“your life is for you” I dont think enough people especially parents realize this

@user-qv4vg3qn6k

23 күн бұрын

Yes, that you said is really and actually my parents they think they can tell me what to do with my body. But i don't care for the world and so much for their opinions. Im not sure for who i am but i want to find my self . And if i know i feel scaring in the thought of doing came out . Because i don't know how they can react and i start believe i can't trust them. I believe always i was feel different of others in seriously i start thinking that i can be non binary or something like that.

When I learned what transgender meant it took this huge weight off my shoulders. Just knowing that I wasn't the only person to experience all those confusing dysphoric/euphoric feelings was such a relief. I spent a good chunk of my life thinking I was insane.

@Random-lg8eq

2 жыл бұрын

I hope that you are feeling a lot better

@mariomitchell2864

Жыл бұрын

I regret to inform you that you are.

@fireispog3417

Жыл бұрын

I have EXTREME eurphoria

@sxhi3852

Жыл бұрын

Fr like I can change my gender?? 🤩🤩

@prooyuncu6857

Жыл бұрын

👁👄👁 ima trans I have them all

Someone finally gendered me correctly today honestly~ they apologized because a few weeks ago they called me dude, then today he came to me and said “hey sorry, I know you said you’re trans, so I won’t do it again, and honestly you’re looking like a girl right now” and my heart dropped~… I blushed and honestly I was really happy

@SamZilstegedosthereal

27 күн бұрын

💀💀

@PVPGAMERGOD170

26 күн бұрын

Sounds u had a crush

@owletsnowy

20 күн бұрын

Awee good luck on ur transitioning journey and whatnot

@danielvillalobos3655

7 күн бұрын

@@owletsnowy been a year since, there are no traces of my previous self left. people and even transphobes see me as a woman now. unless i say i'm trans, people won't even notice

@drnomo

17 сағат бұрын

Hope your living your best life!

0:35 - 0:45 I am glad that you took the time to acknowledge that non-binary people are not obligated to also identify with the word trans, but I am also glad that you also do identify with that.

@theharshtruthoutthere

6 ай бұрын

Being "trans" is a lie from masons, search about them, be not deceived by them. none are "trans", all are victims of masonry depopulation agenda.

I started to cry watching this. I am a biological born female, but it never really felt right. I still use she/her and never really seriously considered being transgender. But watching this, I felt like it hit something inside. I resonated more with the signs then I thought I would. I always, like I said, felt like something was wrong/uncomfortable. I wished, and still do, that one day I will wake up and be a boy. I don’t really mind being called she/her, but the gender specific compliments, those hurt. When I got a more "male" clothing style, people stopped complementing me. Only when I would were dresses I got complimented. I have never known much about the LGBTQ+ community, mostly because of my west side upbringings. being gay wasn’t a big no no, but I feel like being transgender is a whole nother level. But last year I got into this school which are really open and accepting of the LGBTQ+ community, and I have learned so much about it. I still remember the first week of school and me classmates asked in our group chat what our pronouns were and suggesting making little cards with everyone’s pronouns on them and hang them up in our classroom. I just remember thinking it was so wholesome and considerate. I am still questioning my gender, pronouns, and sexuality, but being around the environment at school and watching videos like these really make me learn and find out more about myself. Thank you to anyone who read this. I am really bad at talking about my feelings, and I don`t have many friends to talk about this either.

@lynnsaga1397

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy this video might have helped you figure out who are. and it's amazing that you're in an environment you feel more comfortable and came discover who you are!

@boobliker666

Жыл бұрын

UR SCHOOL SOUNDS SO COOL I WISH MINE WAS LIKE THAT :")

@PeaceToAll-sl1db

Жыл бұрын

you are what you are born as - rest is all just bs

@boobliker666

Жыл бұрын

@@PeaceToAll-sl1db way to kill the vibe moron

@Mx_Ash

Жыл бұрын

@@PeaceToAll-sl1db no

This is amazing, and I'm really glad that this was made. I've been using the label "transgender" for about half a year now but there's always the thought of "what if im just faking for attention" or "you're lying to yourself." This really helped get rid of most of the doubt I was experiencing :D Tysm

@lynnsaga1397

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy it helped!

@Deutschland_for_everyone

7 ай бұрын

Honestly same here but I just can't get over it

Due to a lack of LGBTQ+ education in my childhood & teen years, I never came to my trans conclusion until lockdown...but I suppose there were some early indicators: 1) I always winced whenever my mum (& maybe some other relatives) called me stuff like 'handsome boy.' 2) I never liked using the urinal in public bathrooms & stubbornly used cubicals. 3) whenever having to introduce myself, a part of me would die inside whenever I would have to say my deadname out loud. 4) this one probably doesn't matter but I hate having my hair cut too short because it looked way too macho.

@TheWizardEmu

2 жыл бұрын

I've been questioning my gender for a while now, but I really relate to that 4th sign you mentioned. I really hate having my hair cut too short. It makes me feel so uncomfortable that I can't even bear to see myself in the mirror. I also heavily relate to the 2nd sign you mentioned

@Cherrycreamsoda1

2 жыл бұрын

How old were you when u came out, if you don't mind me asking?

@AmethystOrlando

2 жыл бұрын

@@Cherrycreamsoda1 I came to my conclusion during lockdown 2020, sometime after being exposed & educated to LGBTQ+ rep. I came out in 2021. I was 21 years old in both scenarios!

