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@tallestpersonalive

3 жыл бұрын

I’m early! Hi!!!

@Mr_unknown07

3 жыл бұрын

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@maanya525

3 жыл бұрын

The merch is soo cuteee😍

@aish0_0frr

3 жыл бұрын

Hey psychgo if a mature person are open minded then why do they choose things on their character not their feelings? I am asking this based on your points in thus video

@SisL_channel-april21

3 жыл бұрын

I needed this kind of video, thank you!🤍

remember: every moment, you're younger than you'll ever be and older than you've ever been.

@lemon-tree3823

3 жыл бұрын

wow that’s gonna be a thought in my head for the rest of the week

@Elminster-ln4yw

3 жыл бұрын

Why? Why have you done this to me?

@jameslawrence617

3 жыл бұрын

Wow way to send me into a minute long existential crisis

@crypticwriter7001

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@icraveaffection

3 жыл бұрын

why. Just why.

fun fact: “we mature with damage not with years.”

@S-e-l

3 жыл бұрын

Me with childhood trauma: Uh...yeah

@sonalporwal8841

2 жыл бұрын

It's not a fun fact , it's a deep true fact .

@woozihae

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@kissmekissmeiwthyoureyesclosed

2 жыл бұрын

@@S-e-l I’m deeply sorry for you should never go thru that.

@S-e-l

2 жыл бұрын

@@kissmekissmeiwthyoureyesclosed its fine,haha,without it I wont be mature this early as im just 15 now

I remember when I was 13-14 and I was trying to act mature. Ended up destroying most aspects of myself. For what it's worth, I hate that word. I was deceived into believing being mature was a goal I had to achieve, and it ended up becoming an insidious mindset. This video has showed me I am not fully matured, but I've changed. More importantly, changed without trying to be what I am not.

@danielapardo9776

2 жыл бұрын

Same to everything. And having taken this "be mature" thing through my life has kinda ruined things (?), but maybe is because I skipped the part where I must be assertive; and the video kinda skips it too. Being mature or emotionally mature is to accept all emotions and to feel the pain, sadness, anger or joy that any situation brings. And that is where things like patience, empathy, no need for attention, humility and etc roots. I kinda hate this word too now, something that had so much meaning has turned into a label and a weapon for somebody else to control you by telling you: oh, truth is you are no very mature.

@rebeccagowen6619

Жыл бұрын

I’m 13 turning 14 this year, and all my thoughts at school are things like “I want people to think I’m mature” or “be mature” and based on this video, I am quite mature, but it kinda hurts to think that I’m only being mature for a reputation

@Giyga

Жыл бұрын

@@rebeccagowen6619 you remind me a lot of myself when I was younger, my advice is just don't care about it or you'll get in a lot of unfavorable situations

@jayt7278

Жыл бұрын

Daniela Pardo, oh my god. You literally just read my MIND. Everything you just said is exactly how I feel about my life and the people around me. I feel In my heart that I am not all that mature, or perhaps not as mature as I should be. What I find really flawed about this whole “being mature” thing. Is that anybody can look “mature” or do things that society might see as mature and “adult” such as drinking alcohol or watching more adult shows, but truthfully those are all meaningless things that a person only ever does to make themselves look “mature”. You can never see into another persons heart, and only they themselves can know truthfully just how mature they are. Just like you, I hate how maturity has been flipped on his head and is used as a weapon. One of my cousins is such a huge example of this, he is about 13 and watches a whole lot of anime. Although he never says it directly he shows through his absolutely fucking obnoxious condescending tone that he clearly sees himself as more mature “than me”. He also totally sees his love for anime as a staple of his “maturity” and the only way you could manage to make him see you see you as “mature” is if you live life the way he wants you to and share the exact same interests. Such as anime. I just hate people who use the societal pressure to be more mature as a weapon and call anyone who even slightly lives their lives the way they want to as “immature”. I find being mature very VERY difficult. I am a very social person so looking more “mature” is not as hard. But truly being MATURE on a level that only I myself can see is a challenge. Perhaps I’m just not willing to put in the time and effort to be more “mature” and the circumstances that might need to happen for me to want to be more “mature” might not ever happen. But at least I can actually admit that instead of being like these clowns who boast about their own “maturity” Jesus Christ I spiraled out of control writing this comment but I needed to rant lol, thx for anyone who actually took the time to read all this 😂

@danielapardo9776

Жыл бұрын

@@jayt7278 I was like your cousin when I was 13 lol, but with music, and met plenty during my teen years. Is part of forming an identity I think. He will snap out of it, hopefully. In the meantime, teasing him every once in a while won't hurt. What you said about being critized by false staples of maturity can be very true, like you said: drinking, adult tv, maybe partying, being like cold and serious and "deep" (those people can be very annoying) etc are seing as adult stuff. What I meant in that sense is that, in my opinion, another false staple of maturity is repressing your emotions and avoiding conflict. That causes that false image of a pacient kind "mature" person, but is not, is just someone who is letting everyone damage them. And all thanks to wanting to appear more adult than other people. "Mature" can be a weapon in many ways, damn. But maturity is more than that for me now that I am older, and I def do not consider mayself mature anyomre lol. It takes a lot of responsability to be an actual adult, and lot and lots of empathy and compassion, but it has to come from within. I think a way of doing that is knowing yourself and meeting more people, constant learning about living will get us there. And of course, the circumstances help to shape us. Don't worry about the rant, I love writing them and reading them too. Greetings (?).

7 signs someone is truly mature (Wise). 0:40 (One) Their choices are based on their Character instead of their feelings. 1:17 (two) They are patient. 1:46 (Three) They keep Long-term Commitment and Promises. 2:11 (Four) They actively listen more & Talk less. 2:51 (Five) They don't need attention & possess a sense of humility. 3:21 (Six) They're Open-minded. 3:51 (Seven) They're self-aware & known when to hold themselves accountable.

