1. combing through your hair, especially when its dry. 2. not using a hair regimen suited for YOU 3. be patient, consistent and have realistic expectations 4. appropriate protective styling 5. over-manipulating your hair 6. styling hair whilst dry; not hydrating hair 7. not trimming hair regularly

@OnyxWaterIvyBound

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you !

@besmithj167

5 жыл бұрын

U r the Best sis!!!!

@chantelnairne2714

5 жыл бұрын

Millicent Lopez literally all she needed to do is what you did. Thanks for this . Her incessant talking was way too much.

@coon_dalini7479

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@sarahe2230

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks sis

y'all say healthy over length I say both,I want both!

@lionessawaking42412

5 жыл бұрын

Ladonna Mckenzie I’m with you. Healthy hair & scalp regimen will give you length. Also eating healthy and exercising gives you healthy hair

@anthonybrazzle

5 жыл бұрын

We Say Health Over Length Because Health Will Almost ALWAYS Guarantee Length

@theprettiestangel

5 жыл бұрын

Lol

@SashaSunkissed1

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@EverythingisDana

4 жыл бұрын

girl me to honey! health and length.

Team 4C 😝😍 #NewSubbie

@iameloho718

5 жыл бұрын

soul sessions tv Bdhrh I was referring to myself 😬

@scorpio95dolls35

5 жыл бұрын

@Queen S I would say 4b because mines is tighter than hers I'm 4c

@Aieshavivianmoore

5 жыл бұрын

My real hair is 4E

@erikad2195

5 жыл бұрын

aiesha vivian moore wtf is 4e 😭

@shakeenakontoe2507

5 жыл бұрын

aiesha vivian moore word

I swear black women are so beautiful . You look like LIFE hunny 😍

@rickyricky3194

5 жыл бұрын

Some black women * . And most of the time AFRICAN.

@rumonster2793

5 жыл бұрын

ricky ricky umm, do you mean? Like that it’s just African black women or what?

@TheRealityPlugg

5 жыл бұрын

@@rickyricky3194 stfuuu all black people are African... I'm tired of black people hating on their own it's tiring and fucking annoying. we are all beautiful and one of a kind. the end.

@TheRealityPlugg

5 жыл бұрын

@Ra'Nīa Pratt & once again this isn't about every race. this post is about black women.

@breefashion4324

5 жыл бұрын

@Ra'Nīa Pratt but is this post about everyone or black women?

I think the problem with some people and waiting for growth is the fact that some KZreadrs aid in giving false expectations because even though everybody's hair grows differently, they give the impression that if you take care of your hair EXACTLY like them then your hair will grow just as long and just as fast. TBH its honestly disappointing so I'm glad you addressed this 🙌🏽

@simplyshad7890

5 жыл бұрын

Ariyo Omotola facts!!

@ravenrosemia4840

5 жыл бұрын

A lot of people have scalp trauma from perms and sew ins, and need scalp restoration treatment medically.

@foxyloxy5693

5 жыл бұрын

It does depend on genetics and food intake and also the different climate we live.

@tequilashots875

4 жыл бұрын

Foxy Campbell I’m so glad you mentioned genetics. People always skip this part. Just like not everyone will grow tall not everyone’s hair will grow long.

@EverythingisDana

4 жыл бұрын

very true! everyones hair grows at a different length!

Our hair is constantly growing. It never really stops growing, in fact. However, it can remain at a certain length for a long time without proper attention and care. This can be due to breakage, cutting off more inches than one grows on average each month, not getting enough nutrients through food etc.

@nutmegcurlsandcoils2736

5 жыл бұрын

@Welcome's House that's true. But it's a cycle it is continuous, that's why you should try to retain much length when it's growing stage.

