"shhhh, a little bit harder than they can do.😏" They do rise to expectations. You're precious 😉😉😉

This video really encouraged me. I am 26 years old, married with 5 children all under nine years of age. We have very, very few friends and little family around for support and encouragement. I am also finding myself having to start from scratch as God has been opening my eyes to things...I am having to figure out who I am as a person, what I believe...all while trying to be a wife and mother....I am struggling! I am struggling to know how to teach my children these things, your video was incredibly helpful! Thank you!

@rivkamalka1

9 жыл бұрын

ToLoveIsToLive89 I am sure you are doing a wonderful job! Your plate is full. If you want to talk through some of the things you mentioned, I invite you to set up a coaching session ( you can find a link on rivkamalka.com) and I'll be happy to offer support.

@michellejarboe5345

6 жыл бұрын

Don't forget still having time each month to date your partner & joining a support group! Getting a babysitter and having alone time is essential! I had three children under 4 years old. It's ok to space them out too if you want. Bruchas and nachas on your children, what a blessing!

@lamsrojo

6 жыл бұрын

yerb I don't think she will you kinda already threw those demands on her already. I'm Not trying to be a smart mouth but you kinda came off like parent planning representative I'm sure that's not what u meant to come off as..

@lamsrojo

6 жыл бұрын

ToLoveIsToLive89 I'm so totally on the same page as you right now in my life.....i know it's been 2 years since u put this comment up and I hope that by now u were able yo find comfort and strength. I have 6 kids and divorced and have literally no family cuz they all live a state away and I can't even consider moving closer to my family cuz my child custody visitation agreement would separate my kids from thier dad and cause me to have to pull my children from their community that they have grown up in and feel at home and stable. I was a Christian a year ago and left church and have come to a realization that I wasn't on the right spriritual path and I still don't. I'm on a journey right now trying to find myself while at the same time trying to raise healthy happy kids with all the drama of everyday life on my shoulders. I take things one day at a time and appreciate the little things in life, like my children's smiles and when I'm able to bring those smiles thru my involvement with them. Life is short and we can't waste one minute of it

@skazariants

6 жыл бұрын

ToLoveIsToLive89

I listened to this pregnant.. and even with all the trauma, postnatal depression and connection workshops 7 years later the postnatal depression dissolved and I watch this now and say thank you! I forgot everything I knew and wanted even needed the whole time but I look back and see wow I'm doing it!!!! This video must have engraved something in me that stood out way louder then instincts 🙌 🙌

SUMMARY OF IDEAS DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEOS How to raise confident children 1) Make them work 2) love their idea's 3) keep your word/promises 4) explore thier talent 5) accept them for who they are

@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking such great notes

I never commented on any videos but you really have my heart 👏♥️

I wish there was a LOVE button for this video. Thank you.

Love everything you said here! Your children are blessed to have such a loving mother who gets it!

This video is simply honey for my heart! I wish my parents had listened to this video before I was coming to this world :)

"Your kids are not in a hotel" lol

Oh my goodness this is so true!!! This is how I was brought up and I can say that my number one personality trait is confidence. I am now 7 month pregnant with my own little girl and you putting these points so clearly is so helpful and exciting to move into motherhood with.

"Love them for who they are". As a teacher, I see many parents get frustrated with their children because they struggle with something at school. I think they sometimes do not see how wonderful their children are.

This is so authentic and real, thanks

You described my daughter when you describe yours. So kind and sensitive and takes her time to get to know people but once she finds she like you, you'll be best friends forever. I'm learning to let her be her reserved self. Besides her outgoing brother is helping her come out of her shell.

If you want confident kids treat your kids with respect and love and ACCEPT them for who they are.

@philipphilos4886

4 жыл бұрын

i dont think so

@kristiea3897

4 жыл бұрын

FemBot I did all of those things and my oldest are not confident adults. I regret not doing number 1. Make them work.

@valiantbull2539

2 жыл бұрын

Heres the best parenting tips you will ever get but most are to ignorant to even listen kzread.info/dash/bejne/nml92c-tpt3chLQ.html

@sisterspooky

Жыл бұрын

@FemBot - That’s some trash advice you provided. So… let’s take a hypothetical look at following _your_ advice… Let’s say your kid is a violent, non-compromising, selfish person… that’s behaviour you don’t “accept” because it’s “who they are.” If you heeded your ignorance, the world would end up with a dangerous individual, likely exuding narcissistic and/or sociopathic behaviours. Instead, what should be done?? Correct the bad behaviour before patterns become habit, and get them help to _STOP_ the madness. So… yeah, please don’t procreate. We have enough self-entitled grown babies out there mucking things up. We don’t need more.

This was such a kind, thoughtful, and well done video. It's like I'm listening to a close friend with good advice. Thanks for sharing.

You are so beautiful. Ive been applying The first 4 tips to my 6 year old daughter but the last one is gold.