@itsmii1364

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the tldw

@KishinamiNoMae

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the summary , We appreciate it a lot! :D

@defnotnaruto222

Жыл бұрын

​@@itsmii1364I read that as To Long Didn't Weed

@whoasked6147

Жыл бұрын

​@@defnotnaruto222u need sleep

@Your_DailyDoseOfMusic

6 ай бұрын

I think not forcing love is also important

My parents: Ugh, you're so immature. Phych2Go: You're mature.

@sinnombre4953

3 жыл бұрын

our parents think in a way that if we don't do what they want make us immature for them even, we are mature

@insch.9547

3 жыл бұрын

What if.. Maturity is subjective ?

@leah6692

3 жыл бұрын

@@insch.9547 I think you may have a point. Everyone has different experiences and points of view so in a way it’s not up to people to decide if your mature but yourself.

@SphereofCygnus

3 жыл бұрын

Yea! The thing is that every generation has their own trials and tribulations. Some people (not all) like to hold their struggles and experiences and use them by themselves as a measure of maturity. It's a very selfish thing to do and is not mature of them. Just because they emerged triumphant on the other side, doesn't necessarily mean they were steadfast in making the right choices. They may have done hurtful things to themselves and others to push their way up and over. If you understand that and you can be happy by being proud of yourself and staying humble simultaneously, you're more mature than them. ❤

@Buhleep

3 жыл бұрын

and I got the opposite tbh..ik I'm immature and I'm working on it as much as I can. life is tough but so am i..sometimes...

"They actively listen more and talk less" Me who does this because of my anxiety: 👁👄👁

@ouffman769

3 жыл бұрын

And then you question if you’re actually mature enough to listen to others or you’re anxiety is forcing you to, making you question yourself more and giving you more anxiety

@gabrielpiscopo3916

3 жыл бұрын

@@ouffman769 Haha so true 😭😂

@anushkana1

3 жыл бұрын

finally I am anot alone who have anxiety... :(:

@sakshirai3077

3 жыл бұрын

Me too and I m dipressed too😭

@haha-wz5qm

3 жыл бұрын

Truee

"Being proud of themselves in enough" just touched me 🧿✨

I used to be truly immature one time, but when I realised that I can't keep living like this I started to discover my purpose in life. It led me to go through life with humility, discipline and an open mind to keep learning from everyone. Anyone can learn to be wise/mature, you just have to be willing to commit to it no matter how hard it is.

@lilmeater4785

Жыл бұрын

Yeah you my dog

@NazmusLabs

10 ай бұрын

Keep up the good work! And learn about Islam. It will take everything you learned and take it up several notch and give you real contentment. May Allah (S.W.T.) guide you and bestow upon you His Blessings; Ameen.

@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz

9 ай бұрын

U are truly humble bro keep urself proud

@svan4748

9 ай бұрын

@@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz Thank you, we should all be proud of ourselves!

"age is just a number , maturity is a choice "

@whydoi4312

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! We choose to become who we are. ❤

@JustAnotherEagleScout

2 жыл бұрын

By this video I reached a point of maturity by 12.5-13

@leafkefn3774

2 жыл бұрын

Well said im 25 and act like im 18.. my choice though

@d.e.s_67

2 жыл бұрын

Age is just a number and jail is just a cell

@sneakyratsniper

2 жыл бұрын

“Age is just a number” - child rapist

“Never expect to get what you give. Not everyone in this world has a heart like you.”

@imonlyhuman573

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@onlybonjour

3 жыл бұрын

@@imonlyhuman573 facts

@ladyt9000

3 жыл бұрын

I just had someone tell me this after trying to renter my life during a year of ghosting. He and the military have shown me what type of ppl I’m around…never again.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

I like this quote, thank you! - Monica

@akashicrose5551

3 жыл бұрын

An actor said this I believe.

“There is a lot to learn in life so it’s best to keep an open mind” Ughh that’s such a good way to put it😭😭

I remember hitting 15 years old and having mastered these 7 signs. I'm happy I did, because I was in balance. Only trying to get out of this led me down wrong paths, and now I found that I'm happier being like this video.

@Dwarf_Enjoyer

Жыл бұрын

Same here, never tried to be mature, its really just life not giving a choice.

1. Their choices are based on their character, not feelings 2. They are patient 3. They keep long-term commitments and promises 4. They actively listen more and talk less 5. They don't need Attention and possess a sense of Humility 6. They are Open-Minded 7. They are self aware and know when to hold themselves accountable

@livelydodo

3 жыл бұрын

Noice. 👍

@muhiba7484

3 жыл бұрын

Yep I'm all of this expected for 2 I'm not always patient🙍 and 4 \5 I'm a quiet type more like shy🤦

@awoogaahhh

3 жыл бұрын

im all except 2 (i talk alot and im not patient)

@georgevavoulis4758

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Edydudey

@peterwynn2169

3 жыл бұрын

When you say open-minded, I can be, but I don't believe it is immature, if two people have totally different values to say, "Okay, we'll agree to disagree, but I don't see a friendship between us."

"Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself." -Rumi

@Legynus

2 жыл бұрын

Yesterday is a history Tommorow is a mystery But today is a gift that is why it is called present -master oogway

@suzysafy5022

2 жыл бұрын

Rumi is my mom's name

@vishnupandey8624

2 жыл бұрын

@@Legynus People are using this quote as a spam comment to gain subscribers lol

@localdruglord550

2 жыл бұрын

@@suzysafy5022 rumi is my crackhead friend's name xD

@abegailanneverenio2780

Жыл бұрын

"Yesterday is victory Today is fighting Tomorrow we celebrate "♡ -abe

Out of all the channels about mental health, relationship advice, life. Yours is best and also true. People don't want advice that makes no sense and just put them in wrong direction

omg the voice just broke my heart into two pieces , this is one of the most comfortable voices I ever heard. The person who's telling is mature for sure. This makes me explore this channel more and more .

ayo! a random time traveler here and here's a time-stamp in case it comes in handy: 0:43 - Their choices are based on their character instead of their feelings 1:17 - They are patient 1:47 - They keep long-term commitments and promises 2:13 - They actively listen and talk 2:53 - They don't need attention and posses a sense of humility 3:20 - They are open-minded 3:53 - They are self-aware and know when to hold themselves accountable

@galaxy_mooncat779

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks dude

@gummiiworm8205

3 жыл бұрын

thank chu time traveler! :D

@nancy6921

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot

@shanthi4855

3 жыл бұрын

How-

@deeznuts601

3 жыл бұрын

@@gummiiworm8205 :0

plot twist: staying wise is a daily challenge and nobodys always wise in the eyes of someone else. you can get mad and still be wise but you will appear as an immature idiot to bystanders of that isolated incident.

@SoulDelSol

3 жыл бұрын

Anger isn't inherently bad, it's just expressing it in healthy and safe way and trying to minimize contact with persons who don't respect your boundaries. It doesn't matter what others think, especially strangers. The last time i got angry in public setting was about 2.5 years ago so that doesn't happen often (came home to discover that my partner had moved out while i was at work, after telling me she loved me that morning - i regrettably stopped by her job). I'll admit i did react immaturely to that which triggered past trauma for me. No one is perfect but when i fall short i try to take accountability and make amends to those persons i may have harmed. Do you mind sharing what made you angry in public?

@Shaman1

3 жыл бұрын

@@SoulDelSol i dont really mean in public, i mean your being angry can be observed by other people who might not even be involved and jump to the conclusion that youre immature altho youre wisely letting it flow. the last time i was angry in a public setting was when i saw the issues of a work place and calmly pointed them out in a big team meeting. neither the team nor supervisors acknowledged the cause of the problems i mentioned. the company ended up losing billions over this. i got angry a little bit and then decided i had to leave that place and be self employed so noone can stand between my clear sight and the action that needs to be taken. i was hurt that nobody believed me but now im happy and i see it as one of the greatest learnings of my life not to waste energy on making people understand things they dont want to believe. everybody looked down on me as crazy but they all came to the same conclusion as me... just a few years and many sicknesses later. its kinda sad im the only one who learned sth from it...

@mariplayz1775

3 жыл бұрын

Thnk u. Idk when tf emotions and being human became bad. As long as its not hurting u or someone else its most likely just

@user-dl3vn8ze9n

3 жыл бұрын

I forget this a lot. I needed to hear that. 💙

@yoggers2121

3 жыл бұрын

yes it's sooo upsetting that when a person gets mad at someone, other people just assume that's their "true colors". anger is part of everyone, but not all people are angry all the time and hot-tempered, it just so happens that a person just snapped and cant hold their anger any longer. and you can tell a person is mature becuz even when they're angry they use words and not violence, and their words have good points and their choice of words aren't as degrading as "you dumbass mother effer". they actually have a good reason to be angry. ppl just can't see the difference between being mean and being angry.

I can relate to maybe 3 , maybe 4 points in this video . I can confidently say that I am more patient than those around me , I try to be open-minded and try to learn about the circumstances of the decisions of others , I know when to hold myself accountable , and I can recall myself stepping back from a fight just to assess what was really going on .

This was a great video. Especially balancing character & emotions. Choosing your value system over your temporary emotional state is a practiced skill and something everyone needs to work on (myself included).

Many people are very mature, but don’t have the confidence they might need, so even though they’re not naive, they can get taken advantage of. If you are mature, please try to be brave in your decisions. Please take care of yourself. ❤️

@kimberlybogert7031

3 жыл бұрын

I keep doing my best..it's not always easy..but I keep on trying thank you again tho.🌸🌺💗

@courageandcompassion2293

3 жыл бұрын

@@kimberlybogert7031 Make no mistake, you could not possibly do better than your best. I’m very proud of you to be giving your all.

@kimberlybogert7031

3 жыл бұрын

@@courageandcompassion2293 Thank you(｡•́︿•̀｡)(✿^‿^)You Take care now ok🌺🌸🏵️💗

@courageandcompassion2293

3 жыл бұрын

@@kimberlybogert7031 You too. Thank you for your support!

@kimberlybogert7031

3 жыл бұрын

@@courageandcompassion2293 Awww it's Not a problem at all.☺️❤️💖🌷🌺

Although you are a child, your heart can be maturer than adults.

@Jacknjokes3762

3 жыл бұрын

It's ture 😶🙁

@FatimaT714

3 жыл бұрын

Me when I was a kid.

@-DumpsterFire

3 жыл бұрын

that's very true. there was a school counselor that wasn't' good at her job. i was better at her job than she was. she kept tabs on my on my home life which i knew was out of line and then she forced me to hug a person i was terrified of and i knew that isn't allowed. my parents emailed her and she came back with a bright, neon pink, cursive, email that my dyslexic dad couldn't read. very unprofessional and upsetting. i'm surprised she's not fired yet cause she's gotten many complaints just like it.

@Apxrnx

3 жыл бұрын

Yess

@farhanasanjida4438

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jacknjokes3762 Yeah We are

Her voice is truly what brings that extra charm in her videos.. It really comforts me.. Even the illustrations are really soft I just love it

I'm 19 y.o and I honestly want to be married by next year, in two years I want to start a family. I have to work on a lot in order to be ready for all that responsibility. Both in discipline and spirituality. I am exited to build a family in which God is present, I will try my best to work on myself and become a good wife and mother. Of course that I have other ambitions in my life such as career, but to be honest, nothing lights up my heart like family does.