@arreliume5871

2 жыл бұрын

Omygod, same 😭 I've been experiencing all of this what is happening to me 😭.

@mizzou1016

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao you can’t be serious. those aren’t indicators that you’re trans. It’s indicators that you’re insecure and socially awkward.

I’ve got my first gender counselling appointment tomorrow and I had to send this to my girlfriend so she can understand me a little better. I’m a transman

@lynnsaga1397

2 жыл бұрын

Awwww that’s amazing! I hope the appointment goes well☺️

@anaveragemuppet

2 жыл бұрын

@@lynnsaga1397 I only went and got my diagnosis of gender dysphoria- next step, T! Your boy smashed it! 💙💖🤍💖💙

@Random-lg8eq

2 жыл бұрын

@@anaveragemuppet Congratulations!! How is it going so far? As someone who wants to take T is their anything you could recommend or warn me about?

@anaveragemuppet

2 жыл бұрын

@@Random-lg8eq I haven’t started yet, but I’ve had the go ahead for Nebido which is a shot that you get every twelve weeks

@cosmicaeris

Жыл бұрын

@@anaveragemuppet hey, how’s T going? :)

my biggest one was euphoria. i would spend HOURS in cosplay because i was so comfortable and safe in the way that i was presenting. so much confidence in masculine outfits. eventually, i realized i didn’t have to force myself to be a girl if i didn’t want to anymore

@oddoperator3524

Жыл бұрын

I feel that too, I used to like to put my moms dresses on since those were the only thing that even came close to fitting me (5’5 vs 5’11) which doesn’t help lol, I really want to get a girly shirt or something

first off- Your hair looks really cool! (I'm a little envious) Secondly, this video made me very happy! Thank you so much Lynn! Today someone in my class said something kind of transphobic to me and it made me feel really bad but this cheered me right up, so thank you, thank you so much!

@lynnsaga1397

2 жыл бұрын

Awww I'm sorry someone said that to you, but you are always welcome here and I'm glad my video cheered you up!

@thenamescara64

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry that someone was transphobic towards you, no matter what they say your identity is 100% valid! You will always be welcome in the community, we accept you!

I really needed this. I’m starting the process of getting hrt and doubting myself and what I’m feeling and this put things back into perspective

I'm a 15-year-old transgender girl, and I really like this video! I have identified as a girl since I was a little kid, but I didn't know the exact term for it, and I was living as gender-neutral socially. The puberty you talked about didn't necessarily make me feel uncomfortable until when I was 14 it started to get uncomfortable that I want to develop female characteristics. Thank you for this video and hopefully this will help people that are questioning their gender identity and for those too, that don't know about gender dysphoria. P.S. My doctor made a referral to a transgender outpatient clinic and it got accepted! :) All I ever need to wait is an appointment.

@grumpythelittlemermaid9680

2 жыл бұрын

Cool!

@Random-lg8eq

2 жыл бұрын

As a 14-year-old closeted gay trans male, I felt the exact same. I was never a stereotypical girl (never liked pink, refused to wear dresses, my parents even got me a doll house to make me more “girly” and I put wood lice in it 😂😂😂)

@robbex416

Жыл бұрын

@@Random-lg8eq YOU ARE 14 YEARS OLD OMG, what the hell is going on with you kids?! you don’t have to like pink, wear dresses, and like pretty stuff to be a girl. wtf

@PeaceToAll-sl1db

Жыл бұрын

sad that you are suffering from this condition - hope you get medication

@ironmatt718

Жыл бұрын

sorry but people who do this at a young age shouldnt ...he or she should of wait till there 18 at least bc alot of people who did this at a young age and then when they got older more then half of them said they shouldnt of done it or regret it or wished they had better parents bc there no going back and now they have ruined there lives. parents who let there children do this at a young age are idiots and shouldnt of became parents. when this is done at a young age they still dont understand life and world we live in and plenty of other things as well. so after w.e they have gotten done and as the years go by and get older they know more and understand more and as i said more then half said they never should of done it, it was wrong etc...

Bro you make me so happy with those videos, it's so relatable😭

i am really needing this more than ever atm :/ gender crisis going harrrdddddd :P

@lynnsaga1397

2 жыл бұрын

I hope it helps ☺️

@Weirdo7693

2 жыл бұрын

Same

This video is just what I needed today, thank you so much!

@lynnsaga1397

2 жыл бұрын

Awwww I’m glad it was☺️

I'm a 14F. I'm not really sure. Ever since I was a kid, I loved dressing up in boy clothes. My parents, siblings, friends, and family used to call me tomboy. I didn't feel uncomfortable being a female, but something about being Male mad me feel safer. So in 2020 I asked my parents if I could cut my hair short and they said yes. When i cut it short, I felt more comfortable and free. I don't know if I'm trans or not, it's driving me crazy.

@xz740

Жыл бұрын

You are female with short hair. Boys can have long hair, girls can have short hair. The key thing you said is that you feel safer. Has someone or does society make you feel unsafe being female?

@Heheheheehheehehhehheh

Жыл бұрын

@@xz740 not really, I just feel uncomfortable and that being a girl doesn't suit me

@xz740

Жыл бұрын

@@Heheheheehheehehhehheh What is “being a girl”?

