3 Things to Consider When Someone Says, "You Shouldn't Judge!"
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This is a message I have heard repeatedly, lately. I asked the Lord not long ago for right responses to someone trying to use the ‘Don’t judge’ argument. When He answers, He answers!
@rickiecomeaux8287
3 жыл бұрын
Judge a tree by the fruit it bears. A bad tree yields bad fruit. God is the ultimate judge of eternal life or condemnation. Just be humble enough to ask forgiveness when you make bad judgements, but Jesus wants us to use our common sense.
@lisasullivan1469
3 жыл бұрын
“Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.”- John 7:24
Judge with grace and compassion and the TRUTH. Not with anger or hate.
@dyerseve07
3 жыл бұрын
Judge actions (with those things you have mentioned), not heart. That's God's job.
@dyerseve07
3 жыл бұрын
@BeauPierre Bondurant Correct, hate towards sin not the sinner.
@c.g.ryderii2405
3 жыл бұрын
"Be ye angry and sin not" it would be a sin if watching certain things take place, do not anger you. Yet if you react with anger and not love, you are sinning as well. Praise God we have a savior! Much love brothers and sisters, Jesus Christ is King
@1001011011010
3 жыл бұрын
@@c.g.ryderii2405 Our Lord helps us so that all things are motivated by real love, and this would include anger or sadness (may He helps us be so). But in general it would seem an angry temperament is dangerous and is best avoided.
@keithwilson6060
3 жыл бұрын
There’s nothing wrong with anger and hate. Got is angry and he hates. And he tells us to as well.
If we Love, we must Judge! God Bless Everyone!
@BrandonLewisD
3 жыл бұрын
@Seer Class Not verbatim but watch the video. It's in there.
Well said, Alisa! How many times have we all heard this?! This is perfect for the cultural moment we’re in. That’s my “judgment” anyway 🙂.
Someone once said, "When people say, 'Judge not, lest ye be judged', you should respond with, 'Twist not Scripture, lest ye be like Satan!'"
@Lenoh
3 жыл бұрын
Satan was an angel. To be compared to an angel is an honor. Thank you, sir.
@giavannam.french9285
3 жыл бұрын
@@Lenoh an angel of darkness doomed for punishment? That's a compliment?
@wishyouthebest9222
3 жыл бұрын
@@Lenoh that...again sounds like twisting scripture. You're not serious, right? Even non-believers know that satan is not just an angel
Bad judgment: Ha! Look at that idiot playing with a poisonous snake! I am so much smarter than he. Good judgment: Hey brother - that is a King Cobra! It can kill you! Please put it down.
@thesaintmustwalkalone708
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I always ask the person if I let my children play in a busy intersection in the middle of the road if they would judge me and save my children or just say "it's not my place to judge"... And walk away.
@polarisedelectrons
3 жыл бұрын
'I am so much smarter than he.' This is totally random of me to bring up, I know. But I do so appreciate the correct use of 'he' instead of 'him' in this sentence. It lifts my spirits (somewhat humourously speaking)!
It's not the most favorite verse, it's the only verse the world knows.
EXCELLENT! I’ve heard this verse misused so many times from people trying to justify their own sins.
@minimouse7890
3 жыл бұрын
And....justifying is in itself a form of judgment. Ie, judging your own actions as right in order to avoid any form of guilt. Feeling bad about our sin is a moral form of pain, telling us something is morally wrong in us, even as physical pain is our body’s way of telling us something is physically wrong. They are both necessary for life, one for physical life, the other for eternal life. To avoid guilt and moral pain is to continue in the way of death. So to point out someone’s moral state and bring them to a place of pain is exactly the same as a doctor pointing out the reason for physical pain, leading to healing and life. Doctors judge us all the time. And there is a difference between judgment and discernment. We would do well to look into that if we want to understand what is required of us as christians.
Yaaasssss good stuff!
@aggressivehandshakes8059
3 жыл бұрын
Naaahhh. Wrong word, she is calling discernment judgment. Only YHVH can judge and that authority He gave to Yeshua. "Forgive for I have forgiven you" - God
@richardrice1032
3 жыл бұрын
Greetings Melissa, AGREED!
