When I'm on the phone and I know they are secretly listening I talk about how great they are and how they blew me away - how great they help around the house how proud I am of them.

@DrZlessons

5 жыл бұрын

zozishine Such a great technique especially seeing how my daughter ear hustles on a regular basis. Children love to hear you speak well of them in front of others.

@jamesduff6937

3 жыл бұрын

Lol.. that is funny! You could really play it up how well they did something and harp on about how great they are! It would be interesting to secretly video their little faces while they were listening to it to see how they react to that talk!

@mariamclements245

3 жыл бұрын

Such a great tip ❤️❤️

@sweetbabe6806

2 жыл бұрын

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To help my children I modle the behavior I want to see in them. I stay away from put downs and negative frases. I focus on positive. "ok the food is on the floor what should we do?" "I see that your mad, why?" how does that make you feel?" what if it was done to you, how would it make you feel?". I try to guide them to the answer so they have the joy of discovery. if it's a bigger problem like hitting or lieing I try to discover why they felt the need to lie by asking them about it. then ask them for a more positive way to get what they want...manners.

@Rooted_In_Love

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you to you and Mr. umm... (fill in the blank) lol sorry I don't know his name. I‘ll take that in mind. I‘m trying to be the best aunty I possibly can be.

@DrZlessons

5 жыл бұрын

McRae Meyer Questions are powerful approach to helping children to understand their feelings and find think through how to handle conflict. Modeling is key in everything we do with our children, even when we make mistakes.

@comebackmikey

4 жыл бұрын

@@DrZlessons Thank you!

I am new to teaching, and I am starting to teach kindergarten but I am just 23 years, what I'd like to do is to build an image of prosperity in their minds, and build brain cells by showing them images of greatness, role models and tell them that they can be better than I am

My children have schedules on the wall that they follow. 7am Breakfast and Praise, 7:45 bathe and brush teeth, 8:00 get dresses for school etc. It has pictures which they helped pick out or draw and color and its always on the wall at their eye level. This has been huge for them! I started my daughter on hers at age4 and now my son has had his since after he turned 4. They like following their schedule, learning how to manage time, read words (its in both English and French) etc. There are morning, afternoon and evening schedules. They get to the point where they know the schedule by heart but we still keep them up and refer to them. For weekends and other non school days, I make it my business to explain to them what plans we have in advance so they are aware BUT sometimes things change and I'm clear about the importance of being willing and able to adapt to changes.

@DrZlessons

5 жыл бұрын

Rashida Davis, Really Nourish Schedules definitely help to establish structure, but more importantly is that you involved your children in the creation of a system that they're apart of. Kudos to you! My children love feeling like they are part of the process and they own it when they are.

@boa9557

5 жыл бұрын

where is their fun why do they need to praise

Thanks for the video. Summary for How to raise happy, confident children: 1. Ensure your children have rules. 2. Empower them to make their own decisions. 3. Talk to them in a certain manner.

@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking such great notes

I will do the opposite of what my father did. I will make my son feel like the most loved person on the planet.

@khadijaouzidane2204

4 жыл бұрын

I just wanted to tell you that before doing that you should make sure that you are not hearted by what your dad did because if you do you will not love your children cuz you don't know what is parent's love 🚸

@learnenglish7143

4 жыл бұрын

@@khadijaouzidane2204 I agree with you totally

@c.c.6461

4 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@yakeytang5026

4 жыл бұрын

No dont I now have depression

@jibranpsit

4 жыл бұрын

But don't show this message to your children and specially to your father.... Parents always love their children but styles may b different...

Great! I have been listening to you since my daughter was 4. she loves listening to you. I have applied what I learned from you. It's amazing how confident she is about her and she has big goals. thank you for these wonderful teachings. you are an inspiration to my family.

I think parents need to change how they grew up to be able to raise confident children.... I feel like I raise my children exactly the way my parents raised me and I hate it... I wish I can change that... I want to change it... But I don’t know if I will be able to 😔 Being a single parent is so hard and wanting confident, healthy, happy children is even harder. Every time I try to change and raise them different I fail and go back to the way I was raised. Ugh frustrating. I will try again From now on with your great tips and see how it goes. Hope I don’t fail again. Wish me luck

Thank you, Brian! I encourage my children by commenting how I admire a concrete accomplishment they made, trying not to exaggerate. I also let them decide little things like which haircut they want, which piece of clothing, etc (they're young)

Thank you Mr. Tracy for such great advise. What i have seen in my child is that he really enjoys painting and sketching. We have gifted him art supplies and he gets to make his own decisions on what he wants to creat or express. I’ve found art to be an incredible way to express himself especially when he is young and life experiences are still so raw and new to him. I also get to join him often and it is a beautiful and peaceful moment to have with the most incredible people in our lives.