I looooooooove thiiiiiiis😩 Seriously love it I'm trying to boost up my brother's confidence and that last tip got my eyes open. I love how you're filled with love and give alot of that to your kids. Mashallah. Bless you!

Some very beautiful, deep and powerful tips within. Thank you for the contribution and intiative! Keep up the good work.

This was wonderful! Thank you and may Hashem, our Father, our King, continue to guide and bless you and yours!

@rivkamalka1

2 жыл бұрын

Amen@

that was so amazing not only will i apply it to my parenting but also for me as an adult.I think when we grow up not being confident is because we were never tought to just love and accept ourselves as we are.

Omgosh lady you made cry like a baby.. So grateful for your video. Thank you

@crazymabel2723

6 жыл бұрын

She made me cry too and I don't even have children

Best video and advice ever. I feel like I should listen to this at least once a week. Thank you. Mother of 7 children ❤

Thank you Rivka. I don't have kids yet, but when I do I am going to use your advice and raise them confident. ✌🤘👍😊❤

Still love this. I re-watch this on occasion to remind me of the ways I can be a better mom. Thank you for this video.

I love how the video has a huge amount of useful content and you go into depth with examples and stories - and with a smile :)

I love this, I’m not even done watching the whole video.

You made me laugh talking about your daughter's menu. My daughter's menu was just as ambitious, yet when it came down to all the prepping, she lost steam quickly. Oh, the sighs and even the occasional tear! LOL!! Instead of taking over as she'd hoped, I supervised while she did ALL the work. I remember feeling horrible watching her struggle so much, and doubted if I was doing the right thing. Yet she did it, and it was fantastic! I'll never forget the look of pure joy on her face, watching us enjoying her efforts. That was 6 years ago. She's 18 now, and her cooking skills have far surpassed mine. You're so right about giving them responsibilities a little over their heads. Holding my ground and letting her struggle through it was one of the best things I ever did as a parent. Thank you for reminding me of this precious memory and for giving me the opportunity to brag about my awesome daughter. 💖💖💖💖💖💖

Ricks!.. You’re a Delight!! Love All your tips & teaching style!! You’re Beautiful too!! Your Children Are Blessed to have such a Wise & Loving Mom!!🙌🙌🙌❤️🙏🙏🙏🕊🕊🕊🌹🌹🌹

I love the way you are explaining your ideas..thank you so much.

I’m here bc this video popped up in my que. I said why not?? If ur here, u obviously want to be a great parent or simply want to do better! Great job for all of us!

I have to say thank you for this video! You have wonderful advice and I just appreciate you sharing. Sometimes as parents we don't see all things that are right in front of us or that we "should" know but you definitely have a amazing way of articulating it. Also, your spirit shines through so keep it up and keep the videos coming.

Thanks for sharing your testimony as a parent Rivka. Your experiences shared in this clip has also been encouraging me. There is no one book that has all the answers. That's why its so important to share and thus, validate our experiences. I just discovered on Mumsnet the definition of handling and surviving kids having nappy leaks as a "Surviving a poonami. Its had to stay a float as you mentioned as "trying to be super mum". That's why family support groups are so critical. Let us continue to encourage each other. True confidence starts from within and not acting like we have it all together. But to alow our kids to make mistakes and grow in a safe and loving environment. Also admitting that it is scary raising kids with all these social issues we face like bulling and crime which sadly begins in the home. I will end with Harper Lee quote in the book To Kill A Mocking Bird, "I wanted you to see what real courage is, instead of getting the idea that courage is a man with a gun in his hand."

Great and sensible advice from a Mum who knows. If we all behaved like this towards our kids the world would be a better place.

What a wise woman💕

I have been working around kiddos for a couple of years now and this teaching about loving each individual for who they are has altered my way of thinking. I am very grateful that you have created and posted this video (:

All your videos that I have watched, so far, have really encouraged me. Thank you for this positive outlook on life when all I hear is screaming of children and being frustrated that I'm doing something wrong. Your videos have made me cry. Thank you for sharing your experiences!

This made me want to cry, I love it ❤️ New momma here and I’ll carry your inspirational words with me! Do you have any videos or tips to help keep calm and be patient?!

I rarely comment on KZread but my oh my, you have touched my soul with your words. Thank you for your pearls of wisdom and your beautiful words. YOu radiate love and that's what I strive to do for my children.

Thank you. We can see it on your face too. Watching the video twice. My child is 10 and confidence is so important.

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO! I started implementing your tips and I'm seeing immediate improvement. My 6 year old daughter is struggling with confidence at the moment. Thank you for giving ME the confidence to help her. I was beginning to feel helpless.

Thank you very much for this enlightening video. I am 36 years old with zero self-confidence and I don’t think I can ever fix it ... I wish every parent will watch this video before thinking of having children

You are so pleasant and there is something so motherly and safe about you. I aspire to be like you and give the same positive and reassuring energy as you give off.

