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3 Things I've Learnt From My 10 Year Relationship

► 3 Things I've Learnt From My 10 Year Relationship
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  • @bethprosser3117
    @bethprosser3117 Жыл бұрын

    Alfie touching wood when Zoe says she doesn’t know what it’s like to grow apart from someone is adorable ❤

  • @SamBechara_
    @SamBechara_ Жыл бұрын

    Awww I've known you guys since I was a teenager now I'm 25 and wow! Can't believe how fast time flies 😱

  • @smritisachan3377
    @smritisachan3377 Жыл бұрын

    I have been watching you guys since the beginning of your relationship.. really happy to see how far you have come🥹 Love from India♥️🇮🇳

  • @aditipatil869

    @aditipatil869

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg same!!!

  • @laykaisthebest8983
    @laykaisthebest8983 Жыл бұрын

    I’m a third-year psychology student, and my marriage and family psychology professor taught us about all of these tips, so you guys are definitely doing something right!😊

  • @kenziw
    @kenziw Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here, honestly, can’t believe you and Zoe have feel together for 10 years I can’t tell if it feels like a lifetime or 5 years 😂 also Ottie is so big like I swear she gets bigger every vlog 💜

  • @bimaloxley
    @bimaloxley Жыл бұрын

    As a relationship therapist I love the first point, the bigger picture of thinking as a team. And I know you probably don't mean this given both your second points, but the flip side to this is codependency, constantly thinking as a team without any acknowledgement for individually could equally cause problems. ♡ love these!

  • @katlove71
    @katlove71 Жыл бұрын

    Still here! Crazy to think you two have been together for 10 years! I wasn’t even a teenager when I started watching you and now am almost 24y having been with my boyfriend for almost 5years. Insane how fast time has flown by! Love you two, love you calm happy energy. Really enjoy watching your evolving content!

  • @jessieflynn5364
    @jessieflynn5364 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been following yours and Zoe’s journey since the first video when she did your makeup, it’s so incredible how far you both have came and how much you have achieved.. I am so happy for you both and wish your the best ❤

  • @lovelouisxoxo4410
    @lovelouisxoxo4410 Жыл бұрын

    One thing I’d like to add about making relationships work long term, you have to each work on yourselves. I know you and Zoe have talked about speaking to a therapist, I think everyone could benefit from that, and especially couples. Learning to communicate is so important!

  • @maddybpotter
    @maddybpotter Жыл бұрын

    Still watching this and I have to say love how you described thinking like a team. Also, being with someone that has similar values helps a lot. You two are great and thank you for posting this!

  • @anjapost494
    @anjapost494 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! It's so nice to see what a beautiful, honest and respectful relationship you have and how lovely you both are as parents. Can't get enough from cute little Ottie saying "Hi ya" to everyone and everything and sniffing around!🥰🥰🥰 She reminds me so much of my doughter when she was this age. Thank you and Zoe for taking us with you.

  • @emileecarreker2994
    @emileecarreker2994 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! I am so proud of you and Zoe. What a beautiful, respectful relationship you've fostered!

  • @jacqulinetheis
    @jacqulinetheis Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here and though I haven’t been here from the beginning, I am loving who you and Zoe are together and as individuals. Keep inspiring, keep being wise beyond your years and keep sharing the love with us! God bless y’all! ♥️

  • @TashaSiera
    @TashaSiera Жыл бұрын

    I have been here since practically the beginning of your guises relationship, and then you guys have taught me a lot about what it is to be in a healthy relationship and how are you should never settle. You guys have also really pushed me to not only better. The relationships I have with people in my life but to also better myself. It has definitely made me realise what I want in my future relationships just purely from watching your guises videos over the last 10 years, and I hope to 1 day to have a love and relationship like you to have and have a beautiful family as well.

  • @kareneleanoractive
    @kareneleanoractive Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here 🫶 I appreciate your videos so much, look forward to whenever you get a chance to create and upload them. Unfortunately I haven’t been able to make a Future Self order yet, BUT you always inspire me to strive towards becoming the best version of myself and be all that I can be! I’m currently embarking on a new career as a life coach and hearing you’ve been working on a new company, has really reassured me putting in every effort to create my vision will be worth it ✨

  • @highandfly101
    @highandfly101 Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here ❤️ It’s crazy to think so much time has passed! I didn’t find you two on KZread from the start but more or less around 7 yrs ago! I’ve loved being brought along for your journey ❤ Happy 10 years and here’s to forever more!

