыл бұрын

    wortex I think it’s possibly to GENERALLY be emotionally mature, but maybe there are certain situations/triggers that make it more difficult for you to be? Do you notice any patterns in things that make you have an outburst of rage? Any commonalities? If it’s something you’re interested, starting a “mood journal” might help you figure out this internal conflict! -Merinda, Writer for Psych2Go

  • @DanielDavies-StellularNebulla

    @DanielDavies-StellularNebulla

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ash2694 That's when the emotional maturity to confront that person about whatever it is they are doing, comes into play.

  • @tapiiee7776
    @tapiiee77763 жыл бұрын

    this made me smile, I go through a lot of self-doubt and I sometimes don't know what I'm good at or who I even am sometimes so it's good to see actual proof that I'm not all negatives and cons.

  • @raven75257
    @raven752574 жыл бұрын

    3:03 you don't have to value your relationship, if you don't have any

  • @taspro2644

    @taspro2644

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's hurt LMAO

  • @azzel8258

    @azzel8258

    4 жыл бұрын

    Uhh.. Friendships and family?

  • @aubriethegreat8175

    @aubriethegreat8175

    4 жыл бұрын

    "I am not self absorbed, I just don't want to be absorbed in someone else." - ME

  • @devashrijoshi9079

    @devashrijoshi9079

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@aubriethegreat8175 Yesyesyes! I can relate :)

  • @aubriethegreat8175

    @aubriethegreat8175

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@devashrijoshi9079 Haha. Glad to see that. I'm a loner and I like it that way. You too? :) (Of course I do have a few friends though.)

  • @redditsource1972
    @redditsource19724 жыл бұрын

    Emotional maturity is definitely something I need to work on!

  • @wholelottalove6727
    @wholelottalove67274 жыл бұрын

    love the animation style and the content, keep up with the amazing work!

  • @Kaempfdog
    @Kaempfdog4 жыл бұрын

    I wish you guys would talk about empaths. It took me over 3 years to even find out what was happening to me since I give large amounts of empathy on reflex. That’s a subject that should be shined on.

  • @dorya3217
    @dorya32174 жыл бұрын

    Seems I'm emotionally mature..... 🙃.... kind of

  • @goodboy5522
    @goodboy55224 жыл бұрын

    I'm definitely not mature

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's good to be self-aware. What do you plan to do next?

  • @garimabhatt7224

    @garimabhatt7224

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good Boy me too

  • @garimabhatt7224

    @garimabhatt7224

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good Boy great name 😝

  • @svleda9145

    @svleda9145

    3 жыл бұрын

    koolkid15 No

  • @kirtu9035

    @kirtu9035

    3 жыл бұрын

    @koolkid15 thats... mean (the joke)

  • @SamadritaNag_DETCE_
    @SamadritaNag_DETCE_3 жыл бұрын

    I loved this ! I am halfway emotionally matured and honestly, this gave me the full idea and helped me to groom my emotional maturity :) Thanks mate !

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n4 жыл бұрын

    Maturity - understanding human psychology by studying and analysing your own emotions, thus developing social competence.

  • @NenaLavonne
    @NenaLavonne4 жыл бұрын

    Love this! Being emotionally mature can help us have a more fulfilling and meaningful life and have better relationships because you take responsibility for your own actions and you don’t shift blame. We are all working on becoming the best version of our own selves! ♥️

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's true :) How many signs did you resonate with?

  • @sprout8426
    @sprout84264 жыл бұрын

    im freaking obssessed with these intros, they're so polite and thoughtful and make me feel special

  • @camilla8129
    @camilla81294 жыл бұрын

    "Emotional maturity is the ability to clearly understand and manage your emotions" Well, I clicked on the wrong video

  • @DanielDavies-StellularNebulla
    @DanielDavies-StellularNebulla4 жыл бұрын

    Being a naturally reserved person, I can relate to a lot of these points. I think there's a lot of commonalities between emotionally mature people and people that are reserved, probably due to our generally more thoughtful behaviour. I very much enjoyed and appreciated this video, keep up the great work!

