5 Stages of Being an Introvert

The 5 Phases of Introversion
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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames3 жыл бұрын

    What stage are you???

  • @harshitsidher8498

    @harshitsidher8498

    3 жыл бұрын

    1

  • @robertsnipes6214

    @robertsnipes6214

    3 жыл бұрын

    All of them...

  • @harshitsidher8498

    @harshitsidher8498

    3 жыл бұрын

    Coz you just uploaded the vid...so idk the rest

  • @abyssal_phoenix

    @abyssal_phoenix

    3 жыл бұрын

    None

  • @amberr3662

    @amberr3662

    3 жыл бұрын

    Stage 1, 2, 3 and kind of 4 I feel very called out

  • @PaleGhost69
    @PaleGhost693 жыл бұрын

    Stage 6: Make funny youtube comments and pretend like it's social interaction.

  • @juelian

    @juelian

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's actually pretty sad.

  • @amberr3662

    @amberr3662

    3 жыл бұрын

    Y-You don't gotta call us out like that-

  • @CaspiRose99

    @CaspiRose99

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ah yes

  • @uMaud

    @uMaud

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wait, comments aren't social interaction ?

  • @peggin169

    @peggin169

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's not social interaction?

  • @ray9842
    @ray98423 жыл бұрын

    Who needs human interaction when i can lay on my bed and imagine a whole fantasy story within my head for an hour?

  • @glanni

    @glanni

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr?? It's so much more fun!

  • @arshiakafaei1411

    @arshiakafaei1411

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know I’ve been doing that for 5 years and have made my own world with different reincarnations and genarations qnd magic system

  • @eroyalroyal4665

    @eroyalroyal4665

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah... imagining a perfect life...

  • @nylajereb4523

    @nylajereb4523

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have more intresting people in my head more than everyone in the street

  • @Mary-cg1sl

    @Mary-cg1sl

    3 жыл бұрын

    WOW! I thought I was the only one that did this. I'm not crazy. Yeah!!!!!

  • @whoiswillc
    @whoiswillc3 жыл бұрын

    only true introverts know you gotta come in at the same time as everyone so you dont get noticed. not early, not late.

  • @ConnanTheCivilized

    @ConnanTheCivilized

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nervous breathing intensifies!

  • @Feetgalore

    @Feetgalore

    3 жыл бұрын

    sometimes i come early then wait till everyone forgets about me then i leave.

  • @MaryamRavoofA

    @MaryamRavoofA

    3 жыл бұрын

    I literally come outside the house and count the number of cars parked just to know that I am not going to be the first one there. And if there are less than 3 cars, I hang around outside till many people come. Only then I enter.

  • @monkeybanana3635

    @monkeybanana3635

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes I’ll wait until some people come

  • @exeltranquilitymashallahsu6226

    @exeltranquilitymashallahsu6226

    3 жыл бұрын

    a true introvert would not walk through that door, this is the best chance for one to have gone but leave early. you go so you can come home dressed up.

  • @sharoneniye2550
    @sharoneniye25503 жыл бұрын

    I don't need to talk to other people I have the most interesting conversations with myself.

  • @bvsitx

    @bvsitx

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes.

  • @lumine7330

    @lumine7330

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same.

  • @yejiluvrr

    @yejiluvrr

    2 жыл бұрын

    And my cat

  • @yes9486

    @yes9486

    2 жыл бұрын

    The shower is my favorite place to have conversations with myself

  • @g-man0528

    @g-man0528

    2 жыл бұрын

    I do the same thing

  • @nor_halim
    @nor_halim3 жыл бұрын

    Stage 7 : Read the comments as a social interaction

  • @ethanunangst9494

    @ethanunangst9494

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey oh! Smart!

  • @Abdullahtak

    @Abdullahtak

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Hussain Hanif why would he care. It'll be a good idea not to. And a good excuse for him not to go.

  • @kele7535

    @kele7535

    3 жыл бұрын

    YES.

  • @dr.perruche1278

    @dr.perruche1278

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s exactly what I do.. that and think of whole stories in my head then getting upset that my current life isn’t like that...

  • @micmng

    @micmng

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bruh, ya got me.

  • @slimshawt1006
    @slimshawt10063 жыл бұрын

    I'm at the stage where imagining myself talking to people has become my way of social interaction

  • @tescobakery1927

    @tescobakery1927

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @caitlynwilson2958

    @caitlynwilson2958

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why is this so accurate?

  • @aliss_m

    @aliss_m

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @lizkeen579

    @lizkeen579

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @andrewbull7412

    @andrewbull7412

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lizkeen579 It is fifth stage

  • @calypso3037
    @calypso30373 жыл бұрын

    Level 8: Just imagining yourself talking to people is just as draining as actually talking to them

  • @janhvi_giri06

    @janhvi_giri06

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well i don't think so 😄cuz if it would have been that much draining then i would have had died years ago becuz of how much i imagine and overthink about non-realistic conversation

  • @calypso3037

    @calypso3037

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@janhvi_giri06 you’re just not at level 8 yet

  • @Radhemerosvamini

    @Radhemerosvamini

    Жыл бұрын

    So true 😂

  • @DiaMonDmiiSs
    @DiaMonDmiiSs3 жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ that hasn't gone out in 2 weeks, I just want you people to know that I gave a successful interview in my living room this morning

  • @ixchelssong

    @ixchelssong

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @khushisuman3716

    @khushisuman3716

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too bestie

  • @chaseatlanticgal

    @chaseatlanticgal

    3 жыл бұрын

    2 weeks? Here I haven't gone out in 18 years😂

  • @lescobrandon8443

    @lescobrandon8443

    2 жыл бұрын

    2 weeks? Rookie numbers. Wait until you start counting in decades.

