7 Signs A Man Is Not That Into You
7 Signs A Man Is Not That Into You... In this dating advice video, I will give you the seven signs a man is not that into you that should not be overlooked. You may see these on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed of this dating advice, and ensure you watch the entire video.
I don't want you to continue with a man when he's showing you he's just not that into you or when he shows you the signs he's not interested in you. This relationship advice will help clarify the confusing and frustrating situation when you are unsure if your man is into you or he's just not that into you. Embrace this video to know when he's just not that into you.
I want you to pay attention to these seven signs a man is not onto you to avoid having false hopes and wasting your time. When he's just not that into a man will start showing you the signs he's lost interest that I want you to know. Please pay attention to these seven signs a man is not that into you because these signs will help improve your dating experiences.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and you will be able to enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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@adawilliams8960
Жыл бұрын
I understand!
@isisandeye
3 ай бұрын
😂
Sign number one - you’re watching this video 😂
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
🙂
@Pschool1
Жыл бұрын
Lmao!
@soulfullynatural5802
Жыл бұрын
Girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😂
@naimahsochi2683
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@laurakahunde2710
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are in our business
Yes, women do notice that the man is not interested but unfortunately they keep insisting thinking that he will give in eventually. I don't waste my time. Not interested, I move on.
@rogers5622
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@Emily_Paris
Жыл бұрын
My problem is sometimes I don’t listen to my intuition. I’ve changed that.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@Ytdeletesallmycomments
Жыл бұрын
This! Saved me so much drama and hurt. I am not even asking anymore how what why. I move on and disappear like he never excisted.😂😂😂
@jessk2759
Жыл бұрын
Same
Tunnel vision and fixation is the enemy. Never let a man tell you he don't want you twice.
@Sheyla-yw2jr
Жыл бұрын
Ooof yes ma’am!
@Blazian2000
Жыл бұрын
Preach that! 👏👏👏
@karenfisher7175
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@ranip7644
Жыл бұрын
Meh. Some of us need to hear it multiple times.
"A guy can like you and not be THAT into you." Great statement! 👏👏👏 Us ladies need to be mindful of this, and not go into fantasy land about a man that's just not that into us.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when people embrace that. Thank you for sharing ❤
@susananderson4835
Жыл бұрын
This makes sense of my recent events ty💜🙏
@Blazian2000
Жыл бұрын
@@susananderson4835 I understand. It's a lesson near and dear to my heart as well...as I too, am having to realize this in my own situation. Sadly, we can like him more than he likes us back, and the sooner we realize this truth, the better. Best wishes Susan and thank you for sharing. 💕💕💕
@TamLis
Жыл бұрын
I think often a woman (or man) knows exactly if a person is really into them yes or no, they just choose to ignore the red flags.
@mrotto7906
Жыл бұрын
I'm a 60yr old guy that dated for 19yrs before finding a life partner in my new wife. I dated many women for at least a year making it clear I was not looking to get married again and didn't want something serious. (the truth is, I didn't want anything serious with them) if a man isn't texting and wanting to be with you everyday, HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, if he isn't talking marriage within a year, HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. Women go along with dating a guy for many years without a getting a ring hoping this will change in the future. Truth is, if I guy is really into you, YOU CAN'T GET RID OF HIM!.. lol. (After 19yrs of dating, I met a great woman and 8 months later we got married, the last two years have been a mutually healthy and supportive relationship...
I would rather him say he's not interested than him saying he is interested BUT his actions says he's not....The games people play....
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
Жыл бұрын
Prefer that too
@tiffyfittaz6550
Жыл бұрын
What about the man who says he’s not interested but acts like he is and does things like a boyfriend
@shiaspiritual962
Жыл бұрын
Me to girl …
@tfab87
Жыл бұрын
@@tiffyfittaz6550 he's not interested
@tinamarie8061
Жыл бұрын
Men will keep you around because you’re benefit now or could be later. “Always be my maybe.. l
Energy doesn’t lie 🙏 if something or someone doesn’t feel right don’t ignore gut instincts 🙏❤️
@jayl0151
Жыл бұрын
So hard tho
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Always important to listen to your intuation.
@jayl0151
Жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I regretted acting on this and still do as I miss my partner. However self respect comes first, but my heart is still in it..
@jackievarquez4756
Жыл бұрын
So true. Im glad I know how to feel and tune in with my energy. It saved me from that confusing guy.
