when i was 20 the doctors told me i'd be dead by 30. When I reached 39, i finally stopped waiting to die, got married, got pregnant, got brave, got confident, got to 73!

@kalasrikumar8331

Жыл бұрын

God bless you 🙏

@janwilson7961

Жыл бұрын

Oh am very sorry about that my dear friend I will appreciate us been good friends with trust and understand what do you think??

@redneckgirl3326

Жыл бұрын

When my mom had her fourth child, the doctor told her that she wouldn't live to see her raised. Ten years later, I surprised her and Dad. She died when I was in my 30s.

@harmony3395

Жыл бұрын

They should be struck off for that. No doctor worth his salt should ever tell someone they are going to die!

@johnhricko8212

Жыл бұрын

You GOT it!

1. Stop being a people pleaser 2. Don’t stay in the past 3. Stop putting yourself down, accept who you are and love yourself 4. Stop fearing change 5. Get control of your brain; stop overthinking

@CJ-jq4lv

10 ай бұрын

Thanks😃

@caroljohnsonvaughn6793

7 ай бұрын

Yes, Thanks 😎

@siobhanmcneenan3253

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for condensing the points

@bevanbuckwheatshea5520

11 күн бұрын

Keep up with exercise like walking and swimming and hiking.

I am 65 and in the process of having my very abusive son in law, daughter and grand kids move out of my tiny apartment..

@jillpeacock4540

3 жыл бұрын

God Bless You!!!! You are so wonderful.

@barbarasutton9683

3 жыл бұрын

@@harveyjames6357 no one should have to endure abuse of any kind, even at the hands of family, for the sake of family!

@sylviasmiths4909

3 жыл бұрын

@@barbarasutton9683 Amen

@sunnydaze2359

3 жыл бұрын

@@harveyjames6357 Family is not everything. We don’t get to choose our family like we do our friends, so if your family is toxic you need to get away from them before it affects you mentally .

@noorgonzalez1076

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssss u go girl U go girl🎉🕊🙏🏽🙇🏻‍♀️👸🏻

I took control of my life when I realized that women never get to retire! My partner and I would work all day in the yard on a project both of us pooped, only difference is when we went in he sat down on the couch with his I pad while I was expected to prepare dinner! His excuse for not helping was that he didn’t know how..well last year I decided to adopt keto and intermittent fasting and I let him know he needed to cook for himself as I was now eating at different times…when he grumbled I simply said ‘I need to do this for me and a 71 year old man does not need a mother’. He had to adapt, if I cook something for both of us he is grateful but no longer expects me to … I’m sick of cooking and preparing meals, especially trying to,think of things to make..I can live on salad..a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders..I’m no longer resentful!

@justsayin991

2 жыл бұрын

GOOD JOB!!

@cherylcarpenter4698

2 жыл бұрын

I used to resent cooking all the time as well. I lost my husband of 27 years when I was 53. I'm 66 now single and even tho it was an adjustment for awhile I'm now loving being in control of my life

@ironmike7339

2 жыл бұрын

Wow , if I was your man I’d tell you to hit the road jack and don’t look back. Why do you think we trade people like you for a better and newer model. See who wants you at 71 now ? No one finish out your journey lonely ! Good grief!

@laurelaltman6138

Жыл бұрын

It would have been different if you hadnt waited till he was 71 to hold him responsible for his meals. Why did you wait so long?

@lindadevuyst9311

Жыл бұрын

@@laurelaltman6138 because we’ve only been together 5 years

I’m 81 next month stay positive and who cares what people say, I’m happy with myself and have been for several years now. Don’t let family blame you for what they are responsible for.

@bidziilalex146

2 жыл бұрын

Hi

@sallydejesus9055

2 жыл бұрын

I 'M VERY MUCH ENLIGTHENED .THANKS A LOT FOR THE ADVICES.

@doeidaho2101

2 жыл бұрын

I am the same age as you. It is a great age. Even though there is longevity in my family, I never thought that I would live this long. I have done & gone everywhere I wanted to go & do. Marvelos

@charlottehayward5943

Жыл бұрын

I'm 79 and you are so ✅️

@hilo5901

Жыл бұрын

Thas right! Mine bombarded me with their expectations and criticism for too many years!!! Finally grew up. 🎉

I will be 80 years old next year! I have decided to just focus on creating a happy and glorious life for me. I have done what i could for humanity. Now it’s “me time.” With God by my side, i will be living a fulfilling life. Thank you, God.

@ARoss-fu8yj

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for that!, me too!!

@jillpeacock4540

3 жыл бұрын

Hallelujah. !God Bless You!!!

@sydneyknutsen2492

3 жыл бұрын

Good for u! God will guide u to wherever u need to b.

@margaretsison8256

3 жыл бұрын

Great u are Beth Mercado! GOD BLESS U

@TheSeattleWa

3 жыл бұрын

My Friend age 72 after Years of Nursing, retired last Year, said: I Am Now Finding Myself!!

I just turned 66 and will be a bride for the first time to a man that I've known for 42 years. After caring for other people and family members, I quit my job and sold my house and walked away at the age of 59. I have no regrets. My friend and I began dating and now we realized our love for each other. He takes care of me ,waits on me and treats me like a queen. And I take care of him. He still tells me that I have beautiful eyes and a nice butt. Life could not be better.

@sixtyandme

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your story Maureen. Very inspirational!

@marlyr2651

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Maureen!! How beautiful your story is!! Enjoy the present time of your life with your fiancé!! Both of you deserve it!! I wish you both lots of happiness!!! 😀

@justinamusyoka4986

2 жыл бұрын

Hope you are enjoying your best moments on your terms and preferences.

@MaryChibwana

2 жыл бұрын

Gosh!!! You are very lucky!!! Marriage is such a wonderful moment at your age. Congratulations.

@deidremulroe2461

Жыл бұрын

Maureen wishing your future years be Happy and blessed Such a lovely story. (Like a movie 🤗). I was married at 19 for 7 yrs. Got Divorced from an Abusive man. Now almost 63 in Oct. And would like to still think my Prince Charming is still out there. Your story proves you never know!! 🇬🇧🌹

I have found that nothing has built my confidence as much as losing weight, getting to normal BMI, and eating healthily. Knowing you look good makes you feel good.

@derrickforg2164

2 жыл бұрын

Yes definitely I agree with you, and I hope you're keeping up to that ?

@rebeccarendle3706

2 жыл бұрын

So agree.. I am the heaviest I have ever been due to single working mum going through year 5 of a bad divorce.. I am determined this year the divorce Will be finalized and I can finally use the energy to focus on me and my health

@ishakshamsudin5640

2 жыл бұрын

Look after yourself healthwise so that life can go beyond 90 without depending on anybody.

@kimyoung3484

2 жыл бұрын

Yes 👍👍👍👍👍😁😁😁😁

@yehuditpoloway6278

2 жыл бұрын

@@rebeccarendle3706 starts you morning with one squeezed lemon into hot glass of water with ginger root 3small slices drink it on an empty stomach. Do it forever religiously. It will take a month or two depending on your metabolism. You will see transformations. Also take supplements, vitamins C for energy, and B complex to reduce stress. Omega 3 . This is to start with, the rest will follow. Good luck

"If you don't leave your past in the past, it will destroy your future. Live for what today has to offer not for what yesterday has taken away." unknown

@joecross4940

3 жыл бұрын

Hello 👋 Becky

@katesam-ngbor6341

3 жыл бұрын

You are very right

@joecross4940

3 жыл бұрын

Hello 👋 Becky how are you doing

@michaelsix9684

3 жыл бұрын

Burn the past daily.

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

Hi 👋

I am a 65year old widow, and I still teach. I am in my 42nd year. Why, have I not retired, my husband and I were planning to build our dream house, but he died of a massive heart attack. I knew I wanted to build our house, and did that summer. I love teaching and working with elementary children. My interactions with my students give me reason to get out of bed, while my salary pays my house off! My point is, that not all 60 year olds are retired!

@douglasmarcos2970

Жыл бұрын

Hello Marion, how are you doing?

@linebrunelle1004

Жыл бұрын

hello boys!

@GrahamBolt-kv4zi

Жыл бұрын

Hello I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity, love ❤and peace all over the world🌏. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Engineer Graham Bolt from Nashville Tennessee, where are you from?

