Don't lie,you came here to find out if you yourself are secretly insecure

@anoushafahad4907

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

@bellamckinnon8655

3 жыл бұрын

No, to find out if my Dad is really insecure. Which I kind of already knew, just wanted to see how it works in a list format. He’s insecure as fuck.

@ava_bndrabbs1111

3 жыл бұрын

nah, i came to see if someone ik is, cause I suspected it

@ilikepineappleonpizza4257

3 жыл бұрын

I came to see if my bully has insecurities. Pathetic I know, but I gotta, so I can hit points where he would lay off of me a bit. Also after wtachign the video I've realised the guy's a narcissist

@kaellogg

3 жыл бұрын

Don’t expose me...

The dislikes r from insecure people who dont wanna be exposed

@TheCausalParadox

3 жыл бұрын

Why do those handful dislikes make you so insecure that you need to be defensive about it?

@xenoknight7187

3 жыл бұрын

That's why I don't use Reddit. It wouldn't react well to my anxiety issues. :D

@alexj7931

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheCausalParadoxbruh, I was just joking. Why cant u take a joke? So as u say, im not insecure about it. Geez chill. As u see, everyone but u knew I was joking

@TheeMostDangerousOne

10 ай бұрын

@@TheCausalParadox Frl

Fun fact: everyone is insecure

@kaspervendler1726

3 жыл бұрын

I thougt i did not have insceureities, until i found out the i disociate a lot to hide them, together with my true indentity

@ava_bndrabbs1111

3 жыл бұрын

im not

@User4o3p93ghvjkaehvji

3 жыл бұрын

I thought I'm never insecure until I saw life is not fair. Right amount of hardwork is not equivalent to right amount of success. Like MONEY !!!

@xenoshikky

3 жыл бұрын

ARMYYYY✨💅🏾

@pixele4321

3 жыл бұрын

@@xenoshikky yes ami

6 Signs someone is secretly insecure: They're a people pleaser 1:09 They turn everything into a competition 1:33 They get defensive 2:06 They degrade themselves in front of others 2:39 They put other people down 3:13 They exaggerate events and brag about their accomplishments 3:47 Time to go make breakfast :D

@Rama_Verma_

3 жыл бұрын

Thank u dude

@louehyouidiohweloveyouliam4166

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rama_Verma_ Bruhify army?

@sahana7579

3 жыл бұрын

@@louehyouidiohweloveyouliam4166 yes

@lilangelarishi

3 жыл бұрын

Omg i totally misread that as people who have time to make breakfast are secretly insecure until I saw there was no time stamp 😅

@emilydoesstuff5597

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rama_Verma_ Np

You is kind, you is smart, you is important 💕✨💗

@whosrem8074

3 жыл бұрын

No.. Dont give me hope..

@xenoknight7187

3 жыл бұрын

😳

@cartersmom0629

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the laugh 😂 I love The Help

@cinnamongirl5266

3 жыл бұрын

Omg yess Abilene said that in The Help❤️

@Harry78996

3 жыл бұрын

@@cinnamongirl5266 omg I remember that film

This make me feel better when I’m sad...

@bookenjoyer3970

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@SeetalMD

3 жыл бұрын

me too. hope you're feeling better.

Things Insecure People Do That Slowly Destroy Their Lives They live in fear of judgement. Insecure people always worry about what other people are thinking. They avoid meeting new people. ... They don't believe they're good enough. ... They're not true to themselves. ... They live in a world with denial. ... They're doomed to fail. ... They don't trust others. ... They look for the worst.

@neptunewalker1254

3 жыл бұрын

That's me

@neptunewalker1254

3 жыл бұрын

By the way nice explanation

@pannajohns5255

3 жыл бұрын

Damn bro you just described my whole entire existence 😆

@DarthTz

3 жыл бұрын

me all the way

@UrMom-xn1bm

3 жыл бұрын

That sadly sounds like me 😔 that is why I can’t make friends easy

Watching this vid because I know that I have insecurities😭

@babygumlet727

3 жыл бұрын

(2)

@xenoknight7187

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😓

@sack1036

3 жыл бұрын

No your smart. I am extremely stupid Your nice. I am weird. I suck, but you don't

@burningdumpsterfire4390

3 жыл бұрын

Same :,)

@mcbread493

2 жыл бұрын

Me too ;-; too many to count

"6 signs someone is secretly insecure" Me: finds out I have all the signs Also me: pretends I didn't just watch this

@reyzonx3481

3 жыл бұрын

also you : confess all these things by commenting this.

