5 Mistakes That Make Men Look Low Status

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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
1:18 Phone drone
2:20 Lazy hygiene
4:45 Shying away
5:50 Logo loco
6:56 Ink error
8:00 High status delivery guy

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  • @Gent.Z
    @Gent.Z3 күн бұрын

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  • @philipkollberg

    @philipkollberg

    2 күн бұрын

    Expensive

  • @TheDallasDwayne
    @TheDallasDwayne3 күн бұрын

    “And if the British guy is calling you out for having bad teeth, you’ve got a problem.” Brutal. 😵

  • @garycrowell7295

    @garycrowell7295

    Күн бұрын

    That was good!

  • @moorshound3243

    @moorshound3243

    Күн бұрын

    If I had thousands of pounds my teeth would look like some Hollywood stars gob as well but the council tax needs paying along with everything else.

  • @Eightsh
    @Eightsh3 күн бұрын

    Good manners is always high-status.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    Well said.

  • @lcdo.jonathanvalecortes6040

    @lcdo.jonathanvalecortes6040

    3 күн бұрын

    That’s right

  • @c16621

    @c16621

    2 күн бұрын

    Actually looking like you may be mannerly and decorous helps even more.

  • @bekabeka71

    @bekabeka71

    7 сағат бұрын

    @@c16621like self confidence? Also making yourself you are handsome 😂

  • @charlesedwards4160

    @charlesedwards4160

    4 сағат бұрын

    Unless you live in Yorkshire or any other part of Northern England, they're not.

  • @michaelanderson7708
    @michaelanderson77083 күн бұрын

    "If you want to be rebellious dont get tattoos." Ozzy Osbourne

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    Haha. I love Ozzy

  • @freddiephillips6556
    @freddiephillips65563 күн бұрын

    I would add to that: -People who talk about money all the time -Wearing poorly fitted clothes -Swearing every sentence. -Someone who doesn’t at least acknowledge a waiter, Uber driver, shop assistant, etc. -Wearing sports clothes when they clearly aren’t going to the gym or playing sport. You’re right about confidence. You can tell a high status person a mile off as they command a room and you can tell they feel comfortable in their own skin. A low status person either tries way to hard to fit in or looks at the floor is if they’re embarrassed to be in public.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    I full agree with your points. Especially about discussions of money and not being kind to service workers.

  • @Norvaal3

    @Norvaal3

    3 күн бұрын

    Agreed. Money is a tool, not a virtue

  • @sammajor2075

    @sammajor2075

    3 күн бұрын

    ​@@Norvaal3 💯 🎯.

  • @sammajor2075
    @sammajor20753 күн бұрын

    High Status = Manners. Begins with common courtesy, and ends with sincere kindness.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    Absolutely.

  • @ecompixel339
    @ecompixel3393 күн бұрын

    I'm glad that you mentioned the fact that tattoos and piercings make people look low status. I see TONS of people at my gym, job, and out in public with very visible tattoos. It's become so trendy among the younger generation that NOT having a tattoo makes you rebellious.

  • @theiranxican7412

    @theiranxican7412

    2 сағат бұрын

    Funny, I don't see tattooed individuals feeling like they need to twist arms on those not getting them. As per usual sounds like a "you" problem...

  • @d-resmin
    @d-resmin3 күн бұрын

    As an ubereats driver, I dress well because some of the women working at the restaurant are cute. Making a good impression on them could lead to something romantic

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    You’re a wise man.

  • @maness2112

    @maness2112

    Күн бұрын

    Always look good for the ladies. It's always fun to get a lil acknowledgement from the females.

  • @boundtosea
    @boundtoseaКүн бұрын

    I’m a mom and found your channel when trying to help my 22yr old son with loafer selection. I’ve since shared these videos with him. He’s now subscribed. Keep up the great work! I wish more men would tune in. Good posture and a nice smile is high status. :)

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    Күн бұрын

    @@boundtosea thank you. Comments like this make my day!

  • @neilchakr
    @neilchakr2 күн бұрын

    high status factor #1: having lots of interests having little to no interests or hobbies indicates that you are either lazy or lack any intention

  • @scottg2946
    @scottg29463 күн бұрын

    I've watched several dozen of your videos now. It occurred to me that you're doing a real public service in offering really insightful and positive advice targeted at younger men. I'm not a young man; I'll be 60 in just a couple of months, but I see so many indicators that "young men are failing" for a variety of societal reasons. What you provide here is a very welcome and rare positive contrast to all this. Clearly you're earning a living with this, but I really see a greater good being done here, so kudos to you!