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

I’m 63, I grew up 3 years ago!! I’ve learned to say NO! I wasted so many years trying to be what others wanted. I let a spouse of 40 yrs and his whole family go because I needed my life back. I’ve learned I can do this and I’ve found who I am😘

@kerra3699

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you. No is very powerful and I also let a spouse and family go. I live in peace now, happy to be myself. Life is a gift we to easily give to others, not ourselves.

@deliajones9541

2 жыл бұрын

Me too! Bout time I'm free!

@charityadaku7356

2 жыл бұрын

Can I get help from you, I will like to fellow your foot steps to live longer my name is charity

@kayedrake3228

2 жыл бұрын

I wish my husband was still here with me. I lost him last July. He loved me for me.....

@Laura55sere

2 жыл бұрын

At the age of 70+ I’ve stopped being a ‘people pleaser’, it took me a very long time to realise that all the time and energy I spent helping others when they would hesitate to help me even though I rarely needed it. Also I stopped dyeing my hair, and I still feel ok with it.

I am 80 and no longer have to take care of anyone else.

@charlenebrownlow4677

3 жыл бұрын

PTL Jude…Congratulations; enjoy 💯!

@joyceconnolly1065

2 жыл бұрын

Jude . . . I will turn 80 in five months. Congratulations on your beautiful life!

I am 62, now I just want to be myself and enjoy the rest of my life.

@paulachin9130

3 жыл бұрын

Definitely agree.

@sl2608

3 жыл бұрын

I hear ya!

@joyg7575

2 ай бұрын

Same here

I think we should not let our selves be vulnerable to people that do not appreciate our worth🤔

@gloriajohansen9728

3 жыл бұрын

Best advice in this whole video. ❤️

@llchase326

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree!

@elsiegrace8776

2 жыл бұрын

Only Trust God in everything

@jameshurst5378

2 жыл бұрын

Hello 👋

@rochellemorgan4385

Жыл бұрын

Amen Sister!! Thank you for posting this comment!!

I just survived endometrial cancer and I find I now have no tolerance for bullshit. My youngest daughter (32) who I am still supporting didn't bother to call me for two weeks after my surgery until I reached out to her. How hurtful and disappointed I was and realized that the thousands of dollars I have spent on her in the last 32 years were a waste.

@bidziilalex146

2 жыл бұрын

Hi 👋

@holsen8269

2 жыл бұрын

A tough realisation but don’t regret helping your daughter, if she chose to waste your support that is on her. Don’t make it about the money. None of us set out to do the wrong thing. Sending you blessings for your ongoing healing.

@lishamartinez1946

2 жыл бұрын

Stop supporting her( she sounds like a brat that needs some tough love). I’m so sorry she didn’t support you when you needed and DESERVED it. My mother is going through cancer and I feel it’s my duty(and I am happy to do it) to be there for her any way I can. Hope you daughter comes to her senses. Best wishes for you❤️🙏🏼

@sallymorgan5357

Жыл бұрын

It's never too late, dump her!

@victoriajarvis2260

Жыл бұрын

Was walking out of a store with my cart and got hit in the speed zone by a car. Husband never came to the hospital. I lay there surrounded by a crowd of people and heard someone call him and say "Your wife has been hit by a car and they are taking her to the hospital in an ambulance." We lived two blocks from the hospital. He never showed up nor called. Forty years of marriage and "I love you sweetheart's." and he never came. Think about it. He took an action. He knew and made the decision not to come to me. Someone in the blog here says """None of us set out to do the wrong thing." Huh? Many, many set out to do exactly that. Your daughter did you a painful favor.

I just 67 and decided to go for my driver’s liscence. Passed my learners and hazard perception test and now waiting for test drive appointment! The thought of just knowing I can do it! It’s never too late😍😘🥰

@timothywise6646

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Melinda

@timothywise6646

2 жыл бұрын

How are you doing today Melinda?

@barbaraalden6013

2 жыл бұрын

Yahooo!! YOU CAN DO IT!!❤

@justsayin991

2 жыл бұрын

That's terrific!!🚐🚗🛻 BEEP BEEP!

@judyg2197

2 жыл бұрын

Fantastic, you can do it 👍🌻

Stop thinking you have to disappear and life is only for the young.

@janebalmont7138

3 жыл бұрын

Love this one☺☺

@sandraray8523

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, Amen!

@tneal1670

3 жыл бұрын

Not easy when after 40 women become invisible.

@Mary-ht7pm

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!!!!!

@cathyjohnston240

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

Stay away from toxic conversation / people as well 💜

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

Hey ☺️

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

@@gloriayouchisonbrown7734 how are you doing

@T.T.M.60

3 жыл бұрын

Agree!

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

@@T.T.M.60 how are you doing today

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

How are you doing today

This is the year I let my kids go so they can live their own lives and I can live mine. They are well, established in their own lives and are happy. What more could a mom want? So it's time to remove my thinking and my concerns away from them and on to myself. What an amazing shift!! I'm 61 and really enjoying these years! :)

@irenerosario8461

2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@jessicaharvey7446

2 жыл бұрын

Just beginning this adventure as well. I can't believe how freeing it is to start caring for me......Its not selfish ....as I was always told....I am worth it...wow

@dr.chung4832

Жыл бұрын

Hello, how are you doing today, nice meeting you 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

@fionagregory9147

Жыл бұрын

I am 61 too.

@lindabroussard1402

Жыл бұрын

Enjoyed your talks. You smile is so pretty. I am 75. Trying to find a new life. But everyone of my friends have changed. Have a good night. From Baytown, Texas

Stop putting my life on hold. Stop second guessing myself. Stop being lazy. Stop living in fear off anything. Stop letting other people's opinions paralyze me. Stop letting my Self Worth be dictated by others.

@gensimonster5274

2 жыл бұрын

I like being lazy- it's my special talent!

@Jfwqs7212

2 жыл бұрын

Amen, live your life on your terms.

@thatswhatisaid8908

2 жыл бұрын

Be lazy if you feel like it. Maybe just not every day.

@AnnabelleJARankin

2 жыл бұрын

Have never done any of those things before 60 - sounds like a list of teenage angst!

I think when I hit 60 that I finally realized I don’t have to do anything I don’t want to do. That moment came when I was invited out with some coworkers after work. I said no, didn’t really want to. I was tired and just wanted to go home. A bunch of them said, but you have to come. At that point, I said, no, you are mistaken. I don’t have to do anything I don’t want to. I have to tell you, that was very freeing. Before I would have bent to pressure. Not anymore. I also let go of toxic people in my life. Life s too short.

@Saucyakld

3 жыл бұрын

Good on you, so did I! Sick of being taken advantage of and used. Ever since my purse is closed a lot of so called friends have not been seen. Now when the ones that are left invite me for coffee out I pay my own.

@juliecopelandbarrows2971

3 жыл бұрын

This is me now too☺

@christinebeames2311

3 жыл бұрын

Yes me too , 76 now and doing what I want not what people think I should ,

@carableu

3 жыл бұрын

Love this!

@peachmelba9333

3 жыл бұрын

Fool me once ; shame on You; fool me twice; shame on ME. No Longer a Soggy Doormat.

Stop fearing being alone!

@ilaisaanewest7313

3 жыл бұрын

At anytime of a women's life

@bestversion1687

3 жыл бұрын

Loving this Journey with me myself n I

@cherihill2003

3 жыл бұрын

I love being alone! I'm so much happier without people being in my life!! I had to put up with them when I was working, but once I retired I got everybody out of my life. Bliss!!!

@moniquefleming3738

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 63, deciding to move cross country to retire, away from all family, alone. I found myself getting scared at the thought of moving alone. I finally told myself, "What are you afraid of? You've traveled the world, moved to unknown places at least 20 times with child in tow, and you adapted and flourished. Lol" l seemed to forget that I've lived on my own pretty much my whole life. On to my next journey!