@artemis2016

5 жыл бұрын

Especially the food. Not too many talk about taking care of the hair from the inside ( body) out ( topical). It's usually some topical remedy to growing hair rather than looking at their daily eating habits. People will curse someone out for suggesting that maybe their poor diet choices is why they hair isn't growing. Many times, a person can be deficient in a certain nutrient ( usually Iron, Omega-3 and vitamin E), and many other nutrients. The light bulb come on for some, while others just end up blaming it on genetics.b

@stephanieshaffer4131

5 жыл бұрын

Yep... everyone's hair will not grow like hers. I just focus on this hair to stay moisturized. I hate it when it shrinks and breaks. Ugh

Some of us will never have these lengths we should focus more on having healthy natrual hair thn waist length hair

@supersharda

5 жыл бұрын

Soli Sinn I agree ☝️

@stephanieshaffer4131

5 жыл бұрын

You got that right. Good point, iced been natural for 10 years. It's only neck length.

@912deborah

5 жыл бұрын

Yes we should focus on BIG hit bc length is associated with European/ non Afro hair

@serious7179

5 жыл бұрын

@@912deborah I have to disagree... Length is a sign of health in black hair as well as European hair. Length used to be considered a European thing, but it's really not. Black women that I know want long, beautiful kinky hair, not long straight hair. Of course, genetics come into play, but I'd venture to say that most women of all ethnicities have the genetic ability to grow what we consider long hair (i.e. past shoulder length in its natural state), but African hair, in particular, is a bit weaker and the person would have to be extra careful in combating breakage at the ends to achieve this.

@lynebessi4410

5 жыл бұрын

@@stephanieshaffer4131 It's not possible that your hair didn't grow in 10 years what probably happening is that your hair broke of at the same rate that it grows

1. Don't comb through your hair (4B/C) instead finger detangle. Also make sure the hair accessories are not damaged. 2. Tailor/ Customize your own hair regime that works for you. 3. Set realistic hair goals. 4. Do not prolong the protective styles. 5. Minimize manipulating. 6. Always moisture your hair. 7. Keep up with the trims. 💞💞

@BAn-mu4qe

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much for the summary.

The hair does grow but it's breaking. All hair grows but our dry texture breaks easily

@murielperez3582

5 жыл бұрын

My hair always is dry and breaking off🤔

@ThatChickKim

5 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU! Everybody keeps saying "it's mainly genetics", but genetics would only dictate how fast (or slow) your hair grows. We're a living being, so our hair ALWAYS grows.

@finallyfree1973

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! Hair grows everyday but hair on the head may not retain length. People confuse the two so badly

@angelainyt

5 жыл бұрын

Our 4C hair is thin, so it is fragile.

@kaitlynnbroke2321

5 жыл бұрын

@@ThatChickKim but hair grow in a circle and then fall off. And the duration of the cycle it's genetics. So even with the best care and nutrition, if you have a short cycle, your hair will never pass a certain length.

You remind me of Tempestt Bledsoe (Vanessa Huxtable). Your hair is beautiful!

@lateshalewisreaddon2284

5 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing. She does look like Tempest Bledsoe.

@shakeenakontoe2507

5 жыл бұрын

Tracy's Corner cuter though

@serious7179

5 жыл бұрын

@Red Sunshine wow...

@vanessarosa2344

5 жыл бұрын

Omg so true

@vanessarosa2344

5 жыл бұрын

I mean she does look like tempestt

I'm here for the Beautiful hair....... your hair long with the shrinkage so I know it long with it straightened out......Your hair is Errrrthang!

@temiadesina

5 жыл бұрын

thank you so much

@lisat-wright99

5 жыл бұрын

Very nice; very true. But, you do not like verbs. 💙

@stephanieshaffer4131

5 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed... very nice hair.

@karenthompson1745

4 жыл бұрын

@@lisat-wright99 when people reach fifty if there hair still grow

@karenthompson1745

4 жыл бұрын

I love that look

I love how you kept it real by saying you have 7 yrs worth of growth... It’s is beautiful! A lot of influencers legit be like this is 3 yrs worth of growth 😳🙄😅😅😅 I mean it probably is... but it’s also not realistic normal growth time for some... I say health over length

@nutmegcurlsandcoils2736

5 жыл бұрын

Some usually transmission for a year so they have a lot of hair on their head when they big chopped. When I big chopped I had like an inch and half. So that's why I don't even hurt my head of over them anymore.

@serious7179

5 жыл бұрын

@@nutmegcurlsandcoils2736 so true

@opharahanglin4015

5 жыл бұрын

Sis. Height has a lot to do with it.