@Heheheheehheehehhehheh

Жыл бұрын

@@xz740 my body, my gender. It just doesn't suit me, that's how I feel

@rainbowlightx

Жыл бұрын

oh my god are you me? I feel the same way! Im glad Im not alone.

I've been questioning for years now. Somehow I just know that I want to be a girl, but I can't explain why. I'm constantly ruminating about this, constantly going from thinking I'm a trans woman to thinking maybe I've just been a cis guy all along, back and forth like a switch being turned on and off countless times. Sometimes neither of the binary genders feels right. I've tried just saying I'm non-binary to be done with the questioning, but I'm still unsure if that fits, and I keep finding myself wondering if I'm a trans woman no matter what I do. I've tried changing my pronouns to she/her countless times. Each time I do, I usually go back to he/him in about 2 or 3 weeks, after I realise that merely changing my pronouns isn't enough for me. Recently when I changed my pronouns back to she/her, it seemed like people didn't even care to use them- they'd just call me he anyway, or completely avoid using pronouns when referring to me altogether. It's like no one believes in my gender identity enough to respect it, and I hate that. How am I supposed to learn to feel comfortable with myself, if I can't even be referred to in a way that feels right? I feel like I always have to use he/him just so OTHER people can be happy. I just feel desensitised to it because people call me that every day of my life. Or that's what I keep telling myself at least. After a while, all this questioning doesn't even make sense to me. However, I feel like maybe I'm getting confused. Maybe the reason that I thought I could be trans in the first place is actually because the narrative of feeling really depressed and uncomfortable for your whole life, until a certain point where you can get the right help and be your truest self, really resonated with me, rather than me actually being transgender if that makes sense. Like, this is kinda how my anxiety and my depression make me feel, but I might have such high anxiety and depression for different reasons. If anyone out there has read through all these ramblings of mine, thanks so much :) I really hope I'm not alone in how I feel, because it feels really isolating and horrible

@UczuciaTM

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like you definitely should talk to more trans people through Twitter, Instagram, and/or discord (specifically transfems). They may be able to help you by sharing their own experience. And for the pronouns thing, being in trans friendly spaces online helps. (I know it won’t fix misgender irl, trust me. I get misgendered left and right.)

@Kathen

2 жыл бұрын

Have you considered the possibility of being gender fluid?

@TheWizardEmu

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kathen Yeah I have before. I've watched videos about what genderfluidity is from people who are genderfluid, and I don't think I am genderfluid.

@RyuAkutagawa

Жыл бұрын

I have to say, wow. excuse my english, it's not my native language and i'm using the translator because although i know enough to write this i'm too lazy to use my brain so now, no one had written my feelings in such an exact way that you just did, I didn't know how to do it and I didn't think there was a way to do it but here you are, you and your comment...Well I, I have had no self-esteem in my whole life (I am 16 years old) and I feel exactly the same way as you, except that I feel that the possible confusion is because of my lack of self-esteem and depression I'm writing all this and I don't have an answer for our situation either but I just wanted to say thanks for tidying things up for me even a little bit I wish I could help you but I can only wish you luck and tell you that even if you don't see it possible now you will feel better soon

@neuralmute

Жыл бұрын

You're not alone. I've been dealing with depression much of my life, but I also think that some of the cause might be that I've been living as the wrong gender. (I'm nonbinary, leaning to trans-masc.) But I also sometimes wonder if I'm crazy to even be trying to transition, because so many of the people around me don't understand trans issues, or care to, apart from saying "We love you no matter what," whatever that's supposed to mean, while still misgendering me every time I see them. The pain is real. And before anyone suggests it, I don't do social media. I'm a grouchy Gen-Xer, and I eschew those pretty hate machines... Except this one. ;)

I realised I was trans through dreams, I would have lucid dreams where I was a girl, and it just felt right, I changed my name and pronouns, and I now feel sooo much better, it's like I can finally be free

@Kleptomaniac-trans-girl

Жыл бұрын

I have dreams every night about waking up as a girl. Those dreams are the best!

@lizardthewizard595

11 ай бұрын

Love those dreams

@davidbezer5011

11 ай бұрын

Oh my goodness that is so me right now

@AVEN_VANCE

8 ай бұрын

Same but opposite gender :0

@bionikc

4 ай бұрын

Omg same. Big same.

One time my mom asked me “what name would you want if you decided you were a boy. And it was a minute before I answered “Gabriel.” And then I thought about it for a moment and thought “oh my god, I answered too fast.” And then she asked me “and if you were non binary?” I didn’t respond this time but in my head I thought “Either Ellis or Mako.” And I think about it a lot. More of the “but I’m not non-binary?” And then thinking about it so much that I just give up because I don’t have the energy.

@idk_sis

2 жыл бұрын

I just wanna say, I love the name Mako 🤣 And I can definitely relate to giving up on thinking about it bc it takes too much energy and turns depressing. That’s all I wanted to say lol, but goodluck on your gender journey!