@figbassist753
3 жыл бұрын
@@aggressivehandshakes8059 discernment is making a judgment call between right and wrong. Listen to her message for what it is saying not for what you want it to say.
@aggressivehandshakes8059
3 жыл бұрын
@@figbassist753 in this you are wrong. Judgment comes from the Lord, we discern based on the Lords standard. If you are the judge than you decide what is right or wrong, YHVH has already written in our hearts His law, we are to discern evil and separate from it. You can judge within the body of Christ but not the world. I did not disagree with her statements only stated that she is using the word judgment when the word discernment is more appropriate.
@pettifoggingpharisee
3 жыл бұрын
@@aggressivehandshakes8059 judge within the body of Christ but not the world? You have quite a bit to reconcile for the fact that there are judges on the bench of the US legal system who are devote Christians and Merriam-Webster would like a word with you. And this is to say nothing about the etymology of the english word.
I think people use that scripture as a “thought stopping tool” Its manipulative. It’s usually a sign that person is uncomfortable with another thought a perspective presented
@thesaintmustwalkalone708
3 жыл бұрын
It's also usually a sign that they don't read the Bible but just arguments they've heard others say that align with their already formed opinions
@TheWarriorLV
3 жыл бұрын
@@thesaintmustwalkalone708 yup. So we must read the Word as it’s the #1 go to for people to use against Christians.
Judgemental Wisdom in righteousness. Simple! Thank you AC, you're a gem!
Amen, sister. Real love is fierce and selfless and does not cower to feelings. Once we experience this love, we have no choice but to show it to others. And that is the Gospel, really.
@dingotomtom
3 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!
@lkae4
3 жыл бұрын
@UCwb-guKl8EHbpxmzUk96Upg For God so _____ the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.
I’ll keep this in store to paste and send to people on the weekly basis I see someone say “don’t judge”. Great video
I love the final comment, "the culture will not be there for you" but Jesus will. Thank you. I can't tell you how often I have been shut up or preempted by the "thou shalt not judge" argument (or expected argument). But I also understand the other side that this could very easy be used as a license to always keep my mouth open and ears closed when coming up to somebody I decide is in the wrong, which is obviously wrong.
Thank you for putting this video out there, Alisa! I am a "life-long" Christian and I've always struggled with this. The "judge not" campaign came up recently with one of my family members who is employed by a woke Methodist church and himself leaning more progressive these days, and I didn't feel Biblically equipped to have a conversation about it. I will use this well thought out, lovingly delivered explanation for why it is not only O.K. to judge our fellow Christians but the Christlike, loving, and necessary thing to do. P.S. I just finished your book and WOW. Thank you, thank you, thank you. You are a blessing and a light in our dark world!
Showed this to my 8th grade Bible class. Thank you!
Alisa, this is one of the best, witty, concise, cogent, sound and scriptural exposition of the meaning of “Don’t judge”! How many times we are heard “righteous” Christians uttered these words carelessly when abuse and wrong doings are brought up against church leaders. By their erroneous attitude and false teaching of “Don’t judge”, these Christians perpetuate the wrongs in the church just as they are the blind leading the blind.
But if someone is saying to you “don’t judge” aren’t they judging? lol.
@wengel_eth
3 жыл бұрын
exactly
@melindamercier6811
3 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly what she says at 4:20.
@susanmainville510
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I tell my sister that all the time.
@josephCain116
3 жыл бұрын
Yep!
@AnHebrewChild
3 жыл бұрын
No, they're quoting Jesus.
I am judging this to be true and good.😊
I just noticed these shorts videos, awesome, bam right to the point, love it. Thank you. God bless
“Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.”” John 7:24 NASB1995
Thank you, Alisa! The world will not be there for them....the world devours and steamrolls. This is a topic we need to equip ourselves to be ready with a response. As you said, first and foremost, do it in love!
