I am definitely not possessive. I want my partner to thrive in every way and never feel held back or smothered. I want him to want to be with me because he wants to and if he doesn't, I'm ok with that too. I don't mind being alone. I enjoy my own company very much. That is more like the trait of an insecure person rather than an empath. We strive for Harmony in everyone around us because if they are uncomfortable then so are we.

@cassandragutierrez2

3 жыл бұрын

Right me either I give them space as well as I need my space I don’t want to suffocate my love

@ZEC67

3 жыл бұрын

I dont think that's what possessive means. It means when the guy you have feelings for has 30 friends that are girls on his friends list. You automatically know which ones he is attracted to. Which ones want to under mind his relationships. The ones he talks to about his relationship. Which ones are tring to get him bed. Which ones are his friends with benefits And to an empath it feels like catching your husband of 30 years in bed with another women while your children are asleep in the house. So you are like um.. I dont think this will work. And you honestly start reading him these girls mail. I'm my case. The more he tried to convince me I was the only one and the girls are just friends. The more I tried to convince him we were not a good match. To most guys that is possessive. In my case I didn't want to change his life or his support network. So I went no contact. And 3 weeks later he hunted me down and said your right, I dont want to loose you.. I believe that's what he is calling possessive. Same thing with their guy friends you know who's real who is trying to make them feel like a looser, who's bad mouthing you. Ect

@kittykok2110

Жыл бұрын

So true you speak on my behalf.

This is 100% true. You only want to touch the one you truly love.

@danielspeer4414

4 жыл бұрын

dont get mad when i dont kiss you lol

@marinaperic853

4 жыл бұрын

💞👌

@Xaforn

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I wish people would understand that, I hated when I was a child and I was told to hug people, it made me feel so gross!

@u2short485

2 жыл бұрын

65

@missel742

2 жыл бұрын

@@danielspeer4414 well good luck

1) They want to talk to you all the time. 2) They start opening up to you. 3) They show their weak and fragile side to you. 4) They seem to forget all these principles. 5) They want to become intimate with you. 6) Being possesive

@superclark07

Жыл бұрын

called me out😂 well I not controlling though I do want my crush to have her freedom but also wanna be near them 24/7

Empaths are the strongest type of person.

@lazerbotshims9795

4 жыл бұрын

We endure more. We notice more, that is why its overwhelming because we feel and see things inside people that others do not.

@peacemaker7757

4 жыл бұрын

Gaming Bentley If that is true (and I don’t think it is), then I’d rather be a “weak” empath any day.

@lazerbotshims9795

4 жыл бұрын

@@bentleyhuang93144 narcasist are not strong.

@lazerbotshims9795

4 жыл бұрын

@@bentleyhuang93144 they are fake

@Delimon007

4 жыл бұрын

@@bentleyhuang93144 How can fake people be strong? How can someone who likely has never suffered in their life (which is why they are narcs to begin with) be strong? I bet if any of them took on the amount of pain that I feel right now, they wouldn't last a week.

I liked it, then it started turning negative. Like we are these weak desperate people, and we're not. We are strong and will only turn weak when we are drained and living in unstable conditions. That's when we start to become all needy and clingy. Ever wonder why every boy leaves, because you drown them in affection, and yes we love wholeheartedly, but we also know, that trust and freedom is a big part of that love. They might break or misuse that trust, but that's their loss, not yours.

@Michelle-ke7me

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I'm definitely Not weak and fragile, only low energy at night, after I've been drained. This video is Not me. I'm a extrovert who is happily married. Who also finds happiness inside myself and didn't need to change when I feel in love with my husband. He saw the real me from day one.

