5 Things To AVOID if you have Curvy Hips (Like Me)

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As an hourglass / pear shape woman, here are my tips to help even out my proportions by emphasizing areas I love and de-emphasizing areas I want to fade into the background.
5 Things To AVOID if you have Wide Hips & Thighs (Like Me)
1: Avoid Jeans that have a Light Wash or Heavy Whiskering
2: Avoid Hip-length Tops & Jackets
3: Avoid LOUD Bottoms
4: Avoid Skirts and Pants with a Low Waist
5: Avoid Tight Bottoms
WHAT I'M WEARING:
Top: go.magik.ly/ml/1nwcd/
Pant: Size 00 go.magik.ly/ml/1mu00/
Belt, similar: seza.ne/QZCRDkRdpK
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Top: Sézane Past Collection
Jeans: Jesse Kamm Past Collection
Shoes: seza.ne/QWhQdqeapS
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Top: seza.ne/QaXE5sZYNb
Jeans: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxia/
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Top: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxib/
Jeans: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxia/
Boots: Mango Past Collection
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Hat: rstyle.me/+LTWY490_jvt5m4XiXS...
Cardigan: seza.ne/QWgDVkf8xA
Jeans: jessekamm.world/shop/225darkb...
Shoes: Sézane Past Collection
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Top: Doen Past Collection
Jeans: go.magik.ly/ml/1nwxl/
Boots: seza.ne/QWBHQXRVY9
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Hat: rstyle.me/+DdO8G1OKIYn3ZBAt5r...
Coat: Past Collection
Jeans: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxii/
Boots: seza.ne/Qd7qz6etqV
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Jacket: seza.ne/Q3rjdqeuDd
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Jacket: Ralph Lauren Wool-Blend Double-Breasted Coat
Hat: seza.ne/QfvXvAMz6H
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Hat: seza.ne/QfvXvAMz6H
Jacket: RRL Past Collection
Top: seza.ne/Qf6UaCbyaP
Shorts: seza.ne/QdPZ84QsxH
Boots
2:51
Top: Sézane Past Collection
Jeans: Jesse Kamm Past Collection
Shoes: seza.ne/QPs3Cgn6rt
3:35
Top: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxib/
Jeans: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxj1/
Boots: Mango Past Collection
4:58
Top: Everlane Past Collection
Belt: rstyle.me/+ibmAsYKunLsDt99yr7...
Pants: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxj5/
Boots: Mango Past Collection
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Shorts: seza.ne/QdPZ84QsxH
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  • @bethanyleonardo
    @bethanyleonardo Жыл бұрын

    Links to pieces shown in this video: What I'm wearing: Top (cognac): go.magik.ly/ml/1nwcd/ Pant: Size 00 go.magik.ly/ml/1mu00/ Belt, similar: seza.ne/QZCRDkRdpK 0:01 Sports Bra: rstyle.me/+WialSL8W6T4pWbGuDoGgqA Leggings: rstyle.me/+rggyYb4vSlIWlDysumhILA Shoes: rstyle.me/+wiYghwD88dqdU0Qm-KsSUw 0:23 Top: Sézane Past Collection Jeans: Jesse Kamm Past Collection Shoes: seza.ne/QWhQdqeapS 0:26 Top: seza.ne/QaXE5sZYNb Jeans: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxia/ 1:06 Top: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxib/ Jeans: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxia/ Boots: Mango Past Collection 1:18 Hat: rstyle.me/+LTWY490_jvt5m4XiXS3Z2Q Cardigan: seza.ne/QWgDVkf8xA Jeans: jessekamm.world/shop/225darkbluedenim Shoes: Sézane Past Collection 1:28 Top: Doen Past Collection Jeans: go.magik.ly/ml/1nwxl/ Boots: seza.ne/QWBHQXRVY9 2:03 Hat: rstyle.me/+DdO8G1OKIYn3ZBAt5rr5HQ Coat: Past Collection Jeans: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxii/ Boots: seza.ne/Qd7qz6etqV 2:07 Jacket: seza.ne/Q3rjdqeuDd 2:16 Jacket: Ralph Lauren Wool-Blend Double-Breasted Coat Hat: seza.ne/QfvXvAMz6H 2:26 Hat: seza.ne/QfvXvAMz6H Jacket: RRL Past Collection Top: seza.ne/Qf6UaCbyaP Shorts: seza.ne/QdPZ84QsxH Boots 2:51 Top: Sézane Past Collection Jeans: Jesse Kamm Past Collection Shoes: seza.ne/QPs3Cgn6rt 3:35 Top: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxib/ Jeans: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxj1/ Boots: Mango Past Collection 4:58 Top: Everlane Past Collection Belt: rstyle.me/+ibmAsYKunLsDt99yr7Kgkw Pants: go.magik.ly/ml/1nxj5/ Boots: Mango Past Collection 5:01 Top: seza.ne/Qf6UaCbyaP Shorts: seza.ne/QdPZ84QsxH * These are affiliate links. I can't thank you enough for supporting my channel! 💕