Thank you Brian. I enjoyed your video. My son is now 27, however when he was small I tried to encourage him all the time I tried to praise him and taught him that I believed that he would do well in life ( no matter his race this is important) I always tried to support him. As an only child he was on the computer alot, I tried to discourage this. He didn't like the rules but he did like to make his own decisions. He is now working as a sales manager of a software company. He loves his job. I am now helping out at a saturday school which I too enjoy.

Happy to hear this. I will take it to heart. We need to shine more positivity into our children's lives. Sometimes listening to parents sounds more like war stories - managing the foe! I trust your kids also had a wonderful mother.

Thank you so much Brian! Those tips are such a helpful and practical tips. You're amazing!

thank you mr Brian I think supporting them plays main role in bonding with them and some times parents laugh on thier children when they are upset its also not the good way of approaching the problem

I am not always saying the right thing to my 8yr old son, but it's so funny, when I say he's a smart boy and I get an "I know, dad" :)

@ChiMilley

2 ай бұрын

It's been 7 years haha How's your smart boy now?

@HamidaCumar

2 ай бұрын

​@@ChiMilleylol

This is information that ALL parents or future parents need..... People need to learn to be PARENTS and stop being friends to their children.... By bringing a life into this world it is YOUR job to start their teaching and upbringing the correct way OR they will end up paying for it for the rest of their lives.

I totally agree.Thank you ☺

Thank you very much Brian. I love listening to your different talks.You are always right to the point. You are one of my teachers.

I don't have children now but I think that it's so important that we understand the decisions we make when raising them. Thanks Brian for the wonderful video! (:

Excellent. Loveliest advise for the parents, teacher and elders.

thank you sir! I will follow those tips

Mr. Tracy I only came across your videos today and have listened to about 4 now. Your talks are truly amazing and your soft spoken demeanor is so encouraging and uplifting. Thank you for your effort and biggest of wisdom, I will definitely be picking up your books... I hope one day to shake your hand. God bless!

@rubyc5517

8 жыл бұрын

* nuggets of wisdom

@BrianTracyOfficial

8 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words, Robert.

very useful. I have always encouraged my child to express her views and given ear to it and treated her with respect

This video was so valuable and useful and it’s my go to video as reinforcement for greatness. Thank you for this amazing video.

thank you dear. this is very informative specially for me being a father of three children.

Such a great video and super wise advice! Thank you, Mr Brian Tracy!

I enjoyed this video. one thing that i didn't know before and i particularly learnt from this video was ( children subconsciously need guidance and rules in order to build more confidence.

Thanks Brian, one day these will be useful :)

@sjoker27

8 жыл бұрын

😂😂 I see what you mean I'm not a parent but I got all brothers sooo.. I'll be experimenting see how it goes for them

@sjoker27

8 жыл бұрын

I do already do these things with my brothers though so, hehe😂😁✌️ Ps:hope you have a nice day or night whatever it is for you ✌️

@prettycoder9195

6 жыл бұрын

This is just superb, I have been researching "early childhood studies courses" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Elilan Coachify Domination - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my buddy got amazing results with it.

@MrsOZ-nj5ty

2 жыл бұрын

Has this day come for you yet? Lol

amazing , thank you so much, I wish it was that easy !

Thank you i need these words so much....

How kind you are!😭💗Thanks a million for this wonderful video.

That's awesome, great message to build the life of our children. As a parent will always cherish them by encouraging them doing the right things. And also by admonishing them through the 3 steps of self confidence. Thanks a lot

When I was a child, my was always remain busy with his work, it was my grandfather who nurtured us, but I want to spend good time with my child, I will implement your suggestions. Thank you for invaluable suggestions.

A great book I read on parenting is Bringing Up Bebe by Pamela Druckerman. Amazing! I think giving your kids independence is so important. It makes me cringe watching parents run after their children repeating "don't do this, don't do that, be careful!". Let the kids play on their own and let them make mistakes and get a scratch! That's how they learn!

@johnnovay4424

8 жыл бұрын

My wife is reading that book and has shared quite a bit from it. I agree, it sounds like a great book so far!