@yesyesyesysa

3 жыл бұрын

@@reyzonx3481 LOL

@random_edits1165

3 жыл бұрын

Me removing from my history

@chrisrobin409

3 жыл бұрын

😁

@diane7371

3 жыл бұрын

@@reyzonx3481 omg im just from hiding in my corner cause I felt insecure again😭

What's the difference between: a people pleaser and someone who just likes to help other people?

@dyeculskyy8885

3 жыл бұрын

the person who likes to help knows his limits and is able to say no

@emilvdv9391

3 жыл бұрын

@@dyeculskyy8885 I agree, but how do you know your limits?

@user-zu8lq8qe2y

3 жыл бұрын

This..i personally try to justify my actions by saying i want to be kinder but i myself don't know where my limits are..

@rolandberendonck3900

3 жыл бұрын

@@emilvdv9391 Your limit is specified by the degree you are comfortable or uncomfortable with providing help. So if you feel uncomfortable with providing help; there's your limit and your boundary.

@Bones0fFiction

3 жыл бұрын

A people pleaser does things for people even if they hurt the pleaser or bother the pleaser.People pleasers are scared if they’re worth it, if they’ll be left, etc.Someone who helps other people is a person who knows when to stop, if someone isn’t listening to you when you try to help, you leave.Its a they problem.People pleasers should find someone who understands them and stops them from getting into bad things, or help themselves by learning their limits.

Before seeing the video imma say I'm hella insecure, let's see how much I relate

@SuperStarlight4

3 жыл бұрын

Awww nice pic ❤❤❤ which anime is this?

@camellia1942

3 жыл бұрын

@@SuperStarlight4 thankss but it isn't an anime 😅 It's a character from doki doki literature club

@megh9368

3 жыл бұрын

@@camellia1942 oh I know who yeah...noice pic very adorable

@camellia1942

3 жыл бұрын

@@megh9368 yes it is adorable indeed, thank you:3 Yours is adorable tooo

@megh9368

3 жыл бұрын

@@camellia1942 :3 aww thank you

Even if that person is a doctor or lawyer, they can still feel insecure. It’s quite sad.

@mirianalogara2909

Жыл бұрын

It is not that sad. If you think about it. It means the doctor didn't do the internal work to become a better person. They just did the academic work.

@psychicbyinternet

Жыл бұрын

Dr Jordan Peterson is technically a doctor and he should feel insecure although I'm sure he probably does already.

"you insecure, don't know what for...." Only legend will understand 😂

@saranya.p9470

3 жыл бұрын

You're turning heads when you walk through the do-o-or.. 😂

@janahmukiar5191

3 жыл бұрын

@@saranya.p9470 directioners are everywhere 😂😂

@xethrion4758

3 жыл бұрын

Somewhat Funny but somewhat not cool cause insecurities are something everyone has but at different stages

This channel continously calls me out and I don't know if I like that.

@leaharmbruster6047

3 жыл бұрын

exactly... like it’s interesting to learn from the videos, but sometimes i’m not ready for what I hear😂

How to overcome these traits: 1. Avoid self-comparison because everyone is unique in their own way. 2. YOU are your only competition, be better than the best you have ever been. 3. Learn to accept criticisms healthily as a way to improve yourself because YOU CAN. 4. Love yourself just as who you are, if you love yourself 20% and somebody gives you 30% that's not even half. You need to love you 100% and the rest will carry on. 5. You won't get a brighter life by blowing other people's candles. LET'S NOT GOSSIP IT'S UNHEALTHY. 6. Strive for greatness but at the same time, be humble. "Keep your head held high, but your feet glued on the ground."

@andyye1515

6 ай бұрын

Life saver :)

Joke of the day: Did you hear about the doofus who got a boomerang for his birthday? *he spent the next two days trying to throw the old one away..*

@IzzyLizzyxd

3 жыл бұрын

XD Lol

@aespectra2883

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@sciannavaz2786

3 жыл бұрын

Lol🤣

@IzzyLizzyxd

3 жыл бұрын

@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo hehe you can not resist the jokes my friend

@IzzyLizzyxd

3 жыл бұрын

@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo UWU

I just want to say that I love the fact that the animator represents an insecure person as a cactus. It does well to capture how defensive an insecure individual can be, and as one being insecure I hate to admit that I become defensive even in the littlest things. Overall, wonderful video as always

For some reason, my subtitles decided to auto-generate in Vietnamese.

@Finalizor

3 жыл бұрын

same......sometimes

My friend is kinda insecure sometimes, and she outs it with a higher, angry (?) tone in disbelief to cover it up! She laughs a lot too after that, then I know I have to check up on her :)

@rolandberendonck3900

3 жыл бұрын

Don't waste your energy on a bottomless pit.