@angeelee9277

3 жыл бұрын

@@moniquefleming3738 Joshua 1:9

Stop living in the past. Stop with the regrets! Thank you for that reminder, we need it often.🌈🌈

@bidziilalex146

2 жыл бұрын

Hi 👋

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

Thank you very much! In summary: (1) stop being a people-pleaser (2) stop living in the past, defuse the emotion, don't keep holding on to the past (be in the moment) (3) stop putting yourself down, accept and love yourself (4) stop fearing change (in your appearance, change around you in the world (5) gain control of your thinking; stop over thinking, worrying about what-if scenarios

@glenpao5647

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the summary

@sannibabukandala6933

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the gist given

@honeysucklejean5526

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@lauradawson7676

2 жыл бұрын

You saved me the time I would have spent listening to whole thing. Thanks for the nutshell.

@imeldamayer-taylor2783

Жыл бұрын

Love this .

I stop being with fake friends,users and took advantage of my kindness.

@ramonafeisley5409

4 жыл бұрын

Indeed! I am committed to me and my total health and after my husband died I noticed men come around that need nurses instead of wives. I am protecting my freedom from responsibilities I am in good health and take care of myself, always have I deserve this sweet freedom and will not squander this gift. Great website idea

@hozanajuste136

4 жыл бұрын

i am beginning to realize that I am often a black token friend for many.

@nancyburnet4311

4 жыл бұрын

@@hozanajuste136 Really? How can you tell? I am just asking to give us all an opportunity to evaluate deeply your relationship. I have friends of many races because I love them.

@mildredroldos9886

3 жыл бұрын

@@hozanajuste136 they probably just love you. Im puertorican and my best freind growing up was black. She matched my spirit better than anyone and our families were very close. I loved her dearly. I would have loved her if she were blue or purple.

@patriciaramos-rathmell9217

3 жыл бұрын

Stop being a ‘slave’ to your house or the upkeep of your house. ... I used to live in a 5 bedroom house. I used to like keeping things tidy, making sure every part of the house is dust free, mirrors smudge free & sparkling, windows cleaned, kitchen & pantry uncluttered, the garden well kept, bushes trimmed, the grass always freshly cut...... UNTIL I realized I wasn’t enjoying doing all that stuff anymore & feeling like I am a SLAVE to my house. Now that I am 63 and an empty nester & already back being single, I decided to sell the house, sell stuff that I don’t really need & downsized into a cozy 2 bedroom condo unit. Now, I am happier with myself & can travel freely without having to worry about my living space and no garden to maintain. I just lock up and leave and travel. I am out of the country at least 3 times a year except for this year due to the pandemic.

Stop putting off doing what you love. Stop taking for granted the simple, beautiful things that surround us daily.

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name I’m from Cleveland Ohio 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

I'll be 62 soon and one of the THE best boundaries and self-care practices I've incorporated in my life: Saying NO...period at the end - no further explanation necessary. No IS really a complete sentence.

@bidziilalex146

2 жыл бұрын

Hello

@jillsmith633

2 жыл бұрын

That was the hardest thing for me to learn. But once you say no the first tiune - it gets easier every time afterward. Now I have peace I longed for my entire life.

@gilly161957

2 жыл бұрын

Hi, This is one of the hardest words for me to say NO! Confucius says when you say NO to someone you are saying YES to yourself!

@morganfayal7523

2 жыл бұрын

Say NO!!!

@mjblue84

2 жыл бұрын

Amen to that!!!!

Stop worrying. Worrying is praying for what you don't want.❤🧘‍♀️🕊

@sarahkittelson622

3 жыл бұрын

Very powerful!! It is the law of attraction in action!

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarahkittelson622 how are you doing today I hope you are doing well there

@gregoryholstein3033

2 жыл бұрын

Cynthia Guy, hello, I’m a 55 years of age and I’m very happily married, my wife is 63, she is the only person I know that doesn’t waste her time worrying unnecessarily. She said to me years ago, “worrying causes wrinkles” and she was too vain to worry. It works coz she’s got a lovely unlined face. Cheers.

@Marys-Channel

2 жыл бұрын

That's a good one Cynthia. I'm not a worrier. But, I have a friend who does constantly. She's always focusing on what she does want...F.E.A.R. False Evidence Appearing Real. I'll pass this one on. Thanks 👍😎

@gregoryholstein3033

2 жыл бұрын

@@Marys-Channel Thank you. Cheers

I've stopped letting family and friends take advantage of me.

@debraspencer6544

4 жыл бұрын

@Leonardo Williams excuse me? Wow..

@creamcornsurprize6608

4 жыл бұрын

Me too. 🎅🍕🎁🌄

@nikkihoffman2891

4 жыл бұрын

Debra Spencer Amen to that one!

@bygrace24

4 жыл бұрын

Me too. Now I have my children and 1 friend. I'm happier that way.

@tinaforbes1059

4 жыл бұрын

What do you mean by taking advantage of you ? Are you a people pleaser or you voluntarily offered help ? I do none of the above. Always look after number ONE , ie yourself first .

I Love being single!! I was married for 22 years and have four grown kids and 15 grandkids. Have been divorced since ‘89 from first husband and briefly married for nine months!! Have been single since ‘93 and I Love it! No desire to have steady male companion! I love my life the way it is!! I do alot with my church senior group and my friends in my senior apartment building and my family!! I agree with all of these!! I am very content!! I am 73!!!

@scottsmith2613

4 жыл бұрын

Charlotte Reed I find you interesting 🤔. I’d like to know you better,

@GrahamBolt-kv4zi

Жыл бұрын

Hello I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity, love ❤and peace all over the world🌏. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Engineer Graham Bolt from Nashville Tennessee, where are you from?

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name I’m from Cleveland Ohio 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

Margaret, I love your channel, this one I think is one of the most powerful. I am 75, retired at 62 due to health, raised 4 children over a span of 50 years, and did not know how to slow down. I started volunteering, making charity quilts, crafts, etc, etc. Health issues started again. I sought counseling, and was told that I am exactly where God wants me to be. Then later a psychologist who told me to write a letter to my former self, it’s over 30 pages. Those are two of the most life changing things. I learned that it is okay to say NO, I am perfect just the way I am, and that my past challenges are over, they no longer control me. I’ve been able to forgive and move on. I also have found that I no longer dream about conflict and disappointment, I can actually sleep. The subjects you have researched and presented are so important to us women, I have enjoyed every one. I feel good about myself, improved my mental and physical well-being, and even updated my makeup. I look pretty….! I have girlfriends to socialize with, take time to do some art work and read. I love KZread and have just started listening to audio books with newly purchased earbuds. (My eyes are not as good as they used to be.) Thank you for all that you do.

@cindysim7476

Жыл бұрын

Hello Christopher, gudam. Why do you ask, do you need an additional friend today. I can be one. Let us try by conversing more.... Thank you. This s Cindy Sim, a Chinese from the Philippines.

@GrahamBolt-kv4zi

Жыл бұрын

Hello I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity, love ❤and peace all over the world🌏. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Engineer Graham Bolt from Nashville Tennessee, where are you from?

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

@@cindysim7476 Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

My hubby turned 60 a yr ago. He's slowed down a lot, so I'm thinking of trading him in on two 30 yr olds. It's always been my dream to have two men. One cooking, and one cleaning.

@sarahsmrdal7094

3 жыл бұрын

Which u the best. Doesn't seem a wise move.

@almasanches

3 жыл бұрын

😅😅😅

@carmettawiggins2397

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you

@krmccarrell

3 жыл бұрын

I share your dream as well, ha, ha!

@madhatter909

3 жыл бұрын

If I had two men they wouldn't be cooking or cleaning lmao

I think we should stop dreading getting older and start embracing what could be the most amazing time of our lives... X

@dianejennings50

3 жыл бұрын

I am 67 and I quit worrying about people who talk. I am sure that there families are no better

@barbaraperez8218

3 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed, the most beautiful time in ours life, I am over 60 years old, will turn 65 years old this December, I am very proud of my age, and I thanks God for each new day of my life.😊🎶

@mbryantjeff

3 жыл бұрын

@@barbaraperez8218 buy

@barbaraperez8218

3 жыл бұрын

@@fredricktaylor419 Good morning, I am doing very well thank you. How are you?, here temperatures very cold. Have a happy day, be safe.🎶

@barbaraperez8218

3 жыл бұрын

@@fredricktaylor419 , Thanks to you for asked me, I’m not good in technology, I do not like it, wasn’t easy for e be able to answered you, I really appreciate it.