I started crying at 4:28 finally having explaination to what's happening to me feels so good. Thank you so much ❤

Watching this right before I post that I am trans to my socials bc I was gaslighting myself into thinking I wasn’t trans. Thank you for this video, it really helped me :)

For me, my gender dysphoria growing up was very very subtle. I didn’t like being called she. I felt so disconnected to “she,” as well as my birth name, and I thought it was normal, I guess? But I liked being called a girl and stuff, and I actually liked that changes that happened to my body during puberty. But, I guess that’s because I’m still very feminine🧍🏻 Then one day, last year, I suddenly realized “hey, neopronouns are pretty poggers” And like a day or 2 later I just randomly thought, “I wouldn’t mind being seen as nonbinary” And then the gender crisis started at 17😭😭 Now I’m a demiboy/nonbinary boy (I use both because Im a demiboy but I’m also a boy in a nonbinary way? Idk)

I've recently started questioning my gender. I remember having thoughts as a child about the line that goes through the male genitals and thought that it was where my parents chose to make me a boy before i was born and wished that there was an easy way to undo that. Little did i know then that this was actually how males are formed. Never been too comfortable in my own skin. once tried waxing my legs during lock down just to see how that felt... it was very nice. however, I am a Dad... and have since grown to like that title and not sure i'd have it any other way. so there might be conflict between who i've become (a dad and husband) and who might be my true self. maybe it's in between, I've yet to figure this out and i don't really have privacy away from any that would be affected by my trying different gendered things. The sad thing is that the reality might be that I might find out that i'm trans and not have the courage to disrupt my family life and hope that everything is ok in the end. Upon reading this back to myself, maybe i need a therapist to help me work through somethings. it's a mind field! I absolutely admire anyone who decides that they are trans and goes through with it.

As a child especially in middle school I was fine whenever somebody used my biological pronouns he/him but whenever someone used she/her or they/them it always just made me feel really comfortable. Actually for a while I thought being trans was just the opposite of your gender and since I was fine with people calling me by my biological pronouns I thought I was like genderfluid or agender until I dug deeper down into the trans community so thank you :)

Okay I was thinking I was a trans male but I still watched this video and everything was correct like I always wear baggy clothes to cover my chest and cut my hair always hated being called a female and the way I mostly found out was when I was at a restaurant and they referred to me as a male and omg I felt sooo good- I came out to my mother and my step father and two step sisters and ofc my best friend and I say that I am trans online and stuff but besides those people there is a lot who don’t know and I am thinking of getting a binder and a flag soon so that’s good!

I'm a late bloomer, exploring my gender identity now that I'm 35. But I've never been comfortable with my natal gender, and I remember distinctly episodes when it was so painfully glaring, in hindsight. But it was different times, and we didn't have the words, the notion of gender identity and transness back there. I might be late to the game, but I'm here now, fighting tooth and nail to be seen for who I am 💪

Watching this video all those years ago really helped me figure out what this feeling was inside of me. I was hating myself and just basically thinking no matter how hard I tried to force being cis it would never work out it would never give me that felling of reassurance of being proud and happy about who I was. So thank you so very much for making this.

Almost cried watching it, i thought i was the only one who felt like this, thank you :)

Being someone who rarely experiences gender dysphoria, this video was very helpful. I never really had any issues with being a guy growing up (other than the body hair thing... that hit hard) but once I started exploring femininity and pronouns and names... it all just clicked super well. like damn.

@Queen-Bubbles32

Жыл бұрын

Same

@jordanstark5924

9 ай бұрын

Saaame. I mean I've always avoided the hell out of mirrors so it would be easier to not notice things but definitely the hair has always bothered me a lot. My friend just recently took me shopping for clothes and my first time trying on leggings was like "omg is this that euphoria thing they talk about?" I mean I'm still not sure how I feel exactly but we're getting somewhere 😭

@takashimizutani1808

8 ай бұрын

​@@jordanstark5924omg gg 😂 You're making me realise I have forgotten so many things cuz of trauma puberty was hell and since I'm autistic I made up multiple personalities and lied to myself to protect myself in my violent toxic environment my conservative ass 3rd world country and crazy mom 😢

I have been questioning my gender ever since I knew what transgender was. At the start, puberty was bad. I grew bewbs at a young age because of genes and body weight. I was in outright denial about being in puberty and having breasts. I refused to wear a bra until my mom said I had to. Even then I didn't want to have bras with padding, because I didn't want my bewbs to look bigger. I also never liked being called stuff like "Princess," or gendered nicknames. I even had a phase where I dressed more feminine to "Hide who I was," (I was questioning my sexuality, deep in the closet). I had one time where I told my parents I wanted to dress more masculine. I had been eyeing up the button-up shirts at the men's clothing store. They agreed to let me try them on, so that I would see that they didn't fit. They didn't fit, and I felt so bad I wanted to cry, but I didn't.

@itzflowertea311

2 ай бұрын

I started to question my gender when i found out abt trans too! Ive never had problems w being a girl- but i remember before i didnt know what trans rlly is i made my avatar a guy.. and it made me feel a bit better- I still chose girl avatars bc- idk i felt closer to girls.. IT TURNS LIKE A SWITCH I SOMETIMES WANT FO BE A GIRL AND SOMETIMES A BOY and this is so confusing- help

Oh my. Thank you so much for posting this! I actually teared up watching this. I just wish I hadn't repressed this and left it so late in life. And finally....: I see you!! 💜

I cried while watching this

I disagree with the narrative that women are “pretty” and grow up, get married, & have kids. No one has to do any of those things.