@cecileadkins3748
Жыл бұрын
That gut feeling is the Holy Spirit
I straight up asked a man where he stands when it comes to me and this is what he said: "Idk I'm interested but I feel like so much is going on in my life that's bothering me, I can't focus on somebody other than myself rn it's hard to even focus on myself" it kinda hurts bc I feel like I've been led on but at the end of the day.... "a man's rejection is god's protection"
@TheDarkRaven
11 ай бұрын
Girl yes! It's good to ask. I jumped to conclusions and he called me toxic for being anxious on his texts. I think us women need to stop worrying and be ourselves. If we worry and get red flags then they are the problem. We can find someone who isn't bothered by how we show affection. Just for all the women whose guy says they are keen on communication. Don't take their word for it and put that shh to the test. 😂 Save you some time.
@mscurvy6922
9 ай бұрын
@outroseok .. ❤ I hear you Sis .. same for me .. he finally told me the truth , that he was not in the right frame of mind he got lots going on 🙄 and he couldn’t go seriously into a relationship, this was after we been speaking 8 months! And he wanted us to now be friends.. nope 👎🏼 I said bye 👋🏼! Exactly it’s not rejection.. it’s God removing them , now we thank him and praise him ! 🙌🏼
@heavenly_rivers
7 ай бұрын
Girl I’m in the same boat rn!!!
@Chiyembekezo
17 күн бұрын
I’m not ready to ask my crush that question,he’s always staring at me and we have some level of history. I have a funny feeling what you just said is what he’d probably say to me. I don’t mind but it’s the staring for me. 😂
It's ridiculous that we have come to this as a society. I have never dealt with men so indecisive in my lifetime. I have never had to be confused with men, why is this a thing all of a sudden? It's a huge turn off. I want a man to see me and know I'm his wife, that's it.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@jollymollyramram9702
Жыл бұрын
You’re not being realistic. He can’t know you just by seeing you and vice versa
@mythoughtsarenothisthoughts
Жыл бұрын
Same!
@saraiross4358
2 ай бұрын
I feel you on this fr !
"He's not *able* to give more"... like he's married and he likes to keep you on a string for his ego? Yep lots of those scenarios. Sigh.
Here to get my feelings hurt lol 🤷😅
@Kay-yk6gb
Жыл бұрын
😂 it’s all good!!! 🙏🏾
@1trudiva
Жыл бұрын
😂 me too
@JoSJaNae
Жыл бұрын
Lol yea same. Never fails.
@jamiejackson1780
Жыл бұрын
So funny, THEIR LOSS TGOUGH SIS! 😌😌😌 on ALL of us!!! LOL 😎✨
@RhondaR4
Жыл бұрын
I felt that! A real man, man of GOD don’t hurt! You’ll know when he’s the right one!🔥❤
If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, they're not! 💙KZreadr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
Жыл бұрын
Plz read my comment above
@osolvholts
Жыл бұрын
🎯
@Honeycombe88
Жыл бұрын
You can't go by actions. Players are experts at imitating true caring and feelings for you, all the while working on lining up the next victim. It's also easy for them to pretend real feelings, since they may genuinely like you and your company. Women sometimes interpret certain actions as meaning true deep feelings, when the actions are just player actions. Or the actions of a lonely man using you for a placeholder until the right one comes along. They have issues and are probably incapable of real love, empathy, seeing women as human beings. It's hard for them to SAY they have feelings they don't have, though. Look for the man who both shows it through actions and behavior, AND says the words without you asking. He's the real deal.
@Blazian2000
Жыл бұрын
@@Honeycombe88 Well said.
I had to explain the dry response to the dm thing to my client. She was gonna try to message him AGAIN. I'm like GIRL!!! If a man is really interested, it don't take much to pique it. You shot your shot, just let it go. 🤦🏿♀️
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Trust God that’s the best advice, he will give the person you need. Love can’t be so complicated.
@labelle9940
Жыл бұрын
Waiting on God's timing is hard sis but we push through ❤
@86Kera
Жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am ! It’s like when you ask God to remove certain people and it ends up being someone you’re dating. I believe a man not showing interest is Gods way of making that happen.
@Honeycombe88
Жыл бұрын
Trust God, of course. But don't make the mistake of thinking that God will give you the person you need, or anyone at all. He may not. You may never find a man to love you. Someone faced with letting a player go should know that that may be as good as she'll ever get. Doesn't matter if you're pretty, financially stable, having a nice figure. You may still end up alone.
