Mostly man like me because I am always myself Matthew ❤❤❤😇😇😇😘😘😘

Good advice as usual. The point that really stood out to me was the balance in social situations. I recently met a man that I was interested in talking to. He was on the side of controversy and enjoyed voicing his opinions. I enjoy talking sometimes with people like that because it can give me a better understanding of why society doesn't always get along. I was enjoying our conversation but occasionally we would go outside for a smoke and he was loud and using language for shock value. I was trying to get him to understand my community is a quite private place and it was late so while we were outside I didn't want to be loud and disruptive. This started a fight. Once we went inside the fight continued and he had righteous rage as he saw it as I was trying to censor him. I was able to get him to understand making it clear I wanted to listen to him but not if it meant I would be disruptive to the neighbors I loved. He got right in my face saying everyone should hear him. I said do you want to keep talking to me? Then respect my boundaries. If you want people to truly listen you need to let things grow. Yelling and waking people up who need to go to work in the morning only causes resentment. Harmony is so important to me and my peace of mind. Thank you for being you, you Rock ❤

I couldn’t agree more. I admire your wisdom, thank you for you!

@MatthewCoast

4 ай бұрын

You are welcome

Duh! Sorry had to add for my first comment! It's very helpful and important advice Matt! Men are visual and how you present yourself will be noticed.... by whoever is interested.... whether it's an amazing Gucci dress or an old sundress... If you have your own style he will notice as well. You don't need to spend $$$ on an outfit or make-up or pro hairdresser. Sometimes just being in your own casual clothes, no make-up can totally hit it off with men. I know they like that they get to see the real you and if you like them you can WOW them sometime when you dress up to go out on a date and really dress up! Take care of yourself most importantly! ❤

Yup yup facts 💯 omg thanks for the tips 💋

Thank you Matthew, I felt like I was getting a very deep and straight to the point lecture. Will try to remember that ❤

Find you finally Matthew ❤❤❤

Good advice...should attract a quality man...where are they

@MatthewCoast

4 ай бұрын

He'll find you!

Nice!

Great Content

Good morning Matthew ❤❤❤😇😇😇😘😘😘

Have a nice Sunday Matthew ❤❤❤😇😇😇😘😘😘😃😃😃

@MatthewCoast

4 ай бұрын

You too!

Can I contact you here until everything is back ok Matthew ❤❤❤😇😇😇😘😘😘😃

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