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    Thank you, Scott. That means a lot to me. I actually only just was able to leave my 9-5 to focus on this, and I’ll be sharing more about that journey in an upcoming video.

  • @hoozat007

    @hoozat007

    3 күн бұрын

    Agreed. I have commented on another video that I think James is providing a really valuable service. I am also in my early 60s and enjoy watching this channel.

  • @alexanderpatrick4866

    @alexanderpatrick4866

    Күн бұрын

    I fully agree. I am in my late fifties and I enjoy watching him and it is great to see someone that age who still understands what style and social grace is. Thank you very much, I am looking forward to future videos.

  • @nullnull667
    @nullnull6672 күн бұрын

    Low status: Obsessing over looking "high status"

  • @christiansaravia7865

    @christiansaravia7865

    16 сағат бұрын

    Agree

  • @Sometungsten
    @Sometungsten3 күн бұрын

    As for cell phones, another reason to avoid them is to insure that you are interacting with your surroundings and nearby people. Standing tall and alert is prime way to protect yourself. Momentary, positive eye contact that declares that you own your personal space is a good way to make bad actors think twice.

  • @rj9617
    @rj96173 күн бұрын

    The high status and confident man always wears a watch.

  • @georgetown8986
    @georgetown89863 күн бұрын

    Absolutely right on all points. A grown man (over the age of 12) wearing a hoodie (unless actively playing a sport) is very low status and very immature.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    The uniform of slovenliness! I vow to never own one.

  • @kevinchaffee9694

    @kevinchaffee9694

    3 күн бұрын

    Also, it’s what young criminals wear.

  • @zacharysilver911

    @zacharysilver911

    Күн бұрын

    They are excellent for a relaxing day at home, but that’s all.

  • @ghostwrench2292
    @ghostwrench22922 күн бұрын

    I think well spoken - good grammar and vocabulary, no swearing - is high status along with good manners. When I encounter someone who appears low status, when they speak well and have good manners, it has more positive impact than their appearance.

  • @windarmedia
    @windarmedia3 күн бұрын

    The logos are so fake that hurts. Even if they are real, you look the face, body language and you have no doubt what kind they are.

  • @montyvlc1634
    @montyvlc16342 күн бұрын

    Great video once again, Sir! Another way to improve selfesteem and confidence: work as a bartender for a while. I did this in my early 20s (I'm 30 now). I was very shy and had no confidence 10 years ago. This changed quickly when I worked in a cocktail bar. You have to talk to hundreds of people every day, entertain them and make them happy. You also have to deal with disrespectful and angry people, take responsibility for your mistakes and apologize when you mess up an order. And sometimes, other than a waiter, you can and have to stand your ground against annoying customers who complain about nonsense. Bartenders have a certain standing. You're expected to be cool, confident and entertaining. If you lack confidence, this job will boost it.

  • @andreymalov9602
    @andreymalov96022 күн бұрын

    Another high status thing is being well educated and knowledgeable. My father always said that if you want to have success with people, be interesting. Know a lot. Be able to tell an interesting story. So instead of watching funny videos, watch something about history, or science, or technology. It will always pay off.

  • @fuzzo73
    @fuzzo733 күн бұрын

    I've been a truck driver for 25 years. The High Status delivery guy bit was on point! I can't tell you how many truckers I see, young and older, dressing terribly and looking slovenly. It's disgraceful. I don't wear a suit to work (though I own a couple casual ones), but you can still look high status, even in just the right t- shirt (True Classic for me, plain, no graphics and perfect slim fit) and proper pants or jeans. The hygiene goes without saying; Just say no to the hoodies and baggy anything!

  • @thecapone45

    @thecapone45

    18 сағат бұрын

    I’ve actually recently had more thoughts on this because of online discussions. I learned that Buccees doesn’t allow 18-wheelers in their gas stations in order to be more family friendly. I saw discussions in the comments for these posts and was surprised that many truck drivers joined in saying even THEY agreed and they dislike show gross and disrespectful truck drivers can be. They said the profession has very much lost its pride over the last decade or so.

  • @kevin-jg5nq
    @kevin-jg5nq3 күн бұрын

    I always try to keep in mind the Golden Rule. Most of the time, people will reciprocate.

  • @LuisAngel-mu4zv

    @LuisAngel-mu4zv

    3 күн бұрын

    Very true, i remember i met someone with low self esteem which is interesting because i also had it at the time but tried to communicate better. She later did the same thing to me and she told me she felt she was changing even if it was awkward for her to do so. So you can help other people while changing yourself and it can even make them feel it's possible for them too.