@donovanwilliams5424

Жыл бұрын

That's wonderful. Make sure that you find a person who has the same values and goals as you. Make sure that you and the other person know how to set and respect boundaries, apologize, and forgive each other. Make sure that you both believe that your marriage is a sacred vow that you would never willingly break. I say this as someone who has been married and divorced. Marriage is the most important commitment that you will ever make.

@babycakes8434

9 ай бұрын

Be patient. Being a mother is a lifelong commitment and responsibility. Working harder has nothing to do with being good wife or mother. Take your time, live your own life first, be patient. Also be carefull what you wish for, because that knight in shiny armour, can become a dragon in a split second. Good luck and take your time, instead of rushing and planning everything ASAP.

@tbubbles9313

8 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤

"The only time you'll mature, is when you stop thinking that you're mature." - some dude on the internet

@juanjo3333

3 жыл бұрын

lol

@pkmntrainerred4247

2 жыл бұрын

What if you acknowledge that you are mature and you ARE actually mature? You don't try to make others think u are mature but think you are at least a bit mature, does that mean you're immature? I don't think so if you really are mature. If someone thinks they can run fast (but don't think they are super fast or something, just fast enough)and they can ACTUALLY run fast that means they acknowledge it.

@misascoffin

2 жыл бұрын

@@pkmntrainerred4247 The amount of times u said the word mature makes my brain hurt

@pkmntrainerred4247

2 жыл бұрын

@@misascoffin LOL, looks like I accomplished my secondary objective

@b__05

2 жыл бұрын

If I know Who I am and I say I am mature then I actually am. Internet dude is wrong 😂

The fact that I’m considered “truly mature” by these standards is quite nice because I learned these traits from other people that I was surrounded with and I picked these habits from them and I’m glad to have experience being with them(*´∇｀*)

@lenarebmann1093

2 жыл бұрын

Must be cool people

@lilianbeatriz67

2 жыл бұрын

OH THAT EXPLAINS ME TOO I grew up on the internet so i picked up habits that i find mature and reasonable, and somehow ended up here

@angelcarlos8041

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I often find someone in a group I can look up to years ago. I keep learning a lot since then.

@MaazShaikh-ji2fq

2 жыл бұрын

My only standard is to treat people how I like to be treated. No one was nice to me but I matured. Atleast something good happened

@gianismm

2 жыл бұрын

Same

Thanks for the video its helped me realize I once was mature but, somewhere along the line. I’ve fallen and I’ve been regressing lately. And thank you once again, this vid will help me improve and become mature all over again.

I will conclude that I am a person with developing maturity. I can describe myself as patient, I do actively listen more and talk less, I can describe myself as open-minded, and the optimal self-development I am currently aiming at incorporates the remaining four guides/teachings. I still struggle often, no mistake. No matter what progress you make or how much of it you manifest, regression is ALWAYS possible. It never becomes impossible, no matter how confident you are in your growth. 💙

You don’t need to be old to be wise

@commerce-usa

3 жыл бұрын

True, but it can help. 😉

@anonymousstranger3520

3 жыл бұрын

Tru

@5Demona5

3 жыл бұрын

True. I know people (60+ years old) who are as emotionally mature as a toddler. Throwing tantrums and objects when one disagrees with them, even if said politely.

@IshaSharma11

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@user-BigSisEl

3 жыл бұрын

Whoever says wisdom comes with age are most likely the same people who are entitled and believe cause someone is older than you ( regardless of what they do ) should be respected. Just as wisdom comes from experience, respect is earned not just given. ✊

I’m getting to the point where arguing is not worth it, my opinions don’t matter to anyone but myself so I keep to myself, patience or I’ll become a patient and killing people with kindness really doesn’t hurt anyone

@juliakay7446

3 жыл бұрын

Aww, I’ll listen to your opinions if you’d like. Feel free to rant to me all you want ❤️

@nanaealewis7560

3 жыл бұрын

O my god. I'm relating to you so hard right now. If you need an ear i'm there.

@shakirapickens9374

3 жыл бұрын

Turth

@wolfheartspirit97

3 жыл бұрын

I feel that way all the time

@nanaealewis7560

3 жыл бұрын

@@wolfheartspirit97 If that's how you truly feel then me and you are the same.

It has been a while since I've watched one of these videos. Made me a little calm from stressful days.

I've been told I'm wise by family, friends and even people that have passed in my life for only 16 hours and I truly believe them. Particularly on the self-awareness point, it's very hard to deal with difficult matters when you're emotionally self-aware of what you're reactions and emotions can bring to others, plus being conscious that every action has its consequence. No, in fact it's more easy to deal with the issue for a self-aware person but it becomes more difficult to do it with a non self-aware person because they'll, most of the time, decide of what's best for them and them only, not thinking of the consequences their decisions might bring on to others. I suggest Psych2Go to do a video on the subject by the way ! I think there is a lot to say about non self-aware people (emotionally as well as in general) and how we can better live with them (if that topic hasn't been adressed yet of course).

Maturity in one sentence - Finding happiness in small things is maturity. Peace✌️

@elisaperez129

3 жыл бұрын

:3 👌

@luxuriousrug8551

3 жыл бұрын

Your username says it all. And I agree. Which, by an inkling, are you a fellow Stoic? If so a nod to you brother may we strive for contentment.