  • @zoejane5563

    @zoejane5563

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sameee intj 😂

  • @thebookworm5048
    @thebookworm50483 жыл бұрын

    I have imaginary conversations with a non-existent therapist where I try to figure out what might be causing me to have imaginary conversations with therapists... What stage is that?

  • @chocolatebar2306

    @chocolatebar2306

    3 жыл бұрын

    Idk but I'm on that stage with ya 😶

  • @umekalsoomnadeem1350

    @umekalsoomnadeem1350

    3 жыл бұрын

    .....your stalking me aren't you

  • @echitch

    @echitch

    3 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @vishakha4927

    @vishakha4927

    3 жыл бұрын

    relating on a whole different level🤣

  • @melany1120

    @melany1120

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm on that stage too

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels3 жыл бұрын

    “My house is just a green screen stock photo” lol caught 😂

  • @isacubes

    @isacubes

    3 жыл бұрын

    Guess Frank is level 4 then.

  • @veggiet2009

    @veggiet2009

    3 жыл бұрын

    So basically Frank's got his own "WandaVision" thing going on

  • @binitabaishya3238

    @binitabaishya3238

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@veggiet2009 that's what I was thinking man.

  • @josiahtm866

    @josiahtm866

    3 жыл бұрын

    Craaaasshh.. "What's that?... oh.. my fourth wall has just fallen down... damn, I just painted that..."

  • @SmolBeefPatty
    @SmolBeefPatty3 жыл бұрын

    "Who is it?!" Uhm no... We crouch, crawl to the window and take a peak to see who it is 👁️👄👁️

  • @bathcat56

    @bathcat56

    3 жыл бұрын

    actually we hide under our bed and wait for whoever it is to go away

  • @omicronsdelta3276

    @omicronsdelta3276

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bathcat56 Actually we disappear

  • @Izabela-ek5nh

    @Izabela-ek5nh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bathcat56 I do. Unless this is a delivery I really need... then I struggle :)

  • @lonely_saturn

    @lonely_saturn

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao same

  • @SugarandSarcasm

    @SugarandSarcasm

    2 жыл бұрын

    Someone needs one of those video doorbell gadgets.

  • @jdx3738
    @jdx37383 жыл бұрын

    I'm stage five, like exactly: I don't have social media, barely go to school, I have one friend that I don't talk to, lets not talk about me and fashion and I have interviews with myself and for some reason I don't feel lonely. Sometimes I wonder whether I'm really human.

  • @jules2291

    @jules2291

    3 жыл бұрын

    Barely go to school ? How does that work ? Are you homeschooled or skip classes for no reason and only scrap by exams ?

  • @user-gq1ij

    @user-gq1ij

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dude, each and every point is same as mine, even I don't go to school, it just sacrifices few internal marks but after some begging they allow me to sit in exam which I give by studying on youtube

  • @smallmoon4340

    @smallmoon4340

    3 жыл бұрын

    My life "improved" a lot when I found alcohol, my savior. This one helps during embarrassing conversations and stressful events, in fact it helps in any situation that you have to go out for.

  • @shaneeznawar9669

    @shaneeznawar9669

    3 жыл бұрын

    Literally the same with me..

  • @silent935

    @silent935

    2 жыл бұрын

    Barely go to school?

  • @zielu83
    @zielu833 жыл бұрын

    Stage 7: Due to the pandemic and the lack of human interaction, I begin to forget my native language.

  • @ledocteur7701

    @ledocteur7701

    3 жыл бұрын

    same, I talk almost only in English both on the internet and in my mind, so randomly when I talk in French (my native language) I stop and just.. can't remember a really basic word that I was sure I knew 2 minutes ago.

  • @deadstream3370

    @deadstream3370

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ledocteur7701 Sameee... I forgot words and such. Even with the way that I talk, i get the grammars mixed up. XD

  • @andrewchanathip

    @andrewchanathip

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha same I'm Thai here and spend so mmuch time thinking and writing in English that I sometimes accidentally mix English words while talking Thai

  • @iitjee-insider7431

    @iitjee-insider7431

    3 жыл бұрын

    👆If you can't understand what I just said, YOU NEED SOCIAL INTERACTION

  • @forrealitsme4438

    @forrealitsme4438

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dude thats Mee. I watch a lot of English things and hardly interact with anyone. Now I talk to myself in English and not my mother tongue

  • @ellie6573
    @ellie65733 жыл бұрын

    *I’m on stage 5, human interaction is not necessary to me.*

  • @klounpound6945

    @klounpound6945

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ictoan5966 without it tho. We wouldnt be here

  • @wafflesofdivinity9273

    @wafflesofdivinity9273

    3 жыл бұрын

    What is... human interaction?

