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the absolute #1 sign....the grass wasnt greenier on the other side,,,it was just your turn

clay im literally living the same life as you lol its my 2nd breakup and i also kept a journal and im here watching this video

Needed this ❤

They might be scared but that’s a good thing and not a reason to break no contact. We want them to feel afraid that they might be losing us. That is the strongest and best force to reverse them drifting away and not wanting us. However you do want to give them a little bit of grace if they are just way too afraid. Breadcrumb them back, be warm when they do contact you, and keep the mystery alive by answering questions maybe like 70% at a time. My approach is probably way more measured but it’s been working and I nearly lost her completely from just hating me. It feels like emergency care. Reverse the roles as best as you can. Be the attractive one. Politely decline their offer of friendship. Keep improving yourself. Be the one that is getting away for them!

I was literally watching your other videos on this topic last night HAHAHAH perfect timing

@ClayAndrews

2 жыл бұрын

Hope you enjoyed it!

Very helpful rn , thank you clay

@ClayAndrews

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome, @tykwantv6400

Thanks for the advice your videos are helping. I think I’m seeing some of these signs but my ex isn’t really showing if she wants to get back together, as when I’ve brought it up but not pushed she’s kinda just said I’m not in that place, as she still hurt over her rebound breaking up with her, but she keeps messaging pretty much everyday and asking if I want to hang out with her so I just don’t really know

Clay: "When my big ex & I broke up........" 😁😆😅🤣😂 I still crack TF up when I hear her referred to as this!!! 😆😂🤣 AWESOME. 😁😄😆🤣😂

@alhassanrashidat3530

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 4days

@clay I write in a journal book too. I write about relationships. I reread my journal books overtime to figure out stuff about certain exes. I noticed that there was several exes that were trying to come back to me in time. Lost contact with them. How do I build up trust and let know the path is clear?

"Hey you want to be in a relationship with me.... I'm a piece of trash" 😅

Thank you clay xxx much peace to you brother

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2 жыл бұрын

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@ClayAndrews

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Wow the timing of this video is perfect. All of those scenarios are happening now between my ex and I. I use to buy her flower every other week but she asked me to stop because she said she didn’t deserve it due to the fact that she left me and jumped into a rebound relationship with another married man. But she also says that the ship hasn’t sailed yet regarding our relationship but she’s scared. She even planned a Disney trip for our family next month. Paid for my tickets and everything before she even told me about it. So his video gave some insight. Thanks Clay ur the man..

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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@ClayAndrews

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot!

Omg my ex just told me this again. Ur timing is amazing Clay. She’s scared to get back together

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2 жыл бұрын

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@ClayAndrews

2 жыл бұрын

thank you!

I did try contact him & he blanked me & now he reached out to a family member looking for some belongings!!! 2 late because I won’t contact him again after he blanked me ! He knows where my front door is

This literally could not have come more on time

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@ClayAndrews

2 жыл бұрын

Glad that it helped!

Want to come back because the other person is not better than you, simple as that.

I think people meed to have a clear boundary between 'friendship with no relationship ' and 'friends with benefits' or they're going to get hurt emotionally. 🍒

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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Can this apply even though we are in no contact right now? Its been 3 weeks thill this date, and i know we are meant for eachother. The Signs your talking about i can't see them because we are distant rn but i can feel them if it makes sense? I see it trough her social media storys, the music she chooses the way she asked me how to deal with netflix account and so on(we talked onece over text). It feels like its not over yet, even though she said it. But how she said it sounded more like her borther and her friend and less like her tbh. Its been a 2 years realashionship and the main reason for the break up was me distensing myself because i couldn deal with my problem and fell into a "depression" / addiction in video gaming and that changed me alot. Now i recoverd, sold everything that had to do with gaming and i'm happier then ever, the only thing missing is her Thanks in advanced.

This is from a weak ex gf spoke to u. But my case is a strong ex bf who is stubborn instead.

I really don’t know. Haven’t heard anything from her going on six months. Only positive thing still. All the pictures of her and I are still up and still tagged. Really sucks

Thank you clay I appreciate it I’m going through a rough time with my ex we broke up on April and recently the break up hit me and I broke up with her and now I want her back do you think these rules or advice still have an effect my ex doesn’t know what she wants she tells me that she misses me but at the same time she is scared of getting back together

@ClayAndrews

Жыл бұрын

Hi Alberth, definitely what we are teaching are applicable to any situation. Because what we teach are life skills that you can use in your journey. Sending more positive energies on your end.

How would you know if your not in there life? In my case

What about the line right before or at crisis point “I don’t want to say I’ve moved on, but that’s not where I’m at” when you weren’t even asking to get back together but they misinterpreted That just blew me away as so cold I’d almost rather here the “You should move on” or “We’re not compatible” like in the crisis point videos. Those sound like walls. This sounds like a full stop no hope I’m over it. The rebound is gone as she said he would be, rapport is very good, we both have feelings but nobody is acting I don’t get what just happened

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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Tremendous timing. Can relate

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2 жыл бұрын

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@adolfoberanza

2 жыл бұрын

Hey man love your DB videos keep up the great content! Don’t know what you’re going through to end up on this video but i hope it all works out for you

So my ex left me and I tried no contact but she would say gnite out of nowhere n ect showed signs that we could get back together but she always so super short with me and it's been the biggest roller coaster ride. Well anyways I messed up and deleted her off my social media bcuz it's been tearing me apart and I told her how I feel. But now she's so upset with me. I'm starting to regret my decision after watching this video

@Durkiee

2 жыл бұрын

I think that if you really just explain to her why you’re torn up about it, it’s better than just not saying anything. Bc communication and honesty is huge and that was something I struggled with when I had my issues. If you get a chance on the phone, just talk to her and let her know why you did that. She’s probably mad bc she’s just going off of the blocking. There’s a million possible variables so it’s good to clear your side of confusion by just being honest and real

The downside to this video is that all of these assume you are communicating. I’m doing no contact, so 🤷🏼‍♂️

@eliteshtposting1689

2 жыл бұрын

Same. I'm 7 days in.