@syedsyed9006

3 жыл бұрын

Your username says it all.And i agree. which,by an inking,are you a fellow stoic ?if so a nod to your brother may we strive for contentment.

believe me or not this channel has the best and the most supportive comment section i hv ever seen love u team psych2Go amd thanku.....

@TypeKK

3 жыл бұрын

And also the shortest because if I type this title video, every recommended video will be 20 to 30 minutes long which is wasting my life

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. We love and appreciate our viewers too :)

@michaelespinoza7526

2 ай бұрын

​@@Psych2gohey would you mind doing a video on your youtube channel . About who is more easily deceived or swayed - men or women 🩷🩷🩷🩷

thank you so much for reminding me what it's like to be mature, I didn't notice that I've loss all the things that made me mature until I watch this video, thank you so much again for bringing me in the right path.

When you dont need validation,you have a patient, You listen to others carefully, Instead of being reactive and impulsive, you r responsive to them. You speak what is necessary instead of irrelevant gossips Defines you a mature one..Good one✨👌But it takes time to learn.. And with time you gradually learn😊😊

Literally to the 1% who's reading this, God bless you, and may your dreams come true, stay safe and have a wonderful day.

@Manuel2816

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, i needed it

@michaelballack3051

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks I wish you the same

@ASH_AMAR

2 жыл бұрын

May god keep safe and sound a good human being like you❤️

@rafee3aabdelsalam357

2 жыл бұрын

y tho?

@isidoragonzalez23

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, you have no idea how much good this comment can do

Praying that everyone falls asleep quickly and has a peaceful sleep. Hope you all wake up happy and well rested

@joyce85668

2 жыл бұрын

Thankyouu for your wonderful comments for you prayinv for you too

@rthnae

2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU I really hope that one day I'll just obtain the ability to fall asleep at the drop of a hat cause it would be so helpful

@christeena248

2 жыл бұрын

Thankyouu

@tungtamuk2608

2 жыл бұрын

Ooh I m sleepy,but I need to study

@cdg8406

2 жыл бұрын

I literally love u

every single point related. glad to know that im mature as a teenager. my family and relatives will be shocked. thanks for the amazing video. even tho i seldom hesitate with stuff, this video helped me gain confidence in my decisions and not to underrestimate myself

I don't think we ever stop working on ourselves to improve ourselves, You could lack all these traits at the start but you acquire them as time goes on and improve yourself

I feel like a lot of us are immature when it comes to small things. Petty things. But when it comes to serious subjects, we can all find that inner maturity. Idk I'm not a psych student so correct me if I'm wrong.

@someoneidk3413

2 жыл бұрын

I have a small question, can I ask?

@mystery2893

2 жыл бұрын

You're wrong

@canavokki8507

2 жыл бұрын

@@mystery2893 if your going to comment ”you’re wrong” explain why they are wrong…and no one likes from their own comment.

@rafee3aabdelsalam357

2 жыл бұрын

@@canavokki8507 you're*

@blitheixgaming1289

2 жыл бұрын

@@mystery2893 You remind me of someone who i tried to debate with and all he said was how good of a debater he was as he kept throwing insults at me and telling me "You're wrong" and not actually challenge the points i gave xD

I feel sad that i have all these qualities when i am only 14.. It would have been so good if I was just trying out makeup, dresses, enjoyed my teenage but i am more into what is going to happen, what if I dont study more than others, thinking about my past... I feel a need of having that child inside me back that society took away from me..

@snehaa2018

3 жыл бұрын

@UCypnbLfnJOn2LCVkbpkauaQ thank you for writing it all! These words made me feel like god will do good for me and others even though i am not christian❤️💜

@idonthaveaname8164

3 жыл бұрын

Being mature does not mean that you cannot have a child-like sense of wonder.

@zaharabliss106

3 жыл бұрын

Kid same like I'm a year older than you but I feel like I'm always worrying about my financial stability in the future and what failing school would do to my life plan. I wish I could just be a child because I can't remember my earlier life and have so much traumatic memories.

@snehaa2018

3 жыл бұрын

@@zaharabliss106 you are 15? Well we both are kids and can relate to this.. thats genuinely sad

@snehaa2018

3 жыл бұрын

@@idonthaveaname8164 whenever I think that way, i feel like a stupid cringe person who doesn't know this things can't happen

Being mature is very important to me, and I’m glad I resonate with this video ^^

Well, funny this popped up. I learned a lot. A few years ago I clearly just had 2 of those. Now I have 5. They are all a process and it's ok! You learn every day through challenges and experiences and the people you meet. When you're struggling, take notes. The hardest times are the ones you learn the most from!

Sad some people said having expensive high end clothing makes you mature in life

@PatrickMenesesYTOfficial4945

3 жыл бұрын

They are the immature ones buddy. Not everything is based on status.

@kithalie

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao that's immature asf. It's like a kid getting a new toy and showing to their friends just to boost their ego and show off.

@derdinohorst

3 жыл бұрын

thats... not how it works lol, its kinda the opposite hahaha

@JustAshes

3 жыл бұрын

Who says that, I've never seen a person say that

@DwyaneWadeCounty

3 жыл бұрын

I wear a timex weekender watch, a pair of nice fitted Jeans from ross/old navy, and some button down shirts from goodwill, and discounted stan Smith and people constantly checking me out. Just make sure the cloths are clean and fitted and the colors are solid, and you are good.

someone to me: "you are so mature for your age" me: "thank you that's on trauma but still thank you"

@whydoi4312

3 жыл бұрын

Same I find myself thinking that so often. Especially childhood trauma kind of made me who I am.

@nicolasmeyer282

3 жыл бұрын

@@whydoi4312 yeah it really did make me what and who i am. basically i am a trauma response

@whydoi4312

3 жыл бұрын

@@nicolasmeyer282 I feel the same. Sometimes you do things and wonder was this me or my trauma?