  • @DuyceStarMusic
    @DuyceStarMusic4 жыл бұрын

    Woah i just realized that i am emotional mature! Thank you for this wonderful video now I feel a lot better since I struggled a lot with myself lately!

  • @user.LCW01
    @user.LCW014 жыл бұрын

    I love the calming voice behind this video. Her voice is so peaceful and relaxing, and the animation is so cute and amazing! ♥ Thank you Psych2Go. I'm really glad I found this channel! This channel got me to understand and love myself and to even learn that toxic relationships with people are bad. I'm glad that this channel exists. And I'm glad that I feel more happy now! 😊😄♥

  • @jessicareyes93
    @jessicareyes933 жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud for the people behind these videos, that at the beginning maybe thought they wouldn't go far. Keep going!

  • @JokerCrowe
    @JokerCrowe4 жыл бұрын

    I'm having trouble expressing emotions outwards. Like, I'll feel everything, but when it comes to showing it outwards I feel like i always limit myself. I suppose it means I'm emotionally mature, but sometimes i also wish i could Actually be excited some times. Or at least Show it.

  • @aunnobiitsu
    @aunnobiitsu4 жыл бұрын

    *AAA* Thank you for this, i’ve been wondering this about myself for a pretty long time.

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hope this video helps! Did you resonate with any of the signs in the video?

  • @bebopangel4211
    @bebopangel42114 жыл бұрын

    Me almost an adult that still laughs at fart jokes: *matur.*

  • @end4567

    @end4567

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well, you probably are mature. These people that desperately try to act old are just insecure people after all.

  • @user-hb3ur9bi2o

    @user-hb3ur9bi2o

    3 жыл бұрын

    koolkid15 guacamole ni੧੧a pеnis

  • @cromer6249

    @cromer6249

    3 жыл бұрын

    I like how you have a bus as a pfp

  • @lukeskywalkerjediknight2.013

    @lukeskywalkerjediknight2.013

    3 жыл бұрын

    @koolkid15 lol

  • @kashpursnani242
    @kashpursnani2424 жыл бұрын

    This video makes sense, also the way you expressed each and every thing was impressive!

  • @grassgoblin82
    @grassgoblin824 жыл бұрын

    *quietly breakdancing* Being emotionally mature at a young age is not always a good thing...

  • @vaishnavi4093
    @vaishnavi40934 жыл бұрын

    When u haven't even watched the video but still like it XD

  • @Error_707.

    @Error_707.

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol is that seven on your profile pic?

  • @vaishnavi4093

    @vaishnavi4093

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Error_707. lol yup

  • @ssww3

    @ssww3

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @Error_707.

    @Error_707.

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@vaishnavi4093 Cool~!

  • @eduardocruz3277

    @eduardocruz3277

    4 жыл бұрын

    SEVEN ZERO SEVEEEEN!!

  • @lfamvs5520
    @lfamvs55204 жыл бұрын

    “Do you wonder why everybody reacts differently to a similar situation?” *GASP* I DO wonder about that!

  • @lpsbarbiebeanie8776
    @lpsbarbiebeanie87764 жыл бұрын

    I love how they aways thank you at the start of every video

  • @maythegamer1291
    @maythegamer12914 жыл бұрын

    1: I often know what emotion I'm feeling but have a hard time figuring out why and normally talking to someone about it out loud helps me figure out why. 2: I also know when to say "no" but I also end up always saying "sorry" when I say that no. Granted, I still stick with my "no" cuz I said no for a good reason, and I have friends who respect that, but I still always feel bad 3: I like to think I'm still good at owning up to my mistakes but I always feel disappointed in myself when I see the mistakes I make and it takes a moment to get over it. Like I always end up going through the 5 stages of grief when it happens which is exhausting for me and those around me and I wish I could stop it. 4: I think I do this good? But I'm not entirely sure. Sometimes I overthink a situation. Other times I dont think about it at all. 5: I used to be good at this. But it's gone downhill throughout the past year. This is mostly because I almost never know what's going on with me or why I feel a certain way. For example I want to play a game with a friend but I always feel unmotivated with said game which sucks because that leaves both me and my friend with no one to play with. Yet for some reason I just cant get myself to play this game. 6: yes, I'm at least constantly 90% self aware of myself maybe a little too much as I sometimes end up overthinking it. 7: yes, this is me 100% I always end up listening to other people and try to even listen to myself as much as I can.