@NashleyC

4 жыл бұрын

I went bald for my big chop

Absolutely beautiful hair and skin. Thank you so much. I finally came across a video, where everything made sense and I could relate to.

Thank you for keeping it real about hair growth and REASONABLE expectations. I've seen soooo many videos about "fast hair growth" and "how I grew 4 inches in 2 months!". Like maaaan, cut the shit. I'm learning that you have to be PATIENT and consistent with your hair regimen.

@blacklyfe5543

2 жыл бұрын

That's impossible your hair grows 1/2 inches every month

I comb my hair, I use castor oil and eucalyptus oil, water and hair grease💯👏🏾 and I’m 4b/4c y’all might think I’m lying but doing this for a whole month my HAIR GREW like crazy. Y’all go back to the old school stuff🙌🏾💯

@sylviasmith105

5 жыл бұрын

Blue magic ..

@HvneBvnn

5 жыл бұрын

Sylvia Smith yup blue magic 😌

@godiseverything1482

5 жыл бұрын

Ayanna Faulkner: How do you use the Eucalyptus oil?

@HvneBvnn

5 жыл бұрын

Glamorous BAILY# LOVE I mix it up with my castor oil😌

@godiseverything1482

5 жыл бұрын

@@HvneBvnn Thank you for responding back.. What kind of castor hair do you use? REASON:for asking.. I use the jamaican black castor oil the original brand and I have been having a lot of breakage lately, I feel as if it is cutting my hair off..

Girl you shook me up when you fluffed that hair out with that pick

I definitely needed to hear every word that you spoke, I am truly inspired by what you had to say. From now on there is nothing I won't do to keep my hair thriving and to test the roads and obstacles on my hair journey to shoulder length hair. (I'm trying to keep my goals realistic I'm in the awkward stage of my hair)

Thank you! Great tips on not combing through my hair. Don't know why I haven't thought of this. Lol!

Preach sis Preach! Finally someone who’s keeping it real! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙏🏿

I am 4c and when I went natural in 2014, I was blessed to stumble across one of your videos. Thank you for helping us Type 4 sisters.

Thanks for this video upload. I have had stunted growth for 2 years and it really grt to get a new insight from u

All facts loved the honesty✔🤗❤

THANKS for the EXCELLENT advice... I'm not the blogger you are but you forgot to mention food intake and water.. by the way gorgeous hair as always

This is the best video I have watched. You're so real, straight forward and sincere, I love that and then You, your hair simply amazing and beautiful. I love my hair and crown,I love this journey. Thank you❤️

Beautiful black queen . Perfect hair. Thanks for the video.

I love it!!! Soooo inspiring and insightful. Thank you 😊

Omg your makeup looks soooooooo pretty! Soft and natural and not too much 😍😍😍

Thanks for the tips. I have been natural now for one year and my hair is flourishing. You are so inspiring.

Very Clear information. I'm very thankful for how excepting our hair and to appreciate our ethnic selves...BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL.

I know I’m late replying to your video however I just have to say that you are the most realistic on giving hair tips especially on 4c type hair. I have come cross so many vids on hair growth/hair health etc.., and I must say yours is the most realistic and helpful. Thanks for your help! 🌷

Great tips thank u so much and ur hair looks soo pretty

Thoes earring are righteous!

@missshannon9790

5 жыл бұрын

Jody watley want em back

You are Amazing!!! What a great message and video🤗🤗🤗

Thanks so much for all your valuable information... this was just what l needed to hear. I learned a lot from it.. and l will remember to be patient and not manipulate my hair and just let grow how it will... Thanks again can’t wait for your next hair video. 👋

Great advice. Your hair is gorgeous. TFS

Thanks for your knowledge of hair and helping others

Everything you said was accurate and nicely stated. You weren't tryin to be an expert for all, just sayin what helps you and suggestions for others. Nice caring advice. Im a natural also and know for fact ur advice was true! And u look like Denise from Cosby show! Beautiful sista. God bless u. Thanks girl! 🙏 watching from Nebraska!

Good job !I shared the video with my 2 daughters.