  • @edwardburdettjr8754
    @edwardburdettjr87543 күн бұрын

    Good manners.

  • @user-cv2cv4gq7r

    @user-cv2cv4gq7r

    3 күн бұрын

    Good manners as taught by our parents carries one far in life,women, jobs,can Evan keep one from being arrested ! individuals that have much difficulty in life have poor or no manners DUGH !!!

  • @northernmichigan4108
    @northernmichigan41083 күн бұрын

    Bro, people think I'm odd for wearing actual pajamas to bed every night, so glad to see you wearing an evening uniform!

  • @thechairman74
    @thechairman743 күн бұрын

    You walk into a store, where all the clerks are wearing the same uniform, but one person is rumpled, shirt isn't tucked in, looks like they just rolled out of bed, and the other person is groomed, clean, confident looking, clothes are pressed, whom are you going to approach first?

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    Absolutely. It’s human nature.

  • @jasonkrick1614
    @jasonkrick16143 күн бұрын

    You are correct. The overwhelming majority of people will judge you on your external appearance before you open your mouth or interact with them. This is what I did to ‘learn’ how to dress for myself and gain ‘status’. I wear what is comfortable. Jeans and t-shirt. I am always clean and tidy. Now, I have a ‘slight’ advantage over most very young adult guys. My parents gifted me a Day Date Rolex as a grad present. So, I walk into very high end dept stores, shops etc. Ask for items to look at and try. Initially, I got cold and negative responses. Literally no help. At the end of the session, I pull my shirt sleeve up to reveal my solid gold watch. Look at the time and thank them. I constantly did this, refining my behavior and actions until I was unconciously comfortable with social interactions where it didn’t matter how I dressed but how I carried myself. I ‘learned’ to be my own gentleman with what worked for me and my set of attributes.

  • @ABC-rh7zc
    @ABC-rh7zc2 күн бұрын

    Nothing has more impact on status than posture and manners.

  • @davidgradwell8830
    @davidgradwell88303 күн бұрын

    Not wearing ear pods all the time=high status. Constantly wearing ear pods in public tunes you out from your environment. You ought to be engaged in your environment. Be aware of the surrounding traffic, the kids nearby you who are about to rashly run out in front of it, the weird sudden loud sound to your left, the loudspeaker announcing your train is running late; not missing that important information in your environment because you're all wrapped up in your private audio world and oblivious to street life and potential danger. Also, those ear pods make you appear rude when you are inadvertently ignoring someone who is addressing you, maybe simply saying hello, or telling you that you look nice today, or trying to get your attention about something serious occurring a few feet away from you---but you miss all that because your ear pods are sending you into your own little audio world. Save the ear pods for quiet time in a safe, calm, appropriate environment, not for the street where you must be alert, or--worse--for when you're at your job.

  • @davidtarbuck3532
    @davidtarbuck3532Күн бұрын

    I’m 50… and learnt loads… my tip is don’t dress down at work if it’s smart casual! Dress up

  • @OldcarsNmusic
    @OldcarsNmusic11 сағат бұрын

    I'll be 58 in eleven days and I learn a lot from your videos. Most of the time I dress casually but sometimes I like to kick it up a notch or two, and I like the ideas I get from your videos.

  • @adams1253
    @adams12533 күн бұрын

    Plot Twist: The high status delivery guy is actually a Hitman

  • @wmfield152
    @wmfield1523 күн бұрын

    Wearing quality and well-cared for shoes are essential for making the best impression. Don't wear cheap shoes--people do notice and it's a dead give away of your status (or how you think of yourself). One does not need to wear expensive shoes rather quality shoes. A conservative stlye with proper care is a good investment. E.g. I've been an Allen-Edmonds fan for years--quality but reasonable pricing. There are plenty such brands out there, just look for them. Also, this is one place, especially with sneakers, where the maker puts an ostentatious, over-sized logo on the sides. Buy some good quality, attractive sneakers that aren't advertising for the maker.

  • @garysandberg3259
    @garysandberg32593 күн бұрын

    On the tattoo thing, I believe it was Bill Murray who said: "The reason I don't have a tattoo is for the same reason you don't put a bumper sticker on a Ferrari". Women and tattoos...whole different discussion.

  • @leooo770

    @leooo770

    3 күн бұрын

    damn😂

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    I’ve heard a few variations of the same aphorism, and I agree. Although, most people are not Ferraris 😅

  • @markanstrom2981

    @markanstrom2981

    3 күн бұрын

    I see it the other way around. Your body is your temple. Ever been in a house of worship that wasn't decorated? Are the decorations cheap and tacky, or are they skillfully done and beautiful? Therein lies the difference.