@create773

4 жыл бұрын

Linked Neurons affirming what you said, clearly although appreciated the video, the narrator is not an empath. I wish he would have said they “tend” to or “most likely” because we don’t smear ourselves on other people hehe

@dhavalbhandari5554

Жыл бұрын

Finally someone who gets it wow

I just want to add that it was a very informal video, however, I have to disagree with number 6. Possessiveness is not something that I feel a true empath for anyone.Not to want to share someone with somebody else. True empaths are happy when others are happy. I believe we express Free Will and freedom. Freedom of thought, freedom of speech, I'm freedom of doing what it is any individual wants to do. Possessiveness, oversteps person's personal boundaries. As an empath, we so badly want people to respect our boundaries,and more than willing and wanting to respect the boundaries of others , this is huge with an empath. Just my thoughts and input on this video and certainly hope that nobody was offended...

@Rumplegirlskin

4 жыл бұрын

Is it possible that you've never been in love? This is only for an empath in love. We all just have some combination of these things. We are not all the same person so of course "most" of us will not agree with that if we have other factors to our character. Possessiveness was the wrong term. I am not that for certain. I would never be in an open relationship. I would definitely let the person easily leave to be happy with another person. However, when I am close with someone I do want to feel that are moments together mean something. I enjoy the feeling of focusing on one another while we are together in that moment. Not for the entire relationship because I don't like being around anyone for too long lol. It is only in the learning phase however, because once I know someone then they will have to bring something to the relationship as well that is deeper. I have to respect and in a sense "admire" the person for how their mind works. I believe what should have been added is that once we began seeing of feeling certain things, or when we are under-appreciated for too long we have an easier time letting go once we've done all we can do. However, as he said, we are all different.

@Delimon007

4 жыл бұрын

Nope, I get possessive though I will trust my partner even if I myself have trust issues. What I will say is that our relationship is between us and no one else.

@carribgirl007

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with you😍

@patrickrutherford6120

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with that

Everything you said was true. I'm not a possessive person. I enjoy my freedom and I want my partner, to enjoy their freedom also.

the part that we only open up to certain people is true

I identify as an empath. However, at least half of what you say here doesn’t apply to me. These descriptions seem to describe an introvert. I am an extroverted empath. Which means I need to hold myself back from being too open and too affectionate.

@gar7reever754

4 жыл бұрын

Peace Maker well I’m an empath to the core and realistically, as I am experiencing love for the first time with a kundalini awakening... ya pretty much bang on - minus the extreme of being possessive... I am NOT that. Territorial, perhaps 🙏🏻🇨🇦❤️

@peacemaker7757

4 жыл бұрын

Jenn Smith Can you tell me what a kundalini awakening is? I’m not familiar with that term.

@gar7reever754

4 жыл бұрын

Peace Maker - kundalini is your life force, energy...what happened was that I opened my chakra system and that allowed my “life fore” to freely flow... so with that you “awaken”... intuition intensifies ... so my empathic vibes are CRAZY INTENSE!! My solar plexus (my gut instinct) basically feels like I have 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋in my tummy all day... not to mention I have manifested my twin flame and he arrived out of the blue... joyfully yet add it all together and it’s knocking me off my feet ❤️🙏🏻🇨🇦

@peacemaker7757

4 жыл бұрын

Jenn Smith Thanks for the explanation.

@danyelPitmon

4 жыл бұрын

Peace Maker I agree with pretty much everything you just said because being an empath you always want to help people and then when somebody finds you were likable and you can trust him you give everything you can to them and you don’t try to hurt them at all as long as they don’t try to hurt you the relationship can last forever but being possessive I am not like that

I agree with most of it about being an empath. Except about the weakness side or being possessive.

@danielspeer4414

4 жыл бұрын

I am fragile and it is a struggle to avoid negative folks. im constantly smiling and laughing as if i dont laugh i just may cry

@ariadnaponce1

4 жыл бұрын

I can totally avoid and ignore negative people and comments, and make myself immune to negativity. Just don't catch me in my 5 minutes because I'm human too, I don't recommend it.

@janellemedveckyulickey

2 жыл бұрын

I turn my so called weakness into a humility to allow others to be gifted to learn to help others properly and I don't hog people or their time.