@nicolasmeyer282

3 жыл бұрын

@@whydoi4312 yes exactly and i'm tired of it

@S-e-l

3 жыл бұрын

Same,same...

Glad to see I have most of them. I recently learned about myself I struggle to keep a promise if it emotionally affects me

Loved this video. So helpful in my research of story writing.

My mom just said I walk immaturely. I am like " What? What does that even mean?" My mom said I am 16 but I walk like a 10 year old. Almost like bouncing or skipping. I mean I am HAPPY! Give me a break. Lol 🤣🤣

@bazzfromthebackground3696

3 жыл бұрын

Tell her she walks like a corpse. Somebody has to shock her to get her to move. Lol

@yourundertaleobsessedlesbi6975

3 жыл бұрын

@Wesley Z Y E S

@caca-iq8wf

3 жыл бұрын

break*

@gba8273

3 жыл бұрын

Break, please dont get angry at me.

@caca-iq8wf

3 жыл бұрын

@@gba8273 yeah.

*7 signs someone is truly mature* 0:35 their choices are based on their character instead of their feelings 1:15 they are patient 1:45 they keep long-term commitments and promises 2:10 they actively listen more and talk less 2:50 they don't need attention and possess a sense of humility 3:19 they are open-minded 3:50 they are self-aware and know when to hold themselves accountable

@loonyspangles8173

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, this shortens the video tons.

@bakhridinova6482

3 жыл бұрын

@@loonyspangles8173my pleasure

Gratitude in my personal development with sobriety in my adult life all began with being nicer to myself. My therapist encourages me to be kind to myself. I started to read more about what interests me as my sobriety went on. I’m over a year sober and I am certainly, way, way more well read than I have ever been in my whole life! Gratitude in Kindness…

"What hurts you, blesses you " Rumi..

I wish there were more mature people in this world, but the fact that theres a small amount of mature people, makes those who are mature that much more special.

@KxNOxUTA

3 жыл бұрын

If only "special" wasn't bad news in such cases. You don't want this quality to be rare 😂 At the same time, let's also acknowledge that in our modern times it is easier than ever to reach a good level of maturity at a very young age and "by yourself" as in = by choosing from the abundance of high quality teaching materials available for free use on the internet. Such as this video. No so long ago, in now well developed countries, people died at 30, 40ish in masses. 😂 I'd say we're overall making good progress, considering each generation has to go through sets of experiences from 0 nevertheless, to internalise things

my whole life i’ve been told i’m so much more mature than what my age is and because of that i’ve had this sense to be super mature even though i’m still quite young. the truth is i am emotionally mature but i’ve realized i have a mix of both maturity and immaturity, and i’m fine with it! we all deserve to be a little immature at times and we can all leave to be mature as well:)

@isidoragonzalez23

2 жыл бұрын

I feel exactly the same!

@sumopanda911

2 жыл бұрын

I'm told that I'm mature for my age. The position and role I had and have made others see me this way. It's hard to try to "live" up to these expectations. I don't know if I'm mature. Maybe I am, or maybe I'm not. I don't know. I have a problem thinking though about how I should act and what I should do and say to give the impression to others that I am mature. It feels like I'm not mature because of the way I think is childish. I seek the recognition of others, so my peers and those around me can be confident that I am who they say I am. I can relate to some of these in the video, but then I think maybe I'm not wise/mature. At my age, there's no way someone can be wise. There's not enough experience. But then again, it goes into the meaning of wise and what it means to an individual, so who's to say who's wise or not?

@Lovejenni31

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly✨

@Delft_07

Жыл бұрын

Understandable. I have experienced similar events. However, I had to develop this due to an accident involving my only parent. It's nice to see that I am not alone. :) Thanks for sharing your experience.

@chayanikadhar4441

Жыл бұрын

This seemed related to me:)

I'm in a path to be a mature person , i know my past action is so selfish but now i want to change for better , I'm glad i find these kind of videos

Great to have this topic discussed! 👍

Calling myself mature would never be a sign of maturity. I feel we often learn from our past and present and we all have a lot to learn. To listen to others, to feel them, and to understand things, ourselves, and the world around us. To act with our minds and our true personalities rather than to wear a mask and project ourselves to be something we are not. Often it's never an easy life as such life, but then again nothing comes off as easy. To let our feelings dictate our life is to push our lives to ruination. I am still immature and I still let my feelings get the best of me at times, but I am certainly learning and creating a better me for the future.

@mairenhbe338

2 жыл бұрын

rooting for you, u got this!!!

@whydoyoucare4057

Жыл бұрын

Yes, I 100% agree!

@divya_sancheti04

Жыл бұрын

Agree. Bt also u can appreciate urself in private for being mature nd acknowledge it when needed. Jst staying humble is the key.

@Szystedt

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like a humble, self-aware and mature mindset! 😌❤️ W take

"How mature do you think you are?" I got the idea of maturity when people said they thought I'm 18 years old (we talk online) when I'm actually 13.

@zarabailey6030

2 жыл бұрын

Sane here people aways say that I'm like between 20 and 24 and I'm 17 aha

@kreonidas7475

2 жыл бұрын

Can relate

@atinblinkue8048

2 жыл бұрын

𝐒𝐚𝐦𝐞𝐞

@kirookayama7773

2 жыл бұрын

So what do you talk about that they think you are older ? very curious

@vaanyamaheshwari5460

2 жыл бұрын

@@kirookayama7773 idk they just say that my way of communication and the words I use are kinda .. mature.? 👁️👄👁️

I really needed this one. Guess I got some ways to go, but I'm willing to fight another uphill battle if it means being a better person. Been fighting some romance drama against about 60 kids for five months now and I'm really only now starting to lose it. But it's not over yet.

