I think part of my issues stem from years of being cut off and interrupted. I learned to speak fast and try to convey my thought as quickly as possible before someone cut me off.

@thebush6379

2 жыл бұрын

Oh wow, you made me realize why I'm also bad at talking. I also talk in a more louder voice that it hurts to speak.

@emiolaboluwatife2974

Жыл бұрын

This here has everything on my mind!! Even after speaking so fast, I get to stutter on my words

@rebeccamawby4807

Жыл бұрын

I recently realized my family is made up of 2 kinds of people: the listeners and the talkers. My sister and I are listeners. When we do speak up, the talkers get bored quickly so we feel the need to always cut our stories short to get our 2 cents out there as quickly as possible. This has spread to all aspects of our lives. I’ve noticed it in my work, as I’ve tried expanding my stories to add detail, I notice people actually want to listen, so I get anxious and start stumbling on my words.

@nickeni3050

Жыл бұрын

This is so true, I grew up with a few really toxic friends who always pretended like they didn't hear me when I talked normal so I'd end up trying to be louder or they'd cut me off everytime so I started talking faster or they'd just simply brush me off like anything I said was not worth listening to. As I grew older I ended up having to deal with speech problems, I lost my original talking pace, I also lost words alot coz of aphasia which just made things 5x worse

@Spring_of_Smiles

Жыл бұрын

I usually feel like I'm pressured to speak when talking with someone.

Tip #5(Empower) is I think the major key. you're speaking to engage to them rather than trying to make your self look impressive and then you end up stumbling your words (maybe you put pressure on yourself?). Because when you truly engage to them that's when you can show your intention and everything becomes natural.

@DrGraceLee

3 жыл бұрын

You got it! Speak to impact, not to impress. :) Glad to have you here in this space!

@Arby-he1nc

11 ай бұрын

Dude, you just solved my problems, thank you dude.

What a sophisticated lady! She's like the auntie we all need. 😄

5 tips to speak clearly: - Discover your pace - Exercise your tongue - Listen - Vocalize - Empower

@DrGraceLee

3 жыл бұрын

Excellent summary once again! Thank you for helping the viewers

@coravirtudazo1212

2 жыл бұрын

Very helpful video ...thank you so much Dr. Grace Lee

Thank you so much Dr Grace. Really love watching and listening to you. I learn a lot from your videos.

This is amazing! Thank you for sharing these gems with us🙏

This is great, thank you! I tend to not speak up and shy away in meetings.

WHat a joy to just listen to you!! Yes Listen to enrol and empower people is truly a great tip!!!

Thank you a million! Really helpful. I often stumble on words and lack enunciation, and honestly speaking, it's embarrassing and discomforting. But will take on board these tips and put it to practice. Once again, thank you!

Thank you Dr. Grace Lee for this content. I learned a lot. ❤

Really helpful video, and I love how it's personalized...each person needs to find their OWN natural pace. I can't wait to hear the rest of the tips...

This is for me.i talk very slowly. I never knew I could talk on KZread, how much more teaching someone. I get better by the day.

@randyspeakz4030

2 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. Over tend to be over critical but over time I get a bit more care free. I think that helps too.

I'm starting my channel back up after deleting a bunch of videos and I tried recording for about an hour today and I just couldn't speak properly or articulate what I was trying to say. I found the "slow down" part to probably be true for me because I speak super fast. I also liked the last tip which really made me think about my approach. Thanks!

I’m so glad I found this channel. I relate a lot with Dr. Grace because English is not our first language, however she communicates even better than native speakers.

What a great video. It was a huge light bulb moment right from the discover point. I’m a visual learner. I teach groups for a living and I’m now doing my own video tutorials, but as I’m working with horses and training them in front of people I have to set a plan in general what I’m going to attempt but it then depends on the animal. So my speaking comes out naturally. Thing is I’m so passionate that I think either I’m talking too fast (faster than my pace) or I can’t find words and I end up dumping word on top of word until I feel maybe I’m understood. Articulate was a video in your links which helped me a lot. As you say I’m not looking for big words just words that help explain my situation clearly

Very impressive, thank you so much for sharing your knowledge. Honestly I have to watch this twice to fully understand you Ma’am, because English is my second language. thank you and GOD bless you.

learning everyday from you. i am making a point to learn from your youtube every weekend, taking notes etc. thank you for the wonderful content.