  • @alessandramaio8738
    @alessandramaio8738 Жыл бұрын

    Still here! 🙌🏻 loved the relationship advice, you and Zoe have such a genuine love for each other, ottie is so very lucky to have you two as parents

  • @susanmorgan9074
    @susanmorgan9074 Жыл бұрын

    Still watching 😊 Started watching around 2015 during the daily vlogging days. I grew up with you during secondary school and as KZread was my “escape” from life (still is) you were one of the main people who I watched constantly that got me through school and now beyond. I loved travelling to London, Birmingham and Liverpool to meet you for your book signing, Hello World and PB X Sugg Life pop up shop. It broke my heart when you stopped daily vlogging/ uploading regularly but since your comeback it just feels like old times but more matured which feels refreshing. It’s nice to have OG’s like you, Zoe, Mark and Joe who are making it feel like the KZread most of us have grown up with and loved. This is how much you influenced me that my yearbook quote was “Always take the stairs” which I admit I never stuck too 😂 Thank you for always reminding me and everyone to “Do more of what makes you happy” 😊❤️

  • @juanmacrossover98
    @juanmacrossover98 Жыл бұрын

    It's a weird but nice feeling watching this videos. I, more or less, been following you for those same 10 years, and I makes me a bit nostalgic seeing you grow and become parents also makes me think on my own growth. Hope that maybe I'll be watching your 20 years together video.

  • @dawncampbell9385
    @dawncampbell9385 Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here Proud of you and Zoe 10 years, hard work And fun!

  • @nicolemalacca
    @nicolemalacca Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! Sooo nice to see you grow with Zoe, Nala, and now Baby Ottie! More power to you and your lovely family. Stay safe and healthy always! ❤

  • @richellereacts
    @richellereacts Жыл бұрын

    I'm stil here! I've been following you two since 2016, same as Jess and Gabriel. All of you are parents now and it's amazing to watch! Have a wonderful Sunday night and an awesome start of a new week! :)

  • @eleanorrose5499
    @eleanorrose5499 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! Thank you for sharing your advice at the beginning, I've enjoyed watching your videos over the past 11+ years and then seeing you grow as a couple. Ottie is so beautiful and a credit to both of you!

  • @lovelouisxoxo4410
    @lovelouisxoxo4410 Жыл бұрын

    Ottie looks so much like Amanda at times, so cute!! 🥰 Been watching your channel for years, I’ve loved seeing you grow into the person you are now. So inspiring!

  • @sameliterally
    @sameliterally Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! idk why Alfie, but this vlog really brought me back, really made me realize that I've essentially grown up with you! You have such an amazing family, keep up the good work

  • @asmita4062
    @asmita4062 Жыл бұрын

    Still here!I have watched you for so many years now and you guys are legit relationship goals. I have a 6 yr long relationship myself and I am pretty sure you guys have influenced me a lot. I wish we had more content creators like you both❤

  • @nancyoleksy
    @nancyoleksy Жыл бұрын

    I can't believe it has been 10 years for you two. I remember when you first got together. Ottie seems like such a smart little girl. She is growing like a weed.

  • @michellel.4999
    @michellel.4999 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here :) I can't believe, it's been 10 years of your relationship already! I started watching your and Zoe's videos in 2014 and it's so nice to see that you're such a great team ❤

  • @kailynwhipple5094
    @kailynwhipple5094 Жыл бұрын

    Watching you and Zoe grow for the past 10 years has been so influential in my life in the best ways possible ! Thank you and congratulations!!

  • @caitlynwilliams4350
    @caitlynwilliams4350 Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here! 9 years later! Wow! I can’t even explain how much you two mean to me and how much you guys have helped me through so many times! Love you guys! ❤

  • @EliseBuch
    @EliseBuch Жыл бұрын

    Loved the beginning of this video. 🥰 The relationship lessons were great, and it was lovely to see Zoe taking part.

  • @kmoots8447
    @kmoots8447 Жыл бұрын

    I love your videos, and I feel like you and Zoe have been in the background of my life for the last 10+ years! I'm still here and watching :)

  • @rahafal-hilli7869
    @rahafal-hilli7869 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here, loved the vlog. Love watching your videos and having them in the background while I eat or do some other stuff ❤

  • @kouzom6646
    @kouzom6646 Жыл бұрын

    Still here! We're the same age and I love seeing you both grow both as individuals and as a couple :) you deserve all the happiness

  • @bekswade
    @bekswade Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here! Been here a long time now. Started watching you Zoe and Joe all a long time ago with my daughter and she’s grown and moved out now but I’m still watching. Feels kinda like you all are my too. I love the collaboration on Future Self and dealing with chronic pain in a daily basis I’m always wearing something cozy and comfortable. If I could afford it I would get the the crew, joggers, and socks in the Burro just because I have shortie lamb lined boots that would match perfectly. I still love window shopping and all the colors are beautifully you both did an awesome job!