Usually the don't judge me crowd is guilty of something and that's why they don't want you to judge them but they'll gladly judge you and I think twice about it. Another thing is if there is no judgment then there is no right or wrong and any situation
The "gift of discernment" in 1 Cor. 12:10 is literally the same word/root as 'judge' used by Jesus. So being able to judge properly is considered a spiritual gift from God.
Nailed it. It also says to rebuke and also to use sober judgement.
@benjaminofperrin
3 жыл бұрын
@Seer Class I never said that it did. It's clear that the way we treat Christians should be different to non-christians.
Just confronted one of my best friends about getting engaged to a girl who cheated on him and slept around and would get drunk behind his back. One of the hardest things I’ve done and I still feel a kind of guilt for it cause he feels attacked but I know I did the right thing. Calling people out is very uncomfortable but we must do it in love
@thesaintmustwalkalone708
3 жыл бұрын
He will wish he would have listened to you in just 5 short years
@0987__
3 жыл бұрын
@@thesaintmustwalkalone708 I know. Sad to see him walk into a situation he could easily avoid by dumping her and finding a more devoted woman but I suppose he will learn. Just praying for him in the mean time.
My father always said to me "A hard head makes a soft behind", he meant that when we do something wrong yet become stubborn in the face of loving rebuke we will suffer grave consequences.
Man, your testimony is powerful and the best example to prove your point. God bless U
It's out of context. A Christian should be called to judge with righteous judgement. To abstain from it is to be ignorant.
@markanthony3275
3 жыл бұрын
" Don't look around ...Der Kommissar's in town ..." Remember that ?
@SolidPain6624
3 жыл бұрын
@BeauPierre Bondurant we sin every single day.
@jonathandavid9720
3 жыл бұрын
Trouble is, many Christians have a tendency to judge Unrighteously. Its a huge problem related to the flesh. Best keep that trap shut until you are sure what you are talking about, instead of presumptuous gossip. The tongue is a fire, who can control it. Read James.
We must look out for the interest of others. This includes calling out their wrongs in love. Thank you Alisa.
Bless you Alisa! Shedding light on contemporary Christianity!
Hi miss, I'm Jade the new subscriber to your channel and it's nice to meet you, Alisa!
@richardrice1032
3 жыл бұрын
Greetings Jade! I viewed my first Alisa Childers video/podcast late last year. Welcome Aboard. I am still "catching up" on Alisa's earlier postings. In my "judgement", LOL, you have made the right choice by Subscribing. Peace be with you!
"For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged." It is vital to use the right standards to base our judgment. Ideally this should be God's Word for it is by God's Word we will be judged when we stand before Him.
Amen sister. Saying "don't judge" is not showing love at all. Thanks! You've explained this very well.
This was a much needed talk Alisa, especially with progressive Christians who believe that people shouldn’t feel judged when coming to church.
Thank you. This is very helpful. I have keep watching this over and over so it sinks in!
@jasonbryan9056
3 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊👋👋
Beautifully said. Thank you
Very refreshing and precise. Thank you
I really enjoyed listening to your message!
@richardrice1032
3 жыл бұрын
Ditto!
Thank you so much for making this video on this topic! You did a great job explaining and sharing the supporting scripture! I have never sat down to research it myself, sadly, so you making this video is very helpful!
Thank you, Alisa. Thank You Jesus!
Thank you for doing this video Alisa Christian's really need to hear this and other issues on things that are circulating in the world..
Thank you for doing this video! I can't believe how many arguments I get into with other Christians on this topic. This is like one of the first things the Progressive Christians were founded on in my opinion.
@pettifoggingpharisee
3 жыл бұрын
It's more of a human condition. If we're honest, nobody wants to admit when they are in the wrong and we certainly don't like it when somebody rightly points out an error we've made. The knee-jerk reaction is to shoot the messenger.
Thank you for sharing this! ❤️🙏
Thankyou, for judging the need to share this.
Word! Excellent! Love this!
The problem why you hear "You shouldn't judge" a lot, is because most don't know how to judge righteously or correctly.
@Stastylen
3 жыл бұрын
Can you please explain how to Judge correctly?
@cowboys4life956
3 жыл бұрын
@@Stastylen She did an amazing job giving us example on this video. Especially her testimony on how she had that eating disorder.