@arababecca6432
Жыл бұрын
Indeed love can’t be complicated. Thank u
@stillnai
20 күн бұрын
Exactly.. hardest thing to accept about god is that he is not Santa Claus lol. But I think ppl got this idea back when Jesus was about because imo Jesus was used a LOT by ppl that didn’t even care what he preached but wanted stuff from him like healing, miracles etc. and I think the same type of ppl sit around waiting on Jesus to return today instead of having a relationship with god themselves.
It seems to me that if you have to sit and wonder if he's really interested in you---+the answer is probably not. I've seen really shy guys going thru hell and high water to get to the person they are interested in!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
I’m not focused on a man right now! My relationship with THE LORD JESUS, GOD is my main focus!🔥🔥🔥
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤
All these rules are putting a lot of burden on the woman. It’s frustrating, like I’m supposed to be the prize, if he don’t call text or come around I’m still gonna live my life completely. No one has time to study a man and try to figure out why , what , when and how. Life is too short. Just live love and be happy
@jennifermacauley2244
Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@shaelove473
Жыл бұрын
Yess ❤
@richerDiLefto
7 ай бұрын
Exactly.
I think the more I grow the less interested in starting a relationship now.
This was such a good video. I especially heard you loud and clear when you said "he is not designed for you"! To me that was very deep because a lot of times we see what we want to see not what it actually is.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@nickz632
Жыл бұрын
That and the fact yall could both be great ppl , just not compatible for each other; meaning yall want two different thing , or Your lifestyles are different
I continued to paint over the signs and internalized his rejection of my love. I know my love will be appreciated by someone else - it just wasn’t him and that’s okay!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@skatergirl1998
Жыл бұрын
Mines appreciated by anyone girl or guy friends never contact me moatly guys my partner is alot like most of this dudes videos. I just dont give up on people but whats the difference nobody is out there for me
@tierawilliams6652
Жыл бұрын
I'm trying to get to where you are. It's been almost two years now
It still hurts. It’s ok to grieve and ask why as you move on.
I have never and will never let a man know I’m interested first. My ego and pride is HUGE and gets in the way. 🤷🏽♀️
@oopsydoodles5794
Жыл бұрын
Yes but more so it would be far toooo forward and aggressive for me to ever do such a thing
@ranip7644
Жыл бұрын
The bible says that pride goes before the fall. Never be too prideful, it will be your downfall. There's absolutely nothing wrong with showing interest first. You don't have to outright ask a dude out inorder to show interest. It could be through eye contact, a smile, touch, stuffs like that. Give a dude something to work with.
This was painful but true! I just got out of something like this simply jecause I was holding onto the crap he fed after I resisted for a very long time. My ego wouldnt allow me to admit that he was never sincere with his intentions. He enjoyed the chase ubtil I let my guard down and I struggled with moving on. When you know better, you do better. Thanks for this!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
I caught one of my best male friends staring at me when he came to visit. Being a short and Fluffy woman, I thought he was going to say something about my weight. I asked him "why are you staring soo hard at me?" He smiles and says "You're incredible". Sometimes, a man can be receptive to all of the points Mr. Stephan pointed out. Makes eye contact, calls, visits, buys you gifts, kind hearted, flirts with you.. all the above and you both are just best friends or really slow about feelings. 😁😁 I enjoy these informative videos and reading a few comments. They really make you think.
@michelled.6001
Жыл бұрын
But what happened with the friend??? 😃
Love the videos! I dated (a lot!) for 19 yrs after my divorce. I knew down deep what it would FEEL LIKE to be in a HEALTHY relationship and never settled with any of the 100's of women I met, not that they weren't good people, but I knew within 15 minutes if they were long term dating material. I met my wife two years ago and 8 months later we were married. When you know, you know, it was just easy and flowed naturally without any drama or headaches, my Mom, Best friend, family and son just knew also she was the one for me... why?.. because we both had the life skills for creating happy relationship TOGETHER. And we both CHOOSE to be life partners and daily chose to support each other unselfishly. I never cared about a woman's education, what she had, (she's not some model or size 6) but she really cares about me, cooking good and nutritious meals, keeping a lovely home, giving me attention, praise, support and encouragement, she respects I'm THE MAN of the house, and I treat her great.
