4 Reasons Why You Feel Aimless (+How to Find Direction)

Why do you feel aimless and empty? What does the Bible say about feeling aimless? How can you find direction in life? Here are 4 reasons God is allowing you to feel aimless and how to find God's leading for you.
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  • @sunyrodriguez
    @sunyrodriguez2 жыл бұрын

    I think I reached that point of apathy where I feel at peace inside but at the same time with no direction, just purposeless... Thank you 🙏

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless as you seek the Lord's leading

  • @joeym24

    @joeym24

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know exactly what you're talking about as I'm currently experiencing that too, I have times when I feel bad for being at peace but lacking direction and not really knowing exactly what HIS purpose for my life is. I prayed about this yesterday and even now I just got out of prayer for this matter

  • @estelleschneider9033

    @estelleschneider9033

    2 жыл бұрын

    SUNY THANK YOU FOR YOUR POST I AN HAVING SIMILAR EXPERIENCE HAVE FAITH..NO ONE NEEDS FAITH WHEN THEY CAN SEE.. WE LOOK TO HIM WE CANNOT SEE

  • @kyleedwards7884
    @kyleedwards78842 жыл бұрын

    Would appreciate prayer for this time in my life of trying to figure out where I want to be next career wise and where God wants me. Timely video as I do feel a bit aimless and I don’t want to be where I’m at much longer. Prayers to you all.

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless Kyle as you seek the Lord's leading!

  • @Peace201302

    @Peace201302

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly what I too am feeling and asking God at this very moment. Lifting you too up in prayer🙏

  • @kyleedwards7884

    @kyleedwards7884

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Peace201302 thank you, prayed for you too 🙏🏻

  • @alexis1793

    @alexis1793

    2 жыл бұрын

    Prayers🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Peace201302

    @Peace201302

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@alexis1793 Thank you so much.

  • @The_Old_New_Englander
    @The_Old_New_Englander2 жыл бұрын

    1:29 This part is interesting. So there can be an actual point where we've spent too much time without community and God sends us a conviction of loneliness to move us back to it. Especially important to point out in the isolation of most people throughout the past couple of years 🤔

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    amen

  • @angiepeace4830
    @angiepeace48302 жыл бұрын

    I haven’t watched this video yet but I know that this is God’s whisper to me. I’ve been trying so hard to be closer to God. I always feel like I’m not doing enough. I’ve been off of social media, not watching tv, and I’ve stopped dating for about 5 months now. I just desperately want to know my purpose…I can feel myself slipping back into old habits and depression. I know that I shouldn’t be, but I’m afraid.

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just make sure you replace what you are giving up with something good. It's about not doing things but it's also about doing the right things (all by grace of course)

  • @shalana19

    @shalana19

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way

  • @thirza8225
    @thirza82252 жыл бұрын

    Lately i’ve been feeling very very aimless as i just don’t know what i want to do in my life careerwise etc. I also don’t have a lot of (christian) friends and this also really makes it difficult to see the purpose of my life. Praying to God he will help me find my purpose and calling!

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless as you seek the will of the Lord!

  • @tonyxenos1818
    @tonyxenos18182 жыл бұрын

    Blows my goshdarn mind. Every time I’m thinking something - ur video pops up out of nowhere

  • @frijolescrnbrd
    @frijolescrnbrd2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly where I’m at. Aimless actually feels appropriate. I’ve been discouraged thinking God can’t provide for what He has purposed for me. I don’t know why I’ve been so lacking in faith when I know God promises to be faithful to finish His work in each one of us.

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    Keep staying in the word! God will guide you!

  • @Divine_Mode
    @Divine_Mode2 жыл бұрын

    Make it make sense…. This is exactly what I’m dealing with right now.. it’s hard to feel interested in most anything & I feel like I’m in a constant state of limbo. It’s stressing me out.

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless as you seek God's leading and as you work hard on doing good for God's glory (Ephesians 2:8-10)

  • @MCharlerySmith
    @MCharlerySmith2 жыл бұрын

    Great points, Mark. Often, you can find your calling when there's nothing left to do except one gift you've likely been neglecting. You can also better navigate others after you've been through a storm yourself and have managed to find the right pathway. Usually comes with dropping excess baggage, getting in better shape, eating right and finding the clearest route even if it's not your desired destination at the moment. We must do these things for our mind and spirit.