I am 62 going on 63 . The only person I have to please is myself ! I told my son that at my age my mantra is “ I don’t give a f**k ! “ I don’t care what anyone thinks about me at all ! I wear what I want , do what I want . I’m not apologizing for anything! I give respect, I get respect ! End of story .

@bettyjones5994

3 жыл бұрын

LOVE THAT!

@qldr2305

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 62 in a month. After working since I was 16, I’m now retired. I dont bother with makeup, I dont bother washing and blow-waving my hair every day anymore. I dont care what people think! I dress for comfort now - no more heels and uncomfortable work clothes. It seems like yesterday I was that 20 something thin girl with not a lot of confidence and still worried what people thought. What us girls lose in looks as we age, we gain in self confidence, wisdom and not giving a flying f--k what others might say about us.

@spir5102

3 жыл бұрын

Love it! It seems like the more things I let go of, the more I smile. Like Aussie, I never wear uncomfortable clothes -- heels, tight clothing, panty hose, girdles, etc. I don't wear makeup anymore or spend hours fixing my hair. Before I do something, I ask myself, "Do I want to do this?" If the answer is no, I don't do it (yes, sometimes there are unpleasant chores, etc. we have to do but I try to accept that). Life is awesome!

@lindakelly3800

3 жыл бұрын

Well said Toni I feel the same way👍

@JJJettplane

3 жыл бұрын

amen!

I am 68 years young and what I would like people over 60 to stop doing is stop letting yourself go. Take better care of yourself with meditation/yoga, light weight training, some type of exercising. I take yoga/pilates 3 to 4 days a week. Jump on my rebounder almost everyday, along with walking my Poochon. We should take pride in our health and what we eat and love ourself and enjoy life!❤️

@GrahamBolt-kv4zi

Жыл бұрын

Hello I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity, love ❤and peace all over the world🌏. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Engineer Graham Bolt from Nashville Tennessee, where are you from?

@Alphacentauri819

Жыл бұрын

@@GrahamBolt-kv4zitop your pathetic scam attempts. Not only is that not your name, not your profession, not your picture...so if I had a mind to, I can ask law enforcement to pursue you. What suitable, healthy, potential partner, pursues multiple women...in the comments section in KZread? Also, why state your career and location? What's your point? Other than trying to bait others with an illusion? Many women on these sites know who they are, don't need a random man to approach them on social media...especially a con artist like yourself. Stop

I came home today crying, as i watched my grandson for 5 days so my son and husband can spend some time. My grandson was such a good boy. But i didn't feel appreciation from his parents, and my son told me it was my job to watch him! No thank you's here..... He also said it was mandatory to go to a family event for his son. Thank you to 60's and me. Everyone's comments here were so relatable. Yea, im done. adios. time for me:)

@bidziilalex146

2 жыл бұрын

Hello

@GG-qb3zj

2 жыл бұрын

@@bidziilalex146 aa

@bidziilalex146

2 жыл бұрын

@@GG-qb3zj how are you doing

@queencaroline5886

2 жыл бұрын

The young are ungrateful in this generation. What a shame.

@bidziilalex146

2 жыл бұрын

@@queencaroline5886 hi

Stop collecting things; downsize what we have accumulated over the years.

@robinbrl

3 жыл бұрын

Guilty again as charged. LOL.

@michaelakindley9644

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve been giving away jewelry to nieces and nephews and giving other things away too

@jojomarie7446

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes!

@oneitalia2312

3 жыл бұрын

!!!!!~BINGO~!!!!!

@timjohnson1199

3 жыл бұрын

I'm gonna get a dumpster.

Im 61 . I have stopped being bothered about being meticulous about the household chores. I m not worried wen people drop in and my house is not in perfect condition ! I used to be earlier!

@joyflavell7385

3 жыл бұрын

I was in my 40's when I ran across an old Erma Bombeck column where she said she had finally realized that the goddess of housekeeping or something to that effect wouldn't condemn her forever if someone stopped over and the house wasn't perfect. I'm paraphrasing. Not long after I found a wooden sign that said My house was clean last week. Sorry you missed it. I bought it and hung it up. It always seemed like if it was spotless no one came over but when it wasn't everyone came. It was liberating! And then I noticed no one else ever seemed to notice or care except maybe my mom lol. I don't mean it was a disaster but I quit worrying about it after that.

@Lilylou59

3 ай бұрын

Embrace the grey! I stopped colouring my hair as it was costing a lot and became a monthly expense I didn't need. Also don't judge other people! Life is different but not all bad

At age 70 I was diagnosed with life threatening cancer. Three years later, I am a new person. I am who I am, but I am also kinder, more loving, less anxious about anything and everything. Every morning I wake up I say Thank you, Lord. One more day to live, love, and enjoy.

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

@--Keiter

6 ай бұрын

​@@RaySteven-uf6ul😅

Your right all of you. It's freedom being oneself, and I REALLY agree with all suggestions made here. Age 75 in July, still on job as a museum guide and artist, divorced and happy single, 2 dogs, cosy garden and my 4 kids neither living too near nor too far away. Never felt better, embracing NOW and future. Hello from Northern Germany.

@Schlei602

2 жыл бұрын

@@Lucaangelo252 fine, thx

@ChristinaSmithCoins

2 жыл бұрын

To me, you're living the dream! I would love your life (including the Germany part. I loved Germany when I lived there for 1 1/2 years. Miss it)

@sfc5774

Жыл бұрын

Sounds really nice. I’m happy for you.

@deeprollingriver52

Жыл бұрын

Love it!

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

I realized that I had finally reached a point that I knew what I was and wasn’t willing to put up with anymore.

There's a wonderful quote on a sign at my workplace. "The past has no future, but you do"

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

Hello 😊

@janetjaken1389

3 жыл бұрын

The future is an idea, not a guarantee.

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

@@janetjaken1389 so if I may know where are you from??

@janetjaken1389

3 жыл бұрын

@@stephenmack7192 where are you?

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

@@janetjaken1389 well I'm from Detroit Michigan

Don't let anyone dictate your life. Enjoy it and be happy. I'm 60 and loving my life. People are often jealous of you when they see you happy!

@janeflora6420

2 жыл бұрын

Ha ha ha good

@GrahamBolt-kv4zi

Жыл бұрын

Hello I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity, love ❤and peace all over the world. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Engineer Graham Bolt from Nashville Tennessee, where are you from?

It took a lockdown for me to realise how stressful my life was trying to fit in with everyone else’s lifestyle, wants and needs. I enjoyed the isolation to do what I wanted to do. Some ‘friends’ have been lost along the way, but I have discovered new ones closer to home. Life moves on.

By that age we should definitely not listening to other people telling us what or what not to do.

@jillkent6134

4 жыл бұрын

Right on

@debbiescott9255

4 жыл бұрын

You would think that wouldn't you....but age doesn't have a grip on what we do or don't do....like God says..."bring a child up in the way they should go ( which is morally good) & when they get old they won't stray from it") all the talk in the world won't prove God wrong...

@nicholasmclaine4398

3 жыл бұрын

Hello friend, how are you?.

@joecross4940

3 жыл бұрын

Hello 👋 Jutta

@joecross4940

3 жыл бұрын

How are you doing

Dont ever marry for companion you may get more stress and have to be wishing you were still single

@jamesakerrigan8055

4 жыл бұрын

I disagree with you ma,m

@niatoolit

4 жыл бұрын

@@jamesakerrigan8055i. Am just saying be careful marry if your in love not just becsuse your lonely

@jamesakerrigan8055

4 жыл бұрын

I understand, but we equally know being lonely can be so so emotionally painful, especially when you use to have a companion😯. Sometimes we do it just to have someone to share our moments,our pains and our joys with. Sometimes we do it because we feel getting married to someone can help give some kind of motherly cover to our kid. Am speaking as a single daughter a little girl.

@niatoolit

4 жыл бұрын

@@jamesakerrigan8055 point taken

@JB-ue6pw

4 жыл бұрын

Very true .

Things Women Over Sixty Need To Stop Doing: Working Giving a Damn Trying To Hold In Your Stomach Looking In The Mirror

@capassoluigi7387

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah looking in the mirror is a living hell

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

@@capassoluigi7387 how are you

@madhatter909

3 жыл бұрын

I have to work, my Soc Sec isn't enough.

