Who here is single as a pringle? Comment below if you are so we can match you up before the year ends ;)

@solange3172

4 жыл бұрын

I am 😢😒

@hellobro_.

4 жыл бұрын

I am single 🙁

@guppy9161

4 жыл бұрын

Me 😭

@Rei-0403

4 жыл бұрын

Been single since my birth to 18 years old

@mojelamoloi

4 жыл бұрын

🙋‍♂️

Is anyone else finding it hard to figure out their OWN love language. Like.. I want ALL of these lmao

@_Lucary

3 жыл бұрын

You could take some online tests to see if they help you figure it out but most people probably have multiple love languages that are meaningful to them so even though one or two might matter the most it's possible that you care about all of them pretty evenly :)

@aniMangal0v3r

3 жыл бұрын

You’re suppose to rate them from 1-5 most important to least, hope that helps:)

@Cocoisablackcat

3 жыл бұрын

of course you want all of them that’s not the case but taking the test will help rate them from most important to least. and the most important is your main love language. doesn’t mean you disregard everything else.

@unlimitedpubes

3 жыл бұрын

You can take THE test. Like the official one

@larajost6831

3 жыл бұрын

Love language is not about what you want, but about what makes you feel loved. Sure, all of these things are nice to experience, but if you listen to your gut, you should be able to narrow down which of these makes you feel loved.

My husband and I made a deal... I clean the kitchen to express my love in HIS language and he compliments me to express his love in MY language. If we only have a little time each day, it’s important to make the most of it!

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

That's good to know! I'm glad to hear that this is working for you! What are your thoughts after watching this video?

@joyh8382

2 жыл бұрын

I LOVE this! That is an AWESOME way of handling it! I hope it's all still going well!!

“The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn’t being said.” --Peter Drucker

@kahlilgibran563

3 жыл бұрын

A quote I've made...."So much is said in the words not spoken."

@justallah2785

3 ай бұрын

Like what do you do with the Haagen Dazs sundae, cell warming gift that your new cellmate left on your bunk?

"Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply." --Stephen R. Covey

@easypianobeautifulmusic2974

4 жыл бұрын

Yes true

@easypianobeautifulmusic2974

4 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/nGym1Nijf9XHp8o.html in case you're interested 😣

@matthewjay660

4 жыл бұрын

Seek to understand, then be understood.

@shadyshinies3116

4 жыл бұрын

Better

@VengefulPolititron

3 жыл бұрын

gotta say in 10 times keep explaining and repeating until they get it.

My love language is touch but I’m touch starved so I feel awkward when being touched or even receiving a hug from my mom. I feel bad for asking for any physical contact. My friend was playing with my hair the other day and it was pure bliss..

@HighFiveFriend

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful thing about hugs is when you give one you get one :). But it has been hard, though. Hope you are well ❤️

@holay_molay_7

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr I don’t exactly like to touch my dad specifically...but like if my friends hug me or cuddle (not romantically ya know) I would be so happy

@philrei2797

Жыл бұрын

Cute

@tigrispanthera5496

Жыл бұрын

same

1- Words of Affirmation 2- Quality Time 3- Receiving Gifts 4- Acts of Service 5- Physical Touch

@unus-annus

4 жыл бұрын

we knew that-- it's ideas on what to do for each love language, just listing the love languages doesn't do anything??

@BriannaAddison

4 жыл бұрын

@@unus-annus I believe they were listing them in order of importance to them. That's the format of the test results if you take the Love Language quiz online! 😊

@unus-annus

4 жыл бұрын

@@BriannaAddison hm, okay. thanks! people just tend to make lists of what the video was about so people can just look in the comments and not watch the video and it's just annoying to me-- but you could be right. if you are i'm sorry :b

@victoriac.shadow9361

4 жыл бұрын

I'm gonna try all 5 one day

@unus-annus

4 жыл бұрын

@Olivia you don't have to be hostile, i wasn't being hostile :/

0:53= Word of affirmations 1:49= Quality time 2:26=Receiving gifts 3:20= Act of service 3:50=Physical touch

@quwyn6192

3 жыл бұрын

:0 thanks

My partner is so simple, I give them a compliment, she's happy for the rest of the day! And when I take my schizophrenia medicine, they get so happy they leave to tell everybody they know!