  • @redsquare4835
    @redsquare4835 Жыл бұрын

    As someone with this body type, I’ve also found personally that using chunkier style shoes (rather than very petite and tiny style shoes) actually makes my thighs look more in proportion. In a way I suppose I de-emphasise my wide hips by adding more visual weight at the bottom (wide leg pants and chunky shoes.) the chunky shoes also work well if you do want to wear things like skinny jeans. 😊

  • @bethanyleonardo

    @bethanyleonardo

    Жыл бұрын

    I can see that. Kind of similar to using puffed sleeves or shoulders to even the proportions of the hips. 🤗

  • @Slurpfurp

    @Slurpfurp

    Жыл бұрын

    Same body type here, and I concur with the chunky shoe tactic whether it’s a platform heel or a sneaker with a thicker sole🤗

  • @kaitlynventenilla

    @kaitlynventenilla

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! Although I’m not petite (5’5) I have the same body type, and non-chunky shoes just look wrong on me

  • @EmA-sm8se

    @EmA-sm8se

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree. Delicate shoes just look wrong on my legs.

  • @marycatherineshmina238

    @marycatherineshmina238

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes on that chunky shoe girls!

  • @lavaklava
    @lavaklava Жыл бұрын

    Is it only me who thinks that her body looks perfect? She can wear literally anything

  • @miminotw

    @miminotw

    Жыл бұрын

    Yea that’s what I was thinking. It doesn’t look like her hips or legs are too big

  • @jenrutherford6690

    @jenrutherford6690

    Жыл бұрын

    I cannot see any curves on her.

  • @jenniscott

    @jenniscott

    Жыл бұрын

    I was thinking the same!

  • @firstsecond98

    @firstsecond98

    Жыл бұрын

    Like she said , she dressed in such a way that her body looks good ....

  • @laylasew

    @laylasew

    Жыл бұрын

    Same thoughts 😅👌

  • @Nadine-xb4oj
    @Nadine-xb4oj Жыл бұрын

    This is the video I was searching for my whole life, literally never found a way to categorize my body shape but the in-between hourglass/pear makes totally sense.

  • @Siriusly10

    @Siriusly10

    11 ай бұрын

    I still don’t quite understand What would you call a 33-26-36.5/37? A pear?

  • @JOJO-ug9ei

    @JOJO-ug9ei

    10 ай бұрын

    @@Siriusly10I think it’s more about where the shoulder line sits. If the hips and shoulders line up, then strictly speaking it’s not a pear shape. However, having a smaller diaphragm circumference makes us look pear-shaped rather than hour-glass. This is my body type - if I put shoulder pads in, it still looks wrong as my hips and shoulders are balanced yet the curviness of my hips and my smaller diaphragm need balancing. I find jackets and cardigans particularly difficult to get right. I’ve realized that what I am striving for is an hourglass shape, so it’s all about creating that balance. So I look for clothes that don’t emphasize the hips and that make my weedy diaphragm look larger, e.g. with ruffled tops etc.