@Andres.Duran.J

9 ай бұрын

Why its how humanity has been running for like always

Thanks! I'm non-binary and I believe I, too, am trans :) Thank you for this. I love your channel. This video (and content) is so relatable.

@unknowngreenguy

Жыл бұрын

Your not non-binary youre non-logical .

@karacourtney3271

Жыл бұрын

​@@unknowngreenguy Learn about intersex / nonbinary chromosomes before you comment.

@unknowngreenguy

Жыл бұрын

@@karacourtney3271 get some bread before you talk. The bitches love some good bread

@musicmakesmecalm

Жыл бұрын

​@@unknowngreenguy There is no such word as "non-logical". It's illogical. Instead of bringing people down, why don't you learn English first

@L3corpwt

Жыл бұрын

Good to see another nonbinary person in the comments

i am so happy that i found this video, knowing that i am trans feels refreshing like all the weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

2:35 is SO SO relatable. Like i hated it the whole time like “ugh why do ‘I’ have to have this?” And it felt to so wrong etc

@lavenderthecrystalfury4808

Ай бұрын

4:14 that story is so fricking relatable

Finding out that I'm trans really helped explain the "weird" things I did in childhood. And really explained me being dissociated through puberty longer than recovering from a brain surgery.

@solsystem1342

Жыл бұрын

Wow, that one felt a bit too close to home. Not surgery but flashbacks did cause me to dissociate less than puberty lmao

This video helped me so much. I’m a male to female! ^_^

Thank you so much for this, it helped me so much!!!!

This helped me a lot. I was confused and was scared to actually revel myself. I had thought it was just I needed to be more feminine but it was to b3 something else. Thanks for this video so much love and I am going to start out nonbinary.

When people called me young lady I felt like I was dying inside. I was once referred to as sir by a waiter and it made my day. Thought I was cis for 10 years after that.

many women don't associate with wanting a stereotypical female gender roles that doesn't mean they should be a trans ' man' puberty is uncomfortable for everyone the problem is all the stereotypes used what people do to is not the problem what is strange are all the stereotypes

@user-qv4vg3qn6k

23 күн бұрын

Stereotypes and gossips is really for hell . The future is on our hands !!!! ❤ ✊ I want to be anything i want not that i must to be.

Ive recently come to terms with me possibly being trans and it feels amazing being accepted by my friends but my family wont ever accept me for who i am. I have had a pretty good relationship with my parents, even if their not really emotionally there for me they still raised me with love. But ever since ive started being more "boyish" they have become abit hostile. My mom hates the idea of me being a boy and it makes me really really sad. The fact that my mom and dad wont ever accept me hurts so much because ive always loved them so much and still do, and the fact that when they say they love me could be a lie is somthing i cant handle atall. This video helped me alot, especially the part about life being short and living happy,hope your living your best life, this goes out to all the trans people around the world

Hearing you say you're a non-binary person who identify with the word trans, mean a lot as that how i feel quite often but always thought to myself that you can only be on or the other, this has opened my mind quite abit, thank you

Always nice to see you lynn you are perfect the way you are you are part of the trans umbrella just as much as you are part of the asexual umbrella you are beautiful and perfect inside and out love you the way you are i always count you as a close friend thank you lynn

@lynnsaga1397

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!

Loved this!

@lynnsaga1397

2 жыл бұрын

Awwwwww thank you so much!

Thank you for making this

I used to love being a girl, but once I started puberty I felt really dysphoric about the changes, periods, chest growing, stuff like that, I think I might be trans because I would feel really euphoric if I were seen as a boy, I don’t hate being a girl but if I had the choice to be a boy I would take it

This helped me thank you I was forced to come out because my boyfriend at the time didn’t want me because I told him I wasn’t comfortable in my body and we broke up it was hard but I was forced to come out when I told my mom and she was supportive and lately I have been confused about what I am but I know a will find out sooner or later I’ve been playing around with names and pronouns for a couple days and it’s been fun just looking for a new way to express myself thank you I hope your doing well sorry for the rant I needed to get this off my chest

Hiiii, so cis-women here (at least I think I am) As I am ace-pan and very invested in the queer community, I am around a lot of genderqueer and trans people (like queer people in general) and I think because of that I am very aware of the struggles and stages of these identeties. I don‘t believe in the gender binary and don‘t really feel conected to „womenhood“ but I also don‘t necessarily feel uncomfortable being (and being conceived) as a women. I think (and this is just completely my opinion) gender doesnt matter (for me) it‘s just all very absurd to me to try to lable a feeling that is sooo very individual and is based on a societal construct. I hope I‘m getting my point across without sounding invalidating. I just think a world without gender would be great (as much as I‘d be possible. I love you videos, and thank you so much for your time if your reading this :)

@lynnsaga1397

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you’re comment and it definitely didn’t invalid me. I just know gender does matter so some folks but I’m trans non-binary so not so much to me lol

@ws6778

2 жыл бұрын

The more time goes by, the more I grew out of gender and relationship roles and divisions, that is to say that I am genderqueer and asexual but I also was panromantic and non-monogamous before I turned to be a relationship anarchist and rejected relationship roles and divisions all together.

@UczuciaTM

2 жыл бұрын

Gender matters to me! I’m a fiend for labels to describe myself, so that’s part of it. But, my gender identity is really important to me.