@Stastylen
3 жыл бұрын
@@cowboys4life956 Judging if someone has a eating disorder and trying to help them back to health seems to be a loving thing to do, Judging someone because they don't prescribe to same doctrines to you does not seem loving and can ultimately cause division. Do you believe a loving God's final judgment is an eternity of continuous torment for all that have committed finite sins and have not prescribed to a correct belief?
@Stastylen
3 жыл бұрын
@Seer Class Do think someone who believes you are born a sinner and deserve punishment is giving a diagnosis or a judgement?
@Stastylen
3 жыл бұрын
@Seer Class If I am understanding you correctly , It is not a Christian's job to treat a medical condition their job is to judge who the "arrogant busybodies" are in the church.
Amen! Extremely well said
To some people fruit inspection looks like judging.
Wonderfully stated!
Omg u answered my question praise God.
Great explanation. Thanks, Alisa. I once heard that the mind always judges, it can't NOT judge. It only depends on HOW we judge. And the Bible is a very good source of wisdom for that.
Wow. So profound and life changing. I'm going to share this and discuss with my wife and teenage kids. Thank you!
@richardrice1032
3 жыл бұрын
Teenage kids you say. Been there done that! My heart goes out to Anyone with children, grandchildren, or great grandchildren at this point in world history. 😎🙌👍👏 Peace be with you Brother!
Excellent!!! Discernment is properly judging what is and isn’t godly with guidance from the Holy Spirit in ourselves, first, and for those we love. To walk away from someone clearly in a pit of garbage isn’t loving at all. Reaching in to help pull them out is. But to claim holier-than-you status is being judgmental and the log in that eye alone causes others to retreat to their pit.
That is.wonderful advice...Thanks.
Great video and so informative and easy to understand.
Excellent episode!!
Beautifully spoken, Alisa.
Amen, thanks for this
This helped with writing an essay for Uni 😂. Thank you!!!
Great teaching!
So helpful! What also came to mind after listening is (a paraphrase of) something I read a while ago...we need to exhibit the type of judgement that weeps in private before it rebukes in public.
@britneywendel3305
3 жыл бұрын
Also, I feel like I need to always remind myself to follow the Matthian principle of approaching the individual first, then with one or two elders, etc. And that in giving “prayer requests” or talking about situations with others, it can be ideal to omit almost all details. Now I’m rambling, but I found this video very equipping, and it tied together a lot of recent thoughts.
I am stuck in a ED. I am slowly getting better. I have an amazing therapist now.
Exactly. And as an encouragement when a person you know regularly observes you dealing with your own sin rightly and fairly (confessing and repenting) then they will most likely respect you enough to listen to you (as opposed to be defensive) if you should find it necessary to gently and graciously point any of their sin.
Wow!!! Your testimony of your friend was awesome!!!!!
Alisa, you are spot on, dead on target. Well done. I have had several of these judgmental conversations. King David said, "4 Do not let my heart incline to any evil, to busy myself with wicked deeds in company with men who work iniquity, and let me not eat of their delicacies! 5 Let a righteous man strike me-- it is a kindness; let him rebuke me-- it is oil for my head; let my head not refuse it . . . . . (Psalm 141:4-5 ESV) All this directly implies that one side has judged, and David thinks it necessary that a good man would boldly confront and rebuke him.
I'm often bewildered and amused how those who are quick to unsheathe the phrase "don't judge" or "judge not" while maintaining the position of non-judgemental are able to somehow put on clothes or eat.
THis is so truth !
Great video thank you.
@jasonbryan9056
3 жыл бұрын
How are you doing 😊😊😊
Very well put.
You spoke that truth, Sista!👏🏾👏🏾 💜🙌🏾🙏🏽👆🏾✝️👑🙋🏾♀️
praise the Lord and God bless you
This so needs to be talked about
Absolutely great! 10 out of 10👍🏻
can't thank you enough for this video...regarding the eating disorder story- "faithful are the wounds of a friend" comes to mind...how can a friend really help you if they're not willing to evaluate where you really are and have the "audacity" to point out that the direction you're heading is a bad one?...regarding "judging" generally, the one statement that kills me is the recent motto, "Only "God" can judge me", which really means, "don't you ever tell i'm wrong about anything..."...the irony is that i usually hear this from people who won't even listen to God...