@HolisticMotion

2 жыл бұрын

@@eliteshtposting1689 20 something days because we talked at 30 to exchange our stuff (she didn’t bring my things but I’m just counting them as lost now)

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

@@HolisticMotion do you want her back?

@HolisticMotion

2 жыл бұрын

@@eliteshtposting1689 I want back who I thought she was. She was so insecure about my job (see channel) being alone in my office with clients etc. It always came down to make her happy, or upset my clients. That demand was so unfair because she knew I wanted to give her what she wanted but it wasn’t possible. I cannot setup a camera or keep my door cracked when a client is wearing minimal clothing.

Clay ! Was kind of forced apart with ex about a month and a half ago. 7 year relationship. we still talk and text throughout every day. We have hung out 3 times since the break up. She doesn't know what she wants and has alot of pushback from family due to some of my mistakes and actions. Which I'm working on daily. She knows I have more hope than her. She's afraid I'll let her down again and afraid of how her family will treat her. What do I do ?

@MyStraightEdgeMusic

2 жыл бұрын

Same, man. Exact same situation. She didn't want to be without me but my actions forced her to leave. Now, she wants to date people to make sure if I'm the one or not. I'm working to reconcile and get my life together in order to make her a part again and prove my sincerity but she's hesitant, family and friends don't want her to.

@alexd4221

2 жыл бұрын

@@MyStraightEdgeMusic I'll pray for you bro. I'm learning that actually working on myself. Whether it be the gym church self help meetings recovery work.. takes my mind off the problem and actually makes me a man worth being. Always move forward

My ex and I are getting back together after this past weekend. The guy she was seeing is over 1 hour away and she did most of the driving to see him. She says she needs some space. This came at a good time

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2 жыл бұрын

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Almost together for 6 years /my ex girlfriend broke up with me 4 months ago shes already broken up with her rebound and remained in contact with me over the 4 months and I've even taken her out on a date once after that recently she's been calling me up alot now and I've slept over her house for a sleep over after a night on the town now this sounds all good even her admitting she still has feelings for me (as friend she ses ) so the bad part is she's joining the military and doesn't want a relationship now and is always using that as the excuse for not giving the relationship another go idk what to do lol

@chancelee4070

Жыл бұрын

Move on

Hi Clay :) My ex and i broke up 3 weeks ago. He broke up with me and I was left devastated he even blocked me on social media. I didn't do NC. He unblocked me off all social media and said we should "just be friends." Everytime i contact him he always responds and text me good morning everyday what does this mean?

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2 жыл бұрын

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My ex is in a new relationship but we are going on vacation together For 5 weeks over the holidays .... Also planning for next year 🤔 Any thoughts?

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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When your ex starting talking about the guys personality faults, insecure, atheists etc… what do you think she told him about you, What if you could hear that conversation, would you still take her back

@ClayAndrews

2 жыл бұрын

it depends on one's personal values. Is the behavior resonates with your 5x5 list? :-)

@alhassanrashidat3530

2 жыл бұрын

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Hi Clay, me and my ex girlfriend nearly 2 years together but she is broke up and blocked me 2 month a go. For another person but he left her after that she called and texted me. But I ignore her for 5 days then again contact me she said I'm come back to you after that I called her for 3 or four days but she is very cold when I said come to see you. She gave me excuse. Also she have depression and psychic .she doesn't want talk to me or see me.what can I do and advice please many thanks.

Man recently my ex told me we should change but we had a fight about something literally dumb but I gave my side and told her sorry and she told me she would talk to me if I said sorry. She then ended up calling me a dick and hasn't talked to me since. She's already talking to another guy 10 days after our break up with her status saying "im in love" and blocked me on some stuff and kicked me out of her friend group. What do I do here? It's even worse too because the guy she is talking to was her "friend" in our relationship.

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@christopherengland654

2 жыл бұрын

Damn, that's tough.

Hey clay! My LDR “Bipolar” ex and I broke up in March. After a month of the breakup we starting talking and connecting. Getting closer and closer with the connection, til mid July she opened up about her bipolar and that she regretted things and didn’t want to let me go and loved me dearly. We didn’t want to rush things so we agreed to not label us and see where things go. Mid August she started to get less talkative and distant. She went on trips with her friends and family for a month, which I left her alone most of the time to enjoy herself. This moment in time she told me she’s met a guy and can only be a friend to me, to which I declined as I have too many feelings to just be a friend. Does this class as a rebound as we were very close only 2 months ago? What should I do as I don’t think she wants to talk while with him?

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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Clay can you give guidance on how your ex is to get rid of the guilt for hurting my feelings. I know he feels terrible about it all especially me being continually supportive and kind/caring

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2 жыл бұрын

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Clay it's been two months since my ex left me. Now she has blocked me and unblocked and blocked me. How can you connect if you can't connect ?

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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Why do you call her your “big ex”? If she had a weight problem, that’s kind of harsh, dude!

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2 жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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Жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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2 жыл бұрын

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