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

@@madhatter909 how are you doing today

@maguritegeist6231

3 жыл бұрын

Me Too 😆

I LOVE every comment on here! It's so uplifting to see all these women taking back their minds, their hearts, their valuable time and being free. I'm 62 and recently cut off my lifelong long hair into a very short styley pixie cut. No hair dye, just my natural grey and I love it! The change was a shock to everyone who'd always known me with long hair. Some approve but most don't. And you know what? I seriously don't give a rats arse. Am also saying ""NO"" when a yes answer was my natural default. Life is OK right now! 🤩😍🥳💋💖💜💙

@helenhighwater5313

2 жыл бұрын

Kind of sad to find out that most people identify us only by our choice of styles. I guess that means they haven't taken the time or made the effort to really know us as people.

@carolynperow6397

Жыл бұрын

good for you 👍

@patriciagibbs4191

Жыл бұрын

Good for you I am 72 still waiting for silver hair it is still dark blond with a few lighter streaks a have some wrinkles size 10 still but yes I am becoming invisable it is joyful ....if any woman has been half decent looking dont despair it is lovely to walk around and think yes I am old I dont mind I have been young and lovely and now definately not s o much ...who cares ...I will enjoy the latter years of my life perhaps even more than my younger years 😄

@carolray9156

Жыл бұрын

Big mistake with the hair thing!! I'm 75 my hair is very very long thick and brown I'd never chop off my hair and go gray that's the common Grannie look. Years ago when my kids were young they would ask me why all old women have short gray hair they asked me this many times and the y asked me not to do the GRANNY LOOK when I got that age and I never have and am I glad!!🤪

@sissyintexas7592

Жыл бұрын

YOU GO GIRL!!!❤

Ring the bells that still can ring Forget your perfect offering There is a crack in everything That’s how the light gets in. - Leonard Cohen

@nicholasmclaine4398

3 жыл бұрын

Hello dear friend, how are you?.

@peachmelba9333

3 жыл бұрын

Oh I 💘 hearing This!

@eileenoconnor2915

3 жыл бұрын

There will never be another Leonard...

@kathleenphillips6445

3 жыл бұрын

I saw him in 1968 or so when he was doing a poetry reading. He sang at the very end and I was confused. Funny he became more famous for his music than his poems.

@anneschantl8929

3 жыл бұрын

I love Leonard Cohen’s music and songs.

“ It’s your thang! Do what you want to do!!!!”

@saracruze2212

4 жыл бұрын

Lol yes indeed

@mildredroldos9886

3 жыл бұрын

OOWW!

@kathydonovan7960

3 жыл бұрын

I can't tell you who to sock it to. ✌🇺🇸

@elenaarman-tang7811

3 жыл бұрын

@@kathydonovan7960 yes 👍 🙌

@Mockduck2020

3 жыл бұрын

Great song!

A therapist told me more than 20 years ago that "NICE is a four-letter word." True that! I'm 65. I don't care what other people think of me. I've eliminated toxic influences. I no longer "chase" supposed friends. I do things that please me, and avoid - as much as reasonably possible - doing things that make me feel like less. I am my best, most supportive, most loving friend. I may hear what someone has to say, but I don't have to DO it. I'm old enough to make up my own mind, to do things my way, and to act cranky when I feel cranky. The cat doesn't object.

I’m not quite 60 yet, I’m 57 and want to learn this information now. I’m exhausted from dragging my past round with me, it’s like being on a constant bad vacation in a way. I want to regain vitality and happiness as much as possible. 😊

@GrahamBolt-kv4zi

Жыл бұрын

Hello I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity, love ❤and peace all over the world🌏. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Engineer Graham Bolt from Nashville Tennessee, where are you from?

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

Stop being a doormat after 50 + years. Now I'm learning to have a more normal life and be around nice NORMAL people!

@liamroberts9047

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Amy, How are you doing?

Stop wasting time hanging around people that don't love you back. Like they want a friend like you without being a friend to you. I'm sick of that. Moving on to only real loving friendships...and loving people in general.

@Florisotanc54

4 жыл бұрын

Your reply rang a bell with me: “..people that don’t love you back. Like they want a friend like you without being a friend to you.”

@marieowens6540

4 жыл бұрын

I've just decided that xxxx(65)

@janheard3826

4 жыл бұрын

Linda America Yes, like my brother. He only calls me when he wants something or when he feels he has no friends in which case he uses me to offload his woes and I don’t get so much as an “how are you”. Once his social life picks up again I don’t hear from him for months or even years. Mind you if I won the lottery I think he’d suddenly become VERY interested in my welfare.

@lindaamerica4587

4 жыл бұрын

@@janheard3826 oh God! NEVER tell him you won the lottery! LOL you sound like a caring person and sibling. If you decide to help, say it came from an outside charity that helps poor selfish narcissistic brothers. LOL. I know these things. Sadly, my brother doesn't know my income nor my address. He only gets my p.o . box. ..

@janheard3826

4 жыл бұрын

Linda America Ha ha your reply made me smile. I’ll be sure to tell him about that charity if (and when!) I win that lottery. 😉 Sounds like your brother might be a bit like mine. My brother asked to ‘borrow’ money a couple of times swearing he would pay it back by so and so but apparently having no intention of doing so but he knows I would never lend him a bean anymore. I haven’t seen him for about two years right now except for one quick phone call and TBH I really don’t mind at all!

I am 70 yrs old now, I embraced my grey and white hair free from colouring. And this is my first time to feel secured and admired by other seniors of my age. I do not mind the question they are asking why I am not dying my hair. I do not have to look into the mirror every 2 weeks to find a grey hair coming out again.

@terriseaton3049

2 жыл бұрын

Leaving hair naturally colored is the style at the moment.

@valsearle3702

Жыл бұрын

I love this comment, going grey and letting my hair grow was the most amazingly positive thing ever, ignored my sister's and allowed the curls to flourish😊I love being in my 60's and finally being my true self

@GrahamBolt-kv4zi

Жыл бұрын

Hello I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity, love ❤and peace all over the world. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Engineer Graham Bolt from Nashville Tennessee, where are you from?

After a nervous breakdown- and going into catatonia- My psychatrist told me " You think these people are your family and they are not." It took me awhile and some feelings of abandonement to let go of my family. But I am now accepting it and I am finding it is better than always having to be used and stepped and lied about. What I use to put up with to stay connected to family.

@Chahlie

3 жыл бұрын

Me too- nervous breakdown and therapist who told me I have zero self esteem, consequent realisation of highly narcissistic family... don't know how I survived this long :)

@Swist1213

3 жыл бұрын

I feel very close to one and need to make some changes. I have come to the sad realization that people in my immediate family don't really like or care about me. Gaslighters all. I hope that you are on the road to recovery.

@Elizabeth-yg2mg

3 жыл бұрын

@@harveyjames6357 Harvey the Hunter.

@ladyfaith8601

2 жыл бұрын

@@harveyjames6357 hi

@annkimani2592

2 жыл бұрын

Me too....I have gone through the worst with family till I decided to stand alone with God

Stop being ppl pleaser. Let the past go. Stop putting urself down., don't fear change.

@margaretcontreras2932

4 жыл бұрын

That’s me right now thank you I will take your advice ❤️

@martinemeeks5065

4 жыл бұрын

It is very empowering when you finally get up the nerve to stand up for yourself.

@kathydonovan7960

3 жыл бұрын

I couldn't care less what people think of me. If you don't like it, don't look

@helenboula3538

3 жыл бұрын

@@kathydonovan7960 thank you well said and no one has the right to give anyone advice about a damn thing the guys guess what they've not walked in my shoes and I damn sure don't care to walk in there shoes. I can't believe this woman is doing this video.

@cucunduts1606

3 жыл бұрын

That is me. Not any more after this confirmation by agemates. Thank you.

Well I know for sure we need to STOP neglecting our health and if we're not already doing it, then we need to exercise daily and stop being sedentary and incorporate daily exercise into our lives.

@nicolabrooks1795

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@myaunteffy1440

3 жыл бұрын

Exercise makes me feel better. All kinds of things are possible when I feel better.