  • @alliewashere_
    @alliewashere_4 жыл бұрын

    I feel like I’m more emotionally mature than my parents 😭

  • @sceptre80
    @sceptre804 жыл бұрын

    This animation is beautiful I can't wait to watch this.

  • @rudeboi6502
    @rudeboi65024 жыл бұрын

    I had a bad night last night and this video is what I needed. I promise to control my emotions better after watching this video. Thank you 😊

  • @MissEmoPunkRocker
    @MissEmoPunkRocker4 жыл бұрын

    This is not bragging but I knew how much control I have over my emotions and I did realize that I think and act more maturely than others around me. Everything described here applies to me. It’s a good way to really organize all the points across. Thanks for this video! This really truly validates my knowledge of my own maturity! To add on to that, I’m blessed to have trained myself to have a high resilience threshold.

  • @sophiaredwood5825
    @sophiaredwood58254 жыл бұрын

    I’m very good at knowing my own emotions and empathizing with others... but I’m also kind of a doormat 😂 Edit: Yes, I think before I leap- overthinking counts, right?

  • @unendingvoid

    @unendingvoid

    4 жыл бұрын

    Overthought is still better than none or a lack of it. But try to find a balance. Sometimes the answers aren't so simple and overthinking can lead to wasted time as well. The best way to go about analysis is to consider the potential complexities but never lose sight of the obvious. Anything is possible depending on interpretation and the situation.

  • @Arctic_and_The_F0X
    @Arctic_and_The_F0X4 жыл бұрын

    I’m Emotionally mature, I knew it since the rest of my class is so immature.

  • @kaela-musicproduction7091

    @kaela-musicproduction7091

    4 жыл бұрын

    Arctic Fox it’s not exactly a black and white concept. You need to study yourself rather than comparing yourself to others to decide if you believe that you’re emotionally mature

  • @GiftedSince92GiftedSince92
    @GiftedSince92GiftedSince924 жыл бұрын

    Great video! This is very helpful. I sometimes struggle with my emotions. I get triggered and on the defense. I practice staying calm and positivity to get through rough days. I enjoyed this video. Keep up the great work!

  • @garfielddddddd
    @garfielddddddd4 жыл бұрын

    I live this animation style! It's the best one yet!

  • @shagunsingh8497
    @shagunsingh84974 жыл бұрын

    Emotionally mature people do not act impulsively and get less angry :')

  • @rainbowlov3

    @rainbowlov3

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am emotionally mature but I have anger issues. Even if I get angry every minute that doesn't make me less mature. I control my anger, but I'm still 24/7 angry

  • @shagunsingh8497

    @shagunsingh8497

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@rainbowlov3 yeah I think it doesn't invalidate the anger it just says you don't act out on it. Because anger is just like any other emotion

  • @amethyst_7896
    @amethyst_78964 жыл бұрын

    Okay, so so far I’m emotionally immature!

  • @user-nr3du7ox9i

    @user-nr3du7ox9i

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same, at least, we're self-aware, plus we clicked on this vid for a reason

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing! That's good to know! How many signs did you resonate with?

  • @blackeaglegamer6688
    @blackeaglegamer66884 жыл бұрын

    I’ve only found this channel not long ago and I’ve only watched a few videos but so far, it has been nothing but stuff that I can relate to on such a deep level, not just like “omggg don’t y’all hate it when ur boo can’t admit that it’s her fault??😭😭 #emotionallyimmature” but so much so, that it actually touches me more than almost anything I can remember. Normally I’d leave suggestive or critical comments or something funny weather it is to farm likes or just for the sake of it, but this I just appreciate so much. I already was confident enough in what my “path” was - what I thought of certain scenarios, how I was taking things and acting upon that, but nothing guaranteed that I had the right approach and I just had to hope that I’m not just being naive and overlooking something or even tons of things, but this video just confirmed that what I was doing was right all along. So if psych2go is reading this, then I just genuinely wanna say from the bottom of my heart, thank you, and please don’t stop making this kind of stuff.