  • @hanenboujnah6666
    @hanenboujnah6666 Жыл бұрын

    Im still here! Can't wait for the announcement🎉 gutted that the tote bag has already sold out on the new collab range! Can't believe it's been 10 years and I've watched them all, currently expecting myself and watching you guys makes me sooo excited❤️

  • @jaclynstorey2420
    @jaclynstorey2420 Жыл бұрын

    These vlogs make my day! And they have done for 10 years now! Always watching til the end 🙌🏼

  • @teresa7804
    @teresa7804 Жыл бұрын

    Im still here.I feel like I've watched both of you grow so much from the beginning of your relationship its beautiful to see.

  • @sara2001maricevic
    @sara2001maricevic Жыл бұрын

    Still here 🙋🏼‍♀️ Loved the vlog, as always. I don't know what it is about you and Zoe but I just love your vibe. I honestly can't be bothered to watch vlogs but you and Zoe just hit different. Her vlogs are so cozy and comfy while yours are relaxing but at the same time very motivational which I love because they motivate me to get up and get shit done.

  • @isabellaronjabenediktsdott8595
    @isabellaronjabenediktsdott8595 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! Your videos bring me so much comfort but at the same time motivates me to go out there and seize the day.

  • @chloec4313
    @chloec4313 Жыл бұрын

    Still here ! Been watching you for over 10 years which is crazy ! Love Your content and Your relationship with zoe and now ottie ! Always a pleasure to watch Your videos ! Love from France !

  • @mayatinoco835
    @mayatinoco835 Жыл бұрын

    Its so good to see you guys so happy and doing so well I can only wish you guys more happiness and blessings 😊❤

  • @ylkizzy9288
    @ylkizzy9288 Жыл бұрын

    Damn it’s been awhile this was my best childhood KZreadr and it’s crazy how much u have grown now 3 mill subs already I remember being here when u was at like 300k and u have a child now I’m glad ur still going strong bro 💕

  • @johannasatermoenroth4222
    @johannasatermoenroth4222 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! I have been following you and Zoe since forever, and I love your videos. Me and my husband have been together for 11 (soon 12) years and I agree on everything that you guys said in the beginning.

  • @ashleynicole325
    @ashleynicole325 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this. ❤ I love that you two are so close. Idk if you have ever done a chat with poppy, but I’m curious about any tips on helping your kids be close when they grow up. As a mom, I would love this for my children too.

  • @annanyagopakumar7335
    @annanyagopakumar7335 Жыл бұрын

    Firstly, congratulations 🎉 on your 10th year anniversary. I have been following both of you since the beginning of you relationship. Frankly I knew you two would last long because thats the vibe I get from you guys (just felt it). Second, I cant not agree more about what you both said about being in a relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now and we literally say the same as you did whenever someone asks for advice. I also want to add that a relationship is never 50-50, its 100-100. Only when two people give their 100% individually can they make it work.

  • @TSewell67
    @TSewell67 Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here. Love your videos. They are relaxing and make me happy following your beautiful family. Good luck with the collection, it looks great. Tx❤️

  • @armiemaydiloy1548
    @armiemaydiloy1548 Жыл бұрын

    still here!!! many more decades for you and Zoe :) all the best to you and your gorgeous family!

  • @sph_dng
    @sph_dng Жыл бұрын

    still here, and still after more than 10 years, I witnessed the period before and when you got together w/ Zoe never commented but what you guys have is really lovely, cherish one another

  • @scarlettlillyman5154
    @scarlettlillyman5154 Жыл бұрын

    Love watching you guys! Have done for years now. Such an inspirational couple to look up to xx

  • @JessicaxP95
    @JessicaxP95 Жыл бұрын

    I'm in a 8 year relationship and I'd say the same. You have to work together, otherwise it just falls apart. And like zoe said, enjoy your lives together. Also I'm still here 💕

  • @alexbrosnan5474
    @alexbrosnan5474 Жыл бұрын

    been watching for 10 years! always looked up to you guys and now we know what makes it work!