  • @mtlicq

    @mtlicq

    3 күн бұрын

    @@markanstrom2981 but what are we worshipping, the decorations??? not the substance for which the temple was built??? God forbid! Some of the best houses-of-worship distinctly insist on pure substance, no distractions. There is beauty and class in focusing on what counts, not on cartoon figures.

  • @velkryn836

    @velkryn836

    3 күн бұрын

    ​it is just paint after all, not the same as swearing or having bad manners @@mtlicq

  • @CanadaFree-ce9jn
    @CanadaFree-ce9jn3 күн бұрын

    1. Body language: He knows to walk on the right side of the street, use the right door. He does not strut like he is a King, doesn't have a menacing stare, 2. Voice: Professional and polite voice to everyone he speaks to regardless of their status. Does not use a lot of slang or gets over the top anger even when frustrated,

  • @mtlicq

    @mtlicq

    3 күн бұрын

    By "right side of the street" you mean facing traffic (when there is no sidewalk), not the side with traffic coming from behind you. Right ??

  • @CanadaFree-ce9jn

    @CanadaFree-ce9jn

    3 күн бұрын

    @@mtlicq No. In North America we drive on the right and walk on the right.

  • @mtlicq

    @mtlicq

    3 күн бұрын

    @@CanadaFree-ce9jn No. if there's no sidewalk and have to walk on the street, you're supposed to walk FACING traffic so you can see what is coming and you can respond as necessary by getting closer to the curb (or jumping out of the way if necessary) or simply signaling your presence more visibly by an arm movement, or aiming eye-contact to the driver or cyclist. In North America, and continental Europe, drive on right, walk on left.

  • @CanadaFree-ce9jn

    @CanadaFree-ce9jn

    2 күн бұрын

    @@mtlicq What is your IQ? We are not talking about walking on the damn road, get it through your head. We are talking about walking on the damn sidewalk, I've said it three times now!

  • @user-pn9cn3sc7f

    @user-pn9cn3sc7f

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@mtlicq Same in South America

  • @yyy5569
    @yyy55695 сағат бұрын

    "pointing out low status traits may be a bit too snobbish for me....but im gonna do it anyways" lmao, i just love your detachment sometimes. And really good video with a lot of truth.

  • @crystalfrancis3211
    @crystalfrancis32113 күн бұрын

    Polite, grammatically correct language spoken in a clear, understandable volume wins lots of points.

  • @matender9192
    @matender91923 күн бұрын

    A gentleman never harasses other people for their appearance or their social status.

  • @markanstrom2981

    @markanstrom2981

    2 күн бұрын

    Yes. A gentleman never judges a person's professionalism by anything other than the quality of their work and their attitude towards performing it.

  • @matender9192

    @matender9192

    Күн бұрын

    @@markanstrom2981 Yes, one should judge it by the content itself. The actual message.

  • @Hiteshlrm
    @HiteshlrmКүн бұрын

    Wearing suits in formal occasions clearly make you look classy

  • @dioneiakunz4836
    @dioneiakunz48363 күн бұрын

    Ohhh!! this tough love is necessary. Thank you for doing this!! Much needed

  • @travingo3750
    @travingo37503 күн бұрын

    Appreciate your videos and advice, thank you

  • @alexanderpatrick4866
    @alexanderpatrick4866Күн бұрын

    Years ago the manager of my real estate office told the story of how she was with a friend and was meeting a potential client. When they arrived the potential client stated that he thought the Realtors friend was the realtor and it was all because of how she was dressed. I'll never forget that.

  • @salvadorsisnando10
    @salvadorsisnando103 күн бұрын

    Thank you for yours perfect advices .

  • @Martin_Romanowski
    @Martin_Romanowski3 күн бұрын

    Love suit in this video Looking sharp

  • @davidk2906
    @davidk29063 күн бұрын

    Makes little sense to present yourself as a low quality person when with little effort you could do the opposite.

  • @magnoliapondsmaxtaylor1488
    @magnoliapondsmaxtaylor14883 күн бұрын

    Speaking a greeting in a place such as an elevator with a warm smile gives the impression of confidence and good upbringing.

  • @crawfordkmcdonald7313
    @crawfordkmcdonald73133 күн бұрын

    Im just shocked the british word for hot dog is still "hot dog" haha Joking aside- debat or in my case mock trail is a game changer.

  • @sparkyblazeup1

    @sparkyblazeup1

    3 күн бұрын

    Also college or amateur theatre. Being onstage becomes addicting . . .