  • @ebonysb84
    @ebonysb842 жыл бұрын

    Such a timely message! 🙌🏽

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad! All glory to God!

  • @chauntellelong8570
    @chauntellelong85702 жыл бұрын

    Realizing through reading some of the comments, that the enemy would have you to think you are alone and the only one... Prayers to us all, as we are seeking God's direction in the shifting of this season, may He grant us wisdom, favor, and may we be reminded the battle is already won! Thank you for this timely message, sending light, and love to All!!! 💫💕🙏🏾

  • @MJorgy5
    @MJorgy52 жыл бұрын

    If KZread bans Christian content, those creators should let it be known. I appreciate your channel!

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless!

  • @robinettreed1399
    @robinettreed13992 жыл бұрын

    I thank God for all he does everyday for me and everyone else to make sure we feel loved and are guided in what ever we do in our life ♾🙏✝️🌹😇🙌🥀❤️‍🔥🔥❤️‍🔥♾

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God is good!

  • @ohanna2000
    @ohanna20002 жыл бұрын

    God bless you, Mark. Yesterday I had a literal break down in front of my parents because of the uncertainties of what is next and I cried out to the Lord for clarity. This morning, I was notified with Psalm 145:18 on my phone and then later I come across this video. The LORD has truly heard my prayers 🙌🙌❤️ Thanks much

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen! I'm so glad you are looking for what the Lord is saying! Keep going!

  • @shardslayer4568
    @shardslayer45682 жыл бұрын

    Great advice, really needed it!

  • @yesterdaysover247
    @yesterdaysover2472 жыл бұрын

    Huge video for me mark! Much love to you and your family and may the Lord keep you

  • @surennimalan9819
    @surennimalan98192 жыл бұрын

    This is amazing, I guess it came at the right time in my life!

  • @themasterspiece5669
    @themasterspiece56692 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff!🙏🏾🔥

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless!

  • @Chewy725
    @Chewy7252 жыл бұрын

    Def feel like this!! Thank you again for a right on time video!

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome!

  • @forerunness
    @forerunness2 жыл бұрын

    Great teachings and examples to a purposeful and happy life! Thank you!

  • @gillianc6514
    @gillianc6514 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. Excellent, clear and wise. Thanks be to God.

  • @p0ggles
    @p0ggles2 жыл бұрын

    This video is SOLID! Good stuff brotha!

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad it was useful!

  • @edwardj.warden5072
    @edwardj.warden50722 жыл бұрын

    Love your video and Thank you.

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad the content has been helpful!

  • @jessicamerced9116
    @jessicamerced91162 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this message, always on time 🙏

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome!

  • @butterflybri3168
    @butterflybri31682 жыл бұрын

    GOD made me feel aimless to get back into graduate school, now I’ll be interning as a therapist and i am so excited/fulfilled. Go with the feeling, He will guide you the rest of the way 🙌🏽

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @brittanyschipper2625
    @brittanyschipper26252 жыл бұрын

    As always awesome video. Came at just the right time!

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad!

  • @HorticulureLightingGroupEurope
    @HorticulureLightingGroupEurope2 жыл бұрын

    Cheers Mark, needed to hear this, many thanks and God Bless and God Protect you and your family :))

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless!

  • @oscarbermudez8620
    @oscarbermudez86202 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Thanks, this was confirmation for me God really spoke through you brother.

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are very welcome! so glad the Lord used it for you!

  • @suzette8711
    @suzette87112 жыл бұрын

    Speaking to me I see… 👍

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless!

  • @mohamadrezaalizadeh2301
    @mohamadrezaalizadeh2301 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @dimaryriveraguerrerasnatio709
    @dimaryriveraguerrerasnatio7092 жыл бұрын

    right on time!

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless!

  • @catme.7
    @catme.72 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this, been feeling empty lately..

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @heatherbarton5624
    @heatherbarton5624 Жыл бұрын

    Good clarification of purpose being different to calling thank you.

  • @tkey2010
    @tkey20102 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless!