@latoyagentles7387
Жыл бұрын
Real love. Blessings
@lyahazuki9728
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your opinion. I am wondering something and if your wife wasn't a "good" cook, or didn't housework, would u still marry her knowing it?
@jayc5756
Жыл бұрын
Ok 😎
@osolvholts
Жыл бұрын
🔥
@mrotto7906
Жыл бұрын
@@lyahazuki9728 The VALUE a man my age (60) looks for is not "her education", not "her business skills", not her "social network or INSTAGRAM postings, but her "CONTRIBUTION" to a relationship. If you can't cook, don't know how to decorate, don't keep a clean home, aren't "spiritually a blessing to OUR home (soul connection).. exactly what is your value?... When a man is 30, he marries for children, when a man is 60 he marries because she has a good pension (or assets) and provides a beautiful home and meal for him to come home to and is a great traveling partner... I dated hundreds of woman over 19yrs, if you can't cook and clean.... you didn't last long.... remember, there are woman you play with, and woman you marry.... which do you want to be? .. if your arrogant and don't like this?..... Die Single... I could have married a Trophy wife, but their to emotionally, financially and drama draining.
Real spill Stephan!! Doing self inventory and owning your own💩 is critical. I’ve done it and it has helped me tremendously. It’s not hard to tell when someone is not interested in you. All you have to do is pay attention to their actions and energy. Both will tell you exactly what you need to know.💯
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@jayc5756
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@tinacarter9292
Жыл бұрын
Indeed Sis!
@larryscott5110
Жыл бұрын
Hi CJizzy, your comment got my attention. You're right but I got some comments for you too on this issue. Do you mind?
Never ignoring my intuition again! Never Again!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Always important to listen to your intuition
Yep, this one’s for me! I always get ‘half interested’ & hopeful, which in reality translates to ‘No!’ I remember advice on a channel which basically said if you have to ask ‘Why does a man…?’ Then he don’t want you! I hollered. But it’s so true.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Preach, the world will not change and mold to make my experience more pleasant and comfortable. Great break down and advice!
I hate Lukewarm men I don’t deal with them lol
A man who wants you will do what it takes to have you I wasted five years chasing someone who wasn’t really transparent and didn’t wanna commit anyway
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
So much clarity in this video. TY
You cannot imagine at what point your video came at the right moment. Thank you so, so much.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
Great video! Thank you Stephan! You’re such a breath of fresh air listening to your videos!
Unfortunately sounds so simple and easy to just move on..but in actuality it takes years of practice to become so enlightened
This was hard to watch bc I know he just never liked me. Great message. Thanks Stephan
I found your videos recently. You are insightful and express balanced views which respect the unique psychology of both men and women in healthy relationships. Been watching and listening, resonating with a lot of the content. I cried when I got to this one. The reasons you described in this video hit close to home. Every point you discussed, I've been treated in such a way by my ex. It hurt to see the truth spelled out like this, but in honesty there is empowerment. I need to stop dedicating myself to men that show me in so many ways, they aren't that into me. I need to do some reflecting. I need to respect myself. Thanks for helping me along the journey.
This is an answered prayer for a prayer I prayed 4 hours ago. TY
This video is everything i need it thank you Stephan for always making such a beautiful and helpful videos for all us,send you big love
Thank you for clarifying the assumptions.
This is THE BEST advice I’ve watched from this man so far Stephan!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that ❤
Hey Stephan! Greetings from Brazil! Just wanted to say that, besides the excelent contet of your videos, your english is so easy to understand!!
I do believe folks start with good intentions, then a shift happens. It's sad that people still ghost, or use its not you its me. If it's nit working don't blame or play games, just tell the person directly.
Truth be told,as always Stephan you are on point 💯 👍🙏
Great video! Don’t internalize rejection. Don’t take it personally. Best advice ever.. they are designed for you..
grateful for this info!
Man you hit the nail on the head with this one today!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
🙏❤ Thank you!
This came just in time! Thank you so much Stephan!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
As always, nicely said / very good information... right on target You really hit it on the head when you said they don't want to hurt your feelings. I had a very hard time with a guy and he acted one way but said another.. again actions speak louder!!