  • @colincrowther7777
    @colincrowther7777Күн бұрын

    You're spot about the phone see it everywhere I mean everywhere

  • @stylishoversixty9459
    @stylishoversixty94592 күн бұрын

    For any gentleman to have high status he must acknowledge and appreciate the importance of having self-respect!

  • @ghosttownreview1531
    @ghosttownreview15313 күн бұрын

    Debate team / Toastmasters! Both great ways to develop confidence. As a fellow Toastmaster, I highly recommend this to anyone looking to elevate their status. Being able to confidently join in on a conversation, start a new one, or provide a meaningful opinion in a well spoken, organized manner will always elevate your status to those around you.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    Absolutely. And as you will know, total beginners are welcome in the group. It’s a fantastically encouraging environment for growth.

  • @wmfield152

    @wmfield152

    3 күн бұрын

    Good of you to pass this along. I was in a "club" similar Toastmasters. It was one of the most edifying experiences of my life. It takes dedication & some hard work but the returns are invaluable.

  • @voyto5498
    @voyto54983 күн бұрын

    I want to add another point. Being present. Not allowing yourself to get lost in thought, vigilance. It shows others that you are ready for any eventuality, just like a soldier preparing for battle. Well, it's better to be a warrior in the garden than the other way around. This relates strongly to the point about using your phone, as scrolling consumes your presence. In addition, it allows you to control your surroundings and stay calm. As an example, we can imagine the image of a revered sage, calm, always present

  • @danklabunde
    @danklabunde3 күн бұрын

    I still love this tie/square combo

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    Thank you. Both from Fort Belvedere. I don’t earn any commission from them but the links are in the description if you want to check them out.

  • @lplp1546
    @lplp15463 күн бұрын

    Mr. Gent Z, thanks for sharing this informative vid. In the US, I wish we could stop seeing so many Women with tattoos from their neck to their feet.

  • @IgorMikeshin
    @IgorMikeshin3 күн бұрын

    Physical shape. You can wear the cheapest T-shirt and look better than someone with a dad bod in an expensive shirt

  • @Fozzymandeus
    @Fozzymandeus3 күн бұрын

    Gent Z, always the perfect reference for that “provincial financial advisor” chic.

  • @pavan8067
    @pavan80672 күн бұрын

    This is an opinion I personally share but of which many do not share. This is simply my personal perception, and which has to do with grooming. I believe (in my opinion, once again) that being clean shaven at the appropriate times or just in general everyday, is a sign of appearing to be more caring of their grooming habits. Although my opinion has softened on this matter as there definitely is gentlemen out there with brilliant facial hair and that my main reason for being clean shaven is personally because I have quite uneven facial hair. Furthermore, as I plan to be a lawyer, my father has always told me to be presentable when in court as it shows respect to others present. Just my opinion on this matter, feel free to answer. Thank you.

  • @sammajor2075
    @sammajor20753 күн бұрын

    Speaking for the "inked". Lol. For men,tattoos work best when they are earned,and reflective of authenticity. Years ago,as a young cityboy-turned-military man,I got tattoed. But even back then,I knew my life would take me into professional spaces where body art is frowned upon. So I got tattoos that are easily covered by a t-shirt. They have never been a hinderance,personally or professionally. And women are intrigued to discover them,and entranced by the stories behind them.

  • @jaysterling26

    @jaysterling26

    3 күн бұрын

    Agreed about the covering : 1. My Grandad had a tattoo on his arm, and when he got older, it didn't look good; 2. A chap I met once had half his face tattooed ( he claimed his dad was Maori- but I met him in New Orleans and his accent wasn't kiwi..) and admitted he could never work front of house. An opportunity cost.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    That’s a wise move, Sam. Indeed, the stigma around tattoos in the workplace is definitely on its way out. But if you’re a young man on your way up, there’s no benefit to them (professionally.) As for women, there’s certainly a benefit to them. If I had tattoos I’m sure there would be some rewards 😅

  • @hoozat007

    @hoozat007

    3 күн бұрын

    Same. I have 4 tattoos that I got many years ago but are easily covered. It always saddens me a bit when I see young people with facial tattoos. They’re making life so much more difficult for themselves than needed.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    @@hoozat007 facial tattoos will indeed limit your opportunities. My dad has two tattoos, one on each arm but both covered with a short sleeve. My personal reason to never get one is more down to the aesthetics and the fact that there is nothing I desire to ink on my body.