  • @user-th3ez5sj9y

    @user-th3ez5sj9y

    7 ай бұрын

    Sameeeee

  • @hedy_7084

    @hedy_7084

    3 ай бұрын

    I believe it’s called a spoon shape.

  • @kaseyactis7848
    @kaseyactis7848 Жыл бұрын

    As someone with very curvy hips I’ve finally realized that flared jeans suit me best and even out my proportions

  • @wishjcena

    @wishjcena

    Жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @EE-hi4re

    @EE-hi4re

    2 ай бұрын

    Same. I'm very petite ans flare w/heels work best for me.

  • @karolinakyckova3572
    @karolinakyckova35728 ай бұрын

    I don't really think these are wide hips 😄 I have them and they're truly Wide 🙈

  • @joys_ads
    @joys_ads Жыл бұрын

    Beauty standards really are different, here in Africa, the thicker the woman , the better, so I’m here looking at you like “ but you’re so slim”

  • @FaithsStardust

    @FaithsStardust

    Жыл бұрын

    I said the same outloud, at nearly every point she made. I was shocked.

  • @cloudblinky6189
    @cloudblinky6189 Жыл бұрын

    As a person who doesn't know much about fashion and continuously hating herself for not being good with any outfit, all I can say is that you channel is such a blessing to me. Thank you so much 💗💗 you're so majestic btw

  • @nefelipapaioannou6386
    @nefelipapaioannou6386 Жыл бұрын

    This video is just what I needed! I am not petite but have struggled for years to find what outfits work best for me- I fall somewhere between hourglass and spoon and it's a challenge! This video clarifies so much, and your style is impeccable. Thank you!

  • @aperson3959
    @aperson39596 ай бұрын

    As someone with the same measurements as you, I will be using the opposite advice because I love emphasizing my hips, HOWEVER, for those who do not want to do that, you explained wonderfully in this video!! ❤❤

  • @dianascott2798
    @dianascott2798 Жыл бұрын

    Your shape is fabulous and I find I like the way your clothes look on you better than the model they show in their adds. Which I now realize is due to your clever evaluation of what looks good on you.

  • @bethanyleonardo

    @bethanyleonardo

    Жыл бұрын

    Aw thanks Diana. It's so interesting how just being intentional on the pieces we purchase can upgrade so many outfits.

  • @bonnieramirez4701
    @bonnieramirez4701 Жыл бұрын

    I'm a petite hourglass and I agree with everything but the pencil skirt! That is one of my best looks !

  • @yifatjovani333
    @yifatjovani333 Жыл бұрын

    I have a pear body shape.. I'm 💯 agree with all your wonderful suggestions. It is so helpful to know how to dress your shape, feeling empowered and confident!

  • @jasaratrunzo6965
    @jasaratrunzo6965 Жыл бұрын

    Love this! I started watching you because our shapes are so similar and it’s been an amazing help! You explain everything so eloquently! Thank you for your content!

  • @Dipanjanakusary
    @Dipanjanakusary Жыл бұрын

    These videos are so comprehensive and helpful bethany I can always have these tips when I'm shopping and that helps a lot with my confidence now ❤️

  • @bethanyleonardo

    @bethanyleonardo

    Жыл бұрын

    So glad they are helpful, friend!