@cynthiasimmons573

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 60 and I walk at least 5-6 miles Monday-Friday. It’s my stress reliever and an added bonus I’ve met some new friends‼️👏🏽

@gloriatoo22

3 жыл бұрын

True

@disneyam2927

2 жыл бұрын

All has be said and done its so true fine time for ourselfs of course i am 60 yeares old and had 3 grown adults and 3 grand childrens i find tune for my self being 60 says i look 49 i just laugh to myself u take care if myself i like swimming dancing put on some old hits and dance i enjoy my self so much i makes nothing worries me never life is so short good video.

Health is everything, in fact, the only thing! At 74, recovering from my 16th surgery, a total knee replacement. It’s been very difficult at this age. I’m fighting to get back to where I was before this debilitating mess.

@lorirapp8581

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 63. In Sept of last year I had both of mine replaced together. It’s a long road! Finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.

@dresser6135

3 жыл бұрын

Everybody tells me that knee surgery is the toughest. Hang in!

@Rosary716

3 жыл бұрын

@@dresser6135 That’s not giving knee surgery the full extent! It’s been a horrible nightmare and I shouldn’t have agreed to it.

@Rosary716

3 жыл бұрын

@@harveyjames6357 Thanks. Unfortunately I now have arthrofibrosis after undergoing a manipulation under anesthesia procedure six weeks post op. Not going to improve much even with extensive PT. I will NOT have more surgery. Nerve pain not very bearable. Swelling still very bad. Will be 5 months since surgery in a couple weeks.

@moniqueengleman873

2 жыл бұрын

@@Rosary716 I am so sorry that your knee replacement went south big time. FIND another specialist. Even look out of town or state that is offering state of the art knee care. I know you are angry, I have been also. But I took my care in my own hands and found other professionals that actually treated me. I ended up at Stanford. I have excellent care there. Best of Luck. Sending my best.

That’s why we LOVE toddlers! They “discover “ constantly!

@bidziilalex146

2 жыл бұрын

Hi 👋

@gisellejohnson2309

2 жыл бұрын

It took along time to get here, God got me here. Age 63. I really love it.🤎😁

Since you asked... I think we should stop allowing ourselves to be easily swayed by the opinions of others.

@dloveofgod8269

4 жыл бұрын

So true.

@PenelopeJaneW

4 жыл бұрын

Other People's opinions of me are none of my business!

@dloveofgod8269

4 жыл бұрын

@@PenelopeJaneW yes. I can't recall if it was Joyce Meyer or another preacher I heard share that a few years ago.

@user-hs9ek5ty1z

4 жыл бұрын

@@PenelopeJaneW I like that ty.

@violyruta7453

4 жыл бұрын

Correct

You don't have to care if people "like" you anymore, especially if they are not important in your life anyway. I've had to learn to stop expecting my brother who has always been distant emotionally and physically ( he lives 5 hrs. away by car ) to actually change and show he cares about me. I cannot change him so I have to change my expectation of him which is zero and be OK with that. It's taken me 66 yrs to realize that and now we never see each other and it's actually easier for me in a weird way. I felt bad for my mom who died thinking he didn't love her. He has to live with that, but perhaps he doesn't think about it. Who knows and more importantly who cares!

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

Hey 😌

@aprilturk1559

3 жыл бұрын

you do!

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

How are you doing ☺️

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

@@aprilturk1559 how was your day

@bonnieanderson5865

3 жыл бұрын

I think I will start looking for people who are available around me instead those who live hours and days away.

So happy to discover you accidentally. I’m 69 and definitely relate. I feel like I have been taking care of someone my whole life, and I’m tired. Mentally and physically. Thank you for the talk.

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name I’m from Cleveland Ohio 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

There’s no reset button in life, we are not in a rehearsal, so stop the regrets in our heads and keep positivity as we move forward….most of all, protect our health, especially the mental part! I’m 63, by the way.

@glenpao5647

2 жыл бұрын

As my husband always saying, "dont expect anything in return in whatever we do to avoid dissappointment in life". If they appreciate, its fine, if they dont, its also fine...

I will be 60 in 2 weeks and I am so excited. I look forward to it. 60 is liberating. I liked my 40’s but I felt a bit strange after 55. Now, I want to embrace my 60. I am a better person, and yes, maybe a wiser one too. By the way, I don’t think we need to wait to be 60 to stop all these things. My self growth journey started 30 years ago and I realised that it is now that it is beating its fruits. I know my worth and feel good (95% of the time). I am proud of my laughter lines and I earned every one of them 🤣 Let’s celebrate our 60s ❤️❤️ Thank you for this video, Margaret. I love your channel ❤️

@AliceLopez5515mar

3 жыл бұрын

Loved what you said, thanks

@vcatc2437

3 жыл бұрын

The time between 60 and 70 goes by in a flash, so enjoy the next decade.

@louellaarlan3368

3 жыл бұрын

You are amazing women with amazing freedom of thought, thank you for the lessons, much needed, God bless each one of you to live amazing lives. I was just reading the comments, most encouraging and freeing.

@jmk1962

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree.

Think young, eat well and say no to things you truly aren't interested in Sleep in. Dream. Forgive. Count your blessings. Walk in Nature and smile while doing it. Best antidepressant EVER!! Love, Peace, and Happiness to EVERYONE!!

@caron4725

4 жыл бұрын

Carol that's wonderful advice I think everybody should hear this I just a simple as that amen hallelujah

@margaretjones2055

4 жыл бұрын

Carol Loraine forgive is the best lowers blood pressure. makes one laugh again

@carolloraine223

4 жыл бұрын

L. A. McDonough Yes, I agree to a degree. For me, forgiveness is for me. I can't afford to hang on to any bitterness towards another. My heart needs to be light and happy! Thanks for sharing! Happy Thanksgiving!

@laurelvance5533

4 жыл бұрын

Love this advice. Couldn't agree more

@mehitabel1290

4 жыл бұрын

Say No to things you truly aren't interested in. But say a big, fat YES! to anything you're not sure about and need to experience more.........

I spent 25yrs taking care of and doing for the mentally ill and mentally and physically handicapped. And now I care for myself and am free in more ways than one. If I'm not going out, no bra, no makeup and sometimes during the winter months, I stay in my jammies till evening shower. And I'm loving all of it. God Bless All.

I'm in my early 50's and so glad I found this channel, it's wonderful!! Sending a big thank you from Australia.

Stop obsessing about having to do things NOW!! Pace yourself and if you don’t get it done today, it will keep!! Do it when you can! NO MULTITASKING!!!!!!! Be kind to you! Be yourself!! The world will adjust!!! ♥️

@douglasmarcos2970

Жыл бұрын

Hello charlotte how are you doing?

@GrahamBolt-kv4zi

Жыл бұрын

Hello I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity, love ❤and peace all over the world. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Engineer Graham Bolt from Nashville Tennessee, where are you from?

I am enlightened. I'm over 70 and happy to encounter You. I'm thinking so much about my lifestyle. Now it's the time for me to change. Thanks God.

My philosophy is when you get older...do..say..put on whatever you want. If it makes you feel good..do it.

@americanwoman445

3 жыл бұрын

....it's good to wear what you want within reason...

In the past year I have lost my husband of 53 years, sold our large home, moved to new town, and bought a new house. I’m loving it! I’m making all my decisions and taking over my life. I’m not looking backwards. I have wonderful memories, a wonderful marriage but you are right, this is my time. People frequently ask me if I have gone back to my old house to see the changes made. I say, no. I’m in a good place and I’m keeping out of the past. Making new friends and getting involved in totally new activities. Getting out of my comfort zone to explore my new life.

@maggievoigt6055

Жыл бұрын

Good on you!!

@melaniefitzpatrick8090

Жыл бұрын

I love all of this for you!!! I especially love the line - I'm keeping out of the past. Wow....I'm going to use this on me!! Cheers to you Linda!

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name I’m from Cleveland Ohio 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

@@maggievoigt6055 Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name I’m from Cleveland Ohio 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

@RaySteven-uf6ul

9 ай бұрын

@@melaniefitzpatrick8090 Hello 👋 I hope you're safe over there? I am Chris Dale by name I’m from Cleveland Ohio 🇺🇸 and you? I hope this year brings prosperity happiness and love 💞 all over the world 🤗

death is inevitable...enjoy every damn second here!