  • @JohnnyCase-yh7lx
    @JohnnyCase-yh7lx3 күн бұрын

    That is a great and helpful video, thank you. I´ll add that texting with bad grammar and shortcuts like "ngl" is low status too. I belive that those shortcuts just make people feel unworthy of the few more seconds it takes to write a word properly. Still, of course this is not really for a first impression thing like you described in the video.

  • @ElNabulsi
    @ElNabulsi3 күн бұрын

    Please allow me to respectfully note that not all people who resort to a superfluity of ostentatious / tasteless logo usage are indeed Asian or Middle Eastern. I am sorry but this comes across as rather presumptuous. I believe that excessive logo display is inappropriately done by people from all races and cultures. It just depends on one’s social and cultural strata to resort to such vapid means, but just because a chap is plastered in logos, we should not assume that he is Arab or Asian. Thank you.

  • @dominickdibella8830
    @dominickdibella88303 күн бұрын

    I enjoyed your video on having a blind date, but I did not save it. Please provide the link. Cheers!

  • @DearlyDepartedDaz
    @DearlyDepartedDaz2 күн бұрын

    Sweat pants, baggy t-shirt, hoodie, and torn apart steel toed boots with no laces. My friends joke that if we got mugged, the mugger would apologize and give me money instead.

  • @NeonPunks
    @NeonPunks3 күн бұрын

    i would really like a “Get ready with me” kind of video so we can see how you put yourself together so well

  • @sammajor2075

    @sammajor2075

    3 күн бұрын

    Yes. Like he's hitting the town,and this is his pre-game routine.

  • @phillyphilly2095
    @phillyphilly20953 күн бұрын

    Gent Z, have you read the book Class by Paul Fussell? It's a bit dated now. But I think many of his humorous observations of American class differences in taste are still relevant.

  • @youtubeus3rname
    @youtubeus3rname3 күн бұрын

    Mate, that part from the bathroom looks better than the regular setup. Again, only my opinion. But I'm hopeful you'll consider this. Great content as always. ❤

  • @matthewcormier8744
    @matthewcormier87442 күн бұрын

    I use tiege Hanley also

  • @simonlange7545
    @simonlange75452 күн бұрын

    The ability to speak in an eloquent manner

  • @lordlucan7655
    @lordlucan76553 күн бұрын

    Having tattoos and piercings doesn’t make you low status unless you don’t know how to hide them when in situations that require a professional image . I am a professional chauffeur with military past and have plenty of ink under my custom suit , shirt and tie . It’s not the ink that makes you low status , it’s the way you show it off in public

  • @sammajor2075

    @sammajor2075

    3 күн бұрын

    I'm envious. When I was younger,professional chauffeur was a job I was interested in. The closest I came,was being a driver/bodyguard for a businessman. Not the same.

  • @MrAndrea9555

    @MrAndrea9555

    2 күн бұрын

    Exactly Sir.

  • @msjoanofthearc
    @msjoanofthearc3 күн бұрын

    Definitely, good manners can go a long way.

  • @alecdrachenberg
    @alecdrachenberg2 күн бұрын

    Good emotional regulation is high status -- staying calm when being angry would be understandable, for example.

  • @jmagda41
    @jmagda412 күн бұрын

    I know Brits hold David Beckham in high regard, but your categorization of him (and perhaps by extension other sports figures like him) as "high status and successful" can be in error. Being successful in your field AND being wealthy does not make you a gentleman. Look at the myriad of NBA, NFL or any other sports players. They are undoubtedly successful and extremely wealthy, but there is not a drop of class in any of them; they are simply street thugs with lots of money. This plays perfectly as the mirror image to your delivery guy story; no money, low status, but most certainly a gentleman.

  • @yorbendereuse5927
    @yorbendereuse59273 күн бұрын

    Could you do a video on how to fix your posture and what good posture actually looks like according to you?

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    This is actually something I’m working on myself. As a tall man and a laptop-worker, mine could be better. As I learn more about this topic I will share it with you.

  • @barrymurphy1337

    @barrymurphy1337

    3 күн бұрын

    @@Gent.Z Chaps, if I could make a recommendation: I recently bought a Schiara Posture Corrector and have been wearing it every evening for about 30-60 minutes over the last month. Pretty cheap & it has made a noticable difference to my posture.

  • @yorbendereuse5927

    @yorbendereuse5927

    Күн бұрын

    Thank you kindly for your response, I will look forward to it.