  • @chel_g
    @chel_g Жыл бұрын

    Hello Bethany! Silent follower here ☺️ Stumbled on your “how to look taller” video few years back and I have to say, you have completely given me a new form of confidence & joy in wearing clothes. I could never figured out why certain jeans and tops looked good and some didn’t. I also couldn’t find anyone on KZread who share the same body type as me (long torso, shorter legs, pear-ish shaped). I’ve binged watched your videos and I have to say, you have changed my wardrobe for the better! 🥹 You didn’t just share tips and tricks, you gave me confidence & knowledge. I am more comfortable with myself and the clothes I choose and wear. I’d like to say a huge THANK YOU for giving me that and EMPOWERING people to look and feel their best. ❤️ You have such talent and finesse in what you do that I’ve recommended you to all my friends to watch & follow you. Xoxo- rachel ❤️

  • @louisefletcher6911
    @louisefletcher6911 Жыл бұрын

    Thankyou for being so transparent and helping us all, with similar bodies to dress well and look balanced in our clothes. Feeling more confident with our choices of what to wear and why.

  • @laurenlopesdelima6760
    @laurenlopesdelima6760 Жыл бұрын

    Curvy hips? Where?

  • @keemonta

    @keemonta

    5 ай бұрын

    That's what I'm saying...

  • @mattyp2123

    @mattyp2123

    Ай бұрын

    Lollll facts

  • @giovannabrb
    @giovannabrb Жыл бұрын

    Your tips over the last two years have changed my life. Thank you!

  • @saraboshut1164
    @saraboshut1164 Жыл бұрын

    My body shape is the same as yours and although i had to figure out these tips/ways by myself (before i found you), its now still nice to hear it again :) i hope this video reaches all the people who struggle with the 'right' way to dress for there body type!

  • @sarahaguilar7551
    @sarahaguilar7551 Жыл бұрын

    I’m the same body type but not petite and I have always thought leggings do not flatter me! I find your videos so useful bc they help me understand why that is! Can you do a video on what work out/ leisure wear clothes work for fuller hips/ pear shape?

  • @byadeline
    @byadeline Жыл бұрын

    As someone with this body type and struggling to feel good in jeans, I now realized why! I never paid attention to the straight lines around the hips, it makes so much sense. Thanks a lot for all the tips!

  • @dawnhernandez4652
    @dawnhernandez4652 Жыл бұрын

    Always great info ! I was a stylist and you are so spot on usually! Love your advice to those that struggle with fashion and trends.

  • @AnshuSingh-fp7rg
    @AnshuSingh-fp7rg Жыл бұрын

    Me, who has heavy thighs, really needed this video. Thanks a lot, Bethany ❤️

  • @Spisie
    @Spisie10 ай бұрын

    I have wide hips but I actually love them. I love making them stand out so I wasn't sure if I'd relate with this video but it still had a lot of good inspo. I love your style, it looks very comfy but yet feminine

  • @alma_42
    @alma_42 Жыл бұрын

    short, sweet and on point! thanks for the video, it really summs up important things.

  • @crissy3593
    @crissy3593 Жыл бұрын

    Having muscular legs this tips make clothes so much more comfortable! I found myself wearing my shorts like you show on this video and I found it not only flattering but so comfortable since you have the extra fabric that makes easier to move in! I think the classic A line can apply to all kinds of clothing not only dresses and see it clearly on shorts on this video 👌

  • @d26s10
    @d26s1011 ай бұрын

    I’m a fellow small waist and larger hip girl. I find emphasising the shoulders and feet gives a slimmer mid line of your body in between. A puff sleeve top with extra material at the shoulder makes my waist look tiny, hips look slimmer and then a chunkier shoe also diverts the gaze away from the thighs and calves and gives an overall impression of long and lean between the legs and chest.

  • @HJ-vp3ns
    @HJ-vp3ns Жыл бұрын

    This advice is exactly what i needed! So stylish and comfortable. Thank you so much❤

  • @tiffanyb5873
    @tiffanyb5873 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad this was recommended! Very helpful tips actually ❤️!

  • @stephaniel678
    @stephaniel678 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing Bethany. Prayed for you and Zack this evening.

  • @anaar7566
    @anaar7566 Жыл бұрын

    I love this video! My body shape is just like yours. Thank you for summarize all this tips 🤩

  • @brittp7222
    @brittp7222 Жыл бұрын

    I have a very similar body type. I’m not an expert stylist but I always wear high waisted jeans & noticed in photos skinny jeans don’t look too flattering at all. This video simplified and gave me the clarity I needed. Thank you!