  • @estellacohen7122
    @estellacohen71223 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this one!!

  • @pratistharoy5406
    @pratistharoy54064 жыл бұрын

    After watching this I can say that I'm emotionally mature ... Though I have some faults also , this video may help me to be a better person 😊✨❤️ thank you guys...stay safe everyone ✨🖐️

  • @snehlatamathur5145
    @snehlatamathur51453 жыл бұрын

    You know it sucks when you're parents turn out to be emotionally immature and due to them you turn out to be emotionally mature at 10...it's kinda hurts

  • @sangitakatunsarminkatun5504
    @sangitakatunsarminkatun55043 жыл бұрын

    I'm proud of myself, because a friend asked me if I could hang out with her on friday. I already got to hang out on thursday with my family. I am an introvert and higly sensitive person, so when I participate in a social event/activity with others I need time to rest after that to kind of recover, because it takes a lot of energy. So I responded to her saying no and I explained it wouldnt be good for me. So yes, I am very proud of myself for saying no to a friend!

  • @THETruthiness
    @THETruthiness4 жыл бұрын

    The world sends a conflicting message. Emotional maturity in admitting fault is punished and blamed. It’s almost foolish to do this in a society of misinformation and winner takes all. I think it would be greatly applicable to dealing with daily life and the twisted reality we all live in if you can suggest real world solutions to balance protecting oneself and being mature. Thank you for your wonderful content

  • @95maferisturiz
    @95maferisturiz3 жыл бұрын

    Tip that may be useful to you: have a diary, whether it is a physical notebook or your notes app in your cellphone or tablet to write down the emotions you feel on a daily basis, whether they're positive or negative emotions, it helps to be fully aware of our emotions and it also helps us identify and pinpoint the root of our emotions, better known as who or what is causing a specific emotions to manifest in the first place.

  • @Unlucky_Tracker
    @Unlucky_Tracker4 жыл бұрын

    Literally all of these things are me, I’m Emotionally Mature x 1000

  • @alzheimer7324
    @alzheimer73242 жыл бұрын

    Thank You For Sharing ❤

  • @decoy2636
    @decoy26364 жыл бұрын

    I'm improving but will have to work on this the rest of my life as I am still having some areas that need improvement shown here. Thanks for the incentive to improve ourselves in interaction with others, we can't help them or do we have time if self improvement is our goal

  • @josepheven4273
    @josepheven42734 жыл бұрын

    I’m mostly mature and sometimes immature I notice. I get a bit off at times. I’m pretty good at listening. However there is chances I accidentally won’t catch everything what the person says. I know it makes me seem to be condescending. I’m not. I’m not trying to be condescending. I try my best and every time I upgrade nothing wants to give me time. I do interrupt sometimes. I think is because I gotta answer or comment real quick before I forget what to say. I also need communication. Communication is always key. Arguing is childish. I just try my best. At anything.

  • @Justarandomartist28
    @Justarandomartist284 жыл бұрын

    Lately i believe Ive started to become emotionally mature, according to these points. If not fully mature yet, then im improving at least.

  • @waffledemonoverlord4232
    @waffledemonoverlord42324 жыл бұрын

    Helping a friend of mine who was down and living around different types of people made me quite mature (my friends said I am so and this video confirms it) and I'm really proud of it. Sometimes it feels like people don't care at all though and it's dismotivating

  • @cannoneermike
    @cannoneermike4 жыл бұрын

    This channel is such an ego booster and I love it

  • @everyism7361
    @everyism73614 жыл бұрын

    I love your content! ^^

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the kind words! Did you see our other videos recently?