@thewonderyears-diyadey3529

4 жыл бұрын

Cool BTW you’re really special 😊

@jacquesnouvel6436

4 жыл бұрын

You had me in the first half, not gonna lie

@beefortebrea9386

4 жыл бұрын

The second half of that is unhealthy. Invasion of private matters.

@bunnyluuuvvv

4 жыл бұрын

beefortebrea r/whoosh

@fairydust950

3 жыл бұрын

@@bunnyluuuvvvlol big r/whoosh

I told my boyfriend I love you for the first time recently, and he froze in a panic. It's been over a year together, so I thought it would be ok. Timing felt right to me, but I guess it wasn't for him. He hasn't said it back, but he still shows me he cares. He's more of a physical person when I'm more verbal. Just makes it hard sometimes because he can be very bottled up with his words regardless of what it is. I wish I knew what to do.

@danielpouchie89

3 жыл бұрын

Show him this video and have read the 5 love language's book 😉

@_Lucary

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah talk with him about how you feel

@preciousricaplaza1433

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@franciscaeliza6644

3 жыл бұрын

It’s so much healthier to find someone with the same love language as you. Your relationship doesn’t sound like the happiest, especially since it clearly lacks communication. If things like what you’ve described happen at the moment, they will keep happening in the future. If you said you loved him and he still can’t bring himself to say it, then it’s best to move on.

@ComputerAngel007

3 жыл бұрын

If you really want this person and you believe it is a forever thing, then you can make it work. I suggest talking to him about how you feel. No sugar coating, no holding back how you feel just to keep the "peace." Just be you and be real and speak from the heart. If you try this, please keep me updated!

_ Can't believe I have learn more about Mental Health and other Issues on this Channel rather than at school _

@nemmnemms

4 жыл бұрын

My school didn't even learn us about mental disorders, I have both depression and anxiety I think I know in our school the best what it means to have mental disorder

@joeyjointjebaiter1275

4 жыл бұрын

Schools dont give a shit about your or others mental health. Only on doing their job

@abbysworld05

3 жыл бұрын

I only found out about mental health from KZread which I watched since I was a little kid and also from me having adhd which I got diagnosed with at 9

This is a really difficult thing both me and my fiancé. We both have physical touch and quality time love languages (he lives in Europe while I'm in America) 😭😩

@AlejandroW90

4 жыл бұрын

Hey! I had the same struggle with one of my exes too, she lived across the country from me :(. BUT, that doesn’t mean it’s all bad. Make calls with him! Make a video call so you both watch a movie! Maybe play a video game with him (all guys love video games trust me 😂) I truly wish the best for you two. Maybe one day you two will meet up one day! :)

@detective_pancakes9427

4 жыл бұрын

I'm also going with the same struggle too. I'm from Asia while my significant other lives in France, timezones makes her stay up late at night just to join me until lunchtime. Like what Alejandro said, video games and calls do help. We both played our favorite multiplayer games and sometimes hang out by drawing each other affectionate doodles to make sure that the both of us are enjoying quality time. Everyone's relationships is since everyone is unique, so maybe you can ask him about the things he like and find if something he likes correlates with yours. That way, you both can spend time in your own ways and keep the relationship going. P.S. I wish you the best with your fiancé 💕

@lefttoe1947

4 жыл бұрын

Long distance is hard, especially for those love languages. With a lot of patience you can still have a very happy relationship. In my opinion, the best thing to do is play games together (App called Plato) and calling. If you don’t have this app already I definitely recommend getting it. It’s called Rave and it allows you to watch Netflix, KZread and other things together.

Me: Starved for any or all of them.

please don’t leave me in the sea of comments 🐳🐬

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

Hello starfish :0

@rainadatkween7959

4 жыл бұрын

Congratulations! You are the second top comment

Love language to myself helped me a lot instead of being destructive towards myself! 😂💪🏼

@Grace4ever22

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, I discovered NVC that changed my life...

@elizabethrose3187

3 жыл бұрын

This is actually so important

3:48 5) Physical touch. This me and i need a 5 too. Finding someone with the same language is becoming more important the more people i meet. While you can give someone their language and they can give you yours, after a while you realize you’re speaking a foreign language .