  • @daughterofelohim7
    @daughterofelohim72 жыл бұрын

    Really timely 🙏

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad it was timely!

  • @lauriegianquinto
    @lauriegianquinto2 жыл бұрын

    Amen - perfect word. It is the middle ground between us stepping all the way thru the door or keeping one foot in the world. Exactly what I need to hear. 🤗

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen! So glad it was helpful!

  • @roseusman-adejo4138
    @roseusman-adejo41382 жыл бұрын

    thank you for this video. it is so timely as I am currently going through a season of confusion and aimlessness. I have been immensely blessed by this video. thank you

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @mamangmokone3273
    @mamangmokone32732 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this valuable information and giving much needed insight into what I've been praying about recently. I've reached a point in my life where I'm feeling aimless and stuck and I believe that God answered my prayer through this video. You touched on the point I definitely wasn't aware of, which is the fact that our calling can change over time and that was a light bulb moment for me. I now realise that I should do some serious introspection about the trials I've been through to determine how I can help others overcome them. All the points you make brought me some clarity and a starting point for getting unstuck. Thank you once again and God bless you 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen! So glad this was helpful!

  • @chellew4559
    @chellew45592 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this. For the past 6 years I have felt aimless and have felt all kinds of negative emotions from it. Thank you for this perspective that shed some light in understanding purpose and calling. I feel more at peace instead of anxiety to figure out my calling which is a good sign for me.

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad this was useful!

  • @redeemedbeloved6763
    @redeemedbeloved67632 жыл бұрын

    Excellent Video!!! How can we practically know we are living a life aiming at something?

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think it's a process and always re-examining ourselves. Big picture it's about glorifying God but on the day to day it's about loving God and loving people in the ways that come into your life. Bloom where you are planted, so to speak :)

  • @validdreams6785
    @validdreams67852 жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome!

  • @Sisco14
    @Sisco142 жыл бұрын

    I was just praying about this.. wow

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @esha9216
    @esha9216 Жыл бұрын

    Yes He 'lovingly' makes us feel aimless. He lovingly makes me feel single and lonely to draw me to him He lovingly makes me suffer This all but feels like abuse (love)

  • @jamesjohnson6561
    @jamesjohnson65612 жыл бұрын

    Thanks.

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome!

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist2 жыл бұрын

    Yes, amen!

  • @eabbcc642
    @eabbcc6422 жыл бұрын

    The love from God endures forever...

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @thorlorgen1684
    @thorlorgen16842 жыл бұрын

    I’ve definitely felt like this since the pandemic, I don’t even know who I am anymore

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless as you get back on track with the Lord

  • @lolzorz3
    @lolzorz32 жыл бұрын

    I’m really struggling and need direction and Gods guidance right now. I’m quickly running out of time. I pray about it every day.

  • @kahlani6840
    @kahlani68402 жыл бұрын

    Wow.. i the devil really out here workin hard. I really needed to hear this message and the alerts are on and everything and somehow I never got the alert. But God is out here workin harder and gave me a sign to check. Lol devil you loose 😛.

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad this was helpful

  • @pinkroses135
    @pinkroses1352 жыл бұрын

    Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ. 2 Cor 1:3-5 posted before I saw the very end lol. My favorite verses.

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's crazy!

  • @jeskahaley9616
    @jeskahaley96162 жыл бұрын

    I feel this way often

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless as you seek the will of the Lord

  • @RemainingFaithful
    @RemainingFaithful2 жыл бұрын

    I need to make more money because I’m 26 and still live at home in a toxic environment. I’ve taken all of the action I possibly can to make more money, but nothing is working. I have been praying for more ideas and opportunities, but nothing is happening and I can’t think of anything else to do. I don’t understand. I also have a strong desire for marriage, but I can’t even afford to go out to eat myself. So I don’t think I should be looking to date. I just don’t know what’s going on, and my life sucks.

  • @Jesusislord2993

    @Jesusislord2993

    Жыл бұрын

    Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

  • @cuprunnethover2509
    @cuprunnethover2509 Жыл бұрын

    I feel real aimless! I am bored out of my skull. I am used to being busy. I am not sure of my calling right now? I like praying for people. When I was younger, a lot of people came to me for advice. Idk????? I do have way more time now than I previously had!