  • @brookewilliams4541
    @brookewilliams4541 Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here! loving the long family vlogs, so cosy and comforting to watch ❤️❤️

  • @abilindsay5918
    @abilindsay5918 Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here. I have watched every single one of your videos for the past 10/11 years. Still to this day I’ll make time to watch them

  • @dayswiththegrays8134
    @dayswiththegrays8134 Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here! Love watching you videos as always. Your long term relationship tips are great and I 100% agree (my husband and I have been married for 6 years but together for 15) x

  • @amandalyntweets
    @amandalyntweets Жыл бұрын

    i’ve been with you all these last 10 years! these video always feel like catching up with dear friends. thank you both for always sharing! ❤

  • @marineldasalla1200
    @marineldasalla1200 Жыл бұрын

    still here! I remember watching you guys from 2012, and here we are 10 years later! much love to both of you and ottie

  • @annikariley595
    @annikariley595 Жыл бұрын

    Still here. Love your and Zoe’s relationship!!!! Appreciate you both so much ❤

  • @michelleperry9965
    @michelleperry9965 Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here… I do like watching and following both of your lives, you both are so lovely with little Ottie and Nala 🙏🤗

  • @dittelintrup98
    @dittelintrup98 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! Gosh, it's such an incredible way to chill, just watching your vlogs!

  • @lucyallen5960
    @lucyallen5960 Жыл бұрын

    Soon as I got the notification I clicked on it! I love your vlogs Alfie and Ottie is so adorable bless her ♥️

  • @kimhuff8798
    @kimhuff8798 Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here! I always watch the entire video. Been watching your vlogs ( and Zoe’s) since 2012.💖

  • @janicelouise2503
    @janicelouise2503 Жыл бұрын

    Still here. Love all the family content. Such a beautiful family❤

  • @RavenStorm1031
    @RavenStorm1031 Жыл бұрын

    I like these kind of conversations Alfie and all points are spot on!

  • @calieae
    @calieae Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here, so happy for you guys, this video made me realize I’ve been following both of you for more than a decade, it seems sooo unrealistic ! I’m so sad everything I wanted to buy is already out of stock… I wanted the lila jumper sooo bad and a tiny one for my one-year-old niece… and the tote bag seems perfect and so useful ! Hope there will be a restock soon, kisses from France !

  • @katesamuels4981
    @katesamuels4981 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here, I always enjoy watching until the end! :D Your videos being longer always make me the happiest

  • @sinah9948
    @sinah9948 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! Loooove long videos and just watching you Zoe and Ottie living your best life!

  • @AWchaosMA
    @AWchaosMA Жыл бұрын

    So crazy, 10 years and I follow you ever since. I was sooo in love with the lavender Sweatshirt but it is already sold out. I could cry 😭😭😭 Greetings from Germany 💜

  • @tiona987
    @tiona987 Жыл бұрын

    It’s so interesting watching this. I’ve been watching you guys for over 10 years now. I’m British born but immigrated to NZ young. I met my current boyfriend while living in America for a year and I am now living in England and we are long distance. Life is a movie I swear 😂

  • @carinaseliger7919
    @carinaseliger7919 Жыл бұрын

    :”We would be disgusting together.” 😂😂😂 I still remember that valentines Video they did together. You too?

  • @helenenguyen0
    @helenenguyen0 Жыл бұрын

    still here!

  • @fancywords7759
    @fancywords7759 Жыл бұрын

    I come out of a shitty relationship and have now found the love of my life. It sounds extremely cliche but I just know that he's the best person for me because we communicate. Communication is KEY. And I always thought "yeah sure" but it is. If there is an argument we are both like "Okay let's sit down, what is the actual problem here?" and then come out of it even better then before. Talk. Talk please.

  • @Pissiq2zburlliT
    @Pissiq2zburlliT Жыл бұрын

    I am still here! ✨ I am so enjoying this new journey of yours 🥰 keep it up! 🤗

  • @Mia-ti6ch
    @Mia-ti6ch Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here. So happy seeing you, Zoe and Ottie so happy :)

  • @sonjabolte1481
    @sonjabolte1481 Жыл бұрын

    I loved this vlog 🥰🥰 thank you for sharing with us! Ps. I am so bummed I missed out on the collection! I was hoping for a lime green 3xl hoodie! I’ll definitely be on top of it next time you guys release something

  • @rebeccaholmes4124
    @rebeccaholmes4124 Жыл бұрын

    Still here! Can’t believe it’s been 10 years, one of my favourite couples ❤️

  • @steff6682
    @steff6682 Жыл бұрын

    I have been with my partner 12 years, now married. My top tips are never go to sleep on an argument, always go to sleep on a fresh slate and kiss each other night. Always make time to spend together even if it’s just eating 1 meal together or playing a board game together. Sitting together on your phones isn’t quality time. And honestly another thing I would say is key is make it your goal to make your partner smile and laugh every day. Laughter really is the best medicine 😊

  • @mitchdungey6167
    @mitchdungey6167 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! Absolute love to hear all the key points to a healthy relationship my boyfriend and I have been going through a rough patch but continue to drive towards a perfect relationship like yours with Zoe. I must say a peleton is the absolute dream, been looking to lose weight for a long while are they worth the money as it's a push but if it's good I'd love to grab one.