  • @natestadler2352

    @natestadler2352

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@wafflesofdivinity9273 well, you see, when two people love each other very much, they... interact😱

  • @uhohhotdog

    @uhohhotdog

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@wafflesofdivinity9273 I think it’s like typing a KZread comment but with your mouth and sounds outside

  • @newy2416

    @newy2416

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @starsmidnight
    @starsmidnight3 жыл бұрын

    At which stage are you when you really only have one friend you talk to comfortably and when they’re too busy to talk to you, you’ll just be interaction-less until they come back? 🙃

  • @daniahmed

    @daniahmed

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm with ya on that stage.😎

  • @RelaxingMusic-pq2in

    @RelaxingMusic-pq2in

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @lonely_saturn

    @lonely_saturn

    3 жыл бұрын

    Im with you there

  • @starfruit545

    @starfruit545

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is totally me

  • @dianalindeman1644

    @dianalindeman1644

    2 жыл бұрын

    I understand. Even worse, what if the last face to face friend you ever had is dead? My friend no longer replies. I think she's dead. That's what happened to my other friend.

  • @kingkramer
    @kingkramer3 жыл бұрын

    "I am from Norway, please do not call again" As a Norwegian introvert, I can confirm that you don't get much more introverted than that

  • @akiratenshi7649

    @akiratenshi7649

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello fellow norwegian :)

  • @kingkramer

    @kingkramer

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@akiratenshi7649 god kveld, god kveld :)

  • @akiratenshi7649

    @akiratenshi7649

    2 жыл бұрын

    God morgen nå :), hvordan går det?

  • @LeandraMaphorisa
    @LeandraMaphorisa3 жыл бұрын

    "My friends stopped inviting me out which is nice" but it hurts also😂😂😂😭

  • @Ntopios

    @Ntopios

    3 жыл бұрын

    @andrejagreen Really? Women are more social than men? Interesting. Is this proven?

  • @sasharaeruffinxoxoxo

    @sasharaeruffinxoxoxo

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol this is me

  • @LeandraMaphorisa

    @LeandraMaphorisa

    3 жыл бұрын

    @andrejagreen I've never thought about this. I'll read more on it. Seems interesting.

  • @mounarezgui7514

    @mounarezgui7514

    3 жыл бұрын

    You guys do have friends? 😂😂😂😂

  • @silversamurai0267

    @silversamurai0267

    3 жыл бұрын

    @andrejagreen I don't relate to this at ALL. 🤣 My dad is the outgoing socializer while my mom and I are the introverts who would rather stay home, getting things done, over caring for our social needs.

  • @yoongisass7859
    @yoongisass78593 жыл бұрын

    I’m at level 1000, like, my level is beyond human understanding

  • @mateoniiler5038

    @mateoniiler5038

    3 жыл бұрын

    Imagine being social enough to comment electronically

  • @amberr3662

    @amberr3662

    3 жыл бұрын

    If introversion was a video game, you probably would have maxed out

  • @kaylahall1219

    @kaylahall1219

    3 жыл бұрын

    INFP?

  • @mateoniiler5038

    @mateoniiler5038

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah INFP

  • @TheHermitTeller

    @TheHermitTeller

    3 жыл бұрын

    Legendary status, a real life Greybeard from Skyrim 🤣🤣

  • @CrazyErzy
    @CrazyErzy3 жыл бұрын

    0:55 THIS. That’s totally me. 😂😂😂 (But thank God, my husband receives all my deliveries for me).

  • @AmielCetraro

    @AmielCetraro

    3 жыл бұрын

    How could you even get a husband by being like that!

  • @joeyk3134

    @joeyk3134

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have a monthly subscription you have to call to cancel so my plan is to just skip each month until i die. My girlfriend has asked multiple times if she can just call and cancel it for me.

  • @carlos-mh2hx

    @carlos-mh2hx

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AmielCetraro be a youtuber?

  • @drakeking9628

    @drakeking9628

    3 жыл бұрын

    If you have a partner you're not an introvert. Stop trying to be cool by proclaiming to be one.

  • @smallmoon4340

    @smallmoon4340

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AmielCetraro be human and without extreme disorders.

  • @solus8685
    @solus86853 жыл бұрын

    I'm at that level where even texting is WAY too much social interaction for me

  • @yashwij.2846
    @yashwij.28463 жыл бұрын

    Stages of being an introvert: 1) Alienation (I don't belong here!) 2) Confusion (Am I wierd or normal?) 3) Reconciliation (I'm ok with who I am!)

  • @starhairthetutor3765

    @starhairthetutor3765

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm out of this world 👽, but learned, after two awful bouts of depression, that it is okay because I shouldn't worry about something I can't control. I hope this helps someone. 💝

  • @mooniebee84

    @mooniebee84

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @chopi8072

    @chopi8072

    3 жыл бұрын

    Im at stage 2 right now :)

  • @yashwij.2846

    @yashwij.2846

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chopi8072 May you discover your strengths soon! All the best for your future endeavours 👍🏻

  • 3 жыл бұрын

    @@starhairthetutor3765 You are right, thanks! 👌

  • @rebeccatao8463
    @rebeccatao84633 жыл бұрын

    “You know, the ducks, they can just expire.” -Frank James 2021

  • @slayre1408

    @slayre1408

    3 жыл бұрын

    Expire lmaoo Literally killed me with that word choice

  • @Izabela-ek5nh

    @Izabela-ek5nh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love it too :)