Knowing and utilising love languages is the biggest life hack for relationships I have ever found.

I love how it feels like when it’s done intentionally and when you make someone feel good and loved and how beautifully vulnerable they are to what makes them feel loved.

Fun fact: 80% of people watching this is single. I’m one of the 80%

@nemmnemms

4 жыл бұрын

Hey me as well

@xavierdupuis7653

3 жыл бұрын

Legend says they are still dating to this day

Love is a language spoken by everyone but understood only by the heart. Coffee is my love language 🖖

Who else is watching this despite not having a partner? 🙋🏻‍♀️🙃😂

@FernandowoTM

4 жыл бұрын

Yep

@Chizzoide

3 жыл бұрын

I'm preparing myself for when I find it.

@xtreme1002003

3 жыл бұрын

Definitely me. My love language is touch.

@lorianttila9698

9 ай бұрын

Me

@PairofDiceLost999

9 ай бұрын

🤙🏻

My boyfriend and I took the love languages test online and we discovered that we have same main love language. ❤

@RedRoseSeptember22

4 жыл бұрын

Amazing ^_^

I am inlove with Amanda's voice like she sounds the more frendlier version of my kind mother.

Writing letters to each other, even if u live together, is a great way to be romantic and express ur feelings if ur too shy, embarrassed or nervous to express the feelings in person. And, you and your loved one can keep the letters to read later on if u want

"A wonderful fact to reflect upon, that every human creature is constituted to be that profound secret and mystery to every other." --Charles Dickens

@jacquesnouvel6436

4 жыл бұрын

Charles Dickens seems to be a wonderful person I would have loved to meet him

@shadyshinies3116

4 жыл бұрын

I don't know why, but I hate that quote. It's so unnecessarily wordy.

@lenag3329

3 жыл бұрын

@@shadyshinies3116 probably he was paid per word. or wording is his love language)

@potato-yc1fr

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I think I'm a mystery to myself 0.o

i feel im needy af because my love language includes all of these 💀

@joeyjointjebaiter1275

4 жыл бұрын

Well, i relate to all of these, but mostly Quality Time. So choose the one you resonate with most.

@lena_3764

4 жыл бұрын

Same! And i know that i love someone with all of them 😅 so i want to be loved like this as well but mostly someone gives me „only“ one 🤷🏽‍♀️

@OatmealTheCrazy

3 жыл бұрын

I think everyone has all of them to some extent, you have to order them, not eliminate all but one.

My partner’s love language is physical touch. I feel bad because that is literally the smallest percentage on my list of love languages. He often says he feels deprived and it makes me feel inadequate as a partner because I feel like I can never satisfy the amount of touch he needs. I came across this video because I’m currently seeking ideas on how to be more physically intimate.

@gal974

Жыл бұрын

I relate to him. .

@Mithil18

Жыл бұрын

@@gal974 same

@PannkakaMedSylt

Жыл бұрын

If your "love language" is completly different, (one usually have all 5 but in different ammounts, 1 a bit stronger) lets say you'r the mirror opposits in this case. You either call it quits because you'r too different and it feels like too much of a hassle to overcome. OR you both have to activly work on showing the type of love the other need, actully puttint in effort into it, it can deffinetly work for many couples! but you have to be kinda aware of it and work for it. I'v had 3 Longterm relationships myself between 2-5 years each. The first girlfriend was very much on the Gifts / Act of service spectrum, words or letters didnt matter, physical contact didnt matter, meanwhile I'm like the partner you described a very Physical contact needing person, I tried my best to get it to work, doing little extra stuff all the time, bringing gifts, and it made her feel loved, although felt less and less loved myself because she was very UN-physical person, so eventually I stopped having energy to put extra effort into someone who didnt show me love back in my "prefered" way, so I broke it up. Second Girlfriend She was very much relying on words! constantly telling me and wanting me to tell her, this didnt work out too well because I'v never been that comfortable with constantly confessing my love verbally and openly in any situation, so it made her feel unloved unfortuantly, she was better at making me feel loved with closeness then first relationship, but this time I feel like my behaviour led her to break us up. My third relationship was someone very much of the same mindset / love language as my own, often sneaking up behind eachother to give hugs and kisses on the neck and other similar things, I think we only ever told eachother we loved eachother like 15-20 times over a 5 year period! neither of us got eachother that many gifts or such, but both had Quality time as a big second, and a tiny bit of Acts of Service back and forth, we ended it because of other reasons though, we had careers that made us go to different countries, and since both of us are very relyant on physical closeness & quality time together, long distance relationship just wasn't an option.