  • @jesusgymasmrlover
    @jesusgymasmrlover Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here😁absolutely loving yours and Zoe's vlogs💗 super sweet, lovely content!

  • @Ayye_tayataya
    @Ayye_tayataya Жыл бұрын

    I've been watching you since I was 12 now I'm 19 and it feels like I've grown up with you and Zoes :) seeing you two grow from a screen is so crazy

  • @kylieoneil2494
    @kylieoneil2494 Жыл бұрын

    Im still here, love the videos my favorite things to watch on a Sunday getting ready for the week. Love you guys

  • @jwtwfv
    @jwtwfv Жыл бұрын

    Some of my favorite memories with my dad were us going to the park, just the two of us. I love seeing you with Ottie

  • @jwtwfv

    @jwtwfv

    Жыл бұрын

    of course I'm still here

  • @pennypink-dw6vi
    @pennypink-dw6vi Жыл бұрын

    Love that the tote has a zip never seen that and definitely so handy ❤ happy ten year anniversary and that bench thing is so cool 😎 I think its coffee ☕️ which can't wait #still watching

  • @levelupizzy4474
    @levelupizzy4474 Жыл бұрын

    Still here! Never skip a video and never not watch it till the end✨ Love you guys so much,have been following your and Zoe’s journey for so many years, it honestly feels like I’m watching my two old friends! Absolutely adore Ottie and love seeing her grow🥹🐣 I wish you guys to stay happy and well and create many many more memories together~ You are amazing and kind people that I’ve always looked up to❤️ Lots of love from Ukraine! 🇺🇦

  • @peytonmyers6045
    @peytonmyers6045 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! love seeing how far you and zoe have come :,)

  • @martahetman9244
    @martahetman9244 Жыл бұрын

    Im still here and loving it. Thank you for this amazing vlog. Love you guys!

  • @Celinespanol
    @Celinespanol Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here! Omg love the chair for Ottie! She looked so adorable ❤❤❤

  • @alishaoffland7167
    @alishaoffland7167 Жыл бұрын

    Ive always loved watching you and Zoe together such an amazing couple love watching you guys videos

  • @meredithburgess8037
    @meredithburgess8037 Жыл бұрын

    I am still here. I have been loving your videos for about five years. Thank you.

  • @LauraCristinax
    @LauraCristinax Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here! Absolutely love watching your vlogs! Doing a bit of a catch up today and really enjoyed this one!

  • @ayalashoshani986
    @ayalashoshani986 Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here, and so happy to be. love you from Israel and wishing you and Zoe the best! 💗😘

  • @linzertube
    @linzertube Жыл бұрын

    Still here. Most of the Future Self/Zoella clothing in larger sizes are sold out, sadly. But, happy for you guys! It’s a beautiful line.

  • @emmagraham8877
    @emmagraham8877 Жыл бұрын

    I’m still here 💖 love these long vlogs, keep smashing it Alfie 🤘🏼

  • @raynabelle9397
    @raynabelle9397 Жыл бұрын

    Still here. Always enjoy the blogs. Gives Sunday vibes. Was good

  • @emmawoolley93
    @emmawoolley93 Жыл бұрын

    Money struggles are such a massive thing for us and it's stops us doing the date nights and the seperate things as we have children and I always put them first so we're still working things out as we go along in January we will be 14 years together can't imagine him not being in my life x

  • @anniefraone6674
    @anniefraone6674 Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here! Love the chilled vibe of your vlogs!🫶

  • @jennykehn4682
    @jennykehn4682 Жыл бұрын

    I am still here and loving the longer vlogs, especially with cute little Ottie. 🥰

  • @mikayla9146
    @mikayla9146 Жыл бұрын

    Congrats on 10 years! The opening shots are gorgeous.

  • @julieabrassart
    @julieabrassart Жыл бұрын

    I'm still here and I really enjoyed the vlog! ❤️ Congrats on your collection!

  • @abbieclarkie
    @abbieclarkie Жыл бұрын

    I’ve never related to anything more than you racing to catch Ottie from the dog bowl! That’s my 10 month old daughter every day! And Zoe singing Paddington that songs in my head alllll the time 😩🤣 x