  • @daniellesagang1037

    @daniellesagang1037

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ekaterinakuznetsova

    @ekaterinakuznetsova

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was searching for this comment thank you 🤩

  • @carmengracepuentes7953

    @carmengracepuentes7953

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀

  • @s.f.7577
    @s.f.75772 жыл бұрын

    "Why would I need to talk to someone when I've got several different persons WITHIN me all vying for attention" - Frank James the legend

  • @ainikki7006

    @ainikki7006

    Жыл бұрын

    I reached that stage at age 7. I have moved beyond the normals now. (Maybe send help but... nah. I'm okay. Really.) - Lies in INFJ (Edit: Three child therapists ruled out psychosis.)

  • @HayneesTeddy
    @HayneesTeddy3 жыл бұрын

    I have had the best time during Covid, everyone is making sure to stay away and I ignore every single text that I get until I forget about them for several weeks or more. I have worn pajamas and stayed inside for several years because of my health condition and its more comfortable than putting on clothes for no valid reason. I have been prepared for this new era my entire life. Being an introvert has never been this useful.

  • @LaviniaDeMortalium
    @LaviniaDeMortalium3 жыл бұрын

    You forgot the introvert that, when push comes to shove, is super chatty and charismatic and sociable - for about 20 minutes, and then we crash hard and have to be dragged out of the safety of the bathroom and taken home. Nobody hears from us for a month.

  • @bluebellbell3725

    @bluebellbell3725

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true. That's me when I'm stage 1, because as an INFJ I feel social responsibility - somebody might need to talk. If no-one need me, I do the stage 2 at the party. But must time I just have a good excuse

  • @ldonnell4437

    @ldonnell4437

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bluebellbell3725 I know! As an INFJ, I always feel so bad if I think people think I'm ignoring them. So then I interact with them and by the time I'm done, I can't do anything but lay down on the floor (what I'm doing now, actually)....

  • @OctorokSushi

    @OctorokSushi

    3 жыл бұрын

    THIS. It makes me think of Goku when he uses Kaioken, and he fights really well until it starts fuckin' his body up. Then it's the full body cast lmao.

  • @siennacook4013

    @siennacook4013

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@OctorokSushi and Deku using One for All *DEKU X BROKEN FINGERS*

  • @AnuelleCheng

    @AnuelleCheng

    3 жыл бұрын

    This sounds like me

  • @whisky6501
    @whisky65013 жыл бұрын

    That one dislike is probably from delivery guy

  • @louisejoel

    @louisejoel

    3 жыл бұрын

    Delivery person isn't allowed near us today because we are actually in level 2. I enjoy level 2 but 3 or 4 are over the top

  • @imthatperson1121
    @imthatperson11213 жыл бұрын

    "Oh, hey, yOu'rE tHE fIrSt OnE hErE." I'm gonna scream into that uncaring void for a bit.

  • @EenhoornPrinses
    @EenhoornPrinses3 жыл бұрын

    Yo you did NOT have to call me out like that with the fake interviews, everything was fine and then I choked on my coffee

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid3 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes you miss the feeling, the memories, not the person.

  • @PowahRanger_

    @PowahRanger_

    3 жыл бұрын

    Spot on.

  • @shironoyami7002

    @shironoyami7002

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cringe

  • @klounpound6945

    @klounpound6945

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's true. I got a lot of dope memories with people I'll never fuck with anymore

  • @JonatasMonte

    @JonatasMonte

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@klounpound6945 And sadly they might not even remember it. The memory lives on for us at least.

  • @JonatasMonte

    @JonatasMonte

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes?

  • @suharmanahmad7961
    @suharmanahmad79613 жыл бұрын

    the interviews i do with myself shall now be determined and classified as: h u m a n i n t e r a c t i o n.

  • @itsbecca

    @itsbecca

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do you really do that? I have since I was little! It's how my inner monologue works. As if I'm on a late night show or a podcast or something.

  • @suharmanahmad7961

    @suharmanahmad7961

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@itsbecca the thing that I do which probably looks weird from another persons perspective is that i ask the question in my head and answer it out loud-

  • @Vitance

    @Vitance

    3 жыл бұрын

    I liked this comment. 9/10 because it is 100% me; 1/10 because it turned the Like count to 225, which is 15^2, and I like square numbers :P

  • @gwendalynpeterson5739

    @gwendalynpeterson5739

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@suharmanahmad7961 if you think that's weird I talk to my locker at school

  • @iitjee-insider7431

    @iitjee-insider7431

    3 жыл бұрын

    What??? I thought only I do these things 🤣

  • @panzlithium
    @panzlithium3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so introvert I didn't notice there's wide-spread pandemic in the world

  • @BigFanOfCocks
    @BigFanOfCocks3 жыл бұрын

    “You know... they can just... expire” I’m sorry but that got me

  • @monimoop7762
    @monimoop77623 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes when I'm alone I start hypothetical "fights" with 'people' I don't like and I tell them off in a cool, nonchalant way... As opposed to real-life me who only knows how to breathe real heavy and sometimes cry when I'm too angry. 😂

  • @StephanieJeanne

    @StephanieJeanne

    3 жыл бұрын

    Relatable!😂

  • @oxymoronic717

    @oxymoronic717

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel very called out right now

  • @shadowshade904

    @shadowshade904

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dude why you gotta call me out like that? 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ZombieGyrl2384

    @ZombieGyrl2384

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg so me 🤣

  • @txmetalheadfreak

    @txmetalheadfreak

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are we TWINS?!