I haven't watched the video yet, but I just want to say I'm grateful I found this channel 💙

@harshitaraj3184

3 жыл бұрын

Same😌

An interesting list, I really think they point that people degrade themselves in front of others is one a lot of people miss and is an important telltale sign for many

@rolandberendonck3900

3 жыл бұрын

Attention seekers; just don't respond and leave them void. Because the validation is just never enough.

@professorcube5104

3 жыл бұрын

I'm used to self degrafing humor, i need help

This is genuinely the only channel that I am sorry i can't become a member for. Your quality is so good and your advice is amazing, and videos like 5 tips to improve your life are so helpful to me personally. I am honestly sorry that I can't be a member, and hopefully one day I'll be able to. Please keep making this amazing content, and if you're reading this, have a nice day!

I've had my share of being friends with insecure people too and it's even caused me to be insecure. They judge people, pick on people, gossip and such. I noticed that insecure people check on their flaws and then project it on others. The cycle just continues. I'm more confident. I've stopped texting those friends. If you are struggling with confidence here are some tips! -don't obsess over the mirror -if you know you're insecure don't think that is going to help you in life to be hard on yourself. I know that I used to think so but really it was just ruining my mental health -stop watching negative videos. Some videos point of every wrong and right in others. They dive into drama and that isn't healthy for you. -gEt a liFe. No seriously. Find some hobbies. Get off your phone for a day. Enjoy the outside (in your backyard ig) just remember that you're the only one who is going to travel with you through life, so be kind to yourself. -refrain from using self-deprecation jokes. Instead joke how you're an absolute queen/king and how you're beauty makes your mirror obsessed with you LOL not in a narcissistic way but in a joking manner -look on the bright side of life -allow yourself to cry. You will feel better after. Have a good day everyone! 💕🌿💙

@ilsagita5257

6 ай бұрын

Yes insecure people are so nasty And the energy is contagious Worse is when they are in group and you are the only one thinking god when can I leave . I remember in tuition there was this bunch of girls picking on , putting others down and I had to face them everyday until I found two other cool people And started to sit beside them I am very scared if people like this ..like it's my biggest nightmare to be in a room with them

I already know I am insecure so-

To who ever reads this, I want you to know that no one is perfect and everyone is beautiful in their own way and that you matter, I wish you the best in life ❤️

@june756

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for spreading love and I hope you and all be happy ..

legit thats a good strategy you ask someone about something, they give you critisism, and then you simply answer with no no one can one up that one, just like how no one can deflect the emerald splash

Me who is secretly insecure: *I'm being exposed*

@xethrion4758

3 жыл бұрын

I also feel insecure to but I learn how to make myself feel better after watching this video kzread.info/dash/bejne/jJupqNyyeZCpc7Q.html

@ihatemice_elf

3 жыл бұрын

Insecurity gang?

@xethrion4758

3 жыл бұрын

@@ihatemice_elf Yes Unfortunately

@ihatemice_elf

3 жыл бұрын

@@xethrion4758 yay let's start an insecurity gang (I'm insecure about how I look and how smart I am)

@xethrion4758

3 жыл бұрын

@@ihatemice_elf I’m insecure about My relationships and Achievements

This video came at a perfect time, so concise and spot on. Love Psych2Go!!! ❤️

I would love to see a video explaining how to gain a healthier self image & higher self worth 🥰 this channel keeps me going

Want to learn how to forgive youreslf? Watch this video: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fa6pl6xvYcXadbw.html

@user-me9vk8df6p

3 жыл бұрын

Hi.

@keke.

3 жыл бұрын

hey Psych2Go!

@john-adriancoker2789

3 жыл бұрын

Totally unrelated but along the lines of education, could you advise on how to work in the field of psychology at different levels of qualification such as: No qualifications Bachelor's Master's Phd

@blahblahitsanoob5506

3 жыл бұрын

Yourself* Np

@frenwinter2966

3 жыл бұрын

Very necessary yes omg!

I hope I can improve myself! thanks for showing us these signs so we can grow 🥰

First sign : High five

Very enlightening. Now I understand instead of getting annoyed. 😊

The new art looks so cute And thanks for the information

hey psych2go, please make more videos about childhood abandonment issues, Love your content!

Very eye-opening, thanks for the video!

I came here to protect myself from insecure people♥️ they project their insecurities onto me and I need to protect myself.

Now I can support my friends if some of my friends have it, thanks Psych2Go!