Thank God for you. You're such a blessing for so many people. I am so grateful for your purpose and your honesty is definitely a breath of fresh air. May God bless you on your journey. 🤍
@anthonypatellis473
Жыл бұрын
Hello friend 👋
That’s is so true. When I do see a guy that I’m interested in I try my best to not let him know. Lol
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Most times they'll come right out and tell you, or give you an excuse! We just have to listen and believe them!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@marfreeiaclarke1286
Жыл бұрын
And even if they don't tell you, move on
@moniquehinkson3661
Жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks pplpppppplllllllll
What you’re saying is all 100% fax I just excuse myself from the same exact situation for those reasons that you’re talking about
You keep it real, and I love that!
Yes you are correct, a real man will be honest with himself and her by just being truthful,letting her know he is not interested. By simply saying, we can just be friends to talk to each other.
Men seem so into themselves these days lol
@bellezanegra0206
Жыл бұрын
I swear social media has turned them into clout demons who want to be chased.
@osolvholts
Жыл бұрын
🎯
@ButterCookie1984
Жыл бұрын
Narcissism.
You are so onpoint stephan I always enjoy watching your videos.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that 🙏
Just what I needed to hear today. Thank you!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@tosinmubarak8646
Жыл бұрын
Yes
This is crazy but so true... The first sign I see I'm gone lol 💯
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
I found this really helpful. Thank you.
Here to get some sense. Thank you king 🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
What I admire about your videos is that you always try to keep your insights and inputs realistic and express them in a constructive way. And for this video's topic, I've been dealing with a man showing those stuffs enough to prove his interest in me. What's just very off is that he knows that I know he already has a long term girlfriend, yet he still continues to show all those signs of interest. I already talked to him about it for him to stop whatever he is up to because I want to maintain a civil relationship with him as our jobs connect us for days every week but he still seems deaf to my words. And I'm like, okay bye.
I'm only the first three and a half minutes in and cracking up, because you are so right!! Lol
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
Thanks Stephan for "holding our hands as we walk our journeys through life. Learning a lot from your videos. God bless you.
@tosinmubarak8646
Жыл бұрын
True
@tosinmubarak8646
Жыл бұрын
True
Im saying " hurt my feelings" rip off the bandaid so i can move on, good grief, i just don't understand why they cant just tell us if they dont like us ..then we dont end up mixed up in the head about Their mixed feelings they always show!
@yvettesinclair1717
Жыл бұрын
Started seeing one this past July, we started going out, nothing happened sexually. I had to tell him that I was done because I could see there wasn't any interest. I explained what I meant by what I said, he pleaded his case about the fact that he was interested I bought into what he said. We continued to go out to eat. He would try to have sex but I wouldn't let him. September 29th was his birthday, I asked what he had planned, he said "to go out with you." I was flattered. He thought we would have sex after we went out, because it was his birthday I paid. We got back to my place he tried then, I wouldn't give in - I'm a true born Christian and I aim to Please God, not him or satan. Two days after his birthday, we went to the Anthony Hamilton's concert, he tried again, this is where I had to again, address the elephant in the room. I explained that I could not and would not have sex with him, that was yesterday. Today I haven't heard from him. Today at work was very stressful, and a little down for me, but I concluded this is all my fault. #1. He's not Christian, said he was before, but after a divorce he stopped going to church or acknowledging God. #2. I allowed him to kiss me on my mouth about a month after we started going out, I mention this because I didn't know where I was him. He was calming down talking about us. After our talk on Saturday, and him being told again that I couldn't give him sex, we haven't talked, texted, or reached out to each other after he found out he wasn't getting sex. I can't believe at age 60 this is what I'm having to deal with. I took some nuggets about me and how I conducted myself - I'll do better the next one I entertain.
@andreamagyar5541
Жыл бұрын
Because they might get "some" out of it
You are amazing ❤️ thank you so much for this
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
You describe women's behaviour so well😂 I recognized myself in it.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that. Thank you for your feedback 🙏
Thank you so much for the information. I believe that we won’t take it personal if we have healed. Dating is a process but I have came to believe that if God is head in that process, then the more successful it will be. 💯💪🏽🙏🏽❤️
Wow Thank you for always dropping wisdom and insight. Indeed this channel has been a blessing I have a question: It is true that a person will attract someone almost like them as a partner? (Almost like them, I mean in personality, lifestyle, faith etc)
Great stuff... As always.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Thank you for this Stephen , you are so true at getting to the point ,iv followed allot of your videos , you say it as it is ,you make so much sence and have such a gift of understanding people 😊
I had to learn the signs when someone doesn't want to talk to me. And when I see the signs someone doesn't want to talk to me i distance myself because I am not going to talk to someone that does not want to talk to me. I don't force anyone to be in my life. You're right not everyone is going to like me. There are plenty of people that i don't like that i don't want to talk to . But see the only time I didn't want to talk to someone is if they did something wrong to me or i didn't like the way they treated others.