EVERYONE HAIR GROWS!! The question should be how to retain your length. And I believe it’s necessary to comb through your hair. Your hair needs to be properly detangle.

@naturalspice8479

5 жыл бұрын

GOUNDO NIAKATE of course! I never said comb through you hair dry. I DO NOT recommend that.

@dlilwon

5 жыл бұрын

@GOUNDO NIAKATE not always my hair is better entangled dry with copious amounts of coconut oil. My hair softens as soon as coconut oil is applied, I cannot do anything to my hair wet, that is when it breaks of, tangles and coils 360 degrees x a million uuughhhh.

@noughthanx1548

5 жыл бұрын

Are you saying you have to comb hair for it to grow? If so, that is incorrect. Many naturals DO NOT comb their hair at all, and it grows just fine. Combing tightly curled hair is only necessary if you wish to wear stretched styles. kzread.info?search_query=styling+4c+hair+no+comb

@naturalspice8479

5 жыл бұрын

Nough Thanx Not at all I’m I saying that. It’s just my personal opinion that I believe it’s best to fully detangle you hair. It will style better and be easier to manage. It’s noting to do with growing your hair. She even stated in a previous post that she had lots of damage and split ends, what you think caused that? My guess is because she wasn’t properly detangling her hair and trimming the ends.

@Kay-tc3go

5 жыл бұрын

You are right Fancy, because if and when she combs her hair a quarter of it will fall out. Hair grows and breaks out; Blacks hair breaks more because of it's tight, thin coils.

@NaturallyTemi, okay I'm loving the lipstick. Also, THANK YOU for being honest about Type 4 hair. My hair texture is 4a/b/c. I appreciate you being honest that it took seven years for your hair to grow like that. You're correct even though we have type 4 hair every person hair is different. As you stated the regimen you have works for you, but after five years of being natural I have finally found products' that works for my type 4 hair. God bless!!!!!

Thanks for your advice I learned a lot from you about my natural hair

Thanks for some good advice. I have just started a regime and am giving myself six months to see some results and to settle into a regime that works for me .. thanks again. Your hair looks wonderful 🌸🌸

I love this I never thought to set length goals I took that tip tho .. thank you!!

Nice one again, and beautiful hair!!!

@temiadesina

5 жыл бұрын

thank you so much

YES!!!! Make a video of the products/regimen that you DON'T like! It teaches us and is SOOOOO helpful!

This is one of the realist videos I've seen about 4c hair. Good job.

Great video! #2 is so true. We need to know our own hair...everyone's hair is different

@temiadesina

5 жыл бұрын

exactly.

Timi I miss seeing you at church with that gorgeous hair. I started to grow mine and I don't have length or volume. Come have a pow wow with us on how to grow our lovely tresses. Go young lady, I'm so proud of you. (Sis. Angel) shouting out my young ppl.

I think it’s a great idea to post the products that didn’t work. You did mention try to see what works for your hair so good points both ways.

I love your hair, i think it’s beautiful and i love the content of your video, and I agree with most things you said, but everybody hair grows, maybe at different rates but everybody hair grows.

Ouuuuuu, sis that lipstick is snatching my edges🤩🤩🤩

Thank you for sharing naturally temi, your hair is very beautiful!!, I like your look and make up.

Hair goals, yass! Thanks queen!

Wonderful tips!! One more tip is to protect your nape. I discovered my winter scarf can do some damage as well. 💞

@jartisteobscure3992

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed... I try to stick to Fleece, Velvet or Pashmina scarves, they're all soft, tightly woven and still keep your neck warm...Another tip would be to either use hats that are already lined with satin or wear a satin scarf/bonnet under your hat. ⛄👍✌

@unbotheredmovement

5 жыл бұрын

@@jartisteobscure3992 👌💞

Your absolutely correct we have to adjust to our own hair.. Know your own hair..