When we begin rehearsing our next meeting, you're definitely on the radar. When we start leaving goodies at just the right moment, just the right place, then you definitely have us smitten. And when we start with a joke and see you giggle, you now have yourself a #1 fan

3. Showing your weak and fragile side to a non-empath, it’s a mistake. Specially in the early stages of the interaction. But somehow we get all emotional and week in the knees when we like someone and clingy, bcz we may totally know the person in a few interactions that they are worthy, on the other end all the affection and clingy ness may overwhelm the other person, and make them afraid of giving into us too soon, bcz they don’t know us enough yet.

As an empath, when I finally fall for someone I feel is worth my time and energy, all the dating rules go out the window. All that advice you got from your momma doesnt even compute lol, and I'm sure it feels like stage 5 clinger, but a lot of empaths give everything they have to the person they love because they are more than likely just revealing pieces of themselves they've failed to share with words.

Being an empath , people are naturally trying to suck the life out of you . So we learned to protect our energy and heart. We love easily but will shut out people if we feel any hint of betrayel .

It is a cool video. Thumbs up!!!! I'm an empath and I also think that empath changes when they are in love and I also agree that it's hard to find a love one that's why we tend to be possessive and that is because empath really gives almost everything and we atleast expect something in exchange.. (I'm a 20 year old empath from Ph)

These are all correct in my case. Every one of them.

All of this is sadly, so true - I have tried not to be possessive because I do not like how I act and it is not fair to the other person, and although I am a tad more flexible now - it is not really how I feel at all. So, I am single.

You're video's have opened up my eyes. Thank you so much !

Good Monday evening SB. Each time I watch your videos, I am learning more about myself as empath telepath. You're right by saying we are human but for someone like myself I dont feel all human. More like 50% while the other 50% is spirit and supernatural of the elements. At the end, it what who I am in life by doing things on the right path. Sometimes in the middle path. Basically in between order and chaos. Cant wait til your next video👍🏾🍃🍁💨

I can truly say all 6 of those are true. But if you're an evolved empath you have worked out most if not all those things. And you know how to control those acts. When I was younger I use to be like that. Now that I've grown I know how to control those actions.

I think the person is mixing some other things. We do not become obsess or stalk. We are perfectly good by ourselves even if we love someone. Yes, once we love, it never, ever stops, even after that person is gone or died. It's a pain in the but.

I feel like this is the beginners guide of being an empath in a relationship of things to watch for, to do and not to over do.

👍 Another great video. In regard to relationship, I find this very accurate. It's good to hear these things from another source other than just my own experience. I think also Empath doesn't fall in love or be attracted that way often or easily. So maybe that contributes to the reactions & behaviors described. 🌿

Making seem as if an empath is very co dependent, very controlling and boarder line abusive (according to forms of control being abusive) I don't believe a true empath is like that. Yes maybe one who has already experienced lots of bad things but then they also know they never want anyone else to go through what they went through. Just my opinion. Maybe totally misunderstanding the whole thing.

@gordanagorscak3334

4 жыл бұрын

You are not misunderstanding at all. I do give thanks to the person giving their time to make the video, but this is not the first video where I feel almost offended as an empath.. we are the farthest from the needy or clingy or possessive... Topics about empaths need to be broken down properly. As individual matures as an empath, they really become a rock. Boundary setting, boundary protecting and boundary respecting, are what we really are all about.

@danielspeer4414

4 жыл бұрын

i gathered a diff perspective. i took it as he said we CAN be possessive over the ones we find that we love because we know how hard it is to find that special person. i relate to this big time as i dont want to share my love with anyone but the person im in love with

He did make a statement at the end you guys. He knows everyone will not agree and #6 is really bothering people lol. Just like anything, we "all" will not have everything on a list. We are individuals. I believe in order to be an empath you should know naturally what do do in a relationship. Possessive people tend to be very jealous, which, would mean they are also selfish. It would not make sense for me to be in love with someone who could cause such a negative characteristic. I would rather allow them to go to the other person. Or maybe he meant at that moment when you are with the person you love you want the focus on one another? However, it is the term "possessive" that I think is bothering people. Possibly write another way to state it or just know it isn't you.

So true. We hv principle about the type of person we like, but we can break the rules for u if we rly like u 😅

Love it!

The only disagreement I have is that I might feel possessive but I spaced myself with it and acknowledge in my head that I must give them space in order to get my space and that's the reason that I reason with myself. I hope that you understand that. In order for me to get what I want, I I want them to take the space that they want or convince them that they need space so I can get what I want.

These are true for the most part but the "possession" part is a little much.. It really depends on what the other person is going to do. If they're going to hang out with another woman or to go drinking and dancing with their buddies, which means talking and dancing with other women, absolutely not! I know how to have a good time but when you're in a relationship with me, you're in a relationship with me. If you play games, I'm kicking your ass to the curb! I don't care who you are, what you look like, or how much money you have! I will instantly forget I ever met you!

I disagree with number 6. My boyfriend's ex-fiance called and I answered the phone and later told him about it twice so that he could call her back. I made friends with her on facebook and reminded him a third time that she wants a call from him (he was not planning on calling her) and I even put her name on the calendar so he would not forget and that she would know that i sincerely gave him the message. He and I have a deep relationship and trust and I have compassion for her wanting to talk to him - though I do not think it should be a habit and I hope it is a 1 time thing. lol. Furthermore, an old friend of his came back into his life and wants to go on a holiday with him (and not me) - I told him that he could if he wanted to. I understand that he needs his space and his friends and possessiveness like described in this video is a huge turnoff to me and to him as well. The main reason is because if either of us has to do anything to keep the relationship as this video describes, it's not a relationship worth having!

Empaths are mot possessive even they love you dearly.

Thank you for your creativity.

These are pretty spot on for me, and I'm not even all that introverted.

To whoever wrote the dialogue for this video, I think you have met someone you like and you want them to understand you.

We love to stay to yourself be disciplined with principles and not reveal a secret

I learn never to like or befriend anyone in this platform especially you n your team. Thanks for teaching me the hard way.

This describes me towards my wife to the letter! AMAZING!

We love purely genuinely

That is so true, it's me all the way!!!!.😊😊

I finally understand why I did what I did, thank you

Good stuff 🎷 ❤️

A an empath I am not one to be possessive by any means.

@dustysemones3

4 жыл бұрын

Music Love I am also an empath and I am not possessive at all. I want them to be happy and not hold them back from anything. If they feel uncomfortable then so will I. We strive for Harmony in everyone around us. The possessive part is off horribly.

I am a Empath. You were right with 5 Points you said. In other words five Points see I My. 🧡🤝💪✌️😎🍀😇🌎🌍🌏☮️🙏

So good. So true! Except for number 6

🤔🤔🤔... He or she doesn't want you to have other time with other people???wow, number 6 is completely describing a covert narcissist...

@AllanI3374

4 жыл бұрын

Nice to see someone noticed,a little bs this stuff is.

6 is so wrong I know how to love

Oh, no. I'm an Empath and I'm in love.

sounds about right

That's so true about us.

I fit that spot on!

Your Experience Your Experiences These are the things that separates you from all the others.

There is a difference between liking and loving someone.

@damutae612

4 жыл бұрын

It's a thin line with a real empath unfortunately 😒

Pretty accurate!

This is so true...

Absolutely true 💕

It is hard to be an empath 🤣 U will become crazy 🤪 😂 😁

@eneopopa3145

4 жыл бұрын

Why? LOL Im crazy when i get booring but why u say that xdd

@markcorsino9912

4 жыл бұрын

Different to other people

@eneopopa3145

4 жыл бұрын

@@markcorsino9912 hmm

@mysteriousme3006

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 and hated very much for being nice and minding your own business.

@Peace704032797

4 жыл бұрын

Crazy? why?

True.now i think i'm empath.

Hahaha yeah leave me alone hahaha i always want to listen and be by myself. And yes we feel way more then anyone our thoughts are scattered as well as our ❤. Its scary at first to share with someone because we know your not truly being yourself. But we love and continue to love NO MATTER WHAT!!! And totally disagree on being possessive thats very immature to me at least...

I agree fully with what your conclusion is. But a mature empath can face the reality of a situation. The world is a beautiful place by also though. Some things are not meant to least and time moves on.

This is alll facts!!!

That was great 👍🏿. Your right. Very true and correct.ℹ️💯✅❤️✝️🙏🏿📖🗡👊🏿👌🏿👍🏿☯️😎

I am beginning to see these signs in someone💕

Possessive goes beyond driving others away especially opposite gender

Yeah that's true and I would even agree on number six but I'm also an extreme empath and I don't possess but I understand your point because it is true and it is a struggle to overcome for me but it's not jealousy

To become intimate is something other than sex, isn't it? I can remember for just one person I have got a strong relation to. I call her kind an Observer. She was nearly invisible until she has got enough information about you. Amazing! In comparison to that all 6 signs are correct. By the way, to be possessive is really spooky and in my opinion, it needs a good fitting person with some abilities for handle it. And it could get very nasty in the presence of an empath in lover's grief.

I was checking this out thinking maybe the guy I like is an empath but sounds more like me to a T so thanks

I agree 💯

Thank you for these videos it helps me understand myself better but I’m very open and very talkative. I am a Libra is that what makes me so different?

I'm an empath, and most of these fit. I feel called out. 😄 But seriously, I can attest to these signs.

Done with your opinion. Moving on.

I open up to everyone i meet..gets tiring.because everyone i meet loves to talk bout stuff..i attract alot of types of people..so many subjects to talk about.like art, different countries..experiences..but i never close up.nor am i secretive bout myself.

🌈🍔❤️ I just love holding hands with him🤩

Empathy want the best for their partners and are rarely possessive. They understand their partners needs when it comes to other friendships and want their partners to be happy. They may feel sad or insecure about it, but will usually put their own needs aside.

Sorry but a true empath will never give themselves fully over to.someone else because they are fully aware of how little people can hear what they mean. That is the difference between a non-empath and an empath - both can listen but only one hears. If you're a true empath you will know exactly what I mean.

@rouge6390

4 жыл бұрын

quite true

@carolprice1389

4 жыл бұрын

Yes I understand I even have a twin that is not a empath it was what I call spill over from me but nothing from my twin.

@Delimon007

4 жыл бұрын

What are you even talking about? It's because I can feel for others that I can feel if they have true feelings for me. I have felt this a few times before. Speak for yourself.

@carolprice1389

4 жыл бұрын

I know what you mean because I am a empath and so is my mother and you are so wright keep it up please because you have real understanding.

Everything but the last part. I've worked extensively on this.

Holy shit this was 100% accurate for me

Apart from being possessive all agree with

While I've found the other videos you produce to be insightful and informative, I think you missed the mark on this one. You clearly do not understand Empaths, their feelings or their motivations. I say this respectfully, not judgmentally, as we are unique and we are often misunderstood. My strength is interpreted as intimidating. My love is seen as a weakness. My attentiveness is an invitation to treat me like a doormat. My desire to talk is a precursor for sex, and so on. I'm sure other empaths have their personally experienced "judgments" to share as well. We are sensitive and feel deeply, but your perspective is as off as the judgments I've experienced myself. If you want to know an empath, leave your judgment at the door - we know so we shield and you will never understand the depth of our beings if you are trying to evaluate us like some kind of lab rat.

@fatima-zahrakajji4821

3 жыл бұрын

Wow thank you Tabitha, you worded the challenges perfectly. I'm going to keep these words with me for life. Take care beautiful

That last one is SO ME! I met this...(gulp) human the other day, and his idea of doing something romantic was a horse drawn carriage ride...I was like fuck outta here! I talk to the animals...they're my friends...I didn't say that to him, of course, (he was my ride home) I enjoyed the meal he treated me to...but that was basically the conclusion of our short lived friendship....all that lovey-dovey Valentines Day BS is such superficial fluff....a deep Intimate intelligent conversation in a scenic area....😎🎯Not with the proverbial dozen Roses, but tiger lilies, or sunflowers....or Kush nuggets.

I think they love me but have been so hurt before they're in denial or avoiding committing. Sounds self centered, yet I believe its the reality, so I get to enjoy the tease! Oh well back to myself!

Great

Truth

Can you grow into being empath overtime? Or are you born already an empath?

Is trusting loving??

It sounds more like a description of a shy, introvert person.

It's true

I did a empath test and it said I am a empath

possessiveness is not applied to a strong and confident empath. Treat me like the queen then may be I will make u my king because Im worth it and remember to let me be. I need to be alone to recharge myself 😊 🙏🙏🙏🌈💞

Being possessive is niave and suffocating.

its true

I am not possessive of the person that I love because that is not healthy for me our my loved one.

When you lose our trust, you lose our trust. There is no way going back. I’m very loving and give my all, but if I see and feel being used. I know longer have you in my life.

honestly I don't believe that possessive is the right word at least for myself because I want whatever makes my significant other happy so I wouldn't possessive I wouldjust say that we enjoy spending as much time with them as I can.

is being an empath used equal to what is known as a highly sensitive person or being introvert?

@february1796

4 жыл бұрын

Highly sensitive yes. Introversion, no. An empath can be both introverted and extroverted. You can chech out the myer-briggs theory on the 16 different psychological personalities. There, you can see how there are several traits that form each profile. I know both empathetic and non-empathetic introverts, as well as extroverts.

@Xaforn

3 жыл бұрын

My partner is an ENFP and is an empath where I am an empath and INFJ.

Telling our secrets 😝😝😌😜😄💜💏

Phobia to love? Wtf??!

This is all me

All of this is dependent a lot of ones sun sign ascendant sun and planet placement. I’m a Pisces which is seen as almost a natural empath and I have always had a gift or curse depending sometimes of knowing what people around me are thinking but I’ve always figured it was just because I am always watching people we say a lot about ourselves in the little thing you don’t know you do observant but as I have gotten older and past a serious health issue I have gotten to really start feeling people around me energy I guess not sure what else to call it. But, I am also under the impression of Mars almost constantly due to my zodiac Pisces they orbit one another constantly. I know a lot of people are like listen to this but job and that was me too about six months ago maybe a little longer but I had to find some kind of sense or reason or hell even just a possibility of why I was seeing things so differently and people around me now it’s like a emotional roller coaster just to go to Walmart. I started looking into star charts and zodiacs and friends I’m telling you they are not gods of any sort but God did give them to us for a reason. I’m lucky enough to know the minute I was born and the star chart reading was eerily accurate down to one of my absolute favorite sayings “ I believe” and when I say that I’m willing to go all the way for it no questions. Love nature and I really have almost broke my leg missing a Roly-poly on the sidewalk but can hunt and kill an animal without second thought about it when it comes to humans let me be I’ll do the same if your in trouble I will risk my life but you try to hurt me and.........I’ll end with things get dark for me or that person but I’m fine with either violence is nature it’s man who separates the two and turns nature into murder

How can you tell the difference between a empathetic love vs narcissist love bombing

@chibireg1222

2 жыл бұрын

One is real The other one is disgusting

Empath are not Casual in Love & Sex... They Always A Loyal & Trustworthy Human Being... So, When They Fall Into Love With Someone, Mostly They Prefer to Have A Strong Character Who Has The Power Of Loyalty & Stability With Their Partner... They Don't Love A Light Hearted Minded Character When It Comes To Give A Commitment For Long Term Relationship..... Yaaa... That's Why It's Sometimes Seeming Like Clingy Or A Deep Attachment In Empath's Character 😊❤️