  • @everyism7361

    @everyism7361

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go Yes ^^

  • @fatum8573
    @fatum85734 жыл бұрын

    I'm sooo love this animation 😻

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    Glad you love it! It's by Morgan H :)

  • @SlurpieDoo

    @SlurpieDoo

    4 жыл бұрын

    Also known as @ZeroCakes ♡ on his own channel

  • @mylyric9044
    @mylyric90443 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad I was made the right decision to learn English 10y ago while my toxic mom made my youths vulnerable. There’s more to learn and I love psychology. Now, I can slowly unravel the possibilities behind her parenting pattern. Why she was behave like that, unconsciously hurting her children mentally that the wound won’t heal in 20y without a proper mental help. Thank you for creating such wonderful videos in your channel ❤️

  • @liixi-573
    @liixi-5734 жыл бұрын

    I enjoy this channel a LOT. Thank you ❤️

  • @larissabarbaruli
    @larissabarbaruli4 жыл бұрын

    this made me cry because I'm very impulsive and can't control my emotions

  • @theplumscrub1627

    @theplumscrub1627

    4 жыл бұрын

    Larissa If you’re under 18 years old that is totally normal. Kids don’t understand their emotions yet, and neither do teenagers, teenagers also have a lot of hormones that make them prone to outbursts. Don’t shame yourself for being imperfect, realise that you notice this lack of control in yourself and be proud that you can reflect on your own actions. Then take action. (Take action by asking for help trough the internet, friends, family or self improvement videos.)

  • @livyrl

    @livyrl

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@theplumscrub1627 even tho youre talking to them that put me at ease a bit,ive been trying to be introspective for a few years now and its definitely saved me many times,im 15 and i only kinda recently started getting in touch with my emotions and questioning why i do the things i do and honestly trying to improve them and its all working its just that i grew up with anger issues and things are a bit difficult sometimes but im trying~!!

  • @xxs4760

    @xxs4760

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@livyrl its fine, dont get stressed out to much with 15!! ive gained my maturity only at 19 years and began to understand my emotions and where they are coming from. if youre really interested tho, some basic psychology research i did helped me understand myself a lot more!!:)

  • @livyrl

    @livyrl

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@xxs4760 o alrighty thank youu

  • @pranitasangroula4998

    @pranitasangroula4998

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same😅

  • @seacow4705
    @seacow47054 жыл бұрын

    I read the title as "7 signs you're emotionally a failure"

  • @jeniserichard8382
    @jeniserichard83823 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. At one time in my life I was verbally attacked by an emotionally immature person. This lasted for a long time and one phrase this individual would always say as a retort to my calmly thought out replies was "let's be adults about this". This quick reply from them was because they didn't like the implication that they were wrong in the situation and needed to shift blame back onto me. It took 2 years for this individual to realize that they were wrong the entire time, and they did apologize. Unfortunatly, during those 2 years, this person destroyed long standing friendships between people who were not involved just because they were angry and out bursting at everyone.

  • @carla7790
    @carla77904 жыл бұрын

    Ive always been super emotionally mature... we really think before we speak, understand or atleast try to understand others point of views and opinions, we are open minded and are able to analyze situations and see whats right from wrong. Always ready to listen to anyone and when conflict comes around we try to do what is most “mature” even if our point is taken the wrong way... able to really pin point what is bothering us and we find ways to try to get through it, even if it’s difficult

  • @infinitymatrix2890
    @infinitymatrix28904 жыл бұрын

    First sign: Me:Yep, I'm not emotionally mature

  • @lindseysands1732
    @lindseysands17324 жыл бұрын

    Me watching this Me:So true

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    How many signs did you relate to?

  • @davidmanning4759
    @davidmanning47594 жыл бұрын

    I related quite a bit to this video. I must admit that sometimes I feel I don't react enough though, I don't feel extreme emotion often. I live a very reactive life style, facing challenges as they come. I propose the best I can for things I know are coming but don't deal out when something catches me by surprise. Great videos folks.

  • @Not_silv
    @Not_silv4 жыл бұрын

    I know you read comments so I just wanna say thankyou so much for making these! They help me discover who I really am I and I know how much work you put into these ❤️ I love your videos and content 😊

  • @minda6160

    @minda6160

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way! This was the 1st script I’ve written for Psych2Go, but I’ve been a longtime follower since I was in high school (I’m 26 now). I love how Psych2Go takes topics in psychology and makes them very easy to understand for anyone who reads/watches. Glad you like the content!

  • @sam-js1mm
    @sam-js1mm3 жыл бұрын

    My friend: I’m very mature in any way My cousins: I’m mature My siblings: I’m emotionally mature Me: uhhhhhh, I’m am mature at not being mature?