Wow girl! Your hair is banging! It’s so beautiful. So long and full. Gorgeous. I don’t think I’ve ever seen natural hair so beautiful.🤗

One time I went to get two cornrows and the lady saw my hair and she said it was too thick for her to do two on. She said she can do four. Listen she started combing my hair straight dry like I had washed it but the water was dried out dried out. It was the most painful hair experience I’ve ever had and she didn’t even think to put cream until midway and it wasn’t a lot. Although she didn’t offer to stop I should’ve just left cause who knew how much hair I lost. When she started braiding my hair it felt really tight and when I got home bubbles was around my edges. Never again ! My head was hurting for a good two weeks practically.. I’m recovering from two years ago still learning what works best for my natural and keeping it moisturized thanks !

@taylorsara1237

5 жыл бұрын

Girl NEVER again. Let someone do that to you! Some of these hair dressers don't like to see me with beautiful hair ( even if they r black!) Be careful who u let touch your hair...

Love the black lipstick. You’re so pretty!

I just post on your recent video regarding my hair growth and you just confirmed to me it takes time. It’s growing longer than ever I just guess I wish it would grow faster but it’s right above my shoulders. Your hair is beautiful thanks for this video your great. I’m glad I found your channel so I’m subscribing to your channel now thanks❤️

gorgeous ❤️ black is everything ‼️

With 4c hair it’s really easy to get discouraged. There aren’t many sources to go to that will be able to give sound advice & be realistic with how 4c should treat their hair. Thank you for this. I’ve been growing my hair for 3 years & it’s been a lot to say the least. You definitely earned a subscriber.

Thank you for your honesty on natural hair growth and reasons why the rate of growth, is not living up to our expectations sometimes, I feel that my hair growth is slower because of continuous twisting the hair. I started doing wash and go’s to help.

NT.... #2 is the reason I just couldn't retain my length. I tried what worked for everyone else hair and I paid the price for it! No more! I do what works for me :) Excellent informative video and you look amazing.

@obiuslarenow6742

5 жыл бұрын

Please is Africa threading a good protective style?

Can you make a winter routine for us, please? and tell us how much you wash yoour hair and moisturize it

Loved the tips. Thank you ❤️

Very helpful tips! Thank you ❤️

Reason 3 is like the best advice I've heard. But it's just that my hair is really really slow in growing so irs discouraging too😁

thank you!! i’ve been combing through my hair for years 😩

Beautiful hair and very helpful video. God bless 💕

Thank you so much!!!! No combs!!!! My hair breaks off a LOT. I have 4C hair and I do sew-ins a lot.

Loving your fro, good advice thanks 😊

My Grandmother use to say, “Pay attention when somebody is trying to help you”. This Beautiful Sister is giving us Hair Wisdom but the Haters are looking at her lipstick and calling her Long Natural Hair a wig. I guess Haters are gonna Hate.

@hopenoel6421

4 жыл бұрын

True sis, I myself love black lipstick

@kmags8065

3 жыл бұрын

True words indeed🙋‍♀️ sometimes we are our only enemies of progress , we have too much bad energy inside of us

Yes Yes That's Why I Love U Cause Your Tutorials R The Truth U Break It Down Thank U For These Great Tips👏👏👏👏💯💯💯💜💜💜💜💜

@temiadesina

5 жыл бұрын

ah thanks so much for watching

@godiseverything1482

5 жыл бұрын

@@temiadesina Hi, my first time watching your video. You are a realist.. I will definitely subscribe.. Thank you...

Temi, I love your video and I have a request, please do you have any video on how to know if your hair ends are split, cos I hear a lot of talk on trimming when there are split ends and keeping your hair trims regular the way you do 8 months, but I don't even know a split end when I see it.

You are a pretty girl and so giving on information,thank you so very much!!!!

I think the video of products you don’t like, would be a good video. I think people could really informed.

VISITED: 10:17 AM. 1 /22 /2019. A LIGHT BULB!!! I'M GOING TO STOP COMBING THROUGH!!! ANY MORE!!! BLESSINGS!!! THANK YOU!!!, SISTER!`

@desireel.1501

4 жыл бұрын

Update?