  • @iamhub2736
    @iamhub27363 жыл бұрын

    KZread’s keeping me in a loop, not letting me sleep this is my 7th “last video for tonight”

  • @chocolatebar2306

    @chocolatebar2306

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mood. I hope you got to sleep eventually 💞

  • @superymariowest2403

    @superymariowest2403

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mood

  • @newchapterasmr

    @newchapterasmr

    3 жыл бұрын

    This happens to me way too much.

  • @jonathanbierman6305

    @jonathanbierman6305

    3 жыл бұрын

    Really...its like my 20th at least

  • @Snowowl64

    @Snowowl64

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me Too.

  • @cindyroett275
    @cindyroett2753 жыл бұрын

    Dear Frank,I love your videos.I have not laughed this hard in quite some time. Keep going, the introverts need you.

  • @seymae.6657
    @seymae.66572 жыл бұрын

    I just love how he puts on more layers for each level lol

  • @WatchingTheTimes

    @WatchingTheTimes

    Жыл бұрын

    you have an admirable eye for detail. INFJ?

  • @seymae.6657

    @seymae.6657

    Жыл бұрын

    @watchingthetimes INFJ or INFP, not quite sure tbh. Tried clover's test for a few times, still unsure lol

  • @WatchingTheTimes

    @WatchingTheTimes

    Жыл бұрын

    ohh damn! that's one of the greatest dilemmas. I had been into it to. Took so many tests, each one brought me more confusion. The videos weren't helpful either. But when I understood the cognitive functions, that helped a bit. But not directly, I observed myself first, then applied cognitive functions on me. Meditation helped a lot. So did astrology. Then finally now I am sure I am an INFJ. But my extraversion is a little higher than most INFJs I talked to. Yet an overall introvert.

  • @seymae.6657

    @seymae.6657

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope to be enlightened one day too!

  • @WatchingTheTimes

    @WatchingTheTimes

    Жыл бұрын

    @@seymae.6657 lol, Seyma.. I am not enlightened. Btw if one considers self realisation a form of enlightenment, I don't think the self realised will be willing to classify oneself as INFJ, or ESTP or so. He will be more concerned about his nature of being, rather than how psychology or science evaluates her personality. Just a personal opinion.

  • @AlexBlank
    @AlexBlank3 жыл бұрын

    Stage 6: The climax of full-on isolation bliss. Until that damned phone rings again, at least.

  • @andrewbull7412

    @andrewbull7412

    3 жыл бұрын

    Turn the fock it off - no one is gonna bother you ever again

  • @victoriarbis

    @victoriarbis

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just silence it!

  • @hraah
    @hraah3 жыл бұрын

    I love how a piece of cloth is added as the stages advance 😂😂

  • @louisejoel

    @louisejoel

    3 жыл бұрын

    A little bit close to home

  • @WatchingTheTimes

    @WatchingTheTimes

    Жыл бұрын

    You have an admirable eye for detail. INFJ?

  • @slimshady6969
    @slimshady69693 жыл бұрын

    tbh i’m glad i stumbled upon this video. i’ve never felt so related in my life especially the philosophy talking and all the existential crisis. one moment i’m calming myself down and the next i’m thinking about what the world is and if everyone here isn’t real except for me. some times, you don’t need to interact to bond or relate with someone. just go watch a youtube video or something.

  • @dagreif187
    @dagreif1873 жыл бұрын

    Soo freaking funny, i have yet to watch a short Frank James video and not bust out laughing. Spot on bro

  • @Elena.J
    @Elena.J3 жыл бұрын

    - ‘What’s the worst that could happen?’ - ‘Oh hey, you’re the first one here!’ This brings back memories I'd rather forget. :D

  • @bluewren65

    @bluewren65

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is how every horror movie should begin.

  • @SC-gp7kt

    @SC-gp7kt

    3 жыл бұрын

    Being the first one to arrive is THE WORST.

  • @marlo2919

    @marlo2919

    3 жыл бұрын

    That happen to me in high school and I wanted to just die it was sooo ackward

  • @zhr171

    @zhr171

    3 жыл бұрын

    I remember doing it twice in a row with the same group of people at the same house and the second time was even more awkward

  • @player1641

    @player1641

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@zhr171 How are you still alive?

  • @Ravenye
    @Ravenye3 жыл бұрын

    Im the introvert who has a friendgroup of 5 other introverts that interact w eachothers once a week by sending memes and personality tests🤠

  • @leogrrrl5876

    @leogrrrl5876

    3 жыл бұрын

    Now that sounds doable!

  • @lierjs

    @lierjs

    3 жыл бұрын

    sounds like heaven. where do i get myself such a friendgroup?