@hakunamatata1352

7 жыл бұрын

John Novay I hope you've read it by now ☺

@vishaltawde8986

6 жыл бұрын

I really liked and agree to your words "let the kids play......" will surely buy this book first thing tomorrow

Thank you Brian for your informative advice.

Thank you sooo much!!!

Love this! Thank you 🙏🏼

Thanks for this wonderful advice!!!

Thank you for this video!!

Thank you !

All 3 tips are great. Thank you Brian, keep up the good work!

@adonissterling316

2 жыл бұрын

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@marshalldamon546

2 жыл бұрын

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Thank you sir. I have learnt some good things.

As usual, THANK YOU, Brian Tracy...!!! ☺☺☺☺

Great video! Love these tips!

Thank you Brian

Thanks for sharing

Thank you sir!

Thank you so much 😊

Can you do a video on how to help children be more assertive (within reason, of course), how to "speak up" louder, and how to find their voice & be more confident in themselves?

@simah78

6 жыл бұрын

I was trying to get some help with this as well. Did you find any ? Please let us know.

@e.v.6389

5 жыл бұрын

Child may not be assertive for many reasons. 1- his views my have been ignored or discounted, 2- he was taught to believe that his input is not important. Reverse this and you will see the change. Start with asking the child questions of importance "Bobby where do you think we should go out to eat tonight as a family? Or "what do you think we should watch for movie night?" Put him in position of leadership incrementally at home.

thanks sir I don't do anything special right now but from today I will follow your advice to raise my 9yr and4yr kids.thanks again

Thank you

I tell my kiddos to always tell me the truth. I let them know that they are not in trouble and telling me the truth makes it easier to believe them in the future if anything happens!

Thank you Brian, this should come handy. I have tried to handle my boy child with discipline but it is certainly not working out,I elicit the exact opposite of what I set out to achieve, I will surely do things differently with this video and would appreciate any further assistance in this regard.

Thank you very much sir.

Thanks for this.

Wonderful video sir! thanks a lot! It is going to be helpful for me :)

Wonderful advice!

Im pregnant with my first child right now, Im a psychology student in my last year and all these words of wisdom from this man are true and I intend to follow them !

Very positive talk. And so so True.

Thanks Sir...

Great info thanks sir

thank you so much..

Very informative and insightful.

Thanks Brian very helpful tips😊

This is wonderful.

Oh my god , I was doing all things wrong. Thank you for the good work. May god bless you.

great advice..

I do have difficulties with raising my child alone, but try everyday to teach him respect for himself and to accept himself exactly the way he are.

@winifredsugut1137

3 жыл бұрын

thank you so much for this line of accepting oneself, I think is a beautiful thing, is so much harder doing the opposite

I love them!

Not sure I agree with number 3. Constant positive feedback is not how the world works, and though the family should be a safe space at all times, some resilience should be allowed to be built up in said safe environment prior to being exposed to the "realness" of the outside world. Only positive affirmation without negative feedback might create children that aren't resentful to their parents: but sure enough, they will end up resenting the rest of the world for not wanting to bathe in the bliss of their ignorance. Also, in point number one you mention "rules" having to be laid out. The upholding of certain kinds of rules requires enforcement by means of repercussions, which in itself, cannot be positive nor pleasant in nature in order for the consequences of actions to be considered in the future, which is the whole point of education (and domestication general); in its positive as well as negative aspects.

my parents gave me negative criticism when i was young ...that absolutely affect children deeply !!! thanks for this video, Brain :)

Thanks for your tips. Really useful 😊👍

Thanks

Thank u for your tip

Thanks , it was very useful ☺💕

Hi Brian... excellent as always! I along with my fiancee are now raising her 5 year old grandson.. His parent have issues drugs and the like, employment etc. we had to take custody to provide for him a safe and emotionally stable environment. 4 years of his life was with his parents ... basically as vagabonds... the street life. So we have a lot of work to do and your suggestions from your programs has been a God-send. Reminding us that positive communications, rituals and structure make a real difference. Again...its work and sometimes a challenge because of the ways he was living his life... but we will win together. Thanks so much for all you've done for me in my life... Mike Husson, Fl

@justinsabatino7327

4 жыл бұрын

How has it been going?

thank you so much , I which I knew this information years ago before having my boys, I hope is not too late for us

loved this

Raising a confident child is a universal aspiration for parents. thank video so much

Thankyou

I love this man!

thank you

I will admit I was brought up by my parents and grandparents which I ended up with conflicting messages and upbringing, which I also spent years going through speech / physical therapy plus both of my parents (when we moved away from the grandparents) turned into workaholics although I was bought up to put the needs of others first even though it did dampen my childhood... It is HIGHLY important to show and tell your children you love them, encourage them, and show them by example how to live a good and healthy life.... It took me going on a family vacation as a youth driving out East to find out that my dad has a temper and is / was racist and after hearing that I vowed to be NOTHING like my father. Just because my parents had friends who 'tried" an MLM and they also tried their own business they had told me that I was not able to do it (this was in 2005 and I am still working on getting rid of that message in my mind).