  • @Martin_Romanowski
    @Martin_Romanowski3 күн бұрын

    Your list is 💯 correct I agree about Logos free walking billboards I like to buy Armani and Tom Ford suits but don’t want big logo on them to scream look how much I spend

  • @captain_immobilienhai
    @captain_immobilienhai13 сағат бұрын

    High status: do not use too shiny and big accessories, for example big golden neckchains or lots of rings. A high status person keeps their accessories simple and elegant. For instance, they minimalize their jewelery to a high quality, yet understated wristwatch and their wedding ring.

  • @kevinkenney2961
    @kevinkenney29612 күн бұрын

    Good posture = confidence

  • @TrixBlowhard-jt3qv

    @TrixBlowhard-jt3qv

    36 секунд бұрын

    This is correct. I always walk tall and move deliberately. Women want the D wherever I go.

  • @alexanderpatrick4866
    @alexanderpatrick4866Күн бұрын

    8:45..... Perfect summary.

  • @BondTheOGYT
    @BondTheOGYT3 күн бұрын

    Quickest way anyway can improve on is mannerism and attire

  • @rohanwinchester9144
    @rohanwinchester91443 күн бұрын

    How do you style your hair?

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    With a blow dryer, brush, then a pomade or styling creme

  • @davidbiagini9048
    @davidbiagini9048Күн бұрын

    I believe personal hygiene is foundational, it's table stakes. All other aspects of your look and behavior will let you down without personal hygiene.

  • @rovercoupe7104
    @rovercoupe71042 күн бұрын

    I know lots of British people and they all have stunning smiles. M

  • @LauraKnotek
    @LauraKnotek6 сағат бұрын

    I consider men to look high status if they either are clean shaven or have neatly groomed short beards. Walking around with a few days of stubble or with a long bushy beard makes a man look like he doesn't care about his grooming. He looks like he just got out of bed if he doesn't shave off the stubble, and he looks like he's been stranded on a deserted island if his beard is long and out of control.

  • @julianmartinez3048
    @julianmartinez3048Күн бұрын

    Bad manners, lack of education and culture and aggresivity are definitively symbol of low status. Also caring so much about status.

  • @BronxBombers_726
    @BronxBombers_7263 күн бұрын

    It is said that the way you treat someone says a lot about you as a person. also, being polite and pleasant can make a difference in how you value your appearance and status. Finally, men, always give a man a firm handshake and look him in the eye. I have more confidence in my ability as a man if I can show him respect.

  • @Norvaal3

    @Norvaal3

    3 күн бұрын

    Agreed. Also, standing up when possible to shake someone's hand shows respect.

  • @Formula-602

    @Formula-602

    2 күн бұрын

    @@Norvaal3 a friend was about to meet ZZ Top once backstage…I told him to stand when they walked into the room…to shake their hands….He told me later,that he was the only one who did that…

  • @Norvaal3

    @Norvaal3

    2 күн бұрын

    @@Formula-602 wow! Being a sharp dressed man is important, but honorable behavior is even more important. Props to your friend

  • @Formula-602

    @Formula-602

    2 күн бұрын

    @@Norvaal3 There were maybe 8 tall chairs right up front by the door they were about to walk in..Maybe people in the back of the room stood..i dont know…but..he said out of the 8 seated by him…..he was the only one to stand…..

  • @ScarGus
    @ScarGus3 сағат бұрын

    My friend actually does have ADHD yet he tries to get dopamine elsewhere since he sees doom scrolling as an issue For example: to not procrastinate instead of doing important tasks/chores he engages in a conversation in person or on phone put on speaker mode so he physically does the work while his brain is getting dopamine from the conversation

  • @charlesedwards4160
    @charlesedwards41604 сағат бұрын

    Drives a Hyundai and constantly argues with the neighbours and brags = Low status.

  • @btudor_06
    @btudor_063 күн бұрын

    Honestly, to me anyone who puts care into himself (or herself) looks high status to me. It is so sad to see that very few people put value in themselves, and the fact that this is the norm nowadays really bothers me, mainly because of Tik Tok, Hollywood, and even the lack of fathers that don't teach their sons how to look good as a man (because they themselves don't care).

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    I agree, taking pride in your appearance is the number one criteria for respect and status.

  • @matthewcormier8744
    @matthewcormier87442 күн бұрын

    I'll be watching my personal Hygiene to upgrade anything about my cleanliness

  • @ftbtd
    @ftbtd3 күн бұрын

    I don't know what Status is and how it can be low or high from what you told here. I think you are speaking about self-respect and basic discipline.

  • @KevinBourbons-gm2eh
    @KevinBourbons-gm2eh2 күн бұрын

    I’m covered in tattoos, including neck and I work a very professional job. While I get stares here and there, I treat everyone with respect and that’s all that matters.