@graysonmiller5615

6 ай бұрын

As a physical touch person, here’s a little trick that my partner has figured out and really really works Basically just scoot up next to them when they’re on the couch or something similar, close enough to make contact, and just give a little nudge to let them know you did it on purpose.

I believe it's exponentially important in any relationship to do all the love language activities! To help strengthen and nurture it to grow.

my language is more put into words or doing little things for my boyfriend, like doing breakfast, tee, coffee, planing his haircut meetings and stuff. And he is more into physical, sometimes he also says cute things to me, but not thaaaat often, than I do. But he also does little things for me. And he is always watching over me. What we both do is always be there for each other, listen to each other, care for each other... There is a little bit difference in which way we show it to each other, but we understand it very well ♥

I need a lot of words of affirmation and physical touch, and I send out a lot of gifts that I think they are meaningful.

Every one watching this have a wonderful day ♡♡

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

You have a wonderful day too!

@thewonderyears-diyadey3529

4 жыл бұрын

Psych2Go You’re rather energetic today 😀

@ExpandLove

4 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go thank you ♡♡

My love language is definitely physical touch which makes my emotional life hell. I have crippling depression and loneliness and cuddles are like the purest expression of love to me. I’d do anything to have that feeling again, I know I’m unattractive but I just hope I’ll feel it again soon… I need it..

@buddy3635

Жыл бұрын

My #1 is quality time, but I've started to love physical touch more, and it's a close 2. I would fall onto legos to hug one of my friends again. I miss her so much. As someone who's struggled with terrible loneliness in my 18 years on earth, she is a blessing. And btw, I've never met you, but you're a person on earth. As such, you're a veteran of a damn brutal place sometimes. i'm so proud of how much you've accomplished. You still have so many things to experience, and so much joy to give to the world. And you are beautiful. :)

It is so tough to compliment someone but if it is a partner,I belive that I can try to give the most meaningful words to them

I'm watching this for my friends! I want to make sure they know they're very appreciated and I love them very much.

my boyfriend's love language is acts of service while mine is more physical touch and quality time!! im glad that even with our different love languages we make it work by doing exactly what the other's love language says to do :))

@gal974

Жыл бұрын

How?

I found when my boyfriend and I found out our top 3 love languages, it made it a lot easier for us to understand what the other needs and wants. Yes, I still think I am all of them but in different scenarios. Like when I am having a bad day, acts of service cheer me up. Definitely recommend doing the quiz! Love the video :)

I'm someone who likes quality time. My bf is someone who likes giving gifts. Yet we're a long distance relationship. One way we help with this is combining both of our artistic skills and spend time talking about them. It truly means the world to both of us and helps a lot. Whether that's by receiving a poem from him or me creating illustrations of him written work. It feels wonderful.

My partner and I both are physical touch followed by words of affirmation and gifts. Physical touch for us both was so healing from our pasts, words just reenforced that love followed by those special thought of gifts.

There's an amazing app that helps with this! It connects you and your partner and you both take a quiz to see thier love language and lets you set goals! It also has a meter to express how loved you feel so if your feeling unloved the app will let the other person know! The app is called love nudge!!

I'm here to show my mom her love language. Right now is tough for her and I want to show her I appreciate her

"Touch" seems like the easiest and most fun way to express and share love..and the one I most definitely identified with. Hope I find someone who speaks that language 🤗

me watching this even if I'm single

ACT OF SERVICE. My lover serves me from 5am to 10pm. He does all kinds of chores like cooking me delicious food, cleaning the house, washing the dishes, works hard for our business and offer services like driving me wherever I want to go. This is his way of showing his love & care for me. a rare kind. many people told me how blessed i am having him. Praise the LORD!