Well said!
THANK YOU. THIS IS THE ARGUMENT I GET EVERYTIME AND I GET SOCKED DOWN BY IT!!! Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu for helping me with the words!
@richardrice1032
3 жыл бұрын
✔👍 or as some might say "right on Sister!"
@jasonbryan9056
3 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊
"But he who is spiritual judges all things, yet he himself is rightly judged by no one 1 Corinthians 2:15
I can’t remember how many times I have shared this w ppl on social media. Explaining that we make judgments all day everyday. This is how we make decisions, stay safe, grow..but doing so not in a censorious or hypocritical way. It seems to be the one scripture ppl remember. Do ppl think we, as believers , walk around wide eyed like a Manson family member? What’s interesting, is that many Christians will also believe that they are not to judge. Sifting everything through the Word requires judgement.
Hard pill to swallow for a lot of people. You try to rebuke them on the spot and you’ll see aggression come out real fast, sadly. Especially in this day and age.
Perfectly said!
@jasonbryan9056
3 жыл бұрын
How are you doing 😊😊😊☺️
That was Great!
I usually say “are you judging me to be judgmental? Cuz I feel judged.” Then watch the gears in they’re head explode and go in for the KILL and annihilate them as I curb stomp their anti truth doctrine into dust! Yeah I’m still working on the gently restoring in love part. Maybe I struggle just a smidge in that department
Thank you :)
Alisa, Thank -You! Very Appropriate for Good Friday. Peace be with you, your Family and Friends, as well as the almost 7,000 folks, wherever they live, who have viewed this video as of 7:13 AM Eastern Daylight Time in the USA April 1, 2021 as I type. Let no one "Judge Foolishly" on "April Fools Day", or any other day.
We should judge but with right judgment.
Some who say "Don't Judge" don't want to be told they are doing wrong, because they enjoy it so much. But boy, if you make a mistake, they hammer you.
Thank you😘❤️
@jasonbryan9056
3 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊👋👋
We’ll said🙏🏻
Awesome video!
Love in truth or is it truth in love and I love this it’s real true truth thanks for sharing the Gospel truth in love
You have to have criteria for your decision making process. But the point is to tentatively show grace in evaluating people.
Looking good Alisa; keep it up.
We must judge and we do all the time. That we musent do is to punishing eachother, we must forgive eachother
Well said miss Alisa! :)
I wish Alisa could follow me around and articulate my thoughts for me. She often says what I’m thinking but she says it so much better than I do!
@richardrice1032
3 жыл бұрын
Greetings PJ. Agreed! I wonder how many other folks, today, and in the future, have, or will be thinking the same you. Peace be with you.
The point of that verse is to say that you have so much to perfect in yourself that you never will, have so much to work out in yourself, that you have no time leftover to then critique someone else's life/ways. The second point about judging an escaped convict at your door is not judging, it's using common sense and avoiding an obvious danger. The way you phrased it almost sounds like it is acceptable to judge people's appearances however, which is not okay. The last point is more on point, I think God calls us to counsel at times, which is still different than surface-level judgment, but instead a deep, private intervention when and only when it is called for by God. Love your videos Alisa, keep up the good work!
Love this explanation! Just love it! New follower of hers found her through Melissa D and Doreen 😊 enjoy her vlogs! 💖💖💖💖 I hope that Alisa's book would be on mp3 audio CD 😕
@richardrice1032
3 жыл бұрын
Greetings Kim, welcome aboard! I'm also a relatively "new Subscriber" and must be getting old! Only just this morning did I notice where folks where folks were finding all those Emoji's🤣 Right Click, Top of the List! In my "Judgement", LOL, you can't go wrong with Alisa, Doreen, or Melissa D.👌✔😎. Peace be with you!
God bless....
Buen video. Todo correcto y bíblico.