I heard once that true maturity is being calm and wise and not loosing your temper all the time. It's not about getting older, it's about doing the right thing at the right time and being responsible

i used to definitely act on my feelings and impulsively!! As ive grown older and matured, Ive learned to think rationally!!

@Feliceransom74

3 жыл бұрын

Dont be so fake.

@thefool3571

3 жыл бұрын

@@Feliceransom74 😂

@Feliceransom74

3 жыл бұрын

@@thefool3571 I'm not wrong

@rainephachoumphone9175

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah yeah. Thats what someone says when nobody is spying on them 247. Try taking your privacy away. And everything you do is plastered all over social media for no good reasons. They even know when you take a shit. Then tell me again how well to take things

i was so unaware that i was mature till countless people started to tell me i was, watching this video definitely reminded me of my place in life. “life is going too fast, so stop dwelling on the past but accept what you went through or what you did, appreciate the present and look forward to the future”

@captainrorz718

Жыл бұрын

what this your piece of wisdom?

@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz

9 ай бұрын

​@@captainrorz718wdym?

well I was overthinking about some stuff and it was really making me upset, thanks for this video!

Thank you for the advice I will follow these . This channel is incredibly useful for us keep appreciating yourself 😊😊 luv ya

My inner feelings is wise, elderly (not all) But I act like a lil kid And I’m a young teenager That’s why most people hate my attitude/ how I act

@actualnotanewbie

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like I'm the same way. My brother suggested I change my behavior to better fit the group so it's not so abrasive and disconnected from the overall vibe

@aryapande9713

3 жыл бұрын

Same for me! People call me immature all the time. But I’ve noticed that they act just as they say I do. They usually only call me immature because I sound and act like a kid sometimes.

@themanicman8458

3 жыл бұрын

@@actualnotanewbie be who you want to be not what you think everyone else wants you to be For those who matter don't mind and to those who mind don't matter One major thing I've learned in life is that if you are unapologetically yourself then you're going to find the perfect people for you If they don't like you for who you are they'll leave and if they do they'll stay You will have less friends that way but the friends and family you will have will be more than enough because they will be perfect for you

@lutziputzi

3 жыл бұрын

People say I have a bad attitude but it's because I'm smart and I tell people when what they're saying is dumb. Sometimes people need to hear the truth.

@kimseokjinyeojachingu4407

3 жыл бұрын

acting like a kid doesn't mean your not mature. you should never ignore the child inside you😁it's okay to be childish✨

The voice of this narrator is amazing .

This just made me realize that I'm immature. But I'll learn to be better❤ thank you

Personally, I never found myself to be mature even when others see myself as such. Mainly for one aspect you've addressed here. Listening to everything you've had to offer here in this video, I understand myself more than have before and know more as to why people think I am mature for my age. However, I will say that your first sign is something I still need to work on. I do have everyone's best interest in mind when making a decision, I do listen to everyone and support them in anyway I could. Although as you say, "words have weight to them." And I tend to get emotional hurt and damaged with people's words, thoughts or opinions when portrayed to me. Thus I get defensive and quick to anger as a result. I would say I'm close, but this is one downside that is a major bane of mine that I must overcome and I thank you for this video❤

I failed 7 out of 7 And im 30. Welp, i gotta be kinder to myself since my circumstance is special. No shame in starting late than never trying to change. First step is ridding myself off games. It has kept me safe and alive until to a point today where i need to step forward. Edit: I failed again. There really is nothing here for me. Just gonna end it this year

@kirookayama7773

2 жыл бұрын

Go for it man 👍👍👍

@jackietran51

2 жыл бұрын

you can play games and still be mature

@akiolukban6645

2 жыл бұрын

Cool alucard pfp

@MattGarcyaDC

2 жыл бұрын

Awareness. Good job

@sin3358

2 жыл бұрын

Yep. Be empathetic with yourself. Also, the matter of maturity is pretty subjective. With some of these things I could disagree with. Just because a person listens well doesn't mean they're mature. Also, I think people need to work on self awareness first. Realize what causes you to experinece certain emotions, why you get angry at some things others may think are nothing to be angry about, why you befriend and attract certain people, and why you're attracted to them. Things like these are much more important than maturity to me. I don't believe someone can always be mature, or in a healthy mental state all the time, but if you have self awareness, when you're at the lowest of the low, you'll be able to tell those around you your needs which will help you get back to a better state. Sometimes you may go back to a bad habit of the past, but you know that you can still go back to being healthy again, and that shall be your inspiration to move on. Being mature and healthy goes hand in hand with being immature and toxic, you'll constantly experinece all of them depending what you're going through, so i think it's important to learn what causes you to shift from one side to another. Never too late to learn, good luck. I believe you can make it :)

As a child growing up. I was always told I'm more mature for my age. As an adult now. I agree with that statement.

KZread's really helping me improve myself by recommending these videos

This was super helpful thank you! 💕

“Mature people are patient” Me: ugh this video is like 5 minutes long, I can’t watch all of it

@florence.066

3 жыл бұрын

haha, I'm mature but I'm not that patient xd

@PoonamKumari-sd9wp

3 жыл бұрын

Patience is waiting in a serious situation polity and going forward calmly not in hot mind

@juanjo3333

3 жыл бұрын

me putting in 2x speed:

@jhopesstrawberry

2 жыл бұрын

@@juanjo3333 lol you're not mature you're ultra pro max mature-

@adrizabiswas4750

2 жыл бұрын

@@jhopesstrawberry plsss your name bye - 😭

Sometimes, I'll never be the guy who think before he acts or say.

@JeyRzii

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes you need to let it go out to feel better, you just need to be careful when you do it and about the consequences it can have if it's a touchy situation.