Thanks so much Dr. Lee for your mentorship, am very much inspired. Many are times I encountered challenges in my speech but with this I feel blessed

@DrGraceLee

2 жыл бұрын

You are very welcome! Be blessed and grateful as I am to have you here on my channel.

Thank you so much Dr.Lee! These are great tips and I can already see improvements in my speech.

I’ll say your speech rate is fast!….yet it was extremely clear! We could hear/understand every word.

This would be my first time of commenting on KZread. Just a few minutes into the video and I sound better. Thanks for the insights.

Love your methodology to explain how we become an speakers confident and how we can use all the tool for speaking in front of.

Very helpful tips! Thank you! 😊🌻

This video helps me with my vocal training for my meetings/ productions! Thank you🙏🏾🕊️

Excellent! Wish I could like this video several times more. Great job Ma'am.

@DrGraceLee

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you! I'm glad you liked it!

You are amazing Dr Lee...

Excellent Dr. Lee, I needed this.

I'm encouraged, thanks Mama

So useful and educational. Many thanks

Good morning, I am listening you for the first time. I appreciate your energy level to say meaningful to your listeners. Thank you.

@DrGraceLee

2 жыл бұрын

Glad to have you here, Lanin! Thank you for the thoughtful comment.

Thanks Dr. Lee it helps me a lot💖

Love this, thank you!👍👏

Excellent tips.. especially the 5th one.. thank you🙏🏻

Just what I needed now! Thanks!

Thanks for the video, I really appreciate your insight and tips! There actually hasn't been any evidence showing we're one type of learner - we learn in all three ways, just depends on what we're learning! Not directly related to the main content, but since you mentioned it, just thought it'd be fun to share.

These tips definitely work… you speak fast 💨 but clearly

Wow! that was so helpful.thanks alot and keep up the good job 🙏

Actually you’re helpful person who knows a lot of things that needs to be known👏🏻 Thanks lol

@DrGraceLee

3 жыл бұрын

I'm happy to help, and I'm glad to hear that my content was helpful to you!

@mohammedali-fb3bn

2 жыл бұрын

@@DrGraceLee umm, I have a question. Are you a doctor?

Thanks. I was already getting anxious about it. Thanks for the tips mum

Hi Dr grace.im about to start my KZread channel and these teachings are really important to me and I'm grateful to be part of your subscribers 🤝❤

@DrGraceLee

3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful! I'm grateful to have you here. If you're staring your KZread channel, be sure to check out my video playlist on "KZread channel growth secrets" as well as the free resources I have available to help you.

@MindYourImage

3 жыл бұрын

Did you start?

@zanelemalandule6029

3 жыл бұрын

@@MindYourImage yes I have short a few but I havent posted yet as I'm doubting the quality of it.

@MindYourImage

3 жыл бұрын

@@zanelemalandule6029 alright Dr. I'll be here when they are ready. Thank you

Glad I found this channel.

@DrGraceLee

3 жыл бұрын

Glad we found each other

YOu help a lot. THanks Dr Grace.

👍Enjoy your presentation Dr.

Amazing advise, thank you ma’am

I needed this in my life.. Thankyou

This video was very beneficial thank you

Dr. Grace new subscriber here. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

Thank you for the video and excited to learn more

@DrGraceLee

3 жыл бұрын

You bet! More to come

Very professional!!!

Best advice I got ,appreciate it 🙏

I 'm glad i discovered your channel

What if having a natural fast speaking pace is rewarded/praised by society compared to the naturally slower pace? For example, people think you are smart and have a quick mind, if you speak fast. I recently struggled a lot in my interviews as a naturally slow/soft speaker... Would really appreciate some more suggestions/tips on it!

@zettcompact8586

Жыл бұрын

There are two ways: 1 you look for the job where your speech speed is of little concern. 2) You train yourself to speak faster. No, it doesn't mean you have to start speaking as a bullet train, but increasing your speed 10 -15 % will make the difference. And remeber there are ppl who appreciate slow speakers, it gives an impression of a thoughtful person.

@eliaol4231

Жыл бұрын

@@zettcompact8586 is it better to speak fast or slow then ?