@yokoumi7983

2 жыл бұрын

@@UczuciaTM I'm happy for you, that's great! I just never understood it myself

It's a crazy ride (I came out as MTF) some years back and it still haunts me. No motivation, but I guess everyone is different. I'm still figuring it out! Thanks for the Video. I see other beautiful female friends and I seem to relate to them a bit more!

I feel like everyone is so happy about finding who they really are… for me it just feels so dreadful… i love doing masculine things but he/him doesn’t feel right so for a long time i just identified as enby. But a friend told me “its okay to change how you feel about yourself as you grow and get to know yourself better”. That hit me like a semi truck i dont know what im going to do.. i hate my body and i dont know what to do. There isn’t anything i can do… (i know ftm people have it a lot harder but I still wanna voice my own struggles)

I still don’t know I wanna be a male, but it feels wrong since my parents are…kinda homophobic so I don’t wanna be disowned. I always hang with boys and it feels normal then with girls it feels weird…my period now makes me feel like a woman, but I wanna be male for a while now. It feels wrong and weird.. I don’t know if this is a sign I might, but I also always want short hair now. I wanna do cheer, but wanna be a boy. I’m scared.

@Theearthisflat22

5 ай бұрын

Jesus loves you turn to him and repeat John 3:16. “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” Psalm 23 “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.” Colossians 3:12 “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” Romans 12:2 “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is-his good, pleasing and perfect will.” Please seek help from the bible it will change your life Jesus loves you ;)

@ThatOneJupiter

5 ай бұрын

@@Theearthisflat22 lol

@Theearthisflat22

5 ай бұрын

@@ThatOneJupiter do you want to be scared, angry and confused all your life?

@ThatOneJupiter

5 ай бұрын

@@Theearthisflat22 idk

@Theearthisflat22

5 ай бұрын

@@ThatOneJupiter then please just a least look into Christianity the bible will give you guidance for your life

Im an AFAB enby, but i associate with a lot of these. im fine being called female pronouns and my assigned name, but I usually ask people, including my teachers, to call me my nickname(gio) NO MATTER WHAT! I really like my birth name, i think its pretty. It feels feminine, unlike me, but I meet people who are with gn/masc names and are feminine, so it makes me feel fine. im fine with not changing my name or legal gender, but I see myself as nonbinary. This just made me feel even better. -gio (she/him)

Thank you so much for this video it's helping me realize a few things!! Like whenever I go get my hair cut Im never satisfied with it, and when I finally got a haircut kinda to what I wanted (my mom doesn't like what I want) I was so freaking happy it honestly was probably one of the times I was the most happy in my whole life. Also when people tell me I look like a guy I can't help but smile. Anyways, thank you so much!! ♡♡

Thank you for this video. I’ve been very confused and I feel better about it thank you so muc

Fun fact (?) :If your autistic your more likley to be trans or non binary. I do light research on autisim and i can tell if people are autistic (most of thd time) but literally only through roblox 😭 like uh my friend ace i asked them P O L I T L E Y if they were autistic and they said they are getting diagnosed soon, the asked me why and i said i can smell it, same thig happened wih my other friend but i was wrong, the actually had ADD (ADHD but different, im researching about it yet so im not gonna say anything about it)

@MisterHamiltonn

11 ай бұрын

That's pretty cool (I'm autistic)

@Frkes

11 ай бұрын

@@MisterHamiltonn ouh me and my friends all agree autistic people are better

I’m Trans MTF Awww I love this! I totally agree! I looove your videos! I really hope you create more content!Im Vanessa by the way! 🌈❤️

Thanks to this video, I have found happiness and myself! Thank you so much you have really saved me

This video was helpful thanks lot.

As an afab transmasc demigirl I personally never felt that uncomfortable with my period. It felt like something neutral. I never got told by my mother that I was becoming a woman or any of that, she just helped with process. Also I have adhd and experience hyperactivity that can be unbearable at times. I guess I get relieved when I feel like I can naturally relax. I donno periods feel so removed from gender for me. I also have an odd relationship with my bits that are traditionally gendered by some. I sometimes wish my chest was bigger and more older looking?? I wish my entire body was taller and had more grown proportions. I wouldn't mind being tall and busty because then I could be masculine in a edgy "punk" girl way. But I'm small and I don't feel like breaking my legs to be 5'7" so I'll settle with small guy with nice tits who looks kinda fruity. On that note I get strong bottom dysphoria at times and wish I had a functional penis. My ideal self makes sense in my head but I'm aware society in general probably wouldn't take me seriously?? Idk I doubt it :/

Pray for all of y’all😔, love all y’all even tho I don’t support yall

I know this is an old video, but OMG I NEED that background on my devices.

I am a cis man, and Sometimes I ask myself "am I trans? Or rather, I would do anything to not work out and eat healthier?" Three signs in and I am pointed towards the latter.😢

I came out to my friends and they al loved me for who I am exempt 1 who didn't understand , but when she did start to get it and called me by my preferred gender , it felt amazing 😊

Can you do a "signs your white video?", I am struggling with my ethnicity identity.

First, thank so much for this video. Second, I absolutely love your glasses - what frames are they?

thank you this helped me so much

Before you think you’re transgender just give yourself some time to think, Chances are you’re not. You don’t need to be girly to be a girl you just need to be yourself, don’t worry what this person says, you can still be a girl and like all the things that guys like!! I was born with a lot of Brothers, and I guess I wouldn’t act like a girl, but even so, I am still a girl you can’t change the fact who you are biologically. It’s more that you need to accept yourself❤

@BugB0Y_.