@maryiumslittleworld

5 жыл бұрын

Oh my youll get through.... Keep it up

About to become a father for the first time in a few weeks. These points will be in the back of my head as my daughter grows up.

@MrsOZ-nj5ty

2 жыл бұрын

Stay patient and give love, hope it's going well for you.

Hi Brian..Will follow your wonderful inputs..in fact mostly do e Sept there the rules are bendy in my place,which irks me a bit😊otherwise !y daughter is fairly sorted.That said,this is a constant process .

I really needed this. Thank you.

@ribkawodajo5461

4 жыл бұрын

Is it possible to start again once it goes wrong, ????

I don't have children. But this video is useful for me too, because I understood that we have to care about self-esttem of other people.

@Rooted_In_Love

7 жыл бұрын

Wow! Yes!

Thank you wonderful tips for parents to raise confidence in child

My middle son isn't very confident in school and he's somewhat a perfectionist. He's very consciousness and cautious . He doesn't like to disappoint. My other two are extremely confident and outgoing. Right now, it's a struggle to get him to write independently. He only wants to write if his teacher is right there helping him every step of the way. Any advice? I want to help him, but I'm unsure how.

Thank u

Thanks for the very consice informative video I call them with lovely names and i never ever revile them I watch this video to know how to build their self confidence

I love it. It was good wake up call

Your video gives us so many new things so we can learn so many new tips and things I am willing to see your video you are as expert teacher...

Thanks! I have a 8 mth old and needed to hear this👏🏽

@DrZlessons

5 жыл бұрын

love4hair Congrats on beginning the journey. We train for jobs and races. Yet, parenting we leave to figure out as we go. I applaud you for gaining the tools early. All the best.

very useful God bless u

Thanks Sir, This video is so beneficial! Thought i will share with you what i do on a regular basis....I ask my 9 yr old girl to make a list of 5 things she did during the day which makes her feel good/ proud of herself. This way i have evidence to strengthen her self-confidence.

@paolaescobedo8056

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad

thanks a lot

thanks

Wise talk! My son is 7 years old, I’m a guilty parent who constantly yells at him for the smallest thing. Also I always tell him how great he is and that I love him no matter what, Reminding him that mistakes happened and that the yelling is about the mistake not the person . He has low self esteem , I praise him all the time but he constantly thinks I can do it, or I know I won’t be able to or I’m this or that. And it makes me feel so bad cuz I feel like I’m the cause due to too much yelling.

@jamesduff6937

3 жыл бұрын

Racha, my parenting style is not to yell alot, but more to educate. I find it a better investment to spend 10 minutes properly explaining to a kid how they went wrong so it makes sense to them. Explain it to them slowly. Imagine yourself at a new workplace where it's your first day on the job and you are making mistake after mistake. You wouldn't learn and grow if everyone was simply yelling at you. It would be far better of them to explain why a task is done a certain way so you can learn and grow.

I am very impressed by the video. We always try to encourage our son for new learning, but sometime criticize, which wont do any more. Thanks for this information.

@raehanamodest5564

6 жыл бұрын

3instrumentman too much criticize make your kid stressed out and depressed. I think parent should be balance not too criticizing yet not to soft.

@raehanamodest5564

6 жыл бұрын

3instrumentman too much criticize make your kid stressed out and depressed. I think parent should be balance not too criticizing yet not to soft.

@godswatching2863

6 жыл бұрын

Piyush Katariya I think every parent should meditate multiple times a day. even if it's only 5 or 10 minutes, and during this meditation think about your children what they're doing how you feel about it and how you can make them feel better about themselves with the things that they're doing or interest they have. if your child is doing something you're not sure about or don't know how to react. then don't say anything negative and take a few moments alone to think about the best way to communicate to your child positively.

@godswatching2863

6 жыл бұрын

Piyush Katariya the fact that you're watching videos like this. Makes me feel like you must be a good parent. Because the bad ones would never take the time to watch this video. instead they would be watching something for their own personal interest.

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3 жыл бұрын

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