  • @tridiminished
    @tridiminishedКүн бұрын

    I would never hang the same art piece on my wall at home forever or use the same background wallpaper for my PC. As such I'll never get a tattoo.

  • @philparisi9175
    @philparisi91753 күн бұрын

    As the person that may have to run down the 60 floors to meet a caller, or a delivery, or get coffee around the corner....quick errands...how do you look good on a casual lazy errand filled day? A suit and tie would not be my go to.

  • @nigelviolin
    @nigelviolin11 сағат бұрын

    Polished shoes. Make a big difference.

  • @princesslithium
    @princesslithium3 күн бұрын

    High Status: He/ She can carry a non work related conversation or about people. Low status: He/ She is unable to eat like an adult, meaning anything beyond fast food or snacks, and obsessed with sports.

  • @user-cv2cv4gq7r
    @user-cv2cv4gq7r3 күн бұрын

    This dude has factual information ! I’m 79 and was fortunate enough to have a father that taught me me these rules of functioning in society Well MOM ALSO HELPED MY VERY MUCH THANKS MOM AND DAD

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    3 күн бұрын

    I’m glad to hear it. I owe a great debt to my mom and dad too.

  • @wmfield152

    @wmfield152

    3 күн бұрын

    Important comment. I too was fortunate enough to have parents who taught me what was proper. We were way ahead on this challenge and we must pass along the things we've learned.

  • @itinerantmendicant
    @itinerantmendicant2 күн бұрын

    A correction. About the Middle Eastern and Asian logo locos. They wear the brands because they cannot distinguish class from cost, and having logos all over its a way to distinguish themselves from their poorer compatriots.

  • @gregpolimis2630
    @gregpolimis26303 сағат бұрын

    Brushing teeth 2x a day? I keep toothpaste and a toothbrush in my desk at work - and some floss.

  • @awesomedude-qy1zo
    @awesomedude-qy1zo2 күн бұрын

    Joke Halloween video idea: How To Encounter A Ghost Like A Gentleman Just go all out and make it as random and stupid as possible lol

  • @andreinicolae2396
    @andreinicolae23963 күн бұрын

    What do you think about practicing a combat sport as a gentlemen at a professional level ?

  • @Roberto-tu5re

    @Roberto-tu5re

    3 күн бұрын

    Like marriage

  • @sammajor2075

    @sammajor2075

    3 күн бұрын

    ​@@Roberto-tu5re 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sammajor2075

    @sammajor2075

    3 күн бұрын

    It's possible. Gene Tunney and Lennox Lewis were both considered "gentleman-boxers". Tunney married into high society, and Lewis is a respected amateur chess player.

  • @CanadaFree-ce9jn

    @CanadaFree-ce9jn

    3 күн бұрын

    I know you are asking him, but I question why you even ask. Anything a man wants to do to make money in a consenting way is fine as long as he does it with class. I am amused by the trash talking fighters that get their rump handed to them. I much prefer the real pros that just shake hands or bow after a fight, and even shows concern about the other's well being after he defeated him. You also need to understand that many high status aka rich people have been attending boxing matches and such physical contests for centuries. It was also part of being a gentleman to be able to duel with a sword or gun, and in general protect the ladies from ruffians.

  • @andreinicolae2396

    @andreinicolae2396

    3 күн бұрын

    @@CanadaFree-ce9jn because mma it's not considered too elegant and i want to hear some opinions but I totally agree with you

  • @Bailiol
    @Bailiol3 күн бұрын

    Good posture + Solid eye-contact + speak slowly, purposefully and articulately.

  • @broederbond60
    @broederbond603 күн бұрын

    I concur GentZ. The one thing I notice daily is men wearing unhemmed/ pants too long. That is not only low status it's sloppy and lazy. An example of a confident appearance is physically fit with correct posture and a Norwood #2 hairline.

  • @btudor_06

    @btudor_06

    3 күн бұрын

    I agree, nothing looks better than a straight fit trouser that is at a 90 degree angle on the shoe. Trouser that way above the ankle also look very bad 😅

  • @davidsault9698
    @davidsault96983 күн бұрын

    Your walk can show higher class or lower class.

  • @Mr-S.C.
    @Mr-S.C.3 күн бұрын

    I can't visualise you selling hot dogs at a stand.. I just can't picture it. 😮

  • @davibrass
    @davibrass3 күн бұрын

    I can't stand someone who blows their nose in public, let alone when they feel the need to be thorough with the nose blowing process. Also the way someone holds their cutlery and eating habits. Chewing and talking.. open mouth chewing etc

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