@kenrickbautista6141

3 жыл бұрын

@@JeyRzii yeah, you're right. Thanks.

For me a big sign of maturity has always been when someone no longer feels the need to prove just how mature they are. When they don't need to performatively push away "childish" things or ridicule the people who engage in them, but aren't afraid to embrace them because they know it doesn't matter.

i used to be able to tick all those boxes pretty well, but then something happened in my life and it really affected me in a negative way. my heart was filled with anger and confusion and i lost some of my maturity, which i feel isn’t really talked about much, as i didn’t expect it to happen. but now, i’m going to make it a goal of mine to continue picking myself back up and becoming who i want to be :)

When you cry whole night and wake up like nothing happened then it's maturity ❤️

@mafeeza3729

2 жыл бұрын

Really ??

@jananirajasri_06

2 жыл бұрын

@@mafeeza3729 yes because maturity depends on how you hide your feeling to the world ❤️

@xocoping

2 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@baeruhee

2 жыл бұрын

@@jananirajasri_06 and why should you hide your emotions? it will hurt the other person who cares for you in return, not only you because you just wouldn't show how you feel.

@baeruhee

2 жыл бұрын

@@xocoping really, lmao.

I'm still at my early 20's so I'm pretty young and I do lots of foolish things in my life, but these type of videos help me learn more about how I could be a better person at this early age. Thank you Psych2Go!

I'm slowly accepting what my mom repeatedly says about being productive. Because I really hate it when I hear it every time, and I realized that's just my ego complaining. It's a slow progress but I'll keep it going.

It’s good to know that I’m matured well I’ve already realised that before but I think there’s much more to add on , though it was good too Thanks and all the best to everyone :)

It's OKAY to accept being wrong Ive been wrong ALOT and that's okay

Not sure if this is mature or not, but I always attempt to find a way to do something productive with my negative emotions. And if I can't do something productive with them, I detach myself from them and let them go. It's helped me to stop holding grudges against anyone, and also helps me quell emotions like greed or envy. But things like anger and frustration can be channeled productively into finding solutions, or if I can't do that, at the very least a really good gym session.

@ncz7

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@alexstanleybruh8919

2 жыл бұрын

you are healing...I guess.If something does not suite you,leave it.

@vincemagdayo3586

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@isidoragonzalez23

2 жыл бұрын

I do the same

@s_kapyish7624

2 жыл бұрын

Very mature of you..I've actually learnt from you.

Your voice is so soothing I feel relaxed whenever I listened to you ☺️

Great insight! Thank you! ❤

I know children that are more mature than a lot of adults. I was one of those kids. 👍

@FatimaT714

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, it's really frustrating sometimes to be so young and mature while everyone around you is being immature and horrible. We mature kids are the special ones in my eyes; we're few in number, diamonds in the rough

@mariammansur1950

3 жыл бұрын

Woaahhh cool

@florence.066

3 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@luxuriousrug8551

3 жыл бұрын

@@FatimaT714 That didn't sound mature at all...

@pkmntrainerred4247

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe me too (don't misunderstand this as bragging I'm not saying I'm mature but I have maturity to some, maybe more than 50%, extent)

A lot of times, I feel like I am mature, but a part of my mind thinks that I shouldn't think that way or that I'm feeding into my ego and being boastful... I do feel like maturity shines in the way we act towards our circumstances and how we get to that action, but I dislike it when people around me (that I know) say that they're "mature" when they don't act like it. We may have our moments where we act out, but I don't want people to see _that moment_ as our natural behavior. What I mean is that everyone views emotional maturity differently. 🤷🏾

@sujatha2300

3 жыл бұрын

Same wd . me

Its nice to see something meaningful in my feed for once

honestly depression made me realize that not everyone has the same life as me and they have their own things that they go through. before all that i was so content but also naive so ig it has its pros and cons much love to yall and keep ur head high

There's a difference between wisdom and maturity, you know?

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Yup!

@lou8426

3 жыл бұрын

then what's the difference

@juliakay7446

3 жыл бұрын

@@lou8426 Maturity is how you respond to situations and problems in correlation with your emotions and intelligence, while wisdom is applying intelligence to situations and problems to make the best decision possible. Hope this helped 💜

@lou8426

3 жыл бұрын

@@juliakay7446 Good answer! thank you

@juliakay7446

3 жыл бұрын

@@lou8426 yup, no problem! 😌

So grateful for these videos :) Really help me keep a check on myself

I’m still working on being more emotional mature, thanks for the info!

Maturity takes time from learning to others' or personal experiences, reading books, listening, and so on. It is transparent when someone's trying to fake it or not. :)

@someoneidk3413

2 жыл бұрын

Yess. This is accurate seeing the kind of maturity I have.

Psych2go: Are you mature? Me: Well yes/no but actually no/yes

@graceamponin1189

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@user-zs5tp9zi6n

3 жыл бұрын

Same. Couldn't have daid better myself

Fact that all these 7 points match with me won't stop me from learning more and more values to be more matured..... Hope kids who call themselves mature and all would get this habit "acceptance of knowledge" to learn from this vdo

I take responsibility for my own actions, and I don’t blame anyone else for the wrong or mistakes I make. 💜

I took a sleep watching this, such a soothing voice ❤️

"life is too short for humans to understand maturity or become one"

I've been told my many of my classmates, and schoolmates that I don't act my age, they wouldn't believe I'm 15 based of actions, so on so forth- but off of these standards, I'm more mature then I thought- not taking into account those childish antics every now and then, but we all deserve that kinda fun lol But thank you for posting constantly, I always find out more about myself when I watch your videos on any topic

Thank you so much♥️ You are wonderful ♥️