  • @soonsims
    @soonsims Жыл бұрын

    I have the same body type, I would say it's hourglass don't think it's pear because the shoulders (0:06) are even slightly broader than the hips. Pears have small shoulders and very wide hips.

  • @Mirabel06
    @Mirabel062 ай бұрын

    I'm so happy that nowadays regular and high rise jeans are available in stores. I was a teenager during the noughties and during that time you only had low rise jeans which didn't suit me at all.

  • @capturedbyannamarie
    @capturedbyannamarie Жыл бұрын

    I already took your course and love it! Thanks so much for these tips!❤

  • @charmspeaker.mp4
    @charmspeaker.mp4 Жыл бұрын

    Omg I love you, I have been looking for something like this for years!!! This is exactly my body type and was so confused on how to handle my hips with clothing. Thank you!

  • @jennifer26744
    @jennifer267446 ай бұрын

    Finally someone who addresses body shapes with heavier bum thigh areas. I found this soooo helpful.

  • @PriskaJordan
    @PriskaJordan Жыл бұрын

    I LOVE this video!! It's so helpful! I was inspired by your previous version of this video to make my own, and we both agree that whiskered denim is unflattering. I have a similar body type as you, and I love learning how styling tips to look my best. Thank you, Bethany! :)

  • @mynameisraylights
    @mynameisraylights Жыл бұрын

    You got this hun, all the info you share, i agree with you! The most explanatory & informative video recently

  • @Alina-ow1zo
    @Alina-ow1zo3 ай бұрын

    Voll das schöne Video🥰 Man merkt wie glücklich du über die alltäglichen Dinge bist

  • @ZeoArgentine
    @ZeoArgentine Жыл бұрын

    Great tips Bethany! I need to shop for a new winter coat and will keep these tips in mind 🥰

  • @fallisdying2077
    @fallisdying20776 ай бұрын

    Couldn't be more thankful for this video!!! Thank you so much for making all these informative videos💗💗

  • Жыл бұрын

    this video is definitely for me. thank you!!

  • @yvonnec5885
    @yvonnec5885 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for these tips!!! Extremely helpful ❤❤❤

  • @aishwaryarath2102
    @aishwaryarath2102 Жыл бұрын

    I have a body type with heavy hips, I pretty much struggle every day because I like to dress up. I swear this video is made for me, lol! Thank you @dearlyBethany

  • @Oldschoolfille
    @Oldschoolfille10 ай бұрын

    I have wider hip area and smaller waist. I learnt with trial and error that tucking in the top/shirt is the best option for me as a 5-5.1” I wear almost every garment of my personal taste: crop tops, long tops by tucking in, high waste pants/jeans, bell bottoms, shorts which are not skin fit. I have been complimented by many people for having a good sense of fashion (not complimenting myself 😂 but people like my style and I like it myself too). I think the best tip is tucking in and wearing high waist jeans. It just gives a smart and sharp look to anyone, short or tall, skinny or curvy. Thank you for the lovely tips ❤

  • @m.bronwyncaudle2704
    @m.bronwyncaudle2704 Жыл бұрын

    This is a very helpful video, thank you for making it. I have a similar body type and have found it hard to dress it at times over the years. Tips like the ones you have included in this video makes it easier.

  • @_lines_of_joy
    @_lines_of_joy Жыл бұрын

    You’re so perfect! I love your proportions and you dress so well. And so beautiful too. Keep up the great work. Even if I’m 60 I love watching your videos! A lot of your tips are applicable even for my age bracket. More power to you❤

  • @creativephebecooks
    @creativephebecooks Жыл бұрын

    Gal, I love these tips! I'm excited to shop for bottoms using your guide in terms of allowing drapes and opting for high-waisted pants.