  • @asifhuda2267

    @asifhuda2267

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've found my people🥺🥺

  • @sommungchisblinkifyoureate6307

    @sommungchisblinkifyoureate6307

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same lol

  • @flipflop4004

    @flipflop4004

    3 жыл бұрын

    that sounds relaxing hahaha

  • @tiffanysteviefreeman1139
    @tiffanysteviefreeman11393 жыл бұрын

    Love how you put more layers on as you advance in your introvertedness.

  • @mimi-ix3fb
    @mimi-ix3fb3 жыл бұрын

    1:57 stage 5 everyone in lockdown

  • @amyness3452
    @amyness34523 жыл бұрын

    Stage 6: I have abandoned the English language entirely and now an the only one to speak a new language I invented-so no one will communicate with me ever again!

  • @StephanieJeanne

    @StephanieJeanne

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry, I'm communicating with you, but's that's a good one!!😆

  • @Gio-sx7kt

    @Gio-sx7kt

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've often felt like I'm heading the Nell route, good luck and Godspeed!

  • @StephanieJeanne

    @StephanieJeanne

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Gio-sx7kt The Nell route! 😆😂

  • @internetopinion3043

    @internetopinion3043

    3 жыл бұрын

    Stare into the abyss long enough and that process happens naturally

  • @gabriellagaby3675

    @gabriellagaby3675

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm actually creating my own language so I can talk to myself without anyone understanding 👀

  • @missrobinhoodie
    @missrobinhoodie3 жыл бұрын

    „Crap why is this happening“ - every unplanned human interaction in my life

  • @jdouce6074

    @jdouce6074

    3 жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @burnyizland
    @burnyizland3 жыл бұрын

    Just entering stage 3 and it feels so GOOOOD. Contactless delivery for the win!!!

  • @mahshid3924
    @mahshid3924 Жыл бұрын

    everytime i watch your channel i feel proud of being an introvert, it helps me accept my weird behavior and know that i'm not alone. love u Frank❤

  • @hanppyd193
    @hanppyd1933 жыл бұрын

    final stage: no one knows them... Do they really exist or is it just a myth? They are in nowhere of time an space.

  • @ZielonaPastela

    @ZielonaPastela

    3 жыл бұрын

    You don't even know whether they are alive or not... And if they weren't nobody would know for some time.

  • @anjithaa4521

    @anjithaa4521

    3 жыл бұрын

    Like the movie "Lucy".😆

  • @xiquai

    @xiquai

    3 жыл бұрын

    Deep

  • @vanessasmith6925

    @vanessasmith6925

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kind of feel that way right now. I blew off all of my friends, deleted social media.. Do I exist??

  • @xiquai

    @xiquai

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@vanessasmith6925 I see your message, so yes, I think you do :-)

  • @eileenlord8705
    @eileenlord87053 жыл бұрын

    My bf is INTP and he literally pretends he's being interviewed and answers... And talks to himself. He's level 5

  • @user-gq1ij

    @user-gq1ij

    3 жыл бұрын

    He is lucky he has a "REAL" gf as you, most of us even have imaginary gf 😥😥

  • @putrimonica3350

    @putrimonica3350

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm an INTP too, and i often pretend someone interviewed me and like literally answers it too. Do all INTPS do that🤔

  • @lifefan1

    @lifefan1

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@putrimonica3350 I don't imagine someone talking to me. I imagine I am giving speech to an invisible audience about topics like philosophy, science, social problems and so on. I feel like am an INTP but not quite sure about "I" part.

  • @ixchelssong

    @ixchelssong

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don't do that, exactly (INFP). I pretend to myself that I'm explaining something to someone, or teaching a class about something. Lol

  • @theblaze5530

    @theblaze5530

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@putrimonica3350 Well I'm an INTP and I do that more than I would like to

  • @cc-wn8yb
    @cc-wn8yb3 жыл бұрын

    Yesssssssa delivery is the best

  • @gaamejaam6901
    @gaamejaam69012 жыл бұрын

    Ordering things then panicking because of the delivery is so relatable omg

  • @noidea2009
    @noidea20093 жыл бұрын

    Well, I guess that now we can all agree that Frank James is an introvert

  • @mauve9266
    @mauve92663 жыл бұрын

    I thought everyone did fake interviews... 😅 I’ve convinced myself I’m in some sort of perpetual Q&A thing

  • @oxymoronic717

    @oxymoronic717

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same though Sometimes I have this weirdly specific question I want to be asked, but at the same I don’t want to be asked because that means social interaction So I just ask myself. It’s a win-win situation

  • @mauve9266

    @mauve9266

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@oxymoronic717 ah yes I do this too 😂 other times I ask myself these questions just in case I get asked them irl and then when I do I can’t remember what I said the first time 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @oxymoronic717

    @oxymoronic717

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mauve9266 Aaaah I do that too XD

  • @AK-jt7kh

    @AK-jt7kh

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think it’s because introverts get caught up in “self-therapy” and CBT techniques. Then, due to total lack of human interaction, the brain just becomes addicted to talking to itself and you get stuck in that self-questioning loop.

  • @incogniftoar3943

    @incogniftoar3943

    3 жыл бұрын

    Man, those fake interviews somehow very strong like it was actually happen, even though the truth it isn't

  • @leonitaprins
    @leonitaprins3 жыл бұрын

    You only have the best conversation when it's with yourself

  • @jeffscott3167
    @jeffscott31673 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Frank. Thanks for your videos. They are super clever and funny. It is amazing how relatable it is for me. Please keep it up, and best wishes!