@zoraidacastro5403

3 жыл бұрын

Yessssss my mom died from Covid19, facts!!!

@dawna4185

3 жыл бұрын

@Siegbert Landgraf so true!!!

@MarilynMayaMendoza

3 жыл бұрын

@@zoraidacastro5403 I'm sorry for your loss. I just had my second covid shot today. Aloha

I wish I had known how much fun it can be to be an older woman. I always loved how older women looked but I didn’t realize that it’s a blast to not give a hoot what others think of you.

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

Hello 😊

@shmataboro8634

3 жыл бұрын

The happiest most fun women in my life were three of my aunties, one divorced a d two widowed. They lived life on their own terms and were lovely, wise, wild and a hoot!

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

Good 😊

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

So if I may know where are you from??

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

Hey 😊

I love your video Margaret and the very on-point comments from yourself and the beautiful ladies. I am 72 but look like I am in my mid-fifties. I don’t ever wear make-up, have never worn a bra or have very rarely taken prescription drugs. I have never been married or had kids and have had a wild but also very productive and interesting life. I was a legal interpreter for many years, have been published and have sold my books to lawyers in 26 states; lived in South America for many years, hitchhiked around Spain in 1970 and really discovered my freedom living in NYC years ago. Now I live in NM and my advice is this: Don’t let (especially professionals) assume that they can boss you around because you are”old” in years. For example, don’t let your dentist pull your good teeth; don’t let the optometrist tell you that you have glaucoma (when you know damn well you don’t) and need laser surgery (just so optometrist can get a kickback); don’t let a visiting nurse tell you that your blood pressure is so high that you need medication. (All I did was cut out salt and get my iodine from seaweed). I have found out in my senior years that people are programmed to think that “old people” need to be told what to do and how to live - including ocassinally trying to cut in line ahead of you because you are “non-essential.”

@ArtamStudio

3 жыл бұрын

My philosophy is: Don't see medical professionals.

@bidziilalex146

2 жыл бұрын

Hello

@patriciapasciuto9022

2 жыл бұрын

Please don’t make the mistake of thinking you are able to tell if you have glaucoma, you won’t be able to tell until it’s too late and you lose your vision, you won’t be aware of the rising pressure in your eyeballs. And see an opthamologist, not an optometrist. If you are monitoring your own blood pressure and have controlled it with diet that’s great, but many can’t and slip into their old habits and silently move towards a stroke.

@timothywise6646

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Gloria

The best thing about my life right now, I don’t have to do anything that I don’t to. After a life of obligations, it’s a wonderful thing!

Stop believing that you must be with a man for financial and security purposes ... I've been living /sleeping alone for over 10 years now and I LOVE 💘 IT !!!

I have set boundaries with people who try to take advantage of me. This is so freeing -- and I'm so glad I did it!

@miguelfernandes7102

4 жыл бұрын

Tottaly agree! Miguel

@miguelfernandes7102

4 жыл бұрын

People use all kinds of tricks to use us Miguel

@lindas9806

3 жыл бұрын

All setting boundaries did for me was push family away because they didn't want to honor my requests

@ascarkambaga6343

3 жыл бұрын

like these words of wisdom. Thank you sister

@ascarkambaga6343

3 жыл бұрын

like the message,that is my age group

What I’ve stopped doing: What others expect me to do. And it is freeing!

Letting go of the past is the most difficult for me.

@liamroberts9047

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Mary, How are you doing?

@pamelamccall5653

3 жыл бұрын

Same here.

@pamelamccall5653

3 жыл бұрын

@@harveyjames6357 Just as easy as that.

@ArtamStudio

3 жыл бұрын

@@pamelamccall5653 *alert alert* Harvey James is a faker, don't take the bait! I swear I have never seen so many fraudster posts in a YT thread as this one.

Stop dressing, wearing your hair, behaving the way society thinks a senior is supposed to behave. As others have more eloquently stated, stop trying to please others. Please yourself!

@ramonafeisley5409

4 жыл бұрын

I will be 66 in March and when my husband of 40 died of cancer last year, kids grown and retired I decided it was time to go without makeup, not waste money on fashion and reacquaint myself with who I am and design my life in a purposeful direction without soliciting advice from anyone including apologizing for looking and being who I am.

@EuphemiaGrubb

4 жыл бұрын

@faridah hanum You seem to be a very unhappy person according to this and other negative comments you make.

@EuphemiaGrubb

4 жыл бұрын

@faridah hanum LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!

@carolshumaker8348

4 жыл бұрын

@faridah hanum You can't mean me. You must mean EuphemiaGrubb.

@agotapongor2069

3 жыл бұрын

My daughter told me that I should dress according my age. I told her that I never ever will wear that old lady style clothes. She knows now and accepted. Of course I am not talking about any silly clothing. But I walked yesterday in red flattering midi dress, black sandal, black bag and long pretty necklace on . Yeah!!!

I’m 65 and I’ve changed so much in my sixties. I care less what I look like to others. My makeup and hair doesn’t have to be perfect, if I even wear it anymore even though I want to be presentable to other people. My taste in food has changed, and so has my outlook on life. I realize that most of my life has been lived now and my problem is looking back at the past. I try not to but I just can’t help it. I sit and think about all that I have went through and how I would do things differently if I could. I know I need to stop doing that, it’s just that I have health issues and depression and I just can’t see anything ahead of me except the inevitable. Sorry if I rained on anyone’s parade. I’ve been married and divorced twice and I’m not going down that road again so life is what it is. There’s no do overs so to the younger women I would say, live life to the fullest and embrace it. Take chances while you have chances to take because life is so short.

@terriwohlford7345

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, exactly the way I feel at 61!

@hyacinthfindlay5806

4 жыл бұрын

Do whatever it takes to get better, why not try therapy. Well done though for making those changes.

@shannon2748

4 жыл бұрын

@@2legit2Kwit I agree. My grandpa lived to be 91.

@lindacollman9278

4 жыл бұрын

Roseanne hello I'm 61 Having many serious health problems &depression, don't see two of my children &their children, one works in social care, though have never helped me, they only care when paid to care, If I knew what the future held,I would've had children, I could have had a career, but chose

@lindacollman9278

4 жыл бұрын

To have a family, I tried to be a good mum &friend ,to give them a better childhood than I experienced, they had everything we could provide, Especially supporting them &helping them when they had problems. I don't know how long I have but I no longer care, If children are our future &there not in my life what's the point. Memorys&ill health &pain,friends I had lots as health diminishes so did they, you don't get invited any more. That hurts. I take solace in the natural world with all its beauty,I am so glad that I still have sight,and memorys from a happier time,never give up ,there's always something good happening somewhere. The last thing in pandoras box was hope! Stay strong

I'm stepping back,I care far too much about family who stab me in the back but keep me around just in case they need anything. My son walked out in 2019 he's around but won't speak to us, my sister knows all about it and loves the fact she has control, you know what ,my boy is nearly 30 he's a man now,if he wants to abandon his parents because of what he's been told by a jealous spinster then that is up to him, I really thought he was more of a man than that but apparently not..so I'm not giving up careing as that's not in my nature but I'm giving up worring sick, I'm cutting off the family who don't care what they are putting me through..I'm stopping feeling like I've failed and I'm stopping looking at other families wondering what they have done to keep their children by their side ,Thank You you have opened my eyes ☺

All I can say is thank you ,I remarried at 65 and family and friends thought I was crazy ,I moved across the country from Pa. to AZ. and never looked back.I am 76 and have never been happier.

@GrahamBolt-kv4zi

Жыл бұрын

Hello I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity, love ❤and peace all over the world. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Engineer Graham Bolt from Nashville Tennessee, where are you from?

Turning 60 was life-changing for me. The most dramatic was losing my husband and mother a month apart. But I dealt with that and have moved on. I tend to be very empathic, but recently realized I had to stop putting everyone else ahead of myself. I learned it was OK to say “no“. That was very liberating.

@jamesakerrigan8055

4 жыл бұрын

Strong woman😘

@pamelanelson4817

4 жыл бұрын

It's really hard to do. God bless you!!

@hennagal7360

4 жыл бұрын

@rosewms1 respect to you 🤗 make treats for yourself 🌻

@marilynwilliams6534

3 жыл бұрын

Happy for you!