Please make videos about teenage mental health and stress management tips, it would be so helpful 💛 cause school has been giving me a hard time lately 😶

I love the art style its like the one in the last video (which is my fave style) bit with no outlines

Please bring up with the solutions of these mental problems. The way you bring these will help a lot💜💜

Thank you for this🥺🥺

This was a great video. Subscribed!👍🏾❤️

This is my birthday video. :3 Thanks to psych2to for being here and sharing all these useful informations about Psychologie. Keep up the your good work and thank you for doing what you're doing :)

Thanks for this.........this is too helpful

I have become very aware of my insecurities, I don’t like to express them because I don’t want to bring others into my big little issues, it can be draining for others to listen to or understand or help. It can also lead others to feel sad, confused or insecure too. And it can take a long time for me to remember how to handle them securely. I think when you recognize that insecurity can lead to some of these behaviours that you actually don’t like, that’s a good thing. I know to never put others down because it’s not fair and it comes from a place in you that isn’t helpful. All you’re doing is deflecting and not healing yourself. I don’t know if I put myself down in front of others to get validation, it mostly just my way of expressing not feeling great atm. Since sometimes you really can’t hear people’s kindness. In the end if you catch yourself feeling like this just know that every insecurity has its own answer of relief.

Who else here doesn't like pizza? Comment below :3

@ihatemice_elf

3 жыл бұрын

I love pizza. Tho uhhhhhh..... I like it with 🍍

@hopemj4469

3 жыл бұрын

Pizza is like.. so cool tho daang especially w extra cheese

@ihatemice_elf

3 жыл бұрын

@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo yes I'm sorry I like pineapple with pizza D:

@ishaaniscute7716

3 жыл бұрын

Me...✌️

@sasasousa7374

3 жыл бұрын

you didn't just say that psych i-im heartbroken😔

Thank you. This was very helpful.

This makes it easier to understand causes of other people's behaviour

I already know I am super insecure. Just came here to hear Amanda's voice

I always thought I was insecure but I guess I never knew what it really meant because I don't have one of those traits !! However, I do absolutely love this program - it's very useful. 😀😀❤❤ I'm glad I subscribed.

I encountered some of them, and I understand, but sometimes it's really annoying. I remember she tell me I look ugly wearing cap lol, but still I accept and Love her because she's my sis hehe, praying that she overcome it, and those people around her . Love YOU sis !

Great info! 🙂

Thank god I found this chanel...also ur videos are soo amazing thanks for the hardwork!!!!!❤.

I can’t believe that you guys follow Nux Taku! That is so awesome!

I love your channel!!

I like how the insecure person has a cactus growing out of their head

1 and 3 was me. Sometimes being nice gets to the point where others start to use your good nature against you.

Thanks to your fluent English pronunciation and different words, I improve my English and learn new things.

You know you came early when there is no English subtitles😅

This is so me. I keep trying to improve but people shun me for being needy... none of my associates even try to understand, they just laugh and tell me not to be needy and gloomy. No wonder i decided that 2021 was time for a fresh start where I cut out everyone who did that (meaning I’m now alone 😟. It’s just less painful but does mean I can start to rebuild without their negative drag). A lifetime of being “the nice one” while being abused and used all with no reward other than being allowed to be in their company.... it’s taken me a while but I now see what they are doing and have had enough.

Insecure people often use criticism of others as a way to feel better about themselves. See, people who are insecure consistently feel bad about themselves. And often, they don't know how to feel better in a healthy or productive way. So they often resort to criticizing others👍

thank you for everything

I love this videos!

This video is so nice thanks Psych2Go

i used to be like this. but thankfully i grew out of that toxic space and decided i should be more contented with who i am :”)

*6 Signs Someone is Secretly Insecure* Intro 0:27 They're a people pleaser 1:09 They turn everything into a competition 1:33 They get defensive 2:06 They degrade themselves in front of others 2:39 They put other people down 3:13 They exaggerate events and brag about their accomplishments 3:47 Outro 4:50 Hope this was helpful in some way! :)

Relatable at #1. Still relate to 3 and 4. The rest describe my childhood self which didn't survive my depression. Oddly enough, I think I'd still choose the depression because it burned away enough that I could start healing the rest.

I really like the artist.... I have a suggestion for your next video! Maybe it can be about the hypnagogic state? I'm doing a science project at school, and your videos are VERY helpful. Just a suggestion :)

They may not always get angry when you give constructive criticism. They'll dismiss it entirely. My sister was writing a book and had me reading over it as her editor, since I've put a lot of study into story writing, I thought I'd be able to give her some pretty good tips. Anything I'd suggest that she rework she'd always say, "that's exactly what it is, see, I did it just fine" when it didn't convey it right or "yeah, that happens later in the story" when it needed to happen earlier. Once I told her that her plot needed some revising and she said, "oh, I already worked it out completely."even though it still needed revising. I just kinda stopped because she was refusing to listen, and it was pointless to reason with her.