  • @michaelenegabriel
    @michaelenegabriel6 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Bethany! You always helped me embrace my body shape seeing a similar body shape to me and dress the style I am also leaning onto. :)

  • @karenrobbins6656
    @karenrobbins6656 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for these tips. I didn’t know about paying attention to whiskering and fading of jeans. I knew about keeping things visually going up.

  • @hilarygraves253
    @hilarygraves253 Жыл бұрын

    You are my body twin and my style guru.

  • @ekaterinashestakova7260
    @ekaterinashestakova7260 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing video! Only useful information with great tips and examples. I usually don’t like fashion videos much because they contain too much extra info that’s not applicable for a usual person. But this video changed my mind, I’ll definitely watch more from your channel. Thank you so much for all the work🙏

  • @lekisha48
    @lekisha488 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your fashion tips! ❣

  • @debbiegarces
    @debbiegarces Жыл бұрын

    Amazing video!!! I have a similar body type and all of these tips I’ve started noticing and help me dress more confidently so thank you for sharing

  • @shehasastory
    @shehasastory Жыл бұрын

    You always nail these videos. Thank you!

  • @juliemckinnon1480
    @juliemckinnon1480 Жыл бұрын

    The wide leg Everlane trousers look great! Bought them. Thank you.

  • @fru9819
    @fru98196 ай бұрын

    I been looking for this! Thank you!

  • @ShetlovertJ
    @ShetlovertJ Жыл бұрын

    Great tips Bethany!! I have very wide hips and am always struggling with clothes. Especially jeans fitting me right. I always get excited to see a new video from you. I have just enrolled in your masterclass, i am so happy for this investment in myself💕! I have been waiting to join for so long☺️!!

  • @charlottepembroke5446
    @charlottepembroke544610 ай бұрын

    This video was an absolute godsend to me - I am the same shape as you and I find my hips can look big if I wear the wrong things. You don't need to worry by the way, you look fantastic.

  • @wbd9259
    @wbd9259 Жыл бұрын

    Wow she just confirmed all the things I struggled with since I was a young teen. Im 26 now. By trial and error I know my fit. I feel like my mom never understood what I was trying to point out. Like the hip length jackets! Omg I hated them for some reason, how they look on my body obviously. Glad to have stumbled upon this video. Thank you!

  • @kattsushi1392
    @kattsushi13922 ай бұрын

    So happy I came across this video. Really helped a lot with shopping for more pear shape body flattering pieces.

  • @mishkaatrawjee1271
    @mishkaatrawjee1271 Жыл бұрын

    My favorite KZreadr came up on my recommended after so long 👌🏽

  • @lunash9234
    @lunash9234 Жыл бұрын

    most of the time I try to balance my wide hips with my shoulders by following this rule . but some times I just like to celebrate my curves with some confidant we can do it

  • @andrea_claudia
    @andrea_claudia Жыл бұрын

    Omg I love love love your style SO much!! Thank you for your everything! ❤️

  • @nenawells3916
    @nenawells3916 Жыл бұрын

    I see how certain types of clothes, colours,shapes etc can make someone's figure look more 'balanced' if that's the phrase to use. In my opinion your body shape is stunning and looks absolutely beautiful.

  • @rain0344
    @rain0344 Жыл бұрын

    Wide hips and smaller waist is such an harmonious shape (and biological desirable), so I would love tips on how to emphasize them actually ❤ let’s celebrate our natural shape instead of hiding it.

  • @flowwithdee

    @flowwithdee

    Жыл бұрын

    I was actually thinking, I might take everything she said not to do and do them because I love my wide hips 😂

  • @yougotthepawa

    @yougotthepawa

    Жыл бұрын

    AMEN to that !! 👏🏾

  • @madisonnn683

    @madisonnn683

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel uncomfortable showing them off. Especially because they’re “biologically desirable”

  • @OlgaSmirnova1

    @OlgaSmirnova1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@flowwithdee ugh nooo

  • @brendarascon9862

    @brendarascon9862

    11 ай бұрын

    Exactly. Other cultures seem to understand this. But the beauty world seems to overvalue slim, boy hips, which not all of us have ;).