Yesssssss! Great info! ❤

@temiadesina

5 жыл бұрын

thank you

I can leave my crochet braids in for 3-4 weeks max. My scalp is dry and it itches. My hats off to people who can leave theirs in longer, I wish I could. This is very good information. Thanks dear❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@Pussinbootszzz

5 жыл бұрын

@Nandi I hate wigs. I hate my scalp being completely covered from air. Idk it's weird

@Pussinbootszzz

5 жыл бұрын

@Nandi the problem isn't being able to care for my hair, it's more so worrying about my high porosity ends that I can't get to to properly moisturize. I also have a very itchy dry scalp, so that's why I can't keep them very long

@Pussinbootszzz

5 жыл бұрын

@Andrea_ never even knew that was a thing. Thank you so much, will try it in a few weeks with my next set of braids!! Thanks dear!!

@Mywatercrystaltv

5 жыл бұрын

@ India T--- that's easy! Use Dr Miracle Spray for itchy scalp or any brand of your choice. The reason your scalp itches after a braid or crochet is cos of irritation & dryness. This works for me...I hope it does for u..🤔

Great information, just started this new Clip-ins curly. I normally do wigs but so sick of my edges gone and it will grow then leave. So this Protected style I'm doing the clips in for a couple of months. to get my edges back. Thanks alot. I have a question I would like to grow my son's hair grow long, but he doesn't like to get a hair cut and he is Special Need, son. Thanks a lot for your advice

New to your channel sis…you are real… yesss

dmn. this was JUST the sermon i needed to hear on my annoying overly protective-styling self. GOSH! ive been taken to 4C hair church. i promise to not over manipulate and just LET MY HAIR chill out. In a cute way tho. cute. great video! keep preachin sista!

Just subscribed... 😍love your hair and makeup!... will you do a makeup tutorial for beginners?

I love my hair❤️❤️❤️❤️ great video!

Needed this babe! you can't do the work for us!!

@temiadesina

5 жыл бұрын

thanks babe

Your hair is naturally long and full. Thanks

Oh lord her hair!😍😍😍😍 Forever my hair crush😘

I never thought of that comb thing wow thanks 🤗🤗🤗🤗

I always detangle when my hair is wet and I started using my pick with the fist lol

Honestly one of the best I only watch her and Curly Proverbz!!

You're ,hair is on point, I need help I just went natural and I need help with a regimen, can you give me some, lesson

Your hair is absolutely beautiful!

God knew what Jah was doing when Jah made 4c. Gorgeous!!!

Great Video 👍 👍 great info be blessed 💜

You're so beautiful. Your hair looks amazing.

There are a few things I have noticed my hair likes: (1)PH Balance (4.5- 5.5, 6 max) really matters for my hair Health and length retention. It reduces a lot of shedding and split ends. My hair loves aloe Vera based shampoos and products for this reason. (2) 12-24 hour coconut oil Pre-poo really seems to keep my hair strong and shiny and eases detangling. (3) It also loves protein infused products (with mostly moisture) on a regular basis for protein/moisture balance . (4) Detangle while damp. My hair hates soaking wet detangling, but damp is best. (5) Trim schedule. Mine is every 8 weeks, 12 max. If I wait many months like Temi, for example. My hair ends develop tiny holes that lead to split ends, knots, and breakage. I feel like me doing these things allows my hair to holds moisture well and usually doesn't need more products past wash day (weekly)

@untitled299

5 жыл бұрын

Simple Eye how do u know if you’re hair like a product?

@uyaiumoren2030

5 жыл бұрын

You just said it all I notice that too I am high Porosity 4c hair my hair loves macadamia oil ,hemp seed oil,coconut oil ,grapeseed oil and silk amino acids or hydrolysed silk protein

@simpleeye7950

5 жыл бұрын

Little Afro Because my hair will feel manageable and soft yet strong. I will be able to comb through it and style without breakage. All that and a little shine enhancement makes a product a winner in my book !

Soooo when you getting some crochet braids again? I dont think I've seen you with braids!

Omg sooooo helpful my I've been combing through my hair and it breaks horribly

totallly agree with reason #5 people are so obsessed with curl definition

@east32nd

5 жыл бұрын

It’s true as king S it looks neat and you care for it , don’t force hair to do what it doesn’t want to do . Whatever curl I get I rock with it and that’s that .

What like color is that? Fabulous!