Ever since u guys came out on YT and I found u. I have always been educating myself from only u guys. And "better me/ideas" I love u guys! U are my everything!

My love langauge is physical touch and my partners love language is gift giving. Thanks for this informative video! Will use these techniques.

My love language for my family is physical touch and acts of service. When I'm with friends it's words of affirmation (I make letters), and receiving/giving gifts.

My partner is a Physical Touch Lover, and I'm an Acts of Service lover. We can manage really well in our relationship in the daily life, and I hope everyone else also can ♥

My fiancé and myself apparently have our own category. We both match with all of these. Please note we both came from broken homes. On the plus side being that we share all of these. We both know how to get through to the other one without even having to think about it. The great thing is with both of us having all of these. It means every little thing we do for each other every time we touch and every time we say I love you means that much more.

oh this is SO SO important!!! I took the love language test with a date i went on!!! WE LITERALLY DID IT AS A VIRTUAL DATE

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

How was it?

@SamElle

4 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go It went really well! i think we felt closer to each other

I 100% say I'm a physical kind of lover while my gf is a verbal lover, it all stems from how we grew up but I still love her, even if things can sometimes get frustrating, we both try

So glad you made this video cause I’ve been looking into Love Languages a lot lately! ❤️ My primary love language is Physical Touch. I think my boyfriend’s is Words Of Affirmation

I've always wanted to know my partner's love language but I didn't know how to. I have a hunch about it but I was not sure, until this video. I tested it just now and behold, the result is awesome, I'm amazed! Thank you Psych2Go!

I love psych2go,I see it,I click it 💘

@orvimai

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr?

@lukegeorgian5481

4 жыл бұрын

@@orvimai yesss

I love through physical touch and he loves through quality time. I love that we are able to mesh the two. ❤️

@gal974

Жыл бұрын

How? Because I am struggling with my boyfriend, him being not touchy. I feel like I am always begging for love.

I really, really, like quality time. I think its the most important for me. Words like I love you and compliments are touching, yes, but SHOWING you love me is more touching.

The 5 love languages book by Gary Chapman is a real eye opener, helped me understand my partner way better

I have an amazing partner & so does he... We put each other first.... 100% commitment. We tell each other we love one n other all the time, it can't be said enough times.... ( I want my man to know he, s loved & cherished every single day. I love every part of him. The good, the bad, the everything. He is my soul mate.

I never thought or knew about love languages before i saw Psych2Go. Now i know i'm a 5. Thanks for making these videos.

This might sound weird, but this works really well for parents and children, too. My mom is definitely a Touch and Service, for example, whereas my dad is very much a Quality Time guy.

This video is amazing. Thank you. My partner and I have complety different love languages: her's are words of affirmation and quality time, while mine are physical touch and acts of service.

This video is so cute idk why I cried so much 😭❤️ makes me miss someone I haven’t even met

This is mainly me gushing about my partner: My language is words of affirmation and so is my partner's, and luckily we're both good at communicating how we feel and comforting each other I was upset earlier and they validated my emotions and did their best to help. And just them giving me that validation and words of love made me want to cry I love them so much they're just so sweet

The love of my life prefers touch and I'm a quality time kinda gal so they work together really well! I get my quality time and he gets all of the handholding and physical touches he needs :)

Psych to go is always so informative. Such a great resource.

There is a lot of truth to the love languages and how different we all are

You guys don't know how many people ur actually helping out here 😩😭😍

That's exactly the video I needed thank you !

Has anyone ever told you how soothing your voice is? Because for me it's wonderful🥺💕

Mine's are quality time and words of affirmation. i didn't realise words of affirmation was a love language of mine as I never liked compliments, was always awkward about it, and only recently learnt to accept compliment as a way to avoid making situations awkward. But I notice I give other people compliments all the time, and I'm always saying positive reassuring things to other people to make them feel seen and validated. I think that's the part of affirmations that resonate with me, needing that reassurance that everything is okay and well.

Cant wait to watch!❤🤗love you psych2go!!

My SO likes physical touch, and though I am horrible at it (my love language is acts of service), I do my utmost to try and remember that’s what they like!