11 ай бұрын

What?

@flowerstem733

11 ай бұрын

Shortened: you can’t identify as another gender

@BugB0Y_.

11 ай бұрын

@@flowerstem733 yes you can :/

@BugB0Y_.

11 ай бұрын

@@flowerstem733 and before you start talking again, why come on videos like these just to type a useless paragraph? You think you have effect on people? No lol you don't

@user-wu2hr9eg2j

11 ай бұрын

what should you go about it then because it’s a mental thing. they can’t stand living in their biological sex so they transition to not hurt themselves.

Five signs you might be a failure

@HighProteinPowder

Жыл бұрын

can’t believe you wanted to figure out if you’re a failure

I can’t tell you how comfortable I am in my own skin by being on testosterone and starting my transition medically. I been so happy lately

I watched this whole thing and it almost made me cry. You are the most nicest person I have ever watched. After this video. I found out. Yes the idea in my mind is true. I’m trans…thank you for this and I hope you have a great day

Oh yeah… there is none. Shout out to the homies who know there’s only man and woman. They know wassup.

@barryledgister4496

3 ай бұрын

This content creator is just making stuff up. Ah, let em all get their hormones and surgery. We`ll just sit back and laugh.

@PropainActual

3 ай бұрын

@@barryledgister4496 damn straight

@aliensarerealexe

2 ай бұрын

As a trans guy, I find your comment funny because you're just objectively wrong lmao. Intersex is the third gender. Look into it or not, just stay ignorant

Stop the propaganda please. This does not come from inside, this can only be learned.

@user-on5km5pz8f

3 ай бұрын

Bruh !

@aliensarerealexe

2 ай бұрын

"Stop this propaganda!!!1!!!!1" I would've been DEAD if i didn't make this choice

@czarnakoza9697

2 ай бұрын

@@aliensarerealexe i feel bad that you are only 13 and you did this to yourself

@ryanthomas9306

2 ай бұрын

@@aliensarerealexedying by a disease is one thing, taking one’s life for a cult is another. Don’t drink too much coolaid

thank you!! i already know i’m trans but this helped me find words to explain to my mom who doesn’t understand/support me being trans

Thank you for your videos they are excellent.

You're not non-binary. There's no such thing.

@billtruttschel

Жыл бұрын

@UCIEzredAYtM5WTkkP6dqNkA No you're not. Non-binary is a made-up category. Your body either produces sperm or eggs.

@billtruttschel

Жыл бұрын

@@mxsilly No, they are not different. Yes, I've heard of intersex.

@billtruttschel

Жыл бұрын

@@mxsilly You apparently need the leg analogy. Just because some people are born with one leg doesn't mean humans aren't bipedal or that the number of legs is on a spectrum. Same thing with gender. If you have a genetic or developmental defect (i.e. intersex), that doesn't make gender a spectrum. It's still binary. Get it now?

@billtruttschel

Жыл бұрын

@@mxsilly You do. Your body either has ovaries or testicles. Which one is it?

@billtruttschel

Жыл бұрын

@@mxsilly I don't really care which one it is, but my point is that you have one or the other.

brainwashed

Thank you You helped me as I have questioned myself and I don’t feel like a boy

I never disliked getting called male, but one time someone mistook me for a girl is one of mi fondest memory's

I’m still identifying as bi and genderfluid, but have started questioning whether or not I am trans, in my late thirties as an amab. I grew up in a household where I was the only (biological) boy. At school I didn’t want to play the rough games the boys were playing. I was more than happy to play with the girls. It was more fun, and gentler. From a young age, I was so certain that my genitals were wrong. Like something had been done to them surgically. Today, I asked friend if they would use my preferred pronouns and name, and they said yes. And when they used my name, and called me she, it was so amazing. I wanted to happy cry.

I am trying to find out if I am trans, non-binary or something else and this video is very informative, thank you very much!!

I got this recommended but I was certain I'm not trans. Still, I thought "Why not watch any way and just rule out every sign?" Unsurprisingly, I'm happy with my gender. But the first few points still resonated with me and I noticed there is a piece of my identity that was assigned at birth and I've spent every waking moment since I can remember trying to deny. I feel I can understand you lot much better now. So much so, I want to give 2 more signs and hopefully someone will relate to them: The frustration when someone (ie. the bank or a government agency) has your papers and you have to bite the bullet and identify the way it's written and not the way you feel. The pity you feel for missing experiences others born into the life you want had in childhood and other stages that have already passed you by. Of course, there is a massive chance I'm just talking out of my arse here and this has nothing to do with your feelings. In any case, stay strong my friends. Sometimes life isn't fair; but once you turn it around, you can be proud of yourself.

