This is spot on!! I constantly feel insecure about my work performance. I get positive feedback but I always feel like I didn’t do enough or someone thinks my role isn’t needed. It’s made me depressed and I’ve sought out counseling and cptsd is what we’re working on. Spot on.

Thank God for this man.

My childhood was an episode on emotional trauma. T.V. was my escape . Raised by the television . Very dangerous thing .

Im really glad that God showed me your channel. But there is just too much for me to even know where to begin. I get anxiety & a little discouraged

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My dad would comment on my mothers, other Womens and my physical appearance constantly. Always about how old this person looked, how fat..everything. I’ve been told I’m small but I’ve felt HUGE my whole life.

Scapegoat of my family here... I constantly want to run away when I am/feel exposed. You can imagine how i do at job interviews! I get them because I am skilled but always fail because of my insecurities. I no longer try and am focusing on my recovery. Its very painful and lonely. Thank you for your videos.

Truly incredible. It is like you grew up in my home with a narcissistic, histrionic mother and abusive, alcoholic father. Me, the scapegoat feels completely seen and heard. Thank you

The idea that a child ticks through a list of possible reasons why they are not loved, and that's why we can be insecure in so many areas, is so enlightening. It is NOT MY FAULT. It is NOT OUR FAULT.

Ok so HOW do i become secure

Its pretty hard when your own parent makes fun of you and encourages other siblings to say negative things as well, I preferred to be made fun by peers because it was equal ground and I could stick up for myself

I try hard to be perfect, but also hold back so not to be in a vulnerable position. Overthinking is killing me. I was in denial of there trauma for so long, but over the last few years it has been emerging and over the last 3 months I admitted the trauma, that my mother was the cause (although I can't name her because she is the result of her trauma), however this has been an extremely difficult realisation. Not only that but how I was as a parent and the trauma I have caused. No more though, my daughter knows I am working through and healing as does my partner. However I am insecure, afraid, ashamed, struggling for identity - I just don't know myself, I don't know what is real or imagined, my whole life feels like a lie, a house of cards falling down around me but I am at a place I think I can find all this out. As terrifying as that is, it's better than it was. Each day brings something new - god it takes courage to do this so to everyone out there who is on this journey, you are already so much braver than most people you now no matter how weak and insecure you may feel.

That perfectly explains what im going through omg!!! WOW wtf. Im going back to nursing and omg the unhealthy amount of fear insecurity n wanting to back out is unreal. I know ill be good but damn😵‍💫😳 i wanna RUN

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It would be silly to imagine God judging me the way I judge myself. Because I love God and God loves people, it means I must love away the insecurities I see in others and in myself.

I am Hindu but I always stay for the christian part because of lots of similarities in the teachings around fairness , forgiveness , acceptance , and all what makes life worthy of living.

The line in the movie "Apollo 13" when he said, "Failure is not an option." made electric shocks go down my arms. That was my dad's mantra to me.

Good day Tim. My name is Jackie, first i would like to thank you for your amazing uploads. You gave me the chance to understand and explore myself if ways you don't believe. I am a 47 year old lady that lives is South Africa that suffered from Complex Trauma and it almost ruined my life. Your video's have shown me not only what was wrong with me but also on looking forward and working on my self in the future. I now also for the first time in my life have a amazing relationship with God and am growing Spiritually every day. I'm having my first service in our local church next Sunday and beginning a new journey that will help me share my story and hopefully help so many people like me, I want to use what you had reached me and hope you would not mind. There are so many peoples lives that can change with this knowledge and i want to share it as much as I can. I don't know you but will call you my Friend from GOD. Thank you once again Tim.

Sounds like you’re describing my life in a nutshell. The question is how to release the energy of shame. Along with the side effects of suicidal ideation, I have overcome 90% of that desire. But whenever death comes along , I am ready for or perhaps don’t reaycare. There’s nobody who I need to be around for. So it won’t matter to be or not to be. Apparently there’s a small chance of reserve of capacity for the possibility in any amount of time it could cause the opportunity to complete the life lived. As a safety net for those times I could desire to say goodbye .

God is really using your material to make significant differences in my life. I'm pursuing a life coaching career and your material is invaluable. Thank you❤