  • @ilikecheese2813
    @ilikecheese28134 жыл бұрын

    The word "mature" does not exist in my world.

  • @maryamh6209
    @maryamh62094 жыл бұрын

    I was looking for a vid about emotions to share with my students to work on as their next homework assignment when I came across this, I just shared it with them, thx for making these awesome vids, love from Iran❤️

  • @martinasilver690
    @martinasilver6904 жыл бұрын

    I needed this video, thank you so much. I’ve works on this for some time, and this really worked! I will save this! Really, thank you ❤️❤️

  • @blakedoesarts
    @blakedoesarts4 жыл бұрын

    "Are you an empath?" Yup, thanks for the shoutout lol

  • @samarthchitravanshi2627
    @samarthchitravanshi26274 жыл бұрын

    Damm I've never been this early!!!!

  • @Approximation
    @Approximation4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for removing the music! The video feels so well balanced now.

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Your feedback matters! How do you feel about a more subtle/ soft background music? Or do you still prefer videos without any music? :)

  • @Approximation

    @Approximation

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go Music is fine, but the almost lullaby like music in older videos felt way too immature like I was watching a kids video [ IMHO ] I'd prefer either no music or soft subtle music.

  • @missstranger7697
    @missstranger76974 жыл бұрын

    This change of emotional maturity took me almost 2 years after of course going to a psychologist, but I'm still glad I made it!😊

  • @d-rgk2477
    @d-rgk24774 жыл бұрын

    Hint: You’re not

  • @roastedcrickets1767

    @roastedcrickets1767

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks I know lol

  • @kashaf8922

    @kashaf8922

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well i am emotionally mature

  • @enchanted4468
    @enchanted44684 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I guess im matured not like I needed to watch this video to know that. Alright gamers goodnight.

  • @Nothin321
    @Nothin321 Жыл бұрын

    Your videos have helped me a ton and now I’m growing every day! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge 😌❤️

  • @luis96xd
    @luis96xd4 жыл бұрын

    This was an excellent video! I liked it so much!

  • @itriedtojimoutbutfail8498
    @itriedtojimoutbutfail84984 жыл бұрын

    I'm an INFJ so...I can relate to all of these so does that means I'm emotionally matured??but I'm only 16 idk And also I started to experience all these signs since I'm like 8 or 9 years old

  • @devashrijoshi9079

    @devashrijoshi9079

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm 18 but can only relate to some of these.

  • @drowninginthedeepnessofher1032

    @drowninginthedeepnessofher1032

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's okay....but....seriously the user names that tells you're an army is still hilarious. The way I act when I see a fellow is still.......immature

  • @itriedtojimoutbutfail8498

    @itriedtojimoutbutfail8498

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@drowninginthedeepnessofher1032 lmao what? 😂

  • @gregbruhboi8057

    @gregbruhboi8057

    3 жыл бұрын

    Personality tests are zodiac signs for people with superiority complex’s

  • @DivineTarotGuidance1010
    @DivineTarotGuidance10104 жыл бұрын

    Keep going

  • @gabynava6881
    @gabynava68814 жыл бұрын

    Your videos are really helping others

  • @Undivided_X
    @Undivided_X4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this. I don't think I am emotionally mature, but I like to think I am working towards that and hopefully will get there soon.

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's good to be self-aware. How do you plan to work towards being more emotionally mature? :)

  • @Celinekho05
    @Celinekho054 жыл бұрын

    My partner is highly immature in managing his emotions, I'm confused.

  • @kcain64

    @kcain64

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bi-Polar ?

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    I see. How are you dealing with the situation with your partner currently?

  • @7eartcat248

    @7eartcat248

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sounds concerning

  • @traineralan3769
    @traineralan37694 жыл бұрын

    Hella early this time, but Idk what to say

  • @diywithsanya2806
    @diywithsanya28064 жыл бұрын

    Wow! This is so great!!

  • @stephenlackey5852
    @stephenlackey58522 жыл бұрын

    “… requires a prolonged simmer on the gentle heat of experience.“ Nice one, that😌🙏