She’s quality time, so I try to spend as much time with her as I can :) and I’m physical touch!

in a relationship you must have everything

Definitely physical touch and quality time... Thanks for this. X

For myself, I know that how I express my love to someone is different than how I receive it. For example, I really appreciate an act of service as a way of someone showing their love for me. However, I value giving gifts as my way of showing someone that I love them.

My husbands’ is gifts, and acts of service. Mine are physical touch, words of affirmation and quality time 💕

This animation is so adorable ☺

For me it’s giving gifts, words of affirmation, quality time and physical touch but receiving wise I love all of them

When you're in public so you have to watch the video without sound Subtitles: *hEy $60*

@albaperez8614

3 жыл бұрын

😩😭😂😂😂

that keep a running list for gifts advice is so great and true lol it’s my love language and i have a mental and amazon list of gifts for all my favorite people

Awwww thanks a lot never give up you are amazing 🥺💕💕

For me I think quality time followed closely by physical touch are my preferred signs of affection in love, words of affirmation, acts of service & gifts are also nice. I think I'm good at spending quality time & doing acts of service but the rest is hard for me to express because sometimes I have a hard time wondering what kind of gifts others would like & I also know some people don't like to be touched which makes it difficult to know if they would like it or not.

Wow, I really recognized my own ways of loving in this video ❤️ thank you! 👍🏻

Needed this! Thanks

I bought my crush a gift today after I saw her looking at it in the store. Really hope it's the right one

@moirapledger9153

Жыл бұрын

It was in fact, the right one

@pardonmyreach

3 ай бұрын

I'm a year late, but yaay!!

All of your videos are so helpful, thank you so, so, SO much for this. I don’t even think words explain how grateful I am for you.

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you find them helpful! Thanks for leaving such as nice comment!

@maceygrace4751

4 жыл бұрын

Psych2Go thank you for replying! It’s honestly just telling the truth. :)

You know ur having a good day when ur fav channel just uploaded a vid about fun facts in a love story you don't have :)

I love all of these ways to show love ❤ super looking forward to Valentine’s Day because we’ll be including all 5 in our celebration! But I think my girlfriend especially likes acts of service because she always gets so excited to cook things for me :)

My boyfriend is physical touch and giving gifts. I'm all about words and acts of service ❤️

As a poet and a writer myself I love words for that reason. So...

Hey psych2go! Im SO SINGLE but I still love all of your vids about love💜 Makes me feel less lonely😁

My partner and I are lucky because our love language preferences align pretty well. My major love language is touch, and his are touch and quality time. I do have a tendency to flip flop between each love language in terms of what I perform, though he and I both dont put much stock in gift-giving.

I think physical touch is my love language, because when I was crying once my friend held me and stroked my head and it made me feal safe. I love hugs but I don't get the chance very often.

I want to use all of these lol, I don't care which one(s) I get back- I love making presents for people, I'm a total hugger, I love complimenting people, I love spending time with people, and taking care of people!

Receiving gift and act of service is at the end of my list. Edit:spelling

This video is so wholesome and loving 🥰

You know mine is spending quality time with the person I love. That's you, Ryan. I know you're afraid. This is a huge step for both of us. You're afraid I'll lose interest or enthusiasm suddenly, because my actions have been either intensely there or seemingly nonexistent. That must be scary for the level of commitment we're undertaking. I want you to know that I don't do this up/down interest thing in real life. When I commit to anything I'm 100% cheerfully in. My seeming lack of enthusiasm today is simply being tired of creating plans with no resulting forward movement. Being stalled and balked over two years has created some mental conditioning that I need to fight. Like occasional hopeless feelings. I love you, Ryan. Don't worry. Normally, I'm both consistent and look forward intensely to our future as entrepreneurs. Hang in there until we can meet.

I don't currently have a partner, but I know that I prefer to be shown love by gifts and words of affirmation. I prefer to show love by acts of service.

We want to have ALL the love languages towards my husband! ❤️❤️❤️

Mine are words and touch, his are acts of service and time, it's quite hard to make it work because in daily life we sometimes forget that we should show our love in different style... I want to hug him all the time when he needs me to go for a walk with our dog, he wants to go out together but when we leave the house he forgets to say that I look nice etc. But I hope that we will both try and work on it!