  • @jimmystcin6426
    @jimmystcin64262 жыл бұрын

    After reading the entire chapter of Psalm 16, I think the path of light its referring to in verse 11 is the path of eternal life with Christ in heaven, not the path of life in our current world. But I still do agree with the points you made in the video.

  • @rubenmedina9156
    @rubenmedina9156 Жыл бұрын

    Imagine not asking to being created, but being created... , understanding that the purpose is not your purpose, is Gods purpose, no matter what you insist on doing...

  • @kingkoop7326
    @kingkoop73262 жыл бұрын

    Pls pray for me about this

  • @HappilyAnonymousGirl
    @HappilyAnonymousGirl2 жыл бұрын

    This video was for me…

  • @samuelmithran5586
    @samuelmithran55862 жыл бұрын

    im aimless because im so lazy.. god help me

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    work hard, God has a good plan for you

  • @symonegreen7493
    @symonegreen74932 жыл бұрын

    Hey so you said in the article And a man who has struggled with a porn addiction but has repented is going to be better equipped to help a younger man with this issue compared to a woman who has never struggled with this type of thing.woman do struggle with porn just as men. I have been struggling with porn addiction for 10 years

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    yes, it was an example. I never said women don't struggle with that. But the example still stands that a man should help a man with this and a woman a woman as they usually are coming at that issue differently.

  • @justinetiberio8137
    @justinetiberio8137 Жыл бұрын

    Don't know what to do in future career

  • @derickwhitson2684
    @derickwhitson2684 Жыл бұрын

    God will actually make you feel aimless if your living a aimless life as a way of motivating you to find your purpose and calling 2. God will make you feel aimless as a way of crystallizing your specific Calling. God could be giving you a greeting of sim she jt for your life which is to glorify God What is the need that people God allow

  • @karintolbert7452
    @karintolbert7452 Жыл бұрын

    I feel restless, bored. Like there are too many hours in my day. I'm clueless. Help yall.

  • @dragonsigner
    @dragonsigner2 жыл бұрын

    This video was very helpful..I'll Go to God/JESUS more for where he wants me in live. And for him to give me wisdom for my path to my call and purpose he wants for me cause, I've been aimlessly trying to find a job I want to love..and not a job for just the money. But a job that helps others. But the thing is .I have Soo many different things I love and like in life . But idk. Part of me is not 100% sure about my thoughts on some jobs I want. Like a job helping kids learn about Jesus and or taking care of them (my wife cant have kids till she is Sezure free) ..so I thought take care of other kids .(I've helped raise my nephews since birth..) I love doing that . And I see the evil that is being taught to kids..and I want to FIGHT back against that.. My other things I like are wanting to travel and learn different walks of Live.., see other parts of the world. Learn ABOUT different religions.(but not change mine) I love video games .and Japan.. I'm very smart In theology and apologetics..I wish I had the money and time to go to college for bible smarts. I enjoy friendly smart bible debate stuff .

  • @cltheman1960
    @cltheman19602 жыл бұрын

    In case you get booted off of here, you should bridge your channel to Odysee. It would be a blessing to the people on that platform.

  • @CircleWedge
    @CircleWedge2 жыл бұрын

    What is glorifying God?

  • @symonegreen7493

    @symonegreen7493

    2 жыл бұрын

    Putting him first in everything you do

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    Making Jesus known :) Here's a full video on that question: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fKulmcilo5yddsY.html

  • @superstaranan
    @superstaranan2 жыл бұрын

    “Your past mess is your future ministry. “💯

  • @alchemyofcolorandstyle
    @alchemyofcolorandstyle2 жыл бұрын

    Could it ever be that Christians have seasons of stillness that feel like aimlessness, because we are measuring it in human terms (productivity, results, etc) , but rather is quite like God’s peace and really all we need is to be still and keep listening and waiting on the Lord?

  • @babyegypt4514

    @babyegypt4514

    2 жыл бұрын

    You’ll know the difference

  • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger

    2 жыл бұрын

    sure, but it's also possible you are sitting too much. Pray, study, but also do good (Ephesians 2:8-10)