Thank You so much !
"Men are struggled with rejecting women." 👌👌👌
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
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Your hair and beard looks so amazing in this video, you’re glistening lol.
@anthonypatellis473
Жыл бұрын
Hello friend 👋
Well I needed to hear this today.....lessons learned
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@adriennem1003
Жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks honestly I'm over trying. Rather be to myself. It's not worth it anymore .
Great video❣️🔥🔥🔥I totally agree, Because some people maybe attractive. It maybe wise not to assume that they are attracted…People can say things in an generalized perspective that can appear to be misleading, but it’s all in their head. I think men should be careful in how they speak towards women in these days of time. Because a man can say things in an loving matter of being his true self to all women. However; there are many women whom never heard or felt what “Love” really feels like. A loving man can open up a women heart chakra and that particular women may not innerstand that it’s apart of her healing. So, she may feel infatuated and confused about how she is feeling towards that man. We call that being “fatal attraction” a man can say loving things to women. But, because KINDNESS is a commodity often confused with desire. A person may never know by words, but his actions will tell it all.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
If it’s forced it’s not for you! I will remember that.
💝IT WOULD TAKE ME A DAY TO KNOW WHERE HE'S COMING FROM!! SELF CARE, RESPONSIBLE, HONESTY VERY IMPORTANT TO ME!! DON'T JUDGE THE BOOK BY ITS COVER!! LIKE CHARISMA, GOOD LOOKING, ETC.!! THANK YOU STEPHAN TO REFRESH NEW DATING GUIDANCE!! ♥
Facts love it If he don’t act on it - exactly Force is unnecessary Connection is important indeed
very insightful
You're so correct! appreciate this presentation, thanks.
Your so special…every woman should listen to you…young ladies need to listen to this so as they grow they will have open eyes and understand…is 4 years old to young lol
A man can flirt with you take you out and make love to you and still not be interested.. hello
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately it happens to a lot of people!
@crystalvouse6435
Жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks are you single ?
@crystalvouse6435
Жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I guess not lol I was asking because your advice would be even better if your gf or wife comes on along with you.. my bf and I are thinking of doing the same.
You look AMAZING in that color sir! 🍷🤷🏾♀️👌🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Lol. I like the DM part but I don't even know how to do that have to have help. I'm not the flirty type anyway but I can recognize when a guy isn't interested and I respect him with that.
22:30 THANK YOU!!! These women gotta stop tryna hold out hope...hoping he change...instead of just getting a better more equally yoked man. Its just that simple!
@osolvholts
Жыл бұрын
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Verri Verri informative, Tank Yu🙃
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
Thank you for this video.
Dropping gems💎 🙌🙌💯👑 🙏Thank you for sharing @Stephanspeaks
Love the jewels you drop!
Well explained.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Watching this video is taking me back to those golden years wasting my time in all these long winded friendship connections with guys. Even my mum was skeptical about me spending my time with these guys wondering if they like me or not
Man, thanks.. I needed to hear that now! 😅🙏🏽❤️
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@evaschoofs8110
Жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks ❤️😊
Honestly, this video came right when I needed it, I say thank you a lot, but I truly thank God for you and this channel, this is amazing.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Great advice
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
thank you, so much 🤝🏼 I know I'm a damn good person and young woman. grateful to know my worth and not letting a man distract me or mislead me, to not see my own worth in myself, because he wants to keep me, unhappy and yet, can you please 🥺 tell me, why do men tend to keep you unhappy when you know you deserve happiness. yet, a man can move on with someone else and make them happy but keep you unhappy 🤦🏽♀️ good video ✊🏼 much 💜 for your honesty in man's actions
This makes perfect sense. ❣
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
Most definitely!
This confuses me atm because of mental struggles...I did show interest in a few ppl but it either didn't pan out or they seemed not interested (with how I was, I can understand why)...I've gotten to a point that I feel I should be alone, which sucks because I did want to share my life with someone special...I always wanted them to be themselves as well as not needing high standards (because I look at vibes, not superficial things) so idk it is what it is
I needed this ! ❤❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