@princetchalla2441

Жыл бұрын

@@eliaol4231 You would have to tailor it to your audience. You don’t want to speak too slowly in a debate since your opposing party may try to fill in your spacing and attempt to talk over your points by throwing their ideas or retorts in every time you take a pause. If you’re speaking with your boss you need them to understand you so brevity is important, but so is a decent speaking speed. Talking too quickly may result in them missing vital info and making bad judgement calls. Instructing others may require a slower speech pattern so the class can ask you to define certain terminology as they come across those terms, or to allow the new information to be written down and absorbed.

@daveroll6463

Жыл бұрын

@@eliaol4231 usually, speaking faster is considered more charismatic, as it gives the impression that youre thinking fast, too, and hence smarter

@eliaol4231

Жыл бұрын

@@daveroll6463 what does speaking slowly signify then ?

Very helpful!

Thank you sooooooo much you are the best your word really helped me thank you

Thank you

I never realized how my tongue moved when making certain sounds thanks for making me conscious of it. One trick I was taught a long time ago was to smile while you talked this helped make enunciation easier and more clear for me.

@scheinweltco

3 жыл бұрын

That's a good trick!

@DrGraceLee

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing! I like the idea of smiling :)

@jenniferibudeh5901

3 жыл бұрын

@@DrGraceLeegood one. I have learnt.

Very helpful, good video.

I found this to be beneficial! More videos on this topic.

@arthurso3073

3 жыл бұрын

Arthur so

@arthurso3073

3 жыл бұрын

You are the best. I really enjoy your teaching. Thank you.

Lovely lesson

Great video and good to learn from it

Thank you for this video. I can feel I have progressing.

@DrGraceLee

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad to hear that, Mario!

Thank you for this Doc. I will have Aphasia that I can be going for my exercises. God bless you.

I'm glad that I've discovered your KZread channel

@DrGraceLee

Жыл бұрын

It's a pleasure to have you here, Minah. Welcome!

Excellent

I loved this video......funny, when she said communication...them added piece quickly after, for a second, I thought she was saying bye..lol

I suffered this as a kid and to this day I find it annoying. I will work on it and improve my social skills as well

Very helpful. Thanks

@DrGraceLee

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

you are fantastic!

Excellent thanks. any tips for sounding natural when reading a script?

Amazing video

I'm glad I discovered your chanel

@DrGraceLee

3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad to have you here!

Thank you 😊

Thanks a lot ma'am.

Thanks 😢💚💚💚

Love respect n thanks from India

Thanks a million

Nice video, thank you Mam.

I have found my pace! When I Talk clearly! I have to pause to give me time to think how to speak clearly!

Great video.

Thankyou

So good, love the video

@DrGraceLee

Жыл бұрын

Glad you loved it! Happy new year, Kimberly!

Thanks a lot, I appreciate this lesson

These videos are very helpful for me! 😩 I struggle with this in my spearhead impediment

@DrGraceLee

Жыл бұрын

Speaking clearly without stumbling on words can be challenging for many people. It can affect your confidence and your communication. I’m glad you find these videos helpful for you!

Great tips!

@DrGraceLee

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

@naveenkrishnan6381

3 жыл бұрын

@@DrGraceLee I am able to see the outcome in my office meetings. Thank you Dr.

Awesome 👌👌👍👍🙏🙏

2:57 Funniest thing ive seen all day. 😂😂😂😂😂 Thanks for the awesome lesson.

Wonderful and powerful presentation.......I like.

@jacksonsangea7139

Жыл бұрын

I like it.

@DrGraceLee

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Jackson.

great vedio

thank you doctor

@DrGraceLee

Жыл бұрын

You're wlecome!

Thank you 🥺

@DrGraceLee

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome, Lettie!

ههههههههههههههه I like the tongue clips of the giraffe and dogs

Pacing is key especially when having calls all day

Very helpful 👌

@DrGraceLee

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your feedback, Anoria. Welcome to my channel!

I thought until now only i had the probelm of talking in public, but seeing sooo many people on the same road as me, makes it looks soo much more normall😊

2:52 funniest part of this vedio😂❤

💙💙💙thankyou

Amazing i have problem with th, r. The word think., and the letter S

Do you have videos on how to pick the right word choice for what your describing?

I lover her 👏🏽

@DrGraceLee

Жыл бұрын

Love you, too! Glad to have you here on my channel.

Omg I love you