  • @alyupde9337
    @alyupde9337 Жыл бұрын

    So nice to find someone with my body type giving some advice!

  • @TheZeyre
    @TheZeyre Жыл бұрын

    Great advice!!!! Gads!!! PS love the red ruffle shirt. Thanks Bethany! I xo Joanne

  • @farahxmodel6793
    @farahxmodel6793 Жыл бұрын

    The moment I found your channel was the best moment of my life 😭😭💗💗 love u

  • @bethanyleonardo

    @bethanyleonardo

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh wow! ❤️❤️❤️ much love

  • @abacus299
    @abacus299 Жыл бұрын

    Have never considered those lines on distressed jeans before, but you are spot on. Great tip!

  • @lilou1369
    @lilou1369 Жыл бұрын

    i have the same body type as you and some of these tips I'm already practicing unconsciously with like picking outfits and clothes. Thanks for this!!

  • @jelianmaecaligner3445
    @jelianmaecaligner3445 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Bethany for this. Very helpful tips. : )

  • @irieloulollilae
    @irieloulollilae7 ай бұрын

    I think I have the same body type, but I actually really like that my hips are wide. I used to only wear dark wash skinny jeans, but now I actually wear a lot of high-waisted, light wash jeans that are wide-legged, bootcut, or baggy with fun patterns and designs, and I love it. I feel like having the high-waist pants that are tight around my hips but loose as it gets lower accentuates my hips as I wear a tighter or more cropped top. Since I grew up with curvy being what is in style (particularly influenced by Kim Kardashian prime era and the fact that I'm the only thin woman in my family) I actually like to lean into the one way I could be considered curvy.

  • @unepersonne3517
    @unepersonne3517 Жыл бұрын

    Okay i understand different people have different insecurities but girlss wide hips are soo pretty ( coming from another girl ) . For me my curves make me look so much better i know not everyone will feel like this , but i'm encouraging YOU to look at your wonderfull body and say : I'm beautiful I'm pretty I'm feminine My body can do and is doing amazing things My body is created to do amazing things And last but not least I'm wonderfully made God bless you all 💐 P.S I'm not hating at the video creator or the video idea i'm just giving my own opinion From a 5'0 curvy person who gained 30 lbs in a year and still calls herself beautiful and worthy , as you should queen ! Well .. i'm mostly trying to not think about the fact that i gaigned +30 lbs 😅😂

  • @urresyacreates

    @urresyacreates

    Жыл бұрын

    yeah so true!!! i have similar body shape and i've always thought that girls with big thighs are wonderful and look sooo feminine 💔

  • @unepersonne3517

    @unepersonne3517

    Жыл бұрын

    @@urresyacreates honestly everyone is beautiful we just live in a judgemental society . Have a good day/evening 🥰

  • @urresyacreates

    @urresyacreates

    Жыл бұрын

    @@unepersonne3517 totally agree 😊 have nice time too!!!

  • @nmann5797

    @nmann5797

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi so true and so jealous of you. The doctors wanted me to lose weight and now want me to gain 30 pounds. So wish you could help me.

  • @erikabarragan8769

    @erikabarragan8769

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally agree 👍🏼 hips and curves are to be celebrated. My body looks pretty much identical to hers. And I wish for bigger hips and butty 😉

  • @MNROSE-sd3oq
    @MNROSE-sd3oq Жыл бұрын

    Now, I understand why I was most of the time uncomfortable in my. (so loved) light wash jeans. Thank you.

  • @changveronicas
    @changveronicas Жыл бұрын

    i have almost your exact proportions!!! i love this video!

  • @ShortGirlsClimbCounters
    @ShortGirlsClimbCounters Жыл бұрын

    Wow, I 100% agree with all of this! I am pear shaped at 4'11", also short waisted. But this still all applies to me. Although pencil skirts can work on me when a dark color.