Wow such a wonderful way to build your kids confidence,my son is 8 yrs old the youngest of three,hes quiet and reserved most of the time.He also seems to have an issue with speaking up for himself so we talked about ways to build his confidence.Thanks so much for this,its exactly what we need..Blessings to you and your family.

Your advice is so simple but yet brilliant at the same time.

You are so wonderful, beautiful spirit and just made me cry as well remembering my kids 2 whom are grown now and becoming a parent themselves and one who is a teen approaching a young woman . Just trying to hang on to the last one who is so creative and everyone says they are the best kids ever. This is so deep.

Best advice thank you

Confidence is key!

Thank you so much. New perspectives learned

👏👏 i loved hearing your personal experiences of how you realized your kid was an observer, that one was my top favorite. Also i loved hearing your humblessness to realizing your mistakes.. All moms/parents make mistakes. We are all people however the key is to constantly notice how to say this or do something differently in order to build them up by their love language and temperment.

Wonderful video. The last part about it showing on your face brought tears to my eyes.

oh my goodness thank you! my daughter has so many ideas, I will love them all from now on. I never realized how often I'd say aw that's cute and never really show appreciation for that idea. thank you ❤️

I love the passion you speak with and show. Thanks for sharing. Some of this I have done well, some I'll do better. My children are 20, 17, & 16 now, it's never too late to improve or to pass on good work.

This was excellent. Thank you.

Beautifully explained. Thanks

My son how is 5 ,was Confident student of the month in January .Loved your video there is always something to learn from others.

You're obviously very good at this! :)

I love this. Thank you. I’m definitely gonna use these.

You made me cry with that last "rule". Great video.

Hi! My name is Claire. I feel like I stumbled upon fate and a spiritual sister. Thank you for sharing your life and what you are learning! I will be following and sharing your messages!

Love the comment about loving for who they are.....not your frame of reference. Fantastic list. Thanks....

Wow.. You gush out wisdom effortlessly.

A huge thanks for posting that video, a real inspiration!

I have learnt so much from this video! I'm really thankful to you for sharing your lovely experience with all of us! These are advises that we all need regardless of age & maturity. I found this video of yours to be extremely helpful in achieving some personal goals. Thanks!

Wow beautiful video. So true. Thank you

Beautiful and coming from the heart, thaaaanks.

Thank you for your knowledge!

Thank you so much for your words!!

Aww what a beautiful spirit you are!!😊

thanks alot! very helpfull, especially last point see them for who they are. Blessings

Thank you so much for this beautiful video!

Than you so much! You are an inspiring mother!

You are such a joy thank you

מקסימה! תודה! עצות נפלאות!

I love this! I just discovered you yesterday after watching a video of your daughter's wedding. I am a mother of two (ages 14 and 10), and I will definitely apply these tips (or make an effort to try). Thank you for a great video. You have a great way of speaking, so calm and so pleasant.

Beautifully said. Thank you

wow amazing this opened up my eyes to alot my daughter is the only child she is a artist and is very quiet and loves to observe people and things... this helped me alot thank you i will not forget you ...

WOW such a positive vibe Your Positivity rubbed through the screen Thank you so much

I love this video. You sound like a great mom. It can be very hard sometimes to be a mom like you are, but it is totally worth it in the end.

@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382

Жыл бұрын

It sure is

Best advice for parents, keep learning about new techniques

You're so amazing! Thank you for this video! I can relate so much to the ending statement you made. I am 24 with a two year old son and this is great advice.

Your smile is so infectious!!! Fell in love watching your video for the first time ❤️

Thank you!! So informative

Wow thank you for making this video. Looking for ways to become closer to my sons.

im glad i watched this! very different perspective now!

Thank you for these practical tips

Your awesome full stop and thank you!!!

Thank you. I just stumbled across your video and it spoke to me at a time I needed. God bless

Such an inspiration! Love!!!

you made me a confident future father. really helpful. am a nice guy who want to do everything this has helped me.

Wow! Beautiful perspective, so inspiring and encouraging...it seems a legacy to nurture lives within your line and will now touch others myself included. Thank you!

Beautiful video! Thank you ❤

Many blessings to you, Rivka! I am so thankful that two of your videos showed up in my recommended list. You give such heartfelt and excellent advice. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. I have subscribed to your channel. Thank you! 💖

Your video was great. I just became a single father and I’m looking forward to challenge in raising a fantastic young man. I also want to tell you that you have a great personality.

Great advice. Thank you!

Thank you so much for this 💕😌🌿

Thank you for posting this video!

love your words!! amazing length for a podcast

Shalom! You’re amazing! And the turban wrap is beyond beautiful. Thank you for giving your wisdom.

@aboalhoss5600

6 жыл бұрын

Transition to Heal-thy Self og

@claudiap9621

3 жыл бұрын

Are there any videos of her teaching to do these headwraps?

@TransitiontoHealthySelf

3 жыл бұрын

@@claudiap9621 I haven’t seen but I also haven’t gone that far back yet

Great advice. Thank you

So valuable, thank you Rivka!