  • @JournalingWithNadia
    @JournalingWithNadia3 жыл бұрын

    I'm Stage 0: no human interaction whatsoever

  • @amberr3662

    @amberr3662

    3 жыл бұрын

    Rip

  • @hel2727

    @hel2727

    3 жыл бұрын

    You mean 6

  • @zale8829

    @zale8829

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hel2727 00

  • @SNinjaQK

    @SNinjaQK

    3 жыл бұрын

    arcane stage for me

  • @Civilianmusic

    @Civilianmusic

    3 жыл бұрын

    you just broke that streak with this comment

  • @addyrovirosa1800
    @addyrovirosa18003 жыл бұрын

    Frank: "What stage are you?" Me: "Yes."

  • @seasons1146
    @seasons11463 жыл бұрын

    I ALWAYS send my mom to get the delivery. 😂🙌💗💗 what a blessing.

  • @questionablepersonwithques7338
    @questionablepersonwithques73383 жыл бұрын

    Interview is so accurate. I do all of them I guess. I enjoy going out with my friends once in a while tho. Or i might go insane.

  • @ItsDominika
    @ItsDominika3 жыл бұрын

    Stage 6: Being scared to come up to the McDonald's counter to ask for an extra spoon

  • @user-gq1ij

    @user-gq1ij

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am scared to go to a Mc Donald's alone, and I am always alone, I hate to order and wait for my turn, I hate to eat in a crowd

  • @michaelhighlights1614

    @michaelhighlights1614

    3 жыл бұрын

    being introverted doesnt mean you are afraid of everyhting,

  • @thebookworm5048

    @thebookworm5048

    3 жыл бұрын

    SAME Even if I know it's their job and that they won't be upset if I ask it's still scary to ask for stuff and not just at McDonald's

  • @solidmusiclover9750

    @solidmusiclover9750

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@user-gq1ij I love eating alone but too many people are sited on there chairs as if looking at me I really dislike it so much

  • @user-gq1ij

    @user-gq1ij

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@solidmusiclover9750 That is why I loved lockdown

  • @Bibliosection
    @Bibliosection3 жыл бұрын

    I just want to say that the fact you said "the ducks can expire" instead of just "die" means the world to me.

  • @jimin1800
    @jimin18003 жыл бұрын

    THE INTERVIEW- SO ACCURATE

  • @siunkii
    @siunkii3 жыл бұрын

    still in stage 1-2 but with the "time has no meaning to me" always there. i'm just floating in life and people are making the structure for me to follow.

  • @isla6799
    @isla67993 жыл бұрын

    I'm at stage 10 where the pandemic was a bliss due to no social interaction

  • @ixchelssong

    @ixchelssong

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep. Me.

  • @paria1763

    @paria1763

    2 жыл бұрын

    Stage 1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000: Destroy the Earth so that you’re the only living human left.

  • @silent935

    @silent935

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes.

  • @Bluesclues-here

    @Bluesclues-here

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too! 😂

  • @lumine7330

    @lumine7330

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not even gonna lie, I stayed inside for a full 6 months without going out once and it was amazing.

  • @cocoabear_art
    @cocoabear_art3 жыл бұрын

    “The shut-in philosopher” I feel attacked

  • @jdouce6074

    @jdouce6074

    3 жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @avelyn3106
    @avelyn31062 жыл бұрын

    This is so good i love it❤❤❤

  • @birdyjireh6391
    @birdyjireh6391 Жыл бұрын

    I'm sheding happy tears that I'm not alone in this😂

  • @deadmanwalking1930
    @deadmanwalking19303 жыл бұрын

    Stage 6, How has lockdown affected you ? Wait, there's a lockdown ?

  • @bobaphrog
    @bobaphrog3 жыл бұрын

    I'm at the stage where my Netflix checks on me more than my friends and family

  • @sushih3302

    @sushih3302

    3 жыл бұрын

    You probably like that anyways

  • @sarahortiz8191
    @sarahortiz8191 Жыл бұрын

    This channel makes me feel better about my introvert personality lol. I need my quiet time to recharge after working in a talkative noisy environment aka a Preschool.

  • @sanyasagar6317
    @sanyasagar63173 жыл бұрын

    Omg the fake interview part was so relatable!!

  • @french-ishtoast
    @french-ishtoast3 жыл бұрын

    0:46 Noooo don’t let those ducks expire!

  • @luminoustorus548

    @luminoustorus548

    3 жыл бұрын

    How did I miss this? 😂

  • @french-ishtoast

    @french-ishtoast

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@luminoustorus548 Lol

  • @chaoticbreeze6262
    @chaoticbreeze62623 жыл бұрын

    Lockdown being the ultimate level up 😂

  • @shrutihinge3962
    @shrutihinge39623 жыл бұрын

    Stage 3😂 Man I love your videos ❤️

  • @nonprofessional8940
    @nonprofessional89403 жыл бұрын

    Dude I can just relate to every second of all of ur videos

  • @amberr3662
    @amberr36623 жыл бұрын

    "I need a signature" *true words of despair right there*

  • @elizabethcharles7840
    @elizabethcharles78403 жыл бұрын

    Your “Norwegian” accent. 😂🤣

  • @10_Roads

    @10_Roads

    3 жыл бұрын

    Reminded me so hard of the Trading Places movie XD

  • @danielp255
    @danielp2553 жыл бұрын

    I like your serious vids, like this one, as much as your funny ones. Haha.