  • @elys0862
    @elys0862 Жыл бұрын

    We’re the same type of body Bethany that’s why I love your videos.. it so helpful thank you

  • @katlewis7440
    @katlewis7440Ай бұрын

    So helpful! Thank you!

  • @moumitadeb9337
    @moumitadeb9337 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent tips for us pear shaped women ! Love your content 👍

  • @oykugungor6805
    @oykugungor68055 ай бұрын

    Ahhh whenever i apply the jacket tips to me, that makes me happy ❤ so really looks great and feel you betten 🎉

  • @Elvenboadicea
    @Elvenboadicea10 ай бұрын

    This is my exact body shape too. Thanks for the advice :)!

  • @paum.e.5672
    @paum.e.5672 Жыл бұрын

    My !!! I’m glad Ive found you 😭 we have the exact same body type and I’m 5’1” as well . Love ur vids ❤️

  • @lifeupgradescoaching5560
    @lifeupgradescoaching55604 ай бұрын

    I have the same body shape as you, in between pear and hour glass. I’m loving this video!!!

  • @anastah1732
    @anastah1732 Жыл бұрын

    You look amazing! Thank you for your tips!

  • @tooktoomuch116
    @tooktoomuch116 Жыл бұрын

    So helpful! Love all your videos

  • @Daisy-xl4xu
    @Daisy-xl4xu Жыл бұрын

    Thank you this is the best video ever. I’m built like this and I really needed this!!

  • @nataliaab5937
    @nataliaab5937 Жыл бұрын

    U are fabulous and u always look fabulous!!! Love ur style💗

  • @meganhutchinson4753
    @meganhutchinson47532 ай бұрын

    I love these tips and was shocked that I unconsciously have been using several of them already to style my curves best!!

  • @irenerosekristinedestura275
    @irenerosekristinedestura275 Жыл бұрын

    Love your tops!! 😭

  • @candyparr3629
    @candyparr3629 Жыл бұрын

    Gosh, I haven’t watched you in a while…first thing, I love your voice! You teach good tips too! Good job!👋🏼🙌🏼

  • @AZ-nr1id
    @AZ-nr1id Жыл бұрын

    I don’t think I’ve ever seen something on this topic. THANK YOU!!! 😘

  • @amescot1
    @amescot1 Жыл бұрын

    I’m basically the same body type as you, such a helpful video and great to know I already implement the majority of your tips, grateful for the visual explanations xx❤

  • @monbec1737
    @monbec17376 ай бұрын

    I finally found someone with my body shape. I don’t know how to style my clothes and look forward to learning from you 💕

  • @sarahbreisch4750
    @sarahbreisch4750 Жыл бұрын

    It's an odd thing. I thank you for your candor; it seems that there is much healing that has to take place sometimes before we can look at ourselves with enough Grace to even begin to dress ourselves well. When I was first married, I had your exact measurements at 5'1". I had such terrible insecurity about my petite frame. Blessed with a large family, I saw my body do amazing things and bring wonderful children into the world. And it is only now, at the age of 40 and many many inches away from the original set of measurements, that I am beginning to look at myself as Worthy of being beautiful and taking time to dress myself in a way that is flattering. Even with a supportive partner who could never understand why I felt the way I did about my appearance, it can be a tremendous effort to overcome the negative self-talk and body image issues that creep in from the influence of childhood trauma or just our culture in general and poison the way we perceive ourselves.

  • @L0v3Lost
    @L0v3Lost Жыл бұрын

    Lol this explains why I love crop tops or very long jackets. great video!

  • @littletez85
    @littletez85 Жыл бұрын

    This works so well for me as I have the same body type. I love your outfits!

  • @kristennereidy4879
    @kristennereidy4879 Жыл бұрын

    Very helpful tips. Thank you! So glad that skinny jeans and low waist bottoms aren't so trendy anymore.