@janetvogeler7842

3 жыл бұрын

My experience is the same loss of hubby and mum a few months apart, I’ve learned to be strong, and find my own way. I agree , learning to stop Being a people pleaser and learning to say NO

Wow. I turned 61 today, spent the day with a good friend and over dinner I had the exact same conversation with her! Never herd of you before tonight, I was dancing to your words. Thank’ a mil . Nice way to end my birthday xox

@shannon2748

4 жыл бұрын

Happy belated birthday:)

@pannellclara

4 жыл бұрын

christiane desbois Happy Birthday!

@clairedavenport8686

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Christiane. Did you used to live in Paris and Boulogne? I was friends with someone with your name 30 years ago?

How refreshing. Im 63 and came across this by accident while scrolling. I thought you were going to give me fashion advice! Lol! I agree with what you have said. I work full time and a few years ago got a doctoral degree....not for anyone else but just for myself. Each year that I get older, I care less and less about what others think and pleasing them. I am also learning to say no and it is very liberating. Im also resolving to stop feeling bad about past parenting mistakes. I was a good mother but not a perfect mother. I raised decent human beings anyway.

@danscott4507

Жыл бұрын

Hello I am so sorry if this sounds weirds but you wrote such a nice and wonderful comment on here and I like your comment. I can tell you're a very positive person. If it's okay with you I'd love to be friends

I’m 74 and three things I’ve learned have made me a happier person. I’ve stopped rushing. Instead I try to enjoy where I am and what I’m doing at the moment. The second thing is that I refuse to be with people who are toxic for me. I don’t want to be surrounded by constant negativity who absorb all my energy and bring me down. The third thing is that when I don’t want to do something, I don’t do it. I have learned to say “no”. I can’t please everyone, not everyone is going to like me which is fine. This is life and I aim to enjoy it to the fullest for whatever time I have.

@zipporahmwikali383

2 жыл бұрын

Awesome .I purpose to be you.

@timothywise6646

2 жыл бұрын

Hello 👋

@glenpao5647

2 жыл бұрын

Haist...life...i can feel u. Three months ago, i disconnected with my 20yrs old friendships...my 2 friends betray me. Its a betrayal of trust. The first time happened to me...there was a jealousy between the 3 of us which i didnt know. It hurts me a lot..but now i figure it out that they are not worth of my friendship...i suffered a lot from their criticizism, their judgemental...they are not true friends, indeed...now, i have a peace of mind. Thank God, He showed what kind of friend i have...

@timothywise6646

2 жыл бұрын

@@glenpao5647 Hello Glen

Am headed towards 62 I would love a companion in my life to enjoy good health and happiness but I run into men with health issues!!! I took care of my mom and sister which was a labor of love I would do it again a million times over but at this stage in my life I want a husband not a patient it might sound selfish but I just feel I have lived more life then I have left I feel this is my portions but if he is a healthy senior let do life together💕

@michaelsix9684

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry to tell you, most men have some health issue after 60. Even if you find a totally healthy man 60 plus, you can expect something to give out or go wrong eventually. Your health can go bad too. After 60 it's a risk to look for partners, you can't expect too much at this point.

@SandraWade666

3 жыл бұрын

Go get those younger men! So many love and appreciate older women!

@gloriariggs8338

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Eve. I have very high expectations from men. Most of my friends have given up on life. I guess I still believe in MIRACLES. I should probably search for a young miracle who is not broke.

@michaelsix9684

3 жыл бұрын

@@SandraWade666 lots of those younger men are dangerous, be very careful

@dresser6135

3 жыл бұрын

You don't sound selfish in the least. It is a legitimate concern to marry when older & end up just being his nurse. And there are plenty of older men looking for a replacement housekeeper, cook, & nurse...so it's just wise to be very careful.

Omg, I'm 28 and you're channel was in my recommendations :D I guess KZread is trying to tell me that I'm not too old for anything as I'm constantly thinking of since I remember. Keep going beautiful Ladies! Much love 😊💕

@stephenmack7192

3 жыл бұрын

Hello 😊

@priscillaturpin7575

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😎

@jessicarabbit439

2 жыл бұрын

25 same. Great to learn from others.

The beauty about getting older is that now I don't have to do as I am told. I started watching this video just because it was you but there are too many people telling us what not to wear at our age, what not to do, etc... finally now I know what I want to do or not. I drive too fast, I still work when I am way past retirement, etc.. and my dear friends and the media want to convince me to live differently... Thanks anyway :-)

@elizabethdlamini1750

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for giving guidance as I am 68 very strong and energetic at all times

@JM-lp1px

2 жыл бұрын

I never treaded getting older.....30...50...65...etc. When I was 50 I got ahold of a book that set me free...It was called Bounderies

Oh my gosh. I LOVE this website. I turned 60 recently and I feel so lost. I do not have any female relatives in my life, and I have so many questions, like: what do I do now? do I take vitamins? why am I so tired?, etc. This website is a life saver! Thank you, thank you.

I will be 60 next month... I’m blessed. I have done very few of these. I was an only child. Mama didn’t raise no fool! She inspired me and gave me great confidence. I also had the church with plenty of great mentors!

I am 66 and I grew my white hair to my waist and I love it .... for me , it’s a spiritual thing , my great grandma had a braid wrapped around her head and I decided as a child that I will Also have long white hair.....all the suggestions in this video apply to any age .... 💞🕊💞

@rachelmunsamy2387

2 жыл бұрын

Age is just just a number

I just read a book called, "Going Solo" by Eric Klinenberg, it's about, "The extraordinary rise and suprising appeal of living alone" more and more people in advanced countries are choosing to live alone at every age, not just seniors who choose not to live with their children as they age, but younger people too.

@latifaa.s2215

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your unique response: you gave us a solution. This is a book, I'm looking to buy in the next couple of weeks. Thanks😊❤.

I will be 61...in November....and after....6 years...of grief....from the loss of my spouse to brain cancer...I can finally smile...God has restored my joy..... Life is short...enjoy each day...be thankful we have reached the 60's.....I love the 60's...

Without abdicating civil responsibility, stop feeling guilty PERIOD!

@sampatbhil6438

4 жыл бұрын

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@douglasmarcos2970

Жыл бұрын

Hello Ruth, how are you doing?

How about someone like me. At 71 still raising a child, he is 15. Keeps me busy yes but tired!

@terryowens8563

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is a blessing to raise the next generation with good values ... Yes it’s tiring ... but your so blessed

@marilynbrienen8713

3 жыл бұрын

Count your blessings! I have always wanted a child of my own, but it wasn’t in the cards for me. It must be so fulfilling to lovingly raise a child and teach them all the lessons that you have learned over the years. He may not listen now, because teens know everything, lol, but he will remember it and use it when older!

@donnagoray3551

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 60 and raising my 9 year old and almost 7 year old grandkids...I'm exhausted a lot but look to God for strength!!

@marilynbrienen8713

3 жыл бұрын

@@donnagoray3551 Thank God they have you! You are a blessing to them!❤️ As much as I want a child, I realize that at 62, I probably don’t have the stamina to do it anymore.

@nicholasmclaine4398

3 жыл бұрын

Hello dear friend, how are you?.

I don't Live in the past, my kids love hearing stories of my childhood. Loving retirement & very active which has been so rewarding. Best Wishes To You

@bernardofranz2411

Жыл бұрын

Hi jainicein, how are you doing?

I love this. I saw your title and thought it was going to be about wearing less makeup and jewelry, and I was ready to argue about that. But of course, you are much more real than that and your list is fantastic. Yes, this is a great age and for surprising reasons. We know ourselves and accept ourselves and our lives. Thank you.

@bidziilalex146

2 жыл бұрын

hi 👋

@jnnfr4387

Жыл бұрын

Same here. I was pleasantly surprised.

@venicebeckford2178

Жыл бұрын

Good afternoon....seems you are talking to me, just turns 60,lost my husband almost two years ago, and it has left just over thinking I don't know if it's because he died suddenly and I think I'm too much of a people pleaser. I need to interact with this group definitely

@GrahamBolt-kv4zi

Жыл бұрын

Hello I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity, love ❤and peace all over the world. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Engineer Graham Bolt from Nashville Tennessee, where are you from?