  • @John_Doe_Game
    @John_Doe_Game3 жыл бұрын

    It is so much harder for introvert during quarantine because now everyone in the house is always there!

  • @giishaw92
    @giishaw923 жыл бұрын

    That Norwegian accent, wow. Is there anything this man can't do?

  • @warriormaiden9829

    @warriormaiden9829

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's entirely possible that he can't tap dance... 🤔 Anyone know if Frank can tap dance? 🤣

  • @louisejoel

    @louisejoel

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thinking of getting either android or google to introvert translate for me in various accents that take my fancy

  • @maximustheleo6232

    @maximustheleo6232

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m Norwegian and I agree, the accent totally works!

  • @holymoly9903

    @holymoly9903

    3 жыл бұрын

    The accent passed the standards of being norwegian with bad English.

  • @saimamidi713
    @saimamidi713 Жыл бұрын

    Stage 5 😂!! That phone ring thing is completely my thing

  • @PierreLucSex
    @PierreLucSex3 жыл бұрын

    Every stage has its moments : that's the beauty of it I guess.

  • @nataliealexandraa
    @nataliealexandraa3 жыл бұрын

    When your friends just stop inviting you out- not gonna lie, that hurts. Would I have made up a dumb excuse to get out of it? Maybe. But I still would like to know that you care.

  • @user-gq1ij

    @user-gq1ij

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oooooo Mmmmmm Gggggggg I never thought of it like that but it seems so true, I myself left my friends with those excuses, you are right

  • @shiorishiro2312
    @shiorishiro23123 жыл бұрын

    "We've got a lot to catch up on." Ok... I'm out

  • @angelbear_og

    @angelbear_og

    3 жыл бұрын

    No, we don't. My life is exactly the same as when I talked to you last time ... 5 years ago.

  • @seth-blank
    @seth-blank Жыл бұрын

    I enjoy hanging out with people. It's just when I finally get to see people are instantly don't talk and get super shy.

  • @noahi.1381
    @noahi.13813 жыл бұрын

    When you’re Stage 4 and the only thing holding you back is the loud family members you’re trapped with

  • @MilkyWayGrump
    @MilkyWayGrump3 жыл бұрын

    Missed opportunity not having a Stage 6 who is so introverted they refused to even be filmed because that means people get to look at them

  • @AK-jt7kh

    @AK-jt7kh

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s more like stage 0

  • @samiraumar2376

    @samiraumar2376

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah... I was ones dragged to a radio program which I managed. But I had to put an end to it when asked to appear on TV. No one could drag me to that!

  • @doralukacs361
    @doralukacs3613 жыл бұрын

    Stage 6 is when you get exhausted from talking to the several different persons inside of you...😂

  • @gamingelementalist6725
    @gamingelementalist67252 жыл бұрын

    Expected stage 5 to not show up for the interview but the fact that he's gone insane and is imagining it instead is chef's kiss.

  • @sin5946
    @sin59462 жыл бұрын

    I'm on stage 3, and I love it!

  • @ayannawatts3446
    @ayannawatts34463 жыл бұрын

    *Level 7: The Try to Fit in Again.* You realize you've gone insane being alone for so long, circle back to trying to engage socially and stand there awkwardly as everyone makes in jokes that you "had to be there for" 😢 Then you go back home and realize stage 3 was your sweat spot and work up a nice rapport with the delivery guy.

  • @lucyadam9128

    @lucyadam9128

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dear God I feel that I just want to be loved

  • @speaktruth9989

    @speaktruth9989

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg same get out of my head

  • @tiyab3104

    @tiyab3104

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very sad

  • @cjisvegan
    @cjisvegan3 жыл бұрын

    "When I hear a phone ring, it knocks me out for a few days, very stressful" killed me with the accuracy 🤣

  • @icarussarts
    @icarussarts3 жыл бұрын

    I am at the highest stage, as I think social media is the only social interaction i need.

  • @hollywwooddoll
    @hollywwooddoll3 жыл бұрын

    The look on his face when he heard the knock on the door! The look of panic and fear! “Who could it be??” That is me 💯 every time!!! 🤣

  • @potatoes2464
    @potatoes24643 жыл бұрын

    My Parents invited our Relatives over, I guess I blended in the background perfectly... since Even my parents forgot I existed.

  • @jasper6796

    @jasper6796

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's amazing. I try so hard, but it never works unless I never leave my room.

  • @Ao-vj9pz
    @Ao-vj9pz3 жыл бұрын

    I'm at the stage that regret previous social interaction. Even if it was the only brief moment conservation

  • @kaishatumangger6319

    @kaishatumangger6319

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same :) sometimes I hate my brain

  • @lalights6
    @lalights63 жыл бұрын

    It knocks me out for a few days! Oh my gosh LOL!!

  • @sometimes935
    @sometimes9353 жыл бұрын

    Literally watched an ad for Dawn and cleaning the little ducks from oil spills. I laughed.