I hated my body (body hair the most) since puberty started and always had reocurring thoughts and daydreaming about being a girl and how cool would that be and always hated when someone called me a man and that I am gonna get married in the future. Since nobody talked about it I just shrugged it off and told myself that it's normal and every guy goes through this and I just need to get used to it. Now I am confident in the fact that I am trans but when I start doubting myself and thinking I am just faking it for atention and to be unique I go to this type of content for reassurance or talk to my close friend and that doubt goes away as soon as he calls me by my preffered name and pronouns (she/her) Thank you for making this video

Through this list, I certainly agree with this. Ever since my early adulthood, I kinda started hated to be going by identity of myself a man and sometimes these days, I’ve felt very lost and unstable when people refer me as a he/him. I’ve been used to they/them lately as my pronouns. When people refer me as woman or just not as a guy, I tend to feel a lot victory and joy in myself from that apparently. Yes I sure hated going through puberty but I’m grateful that I have puberphonia and that my voice didn’t get that much deeper and yeah I do kinda have a woman voice in me naturally as I do not talk at my chest. I feel myself pretty different from many guys I knew back then and with some I’ve known lately but of course I still accept friendships with all gender identities. I remembered how when I was younger, I never obsessed sports and wanted to feel and look more cute and stylish, and I would hang out with girls very frequently at lunchtimes in school, as well as in school group projects; my thoughts made me feel better being around elements towards mostly those I was around more often. I feel gender euphoria quite a lot as yeah when I style myself or go in pathways on myself different from my assigned birth sex, I tend to feel very enthusiastic and joyful about it.

Dear Lynn Saga I love your videos also I do feel that I'm gender fluid and trans where you mentioned the body hair I also do feel feminine at times but it's rare when it happens I was and am still afraid to go through with the changes and you spoke about how being afraid of being made fun of I personally am scared to be judged or looked at differently I had a friend she is going through the procedure of breast removal but no lower surgery and I've worn sports bras that made me feel sexy and good about myself ,really don't have much hair on top of my noggin wish it could grow thicker ,I like women's clothing but scared out of my mind to go out in public bring afraid I'll be ridiculed I am a bit self conscious and I was wondering if you have any words of advice for a fella who was told he may be gender blind I also do feel conflicted every so often every couple months it happens .

So true I am ftm trans and I get a very gut reaching in my stomach when people misgender me and call me by the wrong name. And I always be this way. All this stuff I go through and or have been through

Thank you for this video. I don't usually comment on videos, let alone anything a bit personal, but maybe someone else can relate to me. (Lengthy read below, whooo) Even though I have considered myself trans (Trans guy) for years now, and have always known I'm a guy, I still watch videos like these. On my own, every single day I feel more and more certain in who I am, but ever since my parents changed their minds on supporting me and told me that I'm lying to myself, that I'm being manipulated and that I'm in a cult... I feel like I watch these videos to try and show up my parent's thoughts that linger in my head, trying to prove to them that "this is me. No matter what you say." And to remind myself how much pain I'd be in if I gave into my parents thoughts and fully closetted myself. I do have a supportive environment and friends, so I can still be myself around them

whenever i’m called a girl i can only explain the feeling as either angzar (abbreviation for symbol nobody knows the meaning of) or just :3

You helped me a lot I keep trying to change myself for my family I’ve been wearing feminine clothes but it doesn’t feel right it feels like playing dress up

Literally ur experience describe how I felt and feel too

Thank you, now I’m sure, I just watched the nonbinary one, and I commented there too, but I wanted to say this, you actually have helped me, I thinked I could be trans, but I just couldn’t be a boy or just a girl, so I’ve been trying to find what I am, now I’m all clear, sincerely, I’m happy I’m not trans, because it would’ve been weird for me to say to my friends “ hey, I just found out I’m trans, hope you won’t leve me “ but with these two videos of you, now I’m sure that I’m bigender. Thank you again

watched this video a year or two ago when I was first learning about the lgbtq+ community. rewatching this now, I thank you so much for this video. Its helped me realized I was a trans man who was just desensitized to my gender dysphoria

This honestly convinced me I'm trans. I talked about it when my friends and for the most part they've been overwhelmingly positive. It's almost scary sometimes because they keep moving on faster then I do, but I'm greatful for that. Other then that I still gotta tell my parents so that'll be an experience, but I hope to grow into someone I can be proud of

When you said the first sign my mind when straight to hell everyone would call my queen instead of king in 4 square. Or how I would get uncomfortable when people call me a chick. So many things. Thanks for this video. I’m still trying to figure out if I’m trans and this helps a lot. ❤❤ Also anyone got a more masc name for Lilia?

Im in my midst of puberty and I always knew something wasn't right at a fairly young age but I never knew how to describe it until I figured out what the term Transgender was. As I am currently going through puberty things have just been getting worse but I am hopeful for the near future and to be able to start a transition medically.

@oddoperator3524

Жыл бұрын

Same here I used to constantly dream and think about being a girl, but now it’s just do I really want to shave 🙄 and if i do switch genders what if my family leaves me or if i’m not happy

I’m 11 and I’m a girl but i find myself very happy when I think abt me being a boy

the reason i know i am trans is 1-i am actually happy when thinking about transitioning. 2-i got some stuff to help the figure and other stuff like hair removal. guess the grass is always greener on the other side~ puberty was... URGH!!! as soon as hair started on other places... mental breakdowns. that was fun~ not i feel i have a privilege that my voice is not one sided masculine~ and i am very happy about it. in hindsight especially~ what a nice video~ i hope more people like you exist~

I think I’m trans THANK YOU❤️also can you do a video on how to use a binder safely

This helps me alot and makes me more comfortable to come out to My parents about being trans.