Me reading the title *secretely insecure* Also me: laughing in anxiety, pls, secretely insecure? I'm public insecure

Grateful for watching your videos ❤️❤️

unrelated, but I can srsly listen to her voice all night 'til I fall asleep. it's so calming and soothing.

definitely me :)

You guys are best ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Hi, I love this video it’s very informative Ty,

I’m definitely insecure about some things but I clicked on this video because of a really toxic ex-friend. I had a feeling they were actually lashing out because of insecurity and now I think that’s the truth. I feel bad for them but I don’t think I could be friends again after what they put me through. It’s emotionally exhausting to deal with someone who exhibits all of the behaviors listed in this video. I just wish I could have helped them better, but they wouldn’t listen. I wish them the best.

Ily psi!!!

I llllooooovvvvveeeee the artwork on this channel...

Yayy another video :D

how do they always put out the right topic out

Thanks so much for this. Narcissistic Listening is what I’ve endured from a few key people in my life. It’s great finally knowing that it actually has a NAME!!! Thanks Psych2Go!!!!

I basically have all of these signs, almost exactly. Apart from spreading rumors/talking bad about others behind their back, that’s other people’s job not mine. But I always feel terrible at the end of the day when I feel I went too harsh and don’t know how to apologize for it or if it even was insensitive. I act like this in school, loving to boast and put down others (jokingly, I hope they don’t take it seriously).

i don't think my insecurities are a secret to anyone...

@coconutwater82

3 жыл бұрын

Ok

I don't know what to say.

Insecurity is a struggle that people either avoid dealing with or they ignore the fact that they even have and not only causing harm to their mental health but also to other people.

Can i get a heart? :D Also i love so much this channel!! Its helping sooo much!!

I’m very insecure but I never believe in putting someone down or attempt to one up in conversation. If anything I prefer to be invisible and can’t understand why people would want to talk to me.

You will meet people like this in your life. Just listen and move on after the conversation.

So I relate to all of these points... never thought it was insecurity, I always believed I just have a horrible personality

@lsyun8810

3 жыл бұрын

@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo geez, thanks

@lsyun8810

3 жыл бұрын

@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo heh I don’t really care I’m terrible at sugarcoating too anyway

Hi! I have a question: When you know that someone is secretly insecure and they have all of these signs, how do I as a friend help them overcome that? Is it possible? I have tried being there for them, complimenting them, loving them unconditionally, but it doesn't seem to change anything or make them feel better about themselves in any way. Any advice? :)

There is one more insecurity I noticed 'cause of my friend. I noticed that my friend, althought she doesn't like crowds and is not going to big events often and don't have that many friends and is shy... when she is in a new situation with people she doesn't know then she gets a "feature" and then she is like cheerful, chipper and "full of beans" and jabbers a lot, even in a conversation she has no traffic with it and no idea about it and even says some things where I'm like "omg, no" in my head when she suddendly exaggerates with conjectures, prejudgments and other things, which aren't that necessary. So this was one situation back in the last year. But I noticed it generally at her that she can be really extremly communicative with people she doesn't know, even though she isn't that confident in front of new people. So really the opposite.

Well, i don't know about anyone else but i am insecure 😑 I am more of a introvert and insecure

@rolandberendonck3900

3 жыл бұрын

You'll be alright. People who are really insecure are afraid to expose themselves about being insecure. So in your case, your statement is a mature step on the ladder of Self Development. So be nice to Your Self.

@neptunewalker1254

3 жыл бұрын

@@rolandberendonck3900 ooou thanks very much☺

@rolandberendonck3900

3 жыл бұрын

@@neptunewalker1254 Expressing your vulnerability cq coming out that you are (feeling) insecure is even a sign of strength and courage. So it is time for you to jump in the air and go crazy :D Affirmation: I am ok

@neptunewalker1254

3 жыл бұрын

@@rolandberendonck3900 oh well said sir !! Thanks 😊

1 and 4. Yep.

Thanks

I know it's me

Omg i can literally imagine the person who has all these , gosh there's nothing wrong with feeling insecure but acting like this can just make someone hate you yk 😑😑

Love it

The fact that I relate to all this 😳

I have them all, except for the last 2 I'd think. I hate being mean to people, but if someone rubs me the